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confines · 1 year ago

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my cousin called me all happy after a date and i didn't know how to respond and still don't know how i should have responded because she's 19 he's 24 their first date was on saturday their second today and she's already told him she loves him and he hesitantly said it back she's talking about wanting to marry him also their income ratio is uh 1:10 and he's like fully settled into a career he'll probably die with when she just dropped out of college because she couldn't go to classes due to anxiety so like what should i have said?? like... what's the difference between bursting a bubble and enabling risky behaviour. is it risky to date someone with a major power imbalance if you ignore the existence of the imbalance?

#i'm literally the only person in her life who'll express an opinion beyond ''oh that's nice''#and it's honestly such a burden because i have a chance to impart wisdom BUT it means i'm always the ''person who makes problems''#or ''so negative''#so is it negative to think this sounds.. not great #or is it actually fine #like do you even express an opinion #she called for an opinion #lol i fucking hate talking about romantic relationships with people bc i'm always secretly sitting there like eugh that sounds repulsive 😬#but this does sound 🚩 right #adam yaps

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marisatomay · 1 year ago

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People will claim to be a fan of some thing and then hate all of the themes and motifs and story lines and plot lines and protagonists and antagonists like man I don’t think that you actually like it here

#this is about a lot of IWTV show fans but it applies to most fandoms actually #hating is one thing. hating is fine. good even. sometimes. but yall just seem Miserable.

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stealingpotatoes · 6 months ago

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tried to tell my faithful eunuch Tucker that he was basically tumblr famous, but he was too focused on defending the homestead to care

#id add this to the main post (OVER 100K WHAT???) but its already too long so new post ig loll #adventures of normalgirl #self potes-trait #(for tooth context he had to have his teeth taken out a few months ago bc they were trying to kill him) (but hes fine now)#also i actually made a slight effort with the shakespearean this time instead of picking words by vibe <3 #lady normalgirl and her eunuch #10k #my doods #20k

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essektheylyss · 3 months ago

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fibercrafts are SO maddening cuz wdym I have to go to work tomorrow, I'm like a third of a way through making a whole ass fucking cape, don't you think I should be allowed to focus on what matters (my fucking cape)

#it's very pretty 😌#tbf i can only do like half of it. i have lining in the mail #so i can't actually finish it #BUT i should be allowed to finish the part I can do now #so when I GET the lining I CAN finish the whole thing #goDDAMMIT #I want to sewwww #anyway hand sewing going fine if tedious BUT faster than expected honestly #darts on satin are a pain in the fucking ass #but this is gonna be SO fun when it's done #if it even needs to be said: it will be essekcore 😌

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yutamayo · 1 year ago

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Get car seats for my kids first.

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shorelinnes · 1 year ago

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BDS added this section to their boycott page and I think people really need to read it:

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please remember, pushing unorganized boycotts without carefully fact-checking every company in the list can be actively HARMFUL to the boycott movement.

#a reminder seeing that people were tagging that BDS post with companies that aren’t on the list #if you want to personally avoid a certain company the fine #but STOP promoting grassroots boycotts over the actual boycott list!!!!!

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hinamie · 1 month ago

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growth // decay

#my art #jujutsu kaisen #jjk #jjk fanart #yuji itadori #fushiguro megumi #nobara kugisaki #sukuna #ryoumen sukuna #itafushikugi #take them take them take them im DONE #i started this 3 WEEKS AGO kms curse u job.....curse u commute......#whatever its fine bc look mom i can still draw omg i can still draw and i dont hate it!!!!!#this was th first actual insp that had hit since like. march. and i was like omg yippee finally i can not want to die while doing my hobby #regardless of th 3 week timeline (atrocious) im soosososo pleased w these #nobara in particular i am especially proud of i tried smth new with her hair and the render and i ws like!!!! :D!!!!!!#altho i kinda ended up shooting myself in th foot bc of it when it came time to move onto itfs #bc by then a whole week had passed and id forgotten how i did it so i was worried abt style consistency #esp when megumi's colour palette said it wanted to be blue all of a sudden #but i decided hey whatever ill lean in2 primaries itll b fine and fun (it was in fact not so fine and fun i suffered the whole time)#nobara looks GREAT megumi looks great in lowercase bc tht hood made me want to die #yuuji...#kinda worried abt yuuji bc of sukuna it looks pretty busy over there on the left but whatever man ive been working on this fr too long #i dont dislike it at all but i definitely think hes the weakest of th series dsgkjsfdj rip i redid his pose like 4 times #whatever we persist!!! enjoy hina draws the first years with plants and weird eye horror episode 352347 #hopefully this is a sufficient offering after my month+ hiatus gomen smile

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thepixelatedcactus · 2 years ago

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flying the original character artist flag with pride

#not actually complaining. if i cared about notes i would do more fandom stuff but I dont so I dont #and it's perfectly fine #but big shoutout to the people who like my ocs it means a lot #TPC's Not Art

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akanemnon · 2 months ago

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It was super effective

FIRST - PREVIOUS - NEXT

MASTERPOST (for the full series / FAQ / reference sheets)

#undertale #deltarune #utdr #comic #crossover comic #twin runes #twin runes au #twin runes comic #kris dreemurr #frisk #toriel #asgore #was about time that they burnt these things to the ground #toriel clearly has everything under control #let her handle the rest #I guess that would be thearpeutic to burn down your own wedding bouquet after a messy divorce #little behind the scenes info: so... the whole thing with kris and frisk blacking out during the fall #the original script called for them both NOT being caught by Toriel and Asgore #but they were actually supposed to land on the ground with a loud cracking sound and not move anymore #I DID draw that in the original sketch #but looking at it from an outside perspective was INCREDIBLY dark #I knew they were gonna be fine but it might've been extremely unsettling especially after that heroic scene from Frisk #considering this comic is like 13+ I didn't really know if this was appropriate or not #so I opted for some Toriel and Asgore character development instead #and yes that part of asgore's dialog about catching Kris when the fall from high places...#IS supposed to imply that Kris has fallen from many high places before #much to their parents' chagrin

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iscratchdoors · 5 months ago

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my touhou tips for beginners and strugglers

try not to get pushed against the very bottom of the screen. advance up through gaps in the patterns instead of waiting for them to get to you

sometimes staying still is the best option. don't panic dodge just because you can't process what's coming at you, you're very likely to just slam yourself into a bullet

practice small movements. very very small movements. no smaller than that. the smallest you possibly can. it will come in handy. do not move more than you have to

IMPORTANT: when you're done playing, imagine those women kissing. this will make it worth it whether you win or lose

#touhou #no advice is universal. in fact some spells actually want you to move a Lot and Quickly #but having a good base of very fine stubborn refuse-to-budge movement reflexes is helpful

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mikqchoux · 2 months ago

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"You were... everything."

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leonardcohenofficial · 2 months ago

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the nineties and the early aughts television landscape really was defined by long deployment of "will they won't they" dynamics people these days would not be able to handle network television writers' rooms teasing ships for multiple years only to more often than not be given the answer "they will not. <3 hope this helps"

#i have made a variation on this exact post specifically about ER because that show is egregious but the will they won't they of it all is a #fine art that has been so lost these days!#even when the ships do end up together the shows made you suffer for it! for years!#see: doug and carol‚ rachel and ross‚ mulder and scully‚ etc. etc.#the biggest crime really is benson and stabler #but also i don't know what getting them together would actually do for me!

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egophiliac · 3 months ago

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The funniest part of this new event is the fact I can't find out what's going on it from spoilers. All context is lost in the wave of Hot Eel Mom. I love her, all hail Georgina, mother of This and That, but where is the context? What *is* the event?

to be fair, we're still in the intro part, so not much has actually happened yet! Jade and Floyd were supposed to go to their mom's friend's wedding to help with the ancient merfolk marriage custom of

❤️❤️❤️~the Test of Love~❤️❤️❤️

but Floyd last-minute changed his mind (on account of being Floyd) and Azul was like "I'm not going if your mom is going to be there". at which point Jade realized he'd just been handed a golden opportunity to invite the absolute funniest group of people he could think of.

anyway tl;dr Jade manipulates a bunch of nerds into joining him to heckle/throw bricks at/try to drown a couple of randos in the name of love, what could possibly go wrong

#art #twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland spoilers #eternity float #eternity float of the coral sea #okay FINE they're not supposed to ACTUALLY drown but it is considered good luck if you manage to flip their boat over #honestly this event is just super cute so far. i forgot how much i enjoyed these silly excursions!#there's been some fun little worldbuilding bits about mercustoms #and of course they all need new outfits because ✨wedding✨#i do think my favorite thing about georgina so far #(aside from the whole seven foot tall gorgeous mermaid thing)#is that she was able to immediately and accurately intuit everyone's personality and style based off of hearing floyd's nicknames for them #i believe it #oh also 'how lovely to meet jade's friends...thank you for coming...gracious me. the prince of briar valley! what an honor. and who's this?#'oh my...so THIS is the famous riddle i've heard so much about :) :) :)'#what have they been telling her. what secrets does she know.#(riddle: we're not --) (rook: yes we are ~BOSOM FRIENDS~)#(malleus in the background: human child. tell me i am the prettiest little sea slug you've ever seen.)#god i love them #can't wait to see these idiots enact petty harassment on those poor unfortunate souls

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yurtgirlsophie0 · 7 months ago

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Any straight guy who would be interested in dating me?🥹

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yes-that-would-be-dark · 1 year ago

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got my hair dyed in japan and the hairdressers spoke very little english but were super interested in trying to communicate so they managed to ask me if I watched anime and when I told them my favorite was death note one of them gasped and went “death note! misamisa?!” and I went “ah! yes!!! I love misa!” and she smiled and clapped. misa amane transcends language

#she’s everything #death note #misa amane #misa misa #worth noting my hairdresser had bleached blonde hair #the other one was hot af and I was kind of panicking….. actually they were both fine

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blueskittlesart · 8 months ago

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Dear Big Brother

kind of a sequel to this comic

#FINALLY FINISHED IT. THIS HAS BEEN SITTING UNFINISHED FOR ALMOST A FUCKING YEAR #and of course i get around to it right after making that stupid masterpost. well there's another one to add i guess #anyway. this was originally now that you're gone part 2. basically aryll's counterpart to their dad's perspective #botw #loz #skribbles #i will say ignoring this for so long was good actually because it confirmed my suspicions that my pen pressure no longer works #the way it used to. so if you see any weird inconsistencies between panels or pages it's not me it's my fucking tech #for some reason i need WAY more pressure than i used to to get the same level of opacity in sai which is. not great for my hands #but whatever ive gotten used to it by now. ignore the inconsistencies in this comic its fine

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