#so if yall enbyphobic

[dusk-the-cat]

Hello :3

Hi! You can call me Dusk\Lucid\Max. I am new to tumblr and probably won’t be posting much here. I am a demigirl and calicogender, so I go by they\calico\her pronouns(preferably they\them or calico\calicoself.) This is just a general account for me.

Link to art blog: https://www.tumblr.com/the-cannibal-werecoyote

I’ll post most of my art there (and maybe some of my warrior cats fanfiction)

SFW INTERACTION ONLY I AM A MINOR

Will Wood, Lemon Demon, and Tally Hall enthusiast!

Also, I know this section originally said “no discussion of politics!!!” But after recent events, I just can’t not talk about it. However, I will tag my political post differently than my other so the tag will be easier to avoid. (#🔵)

DNI IF YOU’RE:

-A zoo

-A Zionist (Fuck you)

-A homophobe ( including but not limited to aphobes, transphobes, enbyphobes, ect.)

-Someone with a harmful paras\supporters of harmful paras (NON-HARMFUL paras can still interact.)

-A map

-A proshipper

-A radfem

-Anti-neopronouns\anti-xenogender

-endos\any “systems” not caused by trauma

-FAKECLAIMERS! *

-Anti-nonhuman\alterhumans

-A radqueer

-An ableist

-Anti self-ship

-gender critical

-Trump supporter\voted for trump

-Elon supporters

-Conservatives

-Against “confusing” identities (Example: Lesboys, gaygirls [apologies if it’s the wrong term], non-dysphoric trans people, ect.)

-An exclusionist

-Generally anything hateful like that

I will not engage in debates\arguments with those in my dni

Clownhammer and RadioApple dedicated blogs also dni. If you ship it that’s fine, but I don’t want any blogs entirely dedicated to either ship interacting. I put this part separately because I don’t think what yall do is morally wrong and it felt weird grouping you with the racists, transphobes, ect.

PLEASE INTERACT IF YOU’RE

-A (sharing) selfshipper who shares my f/o

-Like any of my interest

-Are one of my irl friends

That’s all pretty much it! I hope that you have an amazing day <3

*Yes, this includes fakeclaiming when it comes to alterhumans, orientations, gender identities, AND disabilities

[decayingskullfox]

Just want to mention

If you support/use the label mspec lesbians, bi lesbians, pan lesbians, omni lesbians, etc.

Do not interact with me. The label mspec lesbians is harmful

If you are a man, or are attracted to men in any way, you are not a lesbian.

If you like all genders but have a preference for nonmen, you cannot call yourself a lesbian

Common Arguments I've heard:

"But Bi doesn't mean you like men! Just two or more genders!!"

Okay so what's a pan lesbian then?

Pan means you are attracted to people regardless of what they identify as. This can include men.

Besides, bi people have gotten accused of being 50% gay and 50% straight. The labels Lesbian and gay are a homoromantic (gay) label, not a multi-spec one. You are not only harming lesbians, but bi people are well.

"We are including trans and nonbinary people by using the label mspec lesbian!"

I know the definition of a lesbian varies, but it says "woman loving woman, nonbinary loving woman, nonbinary living nonbinary, etc"

In case you didn't know, the lesbian label already includes trans women and nonbinary people. By claiming it doesn't, and making a new label that causes more harm than good, you are being transphobic and enbyphobic.

"If a man thinks lesbians are attracted to men, that's their fault! Not ours!"

Yes, but you're not exactly helping by using the label.

If someone said that lesbians are attracted to men in some percent, whether 1% or 99%, someone could believe that. And when they meet a lesbian, a man could hit on them, despite them not being attracted to them.

You are not helping by using the label mspec lesbian

"Why do you care anyways? It's just a label! People should be able to use whatever label they want without someone saying "Hey you can't use that!"

"Why can't I say I'm a black person even though my skin tone is white? It's just a label!"

"Why can't I say I'm a trans gay person when I'm cis and hetero? It's just a label!"

"Why can't I say I have PTSD even though I don't? It's just a label!"

See what's wrong here? By saying "It's just a label!" You are saying "People can use whatever label they want despite said label is not for them to use!"

According to your logic, a gay man can say he is a lesbian. After all its just a label.

A homophobe can say they are trans and gay. After all it's just a label!

Oh, it's bad for them to use labels offensively? But wait! I thought you said it was just a label!!

The label "Lesbians is for a nonbinary person, woman, loving another nonbinary person, or woman." Men are not included in the label lesbian. Mspec lesbians are throwing the idea that men can be into lesbianism, and guess what! We have shit like lesboys, and straight-lesbians! But I guess it doesn't matter does it? After all, It's jUsT a LaBeL!

(Apologies for getting a bit personal and angry there)

"What if a trans man comes out as trans but doesn't want to lose the lesbian label?"

(Yes this was an argument I've gotten)

Lemme say it so yall can hear it

TRANS MEN ARE MEN

TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN

If a trans man comes out as trans, they are no longer a lesbian since they are not a woman. They can just say they are straight. (Yes, not every trans person is homoromantic. Some are trans but they are hetero. And that's fine!!)

Saying "He's a trans man but identifies as a lesbian!" Is transphobic. He is a man; if you're saying he is a lesbian, you're saying he is not man/ being lesbiphobic.

"But we don't have a label to use!" Or, "We are using the split attraction model!"

Simple:

"I'm bisexual but with a preference towards women!"

"I'm romantically attracted to women, but sexually attracted to all genders!"

"I like guys and girls, but prefer guys on the romantic side"

Or if that's too hard, just say you're bi. Or pan. Or omni

You don't need to create a harmful label that contradicts both labels.

Lesbian is not an umbrella term.

Lesbian doesn't include men

If you are attracted to men you are not a lesbian

If you are a man you are not a lesbian

Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk

[redhairandpronouns]

firstly just wanna say that i did not purposefully exclude asexuals, i made the graphic at like 3am and was not expecting it to get notes- asexuals/aromantics are def included in spirit. (and anyone else who didnt see their labels on here- yall included too)

i believe you misunderstand the intentions of this post as well. it was not made to jab at people who choose solid/concrete labels for themself, i made it to criticize people like transphobic gays or enbyphobic trans people or any queer people who exclude other queer people to try to get points from the bigots

also regarding punks and furries: ppl have said it probably better than i have in the notes, but they're both seen as the same (or at least a very similar) genre of degenerates. also, a very large percentage of the furry community is queer, to the point where furry hate is pretty much very thinly veiled queerphobia (or ableism).

i also apologize for the misunderstanding that pansexual is for people who don't like the word bisexual- theyre incredibly similar labels, but the differences between them are important to some people. again, i wouldve included more labels (omnisexual, pansexual) but i was very tired when i made it & thought it would get 2 notes max. new labels dont mean the old ones are bad, it means they might not fit just right and that's okay

the original post was me being frustrated at other queers being so concerned in respectability politics that they begin to exclude other queers to try to "fit in".

none of this is directed at you i just hope to clear up this misunderstanding

was thinking about infighting and like. they all see us the same. from the wildest queerest fagdyke to a cis gay guy. we are the same to them. the weird queers are not like. ruining your precious community. we're a part of it

[midnightmystical]

I guess I'll say some To1 related updates

-Chan liked all 3 of Chihoon's post exit songs on Soundcloud

-Lim (ex World Klass) came out as NB& uses all pronouns

-That one pic the company uploaded on the new website isn't actually new (Jaeyun's hair is blonde in it)

-That pic still has Woonggi on it so that's a plus (wouldn't be surprised in the slightest if SnakeOne pulls an MLD 😒😒😒)

-(As of 5pm EST Jun 8th) Chan has deleted his Soundcloud pfp //I wouldn't put it past SnakeOne that it ends up being something bad//

[vampish-glamour]

Okay so I think we all know about this post.

Op put in the notes:

What??? We’re bringing dysphoria discourse into a conversation about homophobia/lesbophobia?? How is a post about bigotry “not for transmeds”? Especially when there’s lesbian transmeds? Since I’m technically a transmed, and I’m a lesbian... I guess I’m just not supposed to comment on something that directly affects me because I have differing opinions. 🤷‍♀️

Op is a nonbinary lesbian apparently (meaning this topic affects me and every other lesbian transmed far more than it affects them, since they aren’t actually a lesbian...yet they don’t want us speaking on their post because of our opinions...) so I’m not surprised that they try to shut everyone up who doesn’t agree with them on a single topic—even when there’s a chance for coming to an agreement on the statement that “homophobia is bad”.

Also, this was the first thing I saw when I went to check the blog;

Okay, thank you!! So I’m allowed—as a lesbian—to protect the word “lesbian” as a woman exclusive term, and not be called a bigot?? Awesome. Uwu.

Anyways, stop trying to push transmeds out of important conversations just because you’re upset we actually acknowledge what it means to be trans, and what it means to be a lesbian.

[stellar-queer-kye]

Okay but why doesn't anyone know how to research themselves

Every time you try and argue with a transphobe, enbyphobe, truscum, etc half the time their only responses are to ask for shit they can look up and find out themselves.

Like if y'all care so much to see the proof, scientific proof, etc you bitch about wanting so much, you could easily search yourselves.

Trans, enby, LGBT people, etc are not here to do research for you, especially not if it's something we already know and understand.

It gets tiring when y'all expect us to cater y'all with shit like that.

Seriously, do your own fucking research or go the fuck away.

[cruisingheightswithdragons]

Someone: ngl I’m blunt. I’m honest. I’m unbiased, and that’s just how I am!

Translation: I do have a bias and I’ve just made it seem like me being rude to people is the Right Thing because it’s me. I’m always right because I say so.

[meepandmorp]

game developer: this character is nonbinary

cis gamers: im fubking shakign what does this mean I dont understamd o_O

[xaugust-rosesx]

a bit about me:

-i go by august, atlas, flynn & bee

-i'm bigender (faesari & elfengender)

-i'm omnisexual

-i use they/them & fae/faer pronouns (please respect that!)

-i'm a MINOR! yall please remember that

-i'm an aquarius!!

-i have a bf!! this is their account: @north-infinity <3

please dni if you fall under any of the following:

-anti-lgbtq+

-predator/p*deophile

-homophobic

-enbyphobic

-xenophobic

-transphobic

-ableist

-TERF or any exclusionists of the sorts

-racist

-sexist

-n*zis

-trump supporters

-or if you're just a sucky person

active side blogs:

late-night-thoughts-and-regrets

soft-sprinkles

it'd be amazing if you could go check them out and follow them to support me! <3

i'll probably add more to this but this is enough for now

i love you all so so much /p my lovelies! stay safe and stay amazing! <333 please look after yourselves!

-bee 🐸

[starrrbitz-movedtonewblog]

(OLD) DNI BANNER + BLOG RULES

I've been meaning to make a DNI banner for this blog too after I made one for my UT/DR side blog, cause I have to block so many fuckers on this site, and that doesn't even include spam and porn bots. So here we go...

DNI if you're...:

- kink/NSFW/porn blogs (there are minors who follow my blog so please don't)

- incest shippers (this includes adoptive siblings and step siblings)

- pedo shippers (aging a child character up or aging and adult character down still doesn't change that it's still gross you disgusting fucks)

- homophobic, biphobic, panphobic, transphobic, aphobic, enbyphobic, intentionally misgender trans/enby folk or gatekeep labels (like saying bisexuality is panphobic or pansexuality is biphobic, or making fun of less recognized genders/sexualities or neo pronouns)

(basically if you're lgbt phobic in general, stay away from my blog)

- racist, sexist, anti-semitic, islamophobic

- fatphobic, ableist (includes neurodiversity), body shaming of any kind

- TERFs, rad fems, truscum, NAZIs

- anti antis, anti sjw, exclusionists

- pro shippers, MAPS/PEARS (yall are just pedophiles and aren't a part of the lgbtq+ community okay get fucked)

If you do any of the above, but you reblog my art or posts anyway, I will message you privately to take it down and then I will block you.

If you get aggressive or say no or try to make excuses, I will block and report you.

If you send me hate about these rules in the form of asks or messages or submissions, I will ignore and delete your dumbass messages, and I will block and report you.

If you cause drama and start fights about these rules in the notes of my posts, I WILL DELETE YOUR COMMENTS, BLOCK AND REPORT YOU

In short, If you do any of the above, LEAVE MY ART AND BLOG ALONE!!

I will not be taking any goddamn excuses or clownery from anyone, and I will be monitoring this blog and those who follow even more than before.

Those who are following these rules already, stay safe and on guard and please don't argue with these people or send hate to them. Trust me it's best to just block them, for your own sanity.

That's all, thanks for reading.

Edit: After a lot of months of ignoring it, I decided to add this:

DNI with ANY of my content if you are a Dream stan, support dreamsmp, and other mcyt who support him. I am not interested in them.

Edit: finally decided to put this post under a read more, since it was quite long and it's easier for anyone (who follows the rules) to not have to scroll past a wall of text to get to my blog's actual content.

[Image ID: DNI: kink/NSFW/porn blog, incest shippers (includes adoptive and step siblings), pedo shippers, anti LGBTQIAP+, misgender trans/enby folk or gatekeep labels, racist, sexist, anti-semitic, islamophobic, fatphobic, ableist (includes neurodiversity), body shaming, pro shippers, MAPS/PEARS. End ID.]

[Image ID: DNI: Dream stans, youtubers who support dream, mcyt stand, dsmp stans. End ID.]

[armillary-spheres-lover]

Hey

Idk if you ever got the answer to your thing. But I’m a person who is queer but regularly uses the term lesbian to make things simpler. I can tell you why I hate the phrase monosexual- it feels transphobic to me- I am not attracted to men at all, but I am attracted to women, non-binary folks, gender queer folks, and agender folks. If I was with a partner and they transitioned to be a man I would still love them. That wouldn’t change. Sexuality is fluid and calling someone monosexual seems to erase that and really put people in boxes. Everyone has exceptions. And as someone who has identified as bisexual and pansexual in the past and find those not to suit me and fit right (especially since I am not sexually/romantically attracted to people physically/based on appearances- it’s more about personality and what I could do with a person)

I don’t mean this in an antagonistic way, I really hope it doesn’t come off that way(I’m bad expressing myself sorry).

(I’m sorry, I know you’re not trying to be rude. My answer, however, will sound rude and upset because you touched upon some stuff that needs a lot of unpacking to me lmao. Just know this anger is not necessarily directed at you but at biphobia in general.)

Why do bisexual people may need to use the term monosexual?

A. It is descriptive

I see what you mean but as you said you're queer and lesbian is a term to make things simpler, right?

So I wouldnt call you monosexual because you’re clearly not attracted to only one gender (but if you want to who I am to stop you?). Monosexual is someone who is almost exclusively dating/is attracted to people of one gender. There are plenty trans people that are straight or gay that would NOT date a partner if they realized they were a different gender. For real: kat blaque made a video (here it is if youre interested) on youtube about this - she’s trans and she wants to date men and wouldnt feel comfortable on continuing dating if a partner of hers realized they were actually a trans woman all along. She wants to date guys not girls and that's FINE it just means A. She actually recognizes the girl gender, obviously B. She's straight af and that's wonderful! It’s not a box if that’s how her experience is and she likes it that way!

Also how is being monosexual transphobic? Cant a girl just like guys exclusively (both cis and trans) or like girls exclusively (both cis and trans)? It's not even enbyphobic since you dont need to be attracted to a person to support their rights. (Gay men arent attracted to women but can be 100% feminists.) Being open to fuck somebody is not the same as supporting their rights: fetishization is a thing. Again, I refer to the video Kat Blaque made.

Sexuality IS fluid but to some people (like me and you) it is more than others. Some people don’t feel comfortable dating people that dont fall into the gender theyre usually attracted to and thats 100% okay.

B. It helps in talking about biphobia and panphobia in society

Biphobia and panphobia are for the large part based on the assumption that you cant be attracted to more than one gender (not even non-binary and so on) and that if you do you're weird/disgusting/mentally ill/a sexual predator. I can tell you 100% that's the narrative both straight and gay people can and may perpetuate since I struggle w this kind of shit every single time Im attracted to someone no matter their gender (YES, EVEN IF THEY'RE A GUY, BECAUSE THE OTHER DAY I WAS ATTRACTED TO A GIRL AND NOW I FEEL LIKE A FUCKING ANIMAL THAT CANT CONTROL ITSELF, even though it makes NO sense because if it was two girls or two boys the actual number of people my hormones activated to wouldnt change, but it would make my experience not subjected to biphobia!). I’m not saying gay people are the same as straight people. But I do feel alienated BOTH from heteronormative society AND from (subtly biphobic) gay spaces because of my bisexuality. I costantly feel like I’m outside both of those worlds and you know how humans are: I just need a term to encompass it all easily, to say “I don’t identify with any of this” (which is both straight and strictly gay spaces: ie, monosexual). To me is literally the same as saying non-bisexual/non-pansexual.

I dont mean to say lesbians or gays have it easier or are just like straight people. But we do have different experiences and I need terms to express that. It honestly doesnt matter to me if you identify as lesbian or queer (though I think you’re implying you’re more queer than anything). But I do need a term to talk about how society at large treats sexuality; ie, as a monosexual thing. Another concept that’s been thrown around is bi erasure. A strictly monosexual society is bound to view a girl dating a girl (or girl presenting) as if theyre both LESBIANS and erase a queer person the moment they’re in a m/f relationship, because people cant COMPUTE that it may not be the case and that the girl dating a cis straight dude isnt betraying her queerness.To think so is basic biphobia.

In some ways, I think it’s the same as when transgender people started using the term cisgender - which is applicable to both straight people and queer/gay people. They simply needed a term which meant “not-trans” as they were saying “I dont identify with this” (ie the cisgender experience). Does it imply that cisgender people, no matter if queer, have something in common? Yeah, yeah it does. Does it imply that queer people are just the same as straight people, or face no oppression? Of course not. Seeing people being offended upon being called monosexual feels like people being offended upon being called cis to me.

Also, saying that the terms bisexual people use are transphobic is almost implying that bisexuality is inherently transphobic? Or reeks to me of that kind of rhetoric. I use the terms I need to use, just like any other marginilized group does, and nobody outside of that group has any right of denying me that. It’s like I’m trying to create a safe space for myself and people like me and yall come around to judge us YET AGAIN. And I'm just tired of hearing this bullshit. I could accept this kind of criticism only if it came from a trans person themselves, I guess? But it’s not usually trans people who accuse us of being transphobic, in fact, many trans people identify as bisexual and use bisexual terminology lmfao.

“Hearts not parts” rhetoric

Finally, about personality being superior to physical appearance. That's amazing but I do want to note that, not you necessarily, but many people who are into the “hearts not parts” rhetoric are, how can I say this. Slut-shaming people? I’m not sure if you are doing this but I feel it needs to be said just to be sure. A lesbian trans woman can be just attracted to a girl for her physical appearance and just want to fuck her - and THAT'S OKAY. That's fine. I am a sexually attracted to people and that doesnt mean I have to form a deep bond first. Sex positivity is about accepting that people can feel like this and not shame them for this. "Hearts not parts” rhetoric has in the past infantilized, sanitized or outright shamed other queer experiences. It's fine if you feel that way but dont start acting like you're morally superior because of that. That's catholicism with extra steps. My bisexuality its not the symptom of some predatory and animalistic thing that should be purified into something more palatable and less sexual. That’s the same thing they used to say about gay people and now gay (biphobic) people are using this against us. That’s also the kind of thing trans women (especially if they’re sapphic) constantly hear every fucking day. Queer people have a good part of their discrimination rooted in the shaming of purely sexual desires. Forcing ourselves to be more palatable and less sexual is just respectability politics. I’m tired of it. (This is obviously different from being on the asexual spectrum: but you dont see ace people going around pretending they’re morally superior than everybody else, and many are actually very sex positive)   You would still love your partner if they were a different gender: that’s great, but that’s not how some (most) people feel, and they aren’t superficial because of this, just different from you.

Also, I think you’d really benefit from hearing a trans person say they don’t care if someone has genitalia preferences. Here it is. This obviously doesnt mean that every trans person will feel like she does, but it does mean that we can’t generalize trans experiences/preferences/what they feel transphobia is. Just like straight people dont get to say what’s homophobic or not, cis people dont get to say what’s transphobic or not. The definition of those terms relies entirely on the community that is targeted by these things.

I hope this wasnt excessively confusing but I wanted to make my point clear.

[butch-bakugo]

Dni

I never made one but hell why not. Im technically a discourse account so it'll probs be ignored.

Zionists/pro-isreal/anti-palestine

Anti-acab, anti-blm or otherwise support the police system.

Racist, xenophobic( aginest immigration)

Anti-sex worker, serophobic( aginest those with stds)

Anti-#metoo/ dont believe sexual assault vicitms

Homophobic, lesbophobic or otherwise aginest gay and lesbian people having their own community.

Biphobic

Transphobic or enbyphobic

Anti-he/him lesbian or aginest anyone using any pronouns ( hush/hushes was coined to be exclusive to hoh/mute people so if your hearing or speaking and use them regardless you can fuck off)

Anti-neopronouns, anti-it/its( basically try to tell people they cant use them), anti-emoji pronouns, anti-noun pronouns

Transmed/truscum/ dysphoria essentialist

Anti-bigender(male and female) or genderfluid lesbians/gays/straights

Attack t4t exclusive people or trans people who wont date cis people

Attack nb4nb exclusive people nonbinary people who wont date binary people

Attack cuspers/those who are inbetween gay and bi/lesbian and bi

Anti-asexual/anti-aromantic( ace exclues arent inherently anti-asexual)

Arophobic/ say we are loveless. We'll fight.

Racist, anti-land back, harass wp people, demand other people's blood quantums

Anti-two spirit, believe non-indiginous american/indiginous candian people can id as two spirit.

Think two spirit and intersex is inherently lgbt( news flash, we arent)

Endeavor and william afton simps( yall gross)

Terfs, tehms or otherwise transmysognisitc

Trans-androphobic or think trans men/transmasc people have any kind of male privilage

Misogynist or support toxic masculinty

Believe men cant be rape victims or dont support male victims of rape/abuse

Pro-ship/pro-fiction/anti-anti/Dark ship

Ddlg/mdllb/abdl/age player/raceplayer

Fujoshi/fundashi or otherwise fetishize mlm and/or wlw relationships without being mlm and/or wlw.

Support the romantization and fetishization of incest, rape, pedophilia or abuse because its fictional.

Ableist/ Allist/ anti-disabled/anti-autism/ pro-autism speaks

Support the term aspergers when all that means is autistic/ force others to use or support " functioning" labels being pushy on others/ support a " cure" for autism

Endogenic, non-traumagenic system, non-religious tulpa, white tulpa or supporter.

D/A/IRL or expect people to feed harmful delusions.

Bi/pan/mspec lesbian/gay, mspec mono or supporter, imply lesbians can like men or gays can like women.

Anti-kin or Factkin

Anti-xenogenders, anti-neurogenders, anti-kingenders or anti-religiogender.

Support white American Christianity or are a vocal chrisitian. ( i support judaism and islam)

Anti-Semitic, islamophobic, paganphobic

Perisexist/anti-intersex/ pro-cgm

Will be updated as nesseary

[sas-afras]

wait, a transmed said they would WHAT

oh yeah i forget a lot of yall werent around when this happened

basically one day out of the blue this random dude starts messaging me a buuuunch of angry shit about how im transphobic, and how hes gonna skin and eat me, etc etc etc, a bunch of stuff about yes as a character too?? apparently he was mad that i drew yes with boobs considering theyre trans, which, dumb as hell, but also he was upset about something w the white gloves?? i barely remember at this point, it was bonkers tho

found out who it was and the dude ended up being uber racist, sexist, and very VERY enbyphobic (shocker)

anyways after like a couple months dude starts messaging me AGAIN saying im sending him anons (which obviously im not), so i have a feeling the dude is so fuckin obsessed w me that hes sending himself shit or smth. he ended up saying im not trans in the first place which was great but it ended with me blocking him and its been radio silence since

either way i find the entire thing incredibly funny

[urkindawoman]

OK, um I thought I should make a masterlist to help peeps and stuff. (I’m so sorry you had to read that, I’m v socially awk and I wanted to make this for my DII list)

I go by Duchess and for my privacy I’m just gonna say I’m a minor considering I am irl but I’m uncomfortable saying my age so yeah.

She/They, Bisexual, aro.

My main fandoms are The Owl House, Bee and Puppycat, The Umbrella Academy, and IT (all medias of it)

 I like to read books but my favorite’s are ‘Go ask Alice’ and  ‘The Song of Achilles’.

Safe space for LGBTQ+ community, and other marginalized groups.

No pedos, that’s gross. And no trump’s cult followers, ALM, neo-n*zi’s, racists, homophobes, transphobes, enbyphobes ‘cause yall gross too.

DO NOT INTERCT IF:  trump’s cult followers, ALM, neo-n*zi’s, racists, homophobes, transphobes, enbyphobes, anti-blm, pro pedophilia, pro MAPS, MAPS, NSFW blogs, Islamophobic blogs, pro life, pro ED, encouraging ED.

I’m not too confident in my own skin but I think I’m gonna be the baddest bitch out there soon. I sometimes get nausea thinking about food or looking at it so please tag this with ‘TW food’. Don’t be shy to talk to me! I’m DM’s are always open.

Overall, I’m v complicated and not the most unique person out there but I’m trying my hardest so please be patient with me.

[mlm-only-support]

submitter: Ive read this so many times and… Did this person REALLY call trans men “nonbinary” and “special straight girls” ??? the nonbinary and nblm community really do be forgetting binary trans men exist. We exist, we’re not “boring” and “overused” or “too mainstream.” Dont be transphobic towards binary trans men. Jfc. As a binary gay trans man, I dont wanna be put into a space with someone who also identifies as a girl/girl aligned. Im there to bond with other binary gay men. Yall be sounding like straight people trying to wiggle their way into a gay only event. Im not nonbinary because im trans

i believe the original poster was talking about mlm-only blogs who are enbyphobic and call all enby men or enbies in general “special straight girls”. ive seen it quite a bit. but im not a fan of them lumping trans men into the fold with that statement. ive never seen a mlm blog on tumblr call trans men “special straight girls”; theres also only like, 2 mlm-only blogs who are run by cis men, so i dont know what theyre talking about with the “500 other cissies part”. its not a great post all around.

[youdothetalking]

thinking abt how some nonbinary lesbians r nonbinary bc they r lesbians n their connection to womanhood is different from cis lesbians or trans lesbians bc of that reason but also its the lesbianism that connects all of us together n it should not divide us when we literally get left out of everything so shut the fuck up n hug ur he/xem lesbian moot bc yall too enbyphobic n it might b the internalised lesbophobia talking n not U but u gotta apologise when u hurt someones feelings .

it is a complex thought i m not used to these