#nondysphoric nonbinary positivity

[pwurrz]

growing up is realizing that those people depicted in the 'trender' drawings that truscum made are super fucking cool.

like holy shit, you're stargender? you like your chest and wear dresses as a man? you like dyeing your hair with super colorful patterns? you use bun/vampself???? you love and celebrate being transgender? you're nondysphoric? so fucking rad

[transmascposi]

A lot of this positivity just feels like a progressive way to detrans trans men if I'm honest

"It's okay to wear makeup and to wear women's clothes and to wear panties and to be girly and to not transition and to have big female boobs and to embrace your natural girly vagina and also normalize not transitioning and also having dysphoria is actually just internalized transphobia and you should just accept your natural body!!!"

Like, just say you want me to be a woman at this point

No.

First of all, you're putting words in my mouth and you're greatly exaggerating. I never said anything about "big female boobs", i never said "girly vagina", i never said you should accept your "natural" body. I never posted about nondysphoric trans people, as far as I can remember.

I'm a gay nonbinary trans man and I'm not traditionally masculine. I write a lot of posts about embracing traditionally feminine things because I'm that way and I know how difficult that is while being trans. I want people to know that it's okay to not follow gender roles when you're trans. Being super masculine is just not the reality for many transmascs. For example, I'd love to have a dick. But phalloplasty with results that i'd be satisfied with is not only not available to me, I'm concerned about getting my reproductive organs removed in case there is a shortage of T and I end up not having access to sex hormones, which can be dangerous for your health. The world is nuanced.

If you want to be completely masculine, that's fine. Masculinity is okay. Masculinity is beautiful. So write your own post or politely request a post from me. But don't expect that from other transmascs. Don't make your dysphoria our problem. This is what we're trying to change – the notion that vulvas and boobs are inherently female and feminine, because they aren't. We're doing this partly to ease our dysphoria.

Transphobes hate trans people no matter if we "look our gender" or not. There will always be someone hating if we're open about being trans. So stop taking it out on your people and start loving other trans people. We're stronger together with all of our differences.

[enbypanposi]

You don’t deserve to be misgendered because of your presentation. If you present masculinely, you don’t deserve to be called a man. You are nonbinary. You deserve to be treated and called nonbinary. If you present femininely, you don’t deserve to be called a woman. You are nonbinary. You deserve to be treated and called nonbinary.

There is no excuse for misgendering. You never, ever deserve to be misgendered. Even if you use binary pronouns. Even if you use neopronouns. Even if you don’t have dysphoria. Even if you present binary. Even if you use complex labels and terms. Even if you are closeted. You do not deserve being misgendered.

[theswisscheeserag]

I'm bigender. One gender for each boob.

[guiltyidealist]

Guys I caught a special Pikachu, it happily points at people with valid genders and pronouns that deserve to be respected regardless of all other factors

[xqueerneurosisx]

Just so y’all know:

Having things like, “all/any pronouns,” and/or “all/any neopronouns,” in the bio/pinned is an absolute fucking power move, and very cash money of y’all who do that.

[2ulk]

Nonbinary is not always the lack of gender

Nonbinary is not always the lack of gender

Nonbinary is not always the lack of gender

!!LISTEN TO NONBINARY PEOPLE!!

Some nonbinary individuals may be genderless in one way or another, but that does not apply to every nonbinary person!

Nonbinary is simply not 100% a binary gender, you may be partially connected to one, or have an alignment, you may have connection to BOTH, you may have connection to more genders than a person on the binary can comprehend But to say that nonbinary is always genderless is to spread misinformation, enbyphobia, and to ignore nonbinary individuals who you CAN NOT speak over in this discussion.

This is not a hate post, this isn't an argument nor is it intended to be seen as such, you can't cherry-pick which nonbinary people you respect.

You're skeptic? Fine, but don't disrespect enbies, you can't hide enbyphobia behind a label. Respect all enbies, or respect none. Their gender is theirs, and it's not hurting you, they've spent more time trying to understand it than you could ever understand, and they're finding labels to describe their experience.

[batinred]

nonbinary people are nonbinary 💛🤍💜🖤

no matter the pronouns

no matter the sexuality

no matter the weight

no matter the neurodivergence

no matter the body

no matter the disability

no matter the age

no matter the amount of dysphoria

no matter the skin tone

no matter the religion

nonbinary people are nonbinary 💛🤍💜🖤

[midnight-magibxy]

x3 an outfit i out together quick lol! i like it aa

《he/him》

[wooblesnyamain]

Trans people being happy with themselves is the ultimate form of revolution.

It's hard to be happy with yourself in a world that wants you to hate yourself, a world that harasses you into hating yourself.

Being happy is an act of bravery and strength, that is not to say those who are unhappy with themselves are weak.

Every trans person is brave in their own right, but fighting back and being happy regardless of the hate and cruelty is beautiful.

[arovaricious]

hello yes I'd like to say that i love and support all of my nondysphoric and low/minimal dysphoric trans siblings

keep on being awesomely trans and if you're able to give yourself some self love and/or care right now, do that bc you deserve it!!!

[genderqueerpositivity]

(Image description: a background with stars and pink, orange, and blue stripes; white and blue text reads "you are stronger than your dysphoria".)

[enbypanposi]

Hey nondyphoric enbies

You’re real. You’re real, you’re valid, you’re nonbinary. No one can take that from you. You’re not a trender, you’re not faking, you’re nonbinary. Full stop.

[pastel-trendercore]

[guiltyidealist]

It's okay to be trans YOUR way.

-> It's okay if your transness may relate to past events or traumas. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay if there's no cause behind your transness. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay if your transness stems solely from having the disorder Gender Dysphoria. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "cured" or "converted" to your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay if your transness stems only from gender incongruence and not from Gender Dysphoria or outright gender euphoria. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay if you must choose or create niche labels to best describe your gender. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay if you know that you aren't your AGAB, but don't exactly know what that means for you or where your gender falls. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay to experiment with labels and pronouns-- even niche or new ones. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay not to conform to the gender norms -- names, pronouns, clothes, behaviors, hobbies, roles, mannerisms, etc -- of your gender (it's okay not to "try to pass"). It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to your AGAB or that you are your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay if you know you're nonbinary, but don't know anything more specific than that; you don't have to. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to you a binary gender. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay if you're nonbinary and lean one way or another in alignment. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to a binary gender. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay not to change your name, pronouns, activities, body, or style upon realizing you're or coming out as trans. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

-> It's okay to use the bathroom of your AGAB. It doesn't invalidate or warrant bigotry or misgendering against you. It doesn't mean you can or should be "converted" to your AGAB. You're still valid, you're still trans, and you still deserve to be treated with respect.

There isn't a right or wrong way to be any gender.

It's okay to be trans YOUR way.

[dynamopsychism]

A reminder!

Dysphoric nonbinary people

Nondysphoric nonbinary people

Nondysphoric binary trans people

Genderfluid people

Agender people

Nonbinary lesbians

Nonbinary gay men

And anyone not cis, regardless whether or not they experience dysphoria

Have just the same amount of right to call themselves transgender as someone like me, a binary trans man who experiences severe dysphoria.