#reminder the ask box IS open

[saphstories]

Caliburn Rough Sketch

I'm actually a little proud of this one.

(Reminder: my ask box IS Open!)

[spideypawz]

just picking flowers in a field

[pokemontheywouldhave]

🍉Supporting Palestinian refugees🍉

I do want to support Palestine but with how many asks I got I just couldn't keep up with trying to find out which are genuine and which aren't (something I'm still distraught is a thing). So whenever I get an ask, I'm going to reblog this post with ways that will help Palestinians. Do check out Gazafunds.com which will give you a vetted campaign at random that can be donated to. Also check out Operation Olive Branch's spreadsheet for more ways you can help. There's also the Palestinian Children’s Relief Fund. It's a trusted charity if you'd rather donate to a charity.

If you can't donate for whatever reason, get your daily clicks in :) 🍉🍉🍉

[haneentifosa005]

Here are some f1 memes I made pt.3:

(I posted this yesterday but tumblr ate it)

[frenzyarts]

It’s not enough for me to know people’s niche kinks. I need to know WHY they like them. I need to look into their brain.

[akahael]

"...Cause it's always been about you. But now?

YOU CAN'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!"

David is angy

[askchilchuck]

Are you feeling better?

"Edibles" refers to specifically foods that have Marijuana in them, usually eaten for it's recreational or painkilling effects.

Please drink some water and take care of yourself! taking 4 edibles in one sitting can fuck you up pretty badly... and PLEASE, at least start asking a few more questions before eating random candies!!!

Yeah, that explains a lot… Everyone had been more or less behaving, so I didn’t even consider there might be drugs in it.

Though, it was kinda nice. When the room wasn’t spinning, at least. Maybe just one would be better? Chilchuck looks at the edible for a moment, before deciding to take one.

[polyamorousmood]

Tips for jealousy? I'm monogamous and the thought of my spouse being attracted to others makes me feel physically ill. Please don't be mean. I'm really struggling. I feel like I have ptsd. I need help. I don't know how to get through this. I don't think I can afford therapy. I discovered they watch porn and follow a lot of sex workers and they admitted they are attracted to many others. I had no idea. We've been together a long time. I don't want to leave them but I also don't know if I can stay if I can't stop feeling this way. I feel so bad all the time. It's been months and I'm not getting any better mentally. I'm crying all the time. I get triggered all the time when I see certain things. I don't know what to do. I love them and believe they love me. But I just can't seem to get over this.

Hey friend. It sounds like you're really struggling. Much more than what I would consider normal even for someone who is strictly monogamous. I'm really sorry it's so much for you🫂.

I'm no doctor, but that sounds like there might be a LOT of really unwarranted anxiety. If therapy isn't an option (though you should look around for places with sliding scale fees), maybe you could talk to a doctor about medication? Those are usually cheaper, and I do think you need more help than I can give.

In the meantime, here's what I can do:

I want to emphasize that your partner probably thinks nothing of being attracted to others. It is normal and involuntary. It probably didn't even occur to them it might not feel great to you until you said something. There is no betrayal in their heart, and it in no way diminishes their love for you.

While it may be reasonable to ask for certain accommodations here, it sounds like even the thought that your spouse could be attracted to anyone else is devastating for you. And they are actually, physiologically incapable of changing that. They can not mention it to you, if that would help (Give real thought to if it would, and if the answer is yes, ask it of your spouse immediately). They might be willing to cut back on how many sex workers they follow, if that would help. But they cannot promise to only have eyes for you, even if they wanted to. So this will require a lot of work on your part no matter how you slice it. It will likely continue to cause you discomfort for years to come, and because it is so normal and involuntary, I think you will have a hard time finding anyone who NEVER is attracted to anyone else, if you even do leave your spouse over it.

I have had the most progress when I have been able to really sit with my feelings, and get down to root worries. I think this worksheet does a great job breaking down how to do this with jealousy and insecurity. I highly recommend you sit down with it, with a pen and paper, and commit a 🕐lot🕑 of🕟 time🕕 to it, in multiple sessions.

That should give you a good starting point, but it will take a lot of applying that worksheet to your daily life. It will take time. It take consistency from you. It will be hard. But I believe you can do it, and find a way forward that works for you. Buckle down, sending you all the luck I can. 🍀🧧

[ignatiusteto]

i think sacred music in the kryn dynasty would be very cyclical and repetitive in form to symbolize the idea that life is a continuous thing (at least those who are consecuted right right) and is a cycle across lifetimes and yeah

[the-golden-comet]

how do you maintain a consistent and productive writing schedule? i’ve yet to find my groove 😔

Hello hello @oliolioxenfreewrites !! Thank you so much for the ask! Here is some tea for your stay 🫖✨

Work/life balance is a skill that I am constantly trying to perfect, so there is no “correct” answer. But, I’ll tell you what has worked for me:

1. Bullet pointing all of my Ideas and WIPs, and then focusing on 1-2 projects at a time. I have so many ideas, but if I work on too many of them at once, I will get overwhelmed…which leads to a faster burnout.

2. Weekends. This is pretty much my only free time. I am more of a binge writer, so I can get a few chapters down in a 5-6 hour window at a time (please take breaks for water and food ✨)

3. Frequent breaks, allow your brain to rest and recoup. I can’t stress this enough: So, SO important to avoid burning out! I give myself shorter breaks while writing, and then a longer break after publishing each major novel (at least 2 weeks is my hard rule for myself), to avoid overwhelming myself, to give my brain much-needed rest, and to get excited about my new projects ✨

4. Reminding myself that I love my stories. I write as a hobby, and I am thankful to have time to focus on doing things that I love. Remembering why I picked up writing in the first place is a great reminder to enjoy all that I do ✨

5. Chatting with Writer friends/community, both in real life and on socials. This is a HUGE motivator! Us writers tend to hype each other up for our projects, and humans are very social creatures (even though some of our social batteries tend to run out faster than others!)

6. Treating myself with kindness and patience. This is probably the most important point. It’s easy for us to beat ourselves up if we don’t reach a writing goal, and I’m here to say: it’s okay. Whether you wrote one word, ten words, a hundred, a thousand or more in a writing session, you’ve made progress…and you should be proud. We all have stuff going on in our lives; that’s completely understandable: give yourself that grace and kindness, so that you can feel happier about your writing and create amazing worlds 💫

Thank you so much for the ask! Feel free to stop back at any time! 💛✨

[mielplante]

hi, if you’re still doing touchstarved prompts, vere in a maid outfit… totally just bc it’s halloween and no other reasons

ais....?

[possiblyawesometmblr]

so you're telling me you lost the one with blue hair and pronouns

[paintingskyblutf2]

meet the me

i'll add it to the intro post as well because im still yet to draw the proper introduction,,, the pyro and medic at the top have my in-game loadouts, im basically using them as sonas ig?

im mostly playing medic these days, but when there are already 2 medics on the team i go for pyro. im pretty ok at both but my aim is something i need to work on A LOT,,, do u know how embarrassing it is to miss a crossbow shot when the teammate/enemy is right in-front of you

out of all classes i want to learn to play as, i played demo the most and oh god he's so FUN but i played as demo when i just joined the game so i couldn't do much and switched back to pyro,,, but one day,,, ill be a demo main too,,,

i want to learn to spy cuz my friend plays spy a lot :] its v fun! but i,,, i cannot aim nor backstab. i need to practice kljlkjlk and engi because engi. i love engis, they deserve so much more love so i thank them whenever possible. thank your engis!

[ponyponyponyyy]

Open door to this blog go on give u a banan

PEACE AN LOVE ON TUMBLR DOT COM

[odysseys-blood]

i forgot about blacktober bc i havent done anything for it since....2019 but if anyone wants to rq smthn ill use it as an attempt to ease myself into being able to do quicker/ less detailed art bc i tend to overstress and work too long on stuff bc im a hard ass (◕_◕)

[askchilchuck]

*casts a spell that makes you float*

H- Hey!! Let me down!!