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Read one of your asks which is how I found out that Cherik have a COMIC CANON LOVECHILD WHAAAAAAAAAT
you will address onslaught correctly alright that is their canonical love/hate mpreg brain baby child
#snap chats#sometimes they co-parent outside of onslaught tho ... xavier co-parents pietro and wanda a bit in the ultimate universe i think#i know we dont talk about The Ultimate Universe but we can take the good from it sometimes ....#also david- in krakoa- really looked up to erik and was. Really Moved by the fact erik trusted him#and THAT always makes me scream and cry and throw up remembering oouuugh david ... my son .. vegeta domed son of mine...#this is the daily reminder i have to get legion of x I SHOULD JUST GO GET IT. IVE BEEN SAYING ILL GET IT FOREVER#I DONT KNOW IF BOTH PARTS ARE IN THE COMIC SHOP ONLY THE SECOND PART WAS THERE I THINK LAST I CHECKED#guys should i go to the shop and pick it up today todays one of my less-busy days <- its still pretty busy#i thought of getting lunch too.... i have money to spend for once but also i dont really like eating#like i like eating but. idk . no i lied i dont like eating HLEKVEAKLJ BUT I DONT HATE IT#its just not somethign i think about its just a think i have to do yk. moving on from my Questionable dietary habits#NOOOOOO WAIT there was this one matcha place i really like... is it because of the matcha or the gal that works there dont ask me#the matcha is really good tho .... do i treat myself for. my insane morning... many questions i ask myself...#anyway yeah they got a baby or whatever //party popper noise// congratulations its an abomination. and davids half brother
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If Pinestar was the Mi of his kits, why didn’t he try to take any of them with him when he left? Like Brightsky keeping some of her litter. He knew how the clans were, he was specifically leaving to get away from it, why did he choose to leave his children behind?
It wasn't a choice. Brightsky gave birth in the home she bolted to; Pinestar wasn't going to be allowed to take his children unless he snuck out with them.
He wishes he did something, when he sees what became of his son. But he tried to be brave when he left, announcing that he would not be coming back, and where he would be going.
He thought that was the right thing to do. Unfortunately, no one else appreciated it the way he hoped they would.
If he DID though, ThunderClan would not have allowed that. They see it as kidnapping. Being Mi doesn't mean you're allowed to do literally anything you want, especially if you do have a Ba involved.
In cases of handoffs (surrogacy, secret halfclan kits being given to their other parent, etc) it's actually SUPER important you do it before 1 moon, so you can pass the disappearance off as a fading kit. There are no funerals thrown for fading kits besides the Mi and any Ba quietly burying the body, so this is the time where you smuggle the baby out.
So you need all the Ba on board with such a handoff, in addition. Cloudtail is an example of that actually! When Brightheart surrogates, he is fully aware of how many are ACTUALLY faders and who is receiving their child.
Tigerkit was like 3-ish moons when Pinestar hit da bricks, unfortunately there wasn't a way he could take him along... plus it wouldn't quite make sense with how he was having nightmares about murdering his son.
#Tiger remembers his father#Not super well but. He does remember him.#I think it hurts him when he realizes he's doing something for his own kits that come from those warm early memories#Like the lullabies. Pinestar liked to sing for him. He remembers how good it felt to be cuddled into a warm chest#And feel how a song can bloom into a purr#ALSO I am still thinking about the Bright surrogates btw#I just hit a snag because I realized that a big problem in shadow and wind is--#--the lack of parents to take such kits#Because my rules against incest apply completely equally to adopted kids too#So it wouldn't actually help if they were adopted vs biokits if the tree is still a tumbleweed#Does that make sense?#So the Bright surrogates aren't actually there to help me with the tree. It's that I want to do it for the character reasons#Because it really shows how approachable and connected Bright and Cloud are#And how respected and loved they are even outside their own Clan#But yeah if you've been waiting on that detail that's where Im currently at lmao#But theyre gonna come up in Wind and Shadow eventually#And im thinking about giving those cut thunderclan warriors as grandkids in other clans too#Clan culture#Pinestar’s Crusade
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TojiShiu incorrect quotes (featuring @kaurruption 's imagination)
The Second Child Quest, part 2 (part one here)
Toji, taking Shiu to the park : Look, there's plenty of brats there ! So, which one do you want ? Shiu : That's- That's not an adoption center- Toji : It's the same thing ! They're all running and playing freely, their parents don't even pay attention to them. We can just take one and go home. Look, this one has your eyes, she'd be great for family pictures, don't you think ? Shiu, pinching his nose : Toji for the last time we are NOT kidnapping a fucking kid !
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#shiutoji#jjk incorrect quotes#jujutsu kaisen#fushiguro toji#kong shiu#jjk#tojishiu#just imagine Toji waiting outside a nursery school and looking at the toddlers like “hmm which one would make a convenient sibling for Gumi#Toji to Shiu : “Choose one who doesn't scream too loud I don't want to have a headache at home”#“In the worst case if we don't like it we could still put it back where we found it. I'm sure its parents would be glad to have it back.”#Shiu : “It's not that we found them it's that we TOOK them. Also wdym 'it' they're a fucking human toddler not an animal or an object.”
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do u think cherrycola has more than one kid or just the one
i’m so torn on this tbh. i could see them with another kid, soda would want his daughter to have close sibling relationships like he has, but also soda would be so locked in one her he worries he wouldn’t be a good dad to more than one. i could see it going either way idk.
cherry would def want kat to have siblings cause she knows how hard it was to be an only child.
if they did have more kids i think they’d have twin girls like 3 or 4 years after kats birth and stop there
#wait stop cause now i’m attached to their twin daughters oops#cherrycola teen parents au#cherry valance#cherrycola#the outsiders broadway#the outsiders musical#sodapop curtis#the outsiders#kat valance-curtis#making her a tag okay#asks
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Can't wait to be a mom someday
#tradlife#tradwife#tradblr#catholic#traditional gender roles#slow living#homemaker#homemaking#cozy aesthetic#cozycore#cottagecore#talked with my boyfriend about getting engaged the other day#he wants to wait a bit until hes closer to finishing up with the military and me finishing up my masters#he said he was a little envious of a colleague who brought in their little kid into work#not in like a bad way but in a 'aw i want one' sort of way#we've talked about being parents and how great our little family would be and how well we could share what we know#we're both unique and he can help with sports and outside work and i can teach them music and cooking and homemaking#and he joked he can teach the boys how to make edible food lol#which i said no one is escaping the kitchen. everyone is going to at least know the basics of cooking because its a skill#and maybe our future boys will need to help their wives someday or at least when they're bachelors#but i cant wait#i am a professional violinist and music teacher so when i say i can teach them music im quite serious#im going into violin/viola performance for my masters#and i could sing professionally but im fine with just cantoring for church#they appreciate it#i have to wait at least two years to get married to finish my masters but i am really looking forward to having a family#maybe we can have a family right away too#thats be nice#just really looking forward to the future#just gotta make it through grad school
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concept: take your kid to work day but you work for The Company
#lethal company#can you imagine though#like it’s objectively going to be bad no matter what you do no matter how safe you try to make it#they’re gonna have a bad time#like even if you tell them to stay on the ship there’s dogs and the possibility of masked men and giants outside#and you and your crew are inside risking your lives and you could all die and the kid is just sat inside the ship waiting for you#and like. if you give them a walkie so you can chat with them they’re going to hear a bunch of grown-ups shitting their pants#and possibly dying#also bonus point in my head i’m imagining like. what if the crew does die?? and they didn’t have enough for quota#so this kid knows they have to arrive with the quota their other parent will be waiting for them at the company#but they know something bad will happen if they don’t meet quota they just don’t know what#so it’s the final day and they decide they have to go to a moon as a last effort to try and make quota to avoid The Consequences#the kid writes the report about it and only gets a C. ‘vivid descriptions and very imaginative. next time write about your parent’s actual#job’
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playing through the early parts of xy is fun bc i get to pick up on small moments that would definitely feed into calem's growing resentment towards serena.
#some of his dialogue in sycamore's lab is making me go 🤔#calem's been waiting for a moment to prove himself to prove he'll be a top notch trainer that stands out among the rest#but then serena moves into town and steals the spotlight so he's PISSED#he knows that being an ass to her wouldn't work well in his favor tho so he puts up a nice front around her#but little things like only ever calling her neighbor tips serena off to the fact that he doesn't like her#calem's a little shit but he's also desperate for recognition due to his absent parents and doesn't really have an identity outside of them#he'll get better eventually don't worry#he's just fake as hell for a lot of xy's main story and i find that kinda amusing#if he was a kinnie he's definitely latch onto kabru#hc : (pkmn) mjverse#chara : calem durant#mj.txt
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my hot take about descendants is that NONE of the core four were ready for a relationship until maybe like, the third movie (rant in tags)
#they were still adjusting to living life without struggling to survive#a girl should not be jumping into a relationship the same week she just tried her first piece of non-rotten food lol#thats not to say I don't like the canon ships#but mal married literally the FIRST man she met in auradon. at 18.#and even as far as in descendants 2 we see them still struggling to adjust in different ways (mainly mal)#in d3 they seem to have fully assimilated into life in Auradon (as much as a VK can anyway)#so it makes sense for them to THEN seek out relationships if that's what they want.#but disney ofc wanted to act like romantic love just automatically fixes a person's problems ig?? as if a relationship wouldn't just be#added stress given the position the VKs were in in d1#not to mention dating just like. wasnt a thing on the isle (mal even says this)#and I get that the kids are craving to be loved because their parents didn't gaf about them. But I wish the first movie focused more on the#finding that love in each other than romantically with outside people. a sort of “they had love in them all along” moment.#and then this fandom loves to argue about whether Jarlos/Janelos was 'rushed'. at least Carlos (and Jay +lonnie) waited a few months before#throwing themselves into the dating scene. Poor evie had her heart broken within like 3 days of being in Auradon. no wonder she was willing#to help steal the wand lol.#Anyway to wrap up this rant I didn't even mean to go on#I just think that kids who have spent the first 14-16 years of their lives fighting to survive and being put through continuous trauma on a#daily basis don't need dating right away. they need THERAPY.#if anyone here has seen stranger things its kinda an El and Mike situation were its like. the girl grew up in a lab and fell for the first#boy in regular society who was kinda nice to her lol. thats how I view Mal and Ben#same with doug and evie. he was nicer than chad but he still fell for her for her looks and she still fell for him because he was the first#guy in auradon to be genuinely interested in her. also evie had a whole “I dont need a prince” arc and ended up with a man anyway?#my problem with janelos was always that Carlos never quite worked out his mommy issues or his anxiety. I feel like he'd be afraid of hurtin#her even though that boy wouldn't hurt a fly. and we see Jane get pretty stressed out herself- have you ever been in a relationship where#both of you have anxiety? cause it either goes really well (you help keep each other calm) or REALLY terribly (you make each other spiral)#I actually really liked Lonnie and Jay (though I feel like it would've had a bigger payoff if she was in d3. not sure why she wasn't but I#wont dunk on that because it couldve been smth to do with her actress). I think Lonnie is someone who can 'handle' Jay well and match his#energy. And I like the idea of Jay finding someone he's loyal to after being commitment-phobic for 1 1/2 movies and the whole first book lo#and ofc I have to throw this in here: any auradon kid the VKs get with is never going to grasp even half of what they went through.#this doesnt mean they can't try to understand and be empathetic. but it will always cast a shadow on VK/AK relationships.
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Darius Deamonne hate is rooted in antiblackness idc
#Addae.txt#because y’all couldn’t wait to embrace Alador as a ‘redeemed’ father for his kids#(we don’t even know if Edric and Emira think about all this)#which is understandable because they’re side characters but still#and yet people claim Darius adopting hunter doesn’t make sense because he was ‘mean’ to Hunter in ASIAS#Lilith tried to kill Luz in S1 (love her tho) but y’all ain’t have problems calling her Luzs auntie#I’m just saying. y’all are more eager to accept parental/familial roles for the white adults of the show#but won’t even try to give Darius the same grace#because we all know if black characters don’t have the best impression when they officially debut they’re either villianized or written off#as ‘boring’#first example is Darius second example is Gus but this post isn’t about him rn#‘but what has Darius done for Hunter’ 1) helped him establish connection with people outside of the emperors coven#hunter is intentionally isolated from everyone else to keep him from becoming ‘influenced’ into eventually ‘betraying’ Belos#by giving hunter a phone (??) Hunter slowly gains the social/emotional connections with kids his age he’d been deprived ove his entire live#2) Hunters developed a love of sewing because of Darius which becomes an important outlet for hunter
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Nope, I'm still crying
#i wish literally anybody from school remembered me#literally only 2 people i was friends with hace talked to me in the past four years#i had the realization tonight that i was never given the choice to nurture most of my friendships#everytime i tried outside of school hours including trying to join clubs my mom would make me leave halfway through then lecture me#that she didn't have time to drive to town and get me#but as soon as my brother wanted to join junior air force she suddenly had all the time and energy in the world to devote to that#so what I'm getting here is that my friendships and interests weren't important enough or worth her time#i wasn't interested in Junior air force 1 cause it wasn't offered to me and 2 I'm not a boit licker#no#i was interested in the video game and board game clubs cause my friends were in them and they WANTED me to join#but after not getting to stay for more than one full session after a month i left the board game club cause it wasn't fair to the others#and i only went to the video game clu once and i don't remember much of it cause i was too anxious that she was gonna flip on me#i kept waiting for her text but instead she showed up at the classroom and made me leave#so when the same teacher that ran the board game club asked if i wanted to join the chess club cause he knew i liked chess#i told him i couldn't cause i was too busy because i didn't want to deal with begging my mom to let me join#she would have said yes but would have continued not letting me stay and being super passive aggressive#I'm not even in the year book for the year my friends graduated#the one thing she did let me do was drama and i hated every second of it. it was genuinely a bad experience for me#yeah i had friends in drama but it's not the same as hanging with my nerdy guy friends playing a star wars ttrpg#the worst part is she gets so defensive when i bring it up and won't give me a reason outside of 'I guess I'm just the worst parent'#it's in those moments i really remember she's the youngest in her family#OH!! it gets worse! she told me when i was younger that she had to be an honorary cheer leader cause HER MOM absolutely refused to#let her join cheer and she's alsways been bitter about it but then she turns around and did basically the same thing to me ffs#at least she was allowed to hang out with people after-school i wasn't allowed to do that either#no. instead i spent the hours after shcool alone most days and my weekends home alone in my room. and she wonders why my social skills are#maybe if I'd been allowed to work on my relationships outside of a classroom i wouldn't have felt so abandoned when everyone i knew#graduated without me. maybe if i didn't have to start back at square one socially again and had people to text and hang with after class#i wouldn't have dropped out. and i think only atlas knows i dropped out. idk how to text these people without spunding like I'm looking for#sympathy when they ask what I'm up to. like yeah I'm stuck at home with an anxiety disorder and unemployed trying to get on disability#prisma vents
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Why do right wingers go on and ON about "father's in the home" when fathers are basically useless in the home? Like every year I see posts that go around about "dad finding out about what I got for Christmas" and it's like if fathers are so uninvolved they don't even know what Christmas gifts their kids are getting I don't think them being gone does much?? Like of course there's good and bad parents of all genders, but traditional gender roles- which the aforementioned right wingers ascribe to- mean men do jack fucking squat in the house OR anything with their kids so what the hell do right wingers think men are doing that's so important in the home if it's none of the childrearing or house work??
All I've got in this framework is a paycheque and these days women work so men wouldn't even be contributing something women DON'T, so I have no idea what these people think men are doing that it's so irreplaceable that being gone is damaging to children when by all means under their ideas of gender and family men are less than useless to their family. Women do all that work (and barring that, DAUGHTERS do more parental work than fathers so them being gone does what, exactly, except maybe rid the family of an overgrown child? Men who actually contribute are the ones families would be damaged without, not traditional men who probably don't even know how to do their own laundry OR cook or have any life skills because women have done everything for them their whole lives so???)
#winters ramblings#'no fathers in the home is what leads to gangs!' they cry while they do nothing with their kids make their wives do all the housework#and theur DAUGHTERS parent more often than THEY do. TELL ME what use you are in the house Giant Man Baby#tell me what thing you do thats of the Utmost Importance that being done causes irreversible damage to your kids#surely you being THERE isnt causing them damage right? RIGHT???? because this brand of dude being HOME#sounds worse than this brand of dude being GONE because these dudes and the women who marry them are HORRIBLE tyrants#who deserve each other but sure shit DONT deserve the kids they have then force into their lifestyle then abuse all their lives#like serioualy what the FUCK do they think men are doing thats so important in the home when their own beliefs state men do SQUAT#in the home??? do tou seriously think your PRESENCE is what does it?? pretty grandiose sense of self there huh#assuming just EXISTING beside your kids lives means youre literally holding everything together lmao like no#your wife does all that and if she isnt your KIDS do it buddy you dont do fuck all to consider yourself that important i dont get this#like literally men in traditional gender shit dont do ANYTHING outside of a job amd getting waited in hand amd foot#do you think having a personal slave you occasionally fuck is what makes you this important??#i mean the mormins say yes so hard they think a billion wives gives you a better planet in the afterlife but like come on#at least ATTEMPT to have common sense when recruiting to your nonsense beliefs#then turn around and claim GAY PEOPLE are recruiting people to their 'lifestyle' like that isnt LITERALLY THE DESCRIPTION OF MISSIONARY WORK#gays arent CHRISTIANS guys. (some are but they arent recruiting to GAYNESS even if they may try to convert you religious wise-#although i suspect a great many WOULDNT do that on account of the history between the church and gay people#so probably they just are gay and love jesus but still yall get it)
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#ay ay ay. i dont wanna do my job so bad. it makes me so unhappy also i fucked up a thing by letting someone take part of a culture when i#shouldnt have. it happened so many months ago that i fucking forgot abt it and then the person emailed me abt when we received the stain and#i thought it was someone from another project so i cc'd my boss who was like. wait. what the fuck is this? and now its like oops sorry but#like wtf am i supposed to do abt it now? she askrd me to take some when i was rushing out of someone else's lab and i was like what? sure.#whatever i dont give a fuck i feel like im dying every second i stand in this room. i didnt even think to ask to share it which is what i#should have done. oops. cant do anything abt it now other than feel abt abt causing drama between labs. ugh.#i just wanna cut all ties with my old work. theres no joy there. only pain and anger. which makes it hard to work with it but the sooner i#do. the sooner i dont have to fucking deal with it anymore. ugh. also i really need to find a therapist but my insurance changes in like 18#days so i might as well wait for the semester to start. ugh. like i can feel the pull of my bad habits trying to drag me down and i dont kno#how to stop them. like its weird. i noticed while my parents were here. they can just do things and enjoy stuff. and everytime i do#something i feel like im holding my breath the entrie time waiting for it to be over and for what? its not like i had other stuff to do#i just needed to kno when things were gonna end and i dont deal well with flexible situations. which makes it hard to do things. so its#like do i succumb to my control freak lil bubble of not doing anything and being miserable or do things outside my comfort zone and be#miserable? one of those things is way easier. plus i dont even kno anyone here so its like wtf do i do?#try to make friends with my sometimes roommate maybe. i just need to corner her and be like hey i need to establish a dialog with u so i can#tell u that if i seem like a weird hermit im not trying to b standoffish i just dont kno how to do human interaction well. can we b friends?#id like to b friends but if i dont talk now then ill get stuck not talking ever. which is whats happened with past roommates... god my 1st#roommate must have thought i was so fucking weird. ugh. point is. these bad habits must stop. and i really need to get work done so i can#never think abt that shit ever again. at least now that ive moved i can run up the side of a mountain when im frustrated#unrelated
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something something, feels always apologetic (for what ???) and embarrassing of me when i go thru dozens of posts of someone’s very real and harrowing trauma tag and still come out going ‘……unfortunately trauma is still mostly bullshit as a lens and set of information’ (bullshit = the info trauma tells you about its position as the center or framework of the universe, is bullshit. not bullshit as in ‘didn’t happen’ or ‘not actually that impactful on you’. to be clear lol.)
#thinking about. how the actual omelas story is the frame story of the narrator irritably putting a tortured child in the story cuz#the listeners wouldn’t believe the internal story or care about figuring it out and just wanted to relax into a thought-termination of#’ah tortured child got it. no notes. vindication.’#and how everyone irl also. takes the internal story at face value and forgets the actual story is about the frame story. unironically.#90% sure leguin forgot too tbh seems like the kind of bullshit intellectual dishonesty she lived by#she triggers me as a person a bit too hard for me to look it up though don’t take my word for it#anyway my parents had this sort of….salivating waiting for the other shoe to drop and triumphantly prove that there was A Catch#which was…..really awful! most deeply/invisibly awful though i only recently realized was like……you know how when you#take a video on ur phone and if you want to edit it to be shorter the selected clip shows as a long rectangle#with the desired amount of discarded beginning/end outside the rectangle?#like……imagine them taking every sequence where the ‘catch’ came in the middle or even near the beginning#and shortening a clip that way so that it ends immediately after the catch#does that….make sense……….#coal sings
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#…#when i was taking an order for work they stacked the boxes wrong & one opened & spilled spaghetti in the bag#kinda the usual ‘someone get me a cigarette it’s a long day’ stuff#so they got me a replacement but for the wait they got me two replacement spaghettis#& i had noticed a homeless man outside the restaurant earlier & instead of keeping the extra spaghetti for myself—#(the customer didn’t have to know there was an extra I do that stuff all the time whoops :/)#i gave it to the man#& i don’t mean to make this post about ‘oh look at me i’m a great person’ bc i’m mid but like.#he looked so surprised that i even talked to him & was grateful for the food#growing up my parents told me to avoid homeless people & don’t look at them bc they could be dangerous and/or ‘faking homelessness’#(nothing against my parents i love them that’s just what they told me)#& i don’t know if that man was ‘faking’ it or anything—I just felt bad especially bc the weather isn’t great rn#& i know my parents would be upset if i told them bc i potentially put myself in danger or whatever but i thought I’d say something here#bc this blog is like a diary for me#that’s all#rose.txt
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Looking forward to the day where I won't have to be alone at home.
We can have a beautiful old house with a garden, a dog and maybe a cat. I can sing lullabies on the glider on the porch while we watch the older kids run amuck in the yard.
When it gets late, we can all retire into the living room and watch some show and play family games. Before it gets too late, we can say a family rosary before tucking the kids in bed and sharing bedtime stories. The rest of the evening can be ours and enjoy the quiet and peace of the night.
I just can't wait until our dreams are reality.
#tradlife#tradwife#tradblr#catholic#just thinking about summer evenings#i really would like to have a family#we'd have really cute little blonde haired and blue and green eyed kids#and wed be such good parents#i think itd be nice to say a rosary together for some peace#or family prayers outside of meal prayers#though ive taken a liking of doing a morning rosary after breakfast while enjoying some tea#something to think about though#two years and then we can go home to each other#hes had a tough week at work and now he has military obligations this weekend#i wish i could be there to support him all the time#i want to be his wife and be there#but again i gotta wait#though im lowkey considering getting court married so i can health insurance and then just get church married later?#though perhaps i can get health insurance through the university or a job?#things to consider#i wanted to share my thoughts though because June is my favorite month and i was thinking about the future#just have to make it through the next two years#im sure itll be less stressful than teaching#just a lot of playing and then some work#i do look forward to when i can raise little ones amd be a sahm#homemaker#homemaking
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two most pathetic beasts on gods green earth
#that orange one is pete he lives at my parents house and he's a half outdoor cat AGAINST MY CONSTANT ADVISEMENT#but he keeps getting in fights and he always loses:( so he has this big gash on his ear rn we had to wash him and put some medicine on that#we had from the vet from LAST TIME THIS FUCKING HAPPENED#and he was mad and wanted to go right back outside. what is wrong with you.#and then poor buttercup:( she hates to be in the carrier and hates the car and hates new places. she's currently at my parents so she won't#get squished to death or run out the door while we're moving stuff. and she is so scarified and also mad at me for making her go in the#carrier#literally can't do anything right as a cat mother. like would you rather i fucking LEFT YOU THERE#anyway hi how's everyone doing i am still in the throes of moving day but we had to take a pit stop at my parents and my sister is coming to#meet us bc she is so nice and wants to help clean:) so we have to wait here i get a nice little break:) hi guys hiiiii
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