#queer-tistic

[hazbinbossbrainrot]

Canon: Stolas is ✨ autistic ✨

"Ohohohoho! This will be fun! I love words!"

...

Aaaaaand this goes straight to my "Proof that Stolas is autistic" list. 😙

[worldsbiggestnerd101]

here’s another thing ice never watched that I feel u think I have

Hamilton .

I remember starting to watch it like 4 years ago bc like most of my friends (at the time) were into it, but like I just wasn’t into it after 20 mins of watching so I turned it off lol.

also I’ve never watch luca

oh you have no idea how much i’ve watched hamilton. hamilton was my EVERYTHING during covid. seriously lmao me and @cloudii-skiies were so tistic over it that we ended up seeing it on broadway at the end of 2021 like we were OBSESSED (you can blame me for getting her into it, she wouldn’t have watched it without me)

you should so so so watch it again i love it it was my first musical and is the reason i’m so into theater now!! give it another show please please pleaseeeeeee it’s so good you won’t regret it

also go watch luca!!! it’s the cutest shit ever it’s so very queer despite not being blatant about anything (i.e. outright stating anything about queerness) it’s so good and it’s just so wholesome and a cute little movie :3 (the gay sea monster movie… it beckons you..)

[butterflies-and-roaches]

Stuff about stuff

(Please read if you want to interact!!)

Edited 08.04.24

Who are you?

Call me butterfly 🦋 (or jules), legal adult, gender has no meaning to me and i prefer any pronouns except she/her, probably 'tistic (but my rizz is on the negative hehe), aroace (but for the sake of rp let's consider i'm pan on this blog lol + will not hesitate to simp over fictional characters of any gender)

Main: @timeladix (from which follows ensue)

My art: @julesdraws (rn full hellaverse but keep in mind it's still multifandom)

Wtf is this?

Started off as a butterfly🦋 anon on @/nunalastor 's blog and soon got married to @/lu-lus-duckies so i felt like i should show some face in whatever this has become :>>

Also married to @/lucifersruberduck

And i'm the one that came up with the #nunwhiskers ship name :3 (kinda accidentally lol)

Anything else?

This will sometimes be a role play sideblog (bulshiting around - meaning half the stuff i say or do is exagerated or purely joking bc it's fun) and other times i'll be serious if there is need for me to be

(Just keep in mind i'm autistic and my tone recognision skills are lacking immensly)

Asks always* open, as long as you're not mean i'll probably respond (tho maybe not always right away), feel free to talk ab anything and everything i love engagement :33

*Alright babes, ask box related, these are my HARD NOs (if you won't respect this you'll get blocked and the ask will be deleted sorry): gore, explicit imigery, hate talk (this includes transphobic/homophobic/albeistic/racist etc etc talk), polotics related, horror related, SH and su/i/cide (if it's not said as a joke or it's excessive), ra/pe, violence, abuse, and maybe other stuff that is v extreme or hard to process and doesn't come to mind rn.

(Don't take it personally please, this is me protecting my mental health🦋)

Queer and neurodivergent friendly 🫶

Not a native english speaker!!

Oh and I can actually make pancakes :>>>

(and yes i loooove butterflies)

Wanna add smth you forgot?

Oh yeah i'll update this post as this blog evolves (idk what to expect from this tbh but i'm here for the funsies)

TaGs:

#lore stuff (anything hazbin lore related or unhinged head canons that i find interesting)

#silly wifey stuff (anytime i interact with lulu cuz she's special bc she's my first wife from the polycule)

#silly hubby stuff (anytime i interact with lucifersruberduck aka theo, my first husband :0)

#cursed polycule (everything related to the rest of the polycule - lulu has a chart in their pinned)

#cursed cursed worms (anything worm related)

#butterfly talks (anytime i talk in reblogs or post stuff on its own)

[useless-contributions]

Queer-'tistic

are you autistic and gay?

lesbian and autistic perhaps?

an autistic pan or bisexual?

asexual and autistic?

trans or non binary and autistic?

any autistic member of the LGBTQ+ community?

well guess what...

you're fucken great and I love you

[gaypirateslife4me]

Thank you to everyone who got me to 1000 likes!

I appreciate everyone who has enjoyed even a smidge of my 'tistic, spastic, super-queer, 'steddyhands, poly-crew, carnally obsessing over taika, emo-meta, ed teach apologizing, vico-please-top-me, blackbonnet's true love is cool I guess, frenchie-fantasizing, willing to sacrifice an above-knuckle finger to be besties with lucius springs/nathan foad, shipping-izzy-with-happiness because fuck off that's why' blog is EVERYTHING to me.

*kisses your face (with explicit consent)*

[crystu-cii]

TW: VENT; FEEL FREE TO DELETE.

Just had a mental breakdown, my brother (who has threatened to kill me multiple times and literally fucking hates me) called me autistic as an ‘‘“insult”’’ , my mom, whether on purpose or not, tried to convince me I was bad for self-diagnosing and i didn't have adhd because I was “smart” and “had good grades” as if people with adhd are worthless idiots... she doesn't even know i have anxiety and paranoia.. let alone the fact I'm queer... she says she “loves me with all of her heart”... But I don't know how much longer I'll ‘believe it’... or if she'd still if she found out the truth...

I.. am so, so very sorry for telling you all this, all this at once.. I'm sorry, you're the only one I trust with this information without knowing who i am...

it's all okay, no need for more apologizing! /gen im just super glad you decided to let it out in a way. and i apologize if posting this publicly onto my blog is too much for you, this is the only way I can reply (you can always just rush to my inbox and tell me to delete it! or- if you feel comfortable enough, you can dm me here on tumblr! /gen)

but I must admit- your brother and your mom sound horrible /srs now I may not them personally- or if they ever have a good side that i dont know of- but a brother threatening to KILL their SIBLING is absolutely OUTRAGEOUS /Negative

and GEEZ that ableism is the absolute worst- self diagnosing is completely valid. plus- who would know yourself better than, well, you??

i could go on for ages about how i think the your brother's and mother's movements are just wrong- but i would keep it short for now. ^^ whoever you are, anon, stay strong. I believe in you, and I am very proud of how far you have come. I hope my response makes you feel a tad bit better. ❤

[arise-children-angel-is-here]

Thanks @meowph-132!!!! <333333

Help what does queer coded mean??

Help I took it again. I still don't know what I am, help. I don't even use reddit 😭

Oki taggy time!!!

@beewasdeleted @tistic-hellspwn @ofthefrogs @qeelovestea @artistheworld @m3l0man14c @cuddlebugmonster

Help I have bad memory. This is all I remember :<

1. Do this uquiz

2. Do this picrew.

3. Tag people.

@mxlilly @circus-of-horror @yourleastfavoriteguyinthechair @microsoupmouse @the-firefly-jar-system @cdcouncil

[books-bread-and-brigandage]

I spent a long long time thinking I was just autistic (and really being low/mid support needs my not having any intrest in dating or a sexual partner was very convinient for my care givers growing up so the lack of intrest wasn't looked into). Then I basicly reasoned (aromantic wasn;t popularised the way ace was) that I coudnt be ace becase I had sex drive and clear tastes. Then I heard about aromantiscisim, but I dont mind romance in games or books if done right so... I;m just a loner right? I was talking to a more clued up persononline, about how I have the same relationship to sex and romance as I do the surface of mars, or those realy deep caves with their own ecologies? How its fun to read and to speculate about but I'd never want to do the things that would be needed to put myself there personaly. "Yeah thast still a valid aromantic out look, you're just romance-favorable." Light bulb goes off. Suddenly I wasnt a dateless, virgin fail-tistic. I was Aromantic. But eh was it worth identfying? was I queer enough? I was still a cis man who desired woumen. Thats basicly straight. Only one of my freinds is a trans man who desires women, and I've never doubted his identity or queerness for a moment. So unless I was going to be a hypocrite I had to validate my own. And it was freeing, all that, weight of mile stones missed all the rites of passage I had failed to reach, no longer applied to me. So here I am, vocaly aromantic but not ace and making it every ones problem. Writing a pulpy urban fanstay asbout an academic turned soldier desperately trying to avod trapping his best freind in a loveless larage without her hating him becase he proposed BEFORE he realised he was aro. Having the term, having the comunity was like finaly getting my autisim diagnosis. I'm not stupid or a failure, I'm a differnt kind of person and the freedom of realising the rules were not made forme is I get to carve out my own rules.

genuine question but how did you figure out you were aro. like was there some event or did you always know? questioning myself and i am asking this to every aro person i can find

(putting this here so i can find it more easily- 💚🤍🩶🖤)

thanks a lot!!

feel free to share below!

I personally didn’t have one big “oh” moment, it mostly just built up over time as I saw and related to others experiences.