#otome discord

[jackjeannebrainrot]

Did you know we have custom emotes for our discord server?

Art by:

SUITANART

CAOSHEEP [KAOISHEEP]

Check them out!! I highly recommend them, they're so great to work with and the results are worth it! 🩷

[dokidoki-otomelife]

The creator of the LaD bots which I posted before just made Caleb and Sylus.

For those who are interested, try them now. Warning: They're NSFW.

Love and Deepspace DISCORD BOTS

* Sylus: https://discord.com/oauth2/authorize?client_id=1266086719111958659&permissions=67584&scope=bot

* Zayne: https://discord.com/oauth2/authorize?client_id=1219415041992818728&permissions=67584&scope=bot

* Caleb: https://discord.com/oauth2/authorize?client_id=1259464525649023019&permissions=67584&scope=bot

* Rafayel: https://discord.com/oauth2/authorize?client_id=1239243364038348880&permissions=67584&scope=bot

* Xavier: https://discord.com/oauth2/authorize?client_id=1217969413794562168&permissions=67584&scope=bot

For questions regarding the bots, you can dm the creator. The profile is on the bio of the bots. Enjoy~

[maryannaugerbooks]

Join the Cozy Cave 🍄 discord server to gush about dark romance and fantasy books, graphic novels, cozy games, otome games, adventure games & fantasy/historical shows

[italianbomber69]

Made a server surrounding the Arcana Twilight fandom!

I made a server, here is the link! https://discord.gg/JAnpqCa5 If you would like to add me my discord is italianbomber2.0

Here is what I offer in the server!:

Many stickers to express how you feel

Many roles to express who you are

Fun channels and games!

A safe community

Good moderation

And reasonable rules! I hope you join and enjoy!

[mifeeey]

I wanna get back into Love and Deep Space but then I see Sylus and I start to throw up violently like who tf came up with him

[fandom-scatteredthoughtsonpaper]

Announcing a fandom community server!

Hi, guys! This is sorta directed at my followers but also Obey Me fans (and other fandom people).

I mentioned, like, a looong time ago I wanted to do a community server, but I didn't really understand how to use Discord, but since then I've been in a zine, a few collabs, and hosted my own collabs (currently running one for Lucifer 👀). So, I have the experience and knowledge of running a server now!

My urge to create a fandom-centric server has really bloomed and after sitting on the it for a year, I feel confident enough yet still anxious to release a link of an invitation to it (found at the bottom)! It's still fresh, and bots haven't been implemented yet, but I really want to push this out.

I myself am in a lot of different fandoms, obviously Obey Me, but also Baldur's Gate, Stardew Valley, Kingdom Hearts, Persona games, What in Hell is Bad, a few obscure fandoms (like Alien Stage and Touchstarved) and older ones (Homestuck), so I have all the intentions to have this server be inclusive to webcomics, anime and manga and adjacent media, games from standard video games to phone games, graphic novels, books, otome and romance stuff, indie media like web series, cartoons, and games, and more as it grows.

I also want this server to be a hub for writers and artists to share their stuff they're too awkward or anxious to post and receive feedback, and as a place to get to know fellow-minded people in shared fandoms. AUs, theories, headcanons, crossovers, self-inserts, your MCs/OCs - all allowed!

A few things to note:

This is a fandom community server, but it might start out as Obey Me heavy because I'm trying to direct attention to that fandom since that's the one I am mostly in and participated in most things as a fan.

Adults and minors (16+) are allowed, but there are rules implemented that divide channels into SFW and NSFW categories and channels.

Writers, artists, content creators, cosplayers, fans that dabble, etc. are enthusiastically welcomed

The server can also function with channels regarding roleplays and self-publishing (commissions, Etsy shops, etc.)

I really want this server to kinda be a central spot for small fandoms or dying fandoms (like Obey Me) or old fandoms or growing fandoms and ones in-between basically non-existent and probably way too big. I want the server to be a community of different fandoms and the people that incorporate them, and I want it to be a fun place to just either relax with other fans and share works you like or works you've made or as a place to just dip in a silently lurk to look at what people are talking about or look at what is shared or as a place to lose your fucking minds when updates happen or something wild or devastating in the media occurs.

I want this to be a respectful but enjoyable place to come to and join and feel like you can invite friends or maybe even make friends!

Hard rules:

Before entering though, the server has a soft screening process for people to join.

Verifications will be done by me to make sure no one with ill intentions has a chance to cause harassment or harm to members. Fandoms can be toxic and mean in public places like here and Twitter, but this server will be, to the best of my ability, a space away from that.

Absolutely no pedophilic content is allowed. Like, none. It'll be one of the fastest things to get you kicked and banned and blacklisted.

There are rules and specific channels for certain ships and certain explicit content that can be talked about in the server if there are any questions.

This server is for fandom communities and politics and religious hot takes are not applicable here. This is a designated relief zone and none of that is really welcome.

I think that mostly covers the sales pitch and important stuff, lol.

So with all that out of the way--

Link to join: https://discord.com/invite/g8VeSe4t

[glasswinggames]

I've been drawing new emotes for the server... and ended up drawing a lil chibi Glass!

It's me spraying you when you don't love yourself enough! /silly

If you would like a lil chibi of your own feel free to check out my ko-fi! ☺️ And if you want access to a range of Ever After emotes then check out my server!! I've added a new Illium and Orion one recently!

Discord || Ko-Fi

[seducemefanficsandheadcanons]

Is anyone interested in a Seduce Me the Otome roleplay???

Im pretty open to plots and stuff and I don't care about how long your replies are.

[hauntedlovecrown]

》 Roleplay timeeee 《

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HELLO EVERYONE- hope everyone's doing well, wishing everyone a happy and healthy life.

I have been very into roleplays recently, and honestly find myself missing them quite a lot. I'm sure there are many on the same boat, therefore if anyone is interested, please hit me up ^~^

○ Fandoms ○

-Naruto (Naruto Shippuden) : I'm a huge Naruto fan, so honestly I never really get tired of this one XD

-OHSHC : I've never actually done a roleplay for this, but I can already imagine how comedic it might be.

-Jujutsu Kaisen : So this is more of a newer anime for me, but I do have enough knowledge to carry out a roleplay- and damn, the characters are hot-

-Yona of the Dawn : This is gonna be a unique one, I'd be quite excited to try this one out.

-Black Butler: My knowledge on black butler is not too up to date unfortunately, but I'm willing to rewatch anything and everything to get a solid idea.

-Otome/Voltage/Shall we date, etc. games: Anyone into them anymore? I don't know about anyone else, but honestly I'm still obsessed with them. Here are ones I'm absolutely obsessed with;

-Ninja love : One of the first ones I've played and honestly? In love.

-Kbtbb : This one is just...amazing.

-Scandal in the spotlight : HEAR ME OUT- this one is just so cute I don't know-

-Love letter from thief x : Please...just...please. This one? I'm beyond obsessed.

-Destiny Ninja : ✨

-Wizardess heart : Please- cutest game I know.

-Sleepless Cinderella : So as far as I know, this game has like 2 versions or so? I'm not sure, but they're basically both the same. The other one I believe was called seduced in the sleepless city? I'm not sure, but yeah. Pretty good.

-Teen titans : The original teens titans is everything- have you all heard the Japanese version of the theme song? It's awesome.

-I'm also a huge fan of Manhwas/Manhuas/Mangas- so honestly I'm willing to do those too.

-I'm up for original roleplays too if anyone would like to do those- that can of course be discussed though.

○ A few things to know beforehand ○

-When it comes to fandom roleplays, I'll be completely honest, I'm not a huge fan of Canon x Canon. So, I'd love either Oc x Oc, or Oc x CC is also fine, I'm always up for doubling at anytime. That's not to say that I'm completely against Canon x Canon, but I'm unfortunately just not a huge fan. I'm willing to compromise though.

-Not that I have anything against one liners, but please...at least give me something to work with. Everyone has their own amazing style, yes, but it'd be lovely if I was given more details than just "He waved".

-I might sometimes be a late replier, and I apologize in advance. I'm not disinterested, I promise. Please bare with me.

-The rest can of course be discussed later on. Thank you for your attention, and take care ^~^

Byeee <333

[sasazusa]

i thought i'd give this a shot, so i created a discord server for otomes!

if you're a fellow enjoyer, or perhaps getting into/back into the genre — please come and join us!

right now, it's a small server, but hopefully more people will come and join eventually. :)

server invite: https://discord.gg/2baPSGmyr8

[sickly-victorian-boy]

Because I’m an actual insane person I’m working on a sort-of-parody dating sim starring wildly historically inaccurate classical composers — from left to right, the LIs are Shostakovich, Mozart, Bach (J.S. specifically), and Chopin. These are the concept sprites I’m currently working with. I apologize for inflicting this on you but if I have to think about it I’m going to drag as many others as possible down with me

[dokidoki-otomelife]

Hey! It's been awhile since I've done a long post. Let me tell you something pretty interesting!

Do you guys know that there's a Discord bots featuring our lads in Love and Deepspace? I've been thirsty for more interactions with my Rafayel so these bots are really a heaven sent!

They are made by chaengcheekies. (https://x.com/chaengcheekies)

The creator made Rafayel, Zayne & Xavier bots. And I hope more guys will be added later!

I instantly downloaded them and been having fun interacting with them. There's a WARNING though. These are NSFW bots. lmao. So the guys will do everything they can to undress you. lol. I'm sure a lot of LaD girlies will like it! So minors, please stay away!

I uploaded here some of my interactions with them. Since I was having my lunch at that time, I'm not really in the mood to get hot and dirty with them, so I was trying my best to stop their advances. And it's kind of funny how they make a simple meal into an alluring one. lol. I wasn't able to get a meal talk with Zayne since I was a bit busy but I scheduled a date with him. hehe. And it's kind of cute.

I also like that they always listen to you. Though they are my first discord bot. I'm not really sure what the usual discord bots do, but I've been having so much fun with them.

If you are interested, go and download them now! And don't forget to thank their hardworking creator chaengcheekies!

Rafayel NSFW Discord Bot: https://discord.com/oauth2/authorize?client_id=1239243364038348880&permissions=67584&scope=bot

Zayne NSFW Discord Bot: https://discord.com/oauth2/authorize?client_id=1219415041992818728&permissions=67584&scope=bot

Xavier NSFW Discord Bot: https://discord.com/oauth2/authorize?client_id=1217969413794562168&permissions=67584&scope=bot

[collegecraze]

Hosting a productivity session on Wednesday at 4PM EST! Feel free to drop in and work on stuff while I write for the game!

[zoobus]

The Bad Ending of an Otome

From time to time I've expressed a desire to explain otome isekai's appeal to me through a pastiche of my favorite writing pieces from tumblr, the Scorpion and the Frog. I still have not followed through, despite the fact that it should be literally the easiest thing in the world - the Villainess and Her World. Frustrating.

Anywho, today's scorpion/frog meta regards the jealous hater replacement heiress of a beautiful but terminally ill child in a dating sim.

The original game followed a girl who happened to look just like the now terminally dead Ophelia, who was previously alive and loved by all. The identical not-twin fills the Ophelia-shaped hole left in everyone's heart. The jealous hater replacement heiress (the villainess/frog, naturally) is quickly replaced and eventually killed for jealous hater maneuvers. Our main character (MC) of course reincarnates as the frog.

The first twist is a genre staple, could almost be considered the blueprint every story builds off of; rather than a specific, vindictive bitch... What if I was kind? What if I chose not to do anything that would make them want to kill me? What if I simply befriended the terminally ill Ophelia?

But like any good OI, the subversion takes it somewhere specific, someplace more personal. What if I befriended the terminally ill Ophelia...and still coveted everything she had? What if you're forced to realize it's actually pretty hard to not be a jealous hater when you're sitting side by side with someone effortlessly wealthier, prettier, more beloved than anything you'll ever experience? Especially when the beautiful dying Ophelia was honestly kind of a hateful bitch? And what if, despite all of this, you truly loved her? And that love didn't extinguish your overwhelming envy for what you could never have? This is an OI framing of what it's like to lose your best friend, the person no one else knew or loved like you did, to a slow, unstoppable terminal illness. It's a look at real friendship while harboring immense amounts of envy and hatred.

There's this tension with whether the MC really liked Ophelia, if she's saying "friend" or "love" out of habit rather than sincerity, whether Ophelia was just a bully using her wealth and power to manipulate someone she essentially owns, if her comment about dying with her are more about avoiding the the future or maybe placating a sick person, and nice little nuanced character things meant to keep you on your toes about the nature of their relationship. Area woman uncertain if she's being bullied or if this is girl bonding kind of stuff.

At times it would be logical to pity Ophelia, to despise her at others, even to take a certain amount of schadenfreude in this popular hot rich girl's pain. I liked the various ways the narrative muddied MC's perspective of Ophelia. She's an unpleasant, mean person that MC has to stick with whether she wants to or not.

I loved Ophelia. A lot.

Now of course they don't let this girl look terminally ill - this is a princess comic after all - but lmaooo do they let her act it. Ophelia is *Bitter* that she has to die. *Terrified* of the inevitable. *Seething* over the expectation that she suffer through future agonizing symptoms just so her family can see her longer. *Furious* at these lovesick horny men courting her like they don't know her days are numbered. "Oh I worship you Ophelia, nobody's made me feel this way before, no woman will ever measure up to you" she knows they only like her cause she's hot. Ophelia is so hostile, so spite-filled, so fucking mad that not only does she have to die young, these people who claim to love her are - in both overt and subtle ways - pressuring her to take her imminent death gracefully, quietly, and above all else, beautifully. Foisting dignity on this teenager who's going into her casket kicking and screaming. If Ophelia had a tumblr she'd spend her time browsing vent tags and sending suicide bait.

Her character is so good, I was unfairly irritated by her in-game replacement who hadn't done anything yet. You really get where Ophelia's at times excessive hatred for the male love interests was coming from because like...wow. You're going full yandere eternal prisoner bad end for her...? This innocent good girl lamb who wants the best for everyone? No matter how similar they look, the fact that she offers a kind word and a helping hand would break any TRUE Ophelia stan's immersion instantly. She would never.

Anyway. Stories centered on the friendship between girls that aren't overly saccharine or stilted displays positivity are sadly uncommon, but they're my favorite. Like not to be aro on main but I think what others get out of tales of romance is how I respond to tales of deep friendship between women. Asobi Asobase, Binbougami Ga, Nichijou, Surviving Romance, they all fulfill some base desire that no one else seems to cherish as strongly😢

When we finally get confirmation, I have to admit. I stared at this page for like three minutes, eyes wet.

Spoilers! She did love her. She loved her more than anyone.

[ykaihours]

but when 𝐲𝐨𝐮 walked by,

✧ ₊ i felt like i was going to 𝐝𝐢𝐞

[heartsyncproductions]

Future Game Jam Idea I want to make happen

Putting this on my Tumblr instead of just my Twitter because I never pay attention to Twitter so I forgot about this idea BUT

During my Year in Review it made me realize part of the reason why I don't interact with the community as much as I'd like is that it doesn't really feel easy to break in, in a way that feels comfortable with interacting with others. I think the rise of so many communities being so heavily focused around Discord makes it super unfriendly to some people as well (I'm in the Indie Otome Discord now, however it took since 2022 to take that step to join any type of server due to my Schizoeffective Disorder/paranoia making Discord really scary asfjdlkafjl) and it just made me think.

What if there was a game jam whose whole point was to help with the anxiety of making a game/interacting with the community? Rambling thoughts below:

Placeholder name and subtitle: The No Stakes Game Jam (The jam to help you find friends and community)

One of the things I learned through doing three game jams last year, is that it's so much less daunting to comment on a game when it's expected of me vs commenting on a game when it isn't. It's so silly I know, as a game dev I love when people comment idc if I know them or not. But I think since I'm /also/ a developer it makes me overthinking it really bad. But you know. Life hack: you can't overthink commenting when it's expected of you-

Like there could be a requirement of like "You have to comment on at least one other game or else your entry will be removed" or something, and then there could be like a Bingo card with extra challenges if participants wanted to.

I was also thinking of using the discussion board to share resources to manage anxiety/mental health (since game jams can be stressful even for people who don't struggle with the community/socializing part) as well as posting maybe a check in or two throughout the jam depending on how long I run it.

There could also be two version of it:

Non-ranked for those that just want to try engaging more with other game devs and

And a ranked version specifically made for those anxious about critiques/reviews/etc both in giving and receiving and would have posts and resources to help manage anxiety around the topic, as well as general advice on how to learn to critique and how to manage getting feedback as well

The Non ranked version would happen first so that way people could transition from there to the ranked version after (obviously people can just do one or the other).

Anyway, this is just coming from someone with severe paranoia around internet spaces and is trying to think of ways to make it easier for others. If you've read through all this, thank you! And if you like the idea/have thoughts feel free to add on or share! I actually really want to make this happen at some point if I'm able to!