#positive ideologies

[fulcrums501st]

if we define “good dad” by genuinely wanting what’s best for your kid, loving and caring for them unconditionally, being patient with them, making them feel valued, giving them the space to express themselves, encouraging their talents, and genuinely trying your best and doing what you think is best for them, then Silco was a good dad.

But if we define “good dad” by actually being able to properly parent and discipline your child, ensuring they aren’t a danger to themselves and others, teaching them healthy life lessons so that they can grow, not projecting your own unresolved trauma onto your child in a codependent way, and being a good role model, then Silco was NOT a good dad.

[olisix823]

Happy Disabled Pride month!

[justdavina]

I like this dress...maybe I'll get one just like it!

[erinwantstowrite]

actually i wanna put down right now that those motherfuckers (nazis) who are defending elon (also a fucking nazi) by saying he has autism and that we're being intolerant and prejudiced against people with autism can go put a skidmark in their pants like they're so fucking used to doing. because 1) just because elon the nazi SAYS that he has autism, doesn't mean he has it, 2) specifically they refer to 'aspergers' which was a term coined by a fucking Nazi and doesn't exist, 3) autism doesn't excuse any of that behavior, 4) it's infantilizing autistic people to say that he didn't know any better just because he's autistic which means 5) if he's so far on the spectrum that we should say he can't control himself, then he's not a fucking genius who can make no mistakes like everyone claims, 6) so many of these same cowardly buffoons don't believe??? is autism??? have we suddenly forgotten that so many people have claimed that vaccines give you autism and not genetics and that not everyone has autism why is everybody being so over diagnosed yadda yadda bullshit?????? suddenly they're advocates for autism?? go fuck yourself. 7) anyone who defends that shit is either a nazi or a nazi sympathizer created by their own embarrassment at becoming such a god damn bootlicker that they've gnawed down to the center of the boot and started kissing their feet. you SHOULD be fucking embarrassed. we have been telling you fuckwads for years that billionaires do not have anyone's best interest at heart and have no place in our government body because they are so far removed from the people they are supposed to be representing. the fact that all of these people have been appointed because they were his friends is a direct sign that we're being forced into a fascist regime. WE FUCKING TOLD YOU. they do not care about us, they care about each other.

[sewer-party-friends]

thank you, terfs

for helping me accept who I was and supporting me through my detransition 💜

thank you for reminding me that my value as a woman has nothing to do with my appearance, and that my identity does not have to be rooted in my relationship to femininity or masculinity 💜

thank you for encouraging me to speak up against misogyny instead of passively sitting back and letting it fester 💜

thank you for helping me realize that I don’t need to trust a man’s judgment over my own just because he goes by “she” or “they” 💜

thank you for affirming that my sexuality is healthy, natural, and deserving of respect and freedom from creepy, porn-addicted males 💜

thank you for showing me that my body is not, and NEVER HAS BEEN the problem 💜

I love terfs.

[donnstuart]

😐

[canisalbus]

I have to ask what drew vasco into falling in love with machete?

His snivelling runt ways were just that irresistable.

[vacuously-true]

I keep seeing people on my dash who I KNOW have no ill intent reblogging posts that have a veneer of trans-inclusive feminism without realizing it's gender essentialist trans-inclusive radfem shit. As far as I can tell it's a recent resurgence of the ideology, not something that's stayed constant and I'm only now realizing it, although I'm not certain of that.

So like. Here's a reminder that gender essentialism is bad even when it's trans inclusive. Here's a reminder that "society is inherently about men/mascs oppressing women/fems and the agency and responsibility for that societal structure is always and only perpetuated by the men/mascs" is radfem shit even when it's trans inclusive.

Just because someone's gender essentialism isn't biological gender essentialism doesn't mean it isn't gender essentialism. Just because a post is trans inclusive doesn't mean it's discussing gender identity or societal gender dynamics in a healthy way.

Just because a post is free of transphobia or transmisogyny does not mean it is free of sexism or racism or intersexism or ableism or transandrophobia or exorsexism or homophobia or biphobia or any other kind of bigotry. Just because a post is free of transphobia or transmisogyny does not mean you get to shut off your brain and reblog it uncritically, safe in the knowledge that if it's not transphobic it's a Good Take™.

Pay attention to this shit please you're giving me headaches :)

[katherine100]

say hi if you like girls built like this 🔥

reblog and DM for NSFW contents

[raqualswonderfunblog]

[justdavina]

Such a amazing transgender woman! Her face is absolute perfect! I love her long sweet blonde hair and brown eyes! Her lovely skin tone is delicious! With her adorable yellow dress she's magnificent!

[there-are-4-lights]

from here

[possamble]

i wonder if you have any thoughts about how marcille always seems to dislike it when falin wears men's clothing ( i bet she wears it out of its comfiness rather than because she prefers masc style tho, although i hope both lolol) and super short hairstyle

I wonder if it's just her interest in cute feminine fashion in general or maybe there's something more

For the clothes, at least, it's like... Marcille is probably more horrified by the clothing being actually made for and marketed to men than anything else. I bet she'd be fine if Falin wore the exact same things but they were in the women's section, or at least, branded unisex. She would be so so silly about arbitrary stuff like that in a modern setting.

The hair I think is a tangled issue of Falin's resemblance to Laios getting a little too obvious for Marcille's mental health, and Marcille's own very intense relationship with how (female) mages should treat their hair. Also, since it's mostly a joke doodle, I kind of took it as a flanderized Bad Taste Marcille being horrified by a woman with short hair because she buys into gender norms. Some people are... weird about what women do with their hair and unfortunately I can fully see how Marcille can be weird like that in a vacuum joke setting.

(there's also something to be said about how this kind of femininity policing could also be used as plausibly deniable homoerotic subtext. like, girl, why do you care that much about how cute another girl looks? hm?)

[donnstuart]

I got a new dress hope you guys like it ❤️

[shadycomputerpolice]

I am really surprised that Nigerian women took liberal feminism sex positivity ideology seriously. You guys really took advice from women who live in countries with good healthcare systems and accessibile abortions? What possessed you all to believe that their reality is your reality?

I believe liberal feminists that encourage women and girls to make reckless sexual decisions are patriarchy plants but the people taking their advice also need some introspection. If you get pregnant or an STD, those women are not going to help you with getting an abortion, taking care of your child(ren) and paying for your treatment. If you get raped and or killed, the most you can expect from them is to post on Twitter with your name as a hashtag but you and your family will be the ones to bear the trauma.

A popular mom activist (sheisapaigeturner) said she doesn't take self development advice from men because their realities are different from mothers' but this principle also applies to different groups of women. You cannot take advice from everybody especially people have more options and freedom. Log off social media and analyse and accept your lived reality

This is why I am very big on wellbeing focused feminism because when the goal is your complete wellbeing, all the fandom and identity politics nonsense becomes irrelevant. Is an action contributing or subtracting from your wellbeing?

[growling]

Me when I'm about to agree with the post but then at the very end they say the most platonormative shit I've ever read