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I need an option for "no but I don't pass judgment on other people's relatively harmless cultural practices" please and thank you
(seriously, the kid can take the earrings out later if they don't like them. it's not a permanent alteration. my concern would be more for them not being able to take care of piercings at that age, and getting infections or yanking out the jewelry)
#also just saying...viewing ear-piercing as Barbaric or Backwards has a long history of being rooted in ethnic prejudice#I'm not saying it's offensive to disagree with the practice of piercing babies. but this 'what the fuck' attitude seems#rather insensitive#especially considering that the cultures that pierce babies tend to be historically marginalized groups#and the criticism tends to come from outside those groups#if it were a permanent alteration or a cause of lifelong pain and/or health problems I'd be more perturbed by it#but again...it's not. they can let the piercings heal up later if they want#(also I was 11 and I asked for it and I'm a white USAmerican from a culture that doesn't usually pierce babies)#(for what it's worth)
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my fairly oddparents ocs :) tsubaki is an overachiever who thinks she’s mature for her age (she’s just a kid.) and believes wishing for things to go her way is too childish, while kira is her easygoing, friendly, butler-like godfather that gladly goes along with her bizarre wishes. one day, tsubaki lied about being an esper to her classmates so now she has to rely on kira for her “tricks” and “chasing away ghosts”. hazel does notice that she mutters the phrase “I wish” a lot, though…
tsubaki wants to find loopholes in da rules for her beliefs, thinking that she’s gonna be doing them a favor ("I wonder how far the extent of the fairies’ power is") while kira is one of the few fairies to actively vocalize their opinions regarding the hypocrisy and flaws in the godparenting system, so he's somewhat infamous in the fairy world. they’re on the same wavelength. also kira may or may not have worked for big daddy in the past and that’s why he’s been taking interest in peri’s potential
#fairly oddparents#fairly oddparents a new wish#fairly oddparents oc#tsubaki (oc)#kira (oc)#hazel antoinette wells#peri fairywinkle cosma#tsubaki is also rather harsh and can come off as insensitive... saying stuff like ''some kids don't deserve godparents''#which threw kira off but he knows that her parents are the roots of the problem. and he's working on dismantling it#despite her seriousness and desire to be taken seriously she does have a mischievous streak. like all kids do.#senjart
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Parallel Fates
clang of the tracks rattling carriage flashes of flora and dust
fractured panes reflect unreciprocated familiarity a boy whom you shared first grade absorbed by the mass of strangers who all knowingly decay
seventeen years of silence now eternal, our bodies lie parallel blood gushing down the seats -
as cleanly as our sins deemed worthy of sacrificial act media slaves, headlined the tragic easter commute
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I don't understand. Why our brain turn the traumatic memories into fetishes. I need to research on that, srsly.
idk how to explain it but it does kinda make sense to me. wtf else are we supposed to do with them??? die??? bondage just seems more productive idk.
#my tone here is kind of insensitive but know that i am speaking from a place of honest#i am a greek philosopher discussing the woes of life with acceptance rather than delicacy#and i'm allowed to do that bc this is my blog and i am moderating the symposium#personal#anon ask
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if only we didn't pretend we were fine
#(bc i would rather fight than lose you)#in which geto got mad bc gojo was being insensitive#and gojo pouring out his frustrations bc geto wont let him help and just keeps on blaming himself#bc gojo was hurt as he is and he would listen to whatever he has to say#talking with their fists wouldve been better he wouldnt mind at all#much better than seeing geto's back walking away from him in a sea people running off somewhere he couldnt reach#AND BECAUSE NO ONE WOULD BLAME GETO IF HE GOT MAD AND LANDED A FIST ON GOJO FOR ONCE#satosugu#gojo satoru#geto suguru#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#jjk fanart#and geto would win pure fist fight w gojo no question#man is strong af#shoko done with them tho and wont heal them lmao#still much better than their unending pining to the point of declaring war#//////I HAVE SO MUCH TO SAY IM SORRY
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i recommend this article as something to deconstruct the outrage over palestinians, and any oppressed people, being violent and how it can feel justified but ultimately helps no one. also, Mondoweiss - “news and opinion about palestine, israel and the united states” - is in need of support so please donate if you can.
#free palestine#palestine#colonialism#decolonisation#anti-israel#decolonise palestine#this is not to be insensitive towards victims but to comment on people who would rather talk about hamas than an ongoing genocide
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Since you enjoyed the last videograph so much, here’s another. A little while ago, two young fellows broke into the bookshop on an illicit errand. It went a little something like this…
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#good omens#aziraphale#Scones#Apologies for the earthquake#Just young people out for larks#Rather insensitive language I’m afraid#Youtube#No books or teacups were harmed in the creation of this videograph
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sorry that all that is happening to you. I just wanted to say that your Dorleyposting (and forcefem posting in general) finally pushed me to read Sisters of Dorley, which finally pushed me to start HRT. Also all that you about australia is right. You rock!!
omg I'm so proud of you wtf!!! that's incredible. i was literally reading dorley when you sent this lol. if you mean having ppl follow me then it's chill, just a bit much to deal with sometimes, i have a hard enough time making myself understood when i don't have hundreds of people watching 😔. I'm sure I'll feel better soon, but thank you this really made my night 💕
#asks#sisters of dorley#< just for my tagging scheme#Am i allowed to joke that I've finally feminised someone? is that inaccurate and insensitive?#I'd rather have helped someone along their journey anyway :)
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I’m always scared that I’m gonna come across as annoying or mean on accident with my friends.
I’m just bad at social cues and then I feel bad if I upset them. I swear I’m not trying to. I want the best for my friends and would never dream of being mean to them.
#Red’s rambles#I’ve never gone out a lot so maybe that’s it#I’d just rather be at home instead because there’s nothing fun out here#It’s also hard to know tone over text#so sometimes I can’t tell if they’re annoyed or I’m being annoying#Sometimes people will think I’m trying to be insensitive or mean and I’m not#Thats on Twitter with random people so Idk if a Twitter thing or not#I’m not going back and fixing that last tag#Sorry I needed to vent for a little bit
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I hate readings of eowyn that are "of course the only woman interested in battle and glory decides she actually just wants to be a wife at the end of the story 🙄" bcs congrats, you have spectacularly missed the point!
yeah, eowyn decides she no longer wants to be a warrior at the end of the series, but that is the overarching theme of Literally The Entire Story. lord of the rings is not, and has never been, about epic battles and great fighters and glory through combat. war is continuously framed as a horrifying consequence of the greed and selfishness of powerful people that ruins the lives of everyone involved
aragorn is not accepted as king of gondor because he won the battle of pelennor fields, he is accepted because of his skill and care in healing the wounded afterward. boromir's desire to use the ring as a weapon is what allowed it to corrupt him so easily, despite his noble intentions.
and yes, eowyn wanted to fight. she got to see firsthand the "glory" she sought. she got to see her uncle die in her arms, and herself and her best friend greviously injured and almost killed themselves. the whole point is that there was no glory. there was no great triumph on the battlefield. there was only struggle and horror and death.
and how could you see eowyn best one of sauron's top minions, someone even gandalf feared, and think the ultimate message was "obviously she belongs in the Home :)"
#'I do not love the bright sword for its sharpness nor the arrow for its swiftness' etc etc#like sorry but that argument reads to me the same as anything george rr martin has said about the series with just a feminist veneer#we can discuss tolkien's misogyny! the limited bumber of women in the series and their far smaller roles etc#but lets not act like he was some kind of antiprogressive who thought Women Should Be In The Kitchen Ad Raising Babies#once again his shortcomings seem to come from a place of insensitivity and unexamined biases rather than malice#lotr#lord of the rings#eowyn
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Every time I say I don't want kids people fucking fall all over themselves to say "b-but what if you change your mind!" Then I guess I'll be an older woman with no babies and continue to live my life as I do now the fuck kind of answer do you want to that??
#legitimately like what the fuck are you angling for??#id rather regret not having kids than regret having kids tbqh#people will legit ask the most rude invasive insensitive dehumanizing shit and think its normal#'i feel bad for your mum' do not speak for my mother you are an actual crazy person what the fuck#it shouldnt have to be a 40 minute ARGUMENT every time and yet#life
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hmm I think instead of feeling bad I will simply project this bad onto The Character . for funsies .
#just blahs#not gonna do anything abt it bcs idk how i could but ovuehncke sparrow with scrupulosity ocd <3#just consider with me sparrow being terrified of accidentally saying anything wrong or offending literally anyone#and her completely accidentally saying smthin offensive and trying to figure out how to properly deal with that#without just making the whole situation about herself rather than the person she actually offended#bcs shes afraid that makes her a bad person who just didnt care enough to be aware of herself#gets a bit venty past this point but guys im literally pinky promising you rn I'm ok and ill figure it out please no one bring it up to me#and nobody think about the fact that im projecting rn just think about sparrow ok#this is my way of dealing w similar stuff w/o making it about me bcs ik that thats a shitty thing to do and i need to work it out myself#aughhncns literally every time goddamnit . i accidentally do smthin wrong and then someone (very kindly !!!) tells me hey that was wrong#and then i have a breakdown about it and feel bad and overthink it for the next like week#jesus fucking christ ok it's fine im being patient with myself and i know no one thinks im a bad person#and i know that they know i didnt mean it#and i know that i did say smthin insensitive and thats just something i have to be aware of#and the fact that i said it doesn't mean that im a terrible horrific irredeemable person#i'm trying my best now to be aware of it and be better and think abt whst they said and that's all i can do and thats ok#its fine .#anyways .#also hi cookies if you see this genuinely thank you for telling me tho like i do appreciate it and i am ok dw
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now that I'm officially a victim of long-term gaslighting and it has ruined my self esteem for the foreseeable future I can confidently say that gaslighting jokes are funny and always have been 👍
#chatter#like i remember maybe a year ago when people were saying those jokes are insensitive#and i was like ehhhh i disagree but it's not really my place because i'm not a gaslighting victim 😌 <- delusional#now i can confidently say that it is my place and that shit is funny#i'd rather see people who actually know what the term means make jokes about it than see people use it wrong in a way that is 100% serious#v
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3 for Aldrich, Aldia, Willem & Laurence
9 for Maria
11 for Micolash & Aldrich
24 for Laurence
(Asks from this ( x ) meme)
3) What first drew you to this character?
As for Aldrich, I vaguely recall finding out that he checks the traits I like the most? He was one of the characters I've learned about through fandom and not on my own, and I think this ancient meme about summarises it:
Also:
@val-of-the-north SHUDDUP you're basically so horny for Laurence/Logarius/Snatchers that you can't even picture them in your mind in any way but being naked!!!!!!! *casts the stone back at u*
With Laurence, like with Mico, it was the very first glance at the character in Youtube compilation with boss themes and concept art image. I did not know the lore yet, but the design and the music made me imagine Laurence as sort of aged, sagely librarian. I could not imagine back then that his boss fight would be him being a "helpless abhorrent little mewmew" as kids call it! Heck, I thought he'd have dialogue despite the monster form x) In a way, my first impression was not wrong, with the cut content of him actually talking even in a beast form, and implication of him being a son of Cainhurst cut content librarian NPC! I have intuition for cut content before having information, hahaha!
I have nothing to say about Willem. It might be a memory gap thing, but I swear at some point I feel I was turned off and then booted back up with liking this character already installed in my system x) As for Aldia.... ugh for fuck's sake... yeah, it was this legend:
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I was absolutely floored by this stupid vid even without knowing any context, but I also instantly liked this character. I didn't even know his name yet, but the voice acting and long yapping about philosophy already pulled me in XD (Also unironically, this video is precisely how I give relationship advice fhfhdds)
9) Does this character remind you of anyone you know? Does that affect how you see them?
Yeah, I know this person. I know them very well. I know them more than anyone else. Someone who was misguided (by their destructive influence mentor figure, by their own foolishness and past history, or combination of both, who can tell anymore?) into committing awful things, then despaired over their sins and attempted redemption but also failed in some way? This person is me. At some point I've found myself in front of horrible truth about my past life and personality, and knew I was guilty and sullied forever. That it was over for me as a human being, but that didn't matter, and I could only keep people safe by locking myself away and trying to serve something better.
......annnnd it took a few years of more informed people to (metaphorically) shake me and slap my face into lucidity, explaining to me that I've fallen for the "BPD demonization" that was going far beyond than my individual failure as a friend, and we are always accused of abuse and causing irreversible harm when the worst we do is being emotionally overbearing. I kept losing trust to those friends, telling them that they were enablers who tried to gaslight me into thinking I was not 'that much of a monster', until it was other people with BPD who 'shook me and slapped my face into lucidity'. xd Nonetheless, even though now I know the truth about how society treats BPDs, I remember the feeling of being so monstrous and harmful that I was not even allowed to "touch" people with my dirty hands, how my reality used to be. So, I could write Maria going through this effortlessly, especially considering what she did was more plain and tangible!
In fact... thank you for asking me about this, because I kept wondering why I had such frequent dreams about being Maria, and why the Maria in my dreams acts like abused child that took back control against Gehrman despite my portrayal of the guy being so different. And now the puzzle is solved! That part of me still lives inside, it seems.
11) How did you “fall in love” with this character?
Already answered this for Micolash here: ( x )! As for Aldrich, it was through properly analysing the bigger picture and context of his actions. I've figured that his madness was, in fact, being informed on what was far too ahead of everyone else around him! He, like the rest of the cast, is trapped in the rotting, doomed world in which the only choices are 1) "die with dignity" or 2) commit something unthinkable from moral standpoint for a chance to escape. And will morality of the rotting world will matter in the new world anyways? Won't it all be left behind and be forgiven?
The guy also tried to take everyone else he could with him, like sort of a fucked up Noah's Arc! I can tell that they reused the concept with Rykard, at least, I am glad they know what works xD I'd say that the sadism he experienced upon eating people was either result of insanity (he understood a thing no one should understand), or still didn't exclude the bigger purpose (egotistically revelling in how holy he is helping everyone and doing what no one else dared, which would be like my Laurence). In any case, I have the strongest respect to the courage it takes to transcend the bonds of morality and compassion in order to to greater good. Being burdened with the knowledge of how the world really works, and choosing to push through instead of still being bound... This is why I also like Fauxsefka; learning how this world works, she chose to turn people into Kin so they can't ever become beasts. I am weak for this trope, you don't understand.
24) Do you ever dream about this character? If so, describe a dream you once had about them.
Laurence appears in my dreams only in two contexts: 1) Micolaurence or 2) dreams about finding secret files in Bloodborne that reveal his canonical appearance before beasthood! I can tell the latter comes from my everlasting unsatisfaction with my design for him, because I love it but it doesn't feel "fitting" and I can't identify why!
The former, I think, fandom rubbing onto me x) In two of these dreams, I was Laurence. In other two, I was Micolash. In one of Laurence dreams it was mutual, in the second one I was in love unrequited. In one of Micolash dreams, it was mutual, and in another it was not.. Basically, my dreams allows me to experience this ship from every possible angle. o_o Waiting for more I guess fhhdfsfd
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Thank you for asking! And.. without exaggeration, you've just done quite a psychological work on me by just asking the right thing. I need to think about that, hahaha
#bloodborne#dark souls 3#aldrich devourer of gods#laurence the first vicar#soulsborne#ask replies#personal#memories#dreams#honestly I remember Maria in my dreams hiding in the closet like an abused bullied child.. that big strong woman reduced to this#and I finally know why it was this way#I'd rather not sully Gehrman with something as dirty as my stepdad of course he deserves so much more and he is his own man#I just don't like the approach of turning characters with their own stories and personality into vessels for my trauma#it feels like frenzied flame: you got infected by it and you have unending need to spread it. to scorch the world in your pain.#I don't think this approach would help my healing but instead make me feel worse by nourishing the trauma#I am keeping it sealed away from the world forever now </3#see this is why it hurts me so much when gehrman haters accuse me of being insensitive to people that want to project their negative-#-experiences with men and misogyny onto him even if that means twisting the actual story and character. I do have a reason to do it myself#I just choose not to because I personally dislike the idea of making fandomry about myself more and about source material less#I don't want to bring the pain and horrors inside me into something that doesn't have them. some things can stay clean!#the passive aggression between canon worshippers and fanon enforcers is something that cannot be avoided in the fandoms#and I disapprove of the lie about 100% peace and mutual respect between the 'camps'. we will never FULLY like each other#each thinks their approach is more productive for the community. and that's fine!
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I don't know how to word this. But I have the. Urge. To request an unknown amount of alter packs, or similar, of the character I identify as (or want to identify as, obviously it's Vergil,) but I'm not a system or a member of a system, I think I just need to see people's head-canons they could give him or just inspiration in general of what else to identify as. But either way, I am deathly afraid of doing that. I just need to find something that can make me feel more like him, or see other people's suggestions or advice. But I'm nervous when it comes to interacting with people.
#transid#pro transid#transid community#transid please interact#transid safe#Just a thought. Or a ramble. Or something.#Does anybody have advice or suggestions to help with this? Is it appropriate to request things like this for reference or help?#Or does that seem a bit stupid and insensitive? I feel rather embarrassed at the thought.#I'm unsure of tagging any community tags again but I don't know how to make sure other people can see this.
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Character concept: completely straight faced, unflapple character who never emotes. Probably bookish and snooty, and generally stand-offish.
Except when using sign language. The accompanying facial expressions are done with 100% accuracy and precision before going back to stony stillness when not actively communicating with a deaf individual.
The other characters find the sudden change strange but focus character responds like 'what? You all know I find using correct grammar to be important.'
Someone told this guy facial expressions are a core part of communicating and never clarified this goes for interacting smoothly for hearing people too.
#Pire.txt#I just like the idea of going like a season of spock level emoting for them to suddenly know what smiling is#And it's not even a genuine show of emotion exactly but rather used in a calculated way like basic syntax#Calculated warmth and all that#Deaf community feel free to correct me if anything is wrong/insensitive
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