#polynesian lifestyle

[sohannabarberaesque]

As related by no less than Perry Potamus (father of Peter Potamus, know) in one of his collations of his experiences in the unexplored reaches of Polynesia:

And you thought Tarzan was a rather fascinating lad himself: On this particular kingdom of Polynesia Uncharted, I happened to come across a fair-skinned lad of about 15 summers, bronzed and tanned as if he were some sort of Hawaiian beach boy, who happened to be rather well-skilled in the native fashion of diving and surfing, among other native arts.

As he explained it to me, his birth parents tossed him overboard in a bedsheet not long after birth while sailing in the waters of the Pacific, presumably out of shame, but he couldn't really be sure ... and after what seemed like a week adrift, he washed up on the shores of this rather strange island, and was taken in by a local family out of as much compassion as native hospitality. And before too long, the oldest daughter of the house began teaching him swimming and diving technique ... eventually being able to dive down to six feet by his third birthday, ten feet by his fifth and by his ninth, a full 25 feet (as if that weren't impressive enough, he's had no less than two dolphin friends enjoying his company, indirectly teaching him much fascinating stuff)!

And when he's out diving, this fair-skinned lad can't help but find plenty of interesting and fascinating experiences, some of which are bound to get on the sensual side--which is how these natives actually enjoy things, and especially in a dolphin's company! One especially memorable diving lesson he had with his adopted family included the advice that dolphins are actually at their friendliest when they're in love, or show the urge for it. "They like to show they can be trusted in a sexual sort of way," as he explained it!

[demdems]

sorry for being a little hater while watching the new natlan trailer and coughing up blood everywhere, that was a bit dramatic of me

mind the blood tho, we're still talking

a very not cohesive list of grievences i have with natlan [and genshin], I'm writing as i go so if its too long the rest is under read more

I mean truth be told i opened youtube, saw the trailer first thing, noticed the thumbnail, and kinda just immediately knew it was joever

we can start w the archon i guess [I'm assuming the red haired lady is the archon by using context clues] uh ive seen people argue that its fine/makes sense that she's white since the assumption that's been made is that she's based on himeko from hi3 but uh like, himeko murata is japanese, she's not white, if the name didn't make that obvious [this is similarly why i don't like the argument that nahida being white is fine due to her being based on theresa hi3, theresa is a clone of a white german woman im not sure why mhy based the archon of a nation based on swana cultures on her but i digress] i think its at least good that she beat the conquistador allegations, left a bad taste in my mouth when that was being speculated

The confirmation of names means people have been honing in on the cultures natlan is taking inspiration from, ive seen a lot. i made my best guess when talking with a friend but i believe theres polynesian, west african, indigenous american [mexico and central america? specifically based on the name citlali] [[feel free to correct me on anything]] honestly wasn't expecting much based on sumeru

Tbh i have like zero energy to hate on the natlan debut cast cuz i already did it w a friend but I'll do it anyways, its a lifestyle

the argument of, why look for dark skin rep in a game made by a company who's colorist [either by choice or due to pressure from the government since genshin has incredibly insane cultural impact in China], is legit since its like me looking for clothes at the soup store and getting upset

But genuinely even if mhy had a vision with genshin and wanted to show a diverse world in its game, its kinda weak to be almost so blatantly colorist outside their playable characters. I don't think that making npcs dark skinned and playable characters light skinned is a good look, especially when it's the second time that that the human enemies of the region for the most part are darker skinned than the characters used to fight them

And i don't like how parts of the community jumps on people who critique genshin for this. Like, if its a non issue to you why get upset with people yk. Plus never speaking up on stuff is bad like fine, the multi billion dollar company won't listen to you, but id like to think that other people would learn from this to some degree and understand why people get upset. And idk maybe its overstepping and silly but id like to thing that outrage reaches people who can see that yea maybe there's people who Will listen to the stories you wanna tell but idk

I just don't like that people are making it okay to just be racist and colorist like, that's just gonna eventually bounce back and then great everyones seeing how mad ur getting over someone wanting a character w a skin tone darker than #FFFFFF, i cant vocalize my thoughts right tho but you get me ig

aeugh anyways on the characters specifically, the darkest skinned character in the trailer looks almost gray thats not great, and then the girls w darker skin tones [there's so few men in genshin lately] are dressed very much not at all which is a reoccurrence, sumeru dressed its darker skinned characters in not a lot clothing which like if you've ever been to a country that's hot and sunny, people don't dress in swimwear they dress in pants and sleeved shirts because hi sun damage exists and too much exposure is unhealthy and people tend to get used to the climate

Also a lot of animal themed characters this time, do correct me if I'm wrong but i kinda see an overuse in the women of color in genshin being animal themed but if im looking too much into it then uh idk maybe genshin should release a catboy

The modern theming in the outfits isn't egregious but i think too much streetwear might bog down the overall look, like latin america cultures just by themselves have amazing fashion and god id kill to see something like a dancer based on mexico's traditional dances since those are the prettiest dresses, like modernizing is fine [i believe i saw somewhere that chongyun's outfit is based on chinese streetwear and i think it fits great in with the more traditional outfits in liyue] but stuff like the hoodies around the waist and the weird half shorts half pants of one of the characters kinda weakens the overall vision [but I'm not well versed in fashion so I'm not sure what direction wouldve been best for natlan to take to both respect the fashion of the cultures inspo is taken from and also fit in with genshins vibes overall]

Natlan the region itself is the best thing of the trailer tbh, it's very nice looking and yea there isn't a yellow orange filter over it like this were american tv or something, and the music is great i think the one part of the team who does good is the music

Personal expectations, i just hope the characters are good, like i hope good personality saves these guys and my soul while i play the natlan quest getting flashbanged everywhere i look

wegh, drip marketing Monday, and 5.0 in like 7 weeks, let's get this bread gamers

[mostlysignssomeportents]

Ian McDonald's "Hopeland"

Tonight (May 30) at 6:30PM, I’m at the NOTTINGHAM Waterstones with my novel Red Team Blues, hosted by Christian Reilly (MMT Podcast).

Tomorrow (May 31) at 6:30PM, I’m at the MANCHESTER Waterstones, hosted by Ian Forrester.

Then it’s London, Edinburgh, and Berlin!

Have you ever read a novel that was so good you almost felt angry at it? I mean, maybe that’s just me, but there is one author who consistently triggers my literary pleasure centers so hard that I get spillover into all my other senses, and that’s Ian McDonald, who has a new novel out: Hopeland:

https://us.macmillan.com/books/9780765375551/hopeland

Seriously what the fuck is this amazing, uncategorizable, unsummarizable, weird, sprawling, hairball of a novel? How the hell do you research — much less write — a novel this ambitious and wide-ranging? Why did I find myself weeping uncontrollably on a train yesterday as I finished it, literally squeezing my chest over my heart as it broke and sang at the same moment?

Hopeland is a climate novel, and it’s not McDonald’s first. Hearts, Hands and Voices (published in the US as The Broken Land) is a climate novel (that also happens to be about the Irish Troubles). So is his stunning debut, Desolation Road, which I picked up at a mall bookstore in 1988 and lost my mind over:

https://memex.craphound.com/2009/07/02/ian-mcdonalds-brilliant-mars-book-desolation-road-finally-back-in-print/

But those were climate novels written in the early stages of the discussion of the gravity of the anthropocene, and so climate change was more setting than anything else. In Hopeland, the climate is more of a character — not a protagonist, but also not a minor character.

The true stars of Hopeland are members of two ancient, secret societies. There’s Raisa Hopeland, who belongs to a globe-spanning, mystical “family,” that’s one part mutual aid, one part dance music subculture, and one part sorcerer (some Hopelanders are electromancers, making strange, powerful magic with Tesla coils).

We meet Raisa as she is racing across London in a bid to win a rare, open electromancer title. She is on the brink of losing, but then a passerby pitches in to help: Amon Brightborne, part of another mystical family whose stately, odd manor in the English countryside can only be reached by people who can work the “gateway,” which makes the road disappear and reappear. Amon is a composer and DJ who specializes in making music for very small groups of people — preferably just one person — that is so perfect for them that they are transformed by hearing it.

Amon’s intervention in Raisa’s bid for electromancy unites these two formerly disjoint families, entwining their destinies just as the world is forever changing, thanks to the decidedly un-magical buildup of CO2 and other greenhouse gasses in our atmosphere. They have a romance, a breakup, a child. They are scattered to opposite ends of the Earth — Iceland and a tiny Polynesian island.

Their lives are electrified. Literally. On her passage to Iceland, Raisa confronts a ship-destroying megastorm, speaks its true name, and sends it away before it can sink the container ship — captained by a Hopelander who gives her free passage — that she is sailing on. In Iceland, she falls in with more Hopelanders, tapping a thermal vent to create a greenhouse cannabis farm, which begets a luxury salad greens business, then an electricity plant that attracts cryptocurrency weirdos like shit draws flies.

Amon, meanwhile, is sinking into drunken ruin on his island paradise, where he becomes a kind of mascot for the locals, who respect his musical prowess. The island is sinking, both figuratively and literally, as its offshore king, hiding in a luxury mansion in Sydney, drains its aquifers for the luxury bottled water market and loots its treasuries to fund his own high lifestyle.

McDonald takes a long time getting to this point. This is a 500 page novel, and the build to this setup takes nearly 300 of them. Every word of that setup is gold. McDonald’s prose often veers into poetry, or at least poesie, and he has this knack for seemingly superfluous vignettes and detours that present as self-indulgences but then snap into place later as critical pieces of a superbly turned narrative. How the fuck does he do it?

How does he do it? How does he deliver a sense of such vastness, a world peopled by vastly different polities and populations, distinctly different without ever being exoticized, each clearly the hero of their own story, whether they live on a tiny island or captain an American battleship?

I mean, cyberpunk — the tradition McDonald most obviously belongs to — was always about a post-American future, but no one ever managed it the way McDonald did. He delivered a superb, complex, Indian future in 2004’s River of Gods:

https://memex.craphound.com/2004/06/12/ian-mcdonalds-brilliant-new-novel-river-of-gods-bollywoodpunk/

And then did the same in Brazil with 2007’s Brasyl:

https://memex.craphound.com/2007/04/30/ian-mcdonalds-brasyl-mind-altering-cyberpunk-carioca/

And Turkey in 2011’s Dervish House, a novel of mystical nanofuturism set in an Istanbul that is so vividly drawn that you feel like you can reach through the page and touch it:

https://memex.craphound.com/2010/07/12/ian-mcdonalds-dervish-house-superb-novel-of-the-mystical-nano-future-of-istanbul/

Those were ambitious books, but Hopeland puts them to shame. It draws on so many threads — music and art, climate justice, mysticism, electrical engineering, economics, gender politics — and has such a huge cast of finely drawn characters. By all rights, it should collapse under its own weight. I mean, seriously — who can write multi-page passages describing imaginary music and make it riveting?

McDonald is just so damned good at writing love-letters to places that turn them into characters in their own right. The first third of Hopeland treats London that way, bringing it to gritty life in the manner of Michael de Larrabeiti’s classic Borribles trilogy:

https://memex.craphound.com/2014/01/16/the-borribles-are-back/

Or, for that matter, China Miéville’s debut novel King Rat, itself out in a fancy new Tor Essentials edition with an introduction by Tim Maughan, who absolutely bullseyes the appeal of Miéville’s novel of underground music, mystical societies and urbanism:

https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250862501/kingrat

(It shouldn’t surprise you to learn that Miéville is a giant Borribles fan:)

https://www.tor.com/2014/03/13/the-borribles-excerpt-introduction-china-mieville/

I have loved Ian McDonald’s work since I picked up Desolation Road in that mall bookstore when I was 17. One of the absolute highlights of my writing career was writing an introduction for the 2014 reissue of Out On Blue Six, a book that mashes up David Byrne’s solo projects, Orwell’s Nineteen Eighty-Four, Huxley’s Brave New World, and Dick’s Do Androids Dream in a madcap dystopian comedy:

https://memex.craphound.com/2014/01/20/out-on-blue-six-ian-mcdonalds-brilliant-novel-is-back/

I’ve read everything I could find about how he manages these giant, weird, intricately constructed novels, like this fascinating 2010 interview about his research process:

https://web.archive.org/web/20100726181934/http://www.cclapcenter.com/2010/07/an_interview_with_ian_mcdonald.html

But despite it all, I find myself continuously baffled by how manages it, but each book just stabs me. For one thing, he’s such a good remix artist. His three-volume, essential retelling of Heinlein’s The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress starts with Luna: New Moon (2015):

https://memex.craphound.com/2015/09/22/ian-mcdonalds-luna-new-moon-the-moon-is-a-much-much-harsher-mistress/

Which substantially out-Heinleins Heinlein, adding thickness and rigor to the tropes Heinlein tossed in as throwaways. Then, he topped himself with the sequel, Luna: Wolf Moon (2017):

https://memex.craphound.com/2017/03/28/ian-mcdonald-returns-to-the-harshest-mistress-in-luna-wolf-moon/

Before bringing it all in for a screaming landing that tied up the hundreds of threads he pulled on in the course of the previous two volumes with the conclusion, Luna: Moon Rising (2019):

https://memex.craphound.com/2019/05/16/luna-moon-rising-in-which-ian-mcdonald-brings-the-trilogy-to-an-astounding-intricate-exciting-and-satisfying-climax/

In each volume, McDonald proved — over and over — that he understood precisely what Heinlein was trying to do, then outdid him, and, in so doing, shredded Heinlein’s solipsitic, simplistic, seductive argument about a libertarian utopia.

Perhaps this is McDonald’s greatest gift: his ability to rework others’ ideas, tropes and tales, without ever trying to hide his influences, and then vastly outdoing them. That’s certainly what was going on with his wild-ass, deiselpunk YA trilogy, which started with 2011’s Planesrunner:

https://memex.craphound.com/2011/12/06/planesrunner-ian-mcdonalds-ya-debut-is-full-of-action-packed-multidimensional-cool-airships-electropunk-and-quantum-physics/

One important McDonaldism: being deadly serious about his whimsy. The books are all very whimsical, but never frivolous. To get a sense of what I mean here, consider his 1992 graphic novel Kling Klang Klatch, a deadly serious comic book about the Klu Klux Klan, told entirely through adorable teddybears in a noir cityscape, whose dialog is heavily salted with Tom Waits lyrics:

https://memex.craphound.com/2004/01/24/ian-mcdonalds-kling-klang-klatch/

No, really. And it’s fantastic.

Back to Hopeland. It’s a climate novel, because what else could you write in this time of polycrisis? The book is vast enough to convey the scale of the crisis. The storms that ravage the world are both personified and realized, a terror to compare to any literary monster or Cthuhoid entity. But it’s called Hopeland for a reason, because it’s a book about hope, not nihilism, a book about confronting the crisis, a book about solidarity and love, about overcoming difference, about challenging the way things “just are.”

That’s why I was crying and holding my heart yesterday on the train. The hope. What a ride.

One of the reasons I was in such a hurry to read this novel now is that I’m appearing on a panel with McDonald this coming Saturday, June 3, at Edinburgh’s Cymera festival, along with Nina Allen, author of the new novel Conquest:

https://www.cymerafestival.co.uk/cymera23-events/2023/4/4/connection-interrupted-with-nina-allan-cory-doctorow-and-ian-mcdonald

I’m so looking forward to it. I’ve written a couple dozen books since I read my first McDonald novel as a teenager, and while I still have no idea how McDonald does it, there’s something of his work in every one of my books.

Catch me on tour with Red Team Blues in Nottingham, Manchester, London, and Berlin!

If you'd like an essay-formatted version of this thread to read or share, here's a link to it on pluralistic.net, my surveillance-free, ad-free, tracker-free blog:

https://pluralistic.net/2023/05/30/electromancy/#the-grace

[Image ID: The cover for the Tor Books edition of 'Hopeland.']

[freehawaii]

YOUNG HAWAIIANS & PACIFIC ISLANDER ADULTS WITH HIGHEST CANCER RATES

NBC News - May 19, 2023

New research shows that Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islanders between the ages of 20 and 49 have the highest death rates from any type of cancer among all racial groups of that age bracket. 

The findings, published last month by the National Cancer Institute, weren’t immediately apparent in previous research because federal data has traditionally grouped together those of Asian, Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islander descent, concealing the disparities, the report said. 

“We have shown the importance of disaggregating Asian and NHPI individuals, as these groups have disparate cancer mortality rates that are hidden when analyzed together,” researchers wrote. “Policies aimed at equitable cancer prevention, early detection, and treatment, as well as disaggregation of data for racial/ethnic subpopulations are needed to address disparities in cancer mortality across racial/ethnic groups.”

Those of Asian descent, the manuscript pointed out, have the lowest cancer death rates across every age group and, when combined with data on Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islanders, the death rate largely ended up reflecting the low incidence of the disease among Asian Americans 

While the Office of Management and Budget disaggregated the Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islander populations from Asian Americans in 1997, the National Center for Health Statistics didn’t release single-race mortality data until almost two decades later, when all states implemented the new classification on death certificates, the report said. Therefore, data on Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islanders, who represent an estimated 0.4% of the U.S. population, remained “masked.”

The report, which also looked at cancer death rates across other racial groups, showed additional disparities. Data on cancer mortality rates among males showed Black men with the highest numbers, followed by whites and Latinos. In looking at women, the mortality rates were highest among Black women. Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islander women came second, followed by white females. 

High cancer death rates in Black, Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islander communities are likely  due in part to unequal access to health care, the report said. Marginalized communities are also more likely to receive “suboptimal” cancer treatment that may not be consistent with the recommended clinical practice guidelines, and are less likely to be included in clinical trials, the report noted. 

Structural racism was another underlying cause of the racial and ethnic gaps in health. The American Cancer Society’s guidelines for cancer prevention, the researchers point out, focus on “modifiable lifestyle factors” like obesity and physical activity. However, Black, Latino, American Inuit, American Indian, Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islander communities, which have high obesity rates, are more likely to live in communities with food deserts, high rates of economic insecurity and greater barriers to physical activity.

The legacy of U.S. colonization of Hawai`i and the long history of “Western interference” has also contributed to health disparities among the Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islander populations, Dr. Loïc Le Marchand, associate director for population sciences at the University of Hawai`i Cancer Center, told NBC News. 

“If we compare Polynesians in the South Pacific and Native Hawaiians, not only is the level of obesity higher [in Native Hawaiians], but the type of obesity is different,” Le Marchand said. “The distribution of fat is different. … It’s not just linked to eating more, but it’s also linked to composition of diet.” 

More disaggregated data and better information on specific populations are critical, Le Marchand said, as they can make a difference in the  decision-making.  And while there are some programs in place in Hawaii and across the country that address these gaps in health care, they are still limited.

“Native Hawaiians have been disadvantaged, understudied ... for many decades,” Le Marchand said. “Those health issues exist and need to be addressed.”

Le Marchand said that when it comes to treating Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islander populations and other marginalized groups, it’s “not just funding a program here and there.” Integrating leaders from these communities is critical to dispense appropriate care and treatment, he said.

[captainsway]

People saying Mando culture is rooted in Polynesian culture as if the source wasn't Legends books written by racist Karen Traviss, who gave a stereotypical portrayal of a violent warrior lifestyle when basing it off the Maori actor. Apparently that's enough to make people think majority of Mandos are so diverse even though nothing from canon supports this and no, Din played by a white Latino does not count either.

Yeahhhh and then they'll cry about 'reclaiming' mando culture and shit on satine for being racist as if every other mando outside of the fetts and wrens (for the most part) weren't white humans and also turn around and say jedi aren't Asian even tho they were based on Asian cultures and are canonically diverse as fuck... like yo make up your damn mind, you can't have both. If mando culture is racist and sexist because it's written by a white British woman and you want to 'reclaim' it, then you literally cannot get mad at Asian people for reclaiming the jedi when at least the latter was accurately portrayed lmao

Like it's actually amazing how every jedi outside of the main actors (bc Hollywood is inherently racist lol) were not white, human, or even men and yet fandom shits on them for being white Christians while super diverse mando boba fett goes 'sex outside of marriage is a sin', and traviss goes 'women belong at home' and 'if you become a mando you leave everything including your name behind' in legends looool

[brigit-12]

Film: Moana

I chose the Disney animated flick Moana.Moana was released in November 2016 and has captivated millions of people across the world with its animation, music, and voice performances. It's about a young brave girl who set out beyond the reef to keep her island from dying. It was her destiny to do so, and she was joined by a companion, Moai. They each overcame numerous challenges on their voyage and protected their islands. I believe that this video is relevant to our course themes since it showcases or represents Pacific islanders in various parts of the world. I am a Pacific Islander, and the film's authenticity is spot on especially for our identity. For example, huts, coconuts, homemade local attire, the ocean, traditional dancing, navigation, and so on are all in our blood, independent of tribe. The film depicts what our island forefathers went through. It represents our identity in numerous locations throughout the world.

This film was intended to showcase Polynesian culture or identity, but it actually depicts the ideals of Pacific Islanders. It vividly represents my identity as an islander. This portrayal is underrepresented, and few people in the media are unaware of our island heritage. In this film, the directors, Ron Clements and John Musker, worked with cultural experts and delved into historical context to create an appropriate picture and respect for us islanders. This film focuses on our myths, tales, traditions, cultures, and much more. There are many stereotypes behind every identity, thus the Disney directors sought genuine accuracy and truth about our culture. They traveled in person to acquire a true sense of and feel for our island way.

Moana, as a character, challenged stereotypes as a young independent girl proud of her background. When it comes to gender, women are expected to not lead or be heroes as providers. Her character demonstrates that autonomous leaders do not need to be a specific gender, since everyone can lead. She is a wonderful role model for young girls, encouraging them to be strong, fearless, and capable of determining their own fate. It not only exposes our identity, but it also teaches many essential values, particularly to young girls who aspire to be brave women.

Television: Fresh off the boat

The television show or series I choose is Fresh off the Boat, which follows an Asian-American family as they embark on a new life in America.They fought to preserve their Taiwanese heritage while navigating American culture. Each season featured a different filmmaker, and it premiered or was released in February 2015. It is a comedy-drama series that has captivated many people's attention. It was significant for being the first network television show with Asian-American main characters. This TV show is relevant to our course topics because of the rich culture of the Asian-American family. Their experiences demonstrate how immigrant families adapt into another generation.

They had to make many adjustments after moving to Florida, and it was not as diversified as they had hoped. It was less familiar and diverse, which implies a lot can change. For example, Eddie, the eldest and a hip hop fan, attempts to fit in with the new American lifestyle in order to make friends. Rather from their diverse approach, they also encountered financial difficulties because the father launched his own business, restaurant, in a separate nation. Like many immigrants, I've encountered numerous immigrant families that are struggling to make ends meet in their new temporary home, both economically and socially. Another stereotype is that they are perceived as outsiders because of their language, culture, food, and expectations. The family had to strike a balance between their Chinese traditions and American standards of life, which occasionally resulted in disagreements and misconceptions.

This show is relevant to our conversations and readings since many various identities are consistently misrepresented and overlooked by standard methods. Their upbringing is very different from who they are today, and preconceptions will start to creep in. This television portrays the expectations of immigrant people who migrate to a whole new generation. There will be discrimination based on race, as well as differences in norms, traditions, and ideals. It is difficult at first, and a lot of change will occur. Not only does it show snippets of what it's like to transfer to another culture, but it also depicts the Asian-American lifestyle. It is interesting to learn about their customs and traditions as a global nation.

Social Media - Nation Native Designs (Instagram) https://www.nativenationdesigns.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaapIe_4PzXcY0i5_l_Wg4LuWvXomeOYX_PIEKX4gD95M3MDB0n8hYTC65I_aem_Ys-C1RzVIMYa8aChQjXWGw

The social media account I choose is Nation Native Designs, which I follow on Instagram. It is a clothing brand and fashion line that redefines indigenous elegance. It is, to quote, "a bold and innovative brand that is indigenously designed and sewn." Sabrina Lombardo, a Milwaukee-based designer and artist, is the creative power behind Native Nation Designs. It is her heritage, and she expresses it via her own fashion designs. I recently followed her Instagram profile and was impressed by how effectively her designs are put together. Not simply the pattern or layers, but also the art within them. It is lovely and showcases the distinct Native Indigenous cultures and traditions. She used fashion and designs to represent her identity as an Native Indigenous.

This page explores ethnicity via fashion and tells the tale of her heritage. As we mentioned in our prior work, images are utilized to express an identity, and Sabrina used fashion apparel designs to demonstrate hers. She used fashion art to express a side of her background. Each of her collections has a purpose, which she portrays through her ancestry and natural surroundings. She invited a varied range of models to demonstrate and wear her designs.Wearing her indigenous designs sends a tremendous message of pride and identity.

[millionairedatinghub]

Diverse Cultures Across the Globe

The world thrives in a spectrum of unique and vibrant cultures, each painting a vivid picture of its people's history, lifestyle, and traditions. From language and art to food and customs, cultural nuances weave a rich tapestry that defines every country.

In Asia, countries like Japan blend ancient traditions with modern technology. Ceremonial tea rituals and sumo wrestling coexist with cutting-edge robotics. In contrast, India's cultural diversity is a vast medley of festivals, including Diwali and Holi, varied cuisines, and numerous languages.

Europe offers its own eclectic charm, where Italy showcases its legacy in Renaissance art and fine cuisine, while Scandinavian countries promote minimalist lifestyles and strong social welfare. On the other hand, African nations display a colorful mosaic of tribal traditions, rhythmic dances, and storytelling passed down generations, emphasizing community ties and nature’s role in life.

Latin America embodies lively spirit through music and dance, such as salsa in Colombia or tango in Argentina. It also treasures indigenous influences alongside Spanish or Portuguese colonial heritage. North America balances cultural melting pots, with Canada embracing multiculturalism and the U.S. highlighting individualism, both infused with immigrant influences.

Finally, Oceania's cultures are deeply rooted in nature and ancestral tales, with Australia’s Aboriginal art and Polynesian customs reflecting deep respect for land and spiritual heritage.

These cultural distinctions shape societal values and worldviews, showcasing how humanity’s shared spirit is beautifully expressed in endless forms.

[surfieboard]

The Art of Surfing: A Deep Dive into Surfboards

Surfing isn’t just a sport—it’s a way of life for millions around the world. At the heart of this lifestyle lies one essential piece of equipment: the surfboard. A surfboard is more than just a tool; it’s the rider’s connection to the ocean, the vessel that allows them to harness the power of waves and experience the exhilaration of riding across water.

In this blog, we’ll explore the world of surfboards, from their rich history to the different types available today, and how choosing the right board can transform your surfing experience.

The History of Surfboards

Surfing has its roots in Polynesian culture, where ancient surfers rode large, heavy wooden boards made from trees like koa. These early boards, sometimes up to 15 feet long, were incredibly challenging to maneuver, but they laid the foundation for modern surfing. Over the years, surfboards have evolved dramatically, with innovations in materials and design shaping the boards we use today.

In the 20th century, pioneers like Tom Blake and Bob Simmons revolutionized surfboard design by introducing lighter materials like balsa wood and later, polyurethane foam. These advances made surfboards more accessible and allowed for greater flexibility and control, fueling the global surfing boom.

Types of Surfboards

The surfboard market today is as diverse as the waves themselves. Whether you’re a beginner paddling out for the first time or an experienced pro looking to refine your style, there’s a board tailored to your needs. Let’s break down the main types of surfboards and their unique characteristics:

Longboards Longboards are the modern descendants of the original wooden boards, and they’re perfect for surfers who prefer a more laid-back style. Typically ranging from 9 to 12 feet in length, longboards are known for their stability and smooth, gliding ride. They’re ideal for small to medium-sized waves and allow for traditional maneuvers like cross-stepping and nose riding.Best for: Beginners, cruisers, and surfers who enjoy a classic, relaxed ride.

Shortboards Shortboards are the most common choice for advanced surfers looking to ride fast, powerful waves. These boards, generally between 5 and 7 feet long, are designed for high performance. Their shorter length and pointed nose make them highly maneuverable, allowing for sharp turns and quick direction changes. However, they can be more challenging to ride, especially for beginners.Best for: Experienced surfers seeking speed and agility in larger waves.

Fish Boards Fish surfboards get their name from their wide, flat design and distinctive swallowtail shape. They’re shorter than longboards but wider than most shortboards, making them great for catching small to medium waves. The extra width provides stability, while the short length allows for fast, playful surfing.Best for: Intermediate surfers or anyone looking for a fun, versatile board for smaller waves.

Funboards Funboards, often referred to as "hybrids," are a blend of longboards and shortboards, typically between 7 and 8 feet long. They combine the stability of a longboard with the maneuverability of a shortboard, making them an excellent choice for surfers transitioning between the two styles. Funboards are versatile and forgiving, allowing for a wide range of wave sizes and conditions.Best for: Intermediate surfers or those looking to improve their skills with a user-friendly board.

Gun Boards Gun boards are the go-to for big wave surfers. Long, narrow, and pointed, these boards are specifically designed to handle the intense speeds and power of massive waves. Their shape allows riders to paddle quickly into fast-moving waves and maintain control on steep, dangerous drops.Best for: Advanced surfers tackling big waves like those found in Hawaii or other iconic surf destinations.

Soft-Top Boards Soft-top surfboards are often the first board a beginner encounters. As the name suggests, these boards have a soft, foam top that makes them safer and more forgiving in wipeouts. While they don’t offer the same performance as hardboards, they’re perfect for learning and are widely used in surf schools.Best for: Beginners or casual surfers looking for a safe and easy introduction to the sport.

Choosing the Right Surfboard

Selecting the right surfboard depends on several factors, including your skill level, the type of waves you’ll be riding, and your personal preferences. Here are a few things to keep in mind when choosing a board:

Experience Level: Beginners should start with a longer, more stable board like a longboard or soft-top to build confidence. As you progress, you can experiment with shorter, more responsive boards.

Wave Conditions: If you’re surfing small, mellow waves, a fish or funboard will perform well. For bigger, more powerful waves, a shortboard or gun is better suited to handle the conditions.

Your Size and Weight: Your height and weight will influence the size and volume of the board you need. Larger surfers will benefit from boards with more volume for added buoyancy, while lighter surfers can get away with smaller, more agile boards.

Surfboard Materials and Construction

Today’s surfboards are made from a variety of materials, each offering different performance characteristics. The most common are:

Polyurethane (PU): Traditional foam cores covered with fiberglass and resin. PU boards offer a classic feel and are known for their flexibility and responsiveness.

Epoxy: Lighter and more durable than PU, epoxy boards are made with expanded polystyrene (EPS) foam. They tend to be more buoyant and are ideal for beginners or those surfing in smaller waves.

Soft-Top: Made with foam construction, these boards are perfect for beginners or surf schools due to their forgiving nature and safety.

Caring for Your Surfboard

Surfboards are an investment, so it’s important to take care of them. Rinse your board with fresh water after each session to remove salt and sand, which can degrade the materials over time. Store your board in a cool, shaded area and use a board bag for protection during transport.

Dings and cracks are inevitable, especially in more intense surf conditions. It’s crucial to repair any damage promptly to prevent water from seeping into the board, which can cause long-term issues.

The Surfboard as a Reflection of Your Surfing Style

Every surfer has a unique style, and your choice of surfboard is a reflection of that. Whether you’re drawn to the elegance of longboarding, the rush of high-performance shortboarding, or the playful nature of a fish, the board you ride says a lot about your relationship with the ocean.

Surfing is an art form, and like any artist, your tools shape your craft. So, choose wisely, experiment often, and most importantly, enjoy the ride!

Conclusion: Ride the Wave, Feel the Stoke

The surfboard is more than just a piece of equipment; it’s the link between you and the ocean’s energy. Whether you're riding your first wave or chasing down barrels on a gun, the right surfboard can elevate your surfing experience. Embrace the endless possibilities on the water, find the board that fits your style, and let the waves guide you on your journey into the world of surfing.

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Discover the Best Oahu Tour: An Unforgettable Hawaiian Adventure

Waikiki Beach: Sun, Surf, and Sand

Begin your journey at the world-renowned Waikiki Beach. Known for its golden sands and turquoise waters, Waikiki is the ideal spot for relaxation and water sports. Take a surfing lesson from a local expert, paddleboard on the gentle waves, or simply bask in the sun. The beachfront is lined with luxury hotels, trendy shops, and delicious eateries, offering a taste of Oahu’s vibrant lifestyle.

Diamond Head Crater: A Hiker’s Paradise

A short drive from Waikiki brings you to the iconic Diamond Head Crater. This volcanic tuff cone offers one of the best hiking experiences on the island. best oahu tour The trail, which is moderately challenging, takes you up to the summit, providing panoramic views of Honolulu and the Pacific Ocean. The hike is well worth the effort, and the vistas from the top are nothing short of spectacular.

Pearl Harbor: A Journey Through History

No visit to Oahu is complete without paying homage to the historic site of Pearl Harbor. This poignant location offers a deep dive into World War II history, with tours that include the USS Arizona Memorial, the Battleship Missouri Memorial, and the Pacific Aviation Museum. The experience is both educational and moving, providing a profound understanding of the events that shaped history.

North Shore: The Surfing Capital of the World

Next, head to Oahu’s North Shore, famous for its legendary surf breaks. During the winter months, massive waves attract professional surfers from around the globe. Even if you’re not a surfer, the North Shore’s laid-back vibe and stunning beaches are worth the visit. Don’t miss the chance to try the local favorite, shave ice, at Matsumoto Shave Ice in Haleiwa.

Dole Plantation: A Sweet Escape

On your way to the North Shore, stop by the Dole Plantation for a sweet treat and a bit of history. Known for its delicious pineapples, the plantation offers a variety of activities, including the Pineapple Express train tour, the Plantation Garden Tour, and the world’s largest maze. It’s a fun and informative stop that’s perfect for families.

Hanauma Bay: Snorkeling Adventure

For an unforgettable underwater experience, visit Hanauma Bay Nature Preserve. This protected marine life conservation area is home to vibrant coral reefs and an array of tropical fish. Snorkeling in the crystal-clear waters of Hanauma Bay is like swimming in an aquarium. The preserve also offers educational programs to help visitors understand the importance of marine conservation.

Polynesian Cultural Center: A Cultural Extravaganza

To immerse yourself in the rich Polynesian culture, spend an afternoon at the Polynesian Cultural Center. Located on the North Shore, this center showcases the traditions, dances, and crafts of Polynesia. The highlight of the visit is the evening luau and the spectacular Ha: jurassic park tour hawaii Breath of Life show, featuring fire dancing and traditional performances.

Lanikai Beach: Tranquility and Beauty

End your tour with a visit to Lanikai Beach, often regarded as one of the most beautiful beaches in the world. With its powdery white sand and clear, calm waters, Lanikai is the perfect spot to unwind and reflect on your Oahu adventure. The Mokulua Islands in the distance add to the picturesque scenery, making it an idyllic location for relaxation.

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Exploring the Jewel of the Pacific: Unique Oahu Island Tour Adventures

Nestled in the heart of the Pacific Ocean, Oahu is a vibrant tapestry of natural beauty, rich culture, and fascinating history. Known as "The Gathering Place," this Hawaiian island offers a captivating blend of modernity and tradition, making it an ideal destination for travelers seeking both relaxation and adventure, Tours from Waikiki.

Discovering Oahu's Natural Wonders

A journey through Oahu begins with its breathtaking natural landscapes. The island is renowned for its stunning beaches, each offering its own unique charm. From the famous Waikiki Beach with its iconic Diamond Head backdrop to the secluded Lanikai Beach with its powdery white sands and turquoise waters, Oahu's coastline is a paradise for sun-seekers and water enthusiasts alike, Island tours Oahu.

For those seeking a more rugged adventure, a visit to the North Shore is a must. Known for its legendary surf breaks like Pipeline and Sunset Beach, this region attracts surfers from around the world during the winter months. The lush, green landscapes of the Windward Coast provide a stark contrast to the North Shore's raw energy, offering scenic vistas and tranquil spots such as the Byodo-In Temple nestled at the foot of the Ko'olau Mountains.

Delving into Oahu's Cultural Tapestry

Oahu's cultural heritage is deeply rooted in its Polynesian origins and diverse immigrant history. Honolulu, the capital city, is a melting pot of cultures and traditions. A visit to the Bishop Museum provides insight into Hawaii's royal past and Polynesian voyaging history, while the Iolani Palace offers a glimpse into the monarchy's opulent lifestyle.

The vibrant arts scene in Honolulu is another facet of Oahu's cultural richness. The Honolulu Museum of Art showcases a diverse collection of Asian, Pacific, and Western art, while the vibrant street art scene in the Kaka'ako district reflects the island's contemporary creative spirit.

Culinary Delights and Local Flavors

No visit to Oahu is complete without sampling its eclectic culinary offerings. From traditional Hawaiian dishes like poke (marinated raw fish) and laulau (steamed pork wrapped in taro leaves) to fusion cuisine that blends local ingredients with international flavors, Oahu's food scene is as diverse as its cultural landscape.

The bustling food markets and local eateries offer a taste of authentic Hawaiian cuisine, while gourmet restaurants in Honolulu cater to discerning palates with innovative dishes prepared by award-winning chefs. A visit to a plantation like the Dole Plantation not only offers a glimpse into Hawaii's agricultural history but also provides an opportunity to indulge in fresh pineapple treats.

Outdoor Adventures and Eco-Tourism

Oahu's diverse terrain offers ample opportunities for outdoor enthusiasts and eco-tourists. Hiking enthusiasts can explore scenic trails like the Diamond Head Summit Trail or the Makapuu Point Lighthouse Trail, which offer panoramic views of the island's coastline.

For marine enthusiasts, snorkeling or diving in Hanauma Bay reveals a vibrant underwater world teeming with tropical fish and coral reefs. Dolphin watching tours off the western coast provide an opportunity to encounter Hawaii's resident spinner dolphins in their natural habitat.

Preserving Oahu's Natural Beauty

As visitors explore the wonders of Oahu, it is essential to recognize the importance of sustainable tourism practices. Conservation efforts play a crucial role in preserving the island's delicate ecosystems and cultural heritage for future generations to enjoy. Supporting local businesses, respecting cultural traditions, and minimizing environmental impact are key principles that responsible travelers should uphold.

Conclusion

A tour of Oahu is a journey through paradise, where natural beauty, cultural heritage, and modern amenities converge to create an unforgettable experience. Whether you're lounging on a pristine beach, immersing yourself in Hawaiian history, savoring local delicacies, or embarking on outdoor adventures, Oahu offers something for every traveler. As you explore this jewel of the Pacific, you'll discover why Oahu truly lives up to its reputation as "The Gathering Place" – a place where the spirit of aloha welcomes visitors from around the world.

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Discovering Paradise: Tahiti Travel Packages

Situated in French Polynesia, Tahiti is a paradise for plenty of vacationers. With its turquoise waters, inexperienced landscapes, colorful subculture, and highly priced motels, Tahiti continues to maintain the proper balance between journey and relaxation. In this blog, we'll get into what makes Tahiti special and the kinds of  Tahiti travel packages available, together with basic tips on how to choose the best package for your needs.

Why Tahiti?

1. Natural Beauty Tahiti simply leaves one breathless

The place boasts magnificent landscapes: crystal lagoons, white-sand beaches, dramatic volcanic mountains, and lush rainforests that constitute a perfect setting for any holiday. It abounds with opportunities for snorkeling, scuba diving, and hiking to get into these simply marvelous landscapes.

2. Rich Culture:

t is obviously rich in Polynesian lifestyle, firmly anchored by the traditions, music, dance, and arts of Tahiti. There are stunning conventional dances of Tahiti to behold, markets to visit, and the remains of archeological sites to visit. Warm and welcoming locals, referred to as Tahitians, add to the charminess of the island, making visitors feel at home.

3. Luxurious Accommodations

From over-the-water bungalows to international-class motels, Tahiti boasts them all—all varieties of indulgent locations for your sojourn.

The Best Tahiti Travel Package: Some Tips to Help You Choose

1. Set your priorities right.

First, think of what really matters to you in having that perfect Tahiti vacation. Are you going to seek some pure general relaxation, shake up your adventurous spirit, make your special friend linger in romantic moments, or enjoy some family time?

2. Compare packages.

Compare the travel packages offered by different providers. Understand specifically what is included: meals, activities, and how you get from one place to the next. Comparing these will help in determining which ones give you the real value for money.

3. Check the reviews.

Reading reviews from other travelers will give you a realistic scenario regarding the travel packages that interest you.

4. Consider the season.

The best time to visit Tahiti is during the dry season, from May to October, for warm and delightful weather.

5. Plan Ahead

Tahiti is such a popular destination that travel packages can sell out fast, especially during peak times of travel. Early booking of the package gives you the best available options and rates.

Conclusion

The packages can make easy and relatively inexpensive access to this South Pacific heaven possible. Reach out to the right one for you to fit your priorities, whether for relaxation, romance, adventure, or family enjoyment—define exactly what you want for your vacation. You can get the perfect Tahiti vacation packages to create an unforgettable vacation by defining your priorities, comparing options, reading reviews, and planning ahead. So, pack those bags and slather yourself in sunscreen—get ready to discover just what magic Tahiti holds

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Sunset Resort, Rarotonga: A Boutique 4-Star Gem of a Resort!

Cook Islands travel offers an enchanting allure of Sunset Resort in Rarotonga, a haven that promises more than just a stay but a mesmerising experience. Nestled on the idyllic western coast, this resort offers breathtaking ocean views, a serene atmosphere, warm Polynesian hospitality, and comfortably chic accommodations. Whether you’re seeking a peaceful retreat or a cultural adventure, Sunset Resort caters to all desires, making every moment unforgettable. Dive into the reasons why this destination should be your next Cook Islands travel choice.

Stunning Beachfront Location

Sunset Resort enjoys a prime position on the western shore of Rarotonga, renowned for its extraordinary ocean views and magical sunsets. This unique geographic setting allows guests to experience a panorama of the Pacific Ocean right at their doorstep. The resort’s beachfront provides an ideal spot for leisure activities like sunbathing, beach volleyball, and evening strolls along the sand, offering a picturesque escape from everyday life.

The western coast is famous for its vibrant sunsets, which paint the sky in hues of orange, pink, and purple every evening. Guests at the resort can enjoy these natural displays from the comfort of their rooms or while dining at the beachside restaurant, making every evening a special occasion.

Tranquil Atmosphere

One of the standout features of Sunset Resort is its serene environment, which is carefully maintained to ensure a tranquil retreat for its guests. The resort is set away from the main road and densely populated areas, enveloping visitors in a quiet haven surrounded by nature. The soothing sounds of the waves and rustling palm trees enhance the peaceful ambiance, providing a perfect setting for relaxation and meditation.

The resort’s design and layout further promote a sense of peace with spacious accommodations and private areas that encourage quiet reflection or intimate conversations. Whether lounging by the pool, enjoying a book in the shade, or simply taking in the scenic views, guests can find plenty of opportunities to unwind and recharge.

Authentic Polynesian Hospitality

At Sunset Resort, the staff are not only attentive but also embody the warm, inclusive spirit characteristic of Polynesian culture. Guests are greeted with smiles and may be offered traditional welcomes like a flower lei and a refreshing drink, making them feel part of the family. This level of personal care is sustained throughout their stay, with staff members often going out of their way to accommodate special requests and ensure a memorable experience.

The resort often hosts cultural evenings, including live local music and dance performances, allowing guests to immerse themselves in the rich Rarotongan culture. These events provide an authentic glimpse into the local lifestyle and traditions, enhancing the travel experience by connecting visitors with the island’s heritage and community.

Read the full article to know more about Sunset Resort, Rarotonga: A Boutique 4-Star Gem of a Resort!

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Unveiling The Secrets Of A True Waterman - Tune in to Our Surf Podcast Now!

Ready to dive deep into the essence of being a waterman? Our latest episode is just what you need! We begin by spotlighting Veyor Waterproof Watches, essential gear for those who live life to the fullest. From there, we explore the artistry of wind-up watches and embark on a captivating discussion about the true meaning of a waterman. Join us as we navigate through the intricate layers of surf culture, dissecting the three components of riding waves and uncovering the purest form of a waterman's lifestyle. By the end of this episode, you'll be inspired to embrace adventure and find joy in every moment.

#surfpodcast https://surfsplendorpodcast.com The Grit! Surf Podcast -Tools To Live By Highlight Clip -  Episode 260 📌Chapters: 00:00:00 - Introducing Veyor Waterproof Watches 00:01:36 - A Discussion on the Term "Waterman" 00:04:55 - The Purest Form of Waterman 00:08:08 - The Origin of the Word "Waterman" in Polynesian Culture 🌟 🌟 About This Surf Podcast Episode:  What constitutes a 'Waterman', and do you correct someone who incorrectly claims to be one? Watch the full episode here: https://youtu.be/RnokYfhRrHY Partners: DrinkAG1.com/surf and VAERWatches.com Host, Producer: David Scales @David_Lee_Scales Host, Producer: Chas Smith @SurfJournalist Sponsor: RocketMoney.com/surf Sponsor: FactorMeals.com/surf50 Sponsor: SquareSpace.com/surf Sponsor: LinkedIn.com/surf Music: Bob James, Angela Support here: https://surfsplendorpodcast.com/plans/subscription-options/ Full archive of past episodes: https://surfsplendorpodcast.com/category/grit/?episodes=all EMAIL DAVID Hello@SurfSplendorPodcast.com LISTENER LINE Call in and leave a message. Let us know who it’s for, which show you’re contacting, and we may play your message on-air for public discussion. (760) 237-0150 Have fun!

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A Seniors Guide to Holidaying on Norfolk Island

Norfolk Island, a serene and picturesque destination in the South Pacific, emerges as a perfect holiday choice for seniors interested in Norfolk Island travel . With its tranquil lifestyle, rich cultural tapestry, stunning natural landscapes, and a friendly community, the island promises a unique and fulfilling experience for the elderly seeking relaxation, culture, and connection with nature.

Relaxed Pace of Life

Norfolk Island is a haven for those seeking to escape the fast pace of modern life. Its relaxed rhythm is perfect for seniors who appreciate a slower, more measured approach to holidaying. The absence of rush hour traffic, the rarity of bustling city streets, and the general calmness that pervades the island contribute to a stress-free environment. This tranquillity allows seniors to unwind fully, offering a refreshing break from their daily routines. The island’s leisurely pace is not just in its physical environment but also in the attitudes of its residents, who are known for their laid-back approach to life.

The tranquillity of Norfolk Island is further accentuated by its natural soundscape — the gentle rustling of Norfolk Pines, the rhythmic lapping of waves against its shores, and the cheerful calls of local birdlife. For seniors, this natural serenity can be particularly therapeutic. Activities like leisurely walks along the beach, quiet afternoons sipping coffee in local cafés, and enjoying the sunset are simple yet profoundly satisfying experiences here. The island’s environment naturally encourages relaxation and mindfulness, making it an ideal destination for those in their golden years looking for a peaceful retreat.

Rich Cultural Heritage

Norfolk Island possesses a rich tapestry of history and culture, making it a fascinating destination for seniors who have an appreciation for the past. Its history is a blend of Polynesian and European influences, most notably the descendants of the Bounty mutineers who settled on the island in the 19th century. The historic Kingston area, a UNESCO World Heritage site, offers a glimpse into the island’s colonial past with well-preserved ruins and museums. Seniors can explore convict-built architecture, historic cemeteries, and the fascinating Bounty Folk Museum, which together tell the story of the island’s unique past.

The island’s culture is also deeply entwined with its history. The Norfolk language, a blend of 18th-century English and Tahitian, is still spoken by some locals, adding a unique cultural flavour to the visit. Cultural tours offer insights into the traditional customs and ways of life on the island. Additionally, the island’s community events, like the Norfolk Island Food Festival, provide a taste of local cuisine and an opportunity to engage with the island’s warm and welcoming community. For seniors interested in immersive cultural experiences, Norfolk Island is a treasure trove of historical and cultural gems waiting to be explored.

Natural Beauty and Outdoor Activities

The natural beauty of Norfolk Island is a major draw for senior travellers. The island is a picturesque blend of rugged coastline, lush greenery, and crystal-clear waters. Its compact size makes exploring its natural wonders both easy and enjoyable. Seniors can take gentle walks through the Norfolk Island National Park, which offers easy trails meandering through subtropical rainforests. Birdwatching is another popular activity, with the island being home to unique bird species, such as the endangered Norfolk Island Parakeet. The mild climate year-round makes it pleasant to explore the outdoors without the discomfort of extreme temperatures.

Read the full article to know more about A Seniors Guide to Holidaying on Norfolk Island

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My opinion on what needs to be talked about coming from a Polynesian/Minority Household;

1. MENTAL HEALTH - MOST Polynesian (not all) adults and elders brush it off, call it weak, blame it on your friends, your phone etc. Bt NEVER blame themselves. Never sit there and say “I’m sorry” (they never believe they’re in the wrong because they’re always right) or let’s talk about it. It’s just something that never gets talked about and hardly ever gets fixed, some will leave and get professional help but majority will be stuck in that “i can’t talk about my feelings or people will consider me as weak” mindset. Listen, vulnerability makes you stronger. Being able to sit in front of someone and become vulnerable whether you’re a male or a female will make you one step closer to finding yourself, being stuck/lost happens to all of us, those who can speak out about it can not only let a burden off their shoulder but also gain a sense of belonging because you will end up finding people who were once in your shoes, you will end up finding someone who you can relate to, because believe it or not majority of the people around the world have been there, sadly. Everyone copes in their own ways and that’s okay, bt as life goes on you will eventually learn to be okay with not being okay.

2. ABUSE - Whatever abuse you can think of cause I can guarantee that there is some type of abuse going on that lead you to have some type of mental illness.

Physical - There is a DIFFERENCE between discipline and abuse, some kids don’t know it until later on in life. Slapping a child for saying a bad word at a young age or being disrespectful to their elders is understandable but beating the sh*t (excuse me) out of them (bruises/broken bones/etc) for not washing the dishes or any type of chores, not showering their younger siblings to get ready for bed, not saying your prayer before you eat, sleep, when you wake up etc. whatever the case may be is something that should not be happening.

Emotional/Mental - Adults being able to sit there and talk about your “messed up” life but the minute you open your mouth to your siblings (cousins) it’s wrong ? You get called too fat, too skinny, a crybaby for being emotional, too short etc. A lot of the times it’s our way of just jokes yk but it does do damage to the mindset, it makes you think a certain way and makes you believe that you HAVE to follow it to become “perfect” whether it has to do with education, looks, lifestyle, etc.

Sexual - This one is a subject that ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS gets pushed under the rug because “They are family, your blood, you have to forgive them” Forgiveness is ENTIRELY up to you. If you have gone through this! I am truly sorry for bringing this up, this one is really hard for me personally to talk about. You hid it from them didn’t you ? You tried to say something but ended up being called “cheeky” or something like that so you gave up, no matter how many times you opened your mouth no one would believe you.. being 14 and innocent was rare in my time, I didn’t know nothing about sex whatsoever, didn’t help that I would always skip class and health was definitely one of em lol but I knew it was wrong so I tried and I tried nothing changed except the abuse got worse “don’t tell your parents or I’m going to beat you and do it again (still did it even if I kept quiet), don’t say nothing or I will do it to your sister, don’t say a word or I will say your lying, I’m older than you no one’s gonna believe you.. etc” so 4 years later of going through it I disappeared. I changed, I became “rude” and very closed off. Then came the PTSD.

Spiritual - This may just be me or how I’m feeling but being surrounded by churches and God your entire childhood you are forced to believe in God or a higher power but when going through all that you went through you tend ask yourself “Why should I believe in this God when my life is this sh*tty?” “If God is real then why are we dealing with struggles in life when we are told to pray to have a better life and nothing happens?” “If God loves me then why did he let me go through all that I went through?” “If this is what God is then I don’t want this in my life” Whenever you try to talk to your parents about something it’s always “just pray” like no you don’t say that someone who has grown up praying but still having breakdowns and seeing no good results from “just praying” we just want to talk to the people who are supposed to be there, who should listen, who should comfort us in our worst times. Praying isn’t something that will get all of us back up our feet if we don’t know if we actually believe in God. Finding God is something you do on your own, it should not be forced upon someone and shoved down their throat.

3. THE OLDEST GIRL - Being the oldest is a struggle on its own but being the oldest girl is on another level. It gets VERY tiring. You have to be “Perfect” so your siblings can look up to you, you can’t make no mistakes in life. You have to take the blame whenever your siblings mess up. You have to cook, clean, take care of the younger ones, and be a second mom to them. If there’s no boys then you have to be the older sister AND brother to them. You have to make sure that your siblings are safe at all times. You witness your siblings getting more love than you ever received. You have to be the one to take care of your parents when you get older. You have to make sure the family is good before you tend to yourself and sometimes you don’t even get to do that. You have to take the beatings and break up arguments between your siblings and parents as they get older. If your siblings follow in your ways and sneak out the house you have to cover. You have to stay with your parents until they pass away. Even if you didn’t grow up with them because your grandparents took you in as being the first born. Your parents needs always come before your own. You get treated like a slave while the younger ones get spoiled. Don’t get me wrong tending to my siblings taught me so much and I would do anything for them but learning all of this, at the age of 7 is crazy tiring.

4. BEING AN ADULT - You decide to move out and tell your parents and they give you the “I’m very disappointed in you, now everyone from church is going to say I didn’t raise you right” lecture. You finally move out but you have to pay for your parent’s rent, food, gas etc. along with your own. Your parents think that you make millions so they expect money from you every week. You have to visit your parents every weekend. You’re expected to go to church. You’re still expected to be the “perfect” daughter so people won’t talk down on your family name. You’re still expected to take care of your younger siblings. It’s good to have your freedom from your parents but are really that free ?

5. CREDIT- This one, idk if everyone has gone through this but your parents using your name to get credit cards and f*cking up your credit at a young age and you grow up and struggle trying to fix it yourself.

That’s it for now ! Thank you for reading lol

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i'm sorry, i just remembered how everyone was so confused and ready to throw hands over the hateful anon i got, and there's ~history~ behind it. dumb history, stupid history, but HISTORY nonetheless. this dumb bitch has been following me around to my new blogs since my first blog in the undertale fandom - of which i became so popular with that it's my new trademark. ( granted, i'm glad that no one knows me from the homestuck fandom anymore, lol. )

but i'm just baffled that the lovely doesn't seem to understand that very few of my characters are black. like, definitively BLACK. as in, from america, and has the mentality / upbringing of a black person. no, but of course, they have dark skin, OF COURSE they're black! [chuckle]

sweets, you do realize that i don't have a single "white" person on my blog anymore? ( not counting cid, who is THE white of white persons, who i'm not including since i don't have his icons yet. )

the cytos kids - ariel, aryin, luka, kae, zack - are all a mix of greek and russian, with the late life reteaching / upbringing outside of their traumatic upbringing of true southern lifestyle (the highwinds and the alligans/ashlands & ashwinds). but they're not black.

aryin's childhood friends of johnny and justine calistine are english - both tanned skin and speak multiple languages due to their jobs and lifestyles. aryin's previous lovers might be the only counting factor of white (peter/kitsune) and black (rose) here but they don't count at all because i don't write them.

king and xemnas are ITALIAN, with xemnas having some brazilian blood in my hc. when i inevitably add her, queen/reina duvorre is full stop italian, but has a more olive tanned skin tone than a pale one.

i'll hand you cloud, that one's fair. he's pretty white. but that game is not white coded in my eyes. neither is cloud, lol. aqua is NOT white, just on the white passing side, in my headcanon. roxas, sora, and xion (who is always near roxas) aren't even close to white! they're POLYNESIAN! THEY'RE ISLAND KIDS!

wheezes. ya know, it's a good laugh.

if you're going to hate me, hate me for something that's true.