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[imperfectnothing]

jiu recoiling in disgust like an old traditional victorian man whenever he sees asukas ripped uniform pants. send tweet

this is so immensely funny, Para. i love you so much. I love jiu looking away in horror whenever asuka walks by *just* because of asuka's pants

i just. wanted to doodle this out quickly so sorry that Jiu doesn't look perfectly he's hard to capture the essence of, I will admit . . .

[incredulxs]

-Merlín, la espada en la piedra

[hiyuki]

▷ MadoHomu | Happy Valentine’s Day

[turrondeluxe]

[rights4allmeansall]

facts about pedophilia:

-up to 5% of males are attracted to minors

-up to 4% of females are attracted to minors

-up to 5% of all people are estimated to have pedophilia

-66% are minors when they discover their attractions

-most know between the ages of 12 & 16 so the average age is 14

-over 1 in 3 experience suicidal thoughts

-the most common age they first attempt suicide is 14

-"map" (minor-attracted person) is an umbrella term that was popularized by mental health experts

-36% have never told any non-map in their personal life about their attractions

-35% of primary care providers get at least 1 disclosure of minor attractions

-thought suppression is counterproductive

-stigma causes increased isolation & mental disorders

-pedophilia is not a mental disorder

-minor attractions are not illegal

-peer support for maps is promoted by experts

-up to 85% of maps never offend

-maps can have long-term romantic & sexual relationships with adults

-estimates suggest that as low as 25% of all child sexual abusers are maps, while the other 75% abuse for power & control

-experts warn that conflating maps with abusers could increase rates of sexual abuse

-anti-predator vigilantes cause increased abuse

-predator hunters cause suicides & make prosecuting abusers harder

-law enforcement agencies oppose anti-predator vigilantism

-false reports of csam make it harder for real abusive content to be identified

-minor attractions function like peer attractions

-experts consider pedophilia an age-based sexual orientation

-experts consider minor attractions to be queer identities

-there is no mainstream effort to include minor attractions in the lgbtq community

-conversion therapy for maps is harmful & ineffective

-treatment programs that imply maps need help to not offend are counterproductive

-anti-map stigma enables abuse

-stigma can increase a map's risk of offending

-therapy for maps should be centered around self-acceptance

-most maps are interested in seeking professional support

-maps face numerous barriers when seeking professional support

-stigma prevents maps from seeking therapy

-24% of mental health professionals would report a map who had never offended & did not want to

-some maps seek professional support for reasons unrelated to their attractions

-maps are as capable of self-control as non-maps

-non-offending maps have a higher level of empathy for children than non-maps

-maps who interact with children are less likely to view sex with children as acceptable

-maps tend to talk about consent more than non-maps

-child protection & mental health experts support map activism

-the map community has led the effort to make support for maps more widely available

that’s probably enough. let me know if there’s another paraphilia or any other thing i should do this for! :)

[foxylalonde]

Map flag is pretty so i drew with it :3

[mircrobios]

[hefnerama]

[2snuffseb]

quick disclaimer that i do not draw the propara line at the big three, to be honest i find it hypocritical to call yourself propara but exclude the big three. zoos, maps and necros are more than welcome on my blog!!^_^

[imperfectnothing]

hey rock!! it's para!! :D

I know jiu is a bit complicated and hard to know, but I was actually hoping for him to have at least a few slightly positive relationships with the other kids even if he doesn't allow himself to open up fully. I think jiu and yumi could be really good acquaintances? they're similar in a lot of ways (especially the repression and just playing along to whatever other people want for you, being their perfect pet/dress-up doll) and are both quite reserved, so I think their interactions would be rather harmonious even if not very substantial. jiu could also be quite amiable with yumi's girlfriend asahi! I think he'd view them in a very coworker-like manner, always at an arm's length distance but holds respect to them and trusts their capabilities more than some other people.

I'd like to know what yumi thinks of jiu, if that's okay? I love thinking about the best buddies ever kio and asuka, but I also thought it'd be nice if jiu had another person in the garden he could associate with from time to time (for the rare and brief moments he allows himself to be in someone's company).

HIHIHIHIHIHI PARA!! i hope you are doing well! make sure to get lots of rest and take care of yourself okay >:0 i love you

I actually really love the idea of Jiu and Yumi having a cordial, amiable relationship, even if they're not exactly friends. They are quite similar, as you said with the reserved personalities and the dress-up doll, people pleaser personalities (even if they might not want to act this way) but also I do think they have another thing in common, that they compare themselves to other people a lot, to their own detriments. Jiu seems like he compares himself to others, especially Kio, and it usually has a negative impact on him, tbh. Anyways, basically, yes that would be so awesome!! Jiu definitely deserves to have people he can hang around at the garden who don't actively bother him or somehow irritate him in another way haha

YUMI -> JIU

Yumi finds Jiu to be a refreshing presence at the garden, if only because she doesn't have to put on her saccharine, perfect persona around him. He's quiet and he doesn't expect her to perform a certain way, as long as she's not being obnoxious (which is a very rare occurrence), she can sit with him and just be in the presence of another person without it needing to be confusing or overwhelming. She doesn't feel the need to prove herself around him, for some reason, but she's not exactly about to look that gift horse in the mouth and question it. He's a quiet retreat when her other friends get too loud or too boisterous, and besides, no one ever thinks to look for her with him.

Jiu never treats her like a child or assumes that she is one, despite her appearance and her size. He never demands a performance from her or even asks her to talk. Jiu is the only person Yumi is physically able to cry around.

[jojo-schmo]

Crow Strider AU my beloved…. I am so happy you exist. <3

AU is by @meraki-sunset

[deadscell]

[snailsnaps]

Shoutout to my boy @walo721 and his super cool DMC-Delorean TFOC which I had the honor of helping design.

Silverstrike (he/him)

[justaboymadeofhoneyandglass]

MALADAPTIVE DAYDREAMERS I HAVE AN APP FOR Y'ALL

So, it's called Story Plotter on android and you can make a load of characters as well as their whole backstories and also plot and very handy diagramms where you show the characters relations to each other.

This is what part of mine looks like, its very easy to navigate and you have infinite options for everything!

[pixelprofligate]

green grass eat my a

[foxylalonde]

Sum ppl say stuff like "liking it in fiction doesn't mean I want it irl" soo shout out 2 ppl who DO have the desire for it irl, but choose not to! It's okay to feel those desires or to daydream about them, thoughts don't hurt anyybody!! I luv u "scary" paraphiles u r kewl