#psa tbt.

[rikyos]

𝐒𝐄𝐌𝐈-𝐇𝐈𝐀𝐓𝐔𝐒 𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐈𝐂𝐄 now that i have the group set up to share my multi between kazuha and aventurine's blogs, i'll probably be logging out of kazuha for a while. this is not to say that my activity will change drastically ( i've always written sporadically, if and when i feel like it ) but just that i won't default to being here anymore. i am not dropping kazuha. i'll always adore him. but i need to admit that i've been feeling uncomfortable on this blog for various reasons for a while now, and my patience for genpact is dwindling while hsr is really just ... holding my interest much better. i'm working a lot and uni will be picking up in pace again soon, so i don't think i want to spend the free time i have forcing myself to try and be here when other muses are sparking joy ♡ it's not a total drop of kazuha as a muse, but i don't feel like there's a huge amount of interest in interacting with him either, so for the time being i'll probably be hanging out on @stagehunt and my albedo blog when i get around to setting that up. if you actually read all of this, ily !!!!

[baeuty]

good morning, darling mutuals 🌹 i have a few drafts / replies to get to after i finish answering my floral prompts ( i adored those very much. ) if you are new to following me, pls don’t hesitate to reach out to interact! i think we can all have fun here together, hehe. if you want to do anything, just send a message <3

[bitterseadrop-a]

i think i‘ll be doing a follower clean up soon. it only really concerns those have been following for a while and have not interacted with me yet. not talking about writing threads in particular, but also ooc interactions and/or just interacting with each other on the dash. same goes if efforts to interact have not been reciprocated.

additionally, if you have multiple blogs i‘d like to ask you to please only follow me on those with which muses you‘d actually like milou to interact with.

in both cases, it‘s nothing personal !! i just get really easily stressed by a cluttered dash & therefore would like to keep my follow(er) count as small as possible.

if you think this could concern you & would like to stay mutuals, you‘re more than free to give me a heads up or just like this post !! as always, if i soft-block you‘re welcome to re-follow at any time, as i hard-block if i don‘t intend to interact with someone anymore.

[thumperking]

I will be out of town from wed. ( tomorrow ) - sunday ( the 23rd ) so my activity will be limited as i will be on vacation. i will be available also limited on discord ( thumperkingapologist ) im close to having a lot of replies done / down on all of my accounts but when i return from vacation ill still have a week so i look forward to being active then.

[phntasmgoria-moved]

yaaaaaay the desktop theme is fixed up :D

in other news, i am moving my ho.yover.se muses onto their own multi, will update this post with the url!!

[chthonine]

hiii!! I wanted to make this post rq because I know some mutuals might get me confused for another mun in the rpc that shares the same alias and pronouns, so please look under the read more to find my compiled list of current blogs that I have regardless if I am active on them or not. this will be updated if I create more blogs.

if a blog is not listed on here, it isn't me! any concerns or questions about if a blog is mine or not, I'm open to accepting through asks or dms.

UPDATED APRIL 2ND, 2024 @ 6:20 PM EST.

@hundredpyre

@souldeign

@holymost

@phantasmagoreal

@wiineries

@harlemask

@marsmonger

@hikmats

@lostanemoi

@orizurume

@serpenances

@strategiser

@causticus-a (archived but regardless I felt the need to place it here)

@westgrave (newly made boothill blog a heem heem)

I also do have an rp blog for teacher from the girl from the other side and I used the alias bunny, however I do not remember the url

[starmagicked]

In regards to Miles

TRIGGER WARNING: nsfw themes, coercion, manipulation

Below is a documented testimony of my experience with Miles / reapcrbunny. The events that take place are incredibly current, occurring between March 25th-April 18th of 2023. Best viewed on desktop, but I will paste a text-only version under a read more for mobile users.

I'm primarily posting this as proof to the fact that Miles has not changed his behaviour. He is still continuing to pressure boundaries and see how far he can get. If you have any questions, you're welcome to send an ask, an IM or request my Discord.

Hi, I’m Rii / starmagicked and here’s my experience with Miles / reapcrbunny. You can consider this a callout if you wish, but I rather it be considered a testimony. I originally was going to post this to the XIV RPC Discord, but it got too long and Discord is weird with images now, so I opted to make a doc.

For transparency's sake, I’m an adult. I’m 24. I wouldn’t go to the lengths to call what I went through with him grooming, but I definitely felt coerced. Also, I live in America under CST, so times/dates might be different to Miles & others involved.

A little bit of context on my end, I recently went through some very personal issues before joining this RPC. I’m vulnerable, lonely and thrived off of the attention Miles gave me. It doesn’t help that I was very isolated from the community since I’m very new, and I’m sure writing with Miles warded some people away. Miles was the “closest” person to me in this RPC (which isn’t saying much since we met a month ago) so I felt very pressured to be on his side. It’s why I agreed to do a lot of the things that happened between us, and why some of my screenshots may be damning from my side.

I first joined the XIV RPC at the beginning of March, and Miles first reached out to me March 10th, 2023 after filling out my interest check. I was hesitant to even follow him back, considering I had read his rules & the callouts, but seeing he was a prominent figure in the community, I fell into the idea that he had changed and moved on. We didn't start actively talking until March 25th, when he accidentally filled out my interest check again. Right away, he initiated pre-established romantic shipping, which at the time I didn't mind since I love shipping and was excited to do it.

Next couple of days were on/off, but three days later (March 28th) he broached the topic of nsfw, at first asking if he could share nsfw screenshots of Dahlia. I agreed and it opened the floodgates for him to send me a doc of Dahlia's kinks. I shared some nsfw headcanons of my own initially, and afterwards he asked if it was okay to talk about nsfw concepts with Dahlia and Rilha, to which I consented. Later that night, I agreed to meet him in game and he asked to call. I was hesitant at first since I'm pretty socially anxious and I had only known him for a couple days at this point, but I agreed eventually. (It was also 12-1am for me, and I live with others)

A few days later, Miles initiated sexual roleplay in DMs with me after asking to show some nsfw art of Dahlia. (April 1st) It didn't last terribly long, but was initiated again later on in the night out of a random talk. It continued into the next day which is when I started to get some cold feet about it. The second roleplay was dropped, but then the day after that (April 3rd) another one started. A fourth one was started April 7th, but I was starting to grow a bit uncomfortable with the frequency at which they were occurring. 

At this point I had joined the RPC Discord, and we had plans to watch a movie April 8th, so I got some reprieve from the rp for a day, until Miles asked to continue it. I agreed, even though I wasn't feeling that into it anymore. He also at one point asked me to send nsfw asks, which I did, despite being a bit hesitant to openly write smut on the dash. I ended up sending him pretty innocuous ones to hopefully lessen the blow.

After the 9th, the rps stopped after I stopped replying to the last one and changed the subject and started talking about other things. April 15th was another movie night (or morning for me, lol) and while I initially intended to wake up for it, I overslept a bit. I had seen in the server that Miles had been venting about some stuff that happened in XIV, and I asked if he was doing okay since he said he felt stressed about some stuff. He then asked if we could call and do some content in game, and I agreed. During the call, I mentioned that we were missing the movie, and he said he opted out of joining for the movie due to aforementioned issues from XIV, and also because the previous morning at Aries and Fiery's wedding there was some people who didn't like him and he felt awkward being in call with them. This was all in call, so I can't remember the exact wording, but it was the first time I heard of people feeling uncomfortable with Miles in the server.

(Side note, he also applied for a commission from me during this call, which I know came out to be a financially abusive tactic he does to his victims.)

In between then and when the callout was posted, there was one small incident of Miles trying to initiate sexual rp again, but it was brushed off rather quickly and wasn't pursued. At this point I was getting pretty uncomfortable with the sexual aspect of our writing, so I was relieved when it was dropped.

I want to be transparent about something here, I was the one who alerted Miles to King's callout - having not known that the behaviour was current or that I was experiencing it first hand. I was under the impression he had changed and learned, like so many others, and he was the only one I was relatively "close" to in the community, so I felt like I owed it to him to let him know. He continued to tell me this narrative too, and I ended up softing King since I was prepared to take Miles' side.

Around this time was when Miles posted about the callout in the RPC Discord. I ended up going to sleep, and woke up to Miles asking if our ship was okay, as well as his rules update and a random nsfw post. He saw me online once I woke up and I clarified I was okay with the ship because if you don’t include the sexual coercion (which was the entire ship, tbf) I was. I was starting to become a bit uncomfortable with the situation at hand blowing up, but I stayed quiet.

Later that night is when the argument blew up in the Discord, in which Miles was forcibly removed from it. He immediately came to me about it. After talking to an outsider close friend about it, I ended up lurking the Discord’s channels into the night, before feeling bold enough to share my own experiences with him. Reading what everyone had said regarding his behaviour made me feel safe to come out about what I was going through with him, and how I felt a bit pressured into being on his side.

After talking with everyone in the server and sharing experiences, I ultimately decided to cut contact with him this morning. Thankfully, he took it rather well. I had washed my hands of him, but I still feel a bit damaged and used from everything that happened, especially after hearing everyone else’s testimonies regarding him and his behaviour. I initially wasn’t going to say anything regarding the sexual aspect of our friendship, but as more and more came out, I felt inclined to share my story, especially with all the support of others in the server. Someone pointed out that while I said I consented, if I felt uncomfortable and coerced, it wasn’t actually consensual.

I know ultimately, my role in this doesn’t look good because of my initial siding with Miles, but I felt manipulated and coerced into siding with him. I was isolated from the rest of the community (which wasn’t necessarily his fault, more of my own) and had no real idea what was going on. I blissfully ignored the red flags because I felt flattered by the attention.

I wanted to share my story to reinforce the fact that his behaviour is current. This happened recently, within the past month. I’m not one to do callouts like this lightly, but the running idea that his behaviour was in the past is false. He is a repeated offender and I was another victim to his manipulation and coercion.

If you would like any clarification on my testimony, you’re free to DM/IM me for more information and I can try and provide what I can.

[rikyos]

psa of sorts !!! rn i'm working on answering some of the first impressions prompts and i just want to point out that i don't write linearly here. while i get why it appeals to some ppl i just find it really boring and restrictive; if we have a plot together i like to jump around within the timeline of that, it gives us much more room to play with and really explore the dynamic properly !! and with that said too, i don't think first meetings necessarily have to be the dry/empty kinds of threads they get reduced to sometimes, personally i have at least a few on this blog that i find genuinely really interesting 😭 so if we've discussed interactions of any kind pls feel so free to write for them at any point in the timeline whether that's a first meeting, years down the line, or a random tuesday.

[applesdrowneda]

where the fuck has your boy been?

so like here’s the skinny, first of all i wanna say, happy belated holidays and new year to everyone! i know i don’t owe an explanation but so i don’t have to like post it to everyones dms: i am presently okay, adjusting to meds that are making me tired. i start back at work saturday, after a month off, i’m there for like two weeks?? then i am off to london england for a week! which i am looking forward too. i hope to get some writing done on here before i go, i will probably drop a lot of stuff & just post a call since its been so long! but yeah, just for the folks who were wondering < 3

[bitterseadrop-a]

@ my fellow beloved oc writers with original lore: i love you. i hear you. you are fucking amazing. tell me all abt ur world and if you're willing to let milou have a verse in your muse's canon — hmu bc i will literally smother u in kisses.

this is also an open invitation for your muse to have a verse in milou's canon if you should wish so — doesn't matter if it's an oc or canon muse !!

[phntasmgoria-moved]

also. because i had to block someone over this for my own mental heath-

please tag your vent posts.

[c0smic-coral]

See, I like to think this…

But Grindeldore is essentially another flavor of Cherik and they WERE a couple…

Welcome to my PSA: “It would make them worse” is an option on those “Would gay sex fix them” polls for a reason.

Like if you want the actual PSA

[chirlanim]

// this goes for all my blogs, i know i have pretty heavy formatting, but i am ALWAYS willing to provide an unformatted version on request (usually this will be a google doc link sent through dm). my formatting is a part of the visual style of my blog / an accessbility thing for me so i'm not willing to totally abandon it for a thread, but i am ABSOLUTELY willing to make accommodations where possible <3

as an audhd / dyslexic i see you & i love you.

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[starmagicked]

moved to @outffoxed

things are mostly set up over there, i just gotta find the time to finalize everything and start rping, but i will be over there from now on. <3