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Are Muslims Allowed To Date? Not at All
Discover expert insights on navigating challenging moral dilemmas in Islam. Learn about sin, necessity, and seeking forgiveness in haram situations. Explore guidance from knowledgeable scholars for clarity and peace of mind.
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Honestly I have stopped trusting any non-muslim attempting to talk about Islam.
Like you might have done 20 hrs of research, been super respectful and asked actual Muslimd and I still won't trust you not to spread misinformation if you r non muslim
Hell I don't even trust sheikhs or imams or other Muslims in general anymore
#مروان بيكلم ف الدين#ill stick to reading Qur'an by myself whilst looking for different explanations to cross reference and do the same with hadiths instead of#trusting religious men with agendas when it comes to how i practice my religion#idk this might change but i have seen so much bullshit in recent years
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Rewatching Parks and Rec. I'm looking for my Ben Wyatt. Hell...at this point, I might even accept an Andy Dwyer. Lol.
Kind, loving, supportive.
Do they even exist?
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1. There is still a taboo.
“Halal dating- AstafiruAllah!”
There is still a huge taboo around Muslims and dating in general, you say the term ‘halal dating’ and the room goes crazy! Fatwa’s being thrown out left, right and centre.
However, if we are being real we know that Muslims are dating, and doing more for that fact. The reality is we do date, more and more we feel a need to get to know each other for longer periods and more intimately before marriage.
While traditionally you may not even be alone with one another before you marry, now it’s commonly accepted as a ‘haram’ thing that we all do. This doesn’t mean, we don’t try to hide it. Muslim dating being an unsaid secret alone makes it hard to find a Muslim spouse, as we cannot simply approach each other, in places we frequent- the mosque! Or otherwise.
2. We have restrictions.
“It has to be somebody Salafi, or it won’t work”
“It has to be somebody Bengali, or my parents won’t approve”
We have all heard these or similar restrictions. Religion will play a huge role in who you decide to show interest in, factor in cultural preference, or parental influence and you are in a tight spot. Add in attraction, personality, and the rest -and the pool of potential spouses becomes smaller and smaller. If you are restrictive with your preferences, for whatever reason this makes looking for a spouse a harder task. The community let’s face it- is religiously split and still very segregated, with communities sticking together. Finding a spouse in this state of affairs can be tricky.
3. There aren’t many Muslims around.
“I’m the only Muslim in the village”
Some of us live in cities or areas where the Muslim population is zilch, and this makes online dating your only option. Long distance relationships are tough never mind long distance dating. For those of us who are practically the ‘only Muslim in the village’ finding a spouse seems impossible.
4. Finding people who are serious
As I mentioned before, Muslims do date some of us more than others. Finding a Muslim spouse has become a game of sorting the F***boys from the husbands. For the brothers, a game of sorting the ‘Wild hijabi’s’ from the ‘Wife hijabi’s. It’s hard to find people who aren’t just after a quick fling, and it’s only getting more blaze with profiles stating ‘not looking for anything serious’ on Muslim dating apps. The number of people who are serious about getting to know somebody, about looking for a life partner seems, someone to go to Jannah with seems to be dwindling.
5. Why commit.
“Why commit..Have a halal bf/gf”
We have began dating and having long term relationships so much, it has become the ‘haram’ thing we accept. If we admit it, the guilt is slowly fading away. We are slowly but surely no longer seeing the need for a Nilkah, if we are doing Nikah it’s to ‘Halalify’ sex. Simply put, our generation is caught in a Catch 22. We want to get to know each other in-depth before marriage- but the temptation to stay away from sin gets the better of us and there ends up being no commitment at all.
It begs the question has our generation decided it’s better to sin and make no commitment, then have many Nikah’s and divorce?
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Truth.
Male allies are important.
That being said, the worst voices I heard were from women.
Some told to deal with the abuse for the sake of the children. Some said be his "sharia wife." His shitty mother said to give him back my paycheck so I could get into Heavem.
Fuck them all. I followed my gut and got out.
No more patience.
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Feelings are temporary. I have to keep reminding myself of that and push forward.
All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary. All of this is temporary.
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@Cut: Do #Muslims #date? An #intelligence-based response 😉😎😇 #neitherconfirmnordeny #dating #muslimdating #datingadvice #muslimrelationship https://www.instagram.com/p/CL7IuCqHWrZ/?igshid=6nxtf1ie02n9
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Got a date on Sunday. Decided to give Minder another try, but this time I'm only connecting with men from my area. Out of staters are time wasters. I can't relocate and most of them wouldn't be willing to come to Michigan.
As for my date on Sunday...he called me and the conversation was really nice. He was open and not pushy. He actually asked me questions about my likes and what I did for fun. But like all Minder/Muzmatch men...he's imaginary until we meet and have a real connection.
I was texting with another local guy, but he couldn't seem to get past the texting phase into a real phone conversation. I stopped texting him and deciding if he was interested he would initiate a phone conversation. Nope.
I no longer feel this need to impress anyone. I just want to do better for myself and my kids.
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Truth. All relationships (romantic or platonic) are about balance. With the Ex, I gave way too much and he too advantage anyway he could. No more.
surround yourself with people who treat you as well as you treat them. anyone putting in less effort than you are into a relationship or friendship is doing it for a reason. those who value your presence will not make you question if they do.
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Be like some days, just talking to a brick wall whose always looking for marriage 🤔😕🤷🏽♀️ #muslimmemes #boringpeople #deadconvo #yawn #datingapps #halaljokes #halalbanter #why #cutecouples #muslimcouple #explore #instamuslim #muslimdating #muzmatch #singlemuslim #minder #mindermemes https://www.instagram.com/p/B60ScxEgHdT/?igshid=19hzvcuxmtwfp
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Dating and religious conflict
I attended an Islamic charity event last night. The goal was to get money to build wells in Somalia. While the turn out was poor (they bought Ifthar for 300 people, only 25 showed), it was a lovely time and helped me out of my funk.
A good friend of mine is the event planner for this Islamic organization and encouraged me to join her. She's white, but not a convert. Her mother converted to Islam and she and her siblings were raised in the faith. She's an amazing woman and progressively inclined. Absolutely my kind of person.
After the event we stayed behind in the hall to chat. I've been feeling a bit out of sorts since I started dating Paul (not his name). He's not Muslim and there's a whole school of thought that what I'm doing is haraam. It will upset my parents and my brother.
My friend said Allah is the most forgiving and that my parents no longer get a say in my personal life. They screwed up and they will have to live with my choices as a grown woman. She said we are human and it is perfectly human to want to date and be with someone that makes us happy.
I needed to hear that. It made me feels like my decision was ok. Paul may turn out to be nothing, but there may be other Pauls in the future.
Taking my time with Paul and getting to know his isn't wrong. If feels good. He is kind, respectful, and fun to talk to. This feels right.
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Fuck no. I'm done. I'm done.
“If five years from now, you decide that you miss me, there’s a possibility that I’d take you back.”
— Late night thoughts #89 // Possibility (via hereliesmybrokenheart)
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