#rurusharing

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big big reminder that high support needs / severe autism / level 3 autism folk aren't very straightforward narrow topic too . we rather big spectrum as well !!! some us need very specific type supports than another some us need multiple caretakers ect !!! and reminder that just because high support needs / severe autism / level 3 autism person learn to do or can do a task independently doesn't mean theyre lower needs now.

i know level 3 autistic guy with severe cognitive impairment who can unload and load dishwasher by self, set plates on table for meals and wash body most well independently but with supervised in the room for safety, but that dont make his support needs and autism level lower he still cant take care of himself by own, cant go out home by self, cant shop by self, cant drive, doesn't understand stuff same level others do, still need that carer for life.

so please remember autistic people who high need level 3 severe ect not monolith too we are all different, different interests, different abilities, different ways of supports too!!

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"autistic people wont/dont use baby toy" "ew wtf autistic people dont need pacifiers" wrong . this heard quite a bit in the past occasionally see in autism space online by LSN Autistic folk and this pretty ignorant and rather ableism to me, what about us autistic folk developmentally delayed a lot? those behind milestones more heavy? those who still feel very very young or have intellectual disability and are higher needs autistic so attached to items seen for babies / young children? those who need that sort sensory input nothing else help them? so so many dunno, tropes? dont have word, opinions? statement? out there about "autistic people dont" "autism not like this" and it all just LSN folk basically say not case for them and not include fact there more heavily impacted and higher need people than them, this stuff very real that are needs for people linked to their autism saying general that its not seem quite harmful to me

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some people will try to invalidate my intelectual disability and struggling of understanding their simple statements/comments whatever because of "how i type my messages". if you ever do this, you're just ignorant. most of the time where i type to others or about topics im literally confused by what i wrote a setnece beforehand and often use words i may not even understand the meaning of but just heard and thought it fit, auto correct and other such. and more often than you realise i cant even speak about a topic because my vocabulary isnt advanced enough and i don't have the words to express what i feel about it and dont even know how to write a sentence on it, few words even.

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OH OH remembered!!! i watched Dinner In America today, a movie about this punk man meeting a neurodevelopmentally disabled woman who's sheltered by her own family due to her being disabled, she experiences a lot of ableism and odd?? sexualisation throughout the movie. she also seems to have some sort of reasoning/disability/condition ect as to why she has to take about 5 medications,,, though we aren't really told of that.

she's quite visibly developmentally disabled in my opinion, and the punk man, simon, loves her just for how she is and stands up for her when she gets the r slur and other shit thrown at her verbally, the movie is actually very sweet in regards of their relationship that is created but i would say this is a mature movie on lines of a few rather concerning scenes, sexual themes and discrimination. the ending is rather bittersweet but not very bad bad.

i dont know if it's exactly said anywhere what she canonically is a part from her being distinctively neurodevelopmentally disabled, but most refer to her as autistic which i much agree with and i would like to headcanon her as intelectually disabled personally as well, i dont see much intelectual disability headcanons at all or if people call a character that it tends to be very stereotypical.

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YAAAAAAY (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠) been looking up question to answer becauseeeee think they fun :3

uhh usually ru or qq since in person name is quinni

27th may!!!

uhhhh 2 years.. ish? not good one but still relationship

dunnooo love my little pony books, mostly read comics and manga, Little Boy Blue was intresting novel also Girl In Pieces think was called?

uhhhhh quite bit of things

none

also none don't think i do celebrity crush stuff?

i dont dream of working and incapable of it anyways

learning technology and semi independently getting food into my mouth on my own, also making a cookie monster themed banned by self!

uhhhh dunno... ? that technically had about 10 guinea pigs that weirdly and tragically died

not sure what this one means but this month pretty shit

china !!!

stim, watch asmr or favourite stuff, eat, meditate

discord, simply plural, pony town

am just... silly.

i dont. know? 😭 am very kind, open minded

playing adopt me on roblox or.. genuinely sitting for super long (maybe not sitting *still* definitely not but long yes)

functioning in life hashtag high needs autism and low iq

when was younger and was doing some exercises in speech therapy i lied as a joke that i ate the paper we used for stuff and lady wrote it down ���

pinkie pie basically one of strongest ponies

uhhh friend kamil and system friends in dm server i suppose?

phone, tablet, toys

this girl i met on discord very young, unfortunately she just stop interacting with me much after about 3-4 years friendship we had super good bond

never

nop too disabled

i dont know, okay tried uhhh ya

night owllll

hmmmmmmmm. i dont think i understand it. but i don't care what people do as long as nobody is hurting

im in gucci eating gucci burgers

i dont know

how what

people, losing toys

i dont know what that is

being confused

severely autistic queer kid

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Question Game

Are we tired of these yet?

What is your nickname?

When is your birthday?

What was your longest relationship?

What is your favorite book?

What is something you're insecure about?

5 Male celebrity crushes

5 Female celebrity crushes

What is your dream job?

What do you consider your biggest accomplishment?

What is a fact about you that nobody would believe?

What were your highs and lows for this last month?

Where is somewhere you'd like to visit?

How do you de-stress?

What are your favorite apps besides tumblr?

Describe yourself in one sentence.

What do you think makes you attractive?

What is something you're really good at?

What is something you're really bad at?

A time that you told a lie.

What's a totally random and useless fact that you know?

Who knows you the best?

What is your most prized possession?

What is your longest friendship?

When did you first feel like an adult?

Do you/ Have you played any sports?

How are you feeling right now?

Are you an early bird or a night owl?

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Favorite song lyrics right now?

What does self care look like for you?

Describe yourself with 3 singers.

What makes you nervous?

What’s a pet peeve you have?

What will always make you cry?

What kind of first impression do you think you make on people?

Free Pass! (Ask any question you want that's not on the list)

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also ! wanted some attention put into this, person online has found in difficult position as his disability and mobility has been becoming worse . so that he has made go fund me recently and needs a total up of £200 so far! please reblog or tell other people on this situation!!! link below 🤍

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i dont know how to say this, but sometimes when i will share an experience related to me being level 3/HSN Autistic, and low needs folk say "oh same!!" or theyre like "low needs people struggle with this too! :)" im just . no . its not the same we are not the same you will not get it, yes we are both autistic yes we will have some similarities but no its not the same, maybe you relate to a thing or two on a other level but it's not the same

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hi! i said this in a discord server i am in already, but i think i explained it well so i want to say it here too.

i know how some may react to the statement of "autism is a disorder" a.k.a in a negative way.

however, same way with disability, disorder is NOT a bad word or a word that inherently means "this needs a cure".

in some connotations, yes it may suggest that, however generally what implies something needs a cure is when people call it a disease or an illness, which is not what's being done when calling autism a disorder.

a definition of disorder is "a condition which affects the body's or the brains function, which may show outward traits or not" and with this, it makes sense that Autism is called "Autism Spectrum Disorder".

an illness, is typically classified as a broad term to mean someone is of poor health, has a disease or an abnormal condition affecting the persons health.

whilst disorder, is a term to classify anything which has an impact on the persons physical or mental functions diffrientatied from the typical.

i tagged all 3 levels of autism support needs because this applies to anyone on the spectrum. no matter your support needs, this information is true.

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WHAT. not the "misogynist" for llyod what😭😭

been rewatching season 1 a bit lately

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im on season 3, episode 2 of Lego Ninjago; Masters of Spinjitsu! im loving it all so far its very interesting and stimulating.

season 3, episode 2 is when the Ninjas find out that the overlord has not been destroyed and operates over technology in the modern Ninjago City. and at one point he decided to have way more advanced robot workers, Nitroits, created for going after the Ninjas and the golden? blades or something, and the Green/Golden Ninja.

at one point this smaller sized Nitroit was met with the Ninjas and Jay said "great! now they come in fun-sizes!" 😭😭 it was honestly so silly.

though im slightly curious and confused, is Nya still in love with Jay? she's showing strange behaviour and she blushed at Cole and held his hand close and looked at him weird at one point in Season 3, Episode 2. 🤔

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hi everyone, my current hyperfixation is Lego Ninjago and Cole and Zane are my favourite characters. im planning to likely change my profile theme into such! :D

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Could you post a video of the pink stim toy that’s on the left of the blue sugar ball in the picture you posted today? I’ve never seen one like it and I’m so curious to see it, it looks so cool!! /gen

hi anon! :D thank u so so much for ask (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡ here i made video just now to show!

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squish squish ! i love sensory items i need more squishy stuff !

squishynoodle on ig

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hi everyone 🤍 struggling lots lately lack of post . wanted to say what wanted to say for a long time thou. im High Support Needs autistic and cant mask whatsoever much . but something i could call semi masking i do but to have people understand me more really is just i borrow words and phrases and structure of how things said others do to communicate with people online, thats because my pure communication alone not best and made a lot more incidents online dangerous situations for me because im unable to communicate well and express what i mean in moments . but kind of sick of that and its too hard, and doesnt make stuff perfect still because i just hope the stuff i pick fits and many times does not in more detail conversation. so probably people will see change in type / talk style especially here

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hi everyone! hope people are doing okay or at an at least manageable level. this isn't going to be one of my usual posts, however, a system friend of mine needs support so ive been allowed to post about this! as they'll be moving out with their partner, they will be needing money for different things to support this including money for their service dog, Dunkin.

this is their gofundme below! if you cant donate please spread this round 🤍

https://gofund.me/cee37afc

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however! hi everyone second time i want share something super proud of which accomplished yesterday, yesterday really wanted whats called banner / header specifically for plural kit system profile because changing up theme for sesame street stuff including for our system . and really love certain type of headers see lot on pinterest especially cartoon relation! and as like sesame street and cookie monster but could not find header that really liked attempted make one self with cookie monster theme! first try took 40 minute went really bad got kind of upset had second go though took over hour but love it that did so!!!

please no steal of this its my work that did by using icons of cookie monster and generic images / pngs on pinterest!

NOT FOR PEOPLE TO USE!

here it is! i love it so so so so much worked extremely hard to create an edit that will look good and make amazing composition!