#queer bars

[farmerlesbian]

I read two interviews and an article about the new book, Moby Dyke by Krista Burton and am wondering what y’all’s experience is with going to lesbian bars. I’m talking historically Dyke bars. Hard to define sometimes but if you’re unsure, take a look at the pieces I linked above, then answer!

As usual, add your thoughts in the comments or tags or explain if it's complicated!

[360degreesasthecrowflies]

On a gender presentation update:

I had the most successful night of my life at the local club after I went out in my work clothes not intending to go for a full night out. (I was just dropping in on my friend who works there after their shift finished and we ended up staying) Apparently even in the queer clubs here people who look like the gender they're "meant" to is actually what people find attractive (????)

So much for queer people being more discerning or whatever!

Then a week later I went out abroad in my full club kid getup and was extremely popular there dressed in that way soooo....

Now I'm just confused. Maybe this is another sign I should move away or something.

[lesbianloveisreal]

Reminder if you go to queer spaces and then see someone from one of those spaces out in the world, unless you know they are out you didn't meet them at said queer space.

[atompowers]

"The memories, the friendships, the feeling of belonging and those joyous moments on the dance floor. The bars evolve as we do. They come and go and sometimes come back again. The spaces may be fleeting, but what they’ve given us is permanent."

—D.C.’s Gay Bars: An Oral History, Citypaper

[bethelctpride]

Bear Night Friday April 5th 2024 11PM-2AM

Trevi Lounge 548 Kings Highway Cutoff, Fairfield, CT

[justdavina]

Two HOT gurls ready to hit the town and break some hearts!

[acewriter]

Alphabet Community Bar Names

Introduction

I have been writing a series of books that center around the LGBT (or Alphabet) Community in a fictional city. Several years ago I started collecting bar names. I've since learned how few women's / lesbian bars there currently are, where there were quite a few 30 years ago.

This list is incomplete but I'll be adding information as time goes on.

This post will serve as a master post, linking to individual posts of each bar. The goal here is to gather information. So if you want to contribute information, please tell me and I'll credit you accordingly.

Bar Names

California

San Francisco

Marlena's

Lexington Club

Peg's Place

Maud's

Amelia's

Clementina's Baybrick Inn; aka The Brick

Colorado

Colorado Springs

Club Q

District of Columbia (Washington, DC)

As You Are

Florida

Orlando

Pulse Night Club

Georgia

Atlanta

Phase One

Other Side Lounge

Louisiana

New Orleans

Upstairs Lounge

New York State

New York City

Bum Bum Bar

Stonewall Inn

Tennessee

Memphis

Avershot & Lorenzo's

Dru's Bar

Madison Flame

Texas

Houston

Chances Bar

Virginia

Roanoke

Backstreet Cafe

Washington State

Seattle

The Grand Union

The Silver Slipper

The Wild Rose

[the-infernal-reader]

Went to my local queer bar and found they had this cheeky boy. I've never wanted to steal something so badly. I love him!

[azis-nebula]

listen, getting off by myself is great. But fuck it’s a lot of work. Humping my pillow and whimpering into the quiet of my room isn’t enough anymore. Fingering myself until my hand cramps up isn’t doing it for me.

I need need need a nice top or switch to just lay me down and ravage me. Show me more pleasure than I could ever show myself. Mark my skin with their nails and their teeth until it’s etched like a piece of art. I want them to sign their name with their tongue on my clit and show how I belong to them. An artist always signs their work, right?

is this too much to ask?

THIS IS ABOUT LESBIAN SEX. MEN AND MINORS DNI

[triona-tribblescore]

He's a little silly but we support him all the same <3

[diskodizzydarling]

Disko dizzy Darling 💃🏼🪩

[bizynski]

💜 The Lesbian Bar Passport is back! 💜

🌈 Every passport includes a bio on each of the 32 lesbian bars in the U.S., plus handprinted illustrations and stickers to mark the ones you've visited. There are now FIVE different designs to choose from.

You can order yours at my Etsy shop: bizynski.etsy.com

[bigbeanbear]

Stephanie Beatriz talking about being very conscious about choosing queer roles to play because she doesn’t want to have bad portrayals of her community out there.

Also, she feels very lucky now people reach her to play queer roles, like Vivienne came to her with the Vaggie role.

@ TwinCitiesCon

[keepbreathingky]

Hey bestie! Tell me everything, cause I can comprehend more of what you say now.

[bethelctpride]

Friday March 29th 2024- starts 9:30PM

Trevi Lounge 548 Kings Highway Cutoff, Fairfield, CT

Skynn is hosting Trevi’s 11th Anniversary, come celebrate with us. Performances by Frankie Cyanide, Ryder, Tiana Maxim, and Logan Star! It’s going to be a blast! Come ready to party and have a good time!

[justdavina]

Such a HOT transgender woman! I just love purple anything. She's so sexy. The perfect outfit for a San Francisco Night Club. The only problem is that I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off of her! She so wonderful.