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bunnihearted · 22 days ago
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#so i have an appt. to the psychiatric department for personality disorders tmrw...#and like i tried sending a self referral to them last year lmao#and they only said that heyyy you're doing amazing sweetie you are high functioning 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻#then i've ben to the health care center and since they think they cant treat me bc it's too severe they've sent referrals to other places#which have all declined me... so they also sent one to the psychiatric who sent a referral to this pd department#who that time also said that they can't accept me#so the therapist at the health care center like idk exactly but she sent a report on how they didnt handl my case properly#which made them call on me for an evalutation appt.#but i have 0 hopes. i honestly think the entire psych care is fucking lame and bullshit#i highly doubt they're even equipped to treat personality disorders#& even if they are theire budgetis getting cut bc ppl love having rightists ruling the government .... which means no funds for healthcare#anyway. PLUS it's a man.... -_- which reducuses my chances of being taken seriously even more...#i also hate talking to male therapists/psychiatrists... no fucking thanks. but i have to </3#i just really dont wanna go. like im gonna have to put energy into trying to argue for my right for treatment. w ppl who should inferstand#UNDERSTAND* i hate typing on my ipad ffs. they should understand my personality disorders..#bit health care proffessionals are horrible ppl and dont give a fuck abt their patients lol. so they're only condescending and rude 🤢🤮#i hate being in these environments bc everyone treats u like shit. the receptionists are so fkn rude and almost outright mean and insulting#the doctors and therapists and psychiatrists are all bullies who look down on u and make u feel small and worthless#so im really dreading it... but im also at my wit's end. i am missing out on my entire life. im desperate for help#even if i wholeheartedly believe that these worthless wastes of space wont give me any treatment i'll still need to go and try#then ig i'll just have to keep pestering the healthcare system. i might wventually even have to start going to the psych. ER so they put#that on my records and like idk. that costs money tho. plus from everyone i've heard from...#being at a psych ER esp when your situation isnt dire is awful and hell#my cousin who had been ther after a sui attempt had said that it 'scared him straight'#and that it was so terrible that he did everything to get back home as soon as possible and do whatever to never end up there again#so yuh... i'd rather not!#i was supposed to (my own decision) to write a list with ALL my symptoms and bring and be like LOOK MONGREL!!!#but since i suffer from avpd...... i havent. i procrastinated and now it's too late whoopsie. i'll just have to wing it fuckkkk 🥴#ofc it also has to be 8.45 .. so early in the morning for me im so mad ahhhhh i dont wanna go i am throwing up and screaming#but atp i'd have to pay $35 myself for not going so that will motivate me enough to force myself to go
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prophecyofgray · 4 months ago
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guy who can't go five minutes without having a Project. finished the second draft of my fantasy book back in june and wrote an entire first draft of my novella in july so im currently on hiatus from both of those and im losign my mind. i Need a Writing Project. yes i have a screenplay that i should start writing. no im not doing it
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phagodyke · 24 days ago
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the masculine urge to take a saucepan off thr draining board and bash myself repeatedly over the head with it until I pass out and no longer have to experience feeling Bad 😍
#struggling to tolerate this one ngl its fucking dire this weekend. i just cant do this man#thr things i would fucking do for attention please. just one person to notice and care in the slighest i feel like im losing my fucking#mind out here how does every single person who has ever mattered to me in my lifr see me in distress and choose to ignore it or maybe they#dont even recognise im ij distress in the first place i dont know whats worse i dont think i hide it well at all im just so done#listen like ultimately its fucking fine. i will get myself through it like ive gotten myself through everything else in my fuckijg life#i dont even feel bad that often these days im doing so so so much better and its so much more tolerable to only have to deal with this#once or twice a week instead of it being a struggle every single day like i dont think i could go back to feeling like that again ever i#dont know how i managed to get througyh it before jesus fucking christ. but i can deal with it i can deal with this#ik ill feel fine tomorrow. its just thr fact im so desperately fucking alone with it that makes it so much worse than it has to be#i fucking hate repression i hate being so incapable of expressing myself that its easier for me to injure myself than it is to talk about#how i feel to anyone i hate being trapped in this stupif fucking torture labyrinth and not knowing how to get out of it and never being#given a single avenue anything to hold onto i hate having to do it alone every single fucking time and when i do try i just freeze out#entirely i cant form a coherent thought my brain enters total fucking shutdown pure static white noise fuzz and i dont know why please#its so unfair i dont think its that much to want a little comfort. just once just for someone to stay with me while i cry it doesnt have#to be more than that i just dont want to be alone like this i just want to feel safe around someone just close to someone just once#and well ill survive without it bc i always have i guess. so far at least. and there are many things im grateful for and i do in general#feel pretty okay my life is pretty good at times even. i feel so pathetic and stupid and ashamed for even feeling like this#but do i have to go my entire life without ever experiencing any kind of real intimacy with another person emotionally that is#i mean physical is nice too and they go hand in hand in some ways but i just want to feel seen and safe over anything.im tired#i feel like i try.but not hard enough i know its all my fault really but i dont know how to try any harder but nothing will ever change if#i dont i cant expect anyone to do anything if i cant rven communicate in thr first place. oh i dont want to think about it anymore#i have a headache from crhing and its not even 8pm ugh. okay. well it is what it is.#ill breathe until i calm down and then tidy up whatever i left in the kitchen and get my work stuff ready for tmr#and polish my boots maybe. and read and go to bed at 9:30 i think. and ill feel fine in the morning#my fault for thinking about it earlier i know i shouldve nipped it earlier on its such an easy spiral to fall into i need to get better#it happens. okay anyway. no cause for concern im good guys. weakly thumbs up at the camera all covered in blood#my period is late actually thats probably all this is lmao. makes sense thinking abt it#cant wait for it to finally start and all earthly desire to leave my body so i never experience pain again amen#.vent#ignore this sorry for being mentally ill im not even that mentally ill anymore so no excuse rly ummmm. bit embarrassing innit.
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mothpile · 7 months ago
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GRAHGGH I LOVE PROJECT HAIL MARY !!!! (65% through rn) GRAHHHHH ITS SO GOOD I LOVE SCIENCEEEEE
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cherubchoirs · 1 year ago
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What if Gabriel was still able to calm Micheal even after his fall?
Like what starts as what they both assume as a fight to the death ends up being just them talking over there issues while battling and then eventually them both exhausted just finding a common ground.
Also what if Raphael invited Gabriel over for what Gabe thinks is just gonna be Raphael yelling at him but it ended up just being them haveing a nice dinner(?) Or what ever angels have equivalent and they just have a nice night like old times.
the agony of michael, as he is now, isn’t something easy to describe, but it is something gabriel understands implicitly because of how he once knew him. his fury is terrible, he has given himself entirely to being an angel of divine punishment who has seemingly lost all sense of the love he once held, but gabriel knows, very early into their fight, this isn’t the case whatsoever. it would be better if it was. it would be better if michael was unthinking and driven by instinct now alone. but when gabriel hears his words, when he bears the insults and hatred michael spews at him, when he feels the unforgiving crack of his chains eager to bind him to the floors of hell, he only sees what he has seen a thousand times from michael – words that cope, actions that soothe when his cruel reality can no longer be reconciled with his faith. worse than they’ve ever been, burning out himself and everything he touches, but how could they not be? what else could suffice with what he’s become?
gabriel sees it all, tears threatening to freeze his eyes closed even as he fights for his life against an angel that once may have been more powerful than him. michael is relentlessly tortured, he is screaming out in a litany of unfathomable grief that not a single soul can answer – he is alone in his vile state, calling out in anguish for help that can never come. he must prove he is michael, once the prince of heaven and not just a wretched, rotting corpse that has defiled his memory, has shamed the beautiful, venerated images of when he was whole and divine. he wants none of this, he wants his body back and he wants gabriel with him in heaven, but that��s not his reality. he sees only the fetid meat just the same as a husk of hell, worm-eaten and threadbare. those choices play out over and over as if he is a ghost, how he left them all, how he severed his own light, regrets, mistakes, stupidity, devouring him as surely as the rot consumes his body. and gabriel understands his wrath for what it really is – grief. unspeakable, incomprehensible grief. repentance for his noxious form. bitterness toward all who survived. perfect hatred of the self. he did this. he did this. he did this. his words form like an elegy, the natural, melodic quality of his voice a dirge. he did this.
gabriel knows the affliction he’s reaching out to is unknowable to him, certainly to raphael and uriel in their still pristine state, yet he reaches nonetheless. because he recognizes michael in all his decay, he sees the prince of archangels in his blighted body – not a single other in the whole host of heaven would ever deign to be brought so low for their love, for their service. michael lives on in the body of a martyr, this body that gave itself wholly to god and to all of heaven in an effort to save them. and it’s time to stop. it’s time for it to have peace. it’s had enough, this tortured body and the angel still inside of it, and gabriel needs michael to end this now. there is despair in his voice but there is anger too, that michael still refuses to let go of his cruelty and loathing, his vicious condemnation of the damned that had always driven him to ugly extremes. he must accept his mourning now, accept that he grieves for what he’s done to himself and that it’s not the fault of the sinners; that he still harbors a deep, smothering guilt for what he did to lucifer and that he never wanted to lose him. please, there is no god left for him to tear himself apart for, there is no faith that deserves to have taken so much of him, and he can’t allow his misery to consume any more than it already has. he is still michael, and his body deserves its chance to rest.
michael wouldn’t come down easily, but gabriel’s words cut through all the noise of his own, ringing clear in his ears even if they come in the harsh language of hell. they likely would go to exhaustion, until they have reached the point of collapse, but gabriel won’t allow michael to retreat, to regroup and to hide himself from his eyes. stay, and let them see each other, let gabriel look at him again...because he’s missed him, and he hopes michael felt the same of his absence. he doesn’t care, gabriel’s accustomed to the halls of hell now – whatever michael looks like is nearly immaterial to him aside from the suffering it causes his sibling, only interested in being in his presence again, touching him again (even if now he can’t feel it). and if a good ending is possible, it starts here, with gabriel in all he’s learned from his fall and refusing to see michael as anything other than old angel that’s been worn too thin.
AND as for the little bonus with raphael, i definitely think of something like that happening – raphael is certainly upset with gabriel and went through a period of abandonment after his fall, but ultimately he decides preserving their relationship far outweighs whatever god may have felt about it. it’s. an INSANE feeling for him, to prioritize what he must view as selfish motivations over the order of god’s will, but...he can’t lose gabriel. he refuses. he won’t lose anyone else, not when so much has fallen apart. and when he discovers so little has truly changed about gabriel, he doesn’t see the point in shunning him purely on principle. they are past all that, surviving in a world where they may be living past their time entirely. so gabriel is shocked when all raphael wants is a nice evening with him, to talk about so many things that they lost the time for all those years ago. and he’s okay with it? with gabriel’s state, with his place in hell and how he denies it? to which raphael can finally only shrug, telling him that nothing makes sense anymore really. following the old ways without thought feels meaningless and mindnumbing while making his own choices feels frightening and offensive. but. all he really has is his own heart now, and that heart is with his family wherever they go.
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orpheusilver · 4 months ago
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im very sorry for this. but im thinking abt how he mirrors madi as well
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apotelesmaa · 6 months ago
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I think the fact that u can just get prescribed ssris without being told about side effects to watch out for and then have your dose raised and suddenly have your mental health absolutely tank is. So funny. Absolutely incapable of feeling emotions to the point where all of my relationships are fucked (unable to feel affection/love) my academic career is fucked (unable to feel any sense of urgency towards assignments/attendance) my Everything Is Fucked (unable to gauge emotional well-being until things are actually hazardous) but at least I also can’t feel the Consuming Despair. Giving zombie realness. Going through the motions pilled. Apathymaxxing.
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batsplat · 4 months ago
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if you could change the outcome of any 3 motogp races (the outcome of the championship doesn’t change regardless tho) which ones would you chose?
one of those asks that immediately made me forget every single race I've watched in my life. it's a tough one, especially with the championship thing... I'm gonna add another criterion here and say nothing to do related to injury/death
so... I came up with one quite quickly, then got stuck, then came up with a second and got even more stuck. I'm quite reluctant to change any 'plot-relevant races' in the context of specific careers and rivalries, plus I'm ideologically opposed to stealing any win off a non-alien and giving it to an alien. which then kinda left me?? well. stuck. I don't like these picks but well maybe I'll come up with something better at some point
assen 2018: I simply could not come up with a third race so I'll just throw this one in. dovi + valentino really really should have gotten onto the podium in this race, those were extremely podium-worthy performances, it was such a deeply silly incident between the pair of them that took them out of podium contention. also it's still seen as a classic race and... I don't even begrudge the two beneficiaries for their podium, it's just one where the three best riders that day didn't end up on the podium and I would change that!! I don't even really care that much but also look I had a spot to fill. would've enjoyed the rancid podium vibes, it's what a race of that quality deserved
sepang 2018: just deeply annoying? like, I think it was a super impressive performance, the consistent lap times trick from a 78 year old was very neat, it was cute when jorge did unprompted valentino prop for metronome solidarity reasons, it's one of literally two premier class races where valentino crashed out of the lead so I don't even hold it against him. but... well, that one might have been building to a battle between marc and valentino, and it would've been fun to see that! not least because of location + relationship vibes in 2018. I'd change the result in preventing the crash, don't really care who wins after that point - hey, they can crash each other out if they want. I Just Wanted To See It
styria 2020: bit of a niche one but I remember being pissed off by this so I'm going with it - this should have been mir's win without the bloody red flag. now I'm very sorry that maverick was just having an abysmal time in austria, peace and love to him, I'd probably never step foot in the country again after the eight days he had in that country.... but still, his bike attempting to murder him did ruin what really should've been joan's first win. I'm very defensive of mir's win stats and I was supporting the title bid with zero wins agenda once that looked plausible, but now that he's just gotten stuck on one win for quite a few years... well, again, I do think it's kinda iconic but I'd also let him have two. and back then he wasn't even really looking like a title contender and was still going for his FIRST win.... I was feeling very sorry for him so. there
#//#brr brr#batsplat responds#the way I struggled with this you'd think I've never been upset by a race in my life#idk I do usually come around on most results for narrative purposes? like I can talk myself into vibing with most results#in THIS sport mind u in Certain Other Sports I've spent the last two and a half years screaming crying throwing up#anyway with the alien seasons I'd go with 'change all the technical regulations and start again' but that feels like a different question#I had a few where I was like 'well misano 2008 could've been more interesting if casey hadn't crashed'#or 'the 2009 title fight would've had a more exciting conclusion if jorge hadn't crashed phillip island 2009'#but like... both those mistakes are kinda interesting? also in that era there's no guarantee you'd actually get an interesting race#I had a moment where I was thinking 'oh but you could give sete a win post-2004' and... no? sorry but no#scrolled through all the results from 2000 to 2005 and went 'no these are all Perfect Actually'#I mean maybe I'd steal melandri's wins but that also seems incredibly petty. valentino levels of petty. can't do that#also was thinking mugello 2016 give valentino a functioning engine but that IS already a classic race so I won't touch it#or sachsenring 2012 would've been more fun if casey had not crashed but well. idk it's notable he DOES crash. kinda juicy#or silverstone 2015 marc's crash but to me 2015 is quantum locked like you can't really touch anything there#le mans 2017 pissed me off at the time but also. *shrug* whatever#jerez 2018 + catalunya 2019 were annoying because they ruined an already dire title fight picture#but I can admit how funny those were. especially catalunya#I do also think it's a little bit funny how jorge STILL gets shit over it like that one doesn't have an expiration date I fear#still gets referenced SO regularly. poor jorge
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weaponizedmoth · 5 months ago
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Super tired super burned out but wanting to create so much and yet nothing. Nothing at all. Aaaaa it's driving me nutssssss
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cesarescabinet · 8 months ago
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Idk if this is a hot take or not but I don't get The Cure's reputation of being a depressing band when The Smiths' discography is far more uniform in the absolute misery.
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chitaquagirl · 1 year ago
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just saw rina sawayama. feeling rly not normal abt it
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fingertipsmp3 · 7 months ago
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Also I can’t figure out if my life genuinely does suck or I’m just having an existential crisis because my period starts in approximately 48 hours
#it does make me worse ngl. i wish i could just yeet my uterus#i was just starting to think about how all my days are the same and it’s boring and i’m boring#and i never see anybody or meet new people or make new friends#working from home is all well and good until it makes you want to [redacted]#and you all can say ‘just leave your house!’ as much as you want but living in a small town and having no car is not really conducive#to getting myself out there#i mean my town literally has about a dozen businesses and half of them are sad pubs. the others are like hair salon; co-op; church; butcher#2 takeaways. and yeah there’s parks but all of them are kind of dire#maybe i could start getting the bus places. going somewhere else. idk#i have been thinking about taking a trip but wherever i go i still take myself and it’s like i’m in this state of permanent malaise#too nervous to talk to anyone and too impatient to linger anywhere or enjoy anything#everything i do i rush through so i can do something else#and i think amongst it all i’m just reckoning with the fact that i’m never going to be remarkable. i mean neither is anyone else really#but i always thought i’d write a novel or become a college professor or something but i’m not smart enough and i don’t have enough words#or ideas in me. not really. i’m not a creative i’m just an imitator. always have been#and i could live with being unremarkable because we all are in the cosmic universe but i still don’t think i can live with rotting#in my hometown. but then it’s like how do i get out?#i signed up for an online course just to vary things a bit. just to get some enrichment in my enclosure#it’s this slow realisation that i thought i Wanted to work at home. i thought i liked the peace of it. just me and the computer screen#but no i like to work outside and then come back to my home as my sanctuary. i have to leave it sometimes to really appreciate it#but no one wants to hire me for an intellectual job because i’m not actually that smart. and my body is too broken to work in hospitality#anymore. or is it. i mean for god’s sake i can run three times a week but i don’t trust myself to be able to stand for hours#i’m thinking about throwing myself on the mercy of my old boss like hey. i fucked up. do you have any shifts for me? i’ll do weekends#i just don’t want to lose my fucking mind#maybe i’ll text her tomorrow. the worst thing she can say is no#personal
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bijoumikhawal · 2 years ago
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I know not everyone even thinks about Hebitians this way at all but whenever I see a fic where there's like. A mass religious conversion of Cardassians to the Oralian Way (with no discussion of like. This being a minority culture Cardassians actively oppressed that is considered another "people"/nation) I feel so annoyed and baffled. That's not how cultures work, it's not how this dynamic plays out. I know that there's some basis for this in ASIT from Palandine, but Palandine is an aristocratic class Cardassian so when she says "wow I bet Hebitian culture could heal us" you should take that as her overstepping and pedestalizing Hebitians, not as something that makes sense- and Garak is not the best point of connection for good ideas either as he also pedestalizes Hebitians to the point of rejecting a sense of community with him because of his violent past even though no one else agrees with that.
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witherbythesword · 8 months ago
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Sometimes i think back to my primary physician at a time discouraging me to go a psychatrist to get mental health meds because "these meds often make you gain weight and you are already overweight" after I disclosed to him I was truely dealing with suicidal ideation. Man really said "As your healthprofessional, I prefer the risk of you killing yourself, over the risk of you gaining weight."
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lunarcry · 1 year ago
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cried so much during our happy ending im absolutely exhausted now. writing will wait for another day
anyway moe shousuke ↓
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bandomgay · 1 year ago
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