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About that post where Seb was sneezing and Chris was worried, there’s like an entire thread from the anon who experienced it:
1. https://www.tumblr.com/armandyke/145810285694/i-was-gonna-submit-this-to-problematic-seb-but-i
2. https://www.tumblr.com/armandyke/145979201319/problematic-chris-anon-please-describe-how-seb
3. https://www.tumblr.com/armandyke/145980139369/hello-anon-it-is-i-problematic-chris-anon-i
4. https://www.tumblr.com/armandyke/145980507984/also-forgot-to-mention-after-my-photo-ops-seb
5. https://www.tumblr.com/armandyke/145980786229/he-did-that-angry-cat-face-indeed-as-he-was
Oh my god nonnie, BLESS YOU ❤️ I feel like I've seen these before, but I can't be sure, and in any case this is delightful, so thank you so much for compiling these and sending them over!!
Links for easy access to EVANSTAN ADORABLENESS 💓🥹
One * Two * Three * Four * Five
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Anytime someone wants to argue against you, the jealousy card is played. no one cares if you have ten kids and are married and in your 20s. you’re still a shit human being no who/what cause you support. wallistruths/frankie //// ok i will tell you what is happening because it looks like shippers lose their mind fully. This girl frankie post her opinions, yes she dont like aw. She post aw old post that sre still up, the sexualise post she have with men body parts, the one where she wear head scarf and call herself g***y what we talk about here, she bring up aw problematic behaviour, point out her plastic surgeries and talk about how uncomftable aw and seb look, one thing she dont do is not hide she dont like aw and that she think this is pr and aw and seb have a contract, she post on her ig and you can literally block her ig if you dont like this content. But shippers do screenshoots and throw this girl on tumblr and bully her there, she feel attack and she post apology for having her own opinion, she say sorry at least couple of times and make a post. She mention there that she have a gf and dont like seb in that way since some people love to say we hate aw only because we whant to sleep with seb, and now those people go around and scream she lie or that she use some sexuality card to hide behind, i think she just say that to avoid 'you'are jealous comments" from shippers, but they still find something to attack her. And now they talk about this girl over and over and over again on tumblr literally bullying her. So i dont know what this anon is thinking because jealous argument is always coming from the aw supporters camp. And making fan of someones mental health and saying that she should be on meds its just cruel, specially when she wrote her family problems in the post and problems with medical help or something like that. They are just cruel and as always turning it all to make us guilty, and now they going around and blame tumblr blogs that dont like aw because somehow in their heads we are all responsible for it and we should all be shame. The attack on this girl is crazy and they should be ashame not us, and all because she was talking she dont like aw, post her weird posts, and do some exposing think. Like it was so easy to block her yet they decide to drag her and now they are spreading this hate on different people including you mood.
Ps. She also day seb was her comfort person and she like him more before 2022 and that he change(just her opinion and feelimgs), he does and he is not so nice anymore in my opinion but also some people lost it and start to say well he need to change, eyeryone change and the evans shaming we all saw it
Thank you for explaining! I was really in the dark
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As one of my favourite nico writers (seriously, your characterisation is so on point), what is the sico dynamic like, if it isn't too much trouble? I'm trying to write for them but i just can't seem to pin it down. It probably doesn't help that it's an au where nico doesn't get into f1. I've only got vibes and it's just something about the seb/nico narrative foils and a proxy silver war with seb and nico vs lewis. But seb and lewis are still friends. Maybe. They don't really know. There's a nico shaped hole somewhere.
Hi Anon! Under the cut because I want to give you a good, detailed answer:
You're completely right that Seb and Nico often function as narrative foils, but in a Seb/Nico world, you can't exactly use them that way because they need to stand alone enough that you can actually pair them together. So far, the sico that I've written has always been in the context of sebcedes (heist au, toxic threesome, problematic polyamory), but a good place to start might be describing how I formed the sico dynamics in each of these fics:
In heist au: Seb is immediately (physically) attracted to Nico, despite thinking that he and Nico are on opposite sides. In addition to being attractive, Nico is also annoying, entitled, insincere and enigmatic. Although he doesn't know ii, Seb wants to figure Nico out, crack through the layers of artifice and get to the sincere inside of him. In this universe, Nico is intelligent, obsessive and a little bit mean. He and Seb have common ground here. On the other hand, Nico is more affectionate and more able to access and express his emotions than Seb, although Nico more often weaponizes his emotions, while Seb will hurt people without intending to.
In toxic threesome fic: Girl!seb thinks that she can compete with Nico for Lewis's affection, when this is not the case because Lewis is gay. This is more of a Seb experiences brocedes from the inside fic, but there are sico moments nonetheless. Seb is often cracking jokes and Nico is shutting those jokes down--he is no fun from Seb's point of view and takes himself too seriously. Seb thinks he's a poor match for Lewis--he speaks to her in German to lock Lewis out of the dynamic and weaponizes her against Lewis*. Really, he'd rather have sex with Lewis alone, but he could probably be friends with Seb in this universe if he were able to get over Lewis's closetedness.
*A key seb/nico distinction for me is that Nico's intentions are deliberate where Seb's are abstract. Nico knows what he wants and what he is doing in order to get it, and Seb's wants are more felt than known and he follows intuitive, instinctual paths to get there. Nico is less able to feel what is right, so he plans specific goal-oriented courses of action, whereas Seb will just feel out the actions that seem to be leading him towards what he wants. So when Seb balks at the idea that Nico would be hurting Lewis, it's because he can't imagine ever intending to hurt someone--but he might very well do it without specifically meaning to.
In problematic polyamory ficlets: Seb and Nico are directly competing for Lewis's attention as his partners, and hate each other because of the characteristics that they each lack that the other can provide for Lewis. Nico is all about leisure and luxury and sensual feeling where Seb is about experience and earnest emotion and commitment. They both love Lewis enough to understand that he wouldn't pick horrible partners, and that there must be something redeeming about the other that they just don't understand.
I think the takeaway here is that sico often involves a kind of competition between the two of them and the shadow of Lewis. In a context where Nico never got into racing, I imagine the competition intensifies--Seb can be something for Lewis that Nico can't. Nico enjoys a closeness to Lewis that Seb never will as his competitor. Maybe they fall together while trying to get Lewis's attention. That's just my sebcedes angle though! In a pure sico situation, they might find common ground in terms of intelligence, obsession and passion. They would love talking to each other because both are very linguistically/conversationally intelligent, and both would enjoy the other's affection once they learned to be sincere about it.
Finally, if you haven't read Everybody Wants to Rule the World by sico scholar @kritischetheologie then you're missing a key sico source text.
Good luck with your fic Anon and thank you for the kind words!!!
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Alright, a couple of regular replies, and then some about Jade!
eh-nonnie-mouse asked:
I'm so nervous to de anon but your newest comic of Floyd/Idia comic is too cute! I'm sure Floyd totally doesn't have any ulterior motives once he realizes what position they are in.
This is such a silly thing to be nervous about since I write problematic content (mostly incest) and enjoy your Shroudcest stuff a lot. You have such a beautiful art style and I am so happy my anon blurbs (the Seb/Ceil and Fin/Ciel and some other NSFW stuff) make you two somewhat happy 😊. I know I don't interact with a lot but I hope to drop more chats in non anon.
Thank you so much! We really appreciate it <3
Floyd is super invested in that game he’s playing, but once they’re in this very convenient position, he’ll show Idia how much of a multitasker he can be >:3c He’ll impress him for sure.
And even though it’s going off-anon is an anxious thing to do, it’s good to see a person behind all those asks :) Nice to meet you!
Anonymous asked:
(Referring to your fem twst art) I absolutely NEED to see fem!Silver in Aurora’s 1959 commoner outfit! She would look so pretty!!! 🥺😍🥺😍
Ahh SHE WOULD, ANON, SHE REALLY WOULD!! And honestly this is my favourite outfit of Aurora.
I don’t have anything to show right now, but I really hope to draw fem!Silver in this dress. Even though she probably spent the majority of her time wearing pants…
Btw thank you for loving my fem!Silver, it means a lot ;w;
Anonymous asked:
In this household we love Jade ❤️
In all seriousness the fandom doesn't give him enough love, Jade is always the other woman when it comes to ships and worst of all it's always Floyd his own twin brother that gets the girl anyways. Make a donation to save Jade from second male lead syndrome 😢/j.
Ahh, poor Jade. Always a bridesmaid, never the bride… I can picture him sobbing quietly and wiping his tears with a tiny little handkerchief… :”(
To be fair, I think Jade finds his position quite advantageous: if everyone always pays attention to Floyd, he gets to not only act as if he isn’t the same when it comes to being chaotic and dangerous, but also have this element of surprise!
He also doesn’t flirt as obviously and as often as Floyd does, so we can blame Jade’s sneaky ways to collect his bottoms lol
Anonymous asked:
by chance, do you think Jade would like using idia as a lab rat? aka feeding him all kinds of mushrooms to test their effects and inevitably doing the affection +100 nighttime-activities command with a very drugged up idia
Anonymous asked:
I wonder if Jade being the awful guy he is (lovingly) would test out every single kink from A-Z on Idia?
Those are two different asks, but I feel like they are kind of connected because in my head to Jade testing out kinks and using someone as a lab rat are pretty much the same thing lol And to answer both of them: YES, Jade would absolutely do that if he had an opportunity. I guess the second option is more possible because it seems less dangerous, and I wanted to say that it would come first, but…. Honestly? With Jade it could go either way.
He could either start experimenting on Idia and it’d turn out sexual, or he’d start having sex with Idia, but then they’d end up experimenting somehow.
I don’t know what needs to happen for Idia to get stuck with Jade-the-shroom-guru and his tests, but Jade would be very excited. I mentioned it our other Jade/Idia posts, but: he would love to see if some mushrooms would change the colour of his hair or the way it burns. In this way, Idia is the most perfect lab rat ever – it’s so much fun! Not to mention how helpless Idia becomes when he’s drugged up… even more-so than he is usually~
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The problem in this fandom (and in every fandom) is that 90% of people who hate on the gf do it because… she us the gf. Racism and mistakes are used as excuses (sadly). That is the real problem and why i made this blog / you know hating a problematic gf because she’s a gf is pretty logical. You don’t want your fave being associated especially closely with something bad and shitty and in Seb’s case especially all women (except Leighton and Jennifer) were irrelevant outside of their rs. So the only reason people know and/or care about those women is because of their association and since it’s a close association like a romantic rs and not some co-star or someone not close and constant, the outrage could be explained logically. Ofc it’s not always the case for every single person but for majority it is. I’ve been in the fandom for 8 years now and the majority of active female fans are either gay or married even, so the jealousy thing doesn’t even make sense. The jealousy excuse is pretty lame and old. Again not for every single person but for MAJORITY. /
I'm the anon who said ale never had and will never have my respect and I disagree with this big time. People making tons of tweets and posts about someone they dislike is stupid, first, they won't see your shit, second, you're just attracting hate to your supposed fave, 3) your fave HAAAATES your attitude, I promise you that. There's a reason why Sebastian's not on social media anymore. This justification sounds so dumb. To be that bothered by someone's relationship is stupid. I disliked ale and I expressed it at the beginning that I would ignore her and I did. There's no need to be talking about everything. Also, Annabelle was in one of the biggest Netflix shows, she is up there alongside Leighton and Jennifer, even if you don't like it.
That justification makes even less sense if you think people hate annabelle as well.
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/ Agree with this. To me, Chris has always given fckboy image and i don’t think he’ll ever settle down while busy destroying his career and busy with stupid pr relationship. I wouldn’t want to have his children because he seems problematic and not trustworthy. BUT Seb has also done pr but he seems less problematic and more loyal to be his “the one”. So I think we all would go with Seb Jen 🫣////
You sound so disrespectful and arrogant anon. You actually know sh!t about Chris and who do you think you are to speak about him like that?!
Like Jen said, who's “we”? 😭😭 specially “we all” who tf told you I'd date Seb 😭😭😭 sorry but for me it's Chris all the way and yes I'd gladly have his babies because I can feel how nurturing and loving he is with people he truly cares about 💗 oh btw, your Sebastian is a good friend of Chris and would never date someone who treats bad his good friends, like you did.
I don’t love the term fuckboy. I prefer frat boy 😂 frat boy Chris is a fun era.
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This will be long, but it’s because I’m sick and tired of Galaxy trying to get away with this and taking advantage of these new (and by new I mean TFATWS and post TFATWS era fans). Especially anotherseb blog. I TRIED to warn them but they refused to post my warning because they didn’t want to post her blog name for some reason, but it’s their own fault. I want to warn people from a place for their safety: The most hypocritical thing about Galaxy trying to appear this new person on her new blog and trying to kiss ass with the anotherseb blog’s anons by calling other people haters is how those readers aren’t aware of how hateful Galaxy was towards seb during the whole seb and ale era. What you’re doing here, mod, isn’t hating. What Galaxy said at the time about him, NOT ALE, was distasteful and nauseating and real hating. She was and still is a HATE blog. Not to mention her parasocial moments when she would have literal meltdowns when he was seen with Ale. Hyp. O. Crite. She’d try to justify it by saying Ale was racist so it was fine, but she wasn’t hating on just Ale. She hated so much on Seb that it made no sense why she still had a blog for him. SHE was and IS a hate blog. Those new fans just don’t know it and she’s taking advantage of them not knowing and I’ll explain in a bit why. Show her new readers her olds posts from that time and they will see. I have no idea why she is acting like she’s trying to play nice when it’s all fake. My theory is she’s trying to gain respect that she knows she never got back then. She’s always been desperate to be seen and desperate to be popular. She’s always been jealous and envious around everyone. She never got the attention she always wanted and it pissed her off and still does. She’s always been an untrustworthy, odd, envious, jealous, dramatic, and problematic blog and anon. Anon because she does send in asks to other blogs to start shit while pretending to be your friend and then creating anti friendship with the asks trying to turn everyone against you. I’ve been here since then so I KNOW. She has serious issues. She would DEFF go the extra mile she is going RIGHT NOW to be fake (which she is being right now trying to act like she worships the ground seb walks on as well as his girlfriend, which I will tell you right now she does NOT) and try to make it look like she didn’t call Seb hateful names, JUST to try and look and be likeable. She is FAKE and a HATER. It’s blowing my mind when those blogs like anotherseb blog said the other day she’s one of the few blogs she actually agrees with because oh my god you really are so new that you don’t know Galaxy at all or what she used to say about seb, do you? As well as your anons. And Galaxy KNOWS this and she’s taking advantage of it for HER own benefit- to gain more readers. And then what will she do? She’ll send hate anons, secretly her, to anotherseb blog or blogs like that to create drama because that’s who she is. She is sick and needs help. She’s been like this since 2020. I beg you, please find her old posts about seb before she deletes them. And her weird parasocial moments. I just saw she rebogged logicalstanadvice and I’m laughing so damn hard because that girl does not agree with that blog in a million years. It’s all FAKE. I tried to be nice the other day warning the other blog to stay away from them and for their anons to stay away from her but it’s their own fault if they didn’t want to listen. They’ll feel the repercussions of their mistakes soon enough. They’re new and young and naive. That’s why her “new” blog calling you a hate blog and making fun of what is said here does not surprise me at all. She’s always done this. She has always been this way. Three years ago and now. But yeah, you’d cringe if you knew what she used to say about seb. Take it from someone who was here. And yeah this is a long rant. Why? Because I’m getting sick and tired of the phrase hate blog being thrown at the wrong blog. THIS is NOT the hate blog. Everyone who says so is naive and new. Want to see real hate? Bring up her old receipts.
This is the last ask I’m posting about her because I really am trying to move past all the hate she throws towards me, my blog, and anons.
I’m tired, physically and mentally, of the shit I read about how horrible of a person I am because I know I’m not, and I know that what I’ve said about her has only fueled the fire and not helped in any way because she thrives off of it and tries to make herself look like the bigger person.
I take responsibility for that. My blog had became something I didn’t want it to be, and now I’m trying to actually get it back to what it was before.
So let’s move past this, because we know she’ll keep talking, and people will see her for who she really is. I’m moving on now ❤️
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give the opinions please I'm bored at work
getting myself cancelled? why not. i'm on mobile (and it's too late to make coherent sentences) but i'll try to put it all under the cut
in the order anon sent them:
Sebchal - one of the less bad ones but honestly? so much about it was idolised and cliche-ed out of proportions over the years. Seb was going through a lot at the time, as much everyone knew. As a 4 times champion coming to the most prestigious team, the pressure must have been enormous and he was failing the mission he set for himself. I think all of us dumb red horse team fans wanted him to win a championship with said team but it didn't look good and turned basically impossible the day Charles stepped a foot in the team. He probably had a bit of an boy crush on Seb who was still the mighty 4 times wdc and number 1 driver in his dream team. At least for some time it turned pretty sour especially on the track and ultimately every piece of content from that time (minus the infamous helmet message) falls a bit one sided and always has. Not to speak about how fan space is made up by fans first and content second and a lot of fans of sebchal just try to push the "he's like father to him" narrative that I can't help to find mildly disrespectful. I get and appreciate the fandom jokes about grid dads and grid kids and don't get me wrong, sometimes they are funny, but in this particular case it always felt like some people take it too far.
Chewie - one of the best ones honestly. I think they are friendly towards each other, Lewis hypes him like he always does with young drivers and Charles has a lot of admiration for him (and let's be real probably some jealousy too, because Lewis is the greatest driver there has ever been). So far so good but when people in the fandom get involved in shipping them I can easily imagine it as mildly problematic in the classical produced content (like fics fanart and stuff) - with age gap or stereotypes or whatever.
Piarles - I love that Charles has a bestie in the paddock that he grew up with and that he knows better than any other driver and hangs out with outside of racing too. But that's it. It was a lot sweeter back in the day and came out as more genuine. Maybe I just never paid that much attention or their different career moves changed them (and that's valid and definitely not something I should judge) but... if you follow the subtle patterns lately one side comes out as exploiting the opportunities that come out with hanging out of the other more. If you asked me years ago this might be my first go to though so to some extend I understand why people like it. What I don't understand are those who see besties hanging out together and start yelling about them being on a date or being in love or whatever. They got used to it no doubt, because one they're properly famous (which naturally comes with lots of people being weird about you) and two they're both fairly present on social media so I bet they saw things. That's on people who ship them and not on any of them personally tho. As someone who was on the receiving end of those "ur dating haha ur so in love" talks with multiple of my friends in the past, I can tell u that there's just a few things that made me so uncomfortable.
Chalex - this might honestly take the crown for the best current Charles ship? Alex knows him for a long time as well and also knows what it is like to be his team mate during the worst times (puberty lol). I can openly admit I wasn't always very fond of Alex because.... you guessed it, Red Bull. He just came out as quite arrongant (and I guess because for one you need to always be confident about yourself in this sport to continue doing it on such a high level and the moment you stop, you're out, and two of course your self esteem increases if you get a seat in a top team). I properly enjoyed him during the twitch sessions though, he always seemed (and seems currently) as the sweet happy-go-lucky person who knows how to live life fully. He's also a little tease and paired with Charles it just works somehow. Again, I just don't really enjoy when people take it too far and start speculating if it's real and what not. Alex is happily in a relationship and they're good friends who often joke with each other during driver parades.
Charge - this might be short, because there's not much to say. It's cute and I love the vibes. They give off the energy of George calling him snickerdoodle or gigglebunny or fuzzybear while Charles grows more confused and concerned each time and asks what if means to which George just thinks "goodness gracious...." and tries to patiently explain the british gibberish. Sweet, fun and niche but I don't think there's much to work with nowadays so twitch days were definitely more fruitful time for Charge shippers.
In short: I don't have any big problem with Chewie, Chalex or Charge (and if so, they're minor) but Sebchal and Piarles are not as ideal as people make them seem. But then again I don't consider myself a shipper at all, so as long as people use correct tags and don't flood charles' main tag with shipping posts I don't mind them.
#honesty week#i guess#also i fell asleep on this and woke up to 6% battery and this still open lol#ask#e
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jense wink wink <3
no bc. i
i hate to say it. problematic. f1 dilf supreme (second to kimi i fear).
public enemy #1 for lewis during 2012. he was a white boy from somerset like why would you embarass yourself like this! i just headcanon this as practice for nico mind games during brocedes era. (not posting the telemetry tweet i'm already dragging lewis enough in an ask about jenson button).
anyway this is hilarious, jenson really was that bitch in his prime.
the impact he has on f1blr/f1 reddit and he doesn't even realise it. best, and imo ONLY commentator as of present so i need him more often in the paddock, especially to shut up chandhok and crofty for me seeing as di resta and herbert were let go already bc of his slayage. actually scratch that the fia can't handle him speaking it'll collapse. but he has fantastic knowledge on the sport as shown by his consistently accurate statements and predictions when he does appear in the commentator box.
dominated 2009, if only red bull didn't show up sometimes to stop the celebrations (but it's ok bc seb❤).
overall positive. aside from the abortion scandal 20 years ago. moving on
anon me a driver and i'll give my opinion (pos or neg. likely both lmao)
#asks#jenson button#I'M SORRY I HAD TO EXPOSE HIM. it shocked me like#also i found this out via a kimi fanatic on yt that bitches about every driver except kimi mika häkkinen#and sometimes a driver that showed up to a race twice and disappeared saying he was underrated. he just pulled this up out of nowhete#*nowhere
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Ok we now lewis haven’t cheated (but his and nicoles relationship was toxic af) max (maybe it has something with growing up without mother and not having any kind of closeness), oscar, lando( he is problematic def but i’ve never heard cheating rumours and luisa still likes some of his post so teny end it in good terms) nando, lance, seb (only rumour i heard was three-sum with lewis) esteban, yuki, zhou, albon, logan (but he is homophobic and supports trump so maybe cheating would be so much better (kidding(really kidding)))
as for wags kelly (max’s gf) and lily mhe cheated and i’ll send you prove but you got to wait bc before stalking i have to go home
Waiting for you anon ❤️
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If you don’t hate AW, why is her name always in your mouth? you and the anons. makes you look like her fan more than seb’s. stop being so obsessed over seb’s personal life, and focus on being a fan of his work/projects. he’ll never date you/like you… you all are just a bunch of delusional bitches. get a life. you’re grown, aren’t you? bunch of femcel pricks./ honey i know that dating seb is a first thing on your mind, we usually think people would do the same thing as we, for example someone who steal first thing he will think is that people would steal from him also, we expect people to do what we do, and the fact that the only thing on your kind is seb will not date you is telling. Some people dont like aw because she bait seb when he said he whant to be private and stay away from social media, she make his events about her like cannes when she post here i come as if that was her movie, had a paid article that call her talk of the town when she couldnt even make to the 50 best dress actres in cannes in article that was not paid by her team and had a whole solo photoshoot, she came across as fake, controling and selfcenter but of course only argument is that all the people around the word no matter of gender or orientation whant to date seb and thats why we dont like aw, pull yourself together please. And by talking about aw, including her in everything he do, by your fantasies about his sex live you also invide his personal live even more than you claim we do, much much more belive me. And by calling people names you dont sound like a grown up or even someone who can have a decent conversation on good level, insults dont make ou better it actually make you sound child like. Like when a 5 year old dont get what they whant they also scream i hate you i hate you. Please be respectful if you whant to be take seriously and dont scream on people just because you think what you belive is better than other peoples opinions.
I didn't like Annabelle long before she was with Sebastian because she defended Woody All*n amd was/is bffs with Jared L*to. She is problematic in many ways.
And yeah... the whole: you wanna date x celebrity so you're jealous thing is so old and not true.
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heyyy idk if you know this but sebastian is like, not that great? like he’s not evil or anything, just an ignorant rich white guy. but like his girlfriend appropriated asian? culture i think? and didn’t apologize when fans called them out seb(or his team, but either way:/) blocked ppl. that’s arguably not terrible, but he also mocked taking a knee to support I Tonya and his apology was kinda lackluster. he liked a post about how yt ppl should be able to say the n word and also made some kinda creepy comments about bucky and shuri(who’s yk, a minor) ik some ppl are also mad at one of his posts with the buddha, cuz they viewed it as him mocking that culture but idk about that one. anyways all these things aren’t awful, but put them all together and it shows he has a habit of being racist/ignorant or at least surrounding himself with racist/ignorant ppl, and just not apologizing for it or having rlly shitty apologies. ik i tried to ignore it but for me the post for his gf was the last straw cuz it rlly showed to me that he’s sticking by his actions and he’s not rlly gonna change or apologize. anyways super long ask, i just didn’t know if u were aware of this. (you could google these pretty easy, but if you want sources lmk)
Hello
Before we jump into things, this isn't me trying to defend Sebastian to the death or just making excuses because I'm technically a "stan" because I'm in the fandom, I'm just writing out a fairly lengthy response below the cut to organize my own thoughts (and possibly to clarify things if these are indeed someone's first time hearing all this). I'm thinking out loud, attempting to make discourse, y’know? But, it will come out bias, because, again, I do have a soft spot for Seb as you can obviously tell.
Yeah, I've often heard those things about Sebastian and, to be entirely honest, I usually don't look into it beyond surface level unless someone on my dashboard validates it / indicates that there might be truth to it. Not out of trying to be ignorant and shielding my eyes intentionally from his "bad side" or problematic statements/pictures/words/whatnot someone says is happening or has happened with him but out of avoiding *drama. I don't like drama, its not my cup of tea. (Which is coming from a place of privilege for me in of itself because unless he says he hates white men than it won't effect me.)
*I understand that it's more than drama too, I'm referencing the cancel Sebastian Stan stuff. Additionally, it's the only word I can think of it for now, unfortunately.
Simply because as I understand the Twitter World™️ lots of people make up shit and spread rumors or blow things out of proportion, y’know? And I hear lots of it comes from Twitter and that's just not my space. I dwell in the underworld of Tumblr.
Ignorant rich white guy, yeah... I'm aware of that. A lot of power and influence comes with white privilage, male privilege, money, and fame and I don't think Seb is immune to it. And, it's hard to grasp something you don't experience, for example, I can read and listen and research about what racism is like for POC to experience but I will never 100% know because I'm not part of that community and do not have to deal with it happening directly to me. He’s definitely not the worst, yeah, as you touched on in the beginning of the ask. But it'd be pretty impossible for him not to be touched/effected by those things too. So, yes, some blame.
Neither, yeah, is he immune to hanging around people who are racist or ignorant apparently. And I as a human being am inclined to see the best in people, especially people I've latched onto, and would love to think that it's because he's ignorant to their ignorance but... I don't know. I'm not Sebastian, I have no idea about his real life relationships with those people. I don't know if he knows (other than his gf, that'd be more than difficult to miss) or if he just tiptoes around those people with that issue so it doesn't come up but continuing to engage with them with or possibly without trying to change their minds. (Silence is still a side to certain issues, I understand. You can't just let bigots be as a bystander all the time.)
I believe the thing his girlfriend (a white woman) did was dress up as a geisha (or Asian woman as some articles I saw said) for Halloween which is way more than a little Yikes. Way more than an, oops, I was uneduacted. A culture is not a costume.
Having shitty apologies is shitty. Yup. But, unfortunately it's pretty common in Hollywood, so... I wouldn't expect better. There's my pessimistic side. I hope better for Sebastian but expectations are low. I assume it's difficult to really understand wrongdoing when it's separated through a screen in general- not specifically related to Sebastian. He, specially, could do better though, yes.
(Also I do believe his team at least has access to his accounts, if not fully putting up posts sometimes/at times so I again have no idea if he, himself or they, his team would've blocked people. Also, I don't have any clue as to whether or not people actually got blocked or not. So... yeah. That's all I've got on that.)
I, Tonya controversy: I vaguely remember hearing about this but I don't fully recall it because life was Chaos for me at the time haha. So I had to do some quick googling. Okay. Completely tone deaf meme. Ouch. Like- fuck. I don't like how his apology was worded, yeah, it could've been more eloquently worded (less excusing of himself) or seemed more sincere. Deleting the meme was good, obviously, and if he did end up doing his homework, then I think that's the second best thing. The first best would've been to have put more research into what was going on with the meme before ever doing anything with it or already having had his research done before. Having been paying attention, y’know?
The video on Instagram that Seb liked about non POC being re-allowed to say the n-word I recall being the opposite of what it actually was. Like the post he liked was in support of people Not being allowed to say it but it got misconstrued on Twitter / Instagram. And... upon, again, quick googling... I couldn't find a lick of information on the actual video besides it being what it sounded like. A comedian ranting and being racist. So I'm gonna assume that was my fandom sheltered romance of the video not being what it seems and excusing it altogether. Yuck.
Bucky and Shuri creepy vibed comments. I have no idea what this refers to, so back to Google for me... okay. No hits for something he said about romantic or sexual things towards Shuri from Bucky's perspective because it's all swamped by, thankfully, wholesome fan content or people making fun of Bucky, lovingly, for being a broken white boy. I, personally, again being bias, would assume that it came off as creepy because, yes, Shuri as a character is a minor while her actor is not and Seb and Letitia have a friendly, comfortable relationship so it could've seemed to bleed over from that when he spoke about it, not fully separating Bucky and himself, Shuri and Letitia. I.E. Chris Evans always jumping to defend Bucky like he really is Steve, half in love with my childhood best friend, Rogers. But, again, I cannot say for sure because I haven't a clue at what really was said.
I can't say if the picture with the Buddha was racist/offensive/ignorant or not because I'm not a part of that community and its blurry lines to begin with (not like the gf dress up shit), so who am I to weigh in on if it's offensive or not? However, I believe the broad picture concluded with that "scandal" was that it wasn't at all meant to be harmful, just a thing he did and people rolled it beyond what it was. People, I think, by large forgave him?? But I could be wrong, clearly it's happened before lol.
It is good to be aware of things.
And I can't say I wish he didn't handle those things the way he did. I, in fact, wish he had better apologies and showed more of a learning curve. I want him to be better. And I'm definitely gonna think about it more now. Yeah.
I don’t know where I'm going with this though because I know the power of headlines, clickbate, bias interviewers/reporters, and people hating to hate too. Which would feed badly into his own actions.
I don't now hate his guts. Just... more aware. Yeah.
Completely, I agree: there's a massive difference between a) messing up and apologizing and changing afterwards and b) messing up and not doing anything after an empty apology, just continuing on.
Sorry for the rambling! I hope you're not too put off by my response. I listened and responded the best I could <3
#problematic!seb!anon#<- i hope you dont mind me using that tag for you#you kinda called yourself that and... *shrugs* yeah#sebastian stan#asks#not trying to start anything!#if you scream at me or rage or dont calmly engage then i will not respond and will probably just block you
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Are there any ideas you want to write but haven't (yet) for whatever reason? No time, too big, too kinky, different fandom, other?
-🐙 (since you've been naming your anons I'll claim this one 😉)
Oh my god octopus anon! I love you I love this question I love that you're giving me free reign to talk about whatever I have rolling about this noggin' I'd like to caution everyone that it is unhinged and very nsfw and sadly I might not get to writing it all but I live in hope!
(Also octopus anon I feel like you already know me because indeed there are a lot of ideas that are probably too kinky--gets sniped)
1. Flesh out the superhero AU
When things get really hectic at work like now I tend to spew out short snippets which is what you've been seeing on the blog, I add lil scenes to the Superhero AU and the Wolf AU and it's just wonderful distraction for me, but the brain is a little too scrambled at the moment to weave all the scenes together.
I'm enjoying the Superhero AU so much that I actually want to sit down and write out a whole proper chaptered story. All the backstory with supes and their companies, Seb's tragic past with Michael, Charles coming into the picture, the training, Seb meeting Mick and dropping his shield, Charles' and Mick's duel with a lot of crying and a lot of yelling, Mick's apology with more crying, SebMickChal as a superhero trio kicking ass and taking names, LOTS OF SEX BETWEEN THE THREE, a final fight in which Seb loses his powers protecting Mick and Charles, Seb retiring to be a farmer.
2. Hear me out, hear me out. I want to write an Attack on Titan AU for F1. I'm not kidding. Seb is Eren. Lewis is Mikasa. Nico is Armin. Am I speaking into the void here?
3. Hear me out, hear me out. I want to write a Star Wars AU for F1. I'm not kidding. Seb is Obi-Wan. Charles is Anakin.
4. I have like, 5 Pacific Rim AUs planned. I can't write them at the moment because my brain is constantly distracted by porn.
5. I've chatficced this with court my beloved @cooldownrooms, and I also want to flesh out the Wolf AU. I want to write an entire story where Seb and Charles lead as co-alphas one human one wolf and they straddle the gap between the village and the forest and slowly gain the respect of all and I want Charles to tell the wolves about his liege lord and a scene in which Seb's reading by the fire with like a dozen wolves curled up around him. Charles has his head in Seb's lap.
6. Sebastidan. Like roadtrip Sebastidan. Summer break comfort Sebastidan. Hot but very sweet sex Sebastidan.
Be warned, things get really funky below. Please tread with caution!
7. More stories regarding fucked up contracts!
In It Takes an Ocean Not to Break, I play around with the idea that contracts exist for prize or punishment for winning and losing. I wanna do a sebchal version in which Ferrari has a contract in place which allows for gangbangs whenever a driver performs poorly. Charles finds out by accident, and questions why it's never happened to him before. Turns out that Seb has been taking it in place of Charles all this time. Charles bursts in during one of the sessions and rips them all off of Seb.
8. Speaking of fucked up contracts!
I want to write an ABO AU for It Take an Ocean Not to Break, in which Seb loses in 2018 goes into heat doesn't know who to turn to (not his own team, he can't even face them) so he goes to Lewis and Mercedes. Lewis and Toto will go to Ferrari tomorrow and rip everyone's heads off for not taking care of Seb but for now they will lavish Seb with all the attention and affection he requires--you get the idea.
9. Smick pleasure toy AU
There's a whole world I've planned in which Mick purchases Seb as a pleasure toy. He goes to an auction and they have all these people strung up on display and Mick zeroes in on Seb and the trader goes oh you don't want this one, he's problematic, and Mick goes oh on the contrary. This one's mine. I don't want to spoil this too much because I really, really want to write it.
10. Fucking machine
Well this is kinda self explanatory and @mediumbeans is already a genius for giving us a glimpse into what Seb would be like with Klaus I love it I love it so much. I do want to get into the mechanics like how is it built? Does it have tentacles? Oh god. How does it fuck Seb? Does it gain sentience? Does it refuse to stop when Seb tells it to stop?
Octopus anon once again thank you for your question you've allowed me to be brave if I haven't scared you away with this please always feel free to ask me for more details I actually have a million other ideas they never stop. Time's mostly the issue with all of these I enjoy writing so much but unfortunately! Life calls.
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Yes it is. You need to distinguish a joke from something you have no right speaking about. A woman's body. / Not OG anon. But it's not even about Annabelle. It's about Seb and your projection of him having kids. You're writing that it's your choice to have children, but you don't know (like any of us here) whether he wants kids at this point in time. So, his needs and desires don't matter? That's the whole issue. I have when you write something like this, even if it's a choke.
I understand that but you guys need to calm down. No one said anything problematic really. And people on here i am sure are sane enough to distinguish when it’s just “daydreaming” and when it’s crossing boundaries, i am 100% if the person who said “i wanna give him kids” was given the choice to date him would behave normally… this is the internet guys. Do not get offended for everything you read and understand how to put everything on context
Lastly, everything said here today is NOT (and never will) comparable to annabelle’s pregnancy talk.. especially given the REASON why this talk happens.
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/ Agree with this. To me, Chris has always given fckboy image and i don’t think he’ll ever settle down while busy destroying his career and busy with stupid pr relationship. I wouldn’t want to have his children because he seems problematic and not trustworthy. BUT Seb has also done pr but he seems less problematic and more loyal to be his “the one”. So I think we all would go with Seb Jen 🫣 /////
Speak for yourself anon, I would never date Seb and I'm not telling you the reasons. So next time careful about using “we”. If you don't like Chris go to another blog because here you'll find a lot of Chris talk since a lot of us are fans.
I’m gong to go out on a limb and say most my followers are Chris fans. I know some are both Sebastian and Chris fans. There’s enough yummy characters for everyone. We can love who we want to love.
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Galaxy and her anons are excusing EVERYTHING, every problematic thing AW’s done. Apparently if you go pandemic traveling in the country you were in, then it’s fine. If you flaunt your pandemic vacation on IG while millions were stuck at homes and dying, it’s not pandemic mocking! Going to a restaurant and a horse ranch during pandemic is fine because it’s supporting “small” businesses… WELL GUESS WHAT GALAXY, Ibiza opened their doors so to say to help its people who depend on TOURISM. By going to clubs etc, people there were supporting businesses and helped those workers put food on their table for their families. Seb visited a CHARITY (apparently AW is cool because she posts charities). Ale also has multiple charity posts on her IG fyi, doesn’t take away from her being a shitty person. Guess what? It doesn’t with AW either. I guess galaxy and her followers ignore CA and slur altogether. Just recently they went at Ale for going to Africa because she’s white… but AW going to Africa and posting her luxury bags and expensive shoes there isn’t some problematic behaviour to them. Everything is only ever bad when Alejandra does it. But when it’s AW it’s apparently all fine and she deadass got praised for all her shit. Idk anymore. Half of Sebastian travels during pandemic were work related anyway and Ale’s travels were related to his. It’s in no way an excuse for their actions but somehow AW and Pine going to England is being excused that way. Idk double standards and hypocrisy at its finest. ANYONE SURPRISED?!
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