#terfisms

[bi-kisses]

Terfs be like: if you don't care that YOUR VAGINA is BONE DRY instead of SOPPING WET then you're SICK IN THE FUCKING HEAD!!!!!!

[gannon823]

[son---gooku]

we should normalize bullying terfs to death

[ferfy74]

To all the radical feminist's that are afraid to express their filthy beliefs: Good. You should be.

You should be so scared to express your nasty fetish that it triggers a full on panic attack. The second you think, "I want that transgender woman to be a man" or "I want that transgender man to be a woman" you should feel so ashamed and so terrified that someone might figure out what you're thinking you should start hyperventilating and puking your guts out. You should be too scared to tell anyone whats wrong or why you're crying. :)

[gerardpilled]

soooo much of the modern conception of gender is based around products and consumerism that people can’t even identify actual misogyny anymore. People reply to posts “It’s sexist to hate on something so many women enjoy” and that something would be a Stanley cup

[unforth]

Y'all have got to stop virulently hating men. Like, I'm sorry, I fucking hate the patriarchy too, but the patriarchy isn't just men and saying it is just exculpates complicit women. I am the mother of a young boy, and I look at this precious, empathetic 8 year old boy I'm raising and I don't know where online is safe for him. Places like this will say he's evil just for his gender, and other places will say "we'll be your friend if you hate with us," and still others will radicalize him in other ways. Where is he supposed to go? Why are we saying the radicalization is the fault of the kids just trying to find a place to hang?

Like this is seriously getting urgent. You have got to fucking stop conflating the patriarchy and men. 53% percent of white women voted for Trump. Men aren't the problem. White supremacy and Christian patriarchal structures are two examples of patriarchy-reinforcing structures that aren't solely couched in maleness. Men aren't the problem, and pretending they are drives more men into more welcoming extremist spaces and also ignores all the parts of this that are forwarded by people who aren't men.

What I see happening all over is scared, depressed, lonely people looking for someone they're allowed to hate automatically, unquestioningly - someone they're allowed to place all the blame on. Fascism says people of color, non-Christian people, queer people, etc., are the ones they're allowed to hate.

And way too many of yall answer that no, it's leftist to hate men instead. You are doing *the exact same thing they are.*

Fucking knock it off.

The answer is we're not supposed to hate anyone automatically based on their immutable personal characteristics. Hate the specific people who've hurt you. Hate the self-reinforcing systems that let them get away with hurting you. Hate the strangers who prop up those systems. Hate the fascists. Hell knows I hate Donald Trump, but it's not because he's a man, it's because he's a piece of shit.

Hate the pieces of shit, not the gender.

But don't hate men just because they're men. That's unhelpful, stupid, insane, and entirely counterproductive. Fucking. Stop.

[aalexan]

Of course you feel disconnected from your gender it’s quite literally a made up set of rules based on stereotypes

[bi-kisses]

Oh my god I was freeing up storage on my phone by deleting old images and I rediscovered a screenshot I've been referencing for ages but couldn't actually source....

Like I didn't even remember just how bad this whole thing was. I remembered the bit about ass hair looking "not feminine" (?????????????) but hooooly fuck. Broad shoulders? Flat chests? Body hair????

It's ridiculous how this was a real post circulating in terf circles unironically. Absolute mask off moment. Cis girlies, provide your "TIM traits" count in the notes, I'm at 5 👍

[elfie-baggins]

This is going to stop trans rights, and the forward momentum of queer equality, by several decades.

(update: new article link)

[seriouscat83]

[fem-scum]

Only a deeply misogynist society would enshrine the ideals that womanhood can solely be defined by a feeling in a man’s head, but cannot be solely defined by women’s biology, our lived realities (and oppressions) faced by being female sexed.

[xxxterfunsafexxx]

[evilgothmisandrist]

based take

[wiishopmenuspammer]

[bi-kisses]

I think the biggest issue in trying to treat being trans as an ideology is that trans people are so very very different from one another. You will find trans women who identify as gay dudes, even if they go through surgeries and present as female day to day. There are entire communities dedicated to "HSTS" people. There's no one belief, let alone a system of beliefs, that all trans people subscribe to. It literally cannot be an ideology anymore than my being bisexual is an ideology and I cannot believe this is up for debate at fucking all

[lorynna]

What happened to "clothes don't have a gender" and why do you need to project all of this bullshit onto your infant baby? Suddenly pink equals girl and blue equals boy again and you call yourself progressive.