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[koxiia]

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[lordpuzzle28]

Just went through a block-fest of a bunch of terf/"radical feminist" blogs like I do sometimes. and like. man.

their whole ideology is so fucking miserable. like, I knew we knew this already - if you perceive the world as entirely out to get you except for a particular group of conforming, morality policing internet weirdos, then yeah you're gonna feel pretty shitty about the world and your place in it. but even with that, there are multiple reblogs of ongoing discourse and piss-fights over the smallest aspects of life and of their beliefs. some terfs are "homophobic" and this is "bad," but their entire belief is based on demonizing a certain sect of queerness so I guess you only care about "your" queerness? how can you claim to be for all women when you're also infested with homophobes? more than that, how can you be upset at that when you've advertised yourselves as incredibly -phobic in general?

and then there was one terf was being ridiculed for saying she would still like men around because she's attracted to them, and got bodied by like 3 different people. and idk man I feel like if you can't have a sexuality in the antiqueer, fascist, self-policing cult group maybe you shouldn't be surprised by that. you've been trying to deny other people their own personal freedoms for however long now did you not think it would happen to you too?

Just like. imagine dedicating your entire beliefs, your mind, your energy, your personal relationships just for a feeling of being 'right', or even less than that, just the feeling of being 'part of' a certain super cool, totally-going-to-liberate-you internet gang, only to be even more thoroughly policed by the warring factions within it. "Are you "radical" enough?" what the fuck does that mean?

And yeah, if this is most or all of your social circle I'm not surprised so many terfs have a high suicide rate. what a miserable existence - having to prove yourself, over and over again, that you have the right opinions, the right credibility, the right politics and the right acidic hatred (which must be exhausting to keep up) - simply to maintain membership to the lamest fascist sect in the world.

anyway feeling pity for terfs and their miserable lives over now. lol. get out my blog and come back when you've learned to not give a shit about other people. that's all it takes dude

[ballistic-goat]

It's crazy how ppl hate on Rowling, and praise Stephen King for speaking against her, when only one of them has written a child orgy in their books and it wasn't her

[vulva-venus-hates-that-penis]

[redditreceipts]

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLGBT/s/T2Q5yURfiL

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"Hey guys, I'm a woman only attracted to other women. What do you call that?" (Needless to say, the people in the comments called her transphobic for assuming that people with female bodies don't have penises lmao)

[jellyfishfem]

”girls dont have hobbies” they do and yall call em cringe, annoying, wannabe quirky manic pixie dream girls who are trying too hard

girls and women have the best and most interesting hobbies, all boys and men do is watch rape on tape and play COD and bully gay ppl online

[majchic]

[radykalny-feminizm]

[femconstellation]

shoutout to all of the radfems who had (or have) eating disorders. discovering radfeminism has opened my eyes to how horrible i treated myself while struggling with an eating disorder.

[ramblings-of-a-detrans-woman]

Why I will never support the radical feminist movement, as a detransitioning woman.

note: this is not meant to be any sort of hit piece or slander, I respect every feminist, even ones I disagree with. This is just my reasoning for why I do not like the radfem movement.

For a bit of context, I’ve indentified as trans since I was 12. At 18, I’ve decided to live my life as a lesbian woman, and i’ve never been happier with that choice.

Now, being a young trans man, I interacted a lot with pro trans content online (of course I did), and so of course I’ve heard about radical feminism. A passionate branch of feminism that takes a unique approach to women’s rights- deconstructing gender entirely. It sounds wonderful in theory, because of course gender is oppressive, most notably of women. I would know, being one. Even when I was trans I had to worry about being out at night. I even got chased once, and a man attempted to lure me to his truck another time. It’s brutal. But radical feminists devote their activism to ending this in a straightforward, logical way.

So why do I, a woman who has experienced both misogyny and transphobia, not support that? I feel that this is a good question for both trans allies and radfems alike to to ask. Knowledge is power.

Well, I’ll be direct. Radfems are some of the most depraved people i’ve ever met. I know, that sounds like a lot, but there’s no other words I can use that don’t perfectly encapsulate my experience with radfems. It’s depravity.

For weeks, I was harassed by transphobic radfems. Radfems, who are insistent on their love and support for TIFs aka trans men. It’s strange then that they would be so cruel towards one, wouldn’t you say?

Detransition is hard enough. It’s difficult to tell family that you were wrong. It’s difficult to reconnect with my gender. Hell, i prefer the term detrans over cis just because i have such a disconnect from my gender. So why do I have to deal with transphobic radfems sending me gore and death threats?

Thankfully all of the accounts doing this seem to be deleted or repurposed. But it’s only a matter of time until a new account is made just to send me an ask telling me to kill myself or a message about how much of a loser i am.

It’s this reason alone why i’ll never be a radfem. They’re just sick people. They don’t want liberation for women, they just hate trans people. It’s not even thinly veiled, their accounts are fully based around how horrible trans women are.

The truth being, trans women aren’t bad people at all. It’s easy to think they are because the news and media cherry picks some of the worst ones, but every community and minority group has bad people in it. some of the sickest people you could imagine, really. yes, they can be trans. but does being trans make you a sick person? does it turn you into a predator? no, it doesn’t. it just means you’re trans. trans or not, it’s up to men to be mature and take accountability for their own actions that they consciously make. a cis man is as capable to walk into a women’s room as a trans woman is.

if radical feminists cared more about women and detrans women, i could consider getting along with them. but sadly, all these passionate and dedicated feminists care about is hating trans people with a fiery passion. and i’ve been a casualty. it’s very difficult for me to sympathize with radfems when they’ve upset me to the point that they have

let me make it clear that gore and death threats don’t upset me, i’m not easily offended. So it’s not the threats that make me angry. It’s just the principle. The fact that radfems are spending their time scrolling reddit for gore pictures to send to fellow women instead of supporting us makes me SICK. it’s heartbreaking to picture a woman, raped and beaten by her boyfriend, and a radfem standing in front of her, readily available to help, but choosing to yell at a passing detrans woman. It’s really sad.

hopefully those reading this can take my words into consideration and use it to improve yourselves or your community (if you’re a radfem). i love womanhood and being a woman and i would love to share that joy with my sisters, but i just can’t when these issues i’ve experienced are in the back of my mind. I want radical feminism to be a safe space, a place where sisters can go to talk to women, relate to women, cry with and support women. but so far, the only love and support i’ve received has been from the trans community. that speaks volumes.

i am going to post more about my experience with finding my womanhood again in the future, so if you’re a detrans woman yourself, trans ally or not, consider following me :) i’d love to build myself a little community

[tra-archive]

Men don’t care about male victims. When they whine “no one cares when it’s a man!! Imagine if the roles were reversed!!” they need to be calling out other men, because they’re the ones who don’t care.

Today on r/pics, a picture was posted of 29-year-old Jacqueline Louise Domac in the 90s with her “boyfriend” (aka grooming victim) Edward Furlong, who was only 14. Disgusting, right? Surely no one could condone a grown ass adult dating a child.

Here’s what men in the comments had to say. (TW for mentioning grooming and rape)

@redditreceipts

[redditreceipts]

something positive for a change y'all

If she can do it, so can you!!!

[aunt-kats-chats]

The fact that people are claiming that they won’t trust the allegations against Neil Gaiman because the author of the article is “TeRfy” is bullshit. People cry out “support victims” unless the supposedly wrong kind of person calls attention to it. Like fuck man just the age range between Gaiman and his victims is more than enough evidence for me

[majchic]

[radykalny-feminizm]

I'm just going to leave it here