#okay that's all

[noswordinourlake]

Locus of control is important. I also want to note, as a therapist, even beyond Dealing with the Problem (because sometimes Dealing with the Problem is step 20 and you're on step 0)

Therapy is a place to feel safe.

Recognizing that many places are unsafe currently, and many people may be in environments where they cannot express how current events are making them feel, or why they are so angry, sad, afraid. Please consider going to therapy. It sounds cliche, but just having safe space to express how you're feeling can make a difference.

tired of posts that are like "why should i go to therapy when the reason i'm upset is because of SOCIETY" and it's like

yeah. have you ever heard of a locus of control. you don't have control over Society but you do have control over your reaction to it

[divine-misfortune]

Mountain and his full sleeve tattoos on both arms...mmmmm..

[smthleon]

my 2025 hc is that everyone in this community believes red is fat and hairy, and will draw him that way and that green is a millennial & will quit projecting him as this one 1nch weak twink. thank you.

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[livelovecaliforniadreams]

Just wanted to drop in and say I hope everyone in CA is staying safe. These fires are no joke and scary as hell. And those of you that have mountains of snow please send some over here I would love some.

[fixingmydigitalfootprint]

Criminal minds transitions are some of the craziest media you'll ever watch, one minute you're watching a brutal murder and then BAM, Spencer is drinking from a soda can.

[morphestic]

new fandom and finding a good rarepair during the first season is like sifting for gold and hitting the jackpot in a minute

[louwhose]

Today is @zelinkcommunity's loftwing letters exchange!!

This is for @uniquevoidflowers!! I haven't really drawn for Linked Universe before, and this was a fun opportunity to do that! Hope you like it!!

[wortaives]

that moment when your laboratory partner swallowed the demon core and became one with it, so now you have to monitor it so that both of you wouldn't die from radiation. that's rough buddy

song: Marshall Maximizer by Hiiragi Magnetite ft. KAFU

[ldpdluvr]

the kindest thing you could do to ldpdl is put him in subspace and take care of him

[deathbypufferfish]

had to take them out of my pocket to edit my gshade

[spinnysocks]

5 pups! and they're already a handful. couldn't feed them all to full as i didn't have enough so the runt is already going hungry. this is gonna be hard alright

i'd love some name suggestions! preferably based on my established naming system and perhaps based around their parents' names — Love and Mediator (who, ahem, disappeared before they were born. he definitely didn't die to a cougar. nope /sarc.)

[rose-n-gunses]

I'm late to the party, what's going on in hellcheer land?? I knew grace is dating a johnny depp fan but has more happened? (Feel free to just ignore this if you don't wanna answer btw, i know you might not wanna invite drama onto your blog!!)

I am going to risk answering this but only because I have no idea.

I am honest to God probably the worst person to ask about this because I am so extremely Out Of The Loop when it comes to the goings on of celebrities because, to be quite frank, I don't care. What famous people do in their personal lives doesn't affect me and my opinions on things are rarely anything more than "oh cool" or "ew". The most involved I get is following some on Instagram but even then it's only a select few.

I think a lot/the majority of whatever is going on is/was happening on twitter and i don't have twitter so i've only ever seen whatever's trickled onto here (which even then is very very little because, again, it doesn't affect me and also I think I've just tailored my blog to my tastes so that stuff doesn't typically cross my feed beyond the occasional reblog from a mutual or that one anonymous ask I got one time)

That being said, fiction ≠ reality and characters ≠ the individuals who portray them. I am in hellcheer land, as you put it (which I like that btw, I'm going to keep using it lol), for Hellcheer The Characters. I will acknowledge that there is "drama" that is either starting or continuing to infiltrate hellcheer land even though it has no place to do so. Hellcheer is fictional and fandom is supposed to be a fun community experience and by allowing your feelings about Certain Matters to significantly affect the fandom and other people you are making it an unfun community experience and that's kind of mid tbh :( If there's going to be drama (which there inevitably will be) it needs to, imo, not be brought into hellcheer land because, again, hellcheer is fictional and characters are not real people and real people are not characters

[autobotmedic]

[ audino, zangoose, arcanine, and possibly a marowak just because if he found a sad cubone weeping for its mother he could Not just ignore it. other party slots reserved for rescue or emergency adaptation situations.

[crossrole-undertaleau]

MY WALL OF ART (help I am almost out of room)

Lol this is only some of my favorite art (more recent stuff is on the side with the stay determined poster I made)

[criminal-sen]