#rather insensitive

[hajimedics]

my fairly oddparents ocs :) tsubaki is an overachiever who thinks she’s mature for her age (she’s just a kid.) and believes wishing for things to go her way is too childish, while kira is her easygoing, friendly, butler-like godfather that gladly goes along with her bizarre wishes. one day, tsubaki lied about being an esper to her classmates so now she has to rely on kira for her “tricks” and “chasing away ghosts”. hazel does notice that she mutters the phrase “I wish” a lot, though…

tsubaki wants to find loopholes in da rules for her beliefs, thinking that she’s gonna be doing them a favor ("I wonder how far the extent of the fairies’ power is") while kira is one of the few fairies to actively vocalize their opinions regarding the hypocrisy and flaws in the godparenting system, so he's somewhat infamous in the fairy world. they’re on the same wavelength. also kira may or may not have worked for big daddy in the past and that’s why he’s been taking interest in peri’s potential

[yakultstan]

Parallel Fates

clang of the tracks rattling carriage flashes of flora and dust

fractured panes reflect unreciprocated familiarity a boy whom you shared first grade absorbed by the mass of strangers who all knowingly decay

seventeen years of silence now eternal, our bodies lie parallel blood gushing down the seats -

as cleanly as our sins deemed worthy of sacrificial act media slaves, headlined the tragic easter commute

[yandere-daydreams]

I don't understand. Why our brain turn the traumatic memories into fetishes. I need to research on that, srsly.

idk how to explain it but it does kinda make sense to me. wtf else are we supposed to do with them??? die??? bondage just seems more productive idk.

[wereoz]

i recommend this article as something to deconstruct the outrage over palestinians, and any oppressed people, being violent and how it can feel justified but ultimately helps no one. also, Mondoweiss - “news and opinion about palestine, israel and the united states” - is in need of support so please donate if you can.

[genderqueersammy]

Sometimes I make a post and then wonder if I’m truly saying something worthwhile and then I remember that some people genuinely think that in s12 Sam was trying to make Dean look bad in front of Mary (seen this with when Dean was sarcastic towards Mary when she visited them and Sam interrupted) or downplays his feelings or twists them (seen this done for the ‘mom is not a thing’ dialogue)…. Literally the most bizarre least generous interpretation of his character, it’s insane

[thatonesmartkidfromschool]

Dog got put down today and the saddest I've been all day is because of pokemon angst. What the hell is wrong with me. Why can't I care.

[mister-a-z-fell]

Since you enjoyed the last videograph so much, here’s another. A little while ago, two young fellows broke into the bookshop on an illicit errand. It went a little something like this…

[soup-mother]

sorry that all that is happening to you. I just wanted to say that your Dorleyposting (and forcefem posting in general) finally pushed me to read Sisters of Dorley, which finally pushed me to start HRT. Also all that you about australia is right. You rock!!

omg I'm so proud of you wtf!!! that's incredible. i was literally reading dorley when you sent this lol. if you mean having ppl follow me then it's chill, just a bit much to deal with sometimes, i have a hard enough time making myself understood when i don't have hundreds of people watching 😔. I'm sure I'll feel better soon, but thank you this really made my night 💕

[deeplovelydark]

one of the very first things bashir says is that he's excited to do real 'frontier medicine' on ds9 and kira rightfully gives him a piece of her mind. in the quickening bashir has a bit of a breakdown when he's not able to find a cure for a plague: he chastises himself for the arrogance of thinking that he could find a cure and that there's probably none. it takes jadzia to remind him that it's even more arrogant to think that because bashir couldn't find it no one can. so julian stays on the planet and develops a vaccine that would cure the children of the locals but not the locals themselves. in ...nor the battle to the strong jake is supposed to write an article about bashir when julian starts his usual self-congratulatory routine boring jake to death and making him wish there were some emergency because writing about doctors being valiant in the face of death and danger is what's really interesting for a writer. and then jake actually ends up in a hospital in the middle of a war zone and he helps the doctors there and then leaves bashir alone under shelling and loses his temper and throws up and his one act of courage is also an impulsive act of self-preservation carried out on adrenaline and fear. so he realizes that heroism and war and disasters are not all that fun, yk? that he was not what he expected himself to be. that bashir was a valiant doctor but that was not an inspiring sight but a horrible situation that tests people and reveals some as capable of cowardice and others of bravery and that everyone will eventually be both.

[red-gekkouga]

I’m always scared that I’m gonna come across as annoying or mean on accident with my friends.

I’m just bad at social cues and then I feel bad if I upset them. I swear I’m not trying to. I want the best for my friends and would never dream of being mean to them.

[brennbug]

Every time I say I don't want kids people fucking fall all over themselves to say "b-but what if you change your mind!" Then I guess I'll be an older woman with no babies and continue to live my life as I do now the fuck kind of answer do you want to that??

[justablah56]

hmm I think instead of feeling bad I will simply project this bad onto The Character . for funsies .

[bonni]

now that I'm officially a victim of long-term gaslighting and it has ruined my self esteem for the foreseeable future I can confidently say that gaslighting jokes are funny and always have been 👍

[francesderwent]

WAIT OK SORRY IT'S SUPER LATE BUT you're losing me?

I will accept this late message because I love you, and because “You’re Losing Me” is exactly the song that my original text post complaining about Swifties missing the point was about haha 

the Swiftie lyric: “I wouldn’t marry me either a pathological people pleaser” and also to a lesser extent “I’m getting tired even for a phoenix always rising from the ashes”

the lyric we should be paying attention to: “who only wanted you to see her” and “lose something babe, risk something. choose something babe I’ve got nothing to believe unless you’re choosing me”

ugh the reaction to this song drives me up a wall. to pull out “I wouldn’t marry me either a pathological people-pleaser” WITHOUT finishing the line?? are you nuts??? because the end of the line gives us so much context!!! he’s not losing her because she wanted to make the whole place shimmer and he wanted to hide and found her people-pleasing ways annoying, no! he’s losing her because all she wanted, the only person at the end of the day that she wanted to please, was him. but actually the song keeps going, it tells us even more as Taylor does what she always does: gives very clear instructions of exactly what he needs to do to dig them out of this hole. and it’s not pay more attention to her, it’s choose her. she said in “Cruel Summer”, we say that we’ll just screw it up in these trying times, we’re not trying—and he’s STILL not. he won’t risk. but he can’t keep going on in this same way, floating in limbo forever. and so she has nothing to place her faith in, her faith that was always so strong. 

basically what it comes down to is this. the popular reception of this song I’ve seen is so focused on the one pathological people-pleaser line that it’s somehow spun an interpretation of the song as about falling out of love when you’re convinced you’re unlovable. it’s just a shade off from the “what a shame she’s fucked in the head” of “champagne problems”; the blame is turned inward, except for very brief moments where it looks out at him to spit specific accusations “I know my pain is such an imposition”, “don’t you ignore me I’m the best thing at this party” etc.  and I think that’s absolutely bullshit. “You’re Losing Me” is definitely not about pulling away and sabotaging the relationship, and it’s not even about someone doing a bunch of little hurtful things in the relationship. it’s about the relationship dying because one person won’t make a choice about what the relationship is and what it means. it’s Taylor giving the final word on the feminine experience of being taken for granted and strung along. it’s about waiting for someone to commit to you, and they never do. it’s about when you wanted to give everything, but your partner will only ever give a little, so you have to stop giving. to me, this is just clear. and I think the only reason that it hasn’t been taken note of is because the culture wants to go on believing that taking the ��step” of living together while always keeping the back door open is somehow “good for the relationship”. but it isn’t. it’s not the familiar violence of being left, “this thing was a masterpiece til you tore it all up”, but it is just as destructive. it just kills you slowly. 

[hurglewurm]

rather unfulfilling therapy session about how bad i am at speaking the same language as others and seeing and being seen. not without its worth. feels awful though. i'm not happy

[chris-continues]

Cool, feel free to joke about the tragedy of today but know that several children in the daycare at the base of the towers, their parents who worked there, first responders trying to help, and roughly 800 people in the 4 planes had to choose between being burnt alive or falling to their own deaths because it was faster.