#stopemotionalabuse

[immortalvipers]

CPS & Emotional Abuse

I have been seeing lots of stories on Reddit from victims of familial emotional abuse in the United States. It seems that not for every situation, but the majority found authorities incompetent with handling their emotionally abusive situations, in specific states and/or counties. This is why I believe emotional abuse is a "hidden" form of abuse. No proper action will be presented unless the victim has physical marks of their abuse. This is very worrying. It's a more secretive way for abusers to succeed in evading consequences, especially since emotional abuse can be a lot harder to prove to authorities. I have personally experienced a range of abuse from different members of my close family. Emotionally, physical, sexual, etc. Every single method of abuse used against me was very damaging to my mental health. Emotional abuse, was by far (in my experience), the worst. It's hidden. It's hard to prove. It's extremely difficult to process and handle. It feels as if your abuser is a parasite that is eating you from the inside out. It is awful. CPS (in some places) will not act in a terrible situation unless the child is physically injured or possibly even dead. This is NOT okay. There needs to be harsher consequences for perpetrating emotional abuse, especially in families. I have never felt so hopeless and so close to ending it all like I did when I was in an emotionally abusive situation, at the hands of someone I was raised to believe loved and cared about me, which I grew up to realize was manipulation. There needs to be pressure for the proper authorities to be more involved and analytical with emotionally abusive families. Many, many children are going to suffer without the help they need, the help they may never get if CPS continues incompetence. Pressure the incompetent.

[risingsiren-blog]

#Repost @stop_emotional_abuse_ ・・・ #Narcissist #Manipulator #covertnarcissist #manipulation #NPD #NarcissisticAbuse #StopEmotionalAbuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #GraciePhoenix I think on the surface to mask pain I’ve adopted this strategy of saving face. Oh they’re this and that... down play ppl who things didn’t work out with only to return or check up on them once my tantrums were over. Now I see that while the dynamic will change depending on the split feelings never shut down instantaneously. One has to a knowledge loss and feel that pain to truly move on. When any relationship ends, even the bitter ones there is a loss. Mourn it, see it for what it was, not on a pedestal or in the muck and mire but the good and bad and learn from the mistakes made. In the end adopting a narcissist strategy for loss will would you more than anyone else. It’s ok to feel unpleasant when bad things happen, when connections are lost. Be honest with others and yourself about your feelings.

[kimmgrady]

#truth #stopemotionalabuse https://www.instagram.com/greenmansmom/p/Bv-nkkgn_UZDA2sufeYQJmhZVLB1CD4KOBgz580/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=d0qvndl3g3sw

[mandyjane-lifedesign]

#relationshipstruggles #emotionalabuse #mentalhealth #mentalhealthblogger #mentalhealthsupport #mentalhealthawareness #domesticviolence #domesticabuse #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticpartner #gaslighting #narcissisticsupply #dating #datingadviceforwomen #datingadviceformen #healthyboundaries #stopemotionalabuse #cognitivebehavioraltherapy #counseling #counsellingservices #counselingservices #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusesurvivor #heal (at Guildford) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQDhfVind9E/?utm_medium=tumblr

[audreysays]

Emotional Abuse

With everything going on in the world, I want to add this to the conversations.

PEOPLE. BY ALL MEANS, DO NOT ACCEPT EMOTIONAL ABUSE. ALL FORMS. NO MATTER WHAT.

I speak from personal experience. It doesn’t matter who the person is or the history you may have with someone. If the friendship/relationship comes to point of no return, see yourself out of that situation. You are too important in this world and there’s no one else like you. The last thing you need is to be put down by abusive people who do their best to make you feel insignificant. I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if you come across this, I hope a fire lights up your ass and you do what you need to do. Nothing will change until you take the first step. Yes, the first step is always the hardest step, but always remember you’ll be better off without them. Period. 

So please, let’s all come together to end abuse. 

[lordofemotion]

It's a man's world by what method? LINK IN BIO #linkinbio Copy & paste : https://emanuelsabino21.wixsite.com/website #rap #hiphop #concept #unique #emotion #nyccomeup #humanprogression #liveandenjoy #humanawareness #community #feminism #stopemotionalabuse #ilovewomen (at Live AND Enjoy Movement) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0Rxu1pH0zJ/?igshid=t7c1aokwhba5

[laluisap]

Pure il bodyguard #abyssusabyssuminvocat #scrittriceinprova #stopemotionalabuse (presso GuapaNapoli)

[barditoto]

@rockpaperscissorsfoundation #dontsettle #stopemotionalabuse #livehappy #toxicpeoplegottago #narcissist

[narcissisticabusehealing]

‪It’s hard to accept that there is no good in a narcissist! They are empty inside and the face you see is just a mask hiding an ugly inside where the only way they can feel good is overpowering and breaking down others. When their actions prove to you time and time again take note and leave, the damage long term narcissistic abuse can do is debilitating 🦋 #toxicpeoplebegone #gaslightingawareness #gaslighting #npdawareness #crazymaking #gaslighting #narcissisticabuse #narcfree #dvsurvivor #dvawareness #stopemotionalabuse #psychologicalabuse #sociopath ‬

[elisalromagnoli]

Breathe (A Collection of Poetry) - The Message Behind the Poems

In a writing and editing update post on my blog I talked about how I'm breaking up my poetry book Breathe into three separate books.  I didn't go into much detail, I only mentioned (I think) that it would be released in March.

Now, I have a bit more time to go into why I'm doing this and what the message is behind these poetry books.

I started Breathe about a year and a half ago now, since then it's gotten over 2k views, way more than I ever expected from a rough hodge podge of pain, angst, and fear. After the little hype over my collection was over and I close it's pages, I toyed with taking it down. Then I tried to post and start a sequel,  I took it down. I tried another poetry book, I took it down. Nothing felt right. So I left the book alone and focused on me, my current writing projects and ignored the little buzz in the back of the room.

It wasn't until this March, when I was playing around with Canva making sample book covers, that the realization struck me. It was time to organize the mess and turn all the ugliness into something that was collectively beautiful, a small series of stories of sort.

This May I will be releasing all the poems, and a few extras, from Breathe into three new poetry books:

May is Mental Health Awareness Month and the books will be launched on May 7 the first day of National Children’s Mental Health Awareness Week (May 7 –13, 2017).

As I was rereading the poems and posting them slowly but surely to my Tumblr I noticed a theme amongst my poems; some were about emotional things, some were about feeling empowered despite your bad mental state, others were about loving yourself, some were about standing up to stereotypes and hate, etc. What brought them all together was that they were are all written during a time in my life where I was struggling a lot mentally and emotionally. For a time poetry was my outlet.

I realized that all these poems speak very plainly of what it's like to struggle, they could be an excellent example to those who don't, an excellent way to raise awareness to a problem so many struggle with.

These books will also be sporting a few hashtags and campaign badges from Wattpad:

#FreeYourBody

This Wattpad Campaign was started to “help promote the acceptance of body and skin types, conditions, disorders and illnesses that are not usually depicted in books.”

#StopEmotionalAbuse

This Wattpad Campaign was started because of an alarming trend growing in media and stories, abuse happening in stories and real lives that people may not even realize.

#NoMoreBullying

This Wattpad Campaign is an effort to stand up to cyber bullying, a growing problem and crime amongst the internet.

I hope, come may, you too will join us to raise awareness to the growing mental illness and what the battle is like inside our minds.  This is my way of reaching people, through stories. I pray you'll find your way.

Stay Safe.

Elisa

[unpagedunknown]

#stopemotionalabuse 

“Why do you beat yourself up so much over little mistakes?”

[laluisap]

Super amplificata. Se la causa é giusta è necessario rompere il silenzio! #breaksilence #scrittriceinprova #stopemotionalabuse #abyssusabyssuminvocat

[takeaction-2015-blog]

This one's for all of you. We're on a mission to end child emotional abuse, the forgotten (but equally serious) form of child abuse. Spread the word!

[alanrickmanisthebest]

PSA TIME

Parents, here's what you do and don't do

DON'T:tell you children that you disapprove of "alternative lifestyles".  your children don't choose to do these things because they want to spite you, it's because it's who they are.  love them unconditionally because it is who they are and if you loved the idea of a child why can't you love the reality?

DON'T: tell you child they they have mental health issues because of a personal shortcoming and don't suggest that they should take medication to make it go away if you are not qualified to make this decision.  also don't tell them what to do with their mental health.  if they do or don't want to see a professional is their choice, not yours.  once again, love you child unconditionally because their mental health IS NOT THEIR CHOICE

DO: respect your children.  regardless of what pronouns they choose, the clothes they wear or anything else.  just because they are your children does not mean that they are any less important.  you are not responsible for their thoughts, you are responsible for their well-being, physical and emotional.  don't think that age makes anything less important or real and belittle them for not having been on the earth as long as you have.  love and guide them and teach them that they are okay and wonderful because they exist, not because they fit socio-cultural norms and can act as a trophy to show off to others.  

in short, act like a fucking adult and do your goddamn job as a parent.  love your child because they exist and respect who they are because people are inherently important, not just the ones that fit into gender binaries, or have a "normal" sexuality, or the older ones, but ALL people regardless of how society may categorize them.  

that is all.  kaythnxbye