#noobselfship

[canongf]

Hey!! I'm finally back after a long hiatus! Glad to see that you're still here! (I need to make a new intro post lmao).

mijol!!! welcome back!!! i hope you had a good hiatus, it's so good to hear from you and have you around again!!! 🖤

[canongf-archive]

Heyo friend!

1st, Happy anniversary to you and Bucky!

2ndly, if you have any advice, I'd love to hear it about Jamie and I. In his canon, he does some questionable things, and I know that, when I put myself in there, I do a lot more than he does and I'm the breadwinner of the family that we have. However, he wanted to run for governor of Montana, only to find out that his Dad [John] and the current governor are endorsing me for the role. I know it hurts him, but I really want to go for it...

Do you think he'd support me? I hate the idea of fighting with him over something small.

[Feel like I need to add for reasons that this is for self ship purposes in case it leaves the community of Tumblr but idk if it will]

hi hi hi !!!!! 💗

i don't think he'd support you, i know he'd support you!!! you're you!!! you're the love of his life!!! and at the end of the day, you are the most important thing to him. so if this is something that you wanna do, if this is something that's important to you and this is something you think you can be successful in, then of course he's gonna be behind you the whole way. of course he is!!! his love for you is so much bigger than any job or position!!! you've got nothing to worry about!!!!! go for it!!! 💗

thank you so so so much for the anniversary wishes!!! bucky and i appreciate you so much and we wish you all the best!!! 💗💗💗

[softtransbf]

Ok, so feel free not to do this if you don't want to but:

Jack Joyce, Paul Serene and I have been friends since we were kids and it was basically a "They're gonna get married one day," sorta friendship. We spilt for a while during college, and it was Paul that ended up bringing us all together again.

Its a...friends to lovers sorta thing and I love it.

I'm more than happy to, especially because I love that dynamic so much!

My first thought was the ultimate 'reuniting with your childhood sweetheart' song, Think Of Me from Phantom of the Opera:

"Think of all the things we've shared and seen- don't think about the way things might have been." // "It seems so long ago, how young and innocent we were. [They] may not remember me, but I remember [them]."

But because that song's vibe is very much not for everyone, I'm also gonna give you my favorite friends-to-lovers song, Queen's You're My Best Friend:

Send me your f/o and a little bit about them/your relationship, and I’ll give you a song from my Spotify that reminds me of them/you!

[t-citurnity-moved]

That's not the way it seems at all! I also understand how rough the community may seem (I'm mentally ill, chubby). And I'm sorry if anyone has treated you poorly. No one deserves that, especially in a place where we all come to get away from irl problems. Just know your fos love you so so much. I hope your day/night/evening is going well too.

dude,,,,,, you’re gonna make me cry you’re so nice,,,,, ;;;;;;;;;;;;

yeah parts of the community are just....... straight up not kind at all.... and it sucks cause there ARE some good people. i guess it’s just kind of a disappointment that the bad people really ruin it for everyone else? i know the people who are rude are probably just a vocal minor part of the community but like.... doesn’t make being hated on nor hearing stories of others people hated on hurt any less you know? like i can get why people want to stay in their own little bubble when, especially lately, the community seems to really be, uh.... negative.

not like negative as in vents and stuff - that’s okay and i dont blame people who vent their frustrations or issues on their blogs because i do the same thing, but what with anons out there being rude as hell toward people, it’s hard to find the good in things. it makes me so tempted to leave cause like... why bother any more yknow? like why stick around in a community that seems to be tumbling downhill except for a select few that are good?

idk maybe im just being really dramatic LMAO cause im kinda known for that at times i guess, idk.

but yeah i’m here if you wanna talk about anything that you’re going through! you’re right when you say the community seems pretty rough so if you’ve got any problems or anything you wanna vent abt im here. :3 im also cool if you just wanna ramble about f/os lmao, i love hearing people talk about their loves or found family.

[mycelium-bf]

So, I'm back on my si who is a mutant adopted by Warren Worthington really young so she goes by Worthington even though she's a Stane by blood bs again and was wondering if I could just reblog this and gush? I hate to be annoying, which is why I always ask

yeah of course!!! I JUST saw your reblog from last night I'm sorry 🥺🥺 but yeah go right ahead!!!

[sxxela]

I built this mini medieval tower in my realm, I'm probably gonna do daily updates on random builds I add since I play 24/7, some suggestions would be nice, I'm running out of ideas :(

[rexscanonwife]

Commission for @noobselfship! ♡ Thanks so much for your support honey!! 

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[canongf-archive]

It's been so so long, so I must bring you more Jamie Dutton and I. Especially since I'm trying to write an Au where I became the AG of Montana instead of him and just...everything is going great and...and yeah.

I'm just needing to throw ideas off of the wall and gush about Jamie and aaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh

!!! OOH what a good AU idea !!!!! 💗

that sounds like it'll be so good!!!!! it's always so fun to change big things like that and explore all the different possibilities!!! i'm so glad that it's going well!!! i have no doubts that it's great now and it'll be even better when it's finished!!! my ask box is always open to share and to gush any time!!!!! 💗

[devizakura]

Commission for @noobselfship

[t-citurnity-moved]

I know we haven't talked before, but I would miss you if you deleted. And I feel like you should go ahead and f/o those vampires. [I have several f/os (romantic, platonic, and familial) who are played by actors myself.] I dont think anyone would hate you for it [I know I wouldn't] and you should love who you want to love.

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i have a long story about why im so, uh, hesitant to f/o characters played by actors but basically it culminates to getting a lot of flack for it which kinda made me feel bad and now im just really anxious???

but,,,, thank u,,,, for your support. i dont mind people who f/o characters played by actors, because i 100% understand why they would love those characters just as much as people love animated / video game characters, but for me personally im just hyper nervous about it!!!!

idk i dont exactly know if it was hate or not, but i know people got really upset over people who f/o “realistic” characters, in a sense i guess. and it became a whole discussion about whether or not that was “okay” to do or not??? (and this next part is kinda speculation as to why) cause there’s obviously a distinct line between actors and characters they play but idk i think the whole deal was about whether a person was f/oing a character like that because of the character themselves or because of the actor that plays them i guess?

and im just kinda nervous about people coming at me for it because like.... i’ve had f/os like that before and after getting some criticism for it i just kinda.... phased them out over the years oofies.

but yeah i’m a bit wary of which characters i f/o because i dont want to upset anyone at all in the slightest.

in terms of deleting idk i just... im very wary about how the community operates these days, not so much way back when i first joined. especially with how a lot of people similar to myself (LGBT+, chubby, etc) seem to get a lot of hate in the community, so im like......... also really nervous about that. even just hearing stories about that makes me really kinda.... re-evaluate how i view the community? cause i know there are good people and it’s hard to do anything about rude people when you don’t know how they are, but the idea just turns me away from the community in general, oof.

gbdifgbdfi i don’t mean to ramble at all but yeah thank u sm for your support. i will take your words of kindness to heart. i hope your day / night / what have you is going well. ❤️

[mycelium-bf]

I have a new crush...Aaron Hotchner from Criminal Minds. Help me! Hes so cute, and I'm so worried that he really doesn't like me too and all I want to do is show him love so much and care for him and be there for him. You know? And I want to show him that I can take care of his son Jack, too. I just want to be there for him, but I'm so worried that he doesn't like me and I'm so self conscious because of how I look and AHHHHH

HELLO!!!! I haven't watched criminal minds (I keep meaning to though) BUT I can guarantee he loves you!!!!

it doesn't matter if he has a "type", you're his type!!! go after that crush man!!! get that lovin!!!

[deviships]

Commission for @noobselfship

[rexscanonwife]

Commission for @noobselfship! ❤ thank you for the support honey, it was fun working with the old timey clothes!!

Commissions are currently open, DM me for details!

[one-winged-dreams]

I was tagged by @firebird-inkheart :3c

We’re snooping on your playlist. Put your music library on shuffle and tell us the first ten songs that pop up. Then tag your victims.

Face My Fears - Utada Hikaru

I’m Not Okay (I Promise) - My Chemical Romance

Irresistible - Fall Out Boy

Issues - Escape The Fate

Desire - Meg Myers

Hit And Run - LOLO

Personal Jesus - Mindless Self Indulgence

Make Me Wanna Die - The Pretty Reckless

Fade To Black - Zeromancer

Praying - Kesha

I tag @ginari @noobselfship @kryssiesbookofselfinserts @luvsailor @goldenworldsabound

[canongf-archive]

Paul, Jack, and I congratulat you and Bucky on your engagement! We're both so happy for you!

I hope this brings many good things your way! Congrats to you both!

Signed, with [platonic] love,

Mijol, Jack, and Paul Serene ��🤍🤍

EEE thank you SO much @noobselfship, Paul, and Jack!!!!!

your support means the WORLD to us!!!!! we are so lucky to have such wonderful people in our lives like you three!!! and the fact that you even offered up Monarch Mansion... what did we ever do to deserve you!!!!! 💗

[t-citurnity-moved]

You have one (1) permission to gush about any f/o you so pick! Go! Have fun and have a great day!

Dude... one whole permission? Damn, that’s a lot... but if you’re sure.

Bad gush under the cut? I dunno, I’m not good at this kinda thing, oops.

Grøh.

He’s a fucking edgelord and that’s 100% fine with me. But beyond that, he seems pretty fuckin’ goal-oriented and he is absolutely lethal in a fight, which is, tbh, really attractive.

He’s also really handsome? Like, he kinda gives pretty boy vibes if he were soft, but he’s not, so it’s??? Paradoxical?

I mean look at him!

He’s so pretty, I want to CRY.

He could stab me and I would thank him.