#parience

[meowlol]

hello everyone!!! Have I tried to make my own version of the soul of patience?? this is the syn of the pronoun she/her, tell me whether to develop it further?

[thetoebee]

THANK YOU FOR PLAYING.

[likeadevils]

In preparation for ttpd release, I started to listen to your playlist of Taylor's songs in writing order and I love it so far! It really gives me an entirely new way of looking at the songs and the connections between them, so big thank you for your work on it!

I just have a few questions that I'd like to know as I'm listening (I'm on early fearless rn):

how did you order tracks that don't have a clear order? (iirc, a lot of the late albums we don't really know besides some earlier/later tracks). Is it based on vibes, or just completely arbitrary?

Also, how did you deal with songs that some time to write (like Innocent taking a few months, or her coming back to finish change after winning her first big award)? Is it the beginning date, or finishing it, or maybe somewhere in the middle?

Thanks a lot in advance <3

songs that took a while to write: i’ll put the all dates i know she worked on it— like, begin again is in there twice, because i’m fairly confident in both dates, but change is only when she finished it, because i have no idea when she started it. i also don’t put the same song over and over in a row (like all too well is only in there once even though we know of at least three drafts, because it would just be listening to the same song over and over). with innocent specifically, i took the six months quote as it taking her six months to get in the headspace to write it, not like she was picking it up and putting it down, so i only put it in once.

songs that i don’t know the order of: short answer, i put my best guess. it’s normally easier to figure out when she recorded a song, or at least what songs she recorded around the same time, so like, a lot of lover is just broken up by producer/studio credits (though i am fairly confident about the back half).

and then with folklore and evermore, it’s much easier to figure out the order than the dates— every artist has a different way they answer “tell me what it was like making this song” and aaron’s go to is “it was right before this song and right after this other song” which is so helpful— so like, folklore especially, i’m pretty confident that that’s the general order of stuff, even though i only really know cardigans date.

but, here are the stretches i’m not super confident about

* a lot of the first half of speak now is speculative, but not really in long stretches? but haunted, foolish one, superman, last kiss, timeless, and never grow up can all easily jump around the year (though, i’d put money on never grow up being written in early september 2009. not a lot of money, but like, still money. like $5). and then like, the speak now vault tracks in general are speculative, she did like no promo for it so who knows)

* wildest dreams-wonderland: all of these songs were recorded in october/november 2013, but we don’t know the exact order (wildest dreams is first because selena gomez said she was there when it was written and her schedule just doesn’t align with taylor’s that fall meaning it was almost definitely written before going into the studio, blank space was likely written in late october based on candids matching behind the scenes studio stuff, the last three are just alphabetical order)

* look what you made me do-this is why we can’t have nice things: this is mostly just based on how long her hair was in the making of a songs

* cruel summer-soon you’ll get better: cruel summer is early cause she said she was just jamming with jack and annie and the song kinda fell into their laps, and that sounds like she wasn’t intensely writing so i put it early. she teased daylight lyrics somewhere in the summer i believe so i put that pretty early, but aside from that like. these probably weren’t even recorded in a block they could literally be wherever

* i forgot that you existed-all of the girls: same proudcers, she said she started working intensely on the album right after tour ended and idk what else she was recording in november, so like. all recorded at the same time, guessing that it’s pretty early in the recording process, but that exact order of the tracks can change, as well as where they fall in the album development too. but i’m like 85% sure they were all recorded in the same week or so

* august-mirrorball: most of the jack stuff was done before aaron came in, but idk the exact order of these specific ones

* invisible string-betty: mostly circumstancial— like, epiphany is the first track taylor brought to aaron instead of the other way around, so i put it towards the end, stuff like that

* gold rush-no body no crime: all recorded in late september, but written beforehand, no idea in what order

* maroon-dear reader(/question-you’re losing me): again, all recorded within like a month of each other, no idea in what order besides question probably being in late november and youre losing me on december 5

* lavander haze-karma: pretty sure they were all written in early 2022, not totally sure in what order, beyond bigger than the whole sky being in march, snow on the beach probably being in april, and karma probably being last

[infintyonhigh]

getting ready to listen to cowboy carter

[zeroaddzero]

can't stop thinking about how crazy it would have been to see Bruce live in 1988. Less than a week before this concert he's confirmed the rumor that he's divorcing his wife. It's all over the tabloids. Then you see him practically fucking his gorgeous backup singer on stage during the most sizzling performance of Brilliant Disguise ever.

wish i was alive then to hear the gossip from the french girls in the audience. you can even hear them laugh as he sings "I play the faithful man"

[tasto777]

I've tried to get ideas for an analysis of a poem from chat gpt and it was messing up the poem. It said it knew it but was citing something completely different and even after i gave it the first couple of cerses it kept continuing different pomes from there and it was so weird. And after i typed in the whole thing to have it do something with it, it kept insisting its called something else even though i checked that back and its just wrong. How can ut be wrong about the fucking title of a poem and how can it fucking continue different poems once i gave it the beginning. Thats not how poems work

[prettygoododds]

Thanks @rimeswithpurple for the tag

**warning: second blurb is for adult only**

It’s a Catastrophic Blues week so we’ll start with a blurb from the upcoming chapter :

“I think it would do you both some good,” Fiona says, and for the first time in my life I know she’s being earnest.

And she’s bloody right, damn her.

Maybe we can close some doors in this abandoned house of ours.

“I’ll – I’ll wait outside.” I tell them.

“Bollocks,” Fiona says, grabbing me by my shirt sleeve and pulling me further into her flat. “You’re going to sit here with Aunty Fi and Uncle Nico and we’re going to make awkward conversation like the family we almost were.”

And since I’m still knee deep in a spicy scene for Sugar, We’re Going Down Swingin:

“Simon,” I plead.

“Parience, babe.” he says as he continues his descent.

My cock jumps and hits him in the chin. I throw my arms over my eyes to shield me from another embarrassing moment. Honestly, quick bathroom handies with a random club guy are a lot less work than this.

“Do you like that sweetheart?” He asks and my cock betrays me again.

“I’m begging you to stop. He’s never been called such nice names and it’s going to his…head.”

I don’t know if that will stay, but I got a good chuckle as I typed it.

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[allisluv]

OMGG CONGRATULATIONS FOR 300 I'M LITERALLY SO HAPPY FOR YOU, YOU DESERVE IT SMMM YOU'RE LITERALLY MY FAVORITE WRITER!!!

🎸 here, with a need for a 🫶, bi girlie, so if you can, find me a guy and a gal

I have the most basic looks, brown eyes and hair, tan, 163 sm, big thighs and a belly, 57 kg, braces. I can't go out without eye liner, this is the only makeup I can't go without.

For music taste I'm vibing to Deftones, Linkin park, my chemical romance, Fallout boy, Chase Atlantic, blink-182, korn, flyleaf, Nirvana, sex pistols, tv girl, Evanescence, Royal blood, slipknot, green day, muse and Arctic Monkeys, partly listening to Madison beer, the pretty reckless, the warning, Halsey mother mother and my faves are Måneskin, Marina and Paramore.

My obsession as a kid was writing poetry (about my elementary situationship that's still going on years after) and now I'm writing songs. For a partner I really need humor, loyalty and parience, and I'm not really into weird or humiliation and pain kinks, I'm getting triggered by them. I have huge love for pretty eyes, at that situationship I mentioned there were moments where I just got to the guy and stared into his eyes lol ( I swear he didn't find it weird I swear😭😭). My fav shows are HIMYM, friends and the first 3 seasons of Gilmore Girls.

My style is like punkish downtown girl. I live in a beach city, so from when I was younger I haven't left the beach, it helps me calm down when I'm jumping to the waves and let them hit me. I have an obsession with sunsets and sunrises, and in Bulgaria (I don't know if it's that popular in other countries) we have a tradition to celebrate July Morning (go to the beach and watch the sunrise on 1st of July). When I was in elementary I bought a mermaid tail from Amazon.

I have black cat energy around most people, but with with my situationship guy I turn into an orange one (and I hate myself for it). I love biology, especially marine and human ones. I can't decide if I wanna be a marine biologist or a gynecologist. I'm the most hopeless romantic person you can find.

When I was a kid with my mom we always rescued sick stray animals and orphaned baby ones and found them a new home (let's just say my dad wasn't very happy). My fav animals are sharks and bats, my fav colors are navy, dark red and any aquatic colors. My favorite places in my hometown are the beach (obvi) and the dolphinarium. I'm a swimmer and love going to the gym, literally the only sports I like.

Again, I'm so happy for you, hope you reach 400 followers soon!💗

-🎸

thank you for your kind words anon, they mean a lot to me <3. i may be very biased but i definitely think you'd work with finnick o'dair or annie cresta. i think they both have the qualities you're looking for in a partner and the fact that you're both swimmers and sunset lovers is an added bonus <3

[fanworldbuildingfun]

It’s Oddysey time now Not going to lie, Valhalla may have tested my parience, but Odyssey made me drop it at early stages... Thrice

Were it not for Isu moments, you won’t be able to tell this is an Assassin’s Creed game. I mean. It’s a good one. But it’s standing aside of the overall franchise

Valhalla at least had a tie-in in form of Hidden Ones. Odyssey so far gets nothing like that (granted, I’m something like a quarter in? And mostly using the game as exploration haunt, rather than for plot)

Still. It stings. Just a bit. I may or may not be a bit too attached to the Hidden Ones. Origins may have that kind of effect on psyche. Like getting you overly attached to a character and their agenda

Point is - I’m not feeling this kind of connection to Kassandra. She’s fun, but the lack of, so to say, allegiance? It’s not my thing. I like having a fraction. I guess you can say that Adrestia and the crew are Kassandra’s fraction? But it’s not quite the same. Nor is her her hunt for Cult of Kosmos

I’m hoping it will get better further on. Maybe when we track down Myrrine? 

Speaking of Kosmos. One thing I did like, were interactions between Kassandra and Deimos/Alexious. To this point, they came across as the most personal to me? In a way most other relationships (romantic or platonic) didn’t. Of course, it may be my love for “villain wants to keep hero” tropes rearing its ever-present head. Still, I’m all here for it

(And oh. It’s probably going to be even worse in Fate of Atlantis, if the spoilers I’ve seen are anything to go by)

[nomaishuttle]

YOU are so correct genuinely Gwen and Peter need 2 be fucking groveling in the next movie like. They did the worst thing they could ever do to Miles and had No intention of telling him until he found out himself

LITERALLY LIKE. IDC IF THEY WERENT ALLOWED I TRULY DONT. I GET LIKE. GWEN WAS SCARED OF BEING KICED OUT BUT TBQH DONT CARE DIDNT ASK. AND IM EVEN MORE MAD AT PETER B BC ITS IMPLIED HES BEEN THERE FOR LIKE AGES AND POTENTIALLY HELPED FOUND IT(? since he was there when miguels stolen universe was destroyed) SO ITS LIKE. WHYRE YOU RPETENDING YOU HAD NO SAY IN THIS GIRL!! not to mention them being like. oh eemmm yeah we knew he felt this way abt you... but uhmm we didnt think hed be so mean!! not to drag my old friends when they apologized ages ago but its sooo my friends to me in 9th grade. fuck offf literally fuck off. how dare they get pissy with miles for literally wanting to see his best friends. AND HOW DARE GWEN LIEEE WHY WOULD YOU LIE. WHY WOULD YOU NOT SAY ok miles im gonna level with you the guy running it is kind of stuck up and stubborn and blames you for a lot of dumb shit. WHY WOULD YOU NOT. LIKE THATS STILL HURTFUL BUT ITS NOT LIKE. being told its a small elite strikeforce and walking in to find out that literally every other ffucking spiderman is there. im ngl i think id literally kill somebody miles has the parience of a literal ANGEL bc i wouldve walked out n been like nah fuck you guys. i wouldve been burning the sketchbook with rhe drwwings of gwen id be Over it !!!

[ihavenoname1967]

I love rhis sort of stuff. The parience needed to set it all up.

[zoyalannister]

It's very annoying, you'll never see people say Matthew fell in love with Cordelia because he had a crush on Alastair, they just go to hate on Gabriel either with that or the age gap, saw a post saying he used her when she was in a vulnerable position, which never happened

Exactly, or that Matt used to like Lucie because he actually had a crush on James (which, by the way, makes more sense than him falling for Cordelia).

I read that post too and I blocked the OP because lately I have zero parience for stupidity, but it’s hilarious because in the tags they admit they mixed up Gabriel and Gideon and if you reread it keeping this in mind it’s so obvious OP is talking about Gideon: Gabriel has been never recognized as an adult by the Clave, but Gideon does.

Also if Cassandra Clare was coherent with the historical setting and didn’t pick up Victorian London just for the ✨️aesthetic✨️, the characters wouldn’t be considered adults until 21 years of age and not 18 like in modenr days.

[wockerina]

in my psychological aspects of human sexuality course. he just presented us with the FACTS.

IN ORDER TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL SEXUAL EXPERIENCE YOU MUST HAVE:

respect

appreciation

communicstuon

compromise

parience

understanding

gentleness

so ya. take that with u oksies?

[jethroq]

the olfactory system is connected to pain receptors. if someone stinks really bad, that actually hurts people. it is painful to be in close proximity to them. people who work in care and cleaning get paid extra to deal with human bodily waste, and sweat is also bodily waste.

some disabled people have involuntary violent spells. it is not ableism to not want to be punched. it’s also not ableist to not want to hear someone scream obscenities or get in your face with delusions. most people are not trained to deal with people acting like that. sure, it would be better if everyone had the parience of a special needs social worker, but it is not unreasonable to not want to be exposed to extreme symptoms.

[positivecreations]

Sorry if I haven’t been posting much lately. My art takes a while to create so I’m just focusing on that, wile taking care of my endless tasks. I’ve also been feeling kinda sad and a bit lonely, as close relationships haven’t been flowing as I’d prefer. That’s ok, just part of life, so I’m just surrendering to the now, being patient with my emotions and waiting for the tides to change again. The pendulum never stays still. I know the future is bright so I remain in gratitude for all the blessings I do have. Hope you are ok too, no matter what challenges you might be facing these days. As for me, Um going skating! 🙌 #surrender #parience #theblues #working #pendulum #relationships #positivecreations (at Montreal, Quebec) https://www.instagram.com/p/CUXp9Aqs6kA/?utm_medium=tumblr

[zo1nkss]

OP THANK YOU SO MUCH

I hate how much "being childfree" is associated with "hating/disliking kids"

I love kids. I genuinely enjoy them. In MOST stages of childhood. But to be quite honest, I often feel like I have to pretend not to in order to have my choice to be childfree valued. It's frustrating, because my choice to be childfree is because of that love. I know the limits of my parience and emotional regulation. I know that while I can work some limits to be less jumpy, some are immovable. That is simply the reality I live in.

I also know children have fragile psyches that are still building a sense of worth and deserving of existence. I know that my mother's limits often made me feel unloved and neglected even though she was doing everything she could with the limits she had.

And I know I don't want to hurt a child that way.

Some people are baffled by the concept that there really are people who actually like children but don't want any of their own. "Childfree" doesn't automatically mean someone who simply hates children. The thing is, I do like kids, and I will absolutely not compromise on my stance that each and every child deserves to grow up in a safe, stable and supportive environment. I also know that I get aggressive if I'm constantly sleep-deprived or overstimulated. People generally don't regard me as someone capable of violence, but if I can't get 15 minutes of silence each day and at least 5 hours of sleep every night, I will start throwing things. And I know kids won't let you have that. Ever.

Kids deserve to grow up feeling safe and cherished, unafraid to express themselves and without worry that they're unwelcome or unwanted. And that's why they should be doing that somewhere else than in my fucking house.