#mothers when they mother👍
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emotional support group for autistics who got called condescending and rude as kids just for responding to things directly and still not knowing how they were being mean
#what did i do#i got constantly told by my mother and step father (and his family) that i always talked like i knew better than they did or that i was#just as mature. i was just fuckjng talking what the hell did you want me to do#why do you feel attacked when a 10 year old speaks to you as an adult????? literally what#i dont know on that note sometimes its just like i dont even feel like ive aged at all#sure i have a giant explosion of time in my head just Gone from my memory because i was getting abused but like i dont feel like ive aged#or really matured ive felt like ive alwats felt#i cant relate when epople are like me when i feel all my ages or i wish i could go back to being x age or being x age everything felt so#different..like no it didnt. or im missing something?#i have never in my life felt like anything has changed. ive always been this old. there is no ''inner child'' and ive never had childhood#innocence or a nostalgia or childhood to go back to. i have no idea what any of you are talking about ever👍#ugh jst rmemebred skmething that happened with my white step dad's mother#we visited her house and she literally fucking didnt let me go (not physically) until i replied to her with Correct Granmar. what was i#doing? i was reaponding to her by saying ''yeah'' and she kept repeating ''yes'' like telling me to say yes instead of yeah and i didnt#Fucking Get It because guess what you old white cracker i barely fucking speak english and you are just saying things in an aggressive tone#like thats gonna make me get it. and i Didnt i just kept replying yrah to her yes's and then she got tired of it and we left out the door#and theeeeen i got yelled at in the car by being called disrespectful and rude by my parents. WHAT THE FUCK DID I DO?????????#those crackers never liked me LOL i literally know they didnt#ugh i rmemeber this one time my step dads father was like trying to show me some dumb boxing or karate or something punching move and he#told my mother that i was good at it because he felt i had a lot of aggression and then NY MOTHER YELLED AT ME IN THE CAR FOR IT??????#oh fucking wonder why te kid being abused mighthave aggression but she didnt Know (apart from what She was doing to me) like why would it#be my fucking fault if he thought i had aggression in me HOW IS THAT MY FAULT WHAT DIDBI DO I WAS JUST TRYING TO DO THE MOVE BECAUSE WELL#I WAS TRYING TO GET ALONG BECAUSE THATS WHAT THEY WANTED ME TO DO#she was like do you know how much that embarassed me and WHAT THE HELL HE SAID IT I DIDNT I WAS LIKE#8??? OR SOMETHING???? I DONT FUCKING KNOW!!! I DIDNT KNOW WOMAN WHAT DID YOU WANT FROM ME#mothers when they mother👍
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there is no game that makes me feel like I'm the only one who's right about it than elden ring
#when i see reddit or twitter or tumblr theories or some shit#like 80% of the time im sitting there like amazing. everything word of what you just said is wrong#20% of the time im like no youre so right youre so based i have a crush on you#my MOST outlandish theory is that messmer and melina are children on marika and the gloam eyed queen. AT LEAST melina is#(btw absolutely heartbroken there werent even CRUMBS of the godskins nor the GEQ in the dlc)#(like the GEQ's death was a catalyst for marika's golden order to form)#i like know that elden ring is super obscure and vague with what it tells you but there are fr some people who wholeass dont know#that miquella=st. trina#or that before the dlc even happened miquella/st trina was shown to be manipulative and flighty#bouncing between one thing and the other#of course he would parallel his mother#and there are STILL people who think Malenia's 3rd bloom hasnt happened like.........#there's one in her and radahn's showdown. one on the way to the haligtree roots. and the final one is during her battle w you#like in her boss fight she turns into the goddess of rot. what is wrong with you guys. what more do you need#glad everyone agreed on mohg beating the allegations tho👍#elden ring#shadow of the erdtree#shadow of the erdtree spoilers#elden ring sote#sote spoilers#spoilers
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writing apollinaire burnthestars backstory is kind of hilarious like what do you mean you’re becoming a teen dad to your own younger brother nobody asked you to do that
#it’s important to stress just how much nobody asked her to do that i cannot express enough how not one single person asked her to do that.#it doesn’t even start from when he was born she spent seven years going ugh why is this annoying kid in MY house and then one day she#woke up and went I Need To Control Every Aspect Of His Life Or Ill Die#and then well. she did that.#apollinairevoice oh no being under my mothers constant cloying attention is ruining his life. he has to be transferred to#MY constant cloying attention. under which he will surely THRIVE 😀👍#you’d say um what does anatole think of all of this maybe he doesn’t need someone constantly monitoring him maybe he should get to decide#how his life goes and she’s stare at you like you’re the single stupidest person alive btw#wip: burn the stars#apollinaire
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Do you have any fav food headcanons for STRQ?
summer: everyone get on my spinach & cheese omelette agenda 🤩 anyway she also loves arroz con pollo. it was one of the first meals she taught yang how to make.
the twins: raven's is braised rabbit & qrow's is venison stew... they probably only get to eat it once or twice a year. (branwen twins "don't make it obvious we grew up in the woods" challenge: failed.) a plate of steak & potatoes would also make them happy. butttt their favorite childhood meal was oyakodon 👍 i can imagine qrow making it for ruby & yang sometimes when they were young.
tai: mapo tofu (with extra chili flakes) he seems like the type to have a pantry shelf just for a hot sauce collection. second place is his shrimp fried rice. yang is allergic to shellfish. this was a crushing blow to him.
#oh i'm in trouble 😭 a long ass post rambling about their food preferences & quirks is probably in my future...#these can all fit for canon & AUs 👍#extra notes:#oyakodon is chicken & egg rice bowls. something the twins' mother always made. major headcanon territory. caution tape all over this post.#i like maria adopts the twins AUs so this would be something she learns to make for them when they start living with her.#tai LOVES spicy food (fairly high limit). so does summer (she has no spice limit. something is wrong with her).#raven dates those two so her tolerance to spice improved over time. qrow avoids spicy food (he gets acid reflux.)#god help me if someone says “what about cookies for summer?” 😭 (i think she doesn't have a sweet tooth.)
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i know that when carlo suddenly decided that he needs to marry guy made a whole list in his head n like had a deadlines n shit. like it was some kind of a task he needed to do
#whole fkin campaign. idk still not sure how it was but man was in his peacock era for sure#n it's like i need to find a wife i need to make it in 2 (or whatever) months etc etc#but its like a bg task n he didn't speak bout it w others. like he just said that he needs to marry#also idk if i mentioned this but i wrote lauretta/carlo first meet long ago n she was w her fiance#i just listened to “pretty music” again sorry. i like that uh governor or tf this character is#changes his behaviour from one woman to another so real. n that fkin “but im a lucky guy who gets to dance w u”#and “since u know what i need i'll even take your lead” <- fr like im sure lauretta screwed him for several times#just to see if he's really serious good old manipulations w men nothing new nothing superstitious#upd. he probably made a mind budget for this (i mean finding a wife)#n bout lauretta screwing carlo its like in this ukranian song Ти ж мене пiдманула ти ж мене пiдвела#but since he's a strategist he's patient (like i wanted to accent this quality sm i wrote#that carlo started thinkin bout taking moretti's place back in 1932)#anyway. “Challenge accepted” situation and idk fr for some reason when it's carlo eddie lauretta it's always bout playing#so lauretta started playing n he entered this play too. i don't even think he was exactly mad (maybe only for the 1st time)#at this point i have a clear image of how they met n their first dates (cringe word) n how he proposed#ie how it started how it ended. ending was fast i believe (deadline is approaching 🤯)#what was in between i don't exactly know but i wondered just now if he also screwed lauretta (i think yes)#bc i don't knooowwww frrr all this is so bout playing to me#but bout ending its like. boss fight (<- sex) game credits (<- marriage) ((speedrun))#also i was thinkin if he even ever met lauretta's parents (i always thought that no but idk)#can imagine lauretta calling carlo a good friend. i also hm ok#i started to write a comic like a month ago just bout falcone polycule n it starts w#carlo who says that he finally needs to get married n lauretta's mother askin (in a pushing way) why#her n her fiance still aren't married like girl tf. she jinxed it i guess#upd. carlo/lauretta is funny in my head bc right before marriage he did fell in love lauretta didn't but guy's profitable we'll take him👍#she did only after marriage i think bc it was the time when u can finally relief bc it's over#u don't need to think bout no yes no no yes yes will it work or won't etc#woman was able to fucking chill at last. she got the money sorry i mean the man#he's not runnin away let's finally look who the fuck is even this man. why he won't shut up bout astronomy can i get a divorce <- jk#but yeah “я тобi брехала” is so lauretta right after marriage to me (“i dont even know the color of ur hair”)
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might have fucked up so its going on the blog
#father left me on read for 2 weeks#showed up yesterday to ask if all was well with me#like i'm the one ignoring him....#then sent his standard goodnight message#i asked him explicitly for reassurance that#the issue i'd been trying to talk about#was going to be resolved#but started it by asking for the reassurance before we brush this issue under the rug#'as per usual'#OOPS#regretting that one#but it's what he always does#can never sort out anything we disagree on#because he'll just not speak to me for ages#then start acting like it's all fine and nothing happened#until the next thing#except now he's so afraid of me leaving completely that he usually ignores things before they get to the argument stage#so nothing is even spoken about#easier for him to ignore me over text#because if i phoned him he'd shout#he scares me so much tbh can't pretend that he doesn't#omg he also asked me when i'm visiting for christmas#well. that depends on you 👍#maybe i'm tired rn but maybe it's his fault that my biggest problem rn#is being convinced i'm unwanted#because the first time he's told me that he does want to spend time with me#was when i was already an adult#and after the divorce and his mother's death#so i'm a last resort#fdndjbdjdbdj dramatic tags
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My unfortunate talent is being so good with moms they immediately call me family and ask me when will I date their son or daughter.
#dunkar rant#Barely closeted silly ass guy : hello mother of my friend#The mother in question : when's the wedding :)#Me hitting their son on the head twenty times in a row bc they're annoying : I'm a communist ahah#the bisexual charisma is working.. I guess..#Still a lonely loser tho 😩#But with very good friends 😌👍
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2,5 weeks ago my bank account got hacked and completely emptied. while i was in denial the first week and ignoring the situation as to not stress myself out even more (i'm currently, for the next 2 months at least, preparing for a work exam [that i have to study for] with shitton paperwork that is required, pages that need to be written [it's like a bachelor's degree but you write about your achievements and contributions to school as a teacher], also looking for a new job!!!!, at the same time moving in and out and there's another bureaucratic headache connected to setting up internet, gas, electricity and going back and forth between cities to get it done jfc), but the past week i'm starting to get heartaches and i want to throw up anytime i think about all my life's savings being gone 💀🔫
#i obviously barely sleep at night bc the thoughts keep me wide awake#my mother is helping me out thankfully but god if not for her i'd end up homeless#i literally come back from work do the paperwork send emails and send out my applications make some phonecalls#and the moment im done i instantly boot up a game or play a tv show bc if i'm not at least 50% distracted im going to have a heart attack#thinking about this entire situation#i thought i was at the lowest point in my life when i was 21.... hoo boy was i wrong 🤡👍#delete later#personal
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#the QUESTION is. is my current relationship w my dad healing the wounds of our relationship from when i was a child#or is it me letting him believe what he did was good and right and didn’t fuck me up#same with my mother to a lesser extent… idk i just feel like sometimes when im w my parents we r all pretending my teen years didn’t happen#bc it’s easier which like yes. but also#this is a theme in my life 👍#also my mother and grandmother see me as a woman in such an odd way#sometimes i feel like het women see gnc women as like sad and pathetic for giving up entirely on fitting societal beauty standards#what everrr also the americanism of it all… i am the family freak in so many ways#but u know what its character building
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said this before but neil’s backstory is genuinely horrifying
#like. andrew’s makes me nauseous yk? I wanna throw up when I think about it#neil’s is SCARY#I don’t understand how people turn him being paranoid into a ‘hahah he’s so silly’ he was being hunted like an animal? for almost 8 years?#he was a child. watched his father murder people for fun. his mom took him and ran and his father chased after them#and then when he finally caught up killed neil’s mother? like why are we acting as if that paranoia wasn’t 100% justified#aftg#also this downplaying of what life was like for neil 100% plays into peoples hatred of mary but that’s a post for another day 👍
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every once in a while my mom will say something so weird and insensitive and out of nowhere that I’m just like “oh yeah, this is why I don’t talk to you”
#she has BPD#which is not to say all people with that disorder are jerks#but wow she sure can be#👍#what’s it like to have a good relationship with your mother??? can’t relate#thankfully I have a wonderful and supportive mother in law#and my dad is great whereas my husband’s dad is toxic AF#so we just trade parents when need be
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#Tumblr still doesn't approve of read mores so putting my ooc update in the tags it is!#My aunt's funeral is today . I knew that.#My best friend's house got broken into and her car was stolen and totaled and her engagement party cancelled.#I learned that yesterday.#What I /didn't/ learn until this morning is that my great aunt is in hospital dying rn#and my mother's car is broken and we have no money so she may be stranded in brisbane for the foreseeable future.#So... The weekend is not going great and I don't know if or when I'll be back online.👍#OutofÉljúðnir
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when I say Sheila E. I mean Sheila E. idgaf about those two others gay boys go get ur own fanfic this is about her
#fugo.txt#sorry fugio i outgrew you like two years ago and now youre just another mildly annoying ship 😭...#if i search her up then i mean HER whats so hard to understand. its like if i looked up that stupid puppet from saw and i got -#- those two other guys fucking each other raw in the ass. like okay ty i didnt mean you 👍👍#im so annoying fr#talking about Giorno. im re reading jorjor ☝️☝️ be cause i miss them#i miss Bruno Bugatti so much. forgot how cunty he was. mother#i need to figure out what ivrea volume has him busting it down on that pole. for reasons#im reading so much manga because since i had that fight w my friend group and we broke off i have a lot of#free time. so you know.#and also because next year after i graduate i wanna go to jp classes so i wanna absorb as much as i can. and anime seems to be my best bet#to absorb info. i still struggle with writing and reading but idk im getting there. slowly.#reminds me when i learned English lol. although back then i wasnt purposely trying to learn. can you believe i got so fluent on accident?!#anyways i fuckinf got so off trackkk on these tags sorry im unmedicated#jjba#phf
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if i ever finish my one 5 times fic about owen in dresses its OVAH
#him wearing his girlfriend's skirts as a teenager for fun bc theyre rebellious young punks n theyre cool like that#but also bc his mother scowls at him when he comes home in smudged eyeliner so he might as well go the full mile and rlly piss her off#but then it's not just about spite. cuz he likes it. he feels good n free n pretty like that#until she kicks him out not long after and he has to grow up fast and before he knows it hes in a too-big suit with a pretty fiancee#and yeah thats fine right that's good thats what hes supposed to do. he's checked the boxes hes a successful Man#rebellious teen phases are fun but his mum pegged him as a fuck up and a queer and he's gonna show her he's neither of those things#but then katie dies and it all stops mattering and why should he give a fuck what his mother thinks?#he's never gonna be happy the 'normal' way anyway#anyway. the fic is basically owen unlearning his internalized toxic masculine nonsense by aggressively doing opposite action#as he is wont to do#'wow i hate my inner femininity! i am going to wear a dress in public 👍'#there's a scene where him n gwen recreate the lesbian makeup photo heh#and also my owen/andy agenda crept into the damn thing#ill finish it eventually fdhsfkjd#txt#sss
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post canon hag romance are travelling adventurers but I also like the idea that astarion keeps correspondence with his siblings and he’s very updated on what’s happening to the underdark vampires. astarion and shri’iia are on their own little quest to find a cure for the vampirism — or at the very least, find something that can either help to sate the hunger or help him walk under the sun (but a cure would be best). they do their heroic deeds and collect the favours, and when it’s time to cash in they’re always asking looking for something that can help alleviate some of the vampirism symptoms. and if they find something, and it works for astarion, they go off and send it to the underdark coven. I also like the idea of astarion visiting them too from time to time, except shri’iia doesn’t risk going down in the underdark anymore or else she might face lolth’s punishment, so she will send him instructions and advice on navigating through the underdark, what to look out for and what to avoid, then she’ll wait patiently for him to return up the surface again.
in his part knowing how homesick she sometimes get, he’ll bring her something from the underdark (like food or fungi or whatever funky thing he finds) and gifts it to her the moment he returns. I like the idea that he tends to look out for any underdark/drow items in the surface too, bc shri’iia is still very attached to her home even though she’s forced to leave it behind, and he buys her any items he finds (and bonus points if it’s jewellery of some kind) bc she knows she’ll appreciate it. I also like the idea that she teaches him how to speak in drowic too hehe, and a majority of the names she’ll call him are the very few drowic endearment terms with the main one being alurlssrin. anyway I like the idea of shri’iia still keeping in touch with her culture even though she’s divorced from it now, since one of the biggest change she experienced when she was dropped off in the surface was the fact that no one spoke her language until minthara came along, and she’s not fluent in common tongue either.
#really do like the idea of hags doing valiant heroic deeds not bc of the goodness of their own hearts but bc they have their own agenda -#and that’s to help the underdark vamp covens which is still out of the goodnes of their own hearts technically lol#but it’s a selfish kind deed. not exactly charitable. but kind nonetheless. which fits Their Brand#Plenty of thoughts abt astarion helping her keep in touch w her culture esp the elf/drow rivalry ..!!#and my particular hc in the spawn/ascendant that he gets her to stop speaking in her own language / gets her a tutor to help her speak#common more fluently bc she has no need to speak in her language anymore. like the drow/elf rivalry is alive and well in ascendant verse#but not in oathbreaker/spawn 🤭 thoughts of them buying stuff for each other too btw he relies on her when they’re getting clothes bc he#can’t see himself meanwhile she’s like dw babe I’ll make sure u look hot 👍#kind of related but I just remembered astarion is good at making perfumes. and shri’iia is well versed in brewing potions bc#that’s what her mother used to make and sell before (and she would help out)#like…….hag romance crumbs to ME….#bg3 spoilers#technically….😳
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fantasy au where will finds dragon eggs in his lil castle byers nook in the wilderness equivalent, but hardly anyone thinks they'll ever actually hatch even if they do indulge him and his fantasies about those old fossils.
still, will always makes sure to keep them safe and warm, tending to them with the same sweetness he treats all creatures. he talks to them so they're not lonely by telling them about his day as he's settling into bed and playing them music when he gets ready in the morning. he changes the blankets they nest in, wrapping them up nice and snug. he laces up his boots and ventures out to retrieve them always, no matter the weather, whenever lonnie's had enough of his delusions and thrown them away somewhere, hoping that he'll finally give up on this boyish folly of his.
mike is different, though. he's always had faith in will's dragon eggs, and he's actually the first person that will showed them to (something something it's part of those "special privileges" he's always bragging about to dustin and lucas). he made will a list of all the names he thinks might fit them, for when they hatch of course, and it's one that they're constantly adding to whenever they think of a new one.
will's never said it aloud, but while he fully supports this list, and appreciates it dearly, he's always intended on letting mike name the blue one whatever he so desires. they're his dragons, yes, but will trusts mike and he wants him to be a part of this. he is a part of this already, he always has been, and will would have it no other way.
#takes the duffers' canon mpreg tht's horrific and turns it into something cool where will can get a dragon like he's always wanted#bc he deserves it 👍#he is Mother#the eggs take ages to hatch n i imagine that they go through a s3 arc where mike gives up hope and in an argument tells will that they'll#never hatch and in will's heartbreak and rage he accidentally knocks the blue one over and it cracks :(#but it's okay!#and then Danger^tm finds them bc of course it fucking does but thts when the eggs finally hatch and um. well. yes they are babies#tht can only just barely warm up a marshmallow but thts ok bc they'll grow in time and its all abt Belief in oneself yk . nods at u#i jus like to think of will with a lil baby dragon on his shoulder n mike with one perched on his hand tht almost singes his brows off#and will's is the one that's more headstrong and snippy & mike's is the one that's more mellow n sweet#bc complementary natures n all that :^)#also i say the blue one's mike's but rly they belong to both of them bc they're the parents. in case tht wasn't clear 🧐#au#mine#jus me n my aus against da world........
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