#self idenity

[embrace-the-misunderstood]

1/13/2025

Gender identity is a very complex topic for me. In person, I guess I dress very non-binary in the grand scheme of things. I usually only wear jeans and a hoodie or a band T-shirt rather than a dress or a skirt. I feel more comfortable when I’m not dressed in a hyper-feminine or a hyper-masculine manner. My hair is always down and in a wolf-cut, and my body language is closed off, along with the fact that I rarely smile or show emotion at all unless I need to. However, online, I don’t think I’m much different. I only post pictures that I feel pretty in or more “done up” in, so I suppose my online identity is more feminine than anything. I avoid being hyperfeminine or masculine because it just feels wrong, like I’m not being true to myself at all. I will wear dresses and long skirts, even shorts, from time to time when it’s hot out, but I get severely insecure. I also don’t feel my best when I’m wearing anything masculine, like a button-down shirt. I do think instead of a fancy dress, I would much prefer to wear a suit and tie. Something about baggy clothing makes me feel more comfortable. When I do go out of my apartment, I do feel the need to wear makeup to hide my acne. However, I still have my hair down and wear my baggy jeans and band t’s. Online, I avoid posting pictures of me smiling, but I am still in clothes that seem to scream "feminine." For example, tank tops, skirts, corset shirts, etc etc. 

For around 10 years I have struggled with my very own gender identity. I used to think I was a transgender male due to harsh gender stereotypes about the way I felt more comfortable dressing. My (very toxic) friend group at the time also semibullied me into constantly changing what I thought about myself in every single way, from sexuality to gender to my personality. Little by little, I lost touch with myself. There were times I would only dress hyperfeminine, other times hyper-masculine. I went through a time where I declared myself transgender and changed my name to something that now causes me trauma to hear or see anywhere. Due to the external conflict, it created a lot of internal conflict as well. Along with conflict and confusion about who I was, it also caused major body dysmorphia. Going into middle school, I was extremely "girly." I would wear pink, flowers, pastel colors, shorts, dresses, and skirts; even sometimes I’d wear flower headbands. In those detrimental 3 years, I was always confused about myself due to peer pressure. It wasn’t until high school that I began to figure myself out once more. Due to all of the dysmorphia, I only wore hoodies and jeans; I felt more comfortable that way, hiding my body. Everyone wore hoodies, male or female, so I felt some sort of sanction within this way of dressing. 

Now that I’m in college, I’ve been able to be on my own. I haven’t had to deal with my mom begging me to dress feminine or comparing me to how I used to be before everything changed and I began to become more insecure. All I can say is that now.. I’m still conflicted. I know my gender. It’s female, and I’m comfortable with it. However, sometimes I wish I was a guy. It would be so much easier. Men are safer in society, and being a woman has always been dangerous. There are always constant threats to my well-being due to my gender. I have, however, decided that instead of changing my gender, I’ll just accept being called any pronouns. He, she, they, it. I don’t mind as long as I’m being treated with respect by my peers. This also means I can feel more comfortable with myself and put my inner child to rest in a way.

[sheltiechicago]

A Journey Of Identity: Navigating Self And Society As An Lgbtq Individual Through 7 Stunning Images By Evan Murphy

[fries-aka-bxmby]

ATTENTION PEOPLE WHO DON’T DO SELFSHIPS/YUMESHIP! Just because people make a Yumeship/Selfship doesn’t mean they’re simping over them, no it’s mainly for funnies. Like, I could make myself X Kevin Barnes as a joke lmao, not because I have a crush on him.

[things-you-may-need-to-hear]

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[summerdazze]

my self insert with Theseus 😙🫰

[widowshill]

"for most of my life, i've wanted a place where i've belonged. a place where I could feel at home again. feel loved again. and i've found that place, here at collinwood." this is actually what it's all about babey

[orbiting-insanity]

LET PEOPLE EXPLORE THEMSELVES.

I really liked Michelle Obama's memoir, Becoming because she talks about how we are always in a state of becoming. We are never finished until we're dead. We can keep growing, keep exploring, keep learning about ourselves throughout our entire life. We should never stop this road of self discovery.

It's human nature to be inquisitive and curious, to pursue understanding of the universe and of ourselves.

“what if kids identify with something and it ends up just being a phase-?” good. stop teaching and expecting kids (and adults honestly) to formulate permanent traits and ideas of themselves. everything in life is a phase. that doesn’t make it any less legitimate while you experience it. let people explore themselves and know it’s okay if what you think about yourself changes.

[feralwetcat]

ssometimes I think ab how sirius and runa are like complete opposites . now Sirius is uncomfortable being just one person how he only feels like himself when hes not himself, how for quite a long while now he hasn't actually been able to just be his true form, because it doesn't exist anymore, his name and face have been erased and now hes not just that kid but hes everyone else he's been and more. while runa hates not having a sense of self, they crave it more than they know, shiftings something thats always come easy to them and yet it still aches, they've tried to make the form that is truly them but it never works, khione was close but not good enough, cephei maybe but shes cephei, not runa. and yet to them runa isn't just them, it's an idealized verson of themselves to fit into what people expect of them. two twins who's relationships with identity are so polar opposite its insane I fucking love them

[arcadequeerz]

Sometimes u just gotta think about the themes in ur story.

[forthill]

i am done procrastinating my procrastination so now im just procrastinating.

[tenth-sentence]

They use tech to give individuals what tech has taken from them: belonging, self-confidence and identity.

"Going Dark: The Secret Social Lives of Extremists" - Julia Ebner

[carmelcholate]

Unsavory Waver's

When I saved you when I fell

When life brought me back

Who am I?

Where am i

Where are we to go

If no one wants me to go

How far is the end

Is it near then it looks

How will I know to overcome my wishful thinking

Through what paths do I take now…

The places to go vary in my mind

Uncertainty that lies ahead of time to where am i…

So where is it do we all lie greathy unflunece n to dry out

What can do when I am in a world full of fools

They too uncertain with rising aeons ahead

For decades and centuries to rise and glories to come

From an arm length to another zeroing into feels of something

But atlast we all will lay together at once in one bonded by the wines of time

Had i know whats best i would have without a doubt held it close

Thats currently not there as i melt away into my own unsavory Dilemma

~kiwi's

[astrofaeology]

Pluto in the Houses

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ᡣ𐭩 Please support me by reposting, liking, following me. Pluto is a generation planet, which transforms and breaks. It rules over power, domination and control aswell as it's thought to represent you hardest challenges in life, in which you can either bend or break. Like always I make these posts for fun and don't get too discouraged if you read anything negative, there's always a good and bad side to all placements. <3

1st house Natives with Pluto in the 1st house possess an incredibly powerful and transformative presence, in my experience they inicate change through simply existing. They exist in the minds of others and force them to confront their fears and insecurities. They often experience profound shifts in their identity throughout life, undergoing a constant process of shedding old selves and emerging anew. This is a difficult but powerful placement when it comes to embodying one's idenity and self - being that these natives are prone to being hated and despised. Many have underwent bullying. Nevertheless the power and the raw energy is unmatched.

2nd house With Pluto here, your relationship with personal resources, money, and values is highly charged and often subject to deep transformation. These natives may experience significant power struggles or profound regeneration in financial matters, sometimes needing to let go of old financial paradigms to build a more empowered foundation. On a personal level these natives may go through moments of your life of fiancial extremties - losing money and quickly gaining it . But what remains is their intergirity.

3rd house Communication and the immediate environment become arenas for intense exploration and transformation, natives with this placement are bestowed with complex relations to siblings and a aptitude for a killer tongue. They possess a penetrating mind, often driven to uncover hidden truths and underlying motives in conversations and daily interactions. There might be a compulsion to speak your truth, even if it's uncomfortable, and you could be drawn to subjects that are taboo or deeply psychological.

4th house signifies deep psychological roots connected to family, heritage, and the home. There can be intense family dynamics or a powerful need to transform their foundational sense of security and belonging. They might feel a compelling urge to purge past family patterns, rebuilding your sense of home and emotional safety from the ground up, perhaps even relocating dramatically at some point. Or on the otherhand these natives may behold secrets, and hidden adgendas under their cover.

5th house Creative expression, self-identity, and romance are areas of profound transformation and intensity with this placement. These might experience powerful, even obsessive, passions in your creative pursuits, love affairs, or even with children. (perhaps they'll be hurdals and perhaps fear to have children). There's a strong drive to master their creative urges, often leading to a need to exert influence or undergo significant psychological rebirth through your artistic or romantic endeavors.

6th house these natives are likely to experience significant transformations in your work, daily routines, and health. There's a powerful drive to gain mastery over your professional skills or to uncover and heal deep-seated health issues. However as it's pluto it may be a life long struggle to be your most productive self. These natives might be drawn to work that involves uncovering hidden problems, reforming systems, or helping others undergo profound healing, sometimes experiencing intense work environments.

7th house Relationships, especially one-on-one partnerships, become major arenas for power dynamics and profound transformation. They're drawn to intense connections that challenge and reshape them, often experiencing deep psychological shifts through their interactions with others. There's a powerful need to confront and integrate the shadow aspects within themselves, often mirrored back through significant relationships, in which there could exist a push and pull. Possibly attracting some intense people into their lives.

8th house This is Pluto's natural house, amplifying its themes of deep psychological transformation, shared resources, intimacy, and the cycles of life and death. They're compelled to delve into the mysteries of existence, often experiencing profound personal rebirths after significant losses or crises. This placement suggests a powerful ability to regenerate, understand hidden power structures, and transform through deep emotional and financial integration with others.

9th house With Pluto in the 9th house, their beliefs, philosophies, and quest for truth are deeply transformative and intensely felt. They possess a powerful urge to explore profound knowledge, often questioning existing dogmas and seeking universal truths. This can lead to a complete reshaping of your worldview, sometimes through powerful spiritual experiences, foreign travel, or intense academic pursuits.

10th house Such natives tend to possess a powerful drive for achievement and a compelling need to exert influence in their public life or career, as to gain a sense of control - in which they may overthink about their status and sometimes even feel despair. They're likely to experience significant career transformations, often rising to positions of power or completely restructuring your professional path. There's an intense desire to leave a lasting legacy and reshape the structures they work within.

11th house Group associations, friendships, and your hopes and dreams become areas of intense transformation. These natives may might experience significant power dynamics within your social circles or feel a strong compulsion to reshape collective ideals. I find that even potentially there may be a moment where they'll choose to even have friend or become a lone wolf. Neverthe less this placement often indicates a powerful role in group dynamics, influencing collective movements, or undergoing profound personal changes through your connections to communities.

12th house Pluto in the 12th house signifies a profound connection to the unconscious realms, often leading to deep psychological purges and a need to confront hidden fears. They might experience a powerful spiritual awakening, feeling compelled to release old patterns that have unconsciously held them back. The idea of self sabotage can bite them back in the ass, however this is a life long lesson to overcome. This placement can involve intense periods of solitude or introspection, leading to powerful inner transformation and a connection to universal forces.

DISCLAIMER: This post is a generalisation and may not resonate. I recommend you get a reading from an astrologer (me). If you want a reading from me check out my sales page.

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[amogii]

You really think in a world of magic fuckery a person wouldn't be able to extract the soul essence (or dna) out of a person's hair, spit, blood, ect and combine it with thier own within themselves to make a child in ways that don't align with what we consider the natural world?

All I hear is that no one is willing to push the limits of unethical gene jacking to make offspring

The pregnant evil queen smirks as she places a hand on her swollen belly. "Now hero, you won't kill the mother of your own child, will you?" "Lady, I am female, infertile, and never had sex before, so that lie is not going to work on me."

[22ayla21]

I have two Idea now about amphoreus male husband

I love your writing! 🤭✨

This is the first one :

How trio amphoreus husband( separate) react to their wife get Flirted by a man who don't even know she is already married, the man just thought the ring in her finger is just a accessories.

You are very brave... but not very smart

The reaction of the men of Amphoreus when a stranger decides to flirt with his wife, not knowing that she is already married

Mydei notices immediately that someone has dared to flirt with his wife. His eyes instantly become colder, and his gaze acquires a predatory focus, as if he is assessing the prey before striking. He does not make a scene, does not intervene immediately, but first watches how his wife will react. If she coldly brushes off the impudent man, he will only smirk and mentally praise her.

If the man is too persistent, Mydei approaches his wife and simply stands next to her. He does not say a word, just stands, towering over the situation, his arms crossed over his chest. The very fact of his presence is more pressing than any warning.

When the man finally understands that this terrifying crown prince of Kremnos is her husband, Mydei only smirks. Without malice, but with a clear subtext: "You're in trouble, buddy." He does not make scenes of jealousy, because he knows his wife and trusts her. But if the man continues to pester, Mydei will step forward and say something like, "You're very brave. But you should be smarter."

In extreme cases, if the man doesn't get the hint, he simply puts his hand on his wife's waist, pulling her toward him. Or, even better, he takes her hand and lazily plays with her ring, showing that it's not just jewelry.

He doesn't raise his voice or threaten, but his posture, tone, and icy gaze do the trick. Even the most self-confident suitors usually quickly realize that it's best to retreat.

Anaxa does not make a scene, but his expression becomes stony, and his gaze becomes piercing and appraising. It is as if he is calculating whether it is worth wasting energy on eliminating this misunderstanding or whether it is better to wait until his wife sorts everything out herself.

If the man goes too far, Anaxa casually mentions something like, “How interesting your method of communicating with other people’s wife's is” or “It’s amazing how careless some people are in choosing an object for flirting.” He does not make any sudden movements, but simply comes closer, standing behind his wife or next to her, creating an invisible but tangible comfort zone around her. His height and posture alone can make another man think.

Anaxa does not give in to emotions, but steel appears in his voice. If the man continues, he asks something like, “Are you this persistent with all married women?” - and in a voice that makes it clear that it is better to answer correctly. If a man considers a ring on his wife's finger to be just an ornament, Anaxa can calmly remark: "I wonder if your jaw is just an accessory, too?" Depending on his mood, he can hug his wife around the waist, kiss her temple, or simply call her by an affectionate nickname so that the rival has no doubts.

If he sees that his wife herself cheerfully and confidently puts the man in his place, he simply stays aside, watching the situation with a slight grin.

But if the flirting goes too far. Then the voice becomes icy, the smile disappears, and the man feels that an unknown weight is suffocating him. Even if Anaxa does not say a word, it becomes clear to everyone: it's time to apologize and leave.

At first, he watches. Phainon does not immediately intervene if he sees a man trying to flirt with his wife. He evaluates the situation, her facial expression, the tone of her voice. If she is clearly annoyed, he acts faster.

If the suitor is too persistent, Phainon approaches and calmly places his hand on his wife's waist or shoulder, while casting a silent warning glance at the stranger. He does not immediately reveal his identity, but rather asks with a slight grin: "Well, I hope you at least asked her husband for permission to flirt with her?"

If she laughs or enjoys the situation (knowing that Phainon is nearby), he only smirks slyly, allowing her to "deal" with the suitor herself. But if she feels discomfort, this is a reason for quick intervention.

If the suitor persists, even after hints, Phainon may feign indifference, but say something like: "You know, you're not the first one to mistake her ring for an accessory. But the previous one was smarter - he realized his mistake in time." He does not make a scene or behave aggressively. He simply takes his wife by the hand or puts his arm around her shoulders, leading her away, leaving the suitor to digest what happened.

Despite the outward calm, if someone has gone too far in flirting with his wife, Phainon will not forget it. He will not do anything right away, but the person who crossed the line may feel invisibly "pushed away" from Amphoreus's society in the future. Phainon knows how to make unpleasant people cease to exist in his world, without even realizing why.

[dirtbag-dyke-hypnotist]

ego death and idenity deleteion and leaving someone a mindless husk of their former self <33333