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Sandor, my beloved character of the series!
I have been attached to this character for years. He vividly portrays an innocent curious soul, charmed by romance and chivalry, and then so brutally maimed by cruelty and roughness.
He has no mercy for himself; he literally allows others to call him a dog, harbors hatred towards the world and himself, towards his childhood dreams that never came true. If he couldn't receive love and compassion in his childhood, then he'll have to convince himself that he never needed it anyway.
Sandor's father had a choice, he could have punished Gregor, but he didn't. Thus, he made it clear to Sandor that strength solves everything, and his feelings don't matter. His pain and loss of face don't matter to the closest person, to his father. If he couldn't get understanding and sympathy from his father, why would he expect it from anyone else in the world?
Oops, Sansa!
Of course, he mocks Sansa because she mirrors his inner child, maimed, crying, devoted, and misunderstood by everyone.
BUT! Sansa broke through that long-hardened shell. She brought him to tears. She broke something in him, an impenetrable stone cracked, and now something can grow from it. Deep inside, he doesn't lose faith in the goodness in this world, that's why he saved Sansa, that's why he cried. In the end, he managed to turn his principles upside down and send the Lannisters to hell, although before, his service to them was the only thing that kept him in this uncertain balance and prevented him from completely succumbing to self-deprecation or destroying himself over Gregor Clegane. He realized that care, sympathy, and love don't look like what the Lannisters showed him, like what his father and his people showed him.
He realized that things can be different.
Why does he call himself a dog?
Loyalty. Honesty. Sincerity. His ancestors' dogs gave their lives for their master. True knights acts similar in songs. They sacrifice themselves for a higher goals, for their lord, for their beloved woman. In my opinion, some part of Sandor still dreams of chivalry, of this fairy-tale chivalry that exists only in songs and in the minds of young girls.
But since the cruel world has so desecrated the concept of "chivalry," he gave it a less glamorous name, somewhat derogatory, because that part of him that tries to protect his inner child from even greater horrors deliberately mocks his love for knights and makes him hate this concept... It's simple, but at the same time catchy, simple but aggressive.
The Loyal Hound.
...and it still reflecting the essence of what both Sansa and Sandor crave.
#artists on tumblr#fantasy art#art#fanart#asoiaf#game of thrones#a song of ice and fire#sandor clegane#the hound#sansan#sansa stark#please be gentle with kids#they're full of wonder and purity#it's a true miracle that there's something inside him. The hope.
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Give the wheel a spin! I tried my darndest to get as many Fallout 3, 4, New Vegas, and Fallout Prime characters as possible on here! There are 360 characters at present on the wheel. Do with this whatever you want!
#Fallout#Fallout Prime#Fallout 3#Fallout 4#Fallout New Vegas#Fallout NV#no kids on here#tried to get all characters message me if u have any suggestions#im just obsessed with these lil wheels#if ive spelled anything wrong please be gentle#fmk
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🐇🐇 THE CUNNING HARES!!
They've taken over my brain ... they're my everything ....,
#zenless zone zero#zenlesszonezero#anby demara#nicole demara#billy kid#nekomiya mana#nekomata#gentle house#cunning hares#zzz fanart#please help i have severe zzz brainrot its been like this since 2022 help me
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Dean Winchester of Supernatural fame is NOT reading parenting books he is putting on Cheaper By The Dozen, Daddy Daycare and Honey I Shrunk The Kids taking notes.
#i woulda said full house but dean's more a movie guy than a tv guy#it doesn't help. btw. lol.#if dean read a gentle parenting guide he would scoff and roll his eyes and throw it across the room#and eventually start silently weeping if he was convinced to keep going bc HE was a kid and HE didn't get treated with respect or gentlenes#dean in an argument with those mommy bloggers he follows saying something like 'please. i was left in a motel room with my brother#from like age 7 upwards I think little Timmy will be okay in the car by himself for 3 minutes 🙄“#and someone hits him with 'I'm so sorry that happened to you' and he tries to brush it off all day and complain about it to Sam#and Sam's like. yeah it was kinda fucked up though. and Dean's like WELL I KNOW THAT BUT HE WAS DOING HIS BEST#(not fully believing it bc he certainly can't picture leaving a 7 year old alone in the world they live in no matter what)#(and Dean's never fully actually agreed with their dad but he feels attacked by Sam's agreeing)#(but old habits run deep)#cawis creates
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went shooting for the first time in 16 years today
#please ignore any posture issues I have a lot to relearn lol#I grew up around guns and shot them w my dad as a kid#but I was always nervous to have my own as an adult until recently#shooting a .22 is a nice re-entry to shooting :) pretty gentle and little bullets#mine
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pepito can be the most loved and protected person for team bolas, you know? that kid has a red shirt, the mask looks so cute on him, is so small and need to be protected, he appears after purgatory and is a good example of bolas vibes.
is q!roier and q!carre son, q!cellbit too after q!roier confirming he’s officially his son because they were married when he appeared, in the lore, nobody of team bolas have seen pepito and is so sad, either q!phil who loves eggs, if they were here, maybe q!roier would feel more supported and more gentle with him.
#qsmp#qsmp purgatory#qsmp roier#team bolas#qsmp philza#qsmp pepito#he’s so cute i’m gonna cry#he looks so perfect with the mask i can’t explain#he’s so edgy#matched mask with his dad#roier please be a little bit more gentle with the poor kid#team bolas would be his favorites uncles
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Scriabin and Edgar eating crepes for requestober !!
Day 8 - Delicious silence
#My art#Requestober#Vargas#Scriabin#Edgar#I haven't drawn food in a while haha it was a fun exercise :)#Edgar made them a breakfast date ♥#You know he did it a) after endless pestering for more chocolate more fruit more cream more powdered sugar#''If you just want to eat sugar don't rope me into it >:0'' ''Oh as if you're too good for sweets come off it'' lol#And b) just to get Scriabin to be quiet about it all haha - he does! Sated for the moment! Yummy! <3#And not-so-secretly he's pleased to make him happy ♥ Scriabin openly enjoying something harmless!! Something good!!#Much better than him sadistically picking at Edgar haha - sometimes things are nice!#They get to enjoy a thing together <3 And if it really is too sweet for Edgar then more for Scriabin haha#He already got an extra strawberry! Healthy snack on the dessert for breakfast lol#It's okay to go all out every once in a while ♪#Poor Todd missing out on it tho aw haha#Next time full family meal for sure - all the more reason to go a little extra! Spoil the kid(s)!#Scriabin wipe your face or Edgar will do it and then what hehe#I do so enjoy when they're soft and quiet and gentle with each other <3#Kiss the cook! Do it!!
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Thinking about Mathew Trip and how in love Marcia and Trip were when I saw the show...
#ive been literally dying but his trip i literally can't stop thinking about.#that post will be dropping the second im not like dying#im coughing like a dying ipad kid pls help#but like#they were so in love#and he was so gentle with her#someone please let me yap like im so sick over them#the outsiders marcia#the outsiders trip#trip x marcia#the outsiders broadway#the outsiders#the outsiders musical#marcia the outsiders
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I love that my favorite me and a student exchange of all time (“Miss K. I can read you like a book” “but I’ve seen how you read a book”) has gone down in (minor) Maria lore because it’s one of those things that’s so cinematic in storytelling and in real life I just kind of mumbled it while putting something away on a bookshelf
#I say some of my funniest things really quietly#because I’m anxious and always ready to run#so it catches people so off guard when they hear them#anyway by minor Maria lore I mean I tell everyone this story repeatedly like. do you want to hear my best student burn#of all time#also did you know it embarrassed him so thoroughly he wrote me an apology letter#and I was just like ‘honey PLEASE. just say touché and move on’#but they’re kids you know? Underneath it all they’re desperately sincere and so I have to be gentle with them#even after they have forced me to smack them down publicly for being inappropriate to me#teaching tag
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maybe this vacation was a good idea
#cw abuse#cw child abuse#the more i think on it the more i start to remember#i cant believe id forgotten about this part of my life. its really starting to come back to me#i dont remember the finer details but i am remembering that asshole kid and that he didnt treat me very well#he was very frustrating to be around and i really didnt like him#posting this here because god knows i dont have the energy to send it to each individual server that i want people to see#and im alright with having this be public knowledge. even with the risks that come with it#all i ask is that if you want to ask me anything about this or if you want to know anything at all#please#please please please please PLEASE for the love of god be gentle with me#i literally just found out about this like an hour ago so the shock is still very much fresh#if youre a friend of mine im more likely to trust you but if youre on anon consider your words VERY carefully. very carefully#im thick-skinned when it comes to stuff like this but even now im still a little bit rattled#i think thats all i have to say on this. i love you guys <3 please take care of yourselves
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#do y’all remember Nice Smile Guy????#I wanna set him up with my friend so bad#but I told my parents and my mom was like “plEAse that guy doesn’t want to get married” which like. how do you know that mom#did he tell you?? no you just assume that#and I’m not kidding they’re like perfect for each other#and I already asked her if she minds a younger guy and she said she doesn’t so#I just need to get them at a dinner party together#but aaaaagh#what if he really doesn’t want to get married#though I cannot lie I feel like even if he doesn’t he’d change his mind if he met her!!#she’s so pretty and funny and kind#and she loves to travel and so does he!!!#and I think they’re very similar in their goals and ideals#and he’s handsome and hardworking and has this very specific special gentleness about him#it would WORK I’m tELLing you#(and it’s not even a big age difference it’s like 3 to 6 years)#(I’m not sure about his exact age but he can’t be that much younger than her)#SO YEAG#not me shipping real people 😭#elly's posts
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Playing Lethal Company with randos when you're 20+
#lethal company#lethal company memes#i feel like i'm babysitting half the time#i know they're just kids and want to have fun tho so i'm still nice#i don't engage on like a personal level i just give gentle direction#like 'hey i think i saw some scrap at the entrance; can you please go back and check for me to be sure?'#or like 'be careful buddy i saw everyone else get got by a turret - let me know if you want me to teleport you back'#'let me do quota math for you guys - can you please grab the walkies from the dropship?'#i'm happy to be the mission control back at the ship because i know they have the most fun out there-#-when they're grabbing stuff and smacking monsters#(also i'm a coward and dogshit at combat so i play to my strengths)#and i'll happily answer questions bc my autistic ass loves to teach people new things#and wouldn't you know it? a lot of would-be trolls calm down when you're calm and nice#kill em with kindness as they say#yes i am a tag rambler here but i like to talk
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You would hope that "morals over money" wasnt a radical thought but alas to boomers it is
#just had a whole argument with my mum#that was fun! 🙃#ok boomer#totally gentle parented her at the end so she wouldnt keep arguing the same point#but like????#editing out a trans flag in listing photos *is* transphobic you cant change my mind on that#even if doing so 'may make buyers want to pay more !!''#uhg#capitalism#my mum has been brainwashed by fucking thatcher since the 80s even with two queer kids#i dont think shell ever change#i need to leave this place please and tank you#anyone in the UK have a spare room to rent for like... £150 or whatever i can spare from my Universal Credit ahaha#laughing to hide the pain#katy liveblogs life
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i’ve got headaches and bad luck, but they couldn’t touch you, no
rayvio sketchdump. i will drag you all down with me 💜🖤
#banging my fists on the table EMO KIDS EMO KIDS EMO KIDDDDDDSSSSSS#walk with me. she totally kissed him just to ~get it out of her system~ and it backfired SEVERELY now she has to deal w all these. feelings#bc he would never initiate no matter how much he likes her (which is a fucking lot trust me besties trust me) aidjunskasdjklds#they saw you from across the bar and fucking hate your vibe#they’re so punk rock to meeee oh my god do you get it DO YOU GET IT#gentle reminder that punk is inherently gnc and rayvio is bi4bi to me xoxo ily#this doodle dump was so fun i borrowed some Pinterest poses to break up my brain worms and tried new brushes on all of them hehe#also rereading the manga i think Vi has lighter eyes than what I’ve given her here but i rly like the idea of her having big brown eyes so.#I spent literally so long choosing the perfect FOB lyric (i knew immediately but had to comb through everything just in case)#Nikki draws#the promised neverland#rayvio#Rachel please see this lmao
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i’m washing my bedding and all my blankets and stuffed animals I sleep with and tell me why washing my stuffies is so sad. like you’re not supposed to be in there but you need to be clean😭😂
#not gvf#personal#please be gentle with my i’m going through a crisis#(kidding)#those are my babies#but they’re gonna be SO WARM#AND SMELL SO GOOD!
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a little bit of drawing on this fine tuesday
#friendship ended with crayola coloured pencils i think. they are too hard. true they are for kids i guess :P#if anyone has a coloured pencil they feel passionately about please let me know :P i'm after something where i don't have to press hard but#still gives a strong colour even with a gentle touch BUT ALSO holds a point when you sharpen it!!!#(.... am i just describing a pen?)#(the yellow is my new beloved neocolour II pastel btw still adore them)
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