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snekdood · 1 year ago

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why does it feel like...

ppl: believe victims!!

me: im a victim

ppl: actually u should be able to forgive and understand ur abuser and stop blaming them for being shitty bc they had a sad upbringing, actually, did u know,

as well as

ppl: yeah, fuck snake

someone else: yknow hes accused of being abusive too

ppl: omg yeah its probably 100% true and im not gonna question it further bc I hate him so much and i'm gonna act like its fine he was abused and my hatred and possible attempts to sabotage him is always justified in spite of doing abuser apologia earlier against him

#hmm... kinda seeing a pattern...#smells like to me that... you just wanna make excuses for my abuser #and hate me for making you ever have to consider the idea they're abusive #bc things were so much easier for you when you consumed their content without having to think about it #nostalgia makes a bitch defensive i see i see #when its some shitty comedian guy you dont feel attachment to its whatever. but oh no this person is queer and you like them!!1 #how could anybody that YOU like be problematic?? its only the ppl you dont care as much about that are :/#not defending the comedians just showing you how you're being a selective ass hypocrite #at this point this applies to at least 2 abusers of mine.#wait no. make that three. im horrible and irredeemable for the crime of. calling someone out on their behavior.#they're all forgivable and their actions can be excused because... you dont want to believe me?#or you for some reason decided it didn't effect me that badly bc you hate me?#fuck off #just be honest. you don't believe me and even if you did you dont care what happens to me bc i dared call out your fave #thats really it.#you dont *like* thinking about the morality of it all. you for some reason thought it would be safe amongst queer ppl #i hate to tell you but theres shitty abusive people everywhere. unfortunately you wont be able to escape them just bc you hide in queer #spaces. trust me! i learned that the hard traumatizing way!#so no you do actually have to think about it still. never are you gonna find a space where you can toss away critical thinking.#i've always been paranoid about being raped and always hid inside bc of it. one of the first times i come out of my shell i do it bc i thin #i might actually be able to trust ppl since they weren't like the other ppl who abused me. low and behold #for one my abuser is just like the other ppl who abused me and just hid it #two i did totally get sexually abused! and whether you wanna acknowledge that or not based on how inconvenient you find that truth #doesnt stop it from being true mother fucker.

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