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ranjith11 · 1 year ago
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Texas Standard Possession Order June 2023 | Law Office of Chris Schmiedeke
🌟Watch This Video, Texas Standard Possession Order June 2023 to know more about June's SPO. The Texas Standard Possession Order (SPO) is a set of guidelines commonly used in Texas family law cases to establish visitation schedules. Remember that specific details and variations of the Texas Standard Possession Order can exist depending on individual circumstances, court decisions, and any modifications made to the original order. For the most accurate and personalized information regarding the Texas Standard Possession Order, it is advisable to consult the Texas Family Code or seek guidance from a qualified family law attorney in Texas.
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monicascot · 1 year ago
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Texas Standard Possession Order June 2023 | Law Office of Chris Schmiedeke
🌟Watch This Video, Texas Standard Possession Order June 2023 to know more about June's SPO. The Texas Standard Possession Order (SPO) is a set of guidelines commonly used in Texas family law cases to establish visitation schedules. Remember that specific details and variations of the Texas Standard Possession Order can exist depending on individual circumstances, court decisions, and any modifications made to the original order. For the most accurate and personalized information regarding the Texas Standard Possession Order, it is advisable to consult the Texas Family Code or seek guidance from a qualified family law attorney in Texas.
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sreehari28 · 1 year ago
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The Texas Standard Possession Order (SPO) is a set of guidelines commonly used in Texas family law cases to establish visitation schedules. Remember that specific details and variations of the Texas Standard Possession Order can exist depending on individual circumstances, court decisions, and any modifications made to the original order. For the most accurate and personalized information regarding the Texas Standard Possession Order, it is advisable to consult the Texas Family Code or seek guidance from a qualified family law attorney in Texas.
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march10 · 1 year ago
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Watch This Video, Texas Standard Possession Order May 2023 to know more regarding the SPO for the given period. The Texas Standard Possession Order (SPO) is a set of guidelines commonly used in Texas family law cases to establish child custody and visitation schedules. Keep in mind that specific details and variations of the Texas Standard Possession Order can exist depending on individual circumstances, court decisions, and any modifications made to the original order. For the most accurate and personalized information regarding the Texas Standard Possession Order, it is advisable to consult the Texas Family Code or seek guidance from a qualified family law attorney in Texas.
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phagodyke · 4 months ago
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weekend melancholy is starting to kick in >~<
#im gonna go and do my food shop etc to keep myself busy and hopefully my 2nd meds will kick in and we'll be able to handle it together#i think i kind of do this so regularly bc my brain is just processing everything bc i dont rly have time during the week#all cool tho im doing good overall def on the up n i feel way more capable of coping emotionally which is nice. i <3 meds#also.. possibly settling on the idea that i might be agender. very tentatively. lots of experiences n thoughts coming together rn#ive been reacting in unexpected ways to a lot of gendered shit atm which has made me reconsider the way i think abt myself#but very difficult to articulate it to myself let alone anyone else. so ive been sitting with it for now until it precipitates#gender stuff has never rly affected me much or ive never been in a place to explore it which is why i havent thought abt it super hard#but im not the sort of person who needs a lot of internal exploration to figure out my identity like im v self aware tbh#and while im wildly indecisive abt most things in my life for some reason i never have been abt stuff like this. i learned abt lesbianism#like idk 9 years ago-ish and straight away was like yeah that makes sense for me. never looked back since#n similarly ive experienced forms of gender dysphoria before n just immediately dealt with it symptomatically n moved on#its never been smth to agonise abt for me like i know what makes me comfortable in my skin so theres no question abt doing it#and ik im privileged to be able to do that. and also it helps that gender for me is mostly divorced from external perceptions#+ that im v autistic so social pressures dont stick to me very well. i mean yeah i was bullied for it as a kid but i was stubborn asf#so yeah from the moment i realised i was genuinely uncomfortable/upset abt it earlier this week i was like okay. lets try this instead#its given me pretty instant relief from any distress i was feeling so far which is nice. rare respite from one of my torture labyrinths#just testing out internally whether it frames things more clearly n makes me feel more myself/at peace before i choose to stick w the idea#but not gonna do a whole coming out fanfare either way. dont think i wanna change how ppl interact w me + im still a dyke#so i dont consider it relevant to anyone else unless they share a similar understanding of gender to me. or if we're v close#ill prolly broach it w other trans friends eventually bc insert philosophers talking image. but to everyone else its business as usual#happy to play my cis-sona at work. + w new queer ppl i meet ive been introducing myself recently w mirrored pronouns instead of any/all#and i think i prefer that. virtually indistinguishable but theres smth nice abt inviting ppl to recognise me the way they do themselves#like translating + localising a non-gendered language into a gendered one... simplifying decisions abt how to perceive me#and ofc ppl are still gonna perceive me however but idc much unless we're actually friends. the rest is all a performance anyway#doubtful anyone on here ever has reason to refer to me but if u do for some reason... im freeloading off ur pronouns now btw <3#but yeahhh. much 2 think abt. i need to read more alien/ai sci fi.. non-human sentience has been such a comforting concept lately#but yea tldr i woke up one morning this week like damn im prolly agender but i have a full time job to go to rn so idc abt that#.diaries#okkkk my dex is kicking in im no longer on the verge of tears lets go get these groceries wooohoooo
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cherubchoirs · 9 months ago
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I'm sure you've seen that post about Gabriel finding out how V1 sees him, this post in case you haven't, it's pretty funny.
I was thinking though, what about the opposite of that? What if when V1 and Gabriel were in a safe space together V1 chooses to crank up it's graphics and look around. Partially since it gets a chance to actually look at how things are without having to worry about someone getting the drop on it in such an inefficient state but also so it can look at Gabriel in his entirety. A kind of love language exclusive to machines.
It's most likely that V1 probably wouldn't be able to articulate what it's doing to Gabe or that it's a form of trust/compassion, but what would Gabe think of it anyway?
GOOD POST....and yes i absolutely love this little thought...v1, as a war machine, likely doesn't even consider its capacity to have improved "eyesight" and would never otherwise utilize its higher resolutions. it's set at what it considers to be optimal, not only as it conserves its power properly but also because simplifying its field of vision is actually highly beneficial to the chaotic combat of hell. but being with gabriel makes it consider a whole world of things it never could before, its mind growing rapidly in unexpected trajectories and producing thoughts and feelings of a complexity far beyond what it was ever meant to be. and something like this, though it seems small or simple, is relinquishing its capacity to fight in that moment which should be against every protocol v1 has. yet gabriel takes its priority, overriding such concerns to be deemed more important...to be deemed safe from combat-readiness. it sees him in full clarity with a rush of its vents, hot air blasting through fans as gabriel as he truly is renders in its vision - the radiant gold of heaven, the pearlescent armor highlighted in luminous rainbows, gabriel himself gently lit from the inside in a form so solid yet gently shimmering as though on the edge of being a mirage. his wings and halo are unlike anything it's seen, light made manifest, air and glass melded together into brilliant blue hues that contain an entire spectrum within them when they shift - he is full of light and color, and all it wants is to process every pixel of him when it sees what's it's missed all this time.
gabriel is a bit worried at first, v1 going so still and so hot never being a good sign, but soon it's looking all around him in different angles, taking him in enthusiastically enough it's no longer too concerning just. unsettling lol it's hard for v1 to explain this to him when he demands to know what's gotten into it, but once it's able to offer a basic idea of how its visuals operate...gabriel is quietly stunned. v1 is so different from himself, from anything god had made, and he had never considered how it sees the world. how special it is to see it now, taking up so much of its capacity just to look at him, to know that it cares to see nothing else in its true reality but him. he even asks it if there's anything else they might look at, but v1 just flippantly shakes its head, that nothing else is worth the effort. what does it care about the world? and for gabriel, that's striking...to be the one thing in the world that v1 wants to remember in true detail, that he will stand out in its mind against a backdrop of polygons and textures clearly divorced from their realities. so he lets it take all the pictures it wants, and his wings show how they can change their color with a very true, very unique sense of love.
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swallowerofdharma · 7 months ago
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©️Kentaro Miura
Miura represents the entanglement of light and shadow - that makes possible any understanding or perception of what constitutes light - by using, among other things, two male characters, not a man and a woman, opposing each other and represented like this. That’s important to notice and relevant for a number of reasons. I have been debating with myself on how to tackle this topic. This is how I understand it, so this is my reasoning only and I am not sharing my thoughts to convince people of something, but just to put down in writing something so apparently simple and so damn complicated.
The description of 陽陰 yinyang originated in China, but it is well known and documented in many East Asian artistic expressions and a concept widely adopted and recognized in Japan. The kanji used are the same characters used in China:
陽 north side of a hill (not facing the sun) - pronounced in or on
陰 south side of a hill (facing the sun) - pronounced yo or myo
These are not rigid ontological categories, but rather representations of dynamic relationships, complementary and necessary bonds inside things that explain the ever changing and evolving nature of the cosmos. Without these dynamics we cannot comprehend reality and the various processes of production and generation, including the production and generation of meaning.
Complementary forces - as we understand them through association - can be: dark and bright, moon and sun, feminine and masculine, earth and heaven.
But again, these are not rigid ontological categories: this is the part that can be confusing. These aren’t absolute and immutable states. When we look at reality, we look at phenomena, everything is a temporary manifestation of the ever changing cycle of birth and death and everything contains the entanglement of 陽陰.
So you see why this isn’t a dualistic doctrine - as we use in the western world - and that man and woman, being temporary physical manifestations or phenomena, have also 陽陰. So to say that you can’t divorce 陽陰 and assign the two opposite energies in a real individual man or a real individual woman in a state of division.
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I would like to know how to explain it so much better than this. I have visualized a sphere and, trapped inside it, there are 陽陰 moving and entangling without pause. If we break the sphere, we haven’t separated 陽 from 陰, but we have broken pieces containing still 陽陰 inside.
So I’ll try to get back to the image of Griffith and Guts. One looks at the heavens and the other at the earth, one is bright and the other is dark. Yet Griffith is often associated with the moon and has more feminine features, while Guts, not specifically associated with the sun but with elves or other bright forces, has more masculine appearance. If you have kept in mind the opposite of 陽陰, you may notice that you can’t split orderly the opposite qualities between Griffith or Guts. For example
dark, moon, night, autumn, feminine, earth, passivity
light, sun, day, spring, masculine, heaven, activity
and I am simplifying a lot here, because these are just some of the possibilities - like tiger and dragon or Miura versions of a falcon and a wolf - and I am not taking into consideration other nuances.
Griffith and Guts represent the fight between opposing forces and their entanglement at the same time, they are in attraction and opposition, but not rigidly divided as one person having all the 陽 qualities and the other all the 陰 ones, because that isn’t how these concepts work. And they are both men. Yet they generate the story of Berserk.
When we read the list of qualities of 陽 and we see femininity associated with negative traits, dark forces and passivity, in a brain that is informed by the rigidity of other traditions and beliefs, we might feel that this is just another example of denigration of the position of ‘woman’. But this isn’t how I understand it - granted I can’t say for sure.
How I see it is that the individuals, as physical manifestations and temporary ones, possess physical forms able to reproduce life through the cooperation between opposites, where one part becomes passive, receptive and the other becomes active, giving. Life - or knowledge - cannot be born without these dynamic interactions. But inside the phenomena, or inside each individuals, we still have those inseparable and opposite forces. They are dynamic, relative, not fixed or absolute. Woman still has 陽陰 and in the encounter with man, she can oscillate between those opposing forces: she can become accepting but doesn’t lose the capacity to be giving. She might enhance her femininity or she might embrace her masculinity. And the same occurs in man.
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There are people who believe that you need to split some parts of 陽陰. They believe that woman should always portray femininity and passivity, always be receptive. They believe that man should never portray femininity and passivity, and never be receptive. But 陽陰 tell me that we are born complete and in a sort of equilibrium, while we have to make adjustments in our individual bodies throughout our lives and circumstances. When we face the will of those types of people, we face a will that puts us in a condition of disequilibrium and unbalance. And that makes us ill. Men suppressing 陽 are doing violence to themselves, but they can be severely punished or ostracized if they don’t. I’ll leave the social commentary at that, but I think that that kind of thinking lacks sufficient wisdom or maybe some people are guided by other preoccupations or motivations.
Please let me know if I made any type of mistake in trying to explain 陽陰. I am not an expert on this subject. Any correction or suggestion will be welcome, I am here to learn! I’ll share also a very useful outline that I have been using to navigate these new concepts: The Two Aspects or Sides of Reality from a Chan/Zen Perspective
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brownbitchshit · 1 year ago
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Review filled with probable unpopular opinions and spoilers.........
Before I start the review,I'd like to say that I went into watching this movie with the absolute mindset that there's no way a book like RWRB (which is one of my most favourite books of all time) can be adapted into a 2 hour long movie and since series wasn't doable, I'll have to make do with this. So I truly went in with the hopes of seeing my FirstPrince and generally getting the heart of the movie. But contrary to what people are saying, I think the movie tried to adapt too much of the book plot and lost the main vibe of the story in the process. As I go into the details and spoilers, I'd like to be clear that they are my opinions only. It's in no way an attack or criticisms on anyone who loved the movie. So please do not take it personally and consider it my ranting.
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1. First problem I have with the movie is how much it tried to adapt of the book. I know, it sounds controversial but lemme explain. The book had too many plots and I personally felt like despite cutting down characters and simplifying some major plot points, the movie tried to show too much of too many plots. In the process, the plots that needed the time to breathe in order to translate the main heart of the story, got lost in translation. For example Henry losing his father, his existential crisis, him being in the closet for the crown. Even though he kept saying he cant be out and everything but the story never really showed what's at stake. Even Stephen Fry's King seemed very harmless which made the entire plot kind of moot. Same goes for Alex. Without his parents' divorce, his entire I don't think I'm good enough vibe just didn't come across. I generally felt like in order to get all the stories across, they didn’t spend any time to capture the fear of them being together, the horror of being out and the repercussions of what it meant and mostly why their characters are more than just 'Privileged public figures who live in palaces'. By not showing Henry's mom they erased the pain and impact he had of losing his father and by not showing June and Alex's parents' divorce,they erased the explanation about his fierceness and determination.
2. I personally was in support of aged-up Alex and Henry simply because it made their love-story more solid. But the problem was despite having aged-up cast, Matthew Lopez tried to keep their characters very true to the book. Which meant at time Taylor Zakhar Perez as Alex looked extremely immature and weird acting like a early 20 something guy when he clearly was not. Also his entire 'They don't like me' 'I don't know if I'm good enough' insecurity seemed childish especially since none of his other issues were shown like his parents's divorce or ADHD. Again I think instead of going through the checklist of getting all the book plots done, they should have explained Alex's background a little more showing why him as a brown man feels this need to be the best, why he finds it so hard to accepted by people. Obviously they mention it, but they never get into it. Which is a shame tbh.
3. Erasing June and keeping Nora while not explaining who Nora is, kind of lightened Alex's character even more. Apart from helping Alex to realize his sexuality, she literally served no purpose. At least if June were there, they could've shown some sibling bonding and a deeper look at Alex's character and explain the whole dynamic of being the first son and daughter of USA while being POCs.
4. The few changes that truly bothered me which served no purpose at all and again changed the tone of the film are Alex's confession scene in the rain and him giving a speech without Henry's input. I don't know why they chose not to give us the passionate reunion when Alex storms into the Kensington and instead cut to the V&A scene because honestly it didn’t make sense. We could do without the V&A scene and instead spend more time on them talking about their feelings more and just spend more time into that moment to build its momentum. It all felt extremely rushed which easily could have been avoided. And also why Alex will choose to come out without Henry and make a speech about their relationship without their input made no sense. It just made it seem like being Bi and dating Henry is easier for Alex and he had no real threat by putting himself out there like that whereas in the book we could feel how vulnerable it made him and how scared they both were when he made the 'America, he is my choice' speech.
Now the things that I liked/loved :
1. The lake scene. The entire scene was so well done, maybe because for once they took the time to slow down and let Henry's emotion show for once. I thought it was more beautiful than it was in the book.
2. Alex's involvement in the politics. If there was one thing that Matthew Lopez did to adjust the plot to Alex's age was this and I personally liked seeing this bit because again for the first time it gave us a glimpse of who Alex was and what his ambitions were which was lacking from the rest of the film.
3. Alex's scenes with his family was spot on. No complain there.
4. Alex and Henry's intimate scenes were well done. Although I wish they were a bit longer and more sensual but I liked it. I am confused though why is this film R-rated (except for TZP's butt scene) because the sex scenes were extremely innocent.
5. Henry when he finds out about the leak. That scene was again well done because they took the time to show the emotion and the heart of the movie.
To sum it up, I feel like the movie tried to adapt too much of the book. I think Matthew truly made the movie like a fan which in my opinion backfired a little. Because I think since this book is too long to be adapted into a movie, the best course of action should've been to capture the main theme of the story and make many changes accordingly. I think he chose to serve the book lovers, which is not a bad way to make an adaptation but I think as a movie, it is what let it down. As the book fan, you probably will be happy to see the plot checklists being ticked in. But as a movie, I found the plots very rushed, characters underdeveloped and underutilized, unnecessary storylines and the love story underdeveloped. Although I would give kudos to Nicholas Galitzine and Taylor Zakhar Perez because they were good as Henry and Alex. I wish Matthew had done a better job with their character development because these two could have really made Henry and Alex into 100% perfection and take the movie to the next level.
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wedesignyouny · 8 months ago
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masschase · 1 year ago
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Some Troy and Casey cousins lore as promised the other day!
I'm basically back to saying this is part of my canon now. It's just in a very different form to the original vague hc I had for them.
Once again, yes, maybe there are AUs where they aren't related, and maybe there are AUs where they know they're related. In fact I kind of need there to be because I need to see a teenage Troy being made to babysit Casey as a baby/toddler; the results are gonna be precious and/or hilarious(I hc her being a pretty chill baby as long as she's fed frequently but like... toddlers in general... uhhh good luck Troy 🤣)!
But main universe, they don't really know. They never really know. Now I really like when aspects of my hc just kind of... fall into place? So here's some parts of Casey's backstory I created for entirely different reasons that link in with this really well.
Casey had limited contact with an uncle on her dad's side who taught her to shoot and fight not long before the events of SR1. The uncle was originally aiming to teach her sister Phoebe, who, presuming Casey was around 13, would have been 17 at the time, but she really wasn't that interested. Casey on the other hand was fascinated. It was her first time having a hobby that was more focused on channelling her feelings into a hobby rather than reading which was a lot more for the purposes of escapism.
Casey has some gratitude towards this uncle, but also some cynicism too. "Never checked we had food in the house but, you know, at least I could shoot a gun and punch out a guy twice my size." she points out. But eventually she does process that it was her mom who might have been keeping that side of the family away from her, and while I never confirmed it, I believe that is indeed what happened(her dad, however, is entirely responsible for his own absence).
I've never really got into why this uncle was particularly skilled at/decided to teach them this stuff, why Elizabetta allowed him contact with them when no-one else was allowed that, or why he was so interested on checking up on the kids. But I'm now suggesting that this man is Troy's dad and I think that in itself goes to some way to explaining it.
This uncle wasn't actually Casey and Phoebe's dad's brother as they were told, he just put it that way to simplify things for these two kids who didn't really know him. They obviously just accepted it because they didn't know their dad in that much detail. He was his brother-in-law. His wife was Casey's blood aunt, and Troy's mom, and she took her husband's surname of Bradshaw while, as I've mentioned in a previous post, her brother took his wife's name of Clark until their divorce.
I definitely hc Troy's dad being a cop. This explains would explain why he would have a reasonable amount of expertise in not just combat but teaching combat to a reasonable level. Troy's dad wanted contact with his nieces partially because he felt some duty of care to them, and also because his wife probably suggested they be subtly checked on. "Teaching them to fight because I've seen a lot of shit happen to young women" or something was a good way to frame it that would explain why it's worth travelling halfway across Michigan for.
The fact that he wasn't actually blood related to Stanisław made Elizabetta a little less concerned about letting her daughters see him. But really, her ongoing paranoia about social services involvement made her more inclined to agree with his request in a way she felt she could maintain control over. Because overall, her kids didn't come across as problem kids if seen outside the house.
It seemed to work in that respect. Phoebe seemed sociable and responsible with some typical teen disinterest, Cassandra was shy and intelligent but came out of her shell a lot as he began teaching her. Even if he did have minor concerns, his wife would probably tell him it was fine based on what he'd told her.
Troy's mom was not uncaring about her nieces, not at all. But with a house full of teenagers, pushing for contact with two small children was never her priority. Once her children were grown? Yeah, she may have had some concerns, but unless they were in actual danger, she wasn't going to get involved with a situation where she might end up taking responsibility for them. I hc her having had an OK relationship with her sister-in-law in the past, so less reason for concern. The relationship between her and Stanis I think could be a post in itself, but I think they weren't super close as siblings go, I think again the age gap factored into that.
What does Casey know about her cousins? Pretty much nothing. Her mom didn't allow it. She doesn't know their names. She's never seen a picture. She once asked her mom about them upon seeing a schoolfriend who was close with their cousin, only to be basically told "they're adults, they don't wanna come play with you", so she knows they're all older. By the time she's an adult and could reasonably go looking, she's so disaffected with her family she doesn't do so. Bear in mind that even when her grudge against her sister (who she loves very much) for leaving her with their mom was let go, she still doesn't visit often due to 'not wanting to be around her perfect family'. I make it pretty clear she has issues around stuff like that which she knows she just can't have due to her line of work. When you add in the fact she's secretly got some shades of social anxiety, going to see cousins in their 30s/40s who she's never met and potentially ending up sitting with their perfect little families is her idea of hell. So she never makes contact.
What does Troy know about his cousins? He knows their names. Phoebe, Cassandra. He saw a couple of photos of them that their mom allowed his mom to have before he left home, when they were still pretty young. He would assume they have their dad's second name, Kendziorski, just due to that being more common and knowing their parents were married (his mom making mention of an ex-sister-in-law). He has other young cousins; his uncle's even younger children/Casey's half siblings if he has interest in that sort of connection. But honestly I doubt he's that interested either.
Neither of them know the right things about the other to make the connection when they meet in SR1. Casey has nothing to go on, really, and she's not the type to jump to conclusions about that sort of thing. Troy has a face that's obviously nothing like the picture from when she was 5, a name that doesn't match, at first not even the right gender as both of his estranged cousins are girls and obviously Casey is mistaken for a boy for a while. Casey never talks about her past. Troy doesn't look much like Casey's dad and Casey doesn't look much like Troy's mom. With a closer friendship and more time together they absolutely would have figured it out. But for various reasons they don't have that.
I do think they met once prior to the game though. Casey was just way too young to remember it.
Stanis was miserable around the time of Casey's birth. Elizabetta's keeping up appearances nature would have prevented him feeling he could vent to most of their friends. So I think at some point when she was a few months old he went to his sister's house under the pretense of introducing the new baby to her aunt. He does, but he also really just needs to talk to someone detached enough from the situation; his sister. So baby Cassandra is placed in a little play ring in a corner of the room attempting to put everything within reach into her mouth. Troy is made to sit with her while his mom and uncle talk in hushed whispers on the other side of the room under the pretense of "watching her" when they really just don't want him eavesdropping.
If I wanted to say something poignant and beautiful and rather contrived I could write something about how even then Troy knew he had to protect this kid, even though he didn't know her yet. How their meeting 15 years later would perfectly mirror that one.
But come on! He's a thirteen year old boy! He's a thirteen year old Troy! His thoughts on the situation are "Why the hell am I the one stuck looking after this thing?".
But you know what? That's OK. Because that mirrors his views on their future situation pretty well too. 😉
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Love Reading ⚧️ - February 2024 - Capricorn
Singles:
Who is Coming In: Ace of Cups rev & 2 Pentacles
Regarding: 4 Cups rev
Long-Term Potential: The Emperor
You have history with this person, either they have a broken heart or you do. This is someone where the love is unrequited, they never really *choose* the person they’re with, they constantly go back and forth whether what they have or what they’re offered is what they want. A dissatisfied and apathetic person, which breaks the heart of the other person who is probably very loving towards them. Long term, whoever that is will get sick of it, they will take control, take decisive action, abide by their own personal standards and make the decision for them - Death. I don’t see it ending well with Temperance rev, but it ends all the same.
Or - if none of this is you, then it’s someone that has gone or is going through a very difficult breakup, possibly a divorce with The Emperor here.
Messages:
- Light of My Life ☀️
- I’ve Moved On.
HEARTBROKEN 💔
- Deeply Hurt & Sad
- Feeling Lost
- Grieving & Despair
- Breakup
Signs you may be dealing with:
Heavy Cancer, Leo, Libra & Virgo
Couples:
Them: Ace of Pentacles, 6 Pentacles rev & Wheel of Fortune
Regarding: 2 Pentacles
This could be something new, maybe someone you work with or an acquaintance you like but it’s “like”, it hasn’t gotten very far yet. You’re both hesitant to get involved romantically, because you’re both going through a lot separately. This person seems to be going through issues with their career, they may be looking for a new job, after serving one for years that just does NOT give them what they’re deserving, Wheel of Fortune can be karmic, destiny, blessings, and it can be time too. You have Knight of Pentacles on your side, again showing a lot of time invested somewhere, it’s what’s brought you both to this point.
They may have worked for a company for 5+ years, 2 Pentacles shows a lot of pans in the fire, having to keep up and juggle a million different things, and this person just feels depleted. Financially, emotionally, they’re sick of it. They’ve gone back and forth 100 times on whether to just leave this behind, should they find something else, I’m also hearing they’ve tried & given up more than once. They’re searching for an opportunity to balance the scales and flip this 6 Pentacles upright, giving to things that give back, things worth their time/investment. They feel like they have to stand up for themselves, defend themselves, take action, but also feel like there’s no use or they can’t…it’s a process, Wheel of Fortune. Coffee Cup is you, they enjoy moments with you, on whatever level that may be, long-term partner, crush, flirty coworker, they like you, maybe you drink coffee together in the mornings or something, you’re involved, or this is how they see the connection, if it’s been difficult between you. They crave change, but feel unable to make it happen.
Messages:
- If I could, I would.
- I don’t know how to communicate!
COFFEE CUP ☕️
- Meeting & Talking
- Savoring the Moment
- Feeling Elevated
- Building Friendship
Traveling Lightly 💼
“Simplify your life.”
Don’t be afraid to take a stand against injustice; complacency makes you weak.
You: Knight of Pentacles, The High Priestess, The Fool & Death
Regarding: The Hanged Man
It could be some of you that have lost a job, maybe impulsively quit or, it doesn’t have to be a job. Some of you could be dealing with addictions, or trying to quit. Or you know you need to, but haven’t yet. You’re needing perspective on a very painful ending and things you’ve kept to yourself. Could be things you’ve done for a very long time. As an example, this is like someone uses drugs, and may recently lost a friend that uses the same drugs. The Tower isn’t here but I feel it, it may not be you per se, but it’s close to you, enough to show you something profound. Something needs to end, and you’ve known this for a long time. I don’t see action, I see a quiet knowing, keeping it to yourself, but you’re planning to, making some sort of effort in that direction. Your Oracle card shows you have support, but it feels like you’d rather keep it quiet right now.
Some of you have impulsively ended something that’s caused a lot of pain or betrayal for someone, or that’s why an ending is/was necessary. If you’re newly dating someone, you could say or do something that just turns them off, freaks them out, idk if it’s too much too soon, maybe it’s too intense. Or switch it. It’s a couples reading but these two people I have don’t feel like “a couple”. That could just be showing you have separate issues, work & money is a big one on their side. Maybe you just “knew this was going to happen” to them, or you’ve known for a long time, and just waited. That could be switched. Your Oracle shows supportive people around, and a need to stop complaining, messages are happy…maybe hold your judgements on something, you may know but, 9 Swords is mutual, some of what you think/feel may just be fear based - not real.
Messages:
- Makes you laugh 😂
- Living My Life
ADDICTION 💊
- Codependent
- Obsession & Restraint
- Possession & Control
- Emotional Block
Fellow Travelers 🤝
“Support is all around you.”
Try to go one day without complaining, and only affirm the positive.
Mutual: King of Cups, 4 Swords & The Lovers
Regarding: 9 Swords
You both don’t want to make any decisions impulsively, or you’re stressed out about ones that already have been made. King of Cups has deep emotions, could be one or both of you, this King is in love, and it’s mutual with The Lovers. Or if it’s not, it’s not a secret, I’m not getting unrequited love but it’s possible someone at work has a crush and you’re like…no. Or switch it, you’re a friendly ghost 👻 If this is a long lasting partnership, both of you are stressed out about passionate & fiery action being taken or it already has, you both don’t want each other moving on to other people. 3 Pentacles at the bottom again, could work together. If this is a fight or work related, there could be a lot of stress around money and where it’s coming from, or there may be a problem person as a 3rd Wheel in the connection - though I don’t see infidelity, just “so and so trying to make MY MAN a lunch excuse me?” Or something like that 😆 Or they’re going through something big and you’re over here feeling betrayed because you only know them *this* way, now they’re *that* way and WTF does that mean for you?? Are they moving on? Do they have someone else? That feeling is mutual. It’s possible others exist but I don’t see it being a thing, just a fear. You two don’t communicate well, and being honest & vulnerable about how you both feel would help this connection a lot.
CAMERA 📷
- Reminiscing
- Making Memories
- Learn from the Past
- Perception
Overcoming Obstacles 🏔️
“You can overcome anything.”
You can be a caregiver and rescuer, but be sure you’re your own caregiver first.
Signs you may be dealing with:
Gemini, Taurus, Pisces, Scorpio & Sagittarius
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One of the benefits of Covid was the opportunity to meet Charlie Munger... First over a zoom call with a handful of other amazing entrepreneurs and then through some one on one zooms and finally an in person meeting at his home in LA.
Charlie has bestowed upon me so many great philosophies of living a great life. Chief among them was an understanding of how expectations play such a enormous role in one's happiness. Holding a high bar for my self while also lowering (managing) daily expectations is a great balance for reaching great achievements, while also allowing myself grace to under perform along the learning process. Also, a great love for Ben Franklin, and studying the "greats" who have had such an amazing impact on how life is lived today in the United States. I always loved that most people go to Charlie with questions about business or investing and his first piece of life advice, in almost every conversation I was apart of, was the importance of choosing the right spouse. "You want financial advice", he'd say, "don't get divorced." Always the simplifier.
Rest in peace Charlie, thank you for sharing your wisdom with all of us.
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