#sw drama for ts

[hughgrants]

at this point it almost feels like joe alwyn was the one kept locked away for 6 years because the man couldn't fill up his car or get a haircut without getting stalked. the photos coming out now are at events where he has an opportunity to know it's coming, select his clothing and styling, wear a pin representing a cause that's important to him. he has control of his appearances now instead of gritting his teeth during pap walks for backgrid.

we know how ts feels when she feels the narrative is being pulled out of her control ("gaslit by an entire system"). a sense of control over one's own life seems essential for sanity and i don't think it's fair for people to gloss over the part where she agreed to the level of privacy he needed and publicly endorsed it during some of her media statements made during the relationship (which i applaud for being unusually restrained and mature at the time). extreme extroverts and extreme introverts can try to make it work but neither is wrong if it doesn't work (if the breakdown is specifically about that difference between them) and it's kinda crappy to couch it in terms of "being locked away" now. especially since some of the locking away was due to a global pandemic.

joe alwyn wasn't on my radar for most of the 6 years except 1) i felt her music entered a new era of relationship contentment and grown up sensuality that reflected late 20s/early 30s womanhood and then transitioned into a more literary set of albums (folkmore) that had a broader focus thematically and 2) i heard little about him and there was effectively zero romantic drama for 5 full years. what a break for her (and us!).

now i'm more impressed by him than ever. he's quiet in the wake of it all, focuses on his industry commitments and the work he's doing, and absolutely glows with newfound relaxed joy. i absolutely do not think women shouldn't be entitled to have strong, deep emotions and write about those experiences. her work is perhaps the strongest ever in terms of conveying a feminine quixotic, idealized romantic viewpoint and then the flipside of idealizing (it's giving BPD!!!) which is devaluation/disillusionment/disenchantment, resentment, feelings of being deceived or let down ("maybe this thing was a masterpiece 'til you tore it all up" being the early and best example).

the way joe has handled this, though, has made his status in my mind go from "just some guy" to an example of stability and fortitude that interests me. I personally believe that not publicly suffering is not necessarily a sign of callous lack of empathy - sometimes it means maturity and perspective. sw*fties harassing her exes want/ed to see a public mea culpa/punishment/expression of suffering that they feel equals their idols' - it's giving fatal attraction from those fans. maybe we don't need our past partners to suffer. maybe processing feelings involves personal reflection and doesn't require another party.

i'll leave off with this to support idealization/devaluation (the classic bpd trend):

Devils roll the dice, angels roll their eyes

'Cause I can't help it if you look like an angel

Say you're sorry, that face of an angel

And I damn sure would've never danced with the devil

Dear reader, when you aim at the devil

He looks up, grinning like a devil

[hussyknee]

Hi, hello! What do you know about Colleen Hoover? Seeing a lot but not getting a lot about her. Are her books harmfull or is it just dark fiction, does she put trigger warnings or not?? Genuinely just curious what you happen to know, if you're up to sharing.

Colleen Ballinger the YouTube star not Colleen Hoover the author! Colleen Ballinger is a musician who used to produce "satirical" music videos under the name Miranda Sings (apparently, I've never heard of this woman before this week), and has been accused of grooming her underage fans and a fuckload of inappropriate behaviour with minors (cw: child sexual predation).

She responded to the allegations by, uh, playing a passaggro non-apology song on a ukulele*. The internet reacted predictably, which is how people like me, who haven't been following anything on YouTube in years, got to know about any of this.

(Someone made a Tumblr post saying T*ylor Sw*ft's music all sound like the sad ukulele song to them, but some people thought OP was comparing TS to a groomer so that created some wank on here too.)

The scandal also brought to light some horrifically racist videos of Ballinger's (there's also one where she seems to be doing blackface but it's currently in dispute. Fwiw I think it's blackface). What really sticks in my teeth is that one of the most popular characters she played in her videos was a caricature of an intellectually disabled person based on her own cousin?? Those weren't buried unlike the racist videos, but didn't seem to have merited any backlash until now??

I just did a twitter search to link some of them and the results are somehow even worse today. Also there's one of her confessing to killing her dog which is triggering as all fuck. So, uh I'm not linking anything but be careful if you look this shit up yourself. I know most of us were pretty gross and ignorant in 2014 ourselves but this is BEYOND.

Frankly, I'm only following this vaguely because I'm a pathological rubber-necker and weak for internet drama. 😂 But the overt nature of the racism and ableism, and the fact that accusations of mistreatment and exploitation by other underage fans and Black and Asian employees had all been dismissed for years until now, while not surprising, is still pissing me off.

P.S: Anyone armchair diagnosing Ballinger with narcissistic personality disorder or BPD or whatever is an ableist stigmatizing neurodivergent conditions. Just make up a neurodivergent character for laughs like she does and be done with it. Thanks.

*I've linked to a tweet that has her "apology" video embedded, instead of to the YT video itself. Please don't give these people's pages themselves more traffic.

[lady-oyanka]

Sorry to have to vent like this on here

But I’m two steps away from

From going on a killing rampage. So to prevent myself from catching a case; I must vent. Yes I know venting publicly is considered NUTS but I have been keeping this shit bottled up inside since April of 2022. I have had a lot going on and I have been just doing the Capricorn thing and keeping shit to myself. But I just can’t stay silent anymore.

In this very PC and BS world now when one defends themselves all of a sudden you are a Drama Queen or a Bully.

Yeah well in my book someone that doesn’t defend themselves is a fucking pendejo

I for one like to be nice to everyone and helpful but when someone you have helped and been nothing but kind and nice to, turns around and starts talking shit about you. It then brings out the Evil side of me that mom (may she rest in peace) used to try to beat out of me.

I personally don’t have anything to hide or am I ashamed of anything I have done in my life. Life is Life things happen for a reason, but one must keep Living.

But if you going to spread lies/false information Let’s start with some “FACTS” so think, before you try to come for me.

This goes for one Yolanda E (Miss Juliette or Miss Mango as she likes to call herself) and the subhuman reject known as Keyser aka clawsweb.

I have never in my entire life ever made fun of someone especially someone like these 2 shitbags. But for this cunt to talk shit…bitch check yourself before you wreck yourself

Sorry that you feel a certain kind of way because your refrigerator is next to your bed.

But don’t go talking shit about how I live or where I live when you are deflecting because your ass lives in the shithole that you live at.

Just because your 46 year old ass can’t get pregnant and have a kid, or because your bf of 6 years left your ass for a younger woman. None that shit has to do with me nor do I give a shit.

It’s not my fault that you are a miserable cunt.

At the end of the day having a roof over one’s head when they have a child is what’s important. Having a job or several (because it’s expensive to live in NY) isn’t shameful. But for you to talk shit when your ass don’t even pay taxes, because you’re living off the government. FUCK YOU…

Oh and Keyser sorry that you have zero roots or culture, not my fault. Newsflash anyone can be a racist piece of shit no matter what race, ethnicity or nationality they are. You are a racist POS, and so is she.

And let’s not even talk about how you go around getting BJs and more from TS SWs and then try to act all high and mighty… I have eyes and ears everywhere.

So don’t try to play that bs with me,

And before anyone tries to defend this cunt and the moron that doesn’t bother to check the source before he opens his mouth.

Let me tell you that they had doxxed me back in August 2022, all because she lost in court. People should learn not to lie in court. I won in court because she was lying from start to finish. Plus she had this cockbag there claiming that he was there as a witness…witness to what cockbag when your ass had never been on my sets, ever…he got lucky that he wasn’t called on because that would have been amusing. Either way I walked out of there John Gotti style… #IWON

However, I’m tired of the lies & false information she has been spreading since. #done

A normal human being would stick their tail between their legs and just keep it moving..but no not this cunt.

You two can go stick a cactus dildo up your asses and make sure to ram it all the way up.

Now enjoy seeing this cunt with her bed next to her refrigerator. My 1 bedroom Apartment in LONG ISLAND at least is in a house and I have a kitchen, living room, bedroom and bathroom. Plus a full backyard. Don’t say shit about me and how I live when you are living like this in your ghetto ass neighborhood. Bet your Fat Albert Cocksucker doesn’t know how you live, well now he will since he thinks he knows so much….Now everyone can see the real Miss Juliette in her environment. Like the cockroach you really are. You don’t even have money to buy bdsm equipment so you had to borrow mine. Maybe if you actually worked instead of sponging off the government you would have a car, clothes, real furniture, maybe even real bedding…instead of plastic bagging your bed.

https://youtu.be/XFPnpV6QzCI

Oh and let’s not forget this one eyed Fat Albert looking mother fucker that has the balls to say something about my weight and looks. I may no longer be the spring chicken I was but at least my fat ass goes to the gym oh and I don’t look like the fucker from “The Hills Have Eyes” like him.

These 2 can suck my dick.Now that I have vented I feel better. Carry on and enjoy your night.

[otterandterrier]

i mean it’s certainly a choice to reblog something concerning a fandom you hate 🙃 but also it’s interesting that you don’t pay attention yet you’re engaging in stuff that i (a ts fan for years) have never even heard of (hetlor? where did you hear that 😂) like be a hater, who cares, but don’t pretend you’re not engaging with something you clearly are

I literally just looked at the notes in that one post for about 15 seconds (: I don't engage with sw*ftie drama on purpose, it's shoved down my throat every single minute of being online (: yes, even with a tumblr blacklist!! shocking!! wonder if that has anything to do with my opinions of the fandom!! (:

now please unfollow and go outside

[janiedean]

I feel so frustrated, I mean.. I read so many bullsh*ts around and I'd like to know your opinion. I think that making a villain sympathetic through their backstory is not *insert bad action* apology. I'm so tired of people trying to make me feel guilty just because I think 100% of times a bad person is not born bad but turned into a monster because of a lot of reasons. It's dehumanizing to consider someone bad without taking into account their past. There's always a reason in the past, even if a villain looks like they're enjoying doing bad things. It's sad and something to be compassionate to that a person find enjoyable hurting others because something in their past made them reach the point where they think hurting others is acceptable or even the only way out

eh I... agree with you on all accounts but again this is... the ultimate reaping the sows of this idiotic attitude cool motive still murder in fandom everywhere lately which like, some times it could be a fair objection to... people not owning up to their favorite being actually an asshole (and even then it would be valid just if they’re harassing you), but most times it started like that and turned into AH IF YOU JUSTIFY BAD DUDE’S BACKSTORY OR EXPLAIN IT THEN YOU EXCUSE HIM, which like.... shows at least some things:

a complete lack of being able to analyze a story going outside the ‘good guys vs bad guys scheme’ which is why I really wish people stopped consuming only media aimed for ages from fourteen under because that’s not going to do anything to help you

refuse to consider the fact that what happens to anyone in life shapes them negatively or positively but negatively is... a... thing, thus falling back on the usual calvinist bullshit of either you’re good or you’re bad and the best thing you can do to redeem yourself is dying to help someone else, which again.... the world doesn’t work like that

a complete refusal of actually trying to understand how trauma and abuse works because like cool motive still murder for someone you don’t like 99,9% of the times translates in the good victim vs bad victim dynamic, which in turn basically translates into ‘if you’re an abuse victim/you have trauma but you don’t react in The Appropriate Way or don’t fit the Good Victim points then your trauma/abuse isn’t valid’, which like... sorry but all victims of trauma/abuse are valid in that sense and you can’t write off someone just because they didn’t react the way you think they should

(which then usually means that they treat fans of problematic character who might in their turn have trauma etc in the same way and like... lol no)

now, thing is, one thing is fiction and another is real life - in real life if someone hurts you and they’re a shit person and they have exceedingly good reasons to be but they’re still a shit person you don’t have to be in contact with them and if they don’t get their shit together even moreso (or if they try to and reach out for help you can accept to or not), but when it comes to fiction the point is: it’s up to the damned author.

like, one thing that people don’t get is that obviously fictional bad actions are not happening in real life and a narrative is usually built to either redeem the person committing them or not, but if they want to, then... that character will be redeemed and there’s like nothing the reader can object. now, like... I mean if this ask isn’t about b*n solo I’ll eat my hat but if it’s not let’s just take him as the poster child example for this entire bullshit trend: ofc if you kill your father irl you go to jail, but since star wars is a SPACE OPERA where real life world consequences don’t exist and patricide is a literary device since the history of ever (GREEK TRAGEDY FFS) to symbolize freeing yourself from your roots and needing to find yourself and so on, the act of ben killing han in itself means shit narratively beyond telling you that ben has ISSUES that made him go to the dark side and that he’s conflicted, and in the moment that someone is conflicted you already should see he’s a decent person or has the potential to be. now, ofc ben solo did an amount of exactly not kosher things and is a shit at declaring his feelings and has issues, but the point is: if the sw sequels (as bad as the overall narrative eventually was) wanted him to be conflicted and then do the right thing (reconciling himself with his parents ahahahahah HAN FORGAVE HIM LIKE.. XDD) then they want you to see him as a human being who made mistakes but then could still do the right thing. the fact that he died after bc they couldn’t commit to one damned side and do a sensed story doesn’t matter, but the concept of ‘he did x y and z fictionally so BAD’ is stupid bc x y and z never happened irl and you can choose to forgive a fictional character because he’s fictional, and a lot of people who are ‘’bad victims’’ or not poster children for trauma management actually do find hope in seeing characters like that getting another chance. because guess what, catharsis through fiction. like guys I realized I could actually not settle for someone out of fear of not ever finding anyone the moment I realized why I was into jb that much, someone else can find catharsis in bensolo being redeemed or whatever and people refusing to see it can’t engage with an adult-driven story (and not even for children bc a lot of media for children has bad guys who turn good).

and in that sense like.... I mean personally if I see a character like that I don’t even count them as villain bc I know they won’t eventually be (like I didn’t consider bensolo a bad guy since... ever) and for me villains are 95% of the time just people who are assholes without redeeming qualities that the author doesn’t care for redeeming even if they explain why they’re like that (see instances c. lannister for one I hate and randall flagg for one I actually love) so I have troubles like.... seeing them as bad guys (I mean the... supposed one from luke cage s2? for me went from vague villain to antagonist the moment they exposed his backstory lmao) and idg this mindset but personally I just hope fandom goes back on the ‘you do realize you can like antagonists without being a bad person for relating to them’ train because this entire mindset is just... fucking... tiring.

[queerbauten]

seeing white Reylos praise John Boyega as though they weren’t calling him a rancid misogynist a few months ago.... 🤔

[enbycupcake]

the unfinished rough outline for the potc au that i sketched for [ here ] and 99% chance will not actually write. anakin and shmi are black because i fucking said so

anakin skywalker, found in a spaceship crash. it’s a miracle he even survived. padmé is the one to find him, a young queen of only fourteen. she takes in the damage, one of his arms clean blown off and his legs crushed between broken parts of the ship. what truly draws her attention, though? the golden medallion she sees peeking out of his shirt. 

it’s a pirate medallion. thinking quickly, she pockets it. piracy has one of the strictest punishments in the republic; it’s an epidemic how many pirates are springing up.

anakin is taken in by a weapons smith who isn’t very good at his job, but he has a roof over his head and food for his stomach. padmé’s term as queen comes and goes, but she stays in politics. as she grows older, so does anakin. he loves her, she knows, and she loves him, but she isn’t ready to not focus on her career. she’s young still. anakin has sweet eyes and an even kinder heart; it takes more effort than she thinks is worth it, sometimes, to not take back her no to his marriage proposal.

everything changes the day padmé’s life is saved by a pirate. he’s witty and biting, his eye sharp. he takes padmé’s breath away for a moment. she tries to tell the queen not to arrest him; he has committed no piracy on naboo, but republic law is clear. all pirates are to be arrested. 

so obi-wan is pursued, a wink and a smile thrown padmé’s way as he escapes. he runs into anakin, and anakin fights him. he’s only practiced by himself, padmé preferring blasters to vibroblades and the like, but he feels out his opponent with his mind, a trick that has saved him from beatings more than once. obi-wan surprises him by feeling out their playing field in just the same way.

anakin is defeated, but obi-wan compliments him for a job well done for a beginner. he then is seized by the naboo guard, who had caught up during the fight. 

padmé is kidnapped by the pirate called savage. he eyes where anakin’s medallion hangs from her throat, like he can see it through her clothes, and demands her name. he’s given padmé skywalker.

seeing her being taken onto a pirate ship, anakin tries his damnedest to save her, but he’s too slow. having not ever left the planet before, he goes to the only person he knows can help him. the pirate he fought earlier. anakin breaks obi-wan out of jail, and the two of them steal a royal ship, anakin frantically erasing the tracking software while obi-wan gets them off planet. 

obi-wan learns anakin’s second name is skywalker, making him the only child of his mother, shmi. telling anakin, however, that he’s the son of a pirate doesn’t go well. the next day of travel is spent in silence, anakin in turns glaring at him and sulking.

the two of them do bond the next day and the rest of the journey as obi-wan follows savage. he knows that savage will be taking padmé to mustafar, the planet where those who go do so to die. obi-wan explains that years ago, a group of pirates, shmi, savage, maul, and dooku, were locked in a duel over cargo and here is where they landed to do so. 

the four of them, however, instead of murdering each other, found more gold than any of them knew what to do with. they all took some. in time, savage, maul, and dooku found out that it was cursed, and those who stole what wasn’t theirs couldn’t die. they couldn’t quench their thirst, fill their empty stomach, enjoy the trust in a child’s embrace. 

shmi was already disappeared when the knowledge came to the other three. they returned their medallions and gold, but still shmi’s remained. that’s why savage took padmé. 

anakin demands to know why his mother stole the gold, why she was a pirate. she was a good person. obi-wan tells him that the cargo his mother specialized in was slaves; she took the gold from mustafar to help the liberated out of their chains. her name was salvation shmi. 

on mustafar, padmé holds her head up high. she’s too outnumbered to fight her way back to steal the pirate’s ship. her hand is cut, blood slipping onto a pile of gold, but nothing happens. sensing that her usefulness is over, she makes a mad scramble for her life. like from thin air, anakin is there to guide her to safety. obi-wan is with him.

the three of them escape, but they are quickly caught by maul, savage’s brother. maul rages upon seeing obi-wan. the storm is held off when he takes in anakin, shmi’s presence radiating through her son’s very core. he’s found the skywalker. 

[dokidokiheart]

my ship tags by media

ANIMANGA:

Akagami no Shirayukihime = ans ships, Beastars = beastars ships, Bleach = bleach ships, Boku no Hero Academia = bnha ships, Code Geass = cg ships, Death Note = dn ships, Full Metal Alchemist = fma ships, Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun = gsnk ships, Jo-Jo’s Bizarre Adventure = jjba ships, Kimetsu no Yaiba = kny ships, Kuroko no Basuke = knb ships, Naruto = naruto ships, One Punch Man = opm ships, Otome Game no Hametsu Flag...= hamefura ships, Ouran High School Host Club = ohshc ships, Sailor Moon = sm ships, Shingeki no Kyojin = snk ships, Spy x Family = sxf ships, Studio Ghibli = sg ships, Tokyo Ghoul = tg ships, Yamada-kun and the Seven Witches = ykatsw ships, Yu Yu Hakusho = yyh ships,Yu-Gi-Oh! = ygo ships, Zankyou no Terror = znt ships

VIDEO GAMES:

Bendy and the Ink Machine = batim ships, Bravely Default = bd ships, Catherine = catherine ships, Corpse Party = corpse party ships, Dangan Ronpa = dr ships, Final Fantasy = ff ships, Fire Emblem = fe ships, Life is Strange = lis ships, Nier Autonoma = na ships, Persona 5 ships = p5 ships, Pokemon = pokemon ships, Resident Evil ships = re ships, Rune Factory = rf ships, Soul Nomad & the World Eaters = sn ships, The Legend of Zelda = tloz ships, The Letter = tl ships, Yandere Simulator = ys ships

MOVIES: Any other movie ship = movie ships

Star Wars = sw ships, The Lord of the Rings = tlotr ships, Titanic = titanic ships. 

SHOWS:

Doctor Who = drw ships, Friends = friends ships, Merlin = merlin ships, The Big Bang Theory = tbbt ships, The Vampire Diaries = tvd ships

WESTERN ANIMATION:

Avatar: The Last Airbender: atla ships, Castlevania = castlevania ships, Class of the Titans = cott ships, Codename Kids Next Door = cknd ships, Danny Phantom = dp ships, Disney = disney ships, Dreamworks = dw ships  Futurama = futurama ships, Kim Possible = kp ships, Kung Fu Panda = kfp ships, Miraculous Ladybug = mlb ships, Nijiiro Days = nd ships, Pixar = pixar shipsRWBY = rwby ships, Scooby Doo = sd ships, Total Drama = td ships, Totally Spies = ts ships, W.I.T.C.H = w.i.t.c.h ships, Winx Club = wc ships

COMICS: 

DC = dc ships, Marvel = marvel ships

BOOKS:

Harry Potter = hp ships, Little Women = lw ships, Percy Jackson & the Olympians = pjo ships, Septimus Heap = sh ships, Twilight = twilight ships

DRAMA SHIPS = drama ships (any jdrama or kdrama ships)

Mainly from: Flower of Evil, Goblin & Faith

CROSSOVER SHIPS = crossover ships

Mainly: Jack x Elsa, Kuzco x Chel, Hades x Eris

MISC. SHIPS = misc. ships (any other ship basically):

Gomez x Morticia, Roger Rabbit x Jessica Rabbit, Merlin x Snow White, Veronica x Jughead, Nega Wanda x Nega Cosmo, Cam x Brandy, Nadia x Lucio, Jack x Rose, Anastasia x Dimitri, Shark Boy x Lava Girl & others. 

GENERAL = shipping (tag about ships/shipping in fandom

[moonkitty]

 hooooly shit taylor sw*ft fans are the stupidest people on the fucking planet. i just some TS stan post abt the “kanye running for president” thing and they litterally wouldnt stop talking about how kanye called t*ylor a bitch once. like. you do realize thats not important right now???? that ten year old celeb drama between a dumb rapper and some white rich cishet woman who uses gay people for clout in her songs?  you realize this is the least of our fucking worries???? that were litterally in a dystopia where the president is a neo nazi competing against a shitty rapper???? and your concerned about fucking taylor vs kanye drama from 2008??? that people are fucking dying right now in a litteral dystopia and your concerned about some rich cishet womans precious feelings???? hello??????????????

[queen-pathetic]

Okay. Guardian fans. As I watched the ending of the drama I was ANGRY. Because the show runners UGH. But the author of the book has come to say something about the ending of the drama.

https://avenuex.ca/blog/2018/7/30/the-gist-of-the-new-guardian-epilogue-by-its-book-author

If you follow their logic (THE AUTHOR) then SYL and SW are living happily ever after. And that scene at the end was the reunion scene for them.

[into-control]

Into, theres a regular non-sw*ftie blog run by a lesbian fan of Taylor's, that knows Tay & KK are gay & has a huge soft spot for Kaylor, but most definitely does not interact with the Sw*ftie/Gaylor/Kaylor fandoms at large because she says she doesn't have the constitution to deal with being as involved as most TS fans are, especially cause of Toe/PR/Drama stuff; She's got a gay galaxy brain, and has very eloquently explained why Taylor *can't* be queer-baiting. She's @ badcode, check her TS tag

yes i follow her!! i love her edits and drawings and galaxy brain posts haha her mind is too powerful

[him-e]

Thank you so much for your recommendations. And yes I do enjoy your blogging and share you same views and the darker side characters appeal to me much more. There is a richer story there and with the sole exception of Jon Snow who I adore very much I always go for the more morally ambiguous ones. Kylo fits that mold perfectly even though I haven't seen the force awakens yet lol.

[daydreamtlife]

Summarized Paras

RT - idiot true love

JS - sarcastic soulmate

PSJS - Tricks me constantly

TS - Dad

JG - Weird worldviews and JS’s keeper

MM - Likes cuddling

DR - Disaster Traveling

CO - Everything she does I say “Me”

PP - Annoying little brother likes that he’s taller

ET - RT’s keeper and the Normal One

WD - Bestie for RT gossip

HB - Will Murder people

CF - Will Murder people physically and verbally

GL - Vain af

JPT - Sex jokes

GA - Violent, Prankster, Partner in Crime

SB - OG Drama Queen

JP - Lovable idiot

RL - Booksmart Sweetheart

NS - Mom Friend who loves animals

FBAWTF UNIT - Teenagers given money and power

GnD Unit - We like cheesecake and gambling

DnD - Nerds getting screwed by dice 2k19

DW - Tough guy act but sweetheart

SW - Sweetheart act but will Murder for you

CA - Clueless mostly

LA - Literal Satan

RO - Adventurer™️

QB - Unlucky ripoff of Batman

CW - Wants to succeed in DnD

MP - Mom

CP - Lil brother

ES - Thanks for helping me not be the only girl here

NT - Would kill and fuck JS at any given moment

WT - Once drank every time he looked clueless, did not get past 2 hours before having to stop

[janiedean]

Look I love light side and heroic characters in SW, I’m not a villain stan or a villain fucker by any stretch of the imagination, but all of the other hero stans in 2015- SW fandom make us all look terrible. I just want to stan Poe and Finn and Obi-wan and Luke without getting sucked into “all bad people deserve to die” nu-Puritanism ok!!

thank you anon from someone in the exact same position who also, as a poe stan first and foremost, would really like to not have a subfandom associated with harassing people for shipping reylo and would really like to enjoy both ships (and liking both poe and ben hahaha) without feeling on one side like I’d end up on the wrong side of the crucible and on the other like they’ll assume I’m an anti just because I like poe/ship sp

[janiedean]

I don’t ship R*ylo but I also don’t trust Stormpilot shippers who aren’t R*ylo positive or at least neutral (and I mean actually neutral, not “nominally ship-and-let-ship but will occasionally let slip a passive-aggressive comment about “R*ylo freaks” “shoving their ship in people’s faces) because whenever there’s R*ylo hate, bad SJ Calvinist takes and good victim/bad victim logic and harassment justification follows.

honestly..... pretty much, but like I don’t trust anyone in sw fandom who is that vitriolic with reylo because honestly there’s disliking a ship and there’s treating people shipping a regular vanilla enemies to lovers thing that was telegraphed from tfa and obvious from tlj like they just got a kkk subscription and honestly... I’m done with harassing people for their ships *shrug* like feel free to dislike it but I’m tired of these takes so *shrug*

[janiedean]

Not a Reylo here, you're most correct. I'm tired. I'm done. I'm fed up. I just want this to blow over. I don't care about who ships who. I just want to enjoy things in peace without having to see hate in the tags. And people targeting others and that was driving me insane. That's why I made the decision to leave for a little bit. It's a shame there's nothing like a deactive thing like in Facebook, though. Anyways, thanks for the well wishes from you and that anon.

i feel you comrade i mean... i was tired in 2016 when ALL of the blogs i followed for finnpoe ended up bashing reylo rather than talk about finnpoe most of the time when i was there for one thing not for RANDOM SHIP BASHING FOR SMTH I DIDNT CARE FOR, now it’s just unlivable i hope that this dies down asap for all of us -_- and best wishes i hope you can come back soon TT