#red flag imo

[massiveladycat]

the dozens of people villain killed watching people justify villains who make several attempts on the mc's life because they would 'burn down the world to keep you'

[skitskatdacat63]

2024 Hungarian Grand Prix - Fernando Alonso

[king-nyx]

People defending Caitlyn being a dictator and establishing martial law against a marginalised community have missed the plot.

No, she's not "justified" for being a dictator and endangering the lives of the marginalised.

No, her grief isn't an excuse for her being a dictator.

No, Caitlyn wasn't a supporter of Zaun in s1. She was sympathetic, yes, but her sympathy broke as soon as her mother died. That is not solidarity or support. That's a savior complex.

Caitlyn is classist and a cop. Caitlyn is- get this -a bad person.

And, you can still like her character. No one is saying that you have to hate Caitlyn as a character now that she's a villian. You merely have to acknowledge that she is a villian. This is all believable for her. She's a rich woman from a classist society who looks down upon those beneath her and willing to murder them and segregate them. What a shocker. Go read actual colonial history, btw. Go read Du Bois. Or Frantz Fanon, I beg you. Edward Sayyid is also a good read.

[uncanny-tranny]

If there is one thing so many people need to deeply and truly internalize, it is that fear isn't love. You shouldn't be afraid of saying, "no" to somebody, even if you deeply love or care for them. You shouldn't fear what will happen if you are unable to do something for somebody.

Fear is not love. Fear is not patience, respect, or admiration. You can love and be loved without feeling afraid for your well-being, safety, or livelihood. The fact that so many of us are taught that to be loved is to be subjugated and fearful is dangerous, and if that is something you struggle with, you deserved better. You deserve better. Fear is not love.

[rawliverandgoronspice]

Gantober #2 - Vessels

Hey guys!!!

Are you ready for a Weird Bad Time? :D :D :D

(Tears of the Kingdom - Rauru PoV, light Ganondorf/Rauru, but it's mostly Rauru and Puppet Zelda, and please do mind the tags there is some weird noncon behavior and also vague incestuous things in there!!!)

In the eternal dusk of the Blood Moon, the fallen king of Hyrule clings to the only future he knows won't fail him.

[bread-and-roses-too]

Kind of confused by the huge support for the 4b movement from non-radfems considering, at least from what I've read, it's a female separatist movement in the same vein as political lesbianism and female exclusive bisexuality (febfem). Like it's not about withholding sex or relationships from men until they improve, it's about "freeing yourself from oppression" by not having AMAB people in your life at all.

[ashes-in-a-jar]

[greatbigbellies]

Question for you, do you ever tell romantic partners about this blog or your kinks, and if so, how does one go about doing that?

Yes, actually!

I'm gonna preface this with my usual "take my advice with a grain of salt, I'm not you and your partner is not one of my partners" but since it's pertinent and might help with someone's confidence I'll kinda run through how it's happened for me.

I've had 3 serious partners so far through my life, and all three have known about my kinks. In all three cases, it was basically them inquiring about it first, I didn't broach the topic. It was pretty much always an angle of "we should know what the other person is into for relationship reasons", so there was never any prying. I'm always a liiiittle nervous telling people for the first time, since I've had my kinks, specifically my pregnancy kink, very poorly misinterpreted before. But in each case, they were always super chill, there was very light, brief teasing at worst. It never felt bad or like I was being made to share. TBH the thing I've run into most is me going "I have a pregnancy kink" and someone going "oh so like you're into breeding" and I have to go "no, no, not breeding. Not the baby making. Like, pregnancy, like that process and the visuals that come with it. Belly, stretchmarks, waddle, that stuff".

As far as knowing about this blog? That's a smaller sample size, because this blog didn't exist during the first two relationships. The one person I was with at the time did know about it, but it wasn't even a matter of me telling them outright. It was literally like... a little after I did writing commissions back in 2021. We were chatting and discussing "would you write smut for money" and I just straight up went "oh I have lol" and when they asked what platform I told them here on tumblr. It was a pretty one-and-done thing. Very nonchalant. Honestly they respected the hustle more than being jarred that I had a kink blog.

I realize these anecdotes are probably not super helpful, especially if you're looking for ideas to tell a partner about having a kink blog. The reason I didn't feel the need to like... expressly "come clean" about it is because, at least for me and my partner at the time, we didn't need to know each others full internet presence. If you think the person you're dating would be upset to learn that you have a kink blog that they don't know about, then maybe it's a priority? But honestly, it's... functionally like owning a porn collection. It's just digital, and people can follow it, but really that's kind of all it is? It's not traditional "two people banging" type porn but like, we know why we're here. IMO it's not something super important that needs announcing, unless your partner is looking for ideas of what you like to spice things up.

[squuote]

✍️ Miguel O’Hara

vamp spider

[justlookatthosesausages]

Miko + her strong lesbian flag energy

[starsiide]

if an artist says their turnaround time is usually a week and that they should be done with your specific commission by the end of the week, then goes nearly three weeks without saying something, is it OK to ask them for an update on your commission? I'm a bit torn on whether I should wait a whole month

[intertexts]

nervous laughter

[skitskatdacat63]

I forgot to say this the other day, but why the hell did Malaysia 2009's red flag have so many iconic moments??? Webbonso umbrella convo. Felipe "I need a white vision please, come on, white visor" Massa and Rob "Felipe, baby, stay cool! We're bringing you the white visor, stay cool" Smedley. Kimi dipping to go eat ice cream in the garage, wearing shorts and flip flops, and then it cutting to Timo Glock, still sitting in his car in the pouring rain, watching Kimi on the big screen.

Watching it was just me constantly going:

[bibiana112]

There's nothing wrong with people having their dearest most specialest blorbo be Eric ztd it is unironically good for the ecosystem and I always love seeing the different perspectives from other fans but what I am here today to ask is why is no one like that about Mira. whatever happened to feminism.

[madtomedgar]

I do sometimes wonder if people here think that if a billionaire dies their wealth disappears or gets redistributed, or if a ceo dies their company suffers a massive blow. But nothing happens, actually. They die and their will is executed, transferring their billions in assets to their family members. Sometimes the state gets a very small percentage in tax revenue, some of which funds services for regular people. The boards of companies find a new person to be ceo and steer the ship of exploitation. Individual rich people dying has 0 effect on anything. The systems are way bigger than that.

[edgelord-of-the-day]

Edgelord of the Day #113:

Arata Sanada, display name Blue Box

From: Digimon Story - Cyber Sleuth