#questioning nblm

[questioning-culture-is]

Questioning nblm culture is going through the nblm tag to see if you find the experiences there relatable, but they’re all just mlm posts with nblm thrown in there for “inclusion”. Like, it just perpetuates the stereotype that nonbinary people are the “lite” version of whichever binary gender they look most like. I look like a dude, but I’m not a dude.

Seriously though, are there any actual resources for questioning nblm and nblw?

i think you may have an easier time finding resources if you search for toric and trixic, there is @trixic-culture-is though sadly there isn't a toric-culture-is blog, maybe @toricpride may be able to help you

hope this helps!!

[incognitopolls]

We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

[thefleshyougoveggie]

i honestly think some people (queer and not) are a bit too comfortable asking others what their sexuality is, that’s something someone can tell you if it’s relevant and if they’re ready.

i was at pride yesterday and a friend of a friend (who i’ve met a few times) straight up asked my friend if she was “going as an ally or something else” and i’m like??? that is NOT an appropriate question to ask someone. my friend is openly bi, but she could not have been? like… some ppl are not comfortable sharing their sexuality openly like that, and someone’s sexuality is basically only your business if you’re planning on dating them or something like that, and even then it’s not really appropriate to ask something like that in a big public setting like that.

i know she meant no harm, but it’s not the first time experiencing something like that and that really makes me think about how some ppl need to start thinking more about how personal of a question can be.

some ppl might not know, some might not be comfortable being open about it in a public setting, some might not be ready to tell people etc. and all those ppl have a right to be at pride and other queer events without being questioned, they should be able to be as comfortable as possible!

[transmate]

does anyone else fully unshaved look down at their pubic hair patterns and think "holy shit i am so gorgeous why would i ever get rid of this?" or am i just transmasc with delusions of grandeur. because i may very well be and i'm okay with that.

[lunnam0th]

i actually don’t think gender and sexuality has to be this singular finite thing. like i know what i am and maybe i’m still figuring out what i like but that’s okay. it’s okay to be neither or in the middle or something else all together. you can be multiple things at once. i promise, it’s okay to question, to change, to take you’re time figuring out what feels right and true to you. <3

[xmushy-gushyx]

My boyfriend bought me the prettiest collar ever yesterday and it's so fucking embarrassing to wear<3<3<3<3

I'm never taking it off ❤️

[mlmcore]

Genuine question, what is the longest you have pinned/yearned after your partner that you weren't dating at the time?

Mine was 2 years and 9 months with my boyfriend. And 1 year with my platonic partner when I hadn't realized that we were already platonically involved with each other 💀

[parxgender]

Sexuality-Questioning Juvelic Flags

Sapphic (WLW) / Julietian (WLM) / Trixic (NBLW) Romeric (MLW) / Achillean (MLM) / Toric (NBLM)

Based off of the sexuality-questioning flag here!

[lavend3r-stardust]

Nerdy gamer boys are the main demographic for bi girls!!! So y'all cuties out there that are embarrased for having "childish" interests, trust me, baby, there's a bi girl out there that's falling head over heels in love with you

[asexual-vampire]

Okay so obviously like that post I just reblogged says it's important to put effort into learning about kinks you want to participate in no matter what role you're going to be playing in them.

THAT BEING SAID I genuinely think it would be so fun if my sub was like "hey I want to do this new thing but I don't know much about how to do it safely and properly" and then they gave me like a week or so to research it for them and create a paper/presentation that explains all the important information in a way that I know they'll understand, complete with resources for if they have follow up questions about anything specific

[your-blorbos-are-queer]

zoey clarke from zoey's extraordinary playlist is quoigender, demiromantic, omniromantic, and toric (headcanon)

submitted by @alipie09

[thefleshyougoveggie]

the thought of being somebody’s nonbinary boyfriend makes me all giddy inside

[bootwearingfairy]

Oni boyfriend who starts rutting and becoming obsessed with fucking you and eating you while you're ovulating and then gets worse when you get your period cause the scent drives him to a shivering, panting frenzy. Eating you out whenever he gets the chance cause you're both so horny and nutting helps your cramps and he gets to consume and then he fucks you raw until you're dizzy cause he just can't stop and-

++this is for mlm, nblm, and t4t only. DNI if you do not intend to respect the pouch lest you get fed to said Oni++

[aniso-pride]

Um is it possible to non-binary and use Anisosexaul?

yes. first thing: nonbinary isn't a monolith, but even if it was it would make sense to be anisosexual and non-binary.

but there could be different perspectives in the way one uses anisosexual when one is non-binary. for example, a ceteroflexible/enboriflexible nonbinary would be anisosexual. there are also non-binary whose predominant attraction is gay/gai towards certain binary genders (i.e. trixianflexible/torianflexible). there's also symmaic(flexible). some enbyhet individuals may reclaim the word homosexual for themselves and thus capable of being aniso as well.

so nonbinariety/nonbinariness is ample and diverse. and diamoric covers it well sometimes