#psa for my mutuals and followers!!

[idolbound]

Forgot to mention this last night, but I made a slight addendum to my rules:

In the simplest way I could explain this rule, I'm here to enjoy what little free time I have and to enjoy my favourite villain in peace. My archived Meredith blog had around 1,200 followers and while many of those were multiple blogs belonging to the same people, it just got to be Too Much and it stressed me out.

There are very few folks that can stay following without me following them back (e.g. certain personal blogs), because again, I'm mutuals only for rp interactions.

If I follow back, I enjoy your vibe and want to write or interact in some capacity. If I block after you've followed, you failed the vibe check (I didn't like your blog/character/ooc content, etc).

Don't take it personally. We're not all going to get along and like every rp blog that comes across us, and that's okay!

[girlwiththegreenhat]

god why are there so many of these shitty bots lately. enjoy getting banned for phishing, shitstain

remember lads, it's report > report something else > unlawful uses or content > phishing! 💖

How to Identify Pet Bill Scam Asks

(please reblog the post linked above, I still see people reblogging these scam posts because they don't know they're horse shit!)

[mamawasatesttube]

its been a minute since i mentioned but just like btw to any newer followers - i am a sideblog and also i don't tend to follow people back from main for a variety of reasons (i am a small animal easily frightened by too much change on my dash/too many new icons on there at once, im very picky about what i see on my dash, etc) but i never mind people chatting w me + if you're in my notifications a lot i do know who you are!!

[fruixtii]

hello i know @/mauhandraws is pretty popular in the twst fandom i think, but apparently she’s a proshipper :/

[deepfriedseagullfeet]

it is my headcanon that jameson's mutism is due to a physical disability (i am still looking into what sort of things cause mutism so im not 100% sure what he has that causes it) but i do sometimes think about jameson being nonspeaking due to trauma. like at one point in time, jameson could speak and could hold conversations with anti and could laugh and sing aloud. but as the abuse continued to get worse and worse jameson would start...clamming up quite a bit. he wouldn't talk as much anymore. he would simply respond to anti with short, few word answers. he would talk quieter. he changed.

and anti liked it when he was quiet. no complaining about bruising or broken bones. no boring conversation about topics anti didn't care about. maybe anti wanted him to stay that way.

things got worse. jameson grew increasingly silent. it got to a point where anti would physically muzzle him when torturing him cause even his screaming was irritating. anti wanted a loving sweet toy that sat there and looked pretty. he wanted someone that only said "yes" and "no" in simple nods or a shake of the head. he didnt want jameson to have a say in anything. he wanted so much power over jameson that he beat his voice out of him. no talking. no crying. no complaining. not even to say "i love you" aloud. just peace and quiet.

and jameson stayed quiet, even when he left anti. even when he was safe with jackie and chase and henrik. he never spoke a word. despite all the other's encouragement that he was allowed to talk, he just...couldn't. not after years of staying silent. not after years of reprimanding for uttering a single syllable.

jackie was finding communication to be a complete struggle. open ended questions that couldn't be answered with a yes or no were out of the question. and he was finding that a paper and pen wasn't helpful either. so one day he brings home a book on sign language. he tells jameson its okay if he doesn't want to speak. he doesn't have to. but he still deserves to be heard. he still deserves to have a safe space to tell people things.

jameson is reluctant at first. but he and jackie sit down together and learn the alphabet using their hands. then words, then phrases, then songs and sayings and names. and slowly, jameson starts to communicate. "i am hungry," he signs, and chase will cook him a meal. "i am tired," he signs, and jackie goes to lay with him. "i am sad," he says, and jackie will hold him and listen to why for as long as he needs.

jameson is quiet, but he doesn't stay silent. he talks plenty to jackie and chase and even henrik and sometimes marvin. he learns to express himself through art and journaling and learns to say when he needs something, and even when he just wants something. he might feel safe enough someday to speak with his voice, but his hands are just enough for now.

[somethinginmybones]

i feel like yall should know i'm a slut for web weaving and poetry

[ptvstvrrr]

Lowkey this is gonna be a tough post, but I pinky swear I'm still editing, I'm just gonna be slowing down on posting and editing because I'm incredibly busy. Also, I am suffering from a chonic migraine I've had since the beginning of August, so it's a lot harder for me to function than a normal person. <3

To sum all this up, it's really hard for me to use screens because of light sensitivity on top of having a vicious chronic illness and being busy as HELL. I pink swear I'm getting to your requests and other edits, it's just gonna take me wayyyyy longer than normal!!

I love, love, love you all, hugs and kisses ❤

[purrlstar]

got a new follower and remembered to check the blog (shoutout, you know who you are) and it reminded me HEY I WANT MORE ARTISTS ON MY DASH

if you follow me and post og art or have an art blog reply here please??? O:

reminder for newbies my art tag is #doodlesketch but ive been dry as hell for ages

[ginalinettiofficial]

weird thing i’ve noticed abt byler shippers is that they tend to tag ALL their posts w “byler” even when it has nothing to do with byler. like sometimes the posts don’t even have to do w stranger things at ALL. why do they do that why is it that specific ship ??? do y’all just rlly enjoy goin in ur tag and seeing absolutely anything ???

[bitterseadrop-a]

y'all if you wanna unfollow me ?? or i follow first and you don't want to interact ?? for literally whatever reason ?? that's totally fine.

only thing i ask is that you hardblock me, especially if it's a follow first from my side. i understand if you don't want to interact, you're entitled to curate your dash to your own needs. but i don't wanna stand here like an idiot or seem obnoxious by following again after i've already been soft-blocked, because 9/10 i won't remember if i've followed you before.

and if you have hardblocked me and change your mind one day, wanting to interact ?? i'm cool with that as well. i won't ask questions. heck even if you shouldn't be feeling any interactions at the moment but want to interact at a later point, you're free to shoot me a dm or just follow back 5 years down the line.

[tricksheart]

I'm sorry for commenting on posts. I'm sorry for being annoying. Obviously, some people don't like it when you are reaching out. I just don't know anymore. Why even bother? If you don't like me don't play games or add me as just for a follower count. I'm a real person behind this screen. I know I am not the most popular and I am hardly anyone's favorite but dammit, I try my hardest.

Fuck this. Anyone that treats me like shit is getting blocked. I am tired of being the second or third choice.

[squirrelwrangler]

My totally objective tip to any non-US person wishing to take a holiday visit here:

Don’t go to NYC. Vacation in Washington D.C. instead. It’s a much nicer city. The metro system is very good and useable, which is very rare for an American city, and better than NYC’s. The winter weather is better. More landmarks and all of the Smithsonian museums are free (there’s 21 of them; at least something there will interest you). You’re close to Baltimore. And sure, places in Virginia that are also cool. Tidewater means you get an idea of the Southern US culture while not going all in.

Southern Appalachia has prettier mountains anyway. 

As someone living in Texas, if anyone wanted to vacation here, like sure okay. Don’t bother with the Alamo, but do go to San Antonio for the Riverwalk. Step into a BUC-EEs to have your mind blown and eat at least once at a small local restaurant with the word ‘Taqueria’ and preferably the name of a Mexican state so you can try authentic Tex-Mex food.  

[we-dont-talk-about-potato-nonono]

Hey, heads up that ville234 is known for requesting content from people and sending hate if they don't reply or refuse, as well as pressuring minors into writing nsfw for them. You can find some warnings in the tag for their username.

Thank you so much for the warning anon! yesterday after I told them that I refuse to do their warrior cat drawing request they already blocked me and even send me a really rude ask (my first hate ask yay) which I have deleted it anyway and even blocked their blog. Not only they asked a free art from an artist, they’re also being very childish about it when their reqs being declined.

[xieyaohuan]

I just want to put this on my blog and say that if it ever seems like my energy towards you is changing, there's an almost 100% chance it is just some weird thing going on with me and has nothing to do with you. (And for anyone who is the kind of person who worries about the 0.00000000001% chance, it's a 100% chance it has nothing to do with you in your particular case :))

[watchiingover]

I lied!

I've decided to keep my OW muses here instead of shoving them onto my multi-fandom, since I already have the blog set up and I have nice memories here. :')

I miss these girls and I'd love to write them again, so I'll try to start peeking my head in here more often.

[mamawasatesttube]

BTW... PSA.... even if we arent mutuals if youre in my notes regularly theres a Very high chance i am still fond of you. yes im vaguing someones tags on the compliment the person u rbed this from post. but like. positive vaguing? THE POINT IS im weird abt following ppl but IM STILL SENDING U FOND VIBES...