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hey selfshippers who are self-conscious about your weight: you’re literally your f/o’s type. swear to god, they told me themself
if you admit to them you’re insecure about your body they’d just be like “?????? Love, I’m so glad you trust me enough to talk to me about stuff like that! But… I literally don’t see what’s wrong? You’re perfect?”
none of that “But baby I can look past your physical flaws because you’re a wonderful person and I love you for your personality!” BS in response HONEY NO! I mean they *do* love your personality BUT THEY ALSO THOUGHT YOUR BODY WAS PERFECT THE WHOLE TIME!
#sorry i have a PET PEEVE with those ‘your f/o doesn’t care about your weight they love you *anyways*’ imagines#‘ANYWAYS’??? bitch they love THAT i’m fat#not IN SPITE of it#f/o community#self shipping#self ship#f/o#self ship community#f/o x s/i#romantic f/o#imagine your f/o#f/o positivity#self ship positivity#f/o imagines
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Can I just say how happy I am that we’re going to get Ed making friends with a bunny? Because that means he might finally get over his cruelty to animals (i.e. his worst quality that nearly stopped me from being an Ed fan).
In S1, we find out he made Fang kill his dog, we see him brutalize a snake, and we see him making a turtle and crab fight (only to later get their heads cut off). Him being kind to a bunny is actually a pretty significant step for him! Yay!
…Also the animal thing was standing in the way of Ed being a Disney princess, which you just know he could be otherwise…
#Edward teach#Blackbeard#OFMD#our flag means death#ofmd season 2#ofmd spoilers#I know Ed does other bad things too#but I love Blackhands BECAUSE of their horribly toxic failmarriage#not in spite of it
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Mildly annoyed that the number of deeply dubious takes I’ve seen recently have made me criticise the Fëanorians so much. I LOVE my poor tragic tortured murderers ok. They’re fascinating and complex and their fall from grace is so compelling to me. But let! them! be! complex! Let them be awful monstrous self-aware killers who can commit war crimes in the morning and then repent them bitterly in the afternoon! (This mostly applies to my two faves, of course. There’s no evidence the younger ones did much repenting.) Trying to justify their deeds just strips them of everything that makes them interesting as characters – like does “poor little meow meow” even mean anything to you??
#silmarillion#the line of miriel#keeping “fëanorian apologist” on my bio bc I AM one#they’re fascinating BECAUSE of what they do#not in spite of it
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I love to think that Aemond would be a fairly decent father by Westeros standards. He’d definitely be the type to take his children hiking or flying and just do field trips with them which would be considered unusual in their society
Yeah I’m headcanoning that one of Aemond’s love languages is quality time. It doesn’t always go as planned but I do think it would be important to him to actually be around his children and interact with their hobbies/interest. Sometimes it def gives Alicent in ep 6 when young Helaena is talking about bugs 😭😭 but at the end day he wants them to at least know he will be there regardless.
Baelor with riding and training
The twins pick up their mom’s interest in painting. Like sewing, singing.. all the hobbies of most ladies in the realm
And Gerald.. he’s just an odd little boy. But his father will be the first to hear him out!
#his kids are kind of strange but myrah is also strange and he thinks she slays bc of it#not in spite of it#and he feels the same way about his kids 🥺🫶🏽#fcc asks#the way I’m tagging this all fcc when this stuff will happen in life with you#anyway… we will get there when we get there
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to the "aros can still date! we can still feel love!" crowd - get well soon. the exclusionists will never accept you no matter how willing you are to throw the rest of us under the bus.
why do you need validation from people who hate you. why are you begging for scraps like a dog.
It's always "aros can still date!" "aros can still be in (any type of non-romantic or romantic) relationships!" "aros aren't heartless!" "aros can still love in different ways!"
Well, sure, you do you.
But not all of us. A lot of us are *completely* non-partnering. There's loveless aros. Aplatonic aros. Hell, even heartless is a label some aros use!
We don’t need to do anything to "replace" the romantic relationships we don’t have. People can be completely happy alone! Without a partner! (Shocking, I know!)
I'm just a bit tired of all the amatonormativity I still see under some of the trending aro-positivity posts...
#aromantic#loveless#nonpartnering#amatonormativity#learning to enjoy my own company was the greatest gift I ever gave myself#I am happy because I am a nonpartnering aro#not in spite of it
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cant tell you how bad it feels to constantly tell other artists to come to tumblr, because its the last good website that isn't fucked up by spoonfeeding algorithms and AI bullshit and isn't based around meaningless likes
just to watch that all fall apart in the last year or so and especially the last two weeks
there's nowhere good to go anymore for artists.
edit - a lot of people are saying the tags are important so actually, you'll look at my tags.
#please dont delete your accounts because of the AI crap. your art deserves more than being lost like that #if you have a good PC please glaze or nightshade it. if you dont or it doesnt work with your style (like mine) please start watermarking #use a plain-ish font. make it your username. if people can't google what your watermark says and find ur account its not a good watermark #it needs to be central in the image - NOT on the canvas edges - and put it in multiple places if you are compelled #please dont stop posting your art because of this shit. we just have to hope regulations will come slamming down on these shitheads#in the next year or two and you want to have accounts to come back to. the world Needs real art #if we all leave that just makes more room for these scam artists to fill in with their soulless recycled garbage #improvise adapt overcome. it sucks but it is what it is for the moment. safeguard yourself as best you can without making #years of art from thousands of artists lost media. the digital world and art is too temporary to hastily click a Delete button out of spite
#not art#but important#please dont delete your accounts because of the AI crap. your art deserves more than being lost like that#if you have a good PC please glaze or nightshade it. if you dont or it doesnt work with your style (like mine) please start watermarking#use a plain-ish font. make it your username. if people can't google what your watermark says and find ur account its not a good watermark#it needs to be central in the image - NOT on the canvas edges - and put it in multiple places if you are compelled#please dont stop posting your art because of this shit. we just have to hope regulations will come slamming down on these shitheads#in the next year or two and you want to have accounts to come back to. the world Needs real art#if we all leave that just makes more room for these scam artists to fill in with their soulless recycled garbage#improvise adapt overcome. it sucks but it is what it is for the moment. safeguard yourself as best you can without making#years of art from thousands of artists lost media. the digital world and art is too temporary to hastily click a Delete button out of spite
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This just in, fictional media doesn't exist in a vacuum and can actually reflect irl anxieties. Next at 6.
#yeah I just saw a post#tbfair the post itself ended on a humorous ish note so it's fine but the notes gods the notes#It's not a gotcha to go 'well aCtUaLLy I wOuLdN't' without examining a wider context#anyway the reason stories of eternal life reflect on the grief of losing friends over time is BECAUSE#in our short lives we do experience grief over losing friends#not in SPITE of it#it's not a case of 'well immortal one you're not special we also lose loved ones'#it's a case of 'what does this work of fiction explore about the human fucking condition'#you can disagree with the premise that immortality is torturous and argue that the fleetingness is part of the beauty carpe diem etc#you can absolutely think that the pros of hypothetical eternal life overweigh the cons#you can also be bored with the fact immortality is always treated so dramatically#but gods please stop the bad faith analysis#carrot has an opinion
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I drew Asian percabeth lol
Every time some racist loser complains about how my Percy and Annabeth “aren’t book accurate,” I will design a different version out of spite (and bc it’s fun 🥰)
So fuck it, Annabeth’s Indian and Percy is Korean
#I love character design 😃#fueled by spite#thank u to that one twt user for the idea#I can’t see ur tweets anymore bc u went priv I think but thank u#my art#fan art#artists on tumblr#percy jackson#pjo#hoo#heroes of olympus#annabeth chase#riordanverse#percabeth#percabeth fanart
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HAPPY GAY
#I didn’t want to post this but it took me 10 hours because I couldn’t get Crowley’s pose#I hate it but spite will win in the end#good omens#art#illustration#my art#aziraphale#crowley#ineffable husbands#good omens fanart#practice#pride#gay#asexual win bottles#Crowley’s gender-fluid pin#aziraphales agender pin#they get their own tags
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not loving myself in spite of it
but *because* of it
romanticise your body
your trans body
your disabled body
your fat body
everything about yourself that you've been told to hate
love yourself in spite of it
the way you exist is amazing
#not solely of course#but in part:#i love my body *for* its transness#its disabledness#not in spite of it
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Good morning 🍎📻
#it’s radioapple week on twitter#idk how many I’ll be able to do#but I got a few in mind for some of the days!#hazbin hotel#radioapple#hazbin hotel fanart#my doods#liked by creator#alastor#lucifer hazbin#Lucifer Morningstar#lucifer gets sick of seeing alastor's gross breakfast#he makes him a meal#smiley face eggs and bacon#alastor *offended* prepares a gourmet breakfast out of spite#this has an unforeseen effect of awakening alastor's love for cooking#they begin to cook in the kitchen together#radioapple week
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The cult of...Danny Fenton?
So! Way back when Danny first moved into his new neighborhood in Gotham, he had some trouble controlling his Powers. The different Types and Levels of Ectoplasm in the air when compared to Amity had thrown off his control.
He was used to being in places where his Ectoplasm meshed well with the Atmosphere, like a Water Balloon in a Pool, but in Gotham that analogy would be closer to a Water Balloon in the sewers. It was too different from what he was used to to fully control his Powers.
So it's understandable that he messed up a few times and his neighbors found out about his Abilities.
They took it well at first, Danny wasn't going to go Rogues or anything, and he never used them maliciously, but eventually they got curious.
They asked what his limits were, how he got them in the first place, and what the hell the Ghost Zone was. The answers "None Really", "I died and was reborn", and "A Collective of every Afterlife at once" did spark some interesting reactions from them.
Most importantly, a few of them joked about him being an Eldritch God that they needed to worship. He was good enough friends with them that at that point they felt comfortable pranking eachother, so they did just that.
Danny woke up one day on his birthday, and saw all of his friends and neighbors surrounding the makeshift Throne they had made and put him on while he was asleep. The entire day they chanted stuff like "The Great One requires Ms. Smiths Apple Pie for his day of birth!" And "The Great One Wishes for us to sing the Ritual Song! Happy Birthday to You! Happy Birth-"
After his birthday, they kept up the joke.
It didn't help that his powers had evolved Again! And now he could bestow abilities onto his friends. The jokes they made about their God granting them Supernatural Powers to rule the world with were insufferable.
Then, one day while he was just resting at home, watching a movie on his TV, he felt a Pull at his Core. The same kind of Pull whenever he was being summoned. But why would they summon hi- Oh Shit! It's Mr Jenkins Party today! He was supposed to meet them at the Warehouse they used for special events an Hour Ago!
He quickly accepted the Summoning, but was met with a suprising sight. His Neighbors all tied up in a pile to his right, a spilled table of party food to his left, and right in front of him, Batman and his Family watching him with wary eyes.
Slowly, he opened his mouth. "...so, did you come for the party or..."
#Dpxdc#Dp x dc#Dcxdp#Dc x dp#Danny Phantom#Dc#Dcu#Danny is Worshipped by a Cult#It started out as a Joke from his friends#Then he started giving them powers and they decided to take it to the next level#They told their work friends that they were in a cult now#They showed off the minor powers Danny gave them#And slowly they inducted more people into the Danny Fenton Cult (most of them knew it was a joke on a friend)(some were serious)#They were planning on using the Party to introduce Danny to all his new “Followers” and get a laugh out of it#Unfortunately the Bats hears about a new Cult forming and went to go stop it#The Cult succeeded in Summoning their God#And he's just a Guy.#Not Phantom. He's in his Human Form and looked like the most average guys you've ever seen.#The Bats eventually leave with an order to them to never Form a Cult again#The Cult feels that Batman is oppressing their right to Free Religion and begin to make the Cult even BIGGER out of Spite#Danny might need to step in soon...#...but Batman did beat up his friends...and he did technically try to revoke their right to free assembly and religion...#...Maybe he should just let this play out...
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Hey I don’t know you but I love you and I hope everything is still going well<3
I have a community now by the way
I have a healthy friend group , we laugh and talk, really talk, we hangout often
I go to a class monthly, I actually talk to and connect to people there
I go to therapy monthly to and my therapist is always so happy hearing about all the great progress I'm making
I'm learning that I'm wanted and loved and worth something because I'm weird not in spite of it
I'm letting go of so much shame and guilt I held for so long it almost became me
I'm talking to my parents more, real meaningful sometimes hard conversations, and it's never the end of the world
I'm eating better, and I don't mean dieting or traditionally "healthier" I mean I'm trying new foods, eating food that makes me happy, letting it make me happy, I'm eating more veggies cause they Taste good and I like them and not cause I have to
I'm taking care of myself and using my supports and taking medicine when I hurt instead of forcing myself to push through so much pain
I'm coming out and it's going so well and I feel like I can breathe finally
I'm not crying every single day anymore
And ya I know it won't always be this good
I know I'll always struggle with my health, physical and mental
I know there will be bad days and hard things to do
But I also know I'll make it through them, that I have people to lean on and I'll be ok
I wish me from like, a year ago could see me
We're making it, in a lot of ways we already have
You'd be so Proud of us
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I know that Nintendo gets a lot of hate, but honestly, I think they should be hated even more.
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favorite hobby when I'm driving is to catch someone trying to climb up my back bumper while I'm going a completely reasonable speed and just slowly take my foot off the gas. you seem upset, brother. why don't we slow down and enjoy the view awhile
#if you won't maintain enough space to stop if I have to slam on brakes then I will just have to go slow enough that it won't kill us both.#kisses 💜#goes double if you have your brights on#some guy tried to tailgate me with brights on in the rain at night a while ago and I was like beloved we are going 20 until you stop that.#like at that point it's not even spite it's literally that I can't see to safely go any faster than that#lights off back off go around or accept the pace I've set for us#I don't like driving. also.
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My understanding of evil, age 0-10: MY NAME IS SMOG SMOKESLY AND I RUN THE POLLUTION FACTORY, IT PRODUCES POLLUTION!!! MUWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
My understanding of evil, in my teens: You can't really boil things down to good and evil. People are complicated. Everyone is the hero of their own story, and someone who seems evil to you is actually doing their best from their own perspective. If you could walk a mile in their shoes, you'd understand. There is no such thing as evil.
My understanding of evil, in my twenties: Look, it's basically just tribalism. We are all necessarily thrust into competition with one another. There are always going to be winners and losers. Whining about evil is just being upset that you lost the game.
My understanding of evil, in my thirties: MY NAME IS SMOG SMOKESLY AND I RUN THE POLLUTION FACTORY, IT PRODUCES POLLUTION!!! MUWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
#one of the hardest pills to swallow growing up#was understanding that the world actually isn't that complicated#it really is just greed#power-lust#cruelty#and hate#that are ruining society#people are making the world worse out of spite#not because they get something out of it#but because they get off on seeing you lose something#evil really is uncomplicated and simple like a saturday morning cartoon#it has been all along#it only pretends to have nuance#because the illusion of complexity makes it marketable to new suckers
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