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"oh please everyone has gay thoughts sometimes" so what i'm hearing is that heteronormativity is so ingrained that a significant percentage of the population regularly experiences bisexual attraction? but dismisses it as something that all straight people experience? this is so concerning are you guys okay
#'lol women/men are so hot it's a shame i'm straight' buddy i got news for you#gimme a B! and an I! and a PHO! and a BIA!!!#look hon you can be more frequently and strongly attracted to one gender and still experience meaningful attraction to other genders#you can have a strong preference without that erasing other facets of your sexuality#a bunch of people experience bisexual attraction while still having a preference for a certain gender#and guess what! those are still bisexual experiences!#congratulations human sexuality is rich and varied and frequently evolving isn't it wonderful isn't it grand
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ultimately when it comes to shipping and fandom space treatment of aspec characters i just don't accept "aro/ace people can still date/have sex" as an answer from nonaspecs. like yeah. mhm. okay. now i think we both know that you're not saying that out of real interest in the diversity of aspec experiences. so you can turn in your seventeen-page essay on why and how you plan to examine this character's aspec identity within the context of a romantic or sexual relationship complete with evidence from canon and peer reviews from multiple aspec people within the next week or i'm putting you in the pit from the edgar allen poe story
#you know. the one with the pendulum#'hey. why are you as an allo person shipping this aspec character like this'#'oh aspec people can still date/have sex!'#'yeah. now can you answer the question that i actually asked you'#like goddamn just say you don't care they're aspec and you want to fulfill a sexual/romantic fantasy with them. that's Fine#it like. sucks. for sure. lotta aspec people will be unhappy with you. but everyone is entitled to their own wants and experiences.#but i'd prefer you just be honest with it rather than using our community's conversation points as retroactive justification#and ONCE AGAIN. you guys are real fucking cavalier with this shit and it shows a real fundamental lack of respect for aspecs#when most of you would NEVER ship a canonically gay character with the 'other' gender. cause again. it would suck.#you can do it. nobody's Stopping you. but it would suck.#and we understand that putting a queer character in situations that erase that queerness is shitty! until it comes to aspec characters!#and whoa... there it is again... people don't consider aspec identities to be queer... crazy how it always comes back to that#anyway. you all know what i'm talking about. have seen many posts about this lately#it is [ long sigh ] unfortunately a very hot button issue with the advent lately of alastor hazbinhotel#which. again. god i wish there were other canon aspec characters to be having this conversation about.#but we'll have to do our best with what we have#aromantic#aromanticism#arospec#aroace#talking#aspec#asexual#asexuality
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the assumption that women have no desire for or awareness of dignity underscores nearly every conversation men have about women
#once you see it you can't unsee it#people assume we neither care for nor deserve dignity#that we enjoy our humiliation#if we can even recognize it#that we enjoy being sexualized and infantilized and objectified#radblr#feminism#femininity#the idea that we prefer looks over function
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#lou ferrigno jr#tommy kinard#donovan rocker#call me Evan Buckley the way I can't stop thinking about him#buck sending this to the group chat#tommy be like: babe no i feel so objectified#buck: i could sexualize you too if you prefer that#hen: STOP THE FLIRTING I WILL KICK YOU BOTH OUT OF THE CHAT#bucktommy
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gripping your shoulders. you know that topping, bottoming, domming, and subbing isnt something you can see on a person, right? you understand that someones general personality isnt the same thing as how they like to take it, right?? you understand you cant tell if a person is a dom or a sub, a top or a bottom unless they have personally told you or youve had sex with them regardless of any factors that would make you think otherwise, RIGHT???
#the tomes#this started from (character) cant be a (sexual preference) because theyre too (personality trait) discourse but fandom doesnt exist in a#bubble and the fact that some of you potentially think this way abt real people is. uh! worrying!!#bg3#“that character is such a bottom!” why. because he takes it in the ass or because of all the homophobic stereotypes you never unpacked bc#you have your pronouns in your bio?
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GIRLS5EVA • Summer Dutkowsky
#girls5eva#girls5evaedit#summer dutkowsky#gloria mcmanus#busy philipps#wickie roy#dawn solano#sine's gifs#does Summer know that Bette Davis "tried being a lesbian” and that Crawford tried to seduce her multiple times? the audiobooks probably#didn't cover that <3#also it would have been topical had she mentioned something about tatu--larry sounds as gross as ivan.#she could have commented on the hypocrisy. the girls pretended to be gay to sell their first album abroad.#meanwhile in local interviews they'd say 'we are normal and have boyfriends.' one of them is openly homophobic supports putin and has run#for office.#anyway i know the series has no such intentions and sum is supposed to be a good/supportive sister but#that doesn't mean I don't think she would benefit from dating a lady now that she is independent/her own person#(preferably gloria but honestly any lady would do)#it wouldn't be hard to buy given that she hasn't had the opportunity to explore her sexuality what with the purity rings and upbringing#//#i wanted to add more moments but eh
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All of the Bridgerton siblings are queer in some way, the degrees vary between each of them respectively. No, I will not debate any further, that family is gay as hell and I'm here for it.
#bridgerton#finding out that colin is/could be demisexual was not on my bingo card#welcome to the club buddy#“not all of them have to be queer-” says YOU & this isn't about you so move#daphne...she's bi but i see her preferring to be with men (and that's okay & doesn't diminish her sexuality 🗣🔊)#if you can't handle more than one queer character in the same media that says a lot about you & maybe u should keep that to yourself#anthony bridgerton#benedict bridgerton#colin bridgerton#daphne bridgerton#eloise bridgerton#francesca bridgerton#lqbtq
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Why is it every Doctor Who stan obsessed with the Master is some sort of sexually and mentally unwell gender boy
Response A: That is literally just half of my followers on this blog. Maybe even 70% depending on the day.
Response B: WHERE are the swaths of mentally and sexually unwell gender boys where where where and also do they. wanna. kiss.
#preferably obsessed with the Master Dr Who but not a requirement per se •twirling my hair kicking my feet•#I'm crying. sobbing even. all I'm trying to do is cook dinner right now.#proud mentally + sexually unwell gender boys club#the master doctor who
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Any other LGBTQ+ Headcannons that are canon is the comic??;)
*patiently awaits Cupioromantic Donnie*
hmm... had to think about this for a while and talk about it with co-author, but here's what we got. we mostly base this stuff on how plausible it is in show/if there's evidence for it. with a dash of personal experience. This only applies to residuum, btw. I have different personal headcanons for these characters outside the comic.
april: lesbian. this is mostly based off of the fact that most aprils get with their caseys & the comment she said to dale. which could be taken as disinterest in dale specifically, but she seemed more concerned with impressing that popular girl earlier and that reads as more... saphic, i suppose. or at the very least homoromantic.
raph: raph is just raph. we look at him and basically just *tv static*. go crazy. all we got is jokes or stuff that has too little evidence to support. so, yeah, he's whatever you want him to be i guess?
leo: trans. already said my reason in the other post. also, gay. if gay were a power source he could power the entirety of the united states for five months straight without a single power outage. failing power grid notwithstanding (< thats the actual word. its supposed to be mushed together like that. wack.).
donnie: as much as i'd like him to be ace/aro spectrum rep, he just doesn't have the evidence in show for us to apply it to him in this comic. it's funny, for being hc as ace so often he sure is the most outwardly romantic/sexual turtle in the show lmao. one! cherry: "you're so cute, but you're so mean! why do i always go for your type?" two! astrogirl?? (whatever her name is) he is very very romantic with her. he has a type y'all. also just look at those two, he's a leg man lmao (bootyyshaker9000 anyone? ha!) anyway. and with the bromance/instant chemistry he had with that one guy in the purple dragons... Pan. or possibly Omni as he does seem to favor... cute brutal femme... Yeah. Omnisexual.
(you have no idea how fucking bad i want this boy to be ace spectrum. hes got the colors y'all!! The Colors!!!!! but alas... i am bound by my canon plausibility creed for this comic)
mikey: ace. possibly ace/aro. he shows interest in literally no-one. we're aware that the common hc is pan but... we know a pan 13 year old, and let me tell you ahahahaha, kids going through puberty are very uncomfortable to be around sometimes, especially around their partners. or crushes. and mikey... well, that boy is ace behavior personified lmao. aces in the back you get what we mean right?? right??? anyway commiting to aroace
#residual asks#rottmnt#i really get a kick out of he/him butch lesbian raph and ghostbear-sexual raph#but i'd never use those seriously. or at least in this comic#co-author says what they get if they really had to choose for raph is ace homoromantic#but otherwise...#he's just raph#like we can't apply any identity to him. and we really mean ANY identity. not even straight or umbrella terms like queer#its a very odd feeling#i also really like trans april but we don't have enough evidence for it#in fact there's actually counter evidence- but don't let that stop your dreams y'all. it just stops ours :P#sorry for stepping on your donnie dreams anon#but honestly i think that label applies more to 2012 donnie imo#i really do personally prefer ace/aro donnie. but i'd make everyone ace if i were able lmao#co-author would also do the same thing ahaah#i just don't like depicting romantic relationships. or attraction ahahaah#with mikey... we get why people hc him as pan... but like its a fandomism stereotype#that literally every fandom applies to optimistic friendly characters. and honestly i really don't like the fandomism stereotypes#i just find them... unenjoyable i guess#cuz like y'alll... your sexuality isn't inherently determined by your personality or vise versa#cuz like i know for sure that in fandom spaces- if i were a character- i'd be stereotyped as pan or a hypersexual cis het#to which i am neither. at all.#and co-author would be stereotyped as the demure femme book lesbian#which they are VERY much not#and i know this because i've been fandomified by people in my life more than once#it is a very uncomfortable experience y'all#whoops rant in the tags#residuum#rottmnt residuum#residuum wb
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holding finn tidestrider in my hands. why are you SUCH a whore.
#i mean i know why (born and raised in a society that enforces strictly monogamous relationships by punishment of death --#--and coming to the surface was really the first opportunity hes ever had to openly explore himself and his sexual/romantic preferences)#but also why have you written and published more than one book on this. what possessed you to do so.#jrwi riptide#jrwi#just roll with it#finn tidestrider#jrwi finn#i love shitposting about finn and then putting my actual character analysis in the tags. its a fun treat for me.
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just filled out a bunch of new patient paperwork and it was full of the usualy performative ally bullshit like 'what is your current preferred gender' and 'do you consider yourself to be gay or straight or bisexual'
and in the middle of that it also asked "what is your preferred religion?" and i understand how religion influences medical care, but that is, i think, the stupidest way you could possibly phrase that. like oh, i prefer to be treated as a muslim but legally i'm still christian, what are you FUCKING talking about
#performative inclusive language is INSUFFERABLE#''preferred'' is a stupid way to talk about gender and sexuality but it doesnt even make sense in terms of religion#think for 2 seconds about the words you are saying i am begging you
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bisexual, but not rly in an "i'm attracted to xyz" way so much as a "whatever the fuck happens, happens" way
#something something abt how sexuality and gender and queerness is 'defined' vs how it's experienced#maybe this is just how my own bisexuality is! idk im a nonbinary guy who's general outlook on life can be summed up as fuck it we ball#i ofc have my preferences and tendencies and attractions but those are broad at best nor am i like. super beholden to them#for instance i'd prefer to date someone who's not cis but if i hypothetically am into a cis person who's chill with my whole Situation-#-then it's like shit. alright!#and obviously anything that's a dealbreaker in a friendship to begin with is also going to be a dealbreaker in a relationship as well#also please don't be weird on this post! this is about my own sexuality and if you relate to it that's epic#but if you don't or otherwise feel the need to 'correct' me on smthin then pls just move on#no i won't shut up#< talking tag#also also its fine to rb this if you want idc
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I need a Charlie and Alastor duet so badly like you do not understand
#preferably loaded with (sexual) tension#like it could be a happy cheerful song but I want them to look at each other like they want to fuck for the entirety of the dance number#hell even have the dancing be as suggestive as mf possible#hazbin hotel#charlie morningstar#alastor the radio demon#charlastor#radiobelle#charlie x alastor#lady luxo rambles
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head exploding on how 2explain i like men nearly exclusively but theres this 1very specific girl id give my life 2date
#also i prefer girls in every aspect EXCEPT romantic/sexual#which s . interesting#cuz i easily fall in love platonically w so many girls#its rather funny
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