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[injuries-in-dust]

Good news of August 2024

[polutrope]

Feeling grateful for the communal creativity of fandom and transformative works today. I love how collaborative fic writing and fanart is, how we're inspired not just by the source text but by each other. How we build on each other, both consciously and unconsciously. How sharing ideas, being generous with ideas, is foundational to our creativity, in contrast to the individualistic and proprietary attitudes you so often encounter in other creative and intellectual domains.

No, we're not always perfect, and we're not always supportive (we're only human), but in my experience the positive interactions, whether they be conversations or silent currents of inspiration travelling between minds, far outnumber the negative ones.

[floralaphrodaisiac]

100 Manifestations

I attract positive energy

People respect my presence

I will complete my Ph.D. on time

I can get anyone I want

I embody beauty

I am a lucky woman

I am welcoming to kind people

Financial abundance is here and in my future

I attract wealth

I attract beautiful things

I attract knowledge

I am a valuable investment

I see value in the people around me

People treat me wonderfully

I have a healthy body

My body is strong, resilient, and mobile

I will have a healthy body for the rest of my life

My hair, nails, and skin are gorgeous

My fashion embodies my essence

I am the “it” girl

My smile lights up the room

I create connections that advance communities

Food nourishes my soul and body

I am well-read and literate

My artistic ability attracts good energy

People see me and want to spoil me

My life is easy

Romance is ever-present in my life

I make my family proud

My career will change lives and inspire people

My experience with music makes me happy and nourishes my mind

Even small moments are fun

I am an expert in culture and memory

My presence is acknowledged in the room

My writing moves people’s mind

Conversations with me are delightful

I Inspire myself to move forward

I can concentrate on my tasks

My sleep schedule is healthy

Art clears my mind

Nature loves me, and I thrive in it

I am confident with every step

Spontaneous romance fills my life

Everyone falls in love with me

I make a great researcher

I am fit and in shape

I am a muse to people

I inspire work, art, literature, and invention

My outfits are well-arranged

My eyes are welcoming

Meditation heals my soul

I am blessed by God

I deserve beauty around me

I age gracefully

My mind is at peace

People desire to be me

I set trends people will follow

My growth mindset helps me

The sunlight nourishes my soul

I am safe in my home and work

The gym is a sanctuary

My questions are inquisitive and valid

I attract positive attention

Life is colorful and worth living

I lead people in developing knowledge

I deserve to say no

My life is a dream people wish for

Things are not lost; they are reformatted

I control my future

Things work out in my favor

Animals love me

I accept myself because I am wonderful

I have the allure of a maneater

My financial decisions bring wealth

My life story is novel and has a happy discourse

The space around me is clean

My dissertation proposal will be written by the end of the month

I attract healthy friendships

People feel refreshed after talking with me

People meet me and want to spoil me

My dreams will help other people

My writing process is constructive

I have a right to love and be loved

I am a winner in games and life

I am qualified for every job I want

My beauty is internal and external

My confidence grows with every new experience

My self-expression is a manifestation of my energy

I have valuable wisdom

I trust my own judgments

Unhealthy stress leaves my body easily

Money flows to me

I continuously create the best version of myself

People around me understand and empathize with me

I can regulate my emotions easily

My impact will last generations

I thrive wherever I live or move to

If something negative happens, I have the power to transform it into something positive

Every effort to do good is worth it

I allow other people to help me learn to heal

[ragazzoarcano]

“Anche un animo determinato ha bisogno di incoraggiamento ogni tanto.”

— ragazzoarcano

[break-me-open]

Perpetually thinking about the time I was at Joann Fabrics and complimented an employee on their hair, which was half bright pink and half bright blue, and they said, "Thanks. I'm bigender, so it's like..." and gestured to their hair. And I replied, "Oh cool, I'm agender." And they nodded and said, "Between us, we have the statistically average number of genders."

[youreverydayghost]

I hope everyone who sees this is having a good day/night! And if not then I hope it gets better for you!!

[soniabigcheese]

Morning

A long list of positive things

Hubby's glucose levels have fallen significantly. We are all happy about that

After storing them for 6 months, the protein jellies and shakes have now been disposed of. Since nobody wants to take them in. It's a shame because they would be useful for anybody who needs to put weight on

Whilst hubby is at physio, I've been pottering around the house, waiting for delivery of my perfume. The one I debated about a couple of days ago

My favourite skechers sandals are almost kaput. I do have a different pair going spare but my feet are saying OH HELL NO when I put these ones on. So I guess its time for a replacement pair and donate those others to charity and throw out the old skechers sandals (I wear them until they're literally falling apart, thy are that good)

There's another Bun Bun on its way to join my little Bun Bun family. This one is a StrawBunny and this is probably the only way to get close to a strawberry, since I have a mild allergy to that fruit. I think I'll call it either Delilah or Alphonse

When trying to open the tin of gloss paint, I made a right mess of the lid, so it now has a hole in the top and doesn't close properly. Oh well

We have a home made goulash ready for dinner tonight and I finally made turnovers from the old leftover apples

And that's about it

May you all have a fabulous day

[whoseafraidofliloleme]

💫𝐘𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝐑𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐰 2023💫

2023 has been a year to say the least so lets get into this 😂. As usual this is in no particular order cause I cant handle putting these into a proper order.

𝐓𝐨𝐩 5 𝐃𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐬:

1. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐋𝐚𝐰 𝐂𝐚𝐟𝐞 (2022).

I watched this on a whim and boy am I glad I did. The female lead is so unhinged but in the best way and our main guy is so in love with her I cant. Literally this drama was such a fun time and everything connected together so well. Just watch this drama pls.

2. 𝐁𝐨 𝐑𝐚! 𝐃𝐞𝐛𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐡 {𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞} (2023).

Yoo In Na shines and I love the character growth that both the leads go through, everything that happens makes sense and it really does show that working on yourself isnt a linear process. There will be set backs but you can over come them. I tend to not care for side couples but I loved all of them in this, they were just hilarious or adorable.

3. 𝐓𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐞𝐥𝐨𝐧 (2023).

I wasnt going to watch this drama but thankfully instagram reels made me interested enough to give this a chance. I love all 4 of the leads, they are my babies and they deserve all the happiness in the world.

4. 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐈 𝐅𝐥𝐲 𝐓𝐨𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐘𝐨𝐮 (2023).

This was such a cute, fun drama. I didnt expect to love it as much as I did, the family dynamics, friendships, everything was so well done and the 2 couples were the cutest.

5. 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞 (2023).

Literally Instagram reels made me watch this and I do not regret it. The melodrama, romance, revenge, plot twists... Everything was such a wild ride, I recommend that everyone watches it.

𝐓𝐨𝐩 5 𝐍𝐨𝐧 𝐓𝐚𝐲𝐥𝐨𝐫 𝐒𝐰𝐢𝐟𝐭 𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐬:

1. 𝐒𝐮𝐩𝐞𝐫 ~ 𝐒𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐧.

The irony, I always said that I wouldnt stan a group with more than 7 members 😂. Honestly I was just seeing too many funny reels about SVT and then I watched the Game Caterers videos without even knowing all of their names and Super was everywhere that I just fell into the rabbit hole that is Seventeen.

2. 𝐅𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 ~ 𝐉𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐨.

My bias came and she ate. I love this song and it showed in my top 2023 songs its at number 6... The top 5 are all Taylor obviously.

3. 𝐒𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 ~ 𝐉𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐤𝐨𝐨𝐤.

He came and took over the world. Nothing more to say about that.

4. 𝐁𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐦 ~ 𝐄𝐧𝐡𝐲𝐩𝐞𝐧.

Yall need to stop sleeping on Enhas japanese discography. This song is just so sweet and wonderful. I cant with it.

5. 𝐔𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐧 ~ 𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐟𝐢𝐦.

I just loved this whole song and the album too. Next LSF comeback when?!.

𝐓𝐨𝐩 5 𝐓𝐚𝐲𝐥𝐨𝐫 𝐒𝐰𝐢𝐟𝐭 𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐠𝐬:

So last time I only had the vault tracks but Speak Now was the album that made me a swiftie so not limiting myself to just the vault tracks this time.

1. 𝐇𝐚𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝.

This is my absolute favourite song. It is just such a masterpiece and can be related to in any situation.

2. 𝐄𝐧𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝.

I love this song so much, I have a one shot of the same name 😂.

3. 𝐒𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐤𝐬 𝐅𝐥𝐲.

Im a hopeless romantic okay.

4. 𝐈𝐬 𝐈𝐭 𝐎𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐍𝐨𝐰.

Do I even need to explain myself with this.

5. 𝐒𝐥𝐮𝐭!.

Most definitely not what I was expecting but I love it so much.

5 𝐏𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝:

1. Bestie got married, shes happy and Im happy for her. It was a proper desi wedding and it was good fun.

2. I FINALLY graduated from University😂. Only took me like 5 years, one failed attempt and repeating my third year.

3. Made some great friends from the school I worked at, we bonded over how messed up the school we worked at is.

4. Managed to travel and have such great experiences.

5. Im happy with the fanfics I wrote this year. Still shocked that people actually read and enjoy the stuff I write but Im immensely grateful for all the love and support I get.

[positivelypenguin]

sometimes you're just gonna have a bad day, and that's okay.

sometimes you're just gonna be annoyed and mad for no reason, and that's okay.

sometimes you're just gonna struggle to get out of bed, and that's okay.

Its okay to feel, its okay to have a bad day and its okay that you aren't at your absolute best all of the time. you're doing your best, and that's all that matters. you're trying, and that's all that matters. you got through the day, and that's all that matters. sometimes just getting through the day is hard sometimes, so that's a very big accomplishment and im very proud of you.

you will have bad days and bad emotions but they won't last forever, you'll be okay again, you will smile so hard and laugh until your stomach hurts. I promise. I promise you that will happen again.

[amysubmits]

From a red cross email I received. Just in case anyone else could use a 'good news' story for today. :)

[showmethehotpods]

Blah Blahing about autism, self reflection and the like.

I've had to do a lot of understanding about myself. Why I act, react certain ways. Learning about autism, rejection sensitive patterns - the possibility that I've been masking through highscool and university and now because of covid isolations, being more of an isolated single adult with not a lot of offline contacts - that mask I've relied upon for so long has been deteriorating, and I'm forgetting how to 'act' like other people.

All of this just to say I know I've made mistakes with it. Hurt people with my words, actions. That was never my intention, but I understand, and apologize for instigating that, however unintentionally. I've always been taught to speak up, speak out, be anything other than what people needed me to be was worthy of backlash and criticism, to the point I was constantly checking in, making things about me - because I thought it was. I took a lot of responsibility and blame for people's emotional states. It's what I'd instinctively trained myself to do.

I'm sorry for waffling. Just wish I could have understood myself better, sooner. I wish so many bridges hadn't burnt in misunderstandings and miscommunication. That I could have expressed myself, my nuances better.

Know that I am forever learning growing, and want the best for everyone I've ever crossed paths with. I genuinely do love you all so much.

[injuries-in-dust]

Good news for wildlife.

[elusivewildflower]

my honest reaction after reading the plots of Can't Fight this Feeling Anymore & the Colt x Reader x Court fic:

This literally made me laugh out loud and have happy tears in my eyes 😭😭😭 You don't understand how happy it makes me to be able to share the ideas that have been floating around in my brain and to know that you're already excited for them even though they haven't been written or finished. I've got a few drabble requests in my inbox still I need to finish, and then I'm gonna start making a plan for these WIPs to work on next!

[hamptersadness]

Lets go through my reasons for living! cuz... i need it. Honestly.

First and foremost, I got better. My life did change. I'm on meds. I am no longer depressed.

I made it to prom.

My little sister still has her big brother.

I came out as trans

My college uses my real name

I am on testosterone

I got to see my little sister in kindergarten.

I got to see my student form actual sentences.

I got to graduate

I got to see my best friend get into her dream college.

I got to see my best friend in her dorm

I now have 6 birds and two little guinea pigs

I now have a septum ring

I sleep in my own bed. I did that. I don't need to co sleep anymore. I am able to stay here. In my own bed.

Music

I've met the squirrels outside my house and how much they love human contact.

I have met my education professor

I've met my best friend's dog who loves me to pieces

I'm going to work with a speech pathologist

I have friends who love me.

I have people who say hi to me all the time

People will miss me if i'm gone

My animals will be sad if I leave

Honestly throughout this whole list my ocd is like LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES YOU ARE A BAD PERSON HATE YOURSELF. I HATE YOU LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES LIES.

And to spite my ocd i'm leaving it at 23

[antvnger]

"Strange let me use the Sanctum library for a whole ten minutes today without casting a spell on me." :D (positivity)

“Hey! Now that’s a great thing to be positive about! That’s progress.” 😂