#neil is demi.
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Just saying but this too is erasure of neil's demisexuality
Yes there is a level of obliviousness leading up to neil's realization that he's into andrew, but that still only started after a build up of a bond between them.
Stop trying to find ways to twist his experience into something allo. Stop equating his first moments of trusting & developing a bond with anyone outside of his mother to catching feelings. This was the start of the groundwork necessary for neil to be able to develop feelings, not the the moment he started developing feelings.
#neil is demi.#he did not develop attraction towards andrew until after they had an established bond#because that is how being demi works#can this fandom get that through their heads#neil josten#demisexual neil josten#tired of aphobia#tired of demisexual erasure#aphobia#fandom aphobia#aftg#all for the game#aftg fandom#andreil
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Neil being demi is actually so important I will fight people on this. It fits his character so perfectly and I get upset when people erase his ace-ness just my demi king live his demi life
#for full disclosure I believe Neil is both demisexual and demiromantic#it just fits him so well and makes so much sense and I could talk about it for hours#hes demi and its canon and no one can take this from me#aftg#all for the game#andrew minyard#neil josten#andreil#the kings men#tkm#demisexual#demiromantic#demi#neil is a demi king#fight me
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Is the aftg fandom ready to aknowledge that andrew is demiromantic or is it still too early
#a lot of yall still struggle with accepting neil as demi so it might still be too early....#its also crucial to understand that andrew not being on the ace spectrum does not prevent him from being on the aro spec#because a lot of people seem to think that you can only be aro-ace and that these two cant be separate#aftg#all for the game#fandom#andrew minyard#neil josten#tsc#the sunshine court
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what if we made Jean and Neil kiss. on the mouth. and it was platonic. wouldn’t that be beautiful?
#they are very tolkien coded to me!!!!#redefining the meaning of kisses and platonicity in the chat rn#THEY ARE BOTH STILL QUEER OKAY DO NOT COME AT ME I WILL BITE#bi bi bi jean moreau!!!!#demi demi demi neil!!!!#i’m jus saying…#i like the idea#if misplaced forever partner why no kiss?#i have so many more pairings i feel are so tolkienish in their affection but i shall refrain for now#lest i am burnt at the stake already#aftg#all for the game#the foxhole court#the sunshine court#neil josten#jean moreau#jeaneil
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Interviewer: if you could kiss anyone in the world who would it be?
Neil : my beautiful husband andrew minyard
Interviewer: that doesn’t count. You do that anyway.
Neil, not hesitating: Your Mom
#I’ve seen two of these styled posts in the last 12 hrs#so i wanted to add my pr nightmare Neil josten#who happens to be demi#neil josten#all for the game#aftg#nora sakavic#andrew minyard#andreil#the foxhole court#tfc#aftg incorrect quotes#also both of the posts were for aftg
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One of my favourite types of Neil fics is Neil coming to terms with the fact that’s it’s okay to want Andrew. That it’s perfectly appropriate to crave him, think of the what it’s like to feel Andrew’s mouth on his body, to fantasise.
From an asexual spectrum experience I have incredibly rare sexual attraction (and romantic but not the point here), and it’s so relatable for me to read Neil being ashamed, confused and even annoyed at himself that he’s like that because it wasn’t like that before. A level was unlocked, a wax seal was broken, a fire was started and there’s no undoing it. Time for Neil to get used to the new normal of wanting Andrew in a sweaty, sexual, craving, crawl into Andrew’s chest if Andrew let him way.
#neil josten#demi Neil josten#aspec Neil josten#aftg#all for the game#the foxhole court#andrew minyard#tfc#andreil
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The most important updates from Nora's recent tweets, TO ME.
#neil josten#jean moreau#andrew minyard#aftg#all for the game#andreil#jeaneil#we're just ignoring that she said renee and andrew used to bone in previous drafts#not my gay king!#← (very lighthearted)#and ace/demi neil deniers can suck it#mine#hits
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pssst friendly reminder that the only canon label we have for Neil's sexuality is demi (aspec) and that he's otherwise unlabeled. hc what you want but stop trying to push it as canon or putting it over his only canon label.
i'm tired of seeing y'all erase aspecness as a valid sexuality and always feeling the need to pair it with another identity as if aspec people aren't valid just identifying as aspec and also erasing us from the conversation entirely
#aftg#all for the game#guess who's aroace and mad again#guys the “neil is bi” “neil is gay” discourse was a big thing when i was in this fandom THREE YEARS AGO#get over it and accept that he's unlabeled#and that the only canon label nora has given him is aspec/demi#neil josten#andrew minyard#andreil#kevin day#aaron minyard#nicky hemmick#allison reynolds#renee walker#dan wilds#matt boyd#seth gordon#david wymack#tsc#the sunshine court#jeremy knox#jean moreau#personal.txt
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Pride month andreil <3 sketch
#digital art#all for the game#drawing#aftg#sketch#the foxhole court#neil josten#andrew minyard#andreil#nathaniel wesninski#adhd Neil josten#i love them#happy pride 🌈#Demi neil josten#gay Andrew minyard#I love dressing Neil as a colorblind 12 yr old#he needs to experience colors#also gingers wearing green is *chefs kiss*#I know Andrew is wearing too much color#leave me alone#Andrew minyard has acne#canon
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I'm ready to give. A hot take about asexual Neil.
Because as an ace-spec person who enjoys sex as an activity for my partner(s) involved, people trying to erase poly/multi-shipping Neil by saying "He's demi so he wouldn't fuck them" have me really on edge. Sex isn't always about deriving personal pleasure. Sex can be an act of intimacy between partners where one gets more out of it physically than the other. You are aware good, consensual sex can happen between partners where one(OR EVEN BOTH/ALL!) of them don't orgasm?
Outside of just a kink scenario with a scene that is meant to instill frustration/not end in orgasm, you can just make out for fun. You can give handjobs and touch and finger and stroke and fondle and pinch and bite and suck and lick and fuck and enjoy just one partner getting their fill. You can top or bottom and not orgasm and still enjoy the experience for what it brings the relationship. (Not to mention Stone Tops are a real thing.)
Sex comes in many forms. Sex doesn't have to end in an orgasm for all involved. And Sex isn't always a defining characteristic for a relationship.
All I'm saying is is stop your ace erasure because you have a preference to only ship Neil a certain way. Your preference is valid until you use a label and twist its meaning to get what you and only you want.
Enjoy your Neil time, but also beware that everyone has their own Neil doll and can play with him however they want. He can slut it up(so to speak) or he can never have sex or experience sexual attraction except once a decade on a night with a specific moon cycle when the conditions are perfect - fandom is meant to be a space to enjoy these characters as they are and/or however we want.
From an ace/demi queer person, please stop taking my sexuality and using it to hurt others who want to enjoy Neil differently than you. Thank you.
#aftg#all for the game#neil josten#aftg fandom#aftg trilogy#aftg neil#trans neil josten#asexual#ace#acespec#demi#demisexual#demisexual is also a spectrum
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#I’m demi!#aftg#neil josten#andrew minyard#all for the game#demisexual#asexual#andreil#kevin day#aaron minyard
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I'm probably the nth person to say this but we rarely get any aspec leads so for neil to be canonically confirmed demi is a pretty important thing to me and regardless of whatever other orientation he is in addition to that he's still queer, and if I see one more post ignoring that just for shipping purposes I'm going to throw hands
#like the most that nora gave us is that he's demi idc if he's gay or bi as well. he's still queer and it isn't just because he has a bf stfu#melone.txt#neil josten#all for the game
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Baffling to me how Neil Josten is unbelievably good at flirting but also unbelievably dense about it
#all for the game#liveblogging#all for the game liveblogging#listen im also demi and understand this behaviour where cues and innuendos don't register#but in this case specifically its Neil's own cues and innuendos that he's not registering#low self awareness and denial
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Andrew: can I have my sweater back?
Neil: can I have my virginity back?
The Foxes:
Kevin: now you all understand my suffering
#I firmly believe Neil constantly steals Andrew’s sweaters#andrew starts stealing Neil's in retaliation#also#Neil is canonically a virgin before Andrew (not that he gives a shit)#hes just too demi to care#like he should#aftg#neil josten#andrew minyard#all for the game#andreil#the kings men#kevin day#aftg kevin#tkm#the foxes#the foxhole court#aaron minyard#aftg renee#renee walker#aftg allison#allison reynolds#dan wilds#matt boyd#nicky hemmick
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When Neil says that Andrew and Aaron are different this is what he means:
Andrew’s hazel eyes that he can get lost into and in the light looks almost golden
Vs
Aaron’s brown eyes
#aftg#all for the game#neil josten#andrew minyard#aaron minyard#Neil’s demisexual ass#Neil’s Demi pov#ug - 28
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Neil josten probably:
"But I'm an exy player !!!"
Haha but I'm a cheerleader reference
#waiting for someone to say neils demi not gay#bc its hilarious#aftg#the foxhole court#all for the game#all for the game series#neil josten#all for the gay#aftg meme#aftg text posts#like yes neil u are gay#doesnt nora say in the ec he eventually comes to terms w it blah blah ?#like andrew helps him or something ?
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