#please send advice for this :[

[allhailthemightyquattro]

Seeing the hate Luke Newton is getting for the crime of having a girlfriend who isn't Nicola Coughlan, I think a few people need to consult Father Dougal's diagram.

[ohno-wallace]

And the rest is history 💌

[confessyourship]

Sigh… Wanting desperately to fully join the proship community, instead of watching from the sidelines as I have been for years… But knowing there’s a few proships that triggers me for personal reasons, and I might seem like an exclusionist or make people feel guilty for what they like. Ofc I have nothing against people who like it, but idk if I can avoid it without seeming like I do :(

(Feel free not to post it if you don’t want to, I understand!)

Hi! I am going to give you some advice as a proshipper myself. I do have my own ships that I am uncomfortable with (and my own triggers), I just block and move on. I am still a member of the proship community. Because it does not mean you have to agree with every ship, just as long as you do not harass anyone. Also just a little note "proships" is not really a thing, because the pro in proship does not mean problematic it means for (an example would be pro-choice where you support making their own choices). But it is a okay to block people for any reason, you are still welcome in the community.

🩷

[unknownn-girl]

tips on how to make your life more interesting pls i’m dying 😞

[50spirate]

Hi friends!

As someone who has recently come to an age where politics are something of great importance to me, I would really appreciate some assistance from those who aren’t too burnt out with the current state of the world + their own acts of activism. I come from an area in which politics are kept somewhat hush-hush, because most everybody shares the same view. I’m tired of just reading the news and not knowing what I can do to help, especially as a broke soon-to-be college kid who still lives with their parents.

I’d love to know ways that I can actively engage in activism and political action! I have begun boycotting Meta (never had TikTok, so I can’t boycott it) and have begun reading more to try and educate myself on American politics. But when there are no protests and I can’t afford to donate to any organizations, what do I have the capability to do? Any suggestions are welcome!

(Also welcome is any alternative to Facebook, because that was how I got my community updates and I now feel somewhat in the dark about what’s happening locally.)

Thank you guys for reading this post!

[batwynn]

Ok well. It’s time to be honest, I guess.

My last ditch attempt has failed. My new primary dr won’t take over the Humira script even though he’s a proper DO, and I no longer have a dermatologist. I’ve discussed my future without the immunosuppressant with my Pyoderma group and it looks like it will be Very Fucking Bad when I run out of the med in March. I’m already in Pretty Fucking Bad health, so the ‘living conditions’ in this future are not going to be exactly… survivable for me. I thought it would be a more mild transition back to where I was before the Humira due to how I take it, but according to folks who had to go off of it with this condition… it completely immobilized them in a lot of ways. Like I said, I already struggle with constant, screaming pain, illness, etc. and can barely force my way through shit as it already is. I will not be ok.

As I’ve said before, I’ve contacted everyone I can, so please believe me when I say I fucking tried. I’ve tried every dermatologist in the state. I’ve asked every doctor and specialist that I had. I’ve tried to find someone out of state who I could beg my insurance to cover. I even tried to figure out how to cover the cost of someone outside of my highly limited insurance but it’s too expensive and most of them need to meet in person, thousands of miles away. I’ve spent two fucking years trying. Turns out, it’s impossible. Wild, I know.

So, yeah. I tried. But it looks like after March I’m not going to do well at all. If I’m lucky, I’ll eventually qualify for the Death with Dignity program. But I’m never fucking lucky, so it’s more likely that I will suffer even more horribly until one of these fucking illnesses finally kills me. In addition, it looks like the big fucking looser who is the US president will be cutting every other program (SNAP, MEDICARE/MEDICADE, SSI, LIHEAP, etc) that my family uses to survive because we are both extremely poor and unwell, so. Yeah. There are no more options.

What this means for you all:

I’ll be working very hard to wrap up the Accidental MerDer comic in a somewhat satisfying way before March. All the other comics are too new to wrap up, so they’ll just have to be what they are. I will continue with my Patreon until the end of March, then close it down because I will very likely be unable to keep up with creating for everyone. I’ll try to make these last few months fun, but in reality I won’t be as available to chat and such as before.

I want to spend some time being selfish, and doing things like going outside for walks and hanging out with the cats. I’d like to try to enjoy some of my shitty life while it lasts.

One last note: I don’t want any advice. I tried every possible option that I can actually do. I am also not suicidal, I tried every possible way to survive but I will eventually become too ill to do so. I feel that I have made it extremely clear, and if you send the nazi police to my door for a ‘wellness check’ as a vulnerable trans person in a rural area I will fucking find out who you are and doxx you to let everyone know what a nice little goose stepping bitch you are.

Sorry if this is upsetting, but I guess this is just the reality of being disabled and piss poor in the magnificent country called the USA. 👍

Thank you for all the years of support and friendship. I wouldn’t have made it as long as I did without your kindness.

See you around.

[ins4nebxtch]

genuine cry for help ‼️

im posting this here cos ik i can’t post it anywhere else without facing backlash (people on reddit are ruthless) . the mentally ill tumblr community might get this so here goes.

tryna keep this as short as possible. there’s this girl who has genuinely turned my life upside down, and turned most people ik against me. she’s one of the most manipulative people i’ve met and no matter how hard i try to sort things out im really not that good with communication and end up making it worse while she smoothly lies her way out or twists stuff to make me seem worse and get away w it. i considered her my bestfriend at one point and turns out she was playing me the whole time. i cannot sort this out with her as knowing what kind of person she is, that might make things worse (she’s already got everyone on her side). i spend everyday in absolute paranoia, scared of what she might do next. i can’t go to class without getting anxiety attacks almost daily and this has really taken a toll on me, making my mental health worse and worse. ive tried to ignore it so that she stops but im not sure that she is (it’s been going on for months now). i just want my life back, im willing to do whatever it takes to show everyone that i’ve been mislabelled and im not who she makes me out to be.

edit: i think an ex of mine is involved in this and it’s both of them together who’ve been plotting against me. and people believe them too as it’s both of them + their friend groups against me alone

please tell me what to do, i’ve had about enough. if it isn’t too much please repost, im trying to seek advice from as many people as possible.

[annenbee]

Hello i need help pls pls

I just reinstalled this app again i am 23 i grew up with tumblr and i cannot find my old account : (( i just wanted to see what 13 year old me was up to the only thing i remember was that the last time i logged in that account was around 3 years ago, i remember my email address and password but sadly i still can’t access the account since its asking for email verification and i cannot access that email address anymore. if i could just somehow find my username that would be amazing but i have no idea how to if anyone has any idea what to do in this situation pls help me out i will be forever grateful

im gonna post a picture of my cat for engagement

pls help

[paxthepuppycat]

Can I request a bug stimboard? (totez okay if not plz dont worry <3) would b cool if it had a focus on bug antennas. any bugs r fine.

I thought an Bee Stimboard might be cool :)

lmk if you want a more specific bug species!

[agent-44mc]

I need a seasoned author/writer to help me figure out some things with my book

I love the concept and I’ve got it all planned out so far but something about it doesn’t seem right + crucial plot points are making me frustrated because I don’t know how my characters are suppressed to actually figure out the mystery. I’ve put it off for too long and it’s time to get some help instead of being a sigma lone wolf or whatever.

it’d be super cool if you’d do it out of the goodness of your heart bc im broke and I need an advisor :’)

[basement-bird-girl]

Guys i’m trying something new. The hard outline is just looking so ugly??? So im trying it without outlines. Also ✨blending✨. Hows it looking?

[irhabiya]

i went to the gym today.....finally

[numbpill]

hi guys sorry to have to beg again but my teeth have been giving me major issues lately and yesterday my face started swelling up and i had to go to the dreaded ER (rip) it turns out to be an abscess and i need some work done otherwise it will just keep coming back

it’s so painful i can’t even explain guys

i’m so sorry to ask again but i genuinely need some help it’s a 60$ upfront cost for the visit

send to 828 266 8648 on apple pay if possible if not reblogging helps a lot !!!

thanks so much for reading i appreciate you <3

[dinasangel]

maybe potential wip????

- cowgirl!abby x reader au

synopsis : abby has grown up in a secluded, frequently sunny small town in Reno for a long time. She knows everything and everyone inside out, so when a pretty girl who belongs far from here makes her arrival, could anyone really even blame her for taking an interest?

a/n ; tried to keep this vague because 1) i don't know how to do this embarrassingly enough, 2) it might not happen and 3) i dont know if i feel all that y/n stuff 😕

[unknownn-girl]

please teach me your ways

[justmejpg]

Older lesbians, I need your guidance in how to handle this😞🙏

Wuh Luh Wuh / wlw rant

WLW SITUATIONSHIPS I SWEAR TO FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOODDDDDD

Context:

I have this friend, let’s call her Cherry. We’ve been friends since 6th grade—years of friendship. We were each other’s only friends (like literally everyone else ignored us in the school, so whole support system as well) when our larger friend group (8 other girls) dropped us. They claimed we were “too close.” Ironically, one of those girls (strawberry, I’m gonna rant about her in a different post) was a situationship of mine, even though she identified as “straight.” (Strawberry? She’s a lesbian now and said I was her “gay awakening”)

Cherry is into both girls and guys, while I’m only into girls. Cherry and I flirt daily, but she insists it’s “just friends.” For context, I’ve had casual lesbian friendships before—kissing and playful flirting were no big deal—but this isn’t that. Cherry flirts, listens to me, and even gets jealous when I talk to other girls or when I sent another girl nudes. But again, she swears up and down, side to fuckin side that it’s nothing more than friendship.

She’s jealous even when I casually talk to people—guys included. That’s right, just talking to people, NOT EVEN FLIRTING. For example, when I was trying (and failing) to be into a guy (internalized homophobia sucks, I was still accepting myself😞), I mentioned I thought he was cute. She ignored me for the rest of the day?!

I’ve tried to address this with her multiple times. I’ve texted, tried talking in person, and even openly admitted I’d be willing to try a relationship with her. She refuses to engage. How am I supposed to figure “us” out if she won’t even acknowledge the situation?

We’re completely dependent on each other, and I’ve realized how toxic that is, but she won’t admit it or discuss it. She’ll say things like, “You’re my soulmate” and then quickly add, “Platonically, of course.” Yet, she never shares anything serious about herself, leaving me feeling like I barely know her.

It’s exhausting. I’m walking on eggshells to avoid making her jealous, trying to keep her happy, giving her affection, and essentially acting like her stand-in girlfriend—but with no title or clarity. She’ll randomly ignore me or vent about her family (the most I know is that BPD runs in her family, and she’s scared of becoming like her mom, and like, that could add into why she’s like this?!).

I’ve asked her directly: Is this just a casual friendship? A talking stage? A relationship? Shit, am I just the bitch she keeps in the back corner? She won’t give me an answer, she WONT TALK ABOUT IT.

I’m done wasting time on some girls who’s not mine, and won’t FUCKING commit, especially when I could be out dating, meeting people, and having real experiences. Instead, I’m stuck in this limbo with Cherry, who clearly doesn’t want to define or deepen what we have.

What do I do? I wanna just drop her honestly, because it’s so draining, I’m so done.