#safeship positivity

[mothfinite]

hey cool fun fact for other selfshippers obsessed w organizing things: you can organize your f/o list in whatever way feels best for you.

if you wanna list every character you consider an f/o, even if you dont really talk abt them, thats wonderful! big f/o lists aren't a bad thing.

if you have a list of f/os that isn't public just so you can remember them all, thats perfectly fine! if you have a lot of f/os and struggle with memory issues, do what makes you comfortable.

if you just wanna list the ones youre most focused on, thats great! just because some are unlisted doesnt mean you love them any less.

if you only have one f/o but you still wanna dedicate a whole info page about them, thats amazing! you love that character so much, you deserve to show your love in whatever way you want!

there is no rules for your f/o list. you can do whatever you want forever!!!!!!

(ok to rb, pr0ship/c0mship dni)

[kissingarthurclaus]

I'm gonna need fellow self shippers to NOT apologize or put themselves down for making their s/is basic/mary sue/OP as fuck because we're here to have FUN!! If you wanna give ur s/i a taste of the power or to make them the hottest person in your f/os canon then DO it! Make characters u don't ship with have a crush on you, make yourself the sole savior of this universe and be unapologetic about it!! [OK TO RB]

[shot-by-cupid]

For people who have been in love with the same character for years- your f/o loves every version of you there ever was

Proship dni

[kynibyou]

if you think it feels embarrassing or cringe to get excited and giddy about ur f/os… you shouldn’t, because ACTUALLY— i saw ur f/o giggling and kicking their feet while looking at pictures of you SO…

[frankys-wife]

Lemme just say that I absolutely adore self shippers with f/o's who are really obscure characters.

If your f/o is a background character, they're really happy you picked their face out in the crowd and fell in love with them! 💗

If your f/o is a character from a really old piece of media, they're happy that the sands of time haven't stopped you from loving them! ❤

If your f/o is from an obscure piece of media, it makes them happy that you found them and hold them close like a precious treasure that was waiting to be found 💝

If your f/o is often forgotten by the fandom, it warms their heart to know you've immortalized them with your love 💖

If your f/o is unconventional, it makes them feel so special that they're just your taste! ❤️‍🔥

YOUR F/O'S LOVE YOU!!

Pro/com/darkship DNI!!

[kittyplushy]

now is a good time to remind everyone that it is okay to self ship with villains, anti-heroes, and morally grey characters but its important to remember their actions and not condoning them. sure we can joke around about it but i hope that a majority of us do not follow their moral codes.

and that there are characters who have committed even more grave crimes that we shouldn't, i dunno, self ship with or dumb down or erase their actions. There is a BOUNDARY to not cross. because believe it or not, victims of SA, CSA, Abuse, and Bigotry exist in the self ship community. Aggghhhhhhhhhhh

PROSHIPPERS I DO NOT WANT TO HEAR A PEEP.

[helgethas]

shoutout to my fellow sleepy selfshippers-- those who deal with fatigue, sleeplessness, social burnout, and the likes! your f/o would be glad to help you out! they'd take care of some minor chores for you, make sure you're eating and keeping hydrated, leave you to rest when you need it, and of course, sleeping with you whenever they're able to. they'd help you take things one step at a time. ♡

(pro/comship please do not interact.)

[platonic-qpr-selfshipping]

your f/o would love you in every universe btw

[boyfriendeffigy]

shout-out to people with obscure f/os, to people with f/os who are original characters (theirs or someone else's), to those with f/os who are fan characters of existing media and those with other kinds of f/os who can't be neatly described or aren't well-known!! you're all great and your love for your fictional others isn't any lesser because they're not the most popular characters or are from well-established franchises♥️

proship/comship dni

[varganardi]

Idk who needs to hear this, but

Whenever I see a self ship double, or a popular canon x f/o ship and feel sad/insecure about it, I like to imagine that it's an "alternate universe", meaning that it's just a different version of your f/o.

The real version? They're with you. They're yours, and love you only.

No one can change that fact.

They love you, so damn much.

No one else - nothing else - matters.

YOU are their canon partner.

"I am my f/o's canon and real partner" - say it, manifest it, because it's true.

It's real. 💕

[Pr0ship DNI. Please respect my boundaries]

[bunnys-lil-hideout]

your f/o likes your body hair btw.

they like you belly hair/happy trail, your hairy legs and thighs, you hairy arms, your hairy face, your chest hair, even if you have back hair or any hair in places most people wouldn't expect to see hair on.

if you choose not to shave, they don't care and encourage you to keep it if it makes you comfortable and/or you cant be bothered. they'll rub the hairy parts of your body, liking how fuzzy/soft/scruffy it is. they won't flinch or be disgusted if they touch it. they won't care if they feel it on their face or any other part of their body.

if you DO shave it, they'll help you with it, getting parts that'd usually be too difficult to reach and fully shave. they'll help make everything even and clean. and after you've washed up they'll put their cheeks on the newly shaved spots and feel the fuzziness tickle them and it'll make their heart flutter hard

[dragon-in-the-woods]

Shoutout to selfshippers who aren't confident enough in their art/writing to make content around their F/O's. It's okay to be frustrated but if it's a skill you want to get better at, you just have to keep going! Your F/O's love you, regardless of how much content you make of them.

Proship/variants DNI

[shot-by-cupid]

There’s nothing wrong with wanting unconditional love from your f/o, there’s nothing wrong with being ‘the exception’ there’s nothing wrong with making ur self ship super lovey dovey- there is nothing wrong with making your f/o love you in the way you want to be loved!!!!! It’s your ship do whatever you want

proship/variants + neutrals and RPF DNI

[kynibyou]

flipping the script— actually, it’s ur non-sharing f/o who doesn’t wanna share YOU

[ramtio-moved]

have you been struggling with feeling like you're replacing your f/o by dedicating more of your time and energy to another f/o? they still love you and always will. yeah they told me themselves sorry i don't make the rules. they don't feel abandoned or replaced or second best, nothing like that. what they want is for you to be happy, and if another f/o is bringing you more joy right now? that's a-okay with them. you don't ever need to feel guilty about retiring an old f/o, either. that time you spent together was special and what you both needed at that time. they cherish the months or years you spent together and they will always be incredibly fond of you, i promise. no comship or darkship interaction please

[swuishies]

imagine . . .

if ur someone with "cringe" interests or if it seems like ppl get annoyed with u for talking abt what you Love , ur f/o sits down & listens to Every Single Word of ur rambles with enthusiasm and doesn't even THINK that it's annoying or weird . not only do they find your passion admirable & adorable , but they genuinely care about what u have to say about the topic . they love You for You and everything that you love makes them happy no matter what ! !

proship/comship/whatever u call urselves these days THIS POST AINT FOR U !