#siblingabuse

[ink-man-sam]

S4 Eren gives me so much gender envy, I wish he wasn't an asshole

He also reminds me of my brother and every time he comes on screen he strikes a bit of fear into my body #childhoodtrauma #siblingabuse

[joeljthatswrite]

All i wanted was someone to tell me “It’s not your fault”; all i kept hearing was “It’s your fault”

[siblingsexualabuse-blog]

The second time

My cousin also lived in the same house with my older brothers and I. We were all hanging out in my aunt’s room one day and my second oldest brother told me to go under the sheets to stick something in my mouth. Clearly confused, I went with it. He proceeded to shove his penis in my mouth again and again. He insisted I stay under the sheets to continue. It wasn’t long before my mother came into the room and found out what my brother was making me do. She took out a dust broom and immediately started to hit us. She hit us again and again telling us what we were doing was wrong and continued to yell. Angry at how it wasn’t my fault, I glared at my brother in anger at what he made me do. 

Looking back on this now, I wonder how and where my brother learned this from. He was 7 or 8 at the time, how did this start for him? 

[cecerusso]

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mma protip brought to you by the savage: if you want your moves to be good, practice them on your unwilling sister.

have an older brother they say. it’ll be fun they say. he’ll protect you they say. DOES THIS LOOK LIKE PROTECTING? #siblingabuse

[sharkmeatpie]

Blatant sexism

Unfortunately, my late father, whom I adored more than anybody else in the whole world, was sexist towards women. That’s hard for me to confront and admit, but I’m glad I can acknowledge shortcomings in the people I love, including myself.

Both my younger brother and my half brother have screamed the F word in my face and actually physically intimidated me, which is the definition of assault. No physical contact has to occur for this behavior to be considered an assault in the eyes of the law. Battery comes when contact is made. Younger brother actually crossed the line and shoulder checked me once when he was angry at me. My father was present for all of these occasions when these men, who were bigger and stronger than I, screamed curse words in my face, berating me for existing in their space until it actually became physical. My father stayed silent and never once stepped in to defend me or tell his sons that their behavior was unacceptable.

When it came to my father, though, he would not tolerate any mean word thrown his way, especially by a woman. We got into an argument the last time I saw him, and he wanted to destroy the entire planet because I had hurt his feelings. His own son and adopted child screaming and threatening his daughter is tolerated but not something said in anger to him by the same daughter. See the disconnect? Women aren’t allowed to get angry, but men sure are. Do better teaching your sons to respect women.

I love you, Dad, and I forgive you.

[elitethinker]

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[siblingsexualabuse-blog]

The first time

I remember I was 5 years old or so and I woke up to my oldest brother rubbing his body against me. My two older brothers and I all had one big room to share as children. There were three beds total all set side by side and my parents room were across the hall. I remember laying there completely confused as to what was going on. I sat there awake as my brother continued to press himself against me. My other brother laid across the bed from me, staring at me, confused just as I was. Although I didn’t know what was going on, I knew something was wrong. I spoke to my mother about it, explaining what my older brother had done. She might have been confused about what I was trying to say, but I kept on insisting that it was weird, I was confused and worried. She pushed the topic away as if it wasn’t a big deal and I gave up.

In recent years, a huge fear of being around my brother has grown. I can’t be in the same room with him for longer than a minute. I get incredibly tense, scared and defensive. I keep all talk minimal and will always find a way to leave. I’m about to start counselling to heal as I don’t want this to continue with this fear forever. 

[weliveon29]

Me: *sitting down with my little sister who is jumping on my mattress* Dad: you're suppose to be looking after her. Me: *whips her with headphones as dad speaks* Me: *freezes* Me: lol

[jamietp]

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This is still probably the best snapchat I've ever sent #siblingabuse (at Sandown Lane )

[livlaughs]

I laugh at the fact that my friends all have siblings, so when we make a friend that is a little less mannered and used to getting there way, this is all we have to do. "Are you an only child?" "Yep" "That explains it"