#no caption but these are from her most recent insta live

[fandomfucker]

Do you think you could do one for Rhea were it’s all about how she posts about her girlfriend on social media? Like she posts about her girl and the fans just go wild for it? Can make it fluff, smut, whatever takes your fancy. Could be headcannons if you want? ❤️‍🔥🌸

YES!! I love this one cause I literally think about these things all the time. Doing headcannons so I can fit more in🫡

Lemme know if yall want a part 2!

I've said it before, I'll say it again; Rhea loves doing TikTok trends with you

Whether you're running into her and she swings you around or your eyes are inches away from her tits, she loves them and she loves the reactions ya'll get from the fans

She constantly reposts fanart of not just the two of you, but fanart of just you

There's even some of you and her dogs which she commissioned the og artists to paint on a canvas so she could put them up around the house

And edits of course

She lives for the edits people make of you

You're not super active on twitter however Rhea will always find some way to flirt with you on every single post you make, no matter what its about. A winking emoji, some heart eyes, or the filthiest implications

and the mosherz always go batshit when she does it

she also reposts ever single one of your posts to hype you up no matter what it is

She also loves to just take pictures/videos of you when you're completely unaware and just totally natural because those are the things she loves most about you

Every milestone post has a caption so long most people dont even bother to finish reading it

of course its all about how much she loves you and how proud she is of you but omg its so long

she will bully the fuck out of anyone leaving even the slightest mean comment

like to the point they delete their account

she just loves to show you off every chance she gets

because you're hers and she's yours and everyone needs to know that

every thirst pic/video she posts goes to you first so you're always the first to see them

You also get bonus content thats not posted😉

sometimes you'll be in one of her tiktoks or thirst posts from Raw (or a ppv) and the caption is always something super raunchy that makes the fans freak out for the next few weeks

or until the next post

You've been obsessed with the Harley Quinn show on Max recently so for Halloween you made Rhea dress up as the Poison Ivy to your Harley Quinn

You won best costume and there was tons of fanart made of the two of you as them

You like to do face masks and you wanted Rhea to join you but she'd only do it if you would agree to do a little photoshoot with her with them on for her insta

She also took a little polaroid of you to keep in her wallet

On that note, when you revealed that Rhea keeps one of those mini photo albums for polaroids in her carry-on (no matter where she goes) FILLED with polaroids of you, you and the dogs, or the occasional ones of the two of you, or all four of you, Twitter blew up

it was all anyone could talk about for weeks

"The cutest thing ever!!😍 Rhea loves her SO MUCH😭"

SHE. LOVES. TO. SHOW. YOU. OFF.

She has "Belongs to Y/F/N" in her bio on all socials

Constantly taking pictures of you because "you're just so beautiful, babe"

The fans are in love with how in love you are

Like its a fairytale and they're living for it

She constantly talks about you in interviews and always reposts those clips specifically so that just in case people didn't watch/listen to that particular instance of her gushing about you, now they have

The fans cosplay as the two of you just like they do with Rhea and Dom

you are THE it couple

Everyone wishes they were you

When you got engaged, you changed your name in your insta bio to Mrs. Ripley and the fans actually went insane

like to the point that the official WWE accounts got involved

[kirisaki-daichi-scenarios]

How'd you think kiridai, haizaki, imayoshi, nash and jason would use insta? (I know it isn't popular in Japan but still)

Hanamiya Makoto

his account used to be public but he made it private after getting fed up of having to delete comments like “you scumbag you broke my friend’s ribs rot in hell” from his posts which were just cute pictures of the kiridai cat (yes i’m bringing this ancient headcanon back) 

so now he only allows follows from people he knows and trusts which means literally just the kiridai team, imayoshi, maybe a couple classmates, and his mum 

and then within that circle, he has the other kiridai boys on his close friends list and they’re the ones who see the stories that ‘reveal his true nature’ 

like hanamiya sees that someone who played against him has made a post about their journey going through shoulder rehab (no guessing who gave them their shoulder issues), so he reposts that post to his close friends story with the caption “time for a round two?”

meanwhile the posts his mum sees are just pictures of the kiridai cat or pages from some books he’s been reading recently

(n.b. hanamiya’s mum very rarely uses instagram. she only uses the account to keep up with family members, and only made it in the first place because hanamiya had just made his and she wanted to make sure he didn’t get cyberbullied. 

meanwhile her son is the one who has been repeatedly suspended from instagram for bullying.)

Hara Kazuya

has a lot of accounts and if not for the fact that he has basketball and other hobbies he would be chronically online

so there’s one main account which has just a couple photos that make him look cool (a photo of him dunking, or him drumming with good lighting) and occasionally he’ll post a picture on his stories of the city under a dawn sky and a note of the time so everyone knows he’s out grinding streetball at stupid o’clock. 

the main account is his only public account and he only really has it so that, if anyone (family friends, basketball players from other schools) search him up, those curated posts are all they’ll see. he only posts that occasional story in order to see if anyone’s been stalking him.

then there’s the finsta which is what he’s most active on. he posts several times a week on this account and the posts are all either 1) shitposts and memes that make little to no sense, 2) pictures of fellow kiridai members at very bad angles, or 3) photos from matches that he wants to mock, like a picture of kiyoshi’s face in agony as his knee got broken with the caption “tfw tanaka-sensei sets a pop quiz.”

and finally hara has his assortment of troll accounts, most of which he uses to pretend to be a high school girl living in the general Tokyo area so that he can catfish classmates when he’s bored. 

hara has so many of these accounts that he’s created a cinematic universe of his own with elaborate storylines about the tumultuous friendships between these non-existent girls. they’ve become kiridai’s answer to d&d whenever the boys are bored.

plus these catfish accounts have now become strategic. several of the ‘girls’ are in talking stages, and even online relationships with, basketball players from other schools. this means that a) hara can get intel from the players and b) as soon as any important match comes around, he breaks up with/ghosts the guy, in the hope that it’ll make them place worse.

it goes without saying that it was hanamiya who invented this innovative technique of psychological warfare but hara’s the one who puts the hours in - to the point where it would be a little suspicious how well he can pretend to be a teen girl in love if not for the shit-eating grin on his face whenever he goes through his collection of screenshots of messages begging “her” to take them back 

(sidenote - can you imagine how well okamura would fall for this?) 

(i’m thinking of a yandere!okamura x catfish!hara fic…)

Furuhashi Kojiro 

has two Instagram accounts

account number one is the one his teammates/family/friends follow. it’s a private account that he doesn’t use very much apart from liking friends’ posts. he has a few photos on there, but mostly photos of scenery from holidays

account number two is public, with around 10k followers. it’s completely anonymous and no one irl knows he has it. this account posts quite regularly and every post is an aesthetic picture either of his plants or what he’s baked recently. and when i say aesthetic, i mean aesthetic: the perfect warm lighting and usually some berries or something framing the centrepiece of the photo. 

the captions are usually quite short and wholesome: “making melonpan can be difficult but i find the challenge refreshing” “when the days become stressful, i turn to these larch bonsai to remind myself to stand tall” “i am trying a new macaroon recipe. may it bring great riches.”

he’s also started posting some reels on this account, mostly timelapses of bread rising or plants growing etc

furu uses very few hashtags but somehow still gets super high engagement. his followers adore him and have collectively assumed he’s a fem lesbian living in the countryside somewhere with her beloved girlfriend. (furuhashi naturally never corrects anyone because he wants to keep it anonymous.) the comments are all “cottagecore queen” “i owe all my mental health to you” “the only unproblematic account on Instagram” 

so yeah, on instagram, furu is considered an angel

Jason Silver

this man has not posted a single photo where he is not shirtless

and his stories are like 30% videos from streetball practice and 70% thirst traps which he pretends he’s posting to show his gains... but everyone knows he’s just posting them to try attract the three women who followed him back

his following is around 50% ‘baddies’, 45% nba players, and 5% friends and a few streetballers that he’s played against before

(he follows very few streetballers because he thinks it’s beneath him to follow losers and see how they’re improving. he’s so good at basketball he has no need for that, duh.)

(in reality he has no need to stalk prospective opponents because nash does it for him.)

also actually headcanon that most of jason’s posts are videos of him breaking the hoop while dunking or just generally basketball action shots, because jason can’t pose in front of a camera to save his life

you can’t blame him really - that’s a lot of man to fit in one small lens

Haizaki Shougo

no profile photo, no posts: 100% anonymous account. man just uses his Instagram account to get material to jerk off too - pretty much every single account he follows is of an onlyfans model. (he would still be following some female classmates and kise’s ex girlfriend if not for the fact that they’ve all blocked him.)

in the end, haizaki has no friends to interact with and no aesthetic life he can post about, so why would be bother having a more social instagram

added bonus of the anonymous account is that he can use it to stalk others - and he does like his stalking. 

sometimes he stalks the gom’s accounts, and he tells himself it’s just to make fun of them being desperate for likes or looking pretentious, but really he gets a “what could have been” feeling from scrolling through all the photos (and it hurts -- especially seeing videos of them playing together like back in middle school.)

and sometimes haizaki stalks his fukuda sogo teammates. again, he tells himself it’s just to mock them, and he’ll see photos of them hanging out together and be like “what fucking losers who would want to be seen with them.” but there’s a little pang of loneliness in his heart all the same.

Yamazaki Hiroshi

has had the same instagram account since he was 10 and he never deletes or archives any posts so if you scroll far down enough, you’ll find videos of pre-pubescent him and hara doing ‘parkour’ (literally just jumping over benches and off swings) or those chain posts like “share this with five friends or you’ll be haunted forever.)

zaki’s is a private account with a couple hundred followers - his teammates obviously but also family, cousins, some classmates, some of hara’s catfish accounts, and even a couple fellow high school basketballers from distant enough teams that they somehow haven’t realised that zaki is a member of the infamous kiridai. 

he posts semi-regularly and mostly just very normal, mundane posts - photos from family holidays, a tasty udon noodle bowl he had the other day and maybe the occasional streetball photo (typically with one of the kiridai boys in the frame instead of zaki – zaki’s not a huge fan of photos of himself)

zaki’s feed is mostly hara’s shitposts and also streaming clips from his various video games, and if you do ever see his account in the ‘wild’, it will be him backing up hara’s finsta after hara made a particularly outrageous comment somewhere

because a real friendship takes two people: Person 1 who just stirs shit up, and Person 2 who defends Person 2’s shit-stirring by cursing out every commenter who criticises them

[ingravinoveritas]

I personally think its disgusting of what she posted yet again its all about her and she the reason why micheal keeps trending 4th day oh please he was trending for days before she came in the picture. And for someone who has no career and basically living off her parter who works so hard and been ill with virus the last few days and haven't been able to perform and she post this. Taking the credit for something that has nothing to do with her. He very grateful that she keep him grounded what that suppose to mean ? He was doing better before she came in the picture since he been with her his career have been slowed a little and she probably the reason for it

What do u say ?

Oh, boy. I saw this a little while ago, and all I could think was that the bar is so low at this point--like halfway between the fourth and fifth circles of Hell--and this still somehow falls short.

I know there has been a lot of talk about the t-shirt Anna is wearing (which was a gift from a fan at the stage door of Nye), but for me, the t-shirt is the least concerning part of all this. It's a reference to a quote from Staged (it's the title of a season 1 episode, in fact), and I am sure Michael found it funny. The only problem is that without the context of why it's a joke, it actually just isn't that funny. And it sets the stage for everything else that is happening.

Which brings me to the caption she wrote, which was what primarily caught my attention. The reason Michael is currently trending on Twitter (X, whatever we're calling it) is because of the overwhelmingly positive response to The Assembly, which aired last Friday night. He is receiving a tremendous amount of praise for being on the show, how he spoke to the interviewers, and the respectful and joyous atmosphere that was cultivated on the show. And rather than allude to any of that--not to mention Michael being sick recently, or the trip they went on to Disneyland Paris--Anna made Michael trending on Twitter about her.

That is what stands out to me the most. The idea of "keeping him grounded" that is coming across more like kicking someone when he is already down. That he somehow needs that, and that she would have us believe he is "grateful" to her for, what...comparing him to a loud bird? Repeatedly making fun of his looks and interests without a shred of respect or affection behind it? I'm also confused by the implication (and the irony) that Michael somehow has a large ego that needs to be kept in check when she is the one coming across as self-involved in this Insta story. So, yes. I'm at a bit of loss here.

I just keep thinking of the things she could have said instead. How she could have uplifted Michael, wished him well on returning to the stage tonight after several days' absence, said how she was glad to have spent time with him or taken care of him while he was ill. Just something that would give him a reason to hold his head high. But I guess it might just be easier to convince herself/everyone else that he is smiling if his head is hanging down instead.

I am just glad Michael is out performing again tonight and getting to be on stage and do the thing he truly loves to do. But those are my thoughts, and I'd be glad to hear from my followers about what you think, regardless of whether you agree or disagree...

[magdasabs]

My pleasure and kinda "duty" to tell about fun stuff as a long time Sweden fan ;)

Ok so this was before Julia had met Emma and before she'd signed for then Kopparbergs/Göteborg (the team later became part of Häcken when the club took them in). I think she was the only one left who played for a Stockholm based team. Nattis, Ippe, Anna Oscarsson and Tove Almqvist played for other clubs than AIK, Djurgården and Hammarby. Tove definitely did, she played in Linköping with Magda, Pernille, Frido and Stina among her team mates and then she went to Vittsjö. Ippe left Hammarby for Linköping after season 2017 and Julia left for Gothenburg in the summer transfer window 2018 (yes I googled it lol). So it was probably within this time frame their little travel mishap transpired. It also fits with when Instagram started with stories in 2016. This group was in the 2015 U19 Euro squad that won the gold and they were good friends already then. But it can't have been before 2016 because their little incident was shared in insta stories.

The four of them visited Julia in Stockholm (Johanna wasn't there, probably had a league game or something and Tove's best friend Stina wasn't even in Sweden). They'd went with Ippe to buy a new iPhone. Someone shared a story when they were on the subway train and Ippe unpacked her new phone. She made a huge deal of it of course lmao and was over excited. I kid you not, it was like "Omg omg omg!" and shrieks of excitement and joy from her. Tove sat next to Ippe and almost cried from laughter.

A while later Anna shared a story when they were at a platform and waited for the subway train. It was outdoors and I recognised it as the station Globen near the Globe arena (now named Avicii arena). They were laughing so much they bent forward and held their stomaches. All but Nattis who wasn't the least amused. She could be seen in the background standing with her arms crossed and a annoyed look on her face like "I'm so fucking tired of this bullshit".

Anna could barely speak when she asked Tove to come help her tell what had happened. And what had happened was they'd somehow managed to get on the right subway train - heading in the wrong direction. They didn't notice they were heading in the wrong direction for fifteen (15) minutes. They'd passed several stations before anyone reacted. The most hilarious is that everyone but Tove had lived and played in Stockholm for several years and had just very recently left for other clubs. Julia even still lived and played in Stockholm! As someone who doesn't live in Stockholm but has been there much, I can tell you it's fairly easy to find your way around the subway map in comparison to London where I've also visited.

When their subway train, this time in the right direction lmao, arrived Anna said "Idiots on world tour" about them. It became very fitting as this group went on vacations together regularly for a couple of years. Some were in the U23 national team and naturally got to travel to other countries together that way. Once Anna posted a story when she and Tove were at a player hotel. They were in a public area like the hotel lobby or near the dining room. Anna filmed Tove when she made a kick forward. Her flip flop flew through the air and almost hit one of the Dutch U23 players. Whoops. In a added story Anna had frozen the footage and zoomed in on Tove's face when she followed the flight of her flip flop towards the Dutchies. She did a funny caption to it but I don't remember what. Tove's face was priceless anyway as she watched her flip flop in horror. Of course the two of them broke down in fits of laughter afterwards.

Others have been called up to the senior national team for looks in training games or for competitive games and championships. At one camp Ippe was Anna's roomie. They were chilling in their hotel room laying on their beds. Anna checked her phone. An apparently very bored Ippe posted a story when she first had her back towards Anna. The collar of her Sweden training jacket covered half her face so you could only see her eyes. Then she quickly turned around and hit Anna hard on the arm or leg. Anna exclaimed "Ouch! Cut it out Filippa!" and hit Ippe back on her leg but stopped herself halfway so she wouldn't hit her full force. Then she returned to checking her phone and Ippe rolled back so she was turned away from Anna again. Still with the collar covering half her face. Through all of this Ippe didn't utter a sound. Didn't laugh, didn't giggle and didn't say anything. She just got an idea to film when she was being a little shit to Anna and wanted to do something eh creative.

The members of the Idiots on world tour have changed slightly it seems but the core group is the same. I think last time they as a big group of friends went on a December vacation after season was in 2019. Julia had met Emma, Anna hadn't met Matilda, Elena hadn't met Benni, Ippe had met Megan, Nattis was either single or with that male Djurgården ice hockey player, Stina was probably single as she had still to meet her bf whom she met after she'd moved to Gothenburg and she didn't move there until 2020.

And now with this recent boat ride the Idiots are on world tour again. Some of them will get to travel half way around the the world in less than one months time when Sweden fly out to the base camp in Wellington, NZ.

Thank you for taking the time to share all of that! It's really cool that you remember it

[topsica]

[corvus--rex]

One from way back when i first thought of doing a model Au, and way, way before I did Dripping in Gold for Julance - which I think I actually like better anyway. So that means that this one is pretty well abandoned. Not much to say about this one except that Allura is evil and enjoys watching her friends suffer >;)

~*~*~*~

“Allura, why?” Keith asked flatly with just a tinge of incredulousness.

“Because, that’s why,” she answered, getting up and following her stylist. She perched in the chair and took a selfie, her fingers flying across the keyboard as she added a caption before posting it to Instagram.

Keith got the notification, checking it before going back to the private message she’d sent him. The new post was another perfect selfie, her aqua eyes sparkling and dark skin glowing. “Getting my hair straightened!!! Sooo excited!!!” read the caption. Allura had been teasing a new hairstyle, temporary, of course, for an upcoming shoot all week. Only Keith and their friend Shiro knew what she was planning. And since Shiro was busy on a shoot himself, Keith had been dragged along to Allura’s styling appointment.

He slid lower in the leather sofa, returning to the private message. All she had sent was the name of another Instagram user and fellow model. He had nothing better to do, and so decided that he would at least check out what LB_Lance was like.

Allura wasn’t entirely wrong. Keith hadn’t dated in months. Ok, closer to a year. But he was busy! His modeling career and college took precedence over all else. His double major in fashion design and business took up a lot of his time, modeling taking up the rest. His dream end goal of establishing his own fashion house wasn’t going to fund itself. Maybe he had been neglecting his social life. But only a little.

Either way, she had decided that she'd had enough of Keith’s asocial antics. Unless he was working or in class, he was locked in his apartment, studying or working on projects for his double major. Allura used her contacts at Castle Modeling Agency, getting the name of Lance McClain's Instagram. She had seen him there before, run across him at agency parties, and knew he and Keith would hit it off if they were ever in the same room.

Soft aqua body glitter and naturally golden skin were the first things he saw when he went to LB_Lance’s most recent post. The glitter dusted his cheekbones, shoulders, and collarbone. It was artistic and intentional, highlighting his natural beauty rather than covering it. The tightlined, hair’s breadth gold eyeliner made his vibrant blue eyes inhumanly intense. One corner of his perfect lips was curled upwards ever so slightly. His dark hair was slightly damp, giving it a natural wave. He was dressed only in turquoise and gold board shorts, elbows leaning on a weather-worn, thick wooden rail.

Keith gasped softly. Holy fuck he was beautiful. He didn’t even have a chance to scroll any farther before getting a notification of another private message.

LB_Lance: Hey, StarPrincess said I should check you out. So I did. Damn, you’re hot. I think I’d like to see for myself. You free Sunday?

Keith looked up, glaring in Allura’s direction. “Allura, I hate you.”

“Why? What did I do?” she asked, feigning innocence.

“You know what you did,” he shot back, “And he’s pm’ed me.”

She giggled. “Did you look yet?”

“Yes. I did. I hate you.” He knew she was referring to Lance’s page, not the message, and what she meant by looking.

“Pretty, isn’t he?”

“Still hate you.”

Allura snorted, going back to her phone, while her stylist Angel continued with her hair, and Keith went back to his.

Kei_Ko: I have a sunset shoot Sunday, but I have all morning off. What’d you have in mind?

Kei_Ko: And even if my being hot were true, you’re a fucking god

LB_Lance: . . . I . . . um . . . ok. I, um, I was thinking of – hey, you know Jack’s?

Kei_Ko: The diner?

LB_Lance: Yeah! Meet up for a late breakfast? Like 10?

Kei_Ko: Sure.

LB_Lance: I’ll see you then. Later, sexy. ;)

“OhmygodIfuckinghateyouAllura,” Keith hissed all at once as he threw his phone to the other end of the sofa.

She cackled at the rushed sentiment. “Oh. My god. What happened?”

“I have a fucking date Sunday morning thanks to you.” He folded his arms, glaring at her.

“Huh. That’s usually when your dates end. This is a step up for you,” Allura said, taking a not-so-subtle dig at Keith’s tendency for short-lived relationships.

“Wow. Really? You’re going there? I may just have to make you walk to the shoot in this heat,” he retorted, watching her face contort.

“You wouldn’t. Keith, please. Tell me you’re joking.”

Keith tried. He really did. But he couldn’t keep a straight face and collapsed to the sofa in a fit of giggles. Allura realized he wasn’t serious and felt her own giggles bubbling up her throat. It took them both a few minutes before they’d calmed down enough to speak.

“You’re horrible,” Allura finally managed, “Remind me why I’m still friends with you?”

“Because you love me,” Keith replied from his sprawled position on the sofa.

“Debatable.”

Keith rolled over to retrieve his phone from where he’d thrown it, flipping Allura off in the process. She snorted and went back to her phone while Angel worked. Keith also returned to his phone and LB_Lance’s Instagram.

“So, what’s this guy’s real name, anyway?” he asked.

“Lance,” Allura answered without looking up, “Lance McClain. I have told him yours as well.”

“So, what’s the ‘LB’ for?”

“Dunno. Never asked. But then, I'm not the one who has a date with him, maybe you should be the one to ask that,” she teased.

“Oh, for fuck’s sake, Allura.” Keith rolled his eyes at her and went back to scrolling through Lance’s Instagram.

<~>~<~>

Pidge launched herself onto Lance’s sprawled form. She felt it was only fair since he was taking up the entire sofa. He’d been on his phone all morning and completely ignoring her, and she finally got tired of it. Lance’s reflexes were good, and he grabbed Pidge by the waist and tossed her off of him and onto the floor, but not before she grabbed his phone. She landed on the floor with a grunt and a thud, but ignored it in favor of what had held Lance’s attention for so long.

“Damn, Lance, he’s hot,” she said, scrolling back up through the Instagram account of Kei_Ko, “You gonna be stalking him now?”

“Fuck off, Pidge,” Lance retorted, snatching his phone back, “And no, I'm not stalking him. I got a message that I should check him out from someone at Castle. Well, not just anyone. It was Allura. And for your information, I already pm’ed him. We’re meeting up for breakfast on Sunday.”

Pidge rolled to a sitting position and turned around. “You ass. Tell me everything.”

He sighed, rolling onto his side to face her. “I ran into Allura at Castle a couple days ago, and she suggested that I might want to look up one of her friends – who also happens to be a model – and that she’d message me on Insta. So, I did, and he’s beautiful, and I asked him out. There. That’s everything, you gremlin."

~*~*~*~

Links to the rest of the series:

1 | 2 | 3* | 4 | 5* | 6* | 7 | 8 | 9* | 10 | 11 | 12* | 13 | 14 | 15* | 16 | 17 | 18 | 19*

[tobin-heaths]

Burrito blanket

request: Tobin and R adopt a cat and everyone is shocked cuz they thought they would get a dog but then R posts on insta a pic of tobin and the cat just sleeping and says this is why they got a cat

pairing: Tobin Heath x Reader

words: 501

"Babe? I'm back!" You yelled as you dropped your keys on the counter, looking through the room, hoping to find your girlfriend somewhere. "Tobin?" You questioned with a frown on your face.

She was never this silent. "Tobin?" You called again, hoping to get an answer this time. But nothing. Did you miss something? Any chance Tobin was somewhere important and you simply forgot? But that made no sense, there was no practice, no meetups with friends, nothing.

"Okay, what the hell?" You opened your bag and searched for your phone, hoping to find something that could help you.

"Damn it." There was no text message from said person, no missed calls. She had to be home then. Your feet carried you over to your bedroom, carefully opening the door and peeking inside. You visibly calmed down once your eyes laid sight on your favorite person.

Tobin was peacefully sleeping in an ocean of pillows and blankets, tangled in them like some tasty burrito, one of her legs poking out from under the blanket. Maybe you should get her one of those burrito blankets.

Her loose hair was a mess in between all those pillows, clad in one of your old Portland jerseys, fluffy socks and grey sweatpants.

You tiptoed closer to the bed, careful to not wake her up, just now noticing another small creature laying in her arms. It was the cat you recently bought.

You physically melted, your heart immediately beating faster. You never knew Tobin could look this cute sleeping with a cat. But here she was, the small black cat peacefully purring in your girlfriend's arms.

Reaching for your phone you made sure it's on silent and the flash turned off before you took hundreds of photos. You could definitely use one of those for your lock screen.

Looking through the photos you found one you liked the most and decided to post it on your Instagram. This photo was too cute to not be seen.

'For everyone wondering why we didn't get a dog, this is the reason.' @tobinheath

You smiled at the caption and tagged Tobin before posting it. The caption was actually a nod at Ashlyn, who wouldn't shut up about you guys not buying a dog so it could play with hers. "Too bad, Ash. You gotta live with it now." You had said back then.

Taking off your shoes and hoodie you carefully climbed onto the bed, feeling a little sleepy yourself now, wanting nothing more than to feel her warmth next to yours.

You snuggled close to her body, feeling her move and reach out for you. She pulled you into her and wrapped one arm around you and one of her legs over yours. She carefully placed the cat onto you and pressed a sleepy kiss to your lips, her eyes still closed.

Your heart melted, feeling whole, safe and loved with this small family of yours. There was nothing you wanted more than this. This was your home.

[katsukikitten]

Irritated 9

Short but hey at least I'm writing again.

WARNINGS:  18+ AU, Dark Adult themes, proceed with caution. 

"Moving onto the most crucial point of this meeting. Due to the heavy rumors of the reappearance of the league of villains and high end nomus I need the two of you to be in..." But the rest of the conversation is drowned out by the rushing blood in the ash blonde's ears.

Teetering on the back two legs of his chair as his eyes burn holes into that damn emerald mop head who is ever present in his life.

The same dumb ass who asks questions about this meeting.

But he isn't asking the right ones.

Hell everyone seems to be avoiding the elephant in the room as they carry on normal conversation all the while the hot head grows even hotter.

The swirling rage demanding his undivided attention while his ribs echo his heart beat.

Finally he snaps, slamming down the two front legs of his chair, palms hissing as explosions ring out stunning the other two in the room.

The wood at his seat is forever charred, while yours was always neat, easy to forget as they seem to have now.

Hell even Izuku was sitting in your normal seat.

"Oi, how much longer are you two gonna act like nothing is fucking wrong?" He growls, Izuku looks away with flamed cheeks proving Bakugou's theory right.

Izuku was worried too, he was just too scared to ask.

"I don't follow."

"You lying fucker. You *do* follow. When was the last you heard form Y/N?!" He slams his phone on the table when no one answers, "Since she quit right?"

"So that makes it a whole fucking month. No one has seen her, no one has heard from her and her insta is dead." He shoves the phone in their faces. The last picture you posted was of Bakugou and Deku standing next to All Might's cut out.

"She could be on vacation." Yami counters to which Bakugou snorts.

"And she wouldn't want any dumbass pictures of the beach with an even shittier caption?" He hisses, "No paparazzi has seen her?"

"I'm sure she's been spotted."

"Where? All the tabloids question her where abouts."

"Staycation. No one knows where she lives. She was always good at that." Yami counters, nervously sipping at his coffee causing the blonde to grind his teeth.

"How is she eating if I still have her fucking card?" He slams the plastic on the table that clatters with it's own dramatic flare.

Director Yami gulps desperate for an excuse as Deku's eyes widen.

"New card." Yami shrugs making his way back to the bulletin points behind him.

"Its still active." The room is enveloped in that sweet burning sugary smell as his temper rises. He is no longer playing Mr. Nice guy.

"Activate her tracker." Its a threat and a promise all in one. Do as I say or become fuel for my explosions is everything his eyes say.

"S...she threw her bracelet at me when she resigned." Yami tries to sound direct as Izuku subconsciously fingers the metal on his own wrist.

"Yea but I doubt she did that with the one that's implanted. Pull it up Yami."

The director is stunned into silence before a burning blush creeps onto his face.

"I..." He clears his throat no longer able to hold eye contact with either party, "I don't think it will work."

"What?!" A snarl and a shocked retort echo in the room.

"What do you mean?" Another set of polar opposite tones ring out in the small stuffy place of the meeting room. Yami fishes for his phone in his pocket, pulling up the neglected app swallowing thickly as he is proved right.

The map shows no red dots. Only the hundreds of blue caused by the bracelets. He pushes the phone to the center of the table, the proximity is close enough to reactivate the trackers in the two men. Slowly two red dots flicker to life beside blue.

The third never makes an appearance.

"Why isn't hers showing?" Izuku asks, a glare beginning to weigh heavy in his jade eyes.

"If it's not checked monthly then it deactivates on it's own." He pinches the bridge of his nose, "In my defense I had seen the three of you everyday for the last few months. You guys are a PR nightmare!"

Bakugou's glare narrows in on the ignorant man who was in charge of the safety of hundreds of heroes.

He was going to be pay for his ignorance.

Izuku watches the hot head's toned arm lift, palm spread wide, realizing just in time Bakugou's intentions. He lunges for his old friend, knocking him off balance as the two of them fight. The two men struggling for dominance before the blonde comes out on top.

Literally, pinning the emerald haired man, as he raises a fist, sure to make contact with his stupid, freckled face.

He always hated this face, but you, you didn't seem to mind it.

And yet, in a sense, Deku had let you down too.

But no one let you down as much as Bakugou had. Or so he thinks, he keeps telling himself something isn't right, that he should have followed you.

Maybe even apologized.

"And fuck you too Useless Deku! Too much of a pussy to ask about your fucking friends!" He brings his fist down, aided by the power of his quirk.

Deku shuts his eyes and hope he doesn't lose too many teeth.

The punch makes contact but not with Izuku's face. Instead Bakugou's forearm is half swallowed by carpet, concrete and steel biting into his flesh. He ignores it with a growl. He rises with a growl, scarlet eyes set in determination as he blasts the door from its hinges.

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The smell of damp Earth and harsh chemicals assault your nostrils as your vision rapidly fades in and out. 

As if it watching an old film, images flickering by just fast enough to give it the effect of motion. 

But this felt like a horror film. 

And one you are staring in. Your breath comes rapid and hitched as you try to fight the silent fingers that slowly caress against your brain. Each nail numbing a part of your thought process as motion catches your eye from beneath a side door to your right.

The door open illuminating the shadow as a hiss of your bracelets pierce into your skin, injecting you with something that pulls you under faster than the figure can appear before you.

"I think I need to lower the dosage doll. I want those pretty eyes to see their new home I've built." His voice echos in the darkness before all thought is lost to you.

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In Bakugou's moment of rage a thought occured to him. One that has floated through his mind for longer than he can remember.

If he wanted something to be done right then he ought to just do it his damnself.

His strong legs carry him down the stairs and winding halls to the records room. Like clockwork the attendant had left for his smoke break at exactly six o clock.

Something Bakugou had noticed years ago and filed away as possibly important.

Just in case he needed to borrow a file without having to check it out.

And he definitely doesn't anyone to know that he may or may not be looking for you.

Because they were more than likely going to try to stop him.

The hot head knew he had a least fifteen minutes, especially since the evening receptionist smoked at this time as the quiet record keeper. The basement dwelling attendant hoping to mac on the handsome receptionist in that short time.

Bakugou was thankful for the stupidity of others for once as he slipped into the records room with the spare key that was tapped beneath the desk.

The room is vast, reeking of mildew and damage paper mixed in with stained ink. He never understood why cases and records were filed manually instead of digitally but today he was grateful for the current CEO's laziness and the former CEO's aversion to both change and technology.

Older records are kept on steel shelves stacked in brown boxes that had to date back to the seventies or eighties while the more recent files were tucked away in half rusted filing cabinets, lining the musty brick walls.

There was no method to the company's madness, the records seemed to be filed haphazardly and more or less half assed over the years by someone whose dreams of being a hero hadn't fully flickered out.

But clearly they had settled for protecting rotting paper in favor of the public.

Bakugou growls as his eyes drag along each paper plaquer none in the exact order he needs. Some even slid into the metal casing upside down.

At least that's how he finds the one labeled "new hires 20XX". His cheeks hurt from his devilish grin before he yanks one of the doors open.

Again organization is thrown to the wind as files sit out of alphabetical order.

Chaotically mingling with one another having Bakugou grind his teeth.

Finally he finds your file, tattered and coffee stained as if someone revisited it quite often. He opens the Manila folder, more than ready to commit your address and whatever other information he could gain from the thick folder before an idea strikes him.

Would anyone even notice a missing file in this mess?

Hell it had taken him almost ten minutes to find and it wasn't as if the director was concerned with your well being.

His eyes narrow at your address, wondering why you chose to live in such a run down part of town before he slips the folder into the front of his pants swiftly covering it with his shirt.

He returns to the front of the record room, quietly shutting the cage door before he takes his gloved hand to the tape.

The door to the left stairwell clangs open. Two male voices echoing in the hall.

"I...I mean that's if...if you want to meet for drinks when you g..get off."

Bakugou rolls his eyes, deft fingers adhering the key back to its home just before the other make answers.

Delight in his voice that twists Bakugou's stomach in whole, green jealousy.

"I'd love to see you later. Until then." What could be a peck on the cheek follows as Bakugou slips into the opposite stairwell.

Wondering why the hell it seemed blossoming relationships came so easily to everyone around him.

His ribs throb as a reminder that that was something he would never have the privilege to experience as your voice echos in his head.

"We were never friends."

The mineola folder suddenly feels too hot against his skin, burning even. For a second he wonders why he is even doing this.

Why he's bothering himself with finding someone that clearly doesn't care for his company. He thinks to himself that he will just place the folder in his desk, that he'll abandon the notion of being a sleuth and return to his hot headed no fucks given ways.

But you whisper in his head once more with a weak, sleepy tone.

"Please stay, Katsuki."

Strengthening his resolve to find you once more.

[mackenzie-lukasiaks]

I think chloes become much more snobby and arrogant in the past few years. We never see her with anyone who isn’t from dm or in whichever movie she’s working on. I mean she’s unfollowed a bunch of ppl like her mom, Sarah reasons (who was her BFF there for a while) etc, not to mention “feuding” with Kendall and Kalani. I think she needs to take a break from social media and remember where she came from. She’s acting very high and mighty for a 19 year old who left the real world when she was 9. Its too bad that the Lukasiaks have changed so much in the past few years.

I’m going to preface this answer with this disclaimer: I know I’ve criticized maddie for going through friends very quickly, but at the same time, I think that it really shouldn’t come as a shock or a surprise that the friends these girls had at one age are not necessarily the friends they’re going to have at another age, particularly considering the kind of public eye that they live in. as great as it would be to always have one friend or a handful of friends that remain close to you from your childhood, it doesn’t always happen that way.

all that being said. I follow chloe on instagram and I really don’t see what you’re seeing. going through her insta, the most recent photo of her with someone else is a pic of her with clara from early december. before that, it’s a pic of her with nia. she really mostly posts selfies lol.

we don’t know why she unfollowed christi. there’s a set of photos on her insta with a caption along the lines of “I love our family hikes” so presumably she was home for christmas or they went to california to see her (I don’t love either option btw because of the pandemic). I didn’t know she had unfollowed sarah reasons. that’s too bad but again, not every friendship lasts forever. I’ve already talked about the “feud” with kendall and kalani that really wasn’t a “feud” so much as a disagreement over fundamental questions of politics and morals but. I’m not getting into that again lol.

the lukasiaks have changed, but I feel that coming from christi more than chloe. but like. everyone changes lol. I really don’t think chloe has become some kind of diva. 

[ingravinoveritas]

Firstly i dont think she adjusted since moving to the UK what do u think?

And secondly this post feels that its all about her again like and the character is based on her in real life but the project was longed talk about in 2017 as michael said on the Graham norton show to which michael was with Sarah at that point. It's again trying to be the centre of attention again and stay irrelevant just cos she not getting it from michael

What ur thoughts on this recent of post of Al

So, apologies that it took me all week to answer this--I feel like the entirety of the month of February has just caught up with me, which essentially feels like a lot of tiredness hitting all at once.

I did see this on Monday, however, and I just...am again at something of a loss. I got a bit down on myself over my response to her Insta story from the first preview of Nye and thinking I was overreacting/reading too much into things...and then this happens.

The first thing I would say is that I agree with you that AL is making it all about her again. The post itself comes across as PR, which it likely was because Georgia also shared the same clip that day--albeit with a caption that was actually about Michael/centered on the show. And the contrast becomes even more stark when you look at this post from Caroline Sheen. Caroline is Michael's cousin and she had a small role in The Way, and her post is much more personal and essentially what you would expect from someone who is close to someone in the production. Which subsequently makes AL's post look even more like PR in comparison.

But I think what irritates me the most about Anna's post is that it's yet another instance of her making a dig at Wales. Talking of patterns as I tend to do, she did this previously in September of last year (the #FromManhattantoTonypandy hashtag), and in both of these cases it's her reminding everyone of where she lived before, and likely where she still wishes she lived. In thinking of your initial question, AL may have adjusted to Wales in some ways, but it's clearly not where she belongs or thinks she belongs. I've written previously on my blog about her likely thinking she would be living the celebrity life in New York or London, and Wales was almost certainly a place she didn't even know existed until Michael. So this entire post feels like it's tinged with passive-aggressive resentment as a result.

Let me be clear: In no way do I think that moving to a new country is an easy thing, and it is more than understandable that someone might not love every single thing about the place in which they live, especially if they are an outsider coming from a completely different culture. But the thing is, The Way is literally about Wales. It is entirely focused on Welsh identity and history, and it is a project into which Michael has poured a tremendous amount of his passion and energy and time, which speaks to what you mentioned about him talking about this since 2017.

Why, then, would you make such a snarky comment on a post promoting a show so centered on Wales? That your own partner directed, no less? At best, it comes across as thoughtless and self-centered, and at worst, as deliberately disrespectful.

I can also fully understand why Michael put out a tweet of his own promoting the second episode less than an hour after Anna posted that story. If we are to say that Georgia is a good representative for David on social media--which she arguably is, most of the time--then Anna, by contrast, is the worst possible representative for Michael. And a post like the one above only further highlights how mismatched and wrong for each other they truly are. I also think it's pained him to refrain from tweeting for this long, and now he finally has a reason to start again, for which both we and Michael can be thankful.

So yes, those are my thoughts on AL's story from earlier this week. Glad to hear from my followers as well about your reactions to this. Thank you for writing in! x

[red-wardens]

Gimme some headcanons: your pixel kids and social media in a modern AU? your pixel kids in a Predator movie? your pixel kids in a steampunk AU?

I’m love you. I’ll answer these in parts cuz they might get long.

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Warden Squad and Social Media

Blue Surana doesn’t even own a laptop or computer and only just recently upgraded, by Ronan’s Christmas gift, to a smartphone. She’s not entirely sure how to use it beyond calling and texting though so she’s never owned a Facebook/Tumblr/Twitter/Instagram account in her life. She’s perfectly ok with this.

Isseya Mahariel, as a cop, tends to stay off social media (was very careful about not posting any drinking/partying back in her college days). In highschool she had an Instagram account Tamlen made for her and she would mostly post pictures or vids from her most recent dance or track team competitions. Nowadays she has a Twitter that she doesn’t “tweet” on but uses to keep up to date on local and world news. And occasional celebrities…

Alyss Amell got into tumblr when she was in highschool and used it to help cope with her depression and anxiety. She would spend hours and hours on it, losing lots of sleep and following a variety of fandoms. Has at one time had several RP sideblogs, currently does not. The time consumption caused a few problems in school when she’d get too distracted from studying but she was a bright student so she managed to graduate. She’s in a better place emotionally and mentally now but not much has changed with her tumblr time.

Kieran Tabris used to be super into Vine in highschool and would post vids of him and friends doing really stupid but hilarious stuff. After Vine died, he became an Instagram ho in college; not quite insta-famous but his instagram specifically for gym selfies and his dumb antics have a pretty impressive follower count. He has a separate private account for friends but most of his time is spent on the other account. Also went through a slutty phase in the first couple years of college and was on Tinder, Bumble, and one other dating app.

Ronan Aeducan’s a pretty good photographer so he has an Instagram where he posts pictures of urban life. Will also take some beautiful shots while visiting his parents in India. His follower count is pretty high but he doesn’t pay any attention to it. Kieran is a low key a little jealous.

Nora Brosca is a shitposter on tumblr but spends most of her time on Reddit. She’s always up to date with the latest memes. She also made everyone in the Squad get a Snapchat (though Blue never opens the app) so she can send them pics of her day with funny captions. She doesn’t post pictures though. She likes tangible so she carries her Polaroid camera everywhere. 

Cassian Cousland created tumblr specifically to look at dogs (and because Nora told him to follow her and he said ok). It also became a place to interact and see content of LGBT community when he was still in the closet. It gets a little toxic sometimes so he doesn’t use it much but he happened upon Alyss’ blog in her early college and learned to use it to check in on her. She doesn’t know he follows her but whenever she used to reblog extra sad stuff he would always send an encouraging text her way or show up to bring her cookies or something. He also has a Pinterest (following mostly boards of more dogs but he gets some recipes ideas from there too).

Bonus, Claira Hawke: Lives on Discord and uses it both for gaming and to make people facepalm and keyboard mash at her dumbass comments/hot-takes on groupchat. Is also a meme lord. She and Nora follow each other on tumblr. Not a social media but she also spends a lot of her time on Ao3 and makes donations when she can. 

[fxckinbaker-blog]

Friendship from my perspective

I go through phases, where I see other groups of females having fun together, being that close they sleep in the same bed after a night out and spooning each other or a work colleague takes time out of her busy schedule to call her bestie and talk her through a panic attack.

... And I feel like I’m missing out, I feel like I should have these female friends, that I can be totally myself around, almost wishing I was out with them on that night out they shared on their Snapchat story.

I don’t have many friends, after realising I wasn’t worth much to some, I blocked and deleted them because they were draining my energy, reading my messages (checking up on them) and then not replying, kept asking them, is everything okay? You wanna meet up soon? Have I done something wrong? (this is just within the last year)

At school I was the reject girl no one liked, I wasn’t pretty, I wasn’t skinny, I wasn’t as confident or outgoing compared to most girls in my school, barely any girls wanted to be my friend until I started my GCSEs and I had 2 friends, who up until recently I’ve just started talking to and meeting up with again.

Out of school I was friends with a girl from another school, who was also bullied, she was my best friend at the time and after she ran away from home she soon became my foster sister and started living with me. We both had crushes, all teenage girls do, I would know who hers was, but I’d never say anything to him. However when she knew who my crush was, she had to have all the attention. One prime example would be that we were at my friends house who I had a crush on, she took his belt off and put it on herself and made my crush and his friend chase after her all around the house, I was sat on the sofa the entire time, not having the best time of course. And this happened multiple times when we were kids. Around 2 years ago we went to the pub where her bf worked, and she was chatting up a bloke from her school “for me” but you could tell she loved the male attention, tying not to make it look like she was enjoying it too much, due to the fella keeping a watchful eye on her. We aren’t friends anymore

I was friends with 3 girls in sixth form, 1 of which used to bully me in primary school, and another got drunk and involved me and her best friend in a car accident, I have a statement to the police and she got a driving ban but her other friend didn’t, to protect her, I guess I may have done the wrong thing in terms of “the girl code” but her excuse was that she was having a hard time because she THOUGHT she may have been pregnant after having sex with a stranger abroad.. (like worrying about being pregnant is the main thing here, she could have gotten a nasty STI!?) and I just felt like, so you put your friends in danger all because you can’t keep your fucking legs closed. We aren’t friends anymore

When I was about 18 I made friends with a 14 year old who was a bit alternative, was mature for her age but certainly showed her real age when she drank alcohol, got giddy etc. We were friends for a long time and I classed her as my best friend at this time in my life, she also had another best friend who she lost touch with a little over the next few years after this, we used to make a thing about getting together every weekend to get drunk and stay at each other’s houses, make each other food, going shopping, all the girly stuff I craved doing with my mates in school, I’d reverted back to a 14 year old. We fell out a couple of times but she left school and got into working at make up counters. when she turned 18 she became a manager at Clinique in Debenhams and she seemed to change, she went from the skater girl I first met, who drank lambrini on the skate park to this blonde, pompous, Prosecco drinking arrogant twat.. her and another girl who hung around with us at the skatepark moved in together, I was asked to go out to Nonnas (a posh bar) after I broke up with someone but that wasn’t the reason she wanted to meet up, as she then said she would have to have a movie night with her dad, then again changed her mind because her dad said they and do it another time.. then asked if someone else could join us for “Prosecco”, during this meet up, I was able to tell my friend what my ex had done for me to dump him, and she sat and told me that I just need to find someone who’s different from me, then carried on a conversation with the other friend she had invited, every time I tried to have an input it was like they were singling me out, every time I went to say something, someone butted in and started talking about something else, I mentioned a trip they went on without me and that was the topic of conversation for the rest of my stay, I got interrupted again by the other friend shouting “let’s get cocktails” knowing they were £7 a cocktail and normally I wouldn’t expect my friends to pay that much for a drink for me, but this time it was like nah fuck it, you can pay, they got martinis in tall pretty glasses and I had an amaretto sour, it only took me till they both turned their backs to me to put their drinks neatly in front of a plant on the other side of the table to take a picture and upload it to Instagram tagging each other in it but not me and then captioned it as “just out with the bestie” no plural, shortly after I said I’m leaving after this drink and this cigarette and I did. There was some discussion about that evening, my friend did say she was sorry and that she didn’t think but then I felt like I was the friend that gets invited out when no one else is available, I’m the last resort, I’m the boring friend that isn’t any fun when I go out with a group of people, that group of friends were just not involving me in anything anymore and again was being ignored on messages. We are not friends anymore

I was friends with a girl who lived in a women’s refuge at the time, who had mental health problems, we became friends because I was making my way to the skatepark after seeing my boyfriend and she was leaving, I asked her why she was leaving and she said because she was being bullied, I said let’s get some weed and take the piss out of them, so we did and we spent nearly every day together after that, but she only stayed with me because I had weed for her to smoke, she kept promising she would get some when she got paid but never did, she got with my next door neighbour and once asked me for some fake tan and I said there will be some somewhere, when I found it I told her where it was and I’d get it for her when I remember, the next day it was gone and I asked her if she had taken it, she said no, however she slipped up by saying the brand of the fake tan, (St Moriz) and staying how it affects her skin, I knew she had lied and had it out with her and she apologised for lieing and stealing, I gave her one last chance, she called me crying saying she had enough of everyone, so I told her to come over to my place, have a night off smoking weed and just chill and have a pamper night, she said she will when she’s done something I asked her what it was and she said she was waiting for someone to come back to Queen’s Park so she can have a smoke with them, so around 2 hours went by and I called her again, she said she was still waiting for this guy, so I told her, do you think you can use me? Do you think you can just use my home like a hotel? And use me for weed? It was clear she was using me due to the fact she was staying where the weed were. We fell out for ages but we became friends again recently (no where near as close)

I was once friends with another girl who had mental health problems, she wanted to move to Sheffield after us being close for a while, she got with someone who was already living there, she saved my life as well, if it wasn’t for her I’d have committed suicide.. seriously.. she split with said guy, moved back to her mums for a bit and then moved back to Sheffield, she told me before she left that she would never forget about me or leave me out because she has an “attachment disorder” and that she is attached to me as a friend. We met up once the first time she moved and I arranged it, and I saw her when she was living with her mum but then when she moved back again, she uploaded a pic to her insta that she wouldn’t normally upload, she isn’t the kind to post pics of body parts let’s just say, so this was weird for me to see, so I asked about it and she basically shunted me and said if you don’t like it fuck off, I was just trying to understand why she felt the need to upload a pic like that, to get male attention essentially. She told me she’s into DDLG (dominant daddy little girl) but she said it wasn’t ever sexual whenever she entered “little space” where she would talk and act like a 4 - 7 year old girl, colouring in colouring books, having a stuffed toy and a dummy in her mouth (she called the dummy her “paci” as in pacifier) I got her to send me a link to a website that explains it in simple terms, I read it and still didn’t understand why she uploaded this picture, she said it was because her insta is like an online scrapbook and she said she thought she looked good in the photo and said she was doing it from a feminist perspective (which I just do not understand) but I respected this anyway and moved on from it even though, in my opinion, she should have more self respect, sorry for being old fashioned but that is just me. Photos aren’t yours once they reach the internet.. Js. After this I kept messaging her, checking in with her, asking if she wanted to meet up and things, I even texted her one day and as a joke I said you aren’t ignoring me are you? And she did in fact ignore me. Eventually after getting sick and tired of being ignored and getting upset about possible reasons why, I decided, this no longer serves me, and blocked and deleted her on all my social media profiles. We are no longer friends

I was friends with another girl with mental health issues, when I first met her she wouldn’t go out drinking, she just invited me over for a sleepover with alcohol and some munchies, which is still amazing, but I just spontaneously asked if she wanted to go out and honestly it was probably one of the best nights both of us had in ages. She started to come out of her shell a bit, we did a lot of things together and got quite close, we had such a laugh when we got drunk together, I probably miss her the most to be honest.. she fell out with me because she thought I was taking her for granted and perhaps I was without realising at the time but no, completely dropped me on my head and said “I don’t want anything to do with you anymore, I’ve had enough of being a doormat” not just with me but she had pied everyone off that she though weren’t good enough to be her friend, soon enough she had no friends but I stay in touch with her cousin and I spoke to her and she said she would pass on a message for me (after about 6 months or more) I didn’t get a message straight away but eventually I got a text from this girl, basically saying sorry it’s taken so long to message, that she had been thinking about what to actually message me, I wanted her to know that if she didn’t have anyone, I’m still here, cause I never meant any harm in the first place, she told me she just had enough and ended up fucking everyone off and her bf were the only friend she had left because she admitted she was too hard on some people. She went back into her shell and seemed to like it there, she came out drinking but only till around 10pm on New Year’s Eve 2018 with her bf and that was the last time I saw her, I tried to check on her and ask if she wanted to meet up, I got a rude reply from her bf which she apologised on his behalf for... and then continued to ignore me, the last message I sent was, have I done something wrong?? And I told myself, I’ll wait a week - a week went by and still no reply so I blocked and deleted her as well.

I started working for a company and a college friend helped me get the job, over the course of 2 years I got to know her a lot better, also had mental health problems, only she self harmed... A LOT and then covered the scars with tattoos, she told me why she self harms one day, she used to invite me to the pub but I never had the money or energy after working at a dog grooming salon - we had a new manager and we spoke about what she is and isn’t doing properly, I said one thing is that she isn’t sticking to the bookings, I would book in a specific breed with myself so that I could put it in my portfolio because it’s what I needed to move forward onto the assessment I needed to do, and because my manager had a big dog booked in with her, she would swap the dog I needed with the big dog so I had to groom the big dog and she could groom the cute small one instead. We bitched about our new manager quite a lot. I had been suspended in my first year because the girl that got me the job, reported me to management after I came in one morning while the main shop wasn’t open, the night before I checked my bookings and everything was fine but when I arrived for my shift, I had a labradoodle which required two people to groom her, she was very nervous, and I had it swapped onto my bookings because the girl that got me the job wanted to groom the smaller dog on her own, the nervous dog was pulling her legs away from me but the girl told management that I was pulling at her legs and swearing at her (WHEN SAID GIRL ACTUALLY PUNCHED A FUCKING DOG IN THE LEG WHILE I WAS RESTRAINING IT FOR HER - YOU’RE WELCOME BY THE WAY - THATS HOW A TEAM WORKS, YOU FUCKING HELP) after being suspended I was investigated and disciplined as gross misconduct, not only this but a lot of bitching and a lot of rumours later, (roughly a year later - after I had been signed off work with anxiety and depression) I came back and during my day I had to deal with a customer complaint, I asked both the girl and another colleague to support me by putting my next dog back in a cage while I help a customer make a complaint, no management were around so I had to wait with the customer, I hadn’t realised that when I came into the main salon area that my next dog was still hooked up to what we call a noose, so I put him away and carried on, I got suspended that day as well and later investigated and had a disciplinary hearing for gross misconduct - the girl told me she felt guilty and shouldn’t have gone to management and should have helped me, I was asked if I would like to be taken out of the grooming salon and into the shop, I basically said you can stick your job up your arse, cause I’d had enough of everyone in the grooming salon banding together to purposefully make me anxious and picking on me. Even this girls parents don’t like me, they look at me in disgust and I even saw this girl yesterday, while she walked past she must have seen me and she muttered under her breath “ooohh god” oh I am sorry for my mere existence?? I’m sorry for doing absolutely nothing to you to deserve being stabbed in the back like that. I actually thought we were friends. I was clearly wrong to think that.

So this now brings me to a sort of conclusion, where I say something like, so all you bitches can suck a dick. No, I’ve held onto this for years, and I can’t seem to let go. I don’t understand why I get misunderstood and mistreated by so-called friends, I don’t understand why people think it’s a normal thing to stab your friend in the back when all they’ve done is try to be there for you, cause I’ve been through some shit, but I think this hurts me the most, when I look back at friendships that have broken down either because of my actions or their actions, I just can’t seem to get closure on this and I can’t seem to let it go either.

So all I ask is this, if you think you’ve been mentioned on this or you think you’ve done something really shitty towards me, then please have some fucking balls, PM me and tell me what the fuck I have done wrong to deserve this bullshit? So I can ACTUALLY understand why? And maybe ACTUALLY move on and be able to enjoy my life a little more? Stop being a shitty person all ya fuckin life

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The 1975

I read an article recently, dismissing the 1975. You would have thought, with them being one of my favourite bands, that I would have been offended. But no - everyone is entitled to their own views. Perhaps they do try to be a bit “woke” and too cool. I have fallen in love with their lyrics all the same.

I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else - Somebody Else

Shout-out to all my non-existent romantic exes. Have the band romanticised heartbreak here? Maybe. But you can’t deny it’s true. I’ve lost close friends before, friends that I thought would be in my life forever. I don’t begrudge them anything on how our friendship ended, but seeing them happy with their new mates has often stirred up some surprisingly unpleasant feelings. These lyrics perfectly encapsulate those sentiments.

Was it your breasts from the start? They played a part - A Change of Heart

People are so focussed on physical beauty sometimes. I’ve sometimes found a person attractive and then thought them to be cool, and want to be their friend/close to them. Then I actually get to know them, and it turns out their personality is not as attractive and their actions kind of, to put it eloquently...suck. Once I get to know them, I have a change of heart. 

She says, "Babe, you look so cool” - Robbers

Do lyrics need a reason to be iconic and to love them? No.

And we can find out the information Access all the applications that are hardening positions based on miscommunication - Love It If We Made It

My parents grew up without most of the technology we have today. And sometimes I feel that despite being less connected, they were more free? Less FOMO - you only knew about what you and your friends were up to. More living in the moment, no capturing that shot for Insta or Snap, no watching concerts through screens. We have access to so much tech and information, but are we better informed for it?

She said it's not about your body it's just social implications are Brought upon by this party that we're sitting in - She Way Out

So much of what we do is driven by societal norms, even how we hold ourselves in seemingly informal (i.e. no one cares anymore because they’re pissed) parties. Of course, actions in a temporary setting can also be different to how one might act in a more permanent situation. 

She said that I, I should have liked it I told her "I only use it sometimes" - TOOTIMETOOTIMETOOTIME

Also known as the CUTIEST music video ever. So much pure joy. The lyrics are largely nonsensical and yet, I could still listen to the song on repeat. This particular lyric describes something I’ve been guilty of - posting a photo on social media, nice angle and witty caption, with the intent of capturing the intention of that special someone. Tens, hundreds of likes and you feel disgruntled if they don’t like it. 

Like context in a modern debate, I just took it out The only apparatus required for happiness is your pain and fucking going outside - Give Yourself A Try

These are self explanatory. 

You say, we'll go where nobody knows With guns hidden under our petticoats - Chocolate

This song was released in 2013, back when I was 15 years old (crikey). My imagination (still running wild) would imagine me exploring somewhere new, with someone special - also, black petticoats are a look. Just saying. 

And Danny says we're living in a simulation But he works in a petrol station (selling petrol) - It’s Not Living

For someone who works selling vehicle fuel/basic groceries, Danny has some pretty big allegations about the world. 

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How about a fanged four groupchat? 🦇🦇🦇🦇

Ooh, interesting!

Angel(us): For some reason, I feel like Angelus would make it more of a point to be adept with technology (or I guess this could be moving up all their birth/turning dates to make them be evil now, whatever). He definitely doesn’t use any emoji or any other features, though, but he does send pictures/video/audio. He doesn’t use whatever the evil vampire equivalent of Insta is so whenever he has a particularly creative kill he sends it out to the group. Otherwise, he mostly uses it for plans/meet-ups and to diss Spike. Most frequently sent text: an order about where they’re going next (passed down from Darla, although he pretends otherwise)

Darla: Considers herself above the whole thing. If they want to talk to her, they can address her individually. Reads all the texts to stay current, though, and screenshots any embarrassing drunk texts for future blackmail material. Also, she keeps changing the chat title back to “Family” every time Spike or Drusilla changes it, which is constantly. Most frequently sent text: incriminating screenshots, no captions

Drusilla: Uses every feature available. Delighted by adding things like fireworks and lights. Probably texts the most - she texts when she has visions, she live texts Spike’s exploits, and she sends ALL the pictures she takes of her dolls. Sometimes takes selfies with victims (usually well before killing them, and out of some sort of genuine interest). Texting Style Changes With Her Moods. Most frequently sent text: [17-text-long thread about recent vision, with tangent in the middle about the girl she ate for breakfast]

Spike: The most obnoxious texter ever. Texts less frequently overall than Dru but always in short bursts. Also, sends a lot of game requests. Relentlessly makes fun of Angel and Darla, since she won’t text back to defend herself. Constantly taking selfies. everything is lowercase adn no atucorect, ill spell things the way i blody want lol. Responds to every one of Angel’s texts with a string of emoji 💯🧛😹 Most frequently sent text: (something along the lines of)  “chek out this wanker i killed last night 😂 hair almost as uglu as angels lmao”

[felicia-cat-hardy]

John Legend's Son Miles Turns 3 &amp; Birthday Photos Show He's Stylish

John Legend’s 3-year-old son Miles is a fashion icon in the making. The 12-time Grammy winner just shared a cute birthday tribute for his kiddo’s 3rd birthday, commemorating the special day by sharing pictures of his most stylish moments through the years. Legend posted Instagram photos of his son — a known “Baby Shark” lover — dressed in gingham pants, a shark costume, and a coordinated outfit with his mother, Chrissy Teigen. The 42-year-old dad also shared pictures of Miles as an infant, posing with his grandmother, Pepper Teigen, while donning a cookie-monster towel and looking near-identical to his dad in a neat T-shirt and fashionable red sneakers.

“This handsome guy is 3 today” Legend wrote in the Instagram post’s caption. Many of the star’s friends and family commented on the photos, including Hair Love author Matthew Cherry (“a whole mini me”) and hairstylist Jen Atkin (“the cutest cutie”). The “All of Me” singer wasn’t the only one to share a birthday tribute for Miles. Pepper also celebrated Miles turning three on Instagram, sharing photos of her grandson grinning while playing outside and posing with his sister Luna. “Happy birthday Miles” she wrote with heart emojis in the caption. On her Instagram Story, Pepper shared a few more memories with Miles and wrote, “Happy Birthday nai nai.”

A week before Miles’ birthday, his mom posted about his new bed.

And just days before the growing boy’s big day, his dad also posted a sweet Insta about Luna.

The past couple of months have been eventful for the family. Teigen recently offered a glimpse into their new home in Beverly Hills on Instagram Live, showing off their living room and entertainment center, spacious yard, and interior design details from Thailand. The home also includes a large tree in the center of the home, which Teigen described as a “tree of life” meant to honor their son Jack, who they lost in a miscarriage in October 2020.

The family recently celebrated Mother’s Day together and posted this family photo.

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Instagram provides the capacity to share great deal of gorgeous details:…

Instagram provides the capacity to share great deal of gorgeous details:…

New haircuts, extravagant dinners, awe-inspiring getaways; but we skip on the crucial, wider traits. That we don’t want children, or are enthusiastic about our exes, or want to move never a lot more than five full minutes at home.

That right there clearly was why dating apps occur. They don’t enable you to skip during these things; you describe your self (in terms, perhaps perhaps perhaps not just photos), you tell individuals what you’re looking for, you list your goals. This would imply that tried-and-true online dating sites are safer, and are better – so why is Instagram doing this kind of good work?

While there’s yet become any research that is specific Insta-dating effectiveness to that particular of conventional internet dating sites, there’s no arguing that is a bona fide trend. There’s no shortage of online suggestions about simple tips to utilize Instagram to locate a substantial other. Further evidence are apps like Kisstagram (HotOrNot for Instagram) and InstaDating (no description required) to help make your motives more formal.

Yet intentions that are obscured engage in the appeal. With a normal relationship software, you all understand why you’re there – to find somebody, to guage each other being a potential mate. It is like planning to speed dating versus a club; you’re perhaps not looking to happen upon some body, you’re particularly try to find them. Instagram is much more spontaneous, more happen-stance than that. Also if you should be actively searching, no body however you has to understand.

You can argue the exact same holds true of Facebook – except so it’s perhaps not, and you’d be wrong. Arbitrarily friending some body on Twitter is forward and foreign; doing it on Instagram is par for the program. You want everything you see on Facebook, which can be frequently nothing but a profile image and perhaps a couple of other odds and ends; on Instagram, you prefer just exactly exactly what somebody else is seeing. This little barrier – he likes my pictures, my imagination, my funny captions – makes us more content. It’s much more coy.

Not merely are intimate relationships being made on Instagram, but friendships are way too. “I’ve made a lot of buddies through Instagram, ” claims photographer and creator regarding the popular hashtag task #storyportrait, Branden Harvey. “The first-time we actually made buddies via Instagram had been enough time we arbitrarily decided to road visit to Seattle from Portland for a week-end of hiking, eating, and adventuring. I made several of my close friends on that journey. Most of us talk on nearly a day-to-day basis. ”

Harvey’s present roomie, Ian Pratt, had been a pal he came across on Instagram. While photographing a conference in Portland, Pratt approached Harvey and stated the five little terms we all like to know (whether we acknowledge it or not): “I follow you on Instagram. ”

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“He invited me personally to have morning meal at a couple of other buddies to his home several times later on. We quickly built a friendship that is strong” claims Harvey.

Come july 1st, he’s attending the marriage of their buddies Carter and Brooke – a couple of who their only interactions with have now been via Instagram.

And also as we’ve recently seen, the Instagram community will rally around a great love story – and Lafargue and Wisdom are scarcely the actual only real ones who discovered and reported their love utilizing the software. Peter Cowans and Zitta John Cowans used one another on Instagram for a long time, he residing in the U.K., she in Oklahoma, developing emotions for starters another from afar and eventually engaged and getting married earlier this October.

“It had been couple of years of us both playing it truly cool, ” Peter informs me. Both he and Zitta remember the way they wants photos or keep reviews, but before they actually spoke that it was six months. They’re currently trying to return through their Instagram account task, searching through hashtags and queries, to determine what picture it absolutely was they “met” through.

“She had been enthusiastic about my account over FaceTime because I didn’t take loads of pictures of myself standing in front of the mirror, and I was interested in her’s because she’s fucking gorgeous, ” he confessed to me. The newlyweds, obviously enamored with each other and sharing a cam, held fingers the time that is whole.

Peter defines their wife’s Instagram account as fascinating and genuine. “I have a look at her life as one thing I’ve never envisioned or dreamed; a thing that beautiful and colorful. ”

“Following her ended up being like after a hollywood. ”

Zitta explained the odd truth of a attraction through Instagram. “It’s this little crush, where there’s this individual as well as because it’s like this separate reality though you might date other people, it’s OK. This crush on the reverse side regarding the global globe. ”

Ultimately they hit up a long-distance love. Their tale resonated with many supporters that Peter created an account that is second the wedding planning – the afternoon Zitta’s gown had been finished, the afternoon her ring arrived in, once they travelled to Las Vegas – and also other items of their life together.

Perhaps dozens of images that are aspirational really making us get to be the individuals we Instagram become.

The two say they’ve came across numerous partners who additionally came across over Instagram, and make use of the application to gather and share their everyday lives. The help goes further: residing a huge number of kilometers aside and simply hitched, Zitta chose to begin a campaign that is gofundme try to raise cash to see her spouse. While family and friends donated, so strangers that are did had followed their tale. “There were four contributors we’ve never had interaction with; one girl provided us $50, ” says Cowans. The couple additionally auctioned off products from their wedding to invest in their travels to fulfill one another, which Instagram followers bid on.

That feeling of community is really what is therefore vital to Instagram’s success. It is not only concerning the people who meet, or whom find motivation in one person’s pictures. It’s concerning the vast, global community that’s being produced round the system.

“I think a few things donate to Instagram being great at linking individuals in actual life, ” claims Harvey. “One is it is a platform that is visual with individuals whom appreciate beauty and adventure. Lots of Instagrammers have that in keeping. Similarly, once you share an experience that is grand somebody, you form a stronger relationship with them. ”

And it is it ever embarrassing, fulfilling therefore strangers that are many flavor in shareable photos is one of you understand about them? “Honestly, we can’t think about a time that is single had an embarrassing encounter with individuals we met through Instagram, ” claims Harvey. Possibly that’s since they understand when you should manage to get thier faces out of phones.

“Sometimes while spending time with other friends whom utilize Instagram, we produce a aware choice to show our phones off and select not to ever talk about the software of course you like a great deal. Our relationship goes beyond a straightforward iPhone app. ”

Possibly dozens of aspirational pictures are really making us end up being the individuals we Instagram to be. Perhaps all these love stories and friendships spurred by the application happen ourselves and our lives, and then we work to epitomize them because we show people the best pieces of. Perhaps seeing is thinking, and now we connect with, trust fall and– in love – with individuals through visuals much better than we do contrived sentences in questionnaire type.

But http://datingmentor.org/seeking-arrangement-review exactly what better method to explore this trend than to live it? I made a decision to make contact with Harvey, who I’ve followed for over a 12 months now and whom follows me personally on instagram. We often shoot him an email whenever I’m focusing on story about Instagram, but we’d never ever really met up despite having roots into the Northwest and staying in and around Portland. While our intentions aren’t intimate here, the procedure is the exact same: We observed and approval that is double-tapped of other’s pictures; then we emailed; then exchanged figures. Then we had coffee.

We, obviously, discussed Instagram – but I also found out he’s through the populous town where my cousin simply graduated from veterinarian school, and then we both choose Canons. We want to travel, but the western shore still is like house. Fulfilling up wasn’t uncomfortable, or contrived – which will be something online daters frequently complain about. Simply a couple whom first saw odds and ends of 1 another’s life through their eyes before decided that a actual life friendship (or maybe more) could be just like Instagram-worthy.

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