#put yourself in the pedestal

[gloriousrunwayninja]

HOW TO PUT YOURSELF ON A PEDESTAL

cr to @thespiritualgyalss

Table of context

what does it mean to "put yourself on a pedestal"

Everyone is you pushed out

How to put yourself on a pedestal

Things you can add to your routine

Affirmations

What does it mean to put yourself on a pedestal?

🩶 …Putting yourself on a pedestal means putting yourself before anyone else. It's like putting your desires on a pedestal before your mental health which is why you usually obsess over it. It's not the best to do this by the way which is why I'm gonna teach you how to put yourself on a pedestal.

🩶 …If you put yourself on a pedestal during your manifesting journey it could make it go smoother so you wouldn't obsess over it as much including when you manifesting a specific person this is one of the most helpful thing to do (THIS IS NOT REQUIRED IN ORDER TO MANIFEST A SP BTW)

Everyone is you pushed out

When manifesting a specific person

"If you act like the prize, the world will believe you"

🩶 …You prolly hear this a lot but it's true everyone is you pushed out so if you put yourself first you won't be so obsessed about others and not having to put them on a pedestal.

🩶 …Once you focus on putting yourself on a pedestal than others will chase you including your specific person.

🩶 …The main reason people aren't able to manifest their specific person is because they obsess to much to the point where they think it's not working and they give up but whole time you could be obsessed and still manifest them you just need to be able to persist. BUT if your a person who's been stressing over their specific person than you should focus on yourself by putting yourself on a pedestal and he will be chasing you in no time.

How to actually put yourself on a pedestal

Self concept

🩶 …Self concept helps A LOT when it comes to putting yourself on a pedestal.

Self love affirmations for example like:

"I put myself before others"

"I don't chase other I attract them"

"I am beautiful inside and out"

"I am worthy of everything"

"I am loved"

"It is easy to attract everything that I want"

"It is natural for me to be confident"

Mirror work

🩶 …Mirror work really helps to tap into your divine feminine energy and your self love journey. 🩶 …How to do mirror work is by simply going into the mirror and reciting self love affirmations. 🩶 …You can also listen to bad bitch songs and dance in front of the mirror.

How to put yourself on a pedestal pt.2

Insp. @111infinity on tumblr

Inner self conversations

🩶 …Remind yourself that you are limitless And that NOTHING can get in between you and your desires. You can even remind yourself that everything is going to be ok.

Spoil yourself

🩶 …Spoil yourself with gifts like how you would want someone to spoil you. Buy yourself flowers maybe even go on a date with yourself.

Self care

🩶 …Even though you can manifest good skin and all of that you can still take care of yourself by buying skin care stuff and having self care days.

Find hobbies

🩶 …You could join classes to improve on stuff or even learn yourself how to do some stuff, having a hobby could help you put your mind onto other stuff.

Things you can add to your routine

Meditation

🩶 …Meditation has many benefits and clears your mind I recommend doing guided meditations and start with 5-10 minutes.

Yoga

🩶 …so when doing yoga I recommend asking your body what it needs for example Just simply saying "what does my body need" and doing that position because some yoga vids might not be for you. Not to mention you don't have to do yoga for long you could do it for how much time you need to for your body.

Working out

🩶 …You don't have to do to much of an extreme workout you could simply do dance workouts and do workouts that you would be consistent with. I recommend doing it with someone or even FaceTime your friends while doing it.

Journaling

🩶 …You could start with simple journal prompts or even just journal when you feel like it, Journaling helps so much omg.

Self love/self concept affirmations:

…I am the prize

…I attract good people in my life

… attract peace in my life

…my beauty is irresistible

…I am so magnetic

…I always attract who I want

…I deserve it all

…I am divine

…It's is natural for me to receive love

…It is normal for me to get what I want

…I am so blessed

…it's natural for me to have a charming aura

love, jade

[strawbbfluff]

Friendly reminder that people giving you the silent treatment as a “punishment” is not normal nor indicative of a healthy relationship!! It’s one thing to take some space from someone if you’re upset, but people in a healthy relationship will communicate these feelings. It’s not your responsibility to know why someone is upset with you if they haven’t told you that!

[good-to-drive]

Conan admitting that he struggles to interview Paul McCartney because he can't stop staring at his hands and then following it up with "because those are the hands he uses to open a bag of doritos" alsdfhkdja

[lavellane]

personally i hope they leave solas' romantic history as vague as possible mostly bc i genuinely dont think its relevant or neccesary at all and it just adds another layer of mess to a situation thats already messy enough as it is. but if they do go down that route i am desperately hoping they just reaffirm him being a canonically terrible boyfriend who's never held a stable relationship longer for like. idk. 20 years at best lol. i think that would do WONDERS for his character actually

[the-yearning-astronaut]

I saw a post the other day making a claim that was something to the effect of the Star Trek fandom being the wisest and most drama free because it's the oldest modern fandom or whatever.

And I had to laugh because like....are you talking about the same fandom that, among many other things, was (and is) actively hostile to anyone who prefers AOS over TOS? The fandom that did nothing but bitch about Discovery for years rather than give it a decent try and the benefit of the doubt? That dragged Michael (and Sonequa Martin-Green) for who knows what reasons, every time they had a chance? The fandom that gets up in arms every time the Klingons undergo a design change (which as far as I can tell, happens in almost every new series)? That fandom?

I adore Star Trek. I've made some damn good friends in that fandom and the fans have produced some of my most favorite fanfic and fanart. It's a great community!But PLEASE. Let's not kid ourselves into believing it's a mature and drama free fandom lol. It's got its bad eggs and dark corners just like every other one and to put it on a pedestal and pretend otherwise is to play a dangerous game.

[kittykatninja321]

Thinking about Jason and Catherine is making my head spin. Obviously the feelings of someone being neglected by a parent who is also suffering from sickness and addiction can be really complex but I think if you tried to suggest to Jason that Catherine was neglectful he would spit in your face, like he is not ready to unpack that at all

[collaboratiiveanarchy]

Okay so!!!!!!!!! Welcome to my tedtalk! Because post war spinner is by NO MEANS cooperating or being "redeemed" at least not easily. But he's ABSOLUTELY kept under surveillance (okay but funny fun idea as a joke what if he isn't really even deemed as a threat after everything because no big scary quirks so they really don't bother too much outside of JAIL JAIL LIZARD BOY IN JAIL!!) He doesn't go back to his family. He probably doesn't even reach out to them.

Anyway, the absolute STRAIN that bulk quirk put on his body was NOT without consequences. We saw how fast his body took and expanded but his body was not MADE for that quirk. He has to, ironically, build up ALL of that strength he has before. His body is WORN, he's retained a decent amount of his muscle mass technically, but like, his main and core strength, he's not nearly where he used to be. And his body ACHES. LIke he has days where his muscles won't even MOVE without so much effort it's not worth it.

He gets migraines, sometimes small, sometimes not so much and he's got to lay down, no lights, no sound.

Oh but his MIND, luckily mostly in tact. He doesn't know why he has more frequent moments where he just loses his train of thought. And it's not A LOT really, honestly nothing too notable but sometimes it happens with him forgetting something simple or just a word or forgetting what he was doing,,like perfectly normal but sometimes he gets scared because he was still CONSCIOUS. He mentioned how his brain was suddenly fuzzy and thinking was hard no matter how hard he was trying. Low-key trapped in his own head for a bit!! Do you think he knows how long he was like that? Like !! He's got some ✨trauma✨

If he thought he was useless and nothing before-

[packet-of-staples]

FALLEN IDOL WHAT THE FUCK!!!!! THE BROTHERS ARE FIGHTING!!!

[voidbythewindow]

I love affirmation tapes so much 💓

ever since I started recording my affirmations and listening to them everyday I feel so much better. I don't think of them as a chore, not in a "omg I must listen to my tapes again..." way but more in a "oh! I'll play my tapes while I scroll on pinterest, that's fun!" way, yk?

my aff tapes help me calm down and avoid wavering. if I'm anxious about something I don't like in the 3d I just tell myself that I don't identify with that, I don't have to deal with it and I play my tapes for a few minutes until my mood lifts. obviously I don't just listen to them. I play them identifying with them. I get myself on the state that I'm lovable, beautiful, smart, rich and that I'm my #1 priority.

[d-andilion]

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[xxxemilyg1996]

Happy dead dad day!

[dejwritesarchived]

when regular people realize that celebs do not give a fuck, the world will slightly heal. i would have thought celebs coming up with that tone death as video of them singing during the pandemic would make people realize that. like this whole rihanna situation, granted i am always weirded out by people calling their kids “fine” (cause why they gotta be that, why can’t they just be cute or adorable). rihanna peers are not blocking her because of that or calling her out like how regular people are. it’s the same reason on why celebs still associate themselves with known abusers. them celebs do not care about regular folks like us moral compass when they have thousands and thousands in their bank account. i need people to understand that and also the fact that you do not know these people beside of what they post on social media.

[donnatroyyyy]

Batman has/had some kind of miscommunication going on with every single one of his kids. The bat family is just one big miscommunication trope after the other.

[jacob-blogs]

All tea, all shade: of the shit that I've seen, it's not like anyone's coming back for seconds.

[gay-jewish-bucky]

whenever white women confidently (in the 'im better and more enlightened than you' tone where it's clear they speak for certain groups and not with) state that only white men get called njb in a thinkpiece on why the term is bad, i can just tell they don't know any jews of colour

[collaboratiiveanarchy]

Okay ummmm let's talk about more Spinner w/ those quirks and his feelings and stuff idk I have feelings

The fact that he has zero control over these quirks, at least right now, and even if he did, USING them puts him at risk of going *brain dead* again. And he even repeats that he told himself he wouldn't think too much because it was painful.

He absolutely maybe thinks he would've been better off turning into a Nomu, more HELPFUL. He blames himself obviously, he said he knew if he'd just taken one more step forward/reached out and made a better choice, he could've saved Tomura.

He's riddled with anger and guilt/ survivor's guilt. He's stressed, he's got a lot of big feelings. He doesn't sleep well, he doesn't eat too much either (he doesn't have an appetite). He absolutely has episodes where he lashes out l, grows, gets monstrous and scared when he can't stop it because he just gets more worked up with his stress.

I just-