#my friends are atleast as important as my romantic partners
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honestly i think a lot of people these days and most popular media i encounter (atleast ones that are focused heavily on romance like heartstopper) tend to not truly show and understand the importance of platonic affection and love and i am just so happy that heartstopper does. because we truly need more platonic love in this world, especially portrayed as as important as it is!! bc honestly idk what i would do without my friends and it doesnt matter if i like someone romantically, my friends will always be suuuper important to me
season 1 tao's "once you get into a relationship, friendships don't matter anymore" vs season 2 charlie writing "charlie ♡ tao" on the heart locket + "wait, isn't that for you and nick?" "no."
sorry yeah I'm just lil emotional over the portrayal of platonic love as something that can be just as worthy as romantic love. i'm okay.
#i love my friends#i love platonic love#thank you heartstopper!#thank you alice oseman#my friends are atleast as important as my romantic partners#they have always been#and they always will be#heartstopper#heartstopper s2#alice oseman#the osemanverse#charlie spring#tao xu#personal#atlas the thinker
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PAC: ♡ Channelled Love Songs from your Current/Future Romantic Partner ♡
(Please Read My Pinned post *IMPORTANT NOTE* before selecting a Pile)
Pick an Image by meditating and selecting the image you feel called to. You can be attracted towards more than 1 image. If you are not able to select maybe this reading isn't for you.
(You can find all the songs mentioned in the Piles on SPOTIFY. Unfortunately Tumblr only allows 10 audio links per post🥲)
Pile 1
Songs - Aaya Jado Da by Asees Kaur
Screen Time by Epik High ft. Hoshi
Don't Forget To Breathe by Aaryan Shah
Welcome to your reading, Pile 1. First of all, lot of green ink occured in your pile. Your partner seems very caring, nurturing and protective of you. They might be a very caring and loving person themselves, very protective of their belongings and loved ones. They like to have a quick check on you(like not in a toxic or negative way). They want to know you better and your little quirks. They genuinely care about your well being. They might be very cautious, structured, organised individual, a fitness freak as well. They seem kind of very picky, they don't open up to just anybody, they might have very few close friends. They're mostly not interested in flings and one-night stands. They take relationships seriously so they'll only jump into it when they see some real value in it. This person is like a 'husband/wife material' person or atleast a long term partner. This also seems like a long distance relationship to me or getting into a relationship after a series of personal hardships when you've become very mature either age-wise or experience-wise.
So, that's all I got for you, my dear Pile 1.
Hope you're with this person or find this person soon 😉
Hope, light, love and peace to you..🌸🌼🌻
Pile 2
Songs - Talk About Love by Callum Beattie
Seven- Clean Version by Jungkook
Tenu Khabar Nahi by Arijit Singh
Welcome to your reading, Pile 2. Have you guys currently been in separation or broken up with your partner? This could be a recent past energy as well. See, now this also looks like an ex's energy(I don't like to go into this topic because it creates unnecessary confusion but it appeared in the reading so I had to) and whether ex or not, if you strictly don't want this person back into your life, you must then very well know that you've ended up for good and you don't need to allow this person back or this pile totally isn't for you, you should select another pile. One thing is prominent though, one of you has done something bad to the another person..and that was the main reason for your guys' separation. I'm nobody to judge you guys, you know yourselves better. Well, whoever this person is, they want to reconcile with you or you're currently reconciling already. It could be a different case for everyone choosing this pile. It could be so that this person or both of you might still have feelings for each other. This person wants to make things better or do things right. There is a promise of not making the same mistakes again. This person is asking for another chance. Now, you need to decide for yourselves, what's good for you and what's not. It's totally up to you.
That's all I see in the cards for you, my dear Pile 2.
Hope, light, love and peace to you..🌸🌼🌻
Pile 3
Songs - Tera Mera Hai Pyar Amar by Ahmed Jahanzeb
I'm Gonna Love You by D.O. ft. Wonstein
Can't Help Falling In Love by Elvis Presley
Welcome to your reading, Pile 3. This person looks so in love. But more so, this person is very sure of you, there feelings are very intense, too. As they are saying, that it's so easy to fall in love with you, either it's a love at first sight situation or there is a certain clarity about choosing you/about wanting to continue further with you. Nothing can change their mind about you. They are giving me strong future spouse energy because they just want to take you away as soon as possible. So, they'll be very assertive in their approach towards you in the courtship period itself. I also think that they'll be the first one to approach you if you've not met this person already. They'll make sure that you know they are not just fooling around, that you're in for a very long ride. They'll also want to make sure that you too, feel the same way for them before going very far because they want it all or nothing. They'll definitely try to win your heart over, Pile 3.
That's all I got for you, dear Pile 3.
Hope, light, love and peace to you..🌼🌸🌻
Pile 4
Songs - Young And Beautiful by Lana Del Rey
Every Second by Baekhyun from EXO (Record of
Youth OST- 3)
Aadat Se Majboor by Benny Dayal
Welcome to your reading, Pile 4. This person might be a heart-throb. Popular person energy(for their work or looks). Everybody swoons over them. Their energy is quite charming and charismatic. They are bold, fun loving and outgoing, life of the party kind of person. You both might be quite the opposite of each other. They will be very confident in their approach. They might just be nervous about how to woo you because you are different from others and they don't want to make any mistake. They don't want to look like a creep. If you've already met this person or in a relationship, you know. They are someone who'll totally make a fool out of themselves to make you laugh. They love to see you smile and laugh but also, you don't laugh a lot, it seems. There seems to be a lot of people who are sexually attracted to them, but they choose you because you are special to them, you're not like the others according to them. They might've got their heart broken a couple times earlier due to which they're afraid of losing you but that's not going to be the case because they're sure of one thing that you're very firm in your decisions, rock solid and you won't run away when life gets bad. You guys are going to be like a power couple, each helping the other person where they are lacking, each completing the other.
So, that's all I got for you, my dear Pile 4.
Hope, light, love and peace to you..🌻🌼🌸
Pile 5
Pile 5
Songs - Lover by Taylor Swift
Spider By Hoshi
Tere Mast Mast Do Nain by Rahat Fateh Ali Khan
Welcome to your reading, Pile 5. Your person seems very Venusian(very lovey-dovey, full of charm, likes fine art) and Neptunian(very dreamy) to me, a hopeless romantic even. Some of you might also be attracted to Pile 4, because this pile has got some similar vibes. They are magnetic, could also be popular for something that they do, something that only they create. They have a good taste in music as well, could be a musician or they like to play musical instruments. Dancing and singing could be their hobby or talent. They are also someone who knows flirting like the back of their hand. It comes naturally to them, sometimes they don't even know that they're flirting. They might also like good food and fine-dining, might also love to cook. You might not like this person in the beginning because you think they're a flirt and they don't look serious, but you'll eventually start liking them because they're not what they seem from the outside. It is giving me the vibes of 'One fell in love first, but the other one fell harder.' Their heart is so pure and innocent. They'll woo you with their heart, Pile 5. You seem like a tough nut to crack to them, someone who's hard to get. I also think you've got pretty eyes and a resting b**** face. They love it. There's going to be a playful banter between you guys. Everything will be worth it in the end.
So, that's all I've got for you, my dear Pile 5.
Hope, light, love and peace to you..🌻🌼🌸
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https://www.tumblr.com/dearweirdme/756239745546387456/whoops-i-feel-like-i-invited-a-bunch-of-nasties?source=share
Well atleast they aren't disappointed in me 🥹.
Just a few quick notes before I go (sorry can't help myself 🫣)
"none of these things that this obviously ignorant anon has written is how real relationships work" hey but that was my point. That is for sure not how real relationships work. Real relationships aren't dependent just on specific occasions. That's why my hypothetical me broke up with my hypothetical bf 🤷🏻♀️
"...because in the real world, people don’t feel the need to stick to their partners like that all the time and they definitely wouldn’t ignore their friends or coworkers just because their partner is there." Well....IRL people don't straight up ignore their partners either 😬. And they for sure don't leave them behind without asking them to tag along. Or maybe I've been doing relationships wrong all my life??
The way Jk behaves with Taehyung in public (aww so you see it too?? Aren't they the cutest? 🥰) shows more than anything that those two don’t have anything to hide-Btw, going as buddies in the military or shooting travel shows as a duo doesn't come under the "hidden couple" category either.
"I also don’t see you or any of your anons asking why during HS concert, Jimin and Jungkook “disappeared” together for almost 20 minutes" Yes I didn't ask this anywhere. But there's a reason for that, the reason is- I had no idea that they "disappeared" bcs believe it or not, I am not in-charge of their pee pee schedules. And trust me you don't want to assert the point that they were using those 20 mins for making out in the concert venue loo, bcs by that logic, taekook have been making out at almost every other award show, since they've had a habit of "disappearing" together during shows.
"Y’all must think this is some drama or something where those who are in love can’t keep their hands of each other IN PUBLIC." You say this and then you start talking about 20 min disappearances. Be consistent please 🙄.
"..would openly display their affection towards each other by holding each other while singing romantic songs, sticking close to each other, wispering to each other and all." There were four members at the hs concert. Two stuck together like glue, the others did their own thing. There were three at yoongi's concert, two stuck together, the other one was more focused on yoongi. There were 6 and then 5 members in '23. Two stuck together, the others did their own thing. Now if you want to believe that those two are just coworkers(bcs jikookers don't even believe in their friendship), and I am ignorant and don't knwo how real relationships work, then I'd rather have this coworker relationship than that relationship with a boyfriend.
Hi anon!
Well, they are probably sitting around being all mad because I once again hid their ask from all of you 😂. Thanks for coming back, I think the tone of your ask was pretty lost to them.
My reason for not believing that Jk and Jm are together will always be that I do not see it in their general interactions. Sure there's some moments that out of context look sus, but when you look at them in context.. they are clearly just friends (which is by all means just as important by the way, people should stop acting as if calling two people best friends is some sort of insult). No matter how many birthdays or couple days they spend together, no matter how happily Jk talks to Jm in his lives, no matter how often they are seen together in general.. I just do not see it in the way they interact. Never have, not once! So for Jkkrs to come here and use arguments about Jkk to debunk Taekook.. it just makes no sense. It is not as though we are not aware of Jkk moments, or that we are not aware of Jkkrs theories.. we know! We deal with the same footage, Jkkrs literally send their opinions to our blogs. I am just never going to see it. I still will not see it even if it ever turns out that Jk and Tae are just friends.
I can never take a Jkkrs opinion on Tae and Jk seriously, because I think a lot of their opinions are based on unrealistic views. Had I thought their views on Jk, Tae, and Jm as individuals are correct, perhaps we would have more room to discuss.. but with how they usually describe the three, I don't think there's a possibility of that happening.
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Aang character is my biggest salt on atla. Now before people misunderstood what i'm saying, aang is a great character but not a great romantic partner. I really hated how he doesn't try to see from katara perspective or even try to understand. Even if aang don't agree with katara action he should just keep that word to himself. I was like ok fine this show not gonna make aang take revenge ok cool, then we get to see how aang reaction to katara anger great now it's just turn into the worst. Aang and katara should not end up together they should just stayed as friend, sokka nah he's romance are great, zuko romance it's fine. Now this make me wonder why is katara is always the one who empthasized but not aang. Aang is also dealing with genocide too he should have atleast understood the pain and trauma
Thissss. I dont hate Aang, I love him, but like you said, he wasnt a good partner for Katara. She had to do everything, she always tried to understand him. Aang barely does this. And in the most important moment, were Katara needed to confront HER MOTHER´S KILLER, Aang started preaching about his beliefs...
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Well I see ur last answers on Byler and Mileven post and I would like to add my perspective on both of these ships realistically (because I like to poke my nose into others businesses /jk)
Well honestly speaking I love Byler, but here I'll try to be as unbiased as possible. Realistically speaking, both ships have their own pros and cons. Mileven did looked cute around 1-2 seasons (if we see it from general audience perspective) and while Byler (for me atleast) looked so much cute and healthy in season 2.
But look let's forget the fact that Mike can't say ily to El for a moment. Their ship still won't make sense, because Mike (when he asked El out) was around 11-12 yrs (as much as I remember). He cared and loved El but not romantically. He showed a genuine care for her because he suddenly founded her in woods (plus he thought she might know about Will). At this time I don't think he had crush on her. El was the first girl who had talked to him without being mean, so that is also the reason for him to act more soft towards her. But since it was first time for Mike to talk to a girl, so the other people around him (like - Lucas and Nancy) thought that he liked her. And Lucas was the one who was pushing this idea that Mike might be in love with her, and after sometime Nancy also confronted him about this. And since surrounding does affects you and it was his first time being friends with a girl, he later thought yes that might be the case. And El didn't even knew what a friend was, so how do we expect her to know the meaning of love is? In conclusion I think that both El and Mike likes this idea of being in love and they do love each other but as I said not romantically. They both don't act like themselves around each other and in last season they both lied to eachother. Both of them need to explore themselves and what they like and then should be in a relationship with someone they like.
While for Byler, I do believe it is much better than Mileven but again Mike still needs to find what he really feels and think. And as for Will, he does know that the kind of love that want is "not normal" in the sense of 90s. He do love Mike in a romantic way but he still tried to fix Mike's and El's relationship, because he cares for both of them. I'm not a Mike hater but him in season 3 and 4 just gives me mixed feelings. Mike outted Will and he during the time when he was supposed to find his "girlfriend", he started talking about how Will didn't talked to him the whole day. Which is actually kinda umm, weird? Like bro u are supposed to find ur girlfriend, so don't change the topic lol.
I'm still looking out for Mike's character development in season 5 because he has so much potential and he is more than "El's boyfriend".
I to be honest wouldn't mind if Byler doesn't becomes canon (actually I will but that's not the point here 🥲) but if Mileven becomes endgame then tbh it would be a kind of a fanservice. Like let's take bylers a side, the large number of audience are general audience and other are Milevens. Most of the general audience are homophobic and they go with basics . Not forget to mention that people still say in this date that "wait people ship Mike and Will??" El is a character who needs to be independent, her story doesn't revolve around finding a boyfriend but it's revolve around finding herself and learning the normal world. Mike is just boiled down to being El's boyfriend but he is more than that, so many people find him relatable and it's not a bad writting if something like this happens. If see from Will's perspective, then his story doesn't fully revolve around finding a partner but it still plays a important role in his character (since he thinks that he can't be loved by someone how he wants). I'm such huge fan of Will and I want what he feels is good for him, I just want to see him happy. I still hope that he comes out to Mike and Mike to comfort him, them having a heart to heart while comforting each other.
Mileven as a ship held a big potential in past but it wasn't taken serious as it should've been. Same goes for Byler, it have potential to be a good friends to lover story and duffers are giving us bit of hints but we will only what is gonna happen to them in season 5.
At the end I want all my three babies to have a happy ending which they deserve (〃゚3゚〃)
I'm gonna be honest with u right now, this is one of the best explained views on a byler pov I've seen!! It was really nice and you've got a point!! i love nice byler fans with all my heart i swear❤️❤️
The first thing i want to say is the fact that we all are getting so mad sometimes about these ships probably bc no one wants to be in a situation where we get to know that we believed in some delusions for years 😭😭
I personally see mike with el, I don't know if things are gonna work out for them but i hope so, yet the most important thing for me is a happy ending for my fav character- Mike, and if you're the one who has right, if byler actually's gonna be endgame, as long as mike is actually happy i think I'll be happy too (well i really hope so but i want mileven to be endgame please lord😭😭😭)
But even skipping the part about who does mike actually love in a romantic way, can i ask u something? Can you really see it, how mike and el break up and then immediately mike goes to his best friend and his ex gf brother and they become a couple? I know that you would really like that to happen but the question is do u really see it happen?😭 Because i just can't I'm so sorry i don't know how it is supposed to happen, we actually don't have much time it's the last season 😭
And I have another question like this is kinda personal but I need to know, do u have something like this sometimes, that you're starting to stress- ,,what if my fav ship actually won't be endgame? what if I'm being delusional?" Don't get me wrong I'm asking these questions to myself all the time because i have to be honest with u it's stressing me out that there's so many byler shippers like it have to mean something right?😭😭😭
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hi! i hope ur doing well ^^
so i know im aromantic (or on the spectrum somewhere) and acespec
ive never felt actual romantic feelings but i feel attraction like being attracted to someones looks (but pretty much only women/ fem presenting people)
idk if i actually feel romantic/sexual attraction, i atleast havent so far but im only interested in fem presenting people but idk if im attracted to them romantically?? i hope that makes sense lol
like, i want to be in a relationship but i dont think i actually experience love ://
and the only times ive been attracted to someone i feel like its just me telling myself i like them but i dont bc im friends with them (everytime ive been attracted to someone its lit just me being like 'this persons my friend and theyre cool, ig i have a crush on them now' but deep down i know i dont actually feel that way towards them, yk?)
but i rlly dont want to be completely aro (ik that sounds terrible sorryyyy) i want to be in a relationship and have someone love me and me to love them back! i want like a slow burn like bff to lovers thing but i dont think ill ever have that bc i might be completely aromantic
i guess i call myself sapphic aroace but idek if thats accurate ://
hello!
I'm doing rather well today, thank you for asking 😊
about for not wanting to be aro, know that many other aros feel the same. I know I used to. for a long time. it can be hard to realize you're aro, that you'll probably never feel or experience what society tells us about romantic love. that it's magical, the most important relationship in your life, that only a romantic partner can see all of you and love all of you, that it's the most intimate relationship you'll ever have, both physically and emotionally.
that is not true. this is a romanticized version of romantic love.
also, deep, meaningful and intimate relationships don't have to be romantic. I, for example, have a platonic relationship like this and it fulfills my emotional needs.
what I want to say is that your feelings are not unusual, you are ok. it *is* hard to get over amatonormativity.
I also think you should look into the cupioromantic label, I think it would resonate with you.
as for calling yourself sapphic aroace, only you can decide if the label suits you and if it would be useful for you. you do fit the definition if it's what you're worried about.
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Helloooo!! Hope you doing great!! I wanted to request a reading. Thankyou for providing us with the divination. Bless you ✨
Date of birth : 29 April 2004
Initials : S.K 🌷
Specific event that happened last month : I was recently able to connect more with my mom. It made not sound as special but to me it definitely was smth that felt special. We went out for a field trip and it was quite fun. My mom is usually a lil controlling and mostly keeps to herself. I understand why she’s that way but I wished things could be better…and it did get better? Atleast for a day!! I was able to see her smile, laugh, click my pics, see the care in her eyes, the childlike mischief and innocence she carries…ah my heart. The day was quite special. I wish to see her this side more often haha. 🐠🐠🐠
(I lowkey forgot about the question 😭✋🏻)
Question : what’s my next romantic partner like? 🌊
(I wanted to ask about when they might come into my life but I think that’s a separate question. If at all you do get any time, I’d be glad to know of it. 😊)
Thankyou once again. I reallyyyyy love your energy and it was so good to see you wanting to help people and talk to them as a friend. You’re precious 🧚🏻♂️✨
Hello, dear @lightchopshhopp! Thank you for your request and being a part of my community. I hope that my reading will help you and bring clearance to your situation.
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First of all congratz on the time spent with your mom. It is important to work on our relationship with our parents so I'm happy to hear that you spent some time with her!❤️❤️❤️ Well my dear we have the Queen and King so it is clear that this match is made in heaven. You are going to deal with someone who is nurturing, so right now you need to stay focused and have patience. When it comes to this relationship you need to make sure that your own physical needs are met. This person is wise and has a strong material instinct(can be an Earth sign - Taurus, Virgo, or Capricorn and they can work as a coach, in sports, in public office, or have something to do with politics). Because you have put time and effort into improving yourself, you are now confident and ready for a healthy relationship. Do not waste time with people who are now available emotionally and allow yourself to find a long-lasting partner. Back to your partner, they have dark hair and eyes, with a great sense of humor, well-informed, educated, someone who will always be there for you. Just be careful not to be too rigid because he will feel blocked by you. At his worst, he can isolate themselves. Pay attention to the details when it comes to their personality and speak if something isn't how you like(just keep in mind that things can improve and that is not ok to try to change people). These people don't like drama and want to be with someone who understands what life is really about. So you just need to have faith that this person will come into your life. You are someone very attractive and people know that you have a strong and good character. The light that you radiate illuminates all the darkness around you, that's why this person will want to have a connection with you. It's more like you are the star in a circle of people. When it comes to the timing of your meeting this person I think that it will happen pretty fast like a week or on the 1st of a month, anyway so be prepared dear because you will find your other half soon. Angel message: Serenity bestows inner peace, tranquility, and calmness of mind. When you feel serene, you are your person, for nothing and no one can bother, upset, or influence you. You are like a calm, clear lake - beautiful and peaceful to be with. Your quiet radiance brings hope and support to those who come within your aura. You attract respect and love from others for all are calmed by you. Quietly ask your angel to hold you in serenity.
Affirmation: I am serene and still. I wish you only the best!���
Moni🧚♀️
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hi lovely!! i saw ur matchups on my feed & was interested in getting a long romantic one with a male (i am female & go by she/her pronouns!!) c:. im happy to be 🩰 anon if possible x
first a little bit about myself!! i am a relatively tall girlie (5’11) and do prefer someone taller than me or atleast equal heights (im sorry my short kings i still love yall) i am currently doing classes around digital & social media with an aim to become a social media manager for a company. ive always excelled in arts based subjects aswell as english however suck at anything maths/science related. i enjoy musical theatre alot aswell (its one of my main passions) and anything with a fun song and dance!! i also enjoy just going out with the people i care about spontaneously (walks, dinner, shopping, sitting in the same room in silence, etc.) but my downtime (mainly sleeping & reading) will always be my number one priority. as for how i look, as stated before im a tall girlie, brown hair, blue eyes, light freckles on my face that have faded over time & glasses ;p. i would say to describe my personality (im a libra & isfp if that means anything to u aswell haha) i am the kinda of person who can be loud & obnoxious around my friends but will not talk to anyone without them. i also tend to need to feel in control otherwise i freak out. i also tend to distance myself when i get overwhelmed (happens more than id like to admit) so id like someone who can combat that :p. i am a self proclaimed funny person (unsure if that’s completely true) but i love to make people laugh & smile!!my love language is definitely gift giving & quality time :p
as far as my partner; i would like someone funny for sure with the same kinda humour as me, loyal & someone who isnt overly clingly bc despite how deeply i care for my friends/family/partner my me time is so important. i am not a very picky person tbh i just need someone who understands me and can take the time to understand me & who i am as a person & i can talk abt my weird goofy lil interests around.
thanks so much im so excited :D!!
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headcanons
🥛 suna is lowkey obsessed with social media so it's perfect that you have a job in that industry
🥛 he is also like the king of downtime
🥛 on weekends you two could sleep until noon
🥛 you can read while he scrolls on instagram or whatever he has
🥛 if you end up getting him to actually read it'll probably just be like a webtoon on his phone lol
🥛 but he will willingly listen to your recommendations
🥛 maybe he'll give an audiobook a chance
🥛 i feel like suna is a very chill partner
🥛 if you're feeling down he'd give you just a big hug, maybe send you a nice song over text
🥛 he'll let you have your space if you need it but he'll always be there for you
🥛 whether it's with a hoodie, some food, or a hug
🥛 i think his giving love language is most likely physical touch and quality time
🥛 you could just spend hours together in bed, doing your own thing, as long as he's got his hand on you somewhere
🥛 NOT in a dirty way!! he just wants to always be holding your hand
🥛 i almost feel like suna is just too lazy to date for fun
🥛 you'll have to work to get him to dance with you
🥛 but he'll always be down to just watch you sing or dance
🥛 he doesn't talk much but he'd love to listen to your little rants
🥛 thinks you're so cute when you talk about what makes you happy
🥛 secretly records you while you do this
🥛 suna 100% has a photo album of you on his phone
🥛 he LOVES taking photos of you
🥛 his phone background is a photo of the two of you
🥛 he has polaroids in his room of the two of you
🥛 when he's away for volleyball games, he pulls his phone's photo album out when he misses you
🥛 he loves everything and anything you gift him
🥛 will take a photo of it if he can't bring it with him to games
🥛 i personally headcanon that suna just has a little drawer full of everything you give him
🥛 i can't imagine suna actually being good at STEM subjects (or any subjects, for that matter)
🥛 so you might have to get some tutoring from kita
🥛 suna will complain the whole way there and back
🥛 just another way perfect kita gets to show off
runner up for you was kuroo tetsurō!
A/N: i hope you liked it! i know this was out super fast but to me you just fit suna too well! i love him so much he'd be like my top choice for a partner
also i relate too much to the "i can do humanities but no STEM" ;-;
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Who has a crush on you?
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Pile 1
I'm getting a quieter person having a crush on you. I'm getting them being pretty popular though. I just heard that audio 'walks like an angel, talks like an angel.' I feel like it describes their perception of you and also their own way of carrying themselves and going about charming others. They might be an air or water rising. I'm getting for some of you this person might have a really unique name. Someone's name starts or has something to do with an 'R'. This person seems to have it easier in life, I mean ofcourse they have their own fair share but they seem to be really lucky. I feel like if you found out that this person likes you, you'd be all happy. I'm getting you dressing really well and making sure you look even better than you always do to meet this person. Lmfao, I'm getting a different energy here, it might be the same person or a different one but this seems to be someone who's mean to you 😭 (heavy on the enemies/rivals to lovers.) "I'm the sweetest girl in town so why are you so mean?" I'm getting both of them being popular among the opposite sex that is if they're different people. I feel like you'll be overwhelmingly loved by either one or both of these people, maybe you're just not used to receiving affection. "This song reminded me of you." They smile while thinking about you whenever you cross their minds. You're kind of their escape, they're surviving solely on daydreams about you. Someone might have a wrist fetish ☠️ (I think it's one of them.)
Hints: blue sweater/jumper, sketching, strawberries, love notes, red jacket, pocky, Harry styles, 505, holding hands, platform or combat boots.
Pile 2
This person is probably on the quieter side too but not with you ☠️. Others might be like "they're so cold", "they're really introverted" or "they're really quiet" and you're just there like "what? They literally never shut up..." They might find the corny relationship stuff really cringe but not if you're the one in question. They seem to admire you as a person. They're a simp for you. It might as well be your best friend or something 😭. I feel like both of you are really comfortable with each other. "He/she's my home" energy is really strong here. You make each other feel like you're not alone. I love this pile, it's so soft. You're the only one for them. It'd be really shocking if you had no clue. This person seems to be someone who's seen you crumble completely and rise again, stronger than ever. They see you as an angel. I love this pile ahhh. One or both of you seem to have a swan like presence (I feel like it's you.) You're really really elegant. "Rosewater runs through my bloodstream and my heart is quartz."
Hints: gold chain, roses, mirror, writing, tattoos, second chances?, rings, cigarettes, japan, mint green, mint chocolate, high on green tea, "oh to have a friend like you."
Pile 3
One of you might love or like the moon or just space in general. They think of you while looking at the moon. Ah... This person has family issues, I feel like they simply adore you since they think you'd be someone who could actually love them and be there for them the way their family should've been. It's sad because I feel like this person still unconditionally loves their family (especially their mother.) Oh my god, this is so soft, this might be your crush/partner or atleast someone you show a little affection to. 'POV' by Ariana Grande is coming through as their feelings. "Cause nobody ever loved me like you do, I'd love to see me from your point of view." I feel like they knew from the start that you'd grow into someone important to them. This person finds effort really attractive and you seem to be the type to put some effort into your connection with this person regardless of whether it's platonic or romantic. "God created my family and sent Y/N as an apology." For them, if it's not you, it's not anyone. This person likes your eyes/eyelashes/eyebrows and might have even pointed it out. You give them so many butterflies. They seem to ride or die for you. You might value this person's intensity.
Or you might have had a seperation with this person already. Pisces and Taurus are coming through. To them you're ethereal, almost ghostly. No matter how much time passes by, they simply don't seem to get over you.
Hints: black hoodie, blue iPhone, 777, 17, 7, August, unconditional love, park Ave, yellow hearts, "cross oceans for you", falling in love - cigarettes after sex.
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Your headcanons make me feel shrimp emotions, could you please drop your hc's for how Risotto acts around somebody he's interested in? 👀🖤🖤🖤 (Thank you)
no, thank you shrimp anon for this beautiful prompt
Risotto won't even realize his feelings at first, he really just assumes he likes your company alot. He's like having a huge tree follow you, it's silent but you can just tell it's there because seriously it's a massive tall blob. He awkwardly shuffles around corners just enough so you're in his view when you're in the next room, please help this socially awkward giant of a man. Sometimes when he actually feels comfortable enough to approach you, he'll sit in the nearest seat to you even if the entire couch is empty. It's strange but he thinks being around you may absorb your positivity into him like a magnet or something, it does boost his mood so he considers it to work.
Is talking to the rest of the team about how he feels about your currently platonic relationship, the more he describes it everyone is just kind of like, "bro,, you like them." Risotto just completely stops there and leaves the room silently. Not because he's upset at them or anything, but he actually needs to take a moment to figure out his own feelings. Goes to his room and blanks out for a minute, him in love? Who would've thought. The next morning he decides to start subtlety pursuing you romantically, though you'd have to be a detective to figure out that he had any feelings behind his actions.
Starts bringing you little snacks and preparing meals for you throughout the day, he's made it very clear if anyone touches your food, he will personally make them choke on nails. Loves to leave you little gifts and trinkets with a note in your room when you're away. Did you lose something? Wow how strange he just happened to buy a brand new thing of exactly what you needed. Though if you lost an article of clothing like a shirt, dare I say underwear, it's probably in his possession now, let it go my friend. Tries to take on alot of your workload to give you an easier time if you're feeling particularly stressed about something, 50% of missions you do complete are partnered with him recently.
Eventually decided to call you into his office to speak with you about "an important matter" late in the evening one day during your free-times. He really really wanted you to catch on to his "hints" independently, but honestly nobody would be able to tell. Stares at you silently in the dim lit room for atleast a minute, it feels more like a day with his intimidating gaze though. Finally says something about this being highly unprofessional, but he can't help how he feels about you romantically. Super blunt, he needs social help desperately, please just tell him you like him too. After that he will pick you up like a sack of potatoes easily and takes you to his room to sleep.
im tired n hungry so this is probably really bad and im sorry, hope you could enjoy some of it anyways <3
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I hate HATE how many people consider their romantic relationships to be more important than friendship. I didn't want to go on this rant because to me it sounds extremely selfish but screw that, I deserve to be selfish once in a while. My friends are dating and that's fine. They're happy so I'm happy for them. But recently they started completely neglecting me and one of our other friends who is also single (and also acespec though I don't think that's too important here). They're always with their friend group. Whenever me or the other friend bring it up they go "well I'm there because my partner is there", and we really can't even ask without them being like "are you jealous??? do you have a crush on me???" No, we want to be friends again, but if you're gonna be like that, maybe we shouldn't be
I still like them. I think. It's weird, they used to be my favorite people and now I feel like I wouldn't miss them if they left me. I wish I could atleast talk to them without being dismissed or "of course I'd rather be with my boyfriend, we're dating, and you're meaningless"-ed. They never actually say that but I can't help but feel that way whenever I'm with them. I'm just waiting to get over them I think
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TELL ME BOUT HOMESTUCK!
yes chef.
ok so we'll go with my favourite parts, the quadrant system and the hemospectrum. Both of these are part of troll society (trolls are grey, yellow eyes, black hair, orange horns), and play very important roles in reproduction (quadrants), and societal roles (hemospectrum).
First, the quadrant system: There are four, each representing a different kind of emotion. We'll go left -> right, top to bottom. (note: no quadrants have set pronunciations, say them however you like.)
<3 The first quadrant is the red or flushed quadrant, more typically known as Matespritship. It is represented by a red heart. It is the most familiar to humans, being a typical romantic/sexual relationship built on positive feelings. Not much else to explain, except that the sexual part is not required unless going by canon alternian rules, which have a very strict system and requires all trolls to reproduce.
<> Next is the pale quadrant, also known as Moiraillegience (Singular: Moirail), or a palemate. This is represented by a pale pink diamond, and is built on positive feelings. Sexuality is not a part of this quadrant, instead it is more necessary for keeping two trolls grounded instead of doing some sort of acrobatic fucking pirouette off the handle. It is usually more one-sided, but both need eachother to some degree. One of my good friends describes it as a 'platonic soulmate', though in troll society it is considered a form of romance, being judged in the same way if cheated as if a 'normal' relationship had a cheating partner.
<3< Next is the black, or caliginous quadrant, also known as Kismesissitude (singular: kismesis). It is represented by a black spade, and is built on negative feelings. It is the second of the two sexual quadrants, and in canon is described as a 'very potent arch-rivalry'. The two (or more, if open to polyamoury) people in the relationship must hate eachother just as passionately as the other (very). Despite the absolute hatred they must have for eachother, a certain amount of respect must be held. A kismesis, just like a matesprit, shines light on traits about yourself you may not want to acknowledge, or even know that they're there. A healthy kismesis relationship will always have some level of respect for the other, if not an Auspistice is needed.
o8< The final quadrant, called the ashen quadrant, known formally as Auspisticism, requires atleast three people. It is represented by a grey club. In canon, it is when one troll steps in to an abusive/disloyal kismesissitude to try getting things back on track. Essentially, relationship therapists. I personally enjoy the idea that it can apply to all quadrants, and can also double as a matchmaker. This idea is very uncanon. If the auspistice doesn't care enough, the relationship will crumble.
The next part of my essay is the Hemospectrum. It is the caste system that troll society lives by. It is determined by blood colour, since trolls come in different blood colours. The lowest caste is rust, and the highest caste is fuchsia. The exact lineup is Rust, Bronze, Gold, Lime*, Olive, Jade, Teal, Cerulean, Indigo, Purple, Violet, and Fuchsia. Lower castes have higher psychic powers, but higher castes live longer, with fuchsias possibly living millions of years. Most trolls wear their blood colour prominently, with the exception of trolls outside the hemospectrum (aka mutants) (because they would be culled if their blood colour was discovered)
*Limebloods are extinct in canon; due to their psychic abilities to pacify highbloods they were all culled.
Rustbloods have dark red blood, and the strongest psychic capabilities (commonly telekinesis). They only live about a dozen or two sweeps (one sweep equals about 2.16 years), or about 25-50 years.
Bronzebloods have dark orange-ish blood, and commonly have the power to communicate with animals. Their lives are slightly shorter than an average human life.
Goldbloods have dark yellow blood, and often have strange eyes, being one or two flat colours with no pupils. They also often have more than two horns. Their psychic powers most commonly are associated with technology, and their lifespans are comparable to that of a human.
Not much is known of limes, because they were all culled before the events of homestuck. It is known that they had some unusual names, and the ability to pacify highbloods through their psychic power. One of the signs in the lime caste, Cancer, transcends the hemospectrum entirely, and is the religious symbol of what is basically troll jesus.
Olive blood is a dark green colour. Nothing is said about any psychic powers they may have. Their lifespans are comparable to that of a human, most likely more. Troll Will Smith is an oliveblood.
Jadebloods have greenish-blue blood. Jades are especially important in troll society, being the caretakers of the Mother Grub (The giant monster that births all trolls). Jades typically live longer than a century. They are said to probably have the smallest caste population apart from fuchsias. The Jades who care for the Mother Grub are also tasked with culling off any grubs (troll babies) that are deemed 'too weak' or have some sort of imperfection (disability, mutant blood, etc.). Jades are also able to become Rainbow Drinkers (troll vampires), though it is suggested that becoming a rainbow drinker is sacrilegious.
Tealbloods have teal blood. They often work as legislacerators, aka lawyers. Not much else to be said about them, except for the fact that they have the best character in the series: Terezi Pyrope. i love her (platonically).
Ceruleanbloods have cobalt blue blood, and are sometimes called Cobalt because of this. They often have strange eyes (Vriska has 8 pupils in her left eye, my fantroll has four in his right eye, and one from hiveswap has a third eye under their right eye). They also often have asymmetrical horns. Some ceruleans have the ability to read/control minds, and this can be very dangerous if abused. The trolls with more pupils/eyes often have much better vision, and can see through surfaces that would appear opaque to anyone else.
Indigobloods have electric blue blood. They often have horns resembling arrows, and sometimes have terrifying physical strength.
Purplebloods have cool purple blood. They are the highest of the land-dwelling castes, and most all of them participate in a clown-based religion, wearing juggalo-like makeup to show their affiliation. A few purplebloods are selected to rule as both religious and political leaders, the religious bit only applying to those who are part of the religion. In canon, only one of these 'Grand Highbloods' is mentioned, though i choose to believe that there are multiple who govern in different parts of the Alternian empire.
Now we move onto the seadwelling castes, the royalty of trollkind.
Violetbloods have warm purple blood, and more aquatic features (they still have legs tho). Not much to say about them other than i like their blood colour.
Fuchsiabloods have magenta blood, and also have aquatic features. There are only ever two at a time, The Imperious Condescension, and the heir to the throne. TIC is in control of the entire alternian empire, and can possibly live up to millions of years. Both Fuchsiabloods are connected to the gl'bgolyb, a giant monster of tentacles that can release a scream that kills all the trolls in the universe. To prevent it from doing this without a command, it must be fed other troll's guardian monsters (aka Lusii, sing. Lusus). The control of the gl'bgolyb is why TIC is feared and able to keep such a grip on all of trollkind.
Mutants are trolls who are outside of the hemospectrum, and thus are almost always culled when they hatch. The ones that manage to sneak through hide their blood colour, because they'll also be culled if found out later. Troll Jesus was a mutant, having bright red blood.
And that's my infodump! hope you don't regret telling me to do this :)
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touch
if i havent already said it, i am a BIG physical touch kinda person. i dont mean it in a very sensual way: i love it when people hug me, hold my hand, link arms, etc. im in no way starved for physical affection (sometimes) but its something i love because for me, it gives me a sense of security that “oh, this person places their trust in me,” or “because this person likes me, and i like them, i can feel safe with them (mutual trust).” again, i mean this in the most platonic way ever. in a romantic sense, i hope my future partner can understand this. also! my future partner better be willing to hug me alot! >:)
over the weekend, i got to witness one of my good friends since middle school get married with the love of his life. it was so sweet, so warming UGH i just enjoyed every bit of the wedding. love is real yall lol. before the reception, the friends and i got to talk and stuff. i have a friend that has eczema just like me, but i feel like his case is less severe. often i talk to him about our eczema, because nobody else really goes thru the same experience as us, so i talk about what medicine/creams i use, what works what doesnt, etc. for MONTHS my hands have become so damaged. its wrinkly, red, open cuts, etc. im at my wits end. so i was talking to him about how my hands have become the most affected over the past few months, and i was showing him all the wrinkles and stuff. he motioned his hands for me to place mines on his palms so he could take a look at it and said they looked fine while he caressed my fingers with his thumb. for some reason, i really liked that, like it made me feel safe. my dad used to do that to me as a kid so i guess thats why i felt secure. a little later before eating, lisa did the same at the table, i was telling her how i tend to hide my hands because its just awful. she held my hand and told me that i was fine, that it was okay. and again, i just felt safe. i think its the same case when my friends play with my hair. i guess i do like the sensation of people touching me, again not in an erotic way. omg what if its the over-anxious part of me that finds relief in sensory stuff? possibly huh? gotta ask my therapist about this one.
those very actions made me feel like “im okay. my hands are ugly, theyre wrinkled, red, just so different but my friends say i am fine. i am okay. i am loved.” atleast thats how i perceived it as they held my hands. i love them so much, i dont think they know how much their small actions and words mean to much to me. words are important, but touch is just as important too. i wish this could happen often lol. i just feel so much love from that
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Jotakak headcanons
Slight part 3 spoiler warning
Also I refuse to acknowledge kakyoins actual fate
They love sparring with eachother. Fighting in general is a big part of their relationship. Being able to trust eachother enough to hold their own in a match without seriously injuring the other, and to have their back in a battle is super important. Its a major form of intimacy for them
The adrenaline, the trust, the physical closeness, the intimate understanding of eachothers strategies, thought process and movements. They just love sparring ok
Their sparring matches can get pretty emotional too. It's difficult for them to confront and express their emotions with other people. So they use fighting as an intense emotional release that makes it easier for them to talk about things after. Its not uncommon for one of their sparring matches to end in one or both of them crying about their share trauma or something similar and holding eachother
Jotaro doesn't want to use time stop in their sparring matches at first, but kakyoin insists that he's comfortable with it. Jotaro is worried about hurting him more than he already has been with it, or scaring him. kakyoin trusts jotaro enough to use it safely in matches and he really wants to push himself to find good counters to the ability. It takes a long time but he does eventually find a few that work reasonably well (don't ask me what they are, my brain is basicly just a small plastic dinosaur toy)
Neither of them like p.d.a. much, especially jotaro. The most they are comfortable with is occasional hand holding but even that they wouldn't do around strangers. Jotaro gets super self-conscious about it and it makes him feel like he's being weak and vulnerable. Kakyoin just thinks p.d.a. is rude
They don't really do pet names either except for ONE. They were joking one day about how awkward they think pet names are and how they don't like them. Jotaro jokingly calls kakyoin "angel" and kakyoin realizes that he actually really likes that one and that one ALONE. jotaro likes to say that it doest suit him and he still finds it kind of awkward, but he will still call kakyoin "angel" occasionally because he knows he likes it. (And because its easier to sweet talk him into things when he uses it agfjdjfj)
Jotaro fell in love with kakyoin way before kakyoin fell in love with him. Jotaro started really feeling for kakyoin about mid way through their trip, but kakyoin didn't realize that he was in love with jotaro until a while after they got back to japan. Kakyoin was still processing what having friends feels like for the first time. I think he would have needed a calmer, non-life threatening environment to process all that and sort his emotions out.
Their relationship would best be described as queer platonic, though I don't think they would ever use that word. Its a semi-romantic, non sexual, and deeply committed relationship. Their commitment to eachother and level of emotional intimacy is outside the range of a typical friendship, but they don't really know how to distinguish if their feelings are platonic or romantic.. They would have a really hard time defining their relationship and they would never really know if it was platonic, romantic, or something in-between. So they just gave up decided to do whats best for them without really labeling it. That, the lack of p.d.a., and the fact that they call eachother their "partner" instead of "boyfriend" tends to confuse a lot of people
They have a sort of separation anxiety for a while after the trip. Kakyoin is worried that jotaro only really liked him for his utility in fights and now that they aren't fighting for their lives, jotaro will get bored of him and leave. Jotaro is irrationally afraid that kakyoin will suddenly die or just dissapear entirely. They tend to visit eachother or atleast call for a few hours once a day for a several months after returning to Japan. They eventually return to being able to maintain a healthy distance when its necessary, but it take them a while
Holly LOVES kakyoin. she would really treat him like a second son and kakyoin would find it easy to confide in her. He would also help her around the house and with cooking and things too. They just get along really well
Kakyoin's parents do not like jotaro much. They sort of blame him for kakyoin "running away". And they think he's a bad influence. They don't say much though because this is the first time they have seen their son have a friend and be this happy. Their interactions with jotaro are still pretty tense though
Both of their love language are bullying and info dumping
Ok their ACTUAL love languages are quality time(jotaro) and acts of service(kakyoin)
Jotaro is the little spoon, enough said
Jotaro thinks kakyoin is hilarious (this i take as 100% canon)
Jotaro's favorite qualities of kakyoin's are his strength/confidence and his ability to understand him
Kakyoin's favorite qualities of jotaro's are how caring he is and his selflessness
Both of them keep in contact with polnareff after the trip. Particularly kakyoin who calls him atleast once a week and schedules his calls so they're at a reasonable hour in France, even if that means staying up super late
That being said, polnareff had no idea that jotaro and kakyoin were together until like 2 years after they started dating. They both just kind of assumed the other one had told him already.
Despite them being in a gay relationship themselves, they love to bully polnareff and Abdul for acting gay. Gay and homophobic kings
#jotakak is a good ship actually just not when people do it like That tm#jotakak#jotaro/kakyoin#long post#noriaki kakyoin#jotaro kujo#jjba#headcanons#jjba spoilers#sdc spoilers
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Hello! I love your analysis and I just wanted to know what you think of team taka. For me personally I'm not a fan of taka because they aren't really friends, just a means to an end. I see a lot of people say Sasuke was better off with them but I really don't believe that as not a single one of them wanted to actually understand him. They followed him but they weren't close with him and weren't very important to him. I love Suigetsu and Jugo and I'm meh on Karin (she kinda gives me some scary vibes), but I don't see them as the besties that I've seen several people say. I've only read the manga through Shippuden (working on watching the anime though) so I was wondering if the anime adaptation added more to make it seem as though they were closer. I was just wondering what you think
Great Ask, @narusasudestiel 👍🏼👍🏼
I see a lot of people say Sasuke was better off with them but I really don't believe that as not a single one of them wanted to actually understand him.
I know why people say this.
To be honest, no one really wanted to understand Sasuke other than Naruto.
Kakashi knew the truth about Itachi and still tried to kill him. Ms.Pinky never even bothered to know the truth, but she also tried to kill him. And later, blindly accepted him anyway without even knowing what he has went through. That’s pretty self-explanatory from the way she was guessing whether he wore specs or not!!!! Because she knows nothing about him.
So, you see how dysfunctional Team 7 is.
That’s why people think, if Sasuke’s old Team 7 members couldn’t even understand him properly, then it’s better for Sasuke to be with these Team Taka guys whom Sasuke chose by himself. Atleast they are suited to his goals, that is wandering along the road and helping people. As time goes, they might come to understand him better. The Anime adaptation doesn’t add anything much to enhance their bond actually. It was almost similar to the Manga, with very few added scenes.
Sasuke made it very clear,
This is their dynamics throughout the Anime.
Whenever Sasuke finds them becoming a burden, he always abandoned them without any care. Because he wasn’t bonded with them.
And at the end of 699, I feel Sasuke is not looking for more friendships and stuffs. He was still that same Sasuke who wants to do stuffs in his own way. But the difference is, unlike before, Sasuke happily accepted his bond with Naruto and was willing to share their pain and dreams. There’s no more denial. For him, A closest Bond who can understand him, in the form of Naruto is enough. He doesn't care if others understand him or not.
All Sasuke need is a team who can work well with him on the road and help people as a way of his Atonement and to achieve his goals, that is to remove the hatred and unite all five Villages.
Someone from Team 7 went along with chased after him and what happened??? A family he never wanted and all that Black Humour drama that entails in Boruto right now.
Imagine what would have happened if Team Taka went along with him?? Sasuke would have been more pleasant than what he is now in Boruto series. He was never a romantic or family person to begin with. The family he always wanted was his own family with his parents and Itachi in it.
He was a goal-oriented person and always will be. That was clearly established in Chapter 3 and that’s why he abandoned Sakura for a decade because he places his goals above his own family. Just like how Itachi once was. Just like how Naruto is now.
Which is exactly why I feel that open ending in chapter 699 is the best for everyone involved. No pairings and shit. Everyone pursuing their own path to achieve the same goal. On his journey, Sasuke could partner up with Team Taka and could form a new friendship too. That would've been lot better than Sakura going along with him.
My opinion on Team Taka is neutral. They didn't understand him yet. But they would've if they were given some time and chance.
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hello faiza, hope u r well!!! i wanna watch skam espana and like,, wanted to ask u if it's good?? i trust ur taste and yeah wanted to hear ur opinion on it before i watch the whole thing and get dissapointed lol is every season good, do i need to watch all of it or could i just watch season 3 and 4 bc they look the most interesting to me?? thanks!!
hiii anon!!! siiiiigh its. i haven't watched s3, so i have no opinions on it. but its 4 seasons, and you can choose to watch all of them, or pick and choose if you like!
s4 is .... there's a Lot going on. so i feel like equal importance/time isn't given to the several different plots going on (all of which are v v important!) and bc of that, characters feel underdeveloped, kasim being the Biggest victim of this treatment. also idk i'm just v v upset that this is a season about and for muslims, yet ... we barely see the muslim characters/interactions??? and that annoys me. let amira be around muslims more! let her seek advice and talk to them, like her parents/muslims friends/kasim! instead its just .... her love interest, dani, who is a white non muslim boy, has somewhat become her only source of strength and comfort and someone to confide in. and ... it just .... rubs me the wrong way bc he Doesnt get it. but amira HAS fellow muslims in her life but they're depriving her of these important conversations, some of which are issues that are a intra community/intra faith thing, like the topic of muslim men and their behaviours/habits, of physical touching in relationships before marriage, of dating etc.
and oooft amira's love interest, according to all the skams, was supposed to be a moc. but dani isnt. so the disconnect is even stronger. and ok. so lets say they wanna portray a r/l between a muslim poc and a non muslim white person, then atleast make the non muslim white love interest show that he is Trying to understand his partner's religion and boundaries and respects them and adheres to them. but ... he isnt. and the backlash of that was amira being called a prude and backwards thinking.
which leads to my main issue of this season. they introduced kasim, a muslim moc. the way they did so made it set up and feel like HE was amira's love interest. no skam has EVER shown 2 muslim characters be in a romantic relationship - this would have been the first time, and it would have been Huge if they had gone thru with it. idc if its a het romance, i do not care. i would rather have a positive healthy het romance between two muslims of colour be shown on screen, bc THATS what is needed to be shown in the west.
but no, they made kasim gay and demonised him (and what good did that do? Nothing. it wasnt a Woke Move to have a gay muslim moc at ALL bc the audience Hates kasim now) and had amira instigate kasim's coming out to his sister and like ..... what's up with that, man. when you had the better option RIGHT THERE of pairing up kasim and amira, and yall do this.
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