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equalperson · 8 months ago
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BTW "destigmatizing mental illness" doesn't just mean being tolerant when someone says they have a psychiatric diagnosis or go to therapy, it also means investigating how your own view of "evil" may overlap with the signs of madness.
this is because the mainstream idea of what a "bad person" looks like is heavily influenced by sanism, thus most people's perception of what makes someone bad is literally just them being mentally disabled.
to support the crazy, you must accept that grandiosity, delusionality, attention-seeking, rage, homicidal ideation, and many similar experiences are not inherently dangerous. likewise, you must also understand that love and empathy are not the ultimate goods that everyone makes them out to be.
madness can easily be an abundance of the former and a lack of the latter, not just the quiet insecurity that most people reference when they talk about "mental health."
ultimately, the world will never be a truly safe place until it's a widely acknowledged fact that there's no such thing as villainous cognition or emotionality; prejudice is the source of all evil, not abnormality.
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sw33tl1es · 5 months ago
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"All kokichi cared about was entertainment"
????????? Does chapter 5 mean nothing to you or. Out of all the characters taking KOKICHI at face value is insane to me im sorry
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adorawasright · 1 month ago
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I hate so much how the narrative in the show and the fandom acts like adora actually left catra. All the way back in season one adora literally asks her to come with her and catra doesn't.
That's not abandonment she literally tried to get catra to come with her but then somehow in season 5 the narrative protays catra as valid for saying adora will abandon her when that never really happened ???
yeah, in s5 they suddenly make adora the one who leaves people - not just catra, but also glimmer and bow (though i understand why adora would leave them as she doesn't want them to watch her die, but somehow the show acts like that's the same as abandoning catra which never happened at all)
s5 was literally adora slander and i hate it
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liriostigre · 4 months ago
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#2 years ago someone sent me an anonymous message saying The Savage Detectives was boring and then a few others about The Tunnel#and now my beloved LA CIUDAD Y LOS PERROS (The Time of the Hero) !!! you people don't deserve latin american literature 😭#btw it's bc they get them as results in the quizzes i make at the end of the year‚ and i appreciate that they read my recs‚#but damn it breaks my heart and I immediately assume* that those readers have reduced their reading experience to tropes and idk#something that gives them instant pleasure and that doesn't really challenges them#bc they are already accustomed to never leaving that comfort zone#* i assume this stuff bc i'm bitter lol my bad. obviously there are plenty of reasons why they didn't like those books and that's okayyyy#but seriously i wish i had written the time of the hero. it's so sickeningly good. maybe the sauce is in the language#maybe you just have to be able to speak the most gorgeous language in the world—spanish but not from spain‚ yes shade—to truly get it#so yeaa idk i won't reply to that ask just like i didn't reply to the one about The Savage Detectives#unless the person who sent it gives me a good argument 🤨#i keep thinking they messed up the translation bc the title lol let's start there. it should be a literal translation; The City and the Dog#but yea who knows#and about the savage detectives i will always be mad about that ask bc you don't understand the ways i fw Roberto Bolaño#he's THE chilean writer to me#and like a true chilean he loved mexico 🙂‍↕️#so The Savage Detectives is so special 🥹 as the cheese people say it's a 'love letter' to mexico lol#anywayy sorry for being annoying 😔#Dogs*
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ahfrickenfrick · 1 year ago
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2 in the morning and thinking about barbra gordon
god knows you deserve a writer who actually knows you, artists who don’t sexualize you, and fans who appreciate you for who you are, and doesn’t diminish you for being/becoming disabled <33
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sundayrobin · 1 year ago
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well this pretty much sums up how i feel
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spacedlexi · 1 year ago
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the way the ericson group were at the outbreak just a bunch of troubled kids who made various mistakes or committed crimes and were judged by a system that punished and abandoned them instead of giving them the support and love they needed, are then nearly a decade later put into a situation where now they must judge a troubled child for the mistakes and crimes hes committed against them. and 5 to 3 vote them out 😭
#twdg#i love the way s4 connects back to lees whole 'murderer' thing back in s1 😭 guilt...atonement.....systems of punishment#i love thinking about s1>s4 themes and crying#anyway this is partially why i hate when i see the ericson cast reduced down to 'just some teens' its so much more than that#them being abandoned in a boarding school for troubled kids is SO IMPORTANT its not 'just some school'#anyway its also probably why theyre my favorite cast#theyre literally one of if not the most mature group of the series even while being a bunch of kids who make choices i dont agree with#because they actually love and care about each other. even when theyre mad. because theyre all they have left#i do think the vote was a fair way to handle it even tho i still ultimately find it cruel. they couldve talked it out#but this is still a story that needs conflict to resolve so is what it is#they would rather they leave than have to face their confused feelings. the most immature thing they do. but understandable#they did such a good job crafting that cast for clem GOD an entire ensemble built around her and aj....delicious#zombie/post apoc media about love and community my beloved 😭#sorry but get tf out of here with that 'humans are evil and everyone dies' lame ass bullshit we are nothing without community#the amount of love pouring out of s4 is like getting my ass kicked but then they give me a big hug and kiss after and send me on my way#s4 my absolute beloved i really love it more and more every time. so much to appreciate even with it the way it is#the themes bro the themes........ the connections between seasons 1 and 4 you are everything to me#it speaks
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milfbrainrot · 2 months ago
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i know other people are tired of female characters having stories revolving motherhood but god it is so nice to get stories about it that are actually... written with care? i imagine some of the fatigue around these stories is bc of how it's done with the assumption that all women must be or want to be mothers or it's done without any actual examination of the woman's characterization--and i also get tired of those! but there are so many female characters who specifically do not have or want kids as well these days, so i am glad that we can have a balance of ones who are fine without kids but also ones who are well-written as mothers??? idk. it makes me happy that we can have both, because parenthood will always be a thing, even if some people... equate their own preference of avoiding those stories altogether with automatic misogyny when a story does include it at all.
#txt#just. finishing up agatha and there are so many characters who fit that same vibe as her as having angst around motherhood#like oddly there is a big pattern with a lot of my witch blorbos having a big piece of their characterization be because of having lost#a child - taryn / vera / serafina / etc#aND i never got the sense that those characters... got their actual personhoods overshadowed by that facet of their story#(and those shows also have women who do not have kids in them!)#i guess what i just am always reminded of--speaking of hdm--is how mad hdm fans got when marisa's#promotional poster's descriptor was “mother” meanwhile asriel's was... adventurer or something?#like “how dare they reduce a woman to motherhood!” when............................. her whole story did revolve around#un-suppressing her fucked up emotions and wanting to learn how to be a mother to lyra#(WHILE tons of other well written women in that story had 0 kids lol)#it wasn't reducing her to motherhood it was developing her around a core facet of her life in a way that#ngl i felt was meaningful bc of it playing against misogynistic expectations as well#she couldn't be a mother to lyra bc she was made a pariah for things men got away with. she didn't get a choice in that really.#her actually... choosing... lyra... on her own volition despite the consequences... was actually rly fucking cool#anyway i'm just. thinking about this bc of finishing up agatha rn where i can just imagine that#some people were pissed about the nicky and billy thing (i do not care to actually look but i knowwww if i were to#search twitter i'd see annoying takes)#because i understand we are still building up to equality in media where we do get stories focused on powerful (and queer!!) women#and knowing fandom i just. know. people probably thought the motherhood aspect ruined it bc it isn't the story They wanted#idk trying not to make up a guy to get mad at but unfortunately i know im not making it up js;ldfljsdflkj#ANYWAY ALL THAT TO SAYYYYY i am rly glad that AAA has done this so well#as opposed to being done without thought to motherhood being optional#(even though im sure some people will still treat any portrayal of motherhood as though it was done with unchecked misogyny)#it just makes Me personally happy to have this#anyway#disk horse#kinda?????? im complaining so i'll just. put that there for filtering.#i may not be making much sense either im only running on caffeine rn <33
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ecrivainalene · 7 months ago
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I can't quite elaborate right now but Orihime would probably be one of my favorite characters if she wasn't written by a man.
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seaslimes · 3 months ago
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You know? Polyswap kicking off again today is reinvigorating my beliefs that inaction is ultimately antithetical to fandom, even if only because it is fighting one hell of a fight.
The average post I see complaining about M/M fics outweighing F/F fics are strange to me, because every screenshot feels like a spiteful gotcha. Ooh, look at me! I found proof that people hate women!
Which is bizarre, right? How do you think the people who made those F/F fics feel, being used as an example? You have equated their work to a number, and judged that number as not being enough. Rather than acting on your anger, you chose to reduce all the words written in service to the thing you claim to care about, so you could post a gotcha. It's lame, dude. That post is lame. That mindset is lame.
Part of me is tempted to start replying / reblogging posts like that with recommendations of fics to read & comment on. Like, anything is better than sitting around & jeering at the progress made by others.
BUT. In lieu of that. I'm gonna do some research into running a "Break The Ratio" event.
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eskawrites · 1 year ago
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re-reading some of my early thriving in the apocalypse stuff and I’m getting emotional all over again about how vecna literally pinned Nancy to a chair and forced her to watch the end of the world and the violent deaths of her entire family and I? I’m not over it. She is EIGHTEEN YEARS OLD she is still in high school! She has been scared and alone for two and a half years! She is trying her best against all the odds and she is being horrifically traumatized all over again while her friends struggle to save her because she hasn’t let anyone close enough to her to know her favorite song! Nancy Wheeler I’m so sorry bb you deserve the whole world I hope you get to kill things and drive off into the sunset in s5
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tae-shimura-is-my-wife · 4 months ago
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G3 being launched really has showed me, that a lot of supposed G1 fans were never real fans of the franchise in the first place and no, I'm not talking about g1 purists bc they were never fans to begin with.
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sixsamefacez · 5 months ago
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( rambly post + rambly tags )
Ya know ... a fairly common complaint / critique I have seen thrown at the first osmt san movie is that it didn't show the 18matsus enough -- which i definitely agree to, to some extent -- but specifically complaints about kara being shown the least always baffles me a teeny bit.
I personally think it makes like. a LOT of sense if you think about where the movie's coming from -- the whole point of it is to show how much they used to suppress, but also, how much Karamatsu was talked over and ignored as a youth. I think his absence really nails home how little regard the others had spared for him at the time and how he often went forgotten and ignored ( and also plays into why, aside from red roses, forget me nots are his most common flower association ).
I would say it comes off as a more deliberate choice to feature him as little as possible because even the other brothers barely --or not at all -- remembered how Karamatsu was supposed to be back then. And yes, it's his memory world -- but doesn't that also emphasize the fact? The fact that he felt so isolated and forgotten from his siblings he's barely even present in the world made from HIM???? Like ... ouch, man. That shows you so much without telling you to your face, and makes a pretty good case for Karamatsu trying to suppress that aspect of himself and his personality more than anything; hard to find, hard to talk to, glossed over by all...
Then there was the lying to himself, and that only really made things worse for him in the future. Now he's more fascinatingly closed off than ever ... and only now does it seem like the brothers (at least as of the pizza skit) are realizing how little they do. I'm also of the camp that I believe his season 3 characterization makes a lot of sense post movie, though I know that's a pretty divisive opinion in the fanbase -- but whats clear to me is that he's very much about to burn out similar to ichimatsu's burn out, and he can't keep pretending he's fine and dandy forever.
#🍒 txt#unrelated rant but i don't feel like making its own post:#really hate when people say karamatsu is a narcissist because No The Fuck He Is Not#I see it in yt comments all the time and shit and it makes me mad#some people should really not be allowed to talk about narcissism at all until they actually understand what it means#then again the marketing also misuses and HAS been misusing the term narcissist to mean what people have reduced it down to#being “shallow and full of yourself”#that couldn't be the furthest case for karamatsu.#if anything i'd say he's more quiet bpd#and if anyone is a true narcissist / npd haver it'd 100 percent be totty#karamatsu's mask is very clearly that; just a mask. he doesnt actually have that actual self confidence#nor is he actually that full of himself or shallow#none of the criteria of narcissism fits him whatsoever#he has extremely low self esteem that he hides behind bravado because if he just ACTS cooler#itll make him cooler!#or so he thinks.#but people hate his mask juuuust as badly. if not worse than his true personality#karamatsu at heart is super meek introverted shy spineless and closed off#the way he pretends to act and is legit shown PRACTICING acting like this in s3?#i think it could not be ANY clearer tht he's NOT full of himself. he tries to hype himself up in a very similar way totty does for himself#does he do stuff to get praised and be seen as nicer than he is? yes#he is so desperate for even a shred of positive attention he'll do anything to get it. at least earlier on#bc of the way he was treated#but that doesn't make him a self serving narcissist or whatever#morally ambiguous perhaps. desperate for kindess? AAABSOLUTELY#i could rant about this all day lol
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scalproie · 9 months ago
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people will see curly being violently dehumanized and will go "oh no! let me do the same in the exact opposite way!"
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youremyheaven · 1 year ago
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the tropicalisation of vedic astrology is insane😭😭saw a post the other day that said if u have mars in 2h in D1 then ur sexy like babe go on twitter with those takes they'll tear u apart 😭😭
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kingshai69 · 4 months ago
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im so tired of the american centric discourse surrounding autism n aspergers man 😭 like i agree on the term aspergers being bad for several reasons n I don't use that term for myself despite it being my diagnosis on paper, HOWEVER aspergers is still a diagnosis outside the us meaning a lot of ppl use it. n yeah it should be removed n just fall under autism spectrum but as of right now it isn't. so constantly harassing autistic ppl outside the us who use aspergers bcs that's their diagnosis n calling them aspie supremacists, uneducated etc is actually not the serve u think it is 💀 its also just factually incorrect to say its an outdated term when again, it's still used to this day OUTSIDE the us. so no its not common knowledge n americans who constantly use it as a gotcha moment r rlly just showing how uneducated n us centric they r. u don't see me harrasing ppl from the us who still use bpd just bcs the term changed to eupd here n other places. kindness, patience n education yall we're in the same boat
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