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spacebugarts · 2 years ago

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THANK!!!!

#my asks and messages are always open!

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lilac-set · 2 months ago

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Reminder: even if trump wins, we’ll be ok. The presidency isnt the only political position that matters, he wont be a dictator, the president doesnt have the power to remove every other part of government that keeps the president’s power in check. Also politics isnt the only thing that matters. Even if we lose some rights (which he cant singlehandedly do) we still have community, we still have activism, we’ll always be ok. We survived one trump presidency, we can survive another. We survived before gay marriage or transitioning were legal, if we have to survive that again we will. Please, no matter what happens, promise to stay alive. Youre valuable, youre important, and youre going to be ok. Its better to be overprepared than underprepared. Im not asking you to lose hope (im doing the opposite of that), im asking you to practice coping ahead, get all your coping skills ready, determine now to stay alive, because i dont want any of you to make any rash decisions later in case we get bad news and emotions are high. Make a safety plan if you need to. Make sure you’re gonna be ok

#if you cant feel hopeful or curious for the future #maybe at least you can be strategic #if we lose a bunch of marginalized (future) voters and activists we’re just handing them the majority #if you cant stay alive for yourself. stay alive for all the other marginalized people you’ll vote on behalf of next time #dont do their dirty work for them. dont kill a marginalized person even if that person is you #im sorry this post was a downer im just. really worried about the way ive heard some queer people and especially youth talking #i just wanna do whatever i can in making sure you guys are ok #if you need someone to message feel free. dm’s and asks are always open #also i disagree when people say activists are emboldened when the present is on their side #in my experience that isnt what happens? they get complacent #all the conservatives would quiet down while our own community is strengthened #like how all the conservatives got loud under biden #if anyone more eloquent than me wants to rewrite this please feel free #or just your own spin on it thats not necessarily better #i think the more people we can make sure are mentally prepared the better #just in case #lilac posts #us politics #cw suicide

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rainbowdelicsunshine · 4 months ago

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Heya!!

Wanted to let you guys know that my 24th is coming up next month on the 12th and I'm honestly pretty hype about it!

Hope that y'all will have good birthday wishes for me!?

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brutally-loving · 15 days ago

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Fun fact if you ever have a specific thought, headcanon, idea, or anything like that regarding me n my men, I will always ALWAYS want to hear it 🙏 I have lots of thoughts about my mutuals' ships, and I like to tell them what's in my brain too! So I hope you always feel free to do the same. In comments, DMs, asks, or whatnot. I think your brains are awesome! Just like I hope you think my brain is too.

#feel free to ask me about my thoughts/hcs on your ship by the way. i probably have a couple scenarios or hcs in there-#self shipping #selfshipping #self ship #selfship #self ship community #selfship community #selfship talk #f/o community #romantic f/o #krue's f/o talk #i love talking about these things theyre so fun and silly!!! i hope to hear your guys' fun and silly thoughts too #whether theyre just hcs on the character or general thoughts!! my messages and asks are always open for yall.

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zouisexo · 3 months ago

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#my mommy came to sleep with me in my room <3 #right next to me so i wouldn't be alone all night #forever grateful that my friends and family took it as seriously as they knew it would hit me #my brother asking me if i wanted him to cancel the family plans we had so i could have time to myself #my friend who offered to come see me as soon as she heard #my beautiful mile who opened her home to me once again so we could be together #and everyone who messaged me to see if i was alright #just feeling very grateful #idk what i would do without my people #omg and i forgot my cat!!! always next to me and purring and being her sweetest self #like she can sense i need it

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jetsetromance · 1 year ago

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#btw my ask box is open if any of you need to vent or talk #put a * if you want to talk in private and don’t want me to publish it #mutuals you can always just message me

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stellewriites · 2 months ago

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really fucking grinds my gears how my dad knows just how to make me feel fucking guilty for putting up boundaries and saying no

#not even for a major thing!#barely setting a boundary even! just saying i don’t want to do smth!#asking me if i want to go for dinner one evening when he knows i work late most days and have said this for years - in fact said this exact #thing to him last week - so when i say no bc i finish late he just pushes and pushes #until im like this doesn’t work for me AND i hate eating out i dont want to go. just go with my brother that’s fine. and he’s suddenly #blunt as fuck in his messages leaving me on read or guilting me about the hours i work….. like get a fucking grip your over 50 bro #i try to be polite with it but he just gets in a fucking mood like please you are a Loser #i see you weekly (smth HE chose when i was a bairn) like im not making my job and life harder just bc you feel bad that you don’t see me #more often now #also i only hate eating out with him!! because it’s awkward!! i like to be in and out when i eat with friends and we’re all the same about #it bc we’re all very autistic lmaooo but with him he likes to chat and chat and chat which is fine but i don’t.. and he asks more personal #questions than when we’re just at his as if im gonna open up just bc we’re eating thai food 🙄🙄🙄🙄#like you Don’t get to know if im seeing anyone or if im queer or even if ive got fucking plans to go away with friends tbh #like deadbeat dads that try to emotionally manipulate their kids get minimal information actually !! 🤓☝️#stelle yaps #fuck sake #i knew he’d start doing this when my brother was back - he’s always played us off each other and he always gravitates towards whichever is #the ‘easiest’ child at the time which is my brother ever since i became an adult lmao #i just don’t tolerate his shit and i let him know it whereas e will play along #me and my dad are too similar in that we both know how to really cut deep in the other :/#it just all sucks #please please feel free to ignore #i just need to vent like hell bc he winds me up a treat so bad

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delusionsofgrandeur13 · 6 months ago

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IM OBSESSED WITH EX!DICK GRAYSON (now bf again!!!!) GOT SO HAPPY READING AND IT GOT SO MANY REFERENCES OF THE OTHER PARTS SO SO SO GOOD ILY HOPE YOU HAVE A VERY NICE SLEEP TONIGHT

ugh ily2 😩😩 !!!

ur like ex bf!dick grayson’s #1 fan and i could not appreciate ur support more ❤️❤️

i did in fact sleep well knowing i had finally finished the damn series, lmfao i felt SO bad for how long i left everybody hanging!!

just know that you can request any ex bf!dg scenario whenever you want wherever in the timeline, and i’ll happily oblige just 4 youuuu

xoxoxoxoxoxo,

ness

#messages like these make my whole year #thanks SO much for the ask #my asks r always always open #talk to me i don’t bite #okay i might bite just a litttle #ex bf!dick grayson #ex boyfriend!dick grayson #sexy dick grayson summer #dick grayson x y/n #dick grayson x female!reader #dick grayson x fem!reader #dick grayson x you #dick grayson x reader #the batboys x you #—delusional as always #—ness writes #—asking it up

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street-corner-felines · 6 months ago

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Zero Day (2002)

#movies film cinema #zero day #ben coccio #I actually talked to the director on Facebook super nice guy and he told #me a lot about the filmmaking process and even helped me with tips on directing non-actors and new actors #I remember him telling me to always be supportive and tell your new actors they're doing a good job even if they aren't in the first take #cause you can instill confidence and still reshape and change their choices and mistakes later #Sometimes I'd message him for advice when I was running into problems on some of my early projects #he told me once ''did ya choose to collaborate with this actor cause you were lonely or you guys had passion and chemistry''#“collaborating is like a relationship” and he was so right #there's nothing worse than working with people you disdain cause there's no communication and no trust.#he told me how he wrote the first couple of drafts of Place Beyond the Pines but his take on the 3rd act wasn't clicking for the director #so he took the script and went and had another writer rewrite the 3rd act but he liked the process cause he learned a lot and still got pai #but I'd still like to see Ben Coccio's take on Place Beyond The Pines he says the 1st and 2nd act are mostly unchanged #Ryan Gosling's scenes are still mostly the same he said but he couldn't tell me too much cause of the NDA he signed #The bloopers of Zero Day are hilarious his tip he gave me about being supportive #“This is actually great but can we-” and Cal interrupts him “He says that no matter what if you're doing good or bad!” and everyone lols #I hope I can make it and ask him to collab with me on a script #He's such a nice dude compared to the harrowing film he made.#I wish there was BTS but he had only one tape to film on and this was made when digital camcorders were infants #I think he had only one 2 hour tape that's how low budget #The bloopers is just Cal or Andre secretly filming and Ben getting annoyed “Is it recording?” and Cal going “Nah..."#Cal is such a funny guy IRL I wanna see him act more cause he's so good. He was so great at playing a sadistic psychopath in this.#the final shooting is so harrowing and disturbing #I told Ben he srsly gut punched me/disturbed me and this is what made him really open up.

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icewindandboringhorror · 3 months ago

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I occasionally wish to reach out to old friends/acquaintances I haven't spoken to since high school/some other even earlier time in my life, but I have SOOO little social energy even for required tasks (like making dr phone calls or etc), I never have any leftover for extra ones, and it would be very odd to message someone I haven't spoken to in like 5 years out of the blue but then take 4 entire months to respond back lol.. My natural curiosity with nostalgia/collecting details of the past/etc. (literally if I were born a little earlier I would definitely do scrapbooking or something lol) is very strong, but, alas, not strong enough to beat out the Social Issues Demons apparently

#facebook always does that 'here's a post from this day 8 years ago' thing. and I see old comments interacting #with people and it's so like.. OOOOO~~ where are they now?? what's going on? how much have they changed as people?#how much are they the same? this is fascinating. i should contact them!!' but then it's like... take that to it's logical conclusion though #you would contact them and then IF they even responded it would take you 80 years to respond and then they would #think there was something wrong or that you were trying to be insulting or something. To contact anyone I need to include an 85 page #disclaimer of all of my social issues & mental illness things. 'If i take 3 weeks to reply I promise it has nothing to do with u' etc lol #THIS is why more people need to be into phone calls/voice calls/some form of audio real time communication/etc.#I think one of the main things that's hard about messaging through text for me is it's so unscheduled and open ended #(plus it takes forever if you're talking about anything in detail and gets very long very quickly)#because like you can send a message and then just get a reply whenever. and then you're expected to reply back whenever #so it's like you never know when the response will come or when a new obligation to reply can come up? so it's like this sudden thing with #no outline?? if that makes sense. whereas a phone call is very like 'hello let's schedule a call from 10am - 2pm on thursday'. And you know #EXACTLY when the interaction will start and EXACTLY when it will end and you can plan around it in your schedule easily.#I have the reverse thing of a lot of people (how people don't pick up phone calls/hate calls/only text)#I would literally talk on the phone with a stranger. I would have a discord voice chat with someone I barely know.#if someone I hardly even remember from elementary school asked to have a voice call with me out of nowhere I would do it.#but if a stranger MESSAGED me?? or someone I barely know sent me a TEXT or something?? I will never reply probably #It's just too vague and weird. and you can't read voice tone over text. and the interaction could last forever with no clear end #point and etc. etc. But a call is like. set. established. clear boundaries. you can read the flow of conversation better. rapport. etc. etc #I get that I guess people feel more anonymous or distanced over text?? but you can have fake phone numbers on the computer. or do like disc #rd calls. or zoom without a camera or etc. etc. Also the distance that's present in text is BAD distance because it just means that tone is #not conveyed properly and you will never truly get a sense of the person's conversational vibe or mannerisms or how well you really click.#ANYWAY ghgjh...... I'm so so so interested in concepts of like.. How did that one kid I used to talk to in elementary school #but then they moved away in 5th grade - how did they end up? what are they doing now?? etc. etc. Like despite the severe social anhedonia #and general lack of connection with others I'm just really fascinated in like.. idk. the human development of it all and like #the concept of how we're actually a million different people through the course of our lives ever evolving in different iterations and etc.#PLUS again. i love nostalgia. sometimes old peple you know might remember a shared memory or can tell you about something you forgot #or etc. like it's SUCH A COOL THING in CONCEPT but I am too socially inept generally speaking lol. which people I still talk to today are #familiar with my 'phone call once every few months' communication style. but strangers would just be like... wtf. And I don't blame them #Sure I literally cannot change the physical health + brain issues i have - but also I know enough to not put others through that lol

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jackiespurnell · 29 days ago

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hi fam send me asks and dms im bored lol literally about anything questions fandom related stuff etc

#dont mind me just procrastinating my hw #asks #send me dms #ask box is always open #ask me things #ask me anything #im bored #im just a girl #idk #ask me some questions #send dms #dms open #ask box #message me

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ink-wells-and-feathers · 1 year ago

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gothcleats this swiftli that but you're missing the bigger picture. *pulls out my Riz Gukgak conspiracy board with all the red string from my crochet ben and hits it with my yard stick* they're a POLYCULE! ALL THREE OF THEM ARE IN LOVE!

#im unhinged tonight #don't send help i love it here #ink.says #ink says something stupid again #polycule rights guys #gothcleats #swiftli #taylor swift dndads #scary marlowe #lincoln li wilson #and they are happy #anyway ill be thinking about this for a while so if you wanna join me come message mw theyre always open #you can stay anonymous in my ask box too

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tylurrs · 1 month ago

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I’m ovulating so I’m writing husband/dad! Tyler head canons (like you do) and omg I’m kicking my feet writing these

#hansumfella x reader #if you have any suggestions or inspiration pls message me or send me an ask!!!#kayla yaps #I always want to talk about hansumfella my inbox is always open!!

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wickmitz · 1 month ago

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moot i miss u on my feed fr fr i hope ur doing okay 😔🙏

hi moot!!! i’m still around, just juggling a new hyperfixation … i have plans to return to lackadaisy, however. it’s just a matter of motivation lining up and perhaps getting a good question or two. but i’m definitely okay!

#my asks.#seasonal depression IS killing my already depressed ass but i’m okay besides that #just fatigued ….#as always my inbox and dms are open! i just may be slower than usual!#though im touched to be missed lol thank you for this sweet message!

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thirteenemeraldcats · 6 months ago

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okay this was uncalled for !! i was having a perfectly lovely sunday then you made me think about jamie and broke my heart again. pls stop (don’t, i love your tags)

ASJKHLSHFLJ-

I'M SORRY 😭

#i always get jump scared whenever someone notices my tag rambling but this message made me cackle #ALSO speaking of getting jump scared- i spent most of today thinking it was friday #so reading that i disrupted your sunday was a very confronting moment 💀#st-elle-ar #ask box is always open #(thanks for saying you love my tags- makes my brain purr 💚💚💚)

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rainbowdelicsunshine · 3 months ago

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Two More Days Until I'm 24 Y'all!!

Where Have the Years Gone Holy Shit??

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