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[arcsin27]

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[detentiontrack]

I just found out that my abuser/r*pist is literally working with children at his new job. I feel sick. I don’t know what to do.

[erikahenningsen]

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[trans-cuchulainn]

love that neither hr nor my manager nor i actually know what my goddamn salary is

[r0semultiverse]

Meeting more left-leaning queer Finnish people on here and I’m just like... sure hope I get to meet them someday! :)

[ragingbullmode]

like what sucks is i love my job !!! i genuinely enjoy it & get me health benefits but my shitty (edit: very white very christian bery traditional leaning wife) manager & her favoritism + enabling bullying in the store really makes it suck but i dont want to transfer bc ive only been here 2 years & i dont want to leave my queer friend yknow 😩

[sualne]

been looking for jobs for three years and in the past two months ish I’ve gotten for the first time my first job interview and for a different job my first job essay.

(I did have an actual job as a comic colorist for like six months but nobody around me considered it a Real Job so I feel like I just never have a job even though I very much did.)

and each time, during the interview where I know realise I was kind of being explained the whole time why I wouldn’t get the job and at the end of the essay(which might not be the right word, like a day we’re your try out the job to see if you can do it) one of the reasons given why I wouldn’t be taken it was ‘we need people who can smile’.

(there were actual argument like being ‘too introverted’ and ‘not dynamic enough’. That last one is funny because i had another ‘almost pass out for no reasons’ moment right for break time (genuinely perfect timing) during the essay and while I was cold sweating and going blind on the bathroom floor I realised, if anyone ever know I have health issues I will never get a job. So being told I wasn’t dynamic enough a fourty something minutes later was straight up comedic).

Back to the smiling, my entire life since I was a literal baby I’ve been told I wasn’t expressing the Right Way. ‘If you feel a specific way you Have to emote this specific way, act this specific way and not do anything else otherwise you’re not actually feeling what you say you’re feeling, it means you’re actually lying, faking it or don’t know what you’re actually feeling because your not showing it the Right Way’ and obviously I’ve dismissed this my entire life because I was sure it was obvious and everyone knew that everyone exist differently and people don’t act the same. I kind of assume everyone that ever bothered me about it was some flavor of 1 having a day and decided to being weird about it to me or anyone else that was also not existing the correct way. 2 just kind of an asshole and therefor they’re opinion didn’t matter. 3 just kind of strange about thing and so be it, ´not my problem tho’ I thought.

But seeing how it’s an actual argument people have use twice now to refuse me a job I’m kind of being thinking, it might actually, for real, be a thing people actually are worried about, actually. Which is wild, but also make sense because people have very much for my whole life, to me and to a ton of strangers, made comments on folks not existing the proper way. Like how in horror someone being slightly off, slightly wrong, a little bit not how it usual should be is the trope of all time. And I love this trope, someone who’s voice is in differed from how they mouth work, someone who seems to not walk directly on the floor but just slightly above it. It’s fun and interesting.

Anyway, real life stuff, being told I’m not smiling enough is wild, like yeah I don’t smile much at all that’s a fact, and both job were about interacting with people and every time you go to a restaurant you’ll ear someone saying out of nowhere mean thing about people who work there. Insane things like ‘I don’t like the way they’re standing’ and over analysing someone expression and body languages when they’re literally just doing their job.

This post is kind of a mess but I had a point which was, I don’t understand people and why are so many mean for no reasons but I wanted it to sound less like a kid complaining and be more verbose about it.

And (this isn’t over yet) I did force myself to smile, like I very much did, I tried my best to be as pleasant and polite as possible. And being told again, this isn’t enough, just suck. Like I have to mask and hide and deal with so much I kind of expected that of all thing I was allowed to keep my face. Like people have bothered me about it my entire life and I’ve dismissed it my entire life because it just did not make sense and I couldn’t make it make sense(still can’t). But I’m genuinely at lost at what to do about it, if apparently I also have to change my face to get a job, that I need to exist the correct way in order to have the damn job in order to exist at all is all so, Not Good.

[bitchfitch]

So i call my cats Changuita prime and Changuita 2. but they both also have secondary names that are hold overs from when they were at the shelter. Prime is Kai, and 2 is Bagihra Luna Baloo, because apparently the shelter/foster people were in disagreement on what to call her. and since the Changuita naming convention is a bit of a family tradition i couldn't name them something else.

Which is to say if i cant find another home for this kitten or a shelter that will take her in, i might be calling her Changuita 3, aka cardiovascular health (cardi for short). despite the fact she is not a black cat and so is not beholden to the same rules. but i named a neon yellow van Changuita 3500 so i think all my cat adjacent animals are just going to be named this way.

anyways i have to go give her a flea bath. wish me luck.

nvm on that. i only have dog shampoo and you can't use that on cats

[torturedpoetdean]

life is so expensive and so hard why can’t i just lay in my silly little bed watching my silly little shows and just get paid one million dollars so i can buy silly little treats

[krytus]

life is so hard when you have. no professional references.

[kaylathebitch30]

If I don't find a job soon I'm going to have a full on mental breakdown and commit myself to a mental institution, I am not even exaggerating.

[fosterkidwiththebrokenjaw]

thinking of killing myself in the middle of the office to change the tragectory of every single sorority ass girl’s life that works there. i hate all of you so much

[presidentalpaca]

SUPER fun adhd thing is how ur way more likely to forget to do shit you can't stand. and when you remember, your brain is flooded with "this is dumb i hate this its so stupid" to the point where you cant even comprehend how to start. and all the overlapping conversations in your head leaves you mentally exhausted to the point where the task is now even more difficult

[shuttershocky]

Western passport holders will never understand. To go anywhere with a third worlder passport like a Filipino one, you need your tax returns, certificate of employment, bank statements, marriage certificates, sometimes a recommendation from a citizen of the country you want to travel to, everything possible to prove that you have a job and a family at home and you're not planning to be an illegal immigrant, JUST to get hit with a rejection because the embassy didn't believe you had enough proof.

Did you have travel plans? Already booked the plane tickets and hotels? Fuck you, better hope they issue refunds (they don't).