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out of the earth you came
cardwell higgins, 1930
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#tumblr polls#I got to thinking today about how the first time i really found community was on ff.net via private messages and comments#bc I mostly lurked on tumblr and Facebook and insta and stuff at that point
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It's kinda shocking to me how few people seem to know how prevalent the 'my great grandmother was cherokee' myth is and how it's almost never actually true, especially when it comes with things like 'never signed up' or 'fell off the trail' or 'courthouse burned down destorying the documentation' etc etc.
People just don't even seem to know the history like.. when the Trail happened. My great great great grandfather was 2 years old during Removal in 1838, so peoples 'my great grandmother hid in the mountains!' is so clearly wrong. And we have rolls. From before and after removal, rolls done by cherokee nation and others by the government, rolls that were not stored in one random flammable courthouse. It's not difficult to find the actual evidence of ancestry.
And just.. there are lots of ways those family stories get started. It was a practice during the confederacy to claim cherokee ancestry to show one's family had 'deep roots in the south' that they were there before the cherokee were removed. Many people pretended to be cherokee and applied for the Guion-Miller payout just to try to steal money meant for cherokees - 2/3rds of the applicants were denied for having 0 proof of actual cherokee ancestry. [We even see lawyers advertising signing up for the Miller roll just to try to get free money.] And the myth even started in some families in the cherokee land lotteries, where the land stolen from us was raffled off, including the house and everything that was left behind when the cherokees were removed. We have seen people whose families just take these things stolen from the cherokee family and adopt them into their own family story, saying that they were cherokee themselves.
If you had some family story about being cherokee and you wanna have proof one way or the other, check out this Facebook group run by expert cherokee genealogists that do research for free. Just please read the rules fully and respect the researchers. They run thousands of people's ancestries a year and their average is only around 0.7% of lines they run actually end up having true cherokee ancestry.
#and ive heard even dumber origins of the cherokee family myth#such as an ancestor having a silly sounding name so the descendents just go 'oh she mustve been an indian!!!'#i was one of the few people who had my ancestry done on the facebook and had genuine cherokee ancestry#[though i had found it before it was just really validating to get it double checked and i started finding cousins (:]#like. i was told once when i was a kid by my grandma that my dad had cherokee ancestry and i didnt believe her. its wild that so many peopl#will make it a Fixture of their identity [or even just smth they bring up ever] with Zero proof#at least for cherokees from what ive seen its usually considered really disrespectful to claim to have cherokee ancestry without#actually having the documentation [like ancestors on the rolls]#and no a dna test doesnt count. nor does 'my dad is Clearly not white!' or 'high cheekbones' or old family photos or anything#i had this discussion with someone recently whose dad had been calling himself 3/4 native but didnt know exactly what nation ???? hello?#and its like... sorry but ur dad is like. italian lol.#[and blood quantum is bullshit anyway im tired of the 'im 1/16 cherokee' comments its dumb#cherokee nation does not have a blood quantum requirement. its pointless bringing it up in the discussion of who is or isnt cherokee]#also mandatory disclaimer that im reconnecting. i didnt grow up connected to the culture of even knowing my ancestry#this is all from my looking into this stuff over the past year or so. i cant claim to be an authority over anything regarding this#this is p much all my repeating things ive heard said by people who know a lot more than i do haha#man. and this isnt even starting to get into the fake tribe stuff. the only legit cherokee groups are the 3 federally recognized bands#cherokee nation of oklahoma. united keetoowah band. and the eastern band of cherokee indians.#any others that are state recognized or not at all arent acknowledged as legitimate by any of the legit cherokee groups#anyway. my final message goodb.ye#cherokee#tsalagi
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ITS YOU!!! ITS THE CAT ARTIST!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!
its me !
#barks#i love u too !!!#its very funny 2 me on etsy when i get notes from people like oh ive been seeing ur stuff on facebook for ages !!#im so glad i found u !!!!#girl..........why is it on facebook KSBDKSNSJNS
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he is just a little guy honestly
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Sorry if this might be a rude question but why don’t you just make a seperate account for your nsfw fics?
not rude, it's a valid question! tbh it's a combination of a couple reasons.
i started posting anonymous dead dove batcest fics long before i had the balls to make a tumblr. at first i was content to just leave them unassociated with each other because i didn't really care about them being tied to me. i made this blog to actually show solidarity to my partner who wanted to make a sideblog for Sandman comic stuff so we could cheerlead each other and be brave together, since i've wanted to make a batcest sideblog but i've been nervous about actually having to get it going. (mal ik you're reading this go be brave and actually make your blog so i can cheerlead you damnit-) only did it dawn on me then that i should probably mention the fics i've written on the blog after like, three of them were posted anonymously. and it would've annoyed me to have half of them anonymous and half of them not, because notifications for them would've gone in different places. i could go back and take my fics off anon if i wanted to, but i can't switch the account they're on without taking them down entirely and that'd fuck over people who have them bookmarked already.
which, ties into my second reason, if i made an entire second ao3 account it'd be harder for me to see notifications, reply to stuff, and post things for both accounts because i'd have to constantly switch. and honestly i'd be terrified of accidentally posting on the wrong one on a brain fog day. posting fics is always the most tedious part of writing them for me lol. it's easier for me to stay logged into one account and have all of my stuff in one place for me and just use the anonymous collection when i feel like it. if ao3 pseuds worked like tumblr blogs, where you can't see all my side blogs but i can, i would've used pseuds, but since you can see all pseuds on an ao3, i felt it was a moot point.
and the last reason is i just feel more comfortable being anonymous on ao3 because of the rise in anti culture. on tumblr it's very easy for me to just filter that out and find the people i want to follow and block the people i don't. i don't mind getting hate, on tumblr or on ao3. but i think, for whatever reason you want to blame it on, there's been a massive boom of antis on ao3 who are very entitled about how they read on ao3. i tag extensively, but i just feel safer from getting targeted attacks if everything i write on ao3 isn't attached to one profile. if people like a fic i wrote, want to find more i always link my tumblr in the notes, but if an anti wants to get huffy with me, they can't easily track down my other things. they definitely could if they wanted to, but being anonymous on ao3 just makes me feel more secluded, in a weird way. it's like saying "if you want you can come find me but on here i'm just a weird faceless guy throwing stuff in the void". i've used ao3's anon feature a lot, actually, i used to be a hydra trash party dumpster kid back when that was in it's prime.
i also used to be vaguely popular on a different tumblr blog and my main ao3 and while i think it'd definitely be cool if i got a decent chunk of followers on this blog too, i don't really miss having fanfiction do so well i got targetted hate on all of my fics from the same people, i had my fics stolen, etc. it was really exhausting for me. i have 120+ works on ao3, not counting what's anonymous, and that level of exposure tires me, even when i use my main ao3 to post things that aren't trashy. it's just a weird feeling knowing so many people are subscribed to you on ao3 and what if you post something they won't like because you jumped fandoms again, or you're posting something niche, or you don't think it fills enough fandom tropes to be well-liked. i used to obsessively think like that, and it made me not write the things i wanted to because i cared about numbers. and i don't want to slide back into that hole. writing on anonymous is mostly to remind myself i wrote this for me, and if other people like it, they can come find me, but i don't have to perform like that anymore. if i get a really weird fucked up idea, i can write the really weird fucked up idea. at the end of the day, just makes me more comfortable! but i get it's a super confusing set up from an outsider perspective so, i really don't mind the question, thank you for asking!!
#necrotic festerings#batcest#pro ship#necrotic answerings#tbh asking the question gave me the chance to explain it so ty!#might link this in my about me or my masterlist for ease of access#i don't want to like. overstate how big i was on an old blog bc i was not like. a celebrity by *any* means.#but i had a ship-specific blog and i was certainly a “big name fan” for that specific rarepair#and it like. took over my life when i was a teen#i look back on it fondly now but i really regret that i would obsess so heavily over numbers and what made a fic do well#my favorite fics to write were htp back then bc for htp culture writing on anon was normal since that was during the dreamwidth days#and i just. liked that veil of anonymity and i think i defaulted to that when i decided to finally start posting batcest stuff#(all of this makes me sound so old i'm only 22 i just started fandom really fucking young which i don't recommend)#and when i say one fic got big. i mean it. i have found that fic on instagram and pinterest and tiktok and even. facebook.#do you know what it's like when your fic gets reuploaded to facebook without your permission and you see what boomers think of it.#that was so mortifying.#funnily enough the boomers were actually really nice i was just shocked to find it there scrolling one day.#it was instagram that was super mean to me and traumatized my ass. man ppl dug into me for the tinest things. do not miss that.#anyway the point is#i've tasted vitality and niche fandom status(tm) and i hated both. and i just cannot do that to myself again#ergo#anon on ao3 and a blog to post my thoughts when i have them.#it's a nice system for me#i have some stuff on my main ao3 that toes the line of like. dark dead dove trash.#and i had antis get mad at me bc their fave fluffy fic was written by. gasp. a proshipper.#and yeah that soured me to existence on ao3.#getting into the rise of anti culture is a whole other discussion that'd have me going on for hours but i will shut up now.#wow this got long. i like to fucking talk don't i.
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I’m gon be honest. Your posts and blogs are my daily newspapers. Every morning, I wake up and stall before work, yawning and scrolling through here. “Oh, so and so’s back at it again.” Like, I thank you for your time, service and efforts for writing my daily newsletters and magazines. I learn alot from ya, might need to take some notes here and there on your format as well 🤷🏻♀️👀
mwah!
I just might have to kiss ya now. 🥹 I'm horrible at remembering to take some time and send those beautiful messages to all the Elvis fans blogs I appreciate, but I try to support you as well as I can. By the way, yours is a blog I have the notification on so I won't miss a thing. ♥ Thank you for the sweet words, Lexi, and for the support. Your words gave me even more motivation to keep updating my blog with interesting stories, Elvis history and some footage and GIFS. Really. I don't wanna let you down, do I? Seriously. Thank you, thank you, thank you! Your blog is AMAZING, your format is amazing already, so easy reading and organized. Keep the good job, sweetie! I'll keep my eyes open for your content. 🩷⚡
#elvis fandom is the best#i'll repeat myself on this often#elvis#elvis presley#im so grateful#i think i found my people here on tumblr#i've tried facebook elvis fan groups too but its not quite the same#love you friends#thank you for reading my stuff... i try the best i can#elvis the king#elvis fans#elvis fandom
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I'm reading You Made a Fool of Death with Your Beauty, and a major theme is grief as two main characters are widowed. It's slow and real and brutal and I love it. But also it's making me think far too much about how wrecked my world would be if I lost my spouse. Oof! 😭😅
#tf reads#personal#a couple years ago a girl I knew from college#who had been in a long time relationship even back then#suddenly lost her husband and I was seeing stuff about it on Facebook#neve found out what happened to him but it seemed I unexpected#and I spent a lot of that year with invasive thoughts on this same topic#(didn't help that there was another similar incident later that year involving a car accident for someone else I knew)#I can hardly imagine#so it's just really beautiful to see this work where the protagonists are finding ways to still live with it#move on#keep going#very good#books#2024 reads
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#really randomly fell down a weird rabbit hole today#i was watching the X-Files and finally felt like reading up on david duchovny#like i see u fellow slav what kind of slav are you#so i opened up his wikipedia article and saw that his dad was jewish and from ukraine and went like AHA WE ARE THE SAME#and just out of curiosity looked up the place he's from because im curious about jewish shtetls in the ukraine#because my whole family except my biological father is from several of them and i thought hey maybe they were neighbors#which they fucking are omg theyre just 20km apart#my greatgreatgrandma is from makhnivka which i even found articles and history about and how the jewish population grew & declined#even though i did not find any steinbergs in the archives#anyway when i read up on Berdychiv where duchovnys family is from it said#early settlement by the Chernyakhov Culture#which was an archeological culture between 200 and 500 CE existing at the same time as the roman empire#....... is this how i finally find out where my name is from??????? like?????????#i wish i knew so much more than i do#like i only found out that im not russian i was just born in russia like 7 years ago or so??? because my mom never tells me anything#all the information about my great great grandparents and where theyre from is from my grandma#and her dementia is really bad now and shes just angry and screams and calls people names#my russian is too bad to properly read up on stuff like that and theres barely anything in english or german#i just want to know idk#but genetic testing is too expensive and also very america centric and the only family i have in the us is super conservative#i had to block them on facebook when my grandma made me write to them once over 10 years agl#and i know a huge chunk of my grandmas family moved to israel too so i dont want anything to do with that either#although id be curious if it would actually find my half siblings i found out about also like 8 years ago#i just wish there were more archives and more people i could talk to about this#on my grandfathers side theres nothing really left#my grandfather passed suddenly and apparently before he did he took ALL THE FAMILY PHOTOS AND DOCUMENTS somewhere to maybe digitalise them#but we dont know where so theyre literally gone for ever#but his whole family was from kiev and is apparently named after this culture era#his dad was a higher up at a sugar factory and i still cant find anything#my grandma had so many cousins and they were so interconnected and knew so much and i literally just have my mom and no one else
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Absolutely no one:
My family after the exams: So hey how did that old friend of yours that you haven't spoken to in 5 years and changed schools did in the exams?
Me who doesn't even know if they're alive: 👁👄👁 how am I supposed to know
#like ok#asking about my close friends#sure#youre all greek katinas & koutsompoles#but💀 dude you're asking me about people that i dont even know if they gave the exams#all i know is that she goes to ΕΠΑΛ now and gave different exams#i mean if she did#idk if she gave exams#she stopped talking to me#like my aunt even asked about a girl i wasn't even friends with 'το [επιθετακι] ποσο εγραψε?'💀ΕΠΙΘΕΤΑΚΙ WHEN WILL YOU STOP CALLING HER THAT#JEEZ YOU MAKE IT SOUND LIKE SHES STILL 5#ASLO HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO KNOW? IM NOT FRIENDS WITH HER#ITS NOT LIKE WE FLEX OUR EXAM RESULTS ON FACEBOOK LIKE FACEBOOK MOMS#i even found out at random she was in health class cause i overheard her talking about biology on the bus station#unless i go to the school bus station again and she is there talking about her μορια i have no way of knowing#sugarenia thoughts#sugarenia school stuff#sugarenia talks#sugarenia has family
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on the plus side i met a VERY cool woman tonight. i rlly hope she comes back and sings again i would LOVE to befriend her 🥺 very cool lady who is into lots and lots of good music and is also an activist please be my. friend
#i found her facebook (bc i am a freak) (i did not friend her just found it) and she has a LONG linktree with activist stuff#like links for gaza fundraisers and then other information/fundraisers for different social issues#homegirl is on her SHIT#wade talks#personal#man i should make a work tag….#kj chronicles
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I hate that I have to automatically be suspicious of anyone who comes onto a cherokee post with a little 'I'm cherokee (:' tag. I wish more people would know the kind of research that needs to happen for disconnected people to be able to actually claim that.
Even if your family story isn't some 'my gg grandmother was a cherokee princess and the chief sold her for a keg of whiskey to white people in Kentucky and she was sent to a residential school [in kentucky] and the courthouse burned down so there aren't any records' etc etc, even if it's something mundane like 'yea your g grandmother always told me her mother was a fullblood cherokee who left the reservation. That's why we have dark hair / tan skin / high cheekbones' etc, even if you have photos, unless you have citizenship cards in one of the 3 federally recognized cherokee tribes or you have genealogy going back to names on the accepted rolls, you should be really careful before claiming cherokee. I promise that even if you think your family story is different from the others because whatever reason [you have photos, heirlooms, whatever], I have seen plenty of people with those same things have their genealogy come up with 0 cherokee ancestry.
#and note ofc im reconnecting and ive only been actively learning about it for a little over a year#so im not an expert on any of this stuff#but man. i heard my family story and then did my genealogy and found my cherokee ancestors#and saw that i could get citizenship#and it still took me an entire year before i felt like i could say i was cherokee.#and that wasnt until i got on the facebook pages and had my genealogy run
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#today will be continuing the theme we left off with yesterday#today my boss decided to change a supervisor's four-week notice to two weeks and politely but firmly gave her the boot#(for reasons most of us 'know nothing about' wink wink yeah I didn't ask for this knowledge)#and waiting for the employee pack up and go was awkward for everyone involved but!#MY BOSS LEFT THE OFFICE FOR A HALF HOUR IN THE MIDDLE OF IT AND DIDN'T TELL US#wish I could do that#now we've got a mess because the employee hadn't finished sorting her stuff for everyone for when she was PLANNING to go#and we have people calling for her and I can't just...say she's not here anymore because I don't have permission to do that#and also I found our potential new director on facebook this morning and preemptively blocked her because I already have a bad feeling#so that's.... lord how is it only Wednesday#I guess I buckle down and dig into the fundraiser projects I've been putting off#try to distract myself#I want to go home
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Wait can you
Can you not use hypertext on facebook or twitter
That's SUCH A BASIC FUNCTION WHAT
As far as I’ve noticed, Tumblr is the only social media still in operation that allows you to add links in your text to provide sources for specific statements without interruption the text.
Which is such an easy elegant way to allow people to fact check your work because they do not need to go through a list of sources below, they can quickly see your specific source per statement.
In the forum world of Internet 1.0, you could do that everywhere. That feature was standard. In internet 2.0, this simple feature is almost entirely gone, because social media designers have stripped out anything that takes you away from the social media platform that you’re on. Gotta maximize that engagement so you generate more content for advertisers.
Now that we know more and more about how much social media feeds misinformation.. it’s worth pointing out that none of the platforms that claim to be fighting disinformation have brought back this feature.
#come to think of it I have linked stuff on facebook and never found an option for it and I just assume every time that#it's because I suck at computers and can't use facebook properly#it didn't occur to me that THE FUNCTION DIDN'T EXIST
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As a person working in TnS for [redacted], one of the big social medias, it's always hilarious to me when people say today's internet is safer for children than 20 years ago because 'nowadays kids don't just stumble onto hardcore porn or beheading videos' when my normal workday includes seeing an 8-year old platform user livestream how they open p*rnhub, confidently click 'I am 18 or older' and search for their favourite actress, then they switch view to their phone where they are subscribed to telegrams offering gore and blood, gamer girl nudity leaks, child sexual abuse materials, or a combination of the above.
#people whos idea of modern social media is like the safest vanillaest side of facebook think that all modern social media is Like That#all while 4chan and reddit exist#all while this crap is readily available in comments section of all major platforms out there#and where engineers basically admit even the ai models cannot match spam bots in speed at least not yet#not only do kids stumble into this as easily if not easier than i found this stuff 20 years ago#many of their computer safety skills are lacking but this stuff is more accessible than ever and doesn't even give you viruses that much
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