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People who say Bakugou should be punished for telling Deku to kill himself and Make fun of him need to realize heās been dead for more than a yearā¦ thatās all.
LOL yeah like i think he's received the worst possible punishment for his actions ... which is. u know. dying
it's also so silly bc have u ever encountered a 14 year old. everyone was or will be 14 at some point. and it's common knowledge that u're absolutely ur worst self in middle school. it can literally only go up from there
not everyone has told someone else to kill themselves at 14 but i assure u everyone has done stupid shit as a 14 year old and i think most normal people would give literal children some grace regarding their bad behavior. bc most normal people would understand that ur identity and personality at 14 shouldn't be taken as a true reflection of ur character. bc u were 14. and u're irrational and u're still growing and ur brain is still developing. and more importantly, u didn't know shit. and u thought u did and that's why u were stupid and made mistakes and said dumb shit.
"but he was a bully and that's why he deserves to suffer severely and painfully for the rest of his life" these ppl are lucky bkg isn't real; if u're older than 14 and know better yet say this about a real 14 year old i think that says more about u than the kid. u will be put on a list of some kind
#sick and tired of ppl thinking bkg's 14 y/o self means literally anything anymore#like hey man. yeah. maybe in s1.#it's also telling that ppl think characters don't??? develop??? and to a more alarming extent they don't think PEOPLE develop??????#when change is very real and normal and expected thing??? literally EVERYONE changes???????#u cannot look at me dead in the eyes and tell me u are the exact same person u were at 14 bc good golly i would sure hope not!#most ppl and i mean a good majority of ppl become better as they age bc they learn things and gain perspective#and if u can understand that (this is a very easy concept to grasp) then u can understand that bkg too is capable of change#and has changed!!! a lot!!!#so yeah if someone comes at me with the 'he told deku to kill himself!!!!! he should die!!!!!!!' argument#i'm gonna automatically assume they don't know how to read and think. sorry#asks for becki#bnha manga spoilers#mha manga spoilers
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some ppl with these placements actually look younger than their age. but then some look like moms/dads when theyāre like in their teens lmao. well built cheekbones. dominant jawline, and splendid smile usually. pale for their race. a lot of hair usually(cher has this lol). ppl may not find you approachable, since you may have rbf. overawing, and sphinxlike vibes. alert with their surroundings. can be kind. you may be harsh on yourself, and may not give yourself credit. since saturn rules restrictions, and 1st house expressions, you may be introverted/shy/reserved.
celebrities:Princess Diana, Britney Spears, John Lennon, Kevin Hart
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donāt play when it comes to clothes, cars, houses, materials in general, and their finances/money. makes smart money moves. may get rich/have luck in the business world when theyāre older(like 40s, and up). unpretentious. may like to collect things, and go to antique shops. may like āoldā or āvintageā items. may stress over money, and may be cheap tbh. may wear ties a lot lol. i think of businessmen/women for this placement since that may be how you dress. you may also wear clothes that donāt draw much attention, and you may not even wear name brand clothes that often. may like soft smells/smells that arenāt too strong(flower essential oils, vanilla, etc). may love or hate coffee, green veggies, starches, alcohol, and salty food in general. may not like to let ppl borrow things/may be stingy(saturn=restrict, 2nd=money/materials)
celebrities:Ariana Grande, Jennifer Lawrence, Prince, Kanye West
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laid back way of talking. i feel like they would have a ādemandingā or maybe deep voice lmao. takes school seriously. may be shy when it comes to talking to classmates, or just reserved. probably just sees school to help get a career, and not to make friends. siblings may have capricorn/saturn in their chart. you may be the oldest sibling, or the most reliable. you may be stern, and overprotective with siblings. might have a harsh relationship w/siblings, and neigbors. may isolate from the community. most likely dislikes speaking in front of many ppl/doing presentations. usually respectful.
celebrities:Kylie Jenner, Bjork, Jim Carrey, Steve Jobs
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scared of vulnerability, may get disappointed when trying to lean on others, because they are not of much help. daddy/mommy issues(more of daddy tbh), or abandonment issues. may worry a lot abt ppl they love. has it hard in the beginning of life, but makes it to the top. life gets better, but childhood was most likely hard. worried abt finances as a kid when they shouldnāt have, may not have gotten a lot of attention as a kid, and one of the parents or maybe both were workaholics. one parent or both parents may be strict/cold. just needs a lot of affectionš„ŗ. may be grateful that their childhood was rough, since it made them a better person. might be an only child. family most likely is traditional and/or religious, maybe too conventional. these ppl are warm yet cold(if that makes sense lmaoo). intelligent more often than not.
celebrities:Marilyn Monroe, Madonna, Tom Cruise, Drake
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probably doesnāt know how to let loose, and have a good time! most likely doesnāt want many kids, and/or may have kids in their 30ās+. will most likely make sure theyāre financially stable before having kids. may be a wall hugger at parties/just chill on the corner. serious/doesnāt play games, reliable, loyal, and honest in the dating world. children may have capricorn/saturn in their chart(esp the first child). wants the best for their kids. may be strict, and may need to try being more open minded when it comes to parenting. hobbies may be sleeping, reading, working, planning, studying/researching, etc. may like to visit old fashioned places(museums, antique shops, etc). solemn aura. may lose virginity later than usual.
celebrities:Shakira, Dua Lipa, Jim Morrison, Heath Ledger
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try getting out your comfort zone, every once in awhile. most likely has a routine. judgemental with co-workers. watches health, very closely. may work too much. pets should be independent baddies, and mysterious(so cats mainly, or reptiles). youāre inventive. remember itās okay to take a break, and do nothing useful at all :)
celebrities:Lady Gaga, Adele, Jimi Hendrix, Eddie Murphy
šššššš šøš ššššššš š·šššš
attracts capricornās/ppl with a lot of saturn in their chart easily. may date someone much older or younger, age difference will be significant. may start dating/get a first love later than others. positive:attracts reliable, loyal, secure, and has their priorities straight ppl. at worst you attract:boring, stern, harsh, cold, materialistic, ppl. this could apply to your friends too btw, not just lovers. you need to make sure you set rules for your relationships, and make sure your standards are at a good level. another good thing abt this placement is youāre more likely to have long lasting, and stable relationships. you may fear rejection, but you jeee to learn that itās okay and it happens to everyone.
celebrities:Selena Gomez, Jennifer Lopez, Kurt Cobain, Johnny Depp
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either has sex a lot young or old no in between. may have a period where they donāt have sex at all for awhile. may become spiritual later on. may get into astrology later on also lol. most likely will die of old age/naturally. cynical. men here may be small(ifyk what i mean), but you can also last a good amount of time in bed. may actually be good at sex, bc saturn means trying to be the best at something/success lol. fears death(i feel like these ppl fear more of what happens after death, not death itself).
celebrities:Khole Kardashian, Renee Zellweger, Elton John, Dwayne Johnson
šššššš šøš š½šššš š·šššš
luck, and fortune happens in your 30s+. may be closed minded, but may become more open minded as they grow. may be conservative. but may also be an atheist tbh. may want to major in business, become a lawyer, major in finances, etc. hard headed, but clear sighted. may not be a fan of traveling, or may not have many chances to until their older.
celebrities:Rihanna, Julia Roberts, Paul Mccartney, Charlie Chaplin
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reputation may be that you are a no nonsense, hard working, logical, reliable, and loyal person. may have known what you wanted to be for a long time. you may have a job associated with your family/a tradition. afraid of not succeeding. ceo, judge, teacher, engineer, lawyer, businessman/woman may be a job of yours. you may overwork yourself, take a day off to just relax. may start working later in their 30s. ambitious
celebrities:Kim Kardashian, Oprah Winfrey, Chris Evans, Michael Jackson
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may attract friends/ppl that crush on you that have capricorn/saturn in their chart. may have friends for a very long time. may become more of a social butterfly/make friends more often in their 30s+. at first, you may hate socializing, and picky with who their friends with/wonāt just befriend anyone. the reliable friend, will always be there for you, and loyal(or these might be the traits of your friends). doesnāt have time for fake friends. you will stand for your friends or theyāll stand up for you. honestly you may be one of those ppl that say theyāre āborn in the wrong generationā lmao. may not relate to ppl your age.
celebrities:Cameron Diaz, Demi Moore, Elon Musk, Robin Williams
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taps into spirituality in their 30s+. may deny spirituality for awhile, and their intuition. donāt deny your gut feelings, and your energies baby :). your past life may have been rough. iāve heard that jail may have happened for individuals with this placement in their past lives. you may go through hardship, before getting living a good and easy life. may be regretful for no good reason. need to work on expressing yourself emotionally, and not bottling up how you feel. maybe try to express your feelings in a creative way(music, art, poetry, etc).
celebrities:BeyoncƩ, Angelina Jolie, Will Smith, Robert De Niro
#astrology#zodiac#zodiac signs#astro notes#astro observations#saturn#saturn in 1st#saturn in 2nd house#saturn in 3rd house#saturn in the 4th house#saturn in 5th house#saturn in the 6th house#saturn in 7th house#saturn in the 8th house#saturn in 9th house#saturn in the 10th house#saturn in 11th#saturn in the 12th house
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so iāve had a lot on my mind lately ā the good, the bad, the ugly, you know the drill. iām used to the bad and the ugly, but i think (and ofc by my therapistās rec) i need to give a little credit to the good, too. not to mention the good is largely comprised of people, and those people deserve a sports stadium wave, yk? idk shit abt sports, whatever, but i know what the wave is and itās like the grandest gesture i can think of, SO
listen, yāall. to get real here, i hate fandom. my time spent therein has been hit-or-miss, but the misses got me hard and contributed to some major self-loathing, etc etc. weāre not gonna get into the specifics, i donāt owe that to anyone, but suffice it to say things got Rough.
but so much of it can be so, so good. and rn i want to keep on my rose-colored glasses, and the rosiest parts for me have always been @kitten1618x and @mygutsforgarters
(quite a few others, too, but i no longer have everyoneās info. and some ppl are newer friends, or relationships that have moved more slowly. i have mad love for u guys too, obvs, but ik melissa and gus irl so we know each other More and theyāre who this post is rly about atm. pls know i donāt want to harsh on anyoneās feelings)
the tl;dr version of events is i met them both via fanfic. i happened upon theirs like ābitch!!!! **i** wanna do this, theyāre bomb as hellā and then i made them be friends w me. theyāll tell you they wanted to be friends w me first, but thatās not important bc **i** am the one making this post, so they can both like,, suck it.
ANYWAY.
@ melissa : so bitch listen. hereās the thing abt melissaā¦ā¦ i found her while browsing jonsa fic back when i cared abt GOT, and she brought me back to what i loved so much abt romance when i first started, way back in junior high, whatās up. i bad a fascination w historial romantic epics for a loooooong time ā those formative yrs, amirite ladies??? ā but girl i could never write it so well as melissa. immediately she struck this balance between the drama you expect from historicals and the levity of a good romance, and i was just like, āhand to god this woman must be published already, surely???ā
(sheās not, but thatās ridiculous so weāre gonna skip that)
(also sheās busy?? weāve been friends for like six years and i will never know how many kids she actually has, but the point is sheās a goddamn superhero and iām obsessed w her, MOVING ON)
i just Had to be her friend for two reasons: 1) sheās too talented, and b) i have said that abt 2 ppl my entire life and she was the first, so i was like, āAH YES MY HOLY GRAILā
so ofc i slid into her DMs just as effectively as that one guy i had a crush on when i was sixteen and heās still shooting me texts every valentineās day bc of the societal pressures i guess (it is Far Less Effective these days, heās my age and therefore too young for me, gross, but i digress), except me and melissa go way stronger.
she reminded me of why, half a lifetime ago, i started writing romance ā bc itās fun, bc i want to. bc i can do absolutely anything i want, bc who else is gonna read it but me and whoever i share it with? it was all up to me what i wanted to do with it, and i could do anything. nothing really mattered but what i wanted, and i hadnāt felt that way abt anything in such a long time ā let alone abt something i used to love so much.
melissaās writing is so beautiful, itās everything i wanted to achieve when i was fifteen and never got around to perfecting. and iām totally okay w that now, bc what do i need to do myself that sheās not already doing/wants to do in the future? when i found melissaās writing i found a missing part of me ā a part iād maybe lost, maybe i gave it up, idk, but it was totally gone until i found her fics and they fucking clicked. i had to reach out bc there was a part of me that was a part of her, and she helped me find that again w/o even knowing it.
so i found melissa via GOT, and from the start sheād been trying to get me to write some bethyl. years and years, she dropped not-so-subtle hints ā and by āhints,ā i mean legit directives that i watch just enough TWD to write her some beth/daryl fic. real crafty, she is.
eventually the stars aligned: i was bored w the same dynamics iād been writing for years, i wanted smthn new, i was restless, i was line editing a bethyl fic sheād written, and ā again ā this shit clicked. her fic made me want to explore this dynamic iād never done before, so i watched the prerequisite episodes (no more than that tho, i super hate the show and iām begging yāall to not @ me abt it anymore). i found smthn that iād been missing, smthn that challenged and excited me and brought me back around to why i love romance and, more importantly, why i want to write it myself.
so as i was starting to write bethyl, i was poking around the ao3 tag to get a feel for what had been done, what hadnāt, anything i might be missing. and goddamn BAM ā
@ gus : this is where u enter dramatically thru a red velvet curtain that i donāt wanna touch (Metaphorically bc you do romance better than me and iām cool w that bc your talent simply Cannot be touched, and Literally bc i hate velvet) ā i was like, āplease for the love of god let her want to write contemporary romance, i need some good fckin foodā
i happened upon ādoo wah diddy diddyā first. ofc the summary hooked me, forget my usual hard no against pregnancy fics (i have issues w pregnancy and thatās all anybody Needs to know, back off), but This Bitch !!!!!!! has a way with words and i wanted to be friends w her straightaway. lmao too bad for her, now sheās stuck w me
gusās fics gave me what i wanted without having to write it myself. her style is so distinctive, she hits the notes between porn and Actual Affection that is missing from uhhhh, every romance iāve tried?? (why is everyone so intent on the sex part?? fckin chill. at best itās unrelatable and at worst u sound like uād rather wear someone than fuck them, check urself)
she writes w such care, she wants you to know what sheās doing here, and what sheās doing here is combining the physical and emotional needs of both characters w/o infringing on anyoneās comfortability. you root for these characters bc they simply want to be together, no strings (and if there are strings, damn, they talk abt it).
gus makes you believe in love in the modern age. like, not to sound like one of those ppl who post fckin āno one in this generation knows how to love!!!1!!11!!ā memes on facebook, those are dumb, but gusās writing made me think āyeah man, love aināt dead, itās just abt how we approach it.ā
(if yāall havenāt guessed yet, i have some hang-ups abt relationships. iāve goddamn earned those. but melissa and gus both brought me back to where i needed to be ā in this place where, yeah, weāve got some shit to deal with, but we all still deserve the things we want, and those things are achievable. i could not have gotten here without them, so jot that down.)
gus is Real, sheās funny, sheās unapologetic in the way she writes. ofc she has her personal hurdles, but who doesnāt?? and tbh nobody writes a sex scene like gus does. physical, realistic, but balanced w the emotional depth that makes you root for these characters bc you can Feel how much they want each other ā not just sexually, but in the less-erotic aftermath of that passion. it continues to blow my mind, bc iāve never seen anyone do what she does. i canāt even pinpoint the specifics, bc she justā¦ Does It. and youāre reading it like āyeah bitch thatās it,ā and Thatās It.
itās fckin wild.
these two ā my best friends, the lights of my life, both of whom always make me crave chicken tenders at THE most inconvenient hours bc somehow we always talk abt chicken or ice cream or ultimately DQ, but they're both so hot idec ā have something special.
i really, really want them both to know that: itās not just in how theyāve treated me as a friend, but who they are as people, in their creative pursuits. iāve never known support the way theyāve shown me; iāve never known this much enthusiasm or investment or belief that i can do what i want with my talent. i want them to know that i feel the same way abt them and their works.
sometimes, when i look back at their writing that completely kicked my ass, i still canāt believe that theyāve become two of my best friends. itās totally bonkers. theyāre This Talented, and they wanna be friends w my spastic ass? GIRL. iām out.
iām not always the best at being present, at giving people what they need when they need it. but with everything that melissa and gus have given me in the past few years, i need them to know this ā honey!!! i need all yāall to know this, bc i know fandom shit is hard, but you should know some of these friendships are so, so worth all that bullshit, so ā
they have so much to give, so much to say, so much to offer. i could not have kept going without them. i couldnāt believe in myself without the faith theyāve given to me. i hope that i can always give that same faith right back.
and that, babes, is what real soulmates are all about.
#i just love them whoops my hand slipped#the majnificent adventures#gus tag#@ melissa wtf is our tag we had like five#how do i not remember five things#anyway i got into my feelings tnt donāt @ me
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ONF UNIVERSITY AU
A/n : ok this is just the first (?) elaboration of the au. This is also meshed with senpai au. I actually already had a few moodboards (Yuto and Minseok ones) and a senpai AU of Seungjoon that opened up the idea, its just i did not have the time and luxury to expand the au. Another reason was that timing i am still learning about ONF so I don't want to go too OOC on things I am not familiar with.
To keep it short, the boys actually formed a dance club and they named themselves ONF
I do said dance club but if you wanna utilise it like F4 from meteor garden, it totally flexible
Also totally doable if you wanna use the university au as the main worldbuilding for other AU, examples, Sibling AU, or any BF headcanons I have mentioned like the MTL for PDA. MTL to confess and MTL to leave hickies, so do check out masterlist (that is constantly updating )
Also, even though it might retcon some setting I have already done, but it is totally doable for University AU to be the prequel for Office AU.
OH HEADS UP, FOR THIS AU I AM ALTERING THEIR AGE. Their real life age difference are about 4-5 years which is unrealistic to fit for the au, so shrink age difference to 1-2 years.Ā
One of the project they did as a dance club, which they uploaded
youtube
Let see the members headcanons below
Hyojin : Probably musical student but if we were to jump out from stereotype,I do feel him studying marketing (analysts side)
OK if this boy does not finish his assignments in the cafeteria, then he is not Kim Hyojin lol. Constantly munching something while he trying to finish assignment or solve a problematic question
Even if Seungjoon drags him to library to do assignments . HYOJIN DEFO GONNA MAKE EXCUSE TO BUY BEVERAGE FOR THE 2 OF THEM AND SNEAKS OUT FOR A SHORT WHILE.
The type that try his best on getting good results on every class. But he never brags about it.
Should we give him a senpai au plot, I would write him as the senpai you have a crush on since high school and you did not know he attend the same university as you.
Changyoon : Design student for sureš Interior design, graphic design or even fashion design. Oh! Film Director also not bad? (I mean he has loads of ideas and thoughts also let's not forget about Incomplete MV)
Ppl which are not in their circles would be like, "how did you even get along with the others?" Because his majors are very different compared to the other 6
Hmm I do feel it is more like Changyoon did not make the first move to join the group. Probably the Capricorns/ENFPS (Seungjoon or Jaeyoung)
So maybe he kinda drop by to a short marketing class so that he can gain insight on how advertisements film can grasp audience heart. There he either met Hyojin or Seungjoon (maybe both) ,then only the bond gets deeper
After knowing each other he finally comfortable to be himself and does not feel awkward anymore...
Also including this hc here because I only thought of it when writing. HYOJIN,CHANGYOON, SEUNGJOON AND MINKYUN teaming up to sing something? Like them 4 have a YouTube channel that upload their covers, without showing their faces, using illustrations drawn by Changyoon
Seungjoon : Could go for science genre or maybe business administration? Also anything related with mathematics(that need flexible solving) might suit him too
Might occasionally appear in the library. Not really searching for books to read,more on giving himself the environment to complete assignments. But visits bookstore too
Maybe, the most social-able being in the group. Constantly waving or say hi to acquaintance/classmates passing by. Even though that, there are never rumours or scandals of Seungjoon being playboy. (But totally the first one in the group to get a GF, hint established in his senpai au)
Like people only notices the group because of him because of his social skills. Its kind of like the fairy who brings/enlarge the fandom lol
You can read his Senpai au here
Might doing part time job at a cafe nearby university because of distance+ time convenience purposes. The other members of the group might occasionally hang out at the place, waiting for him to finish his shift or Yuto to finish his lessons and then they go eat dinner
Jaeyoung : High chance of choosing communication related genre or/also social science/sociology related genre. I won't be surprised if he will choose psychology or behavioural science
Easily to find him in library searching for books to read/expand his pov. Sitting beside windows
One of the hyungs that will explains Korean to Yuto. Especially idioms.
First impression would be the quiet good looking one that definitely gonna stay back to ask lecturer more questions
The second on in the group to get a GF. But very very low key.
Linking to the tutor AU I posted recently, he might be teaching online to gain extra income because he does not want to do part time job to exhaust himself as he want to reserve energy to dance. Which also the main factor he suggested Yuto to do online teaching later
Minkyun : Musical student but focusing on composing. To jump from stereotypes, he could be going to broadcast communications, to become professional radio DJ
He might also join another club which is established by uni it self to make radio broadcast that plays at the cafeteria.
Cues in other members all recognise his voice immediately. Lol if he qccidentally messed up on some wordings, the next time they meet they are gonna tease him for sure haha
OK this applies to all of them but I only remembered to include this during writing for Minkyun, the boys are totally banned from playing any games at the cafeteria lol (not a strict ban but they are loud lol.) So they changed plans to play game and hangout at home, with Yuto coming over to sleep over.
Yuto : the exchange student / the foreign student who is majoring in Korean language. High chance going for Korean language teaching later.
Once they knew Yuto's Korean Proficiency level are above average, the boys are supportive and proud of him af. Lol also his devilish hyungs teasing him that he should get a girlfriend, it is a way to master language lol
Cues in his hyungs helping him out by giving him small tests of Korean grammar
Could be the only one who lives in university dorms. But he gets to have sleepovers with his hyungs at their house during weekends (rent or family residence,up to you)
Even encourages him to try out online teaching beginners first to gain experiences
Probably feeling sadden the most when found out Minseok had to quit university. Also could not help feeling lonely when his hyungs graduated. (Some did extend studies but some did not. My hunch, Minkyun and Chang Yoon could be the first two to graduated first. Jaeyoung and Yuto being the last two to graduate)
Minseok : a junior who studies history and choosing Japanese + Chinese as sub majors. Who knows, he might choose translating/interpreting as major later (I mean have you seen some interviews where he used Japanese and Chinese, damn his pronunciation is good, trust me cos i speak both language)
Did not get to stay long, maybe just 1 year and a half then he had to quit university because his whole family are moving out from the country (no worries they contact each other online frequently). His hyungs defo doing a farewell party for him.
Even though short time, but he gained the title of university sweetheart by the first day he starts uni.Ā
Same as Seungjoon and Jaeyoung, the type to find him in library alot.
Of course gonna ask Yuto a lot of Japanese grammar questions
BTW if link to Sibling AU, should we link it to the double Kim household, Minseok did not drop out. He could have participated an exchange program and had to leave for overseas to complete a course at a better institute
A/N : Ok I am gonna stop here before it gets even messier (slaps forehead I changdolled while writing this)
#onf#onf headcanons#onf imagines#onf headcanon#onf scenarios#university au#senpai au#scheduled#kim hyojin#lee changyoon#lee seungjoon#shim jaeyoung#park minkyun#mizuguchi yuto#kim minseok#onf hyojin#onf j-us#onf e-tion#onf wyatt#onf mk#onf u#onf laun
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"#just because you have a bias about certain socioeconomic groups which tend to listen to country doesn't mean" // Yup. I tend to side-eye folks who are like "I like all kinds of music except country and [Insert a genre of music usually associated with Black creators like rap and hip hop]" You're not slick, ppl. I know what you're saying.
^^^^^^^^^ You hit the nail on the head.
Itās racial bias. Itās socioeconomic bias. Itās bias against people groups who have less respect and say in society.
From my tags on this post:
#donāt get me started on a long rant of the progressive side of country music and whatās been progressive FOR DECADES#from times near its BEGINNInGS#through the modern age#just because you have a bias about certain socioeconomic groups which tend to listen to country doesnāt mean#that thatās actually what the genre is or who the artists are#I could go for a LONNNNG time about this#a LONG time#some of the best protest songs I know of todayās current political situation#are country#or have like yaāll forgotten about the folk revival#of the 1960s#orā¦#gahghfnfddhgnghfngh#I AM GAY AND I LISTEN TO COUNTRY#NYEH!!!!
Now. I understand disinterest in a genre because itās not your aesthetic, but when people express their feelings for country, R&B, hip-hop, etc. ā¦the dialogue isnāt casual āItās not my thing.ā The dialogue is a hateful, passionate retaliation.
Other genres arenāt treated like this. Itās normalized and encouragedĀ to hate on country and rap. These genres are systematically treated with less respect and that disrespect culturally arose because these genres are associated with less-respected demographics.Ā
(Country music is associated with people of low socioeconomic status, for people who arenāt explicitly aware.)
Anecdotally: Iāve caught something interesting about anti-country music sentiment. Many people tell me they canāt stand theĀ ātwang.ā Half the time, Iāve noticed that their internalized definition ofĀ ātwangā isnāt the vocal technique; itās that they canāt stand the presence of a Southern accent. And hooboy does that have TONS of sociocultural bias issues. As a linguist, Iāve read endless sociolinguistic studies about how Southern dialects are treated asĀ ālesser,ā and how speakers of the dialectĀ are automatically judged to be less intelligent, etc. Itās not good, folks.
Sometimes, to help friends get out of their anti-country mindset, IāveĀ ātrickedā them into liking country. See, genres like bluegrass grew closely out of Scots-Irish folk music. Often, weāre playing the same tunes on both sides of the Atlantic. So I play a few instrumentals, my friend goes,Ā āOh! I love Celtic music
The biases against those demographics color how people view the music. Thereās endless things that can be said about hip-hop bias, holy shit. I wonāt focus on that today because I donāt believe I am qualified to be a spokesman. Someone who understands that genre better, and other genres associated with the African-American community, and isĀ African-American, would be a better human to listen to than me. I defer to their knowledge and experience. Itās hella important to understand what bias has been reflected against those genres.
But thereās just as much bias against country music, against another demographic. And Iāve found it wild how it gets treated on places like tumblr, which wants to stand up for underprivileged groups, but somewhat inaccurately associates country music asĀ āanti-gay conservative evil white person musicā rather than music of people historically of lower socioeconomic status.
Yes, some of the demographic that listens to country music or plays country music areĀ bad apples. But likeā¦ thinking the music is JUST THAT is a huge disservice to what country actually is and who the music artists actually are.
The history of country music is one giant collaborative melting pot of people from manyĀ different cultural backgrounds. Broad West African influence. Mexican influence. Italian influence. German influence. Scots-Irish influence. Cherokee influence. More. Early record labels like OKEH foolishly separatedĀ āhillbilly musicā (presumably white folk music) fromĀ ārhythm and bluesā (presumably Black folk music) without understanding the constant racial, demographic, regional, and cultural cross-pollination that occurred between the musicians from country musicās origins. And while there ARE certain issues in country musicās past and present, and we canāt let those issues go forgotten, thatās far from the whole story. We shouldnāt romanticize issues, but we should acknowledge that this music genre has given us major strides too.
Country music is the banjo, brought from Africa, combined with the mandolin, brought from Italy, combined with the fiddle, brought from Ireland, combined with the guitar and the dobro and the accordion and the upright bass and the electric guitar and the electric bass and whatever instruments you want to put in there.
Country music is African-American musicians like DeFord Bailey, the first radio star ever introduced on the Grand Ole Opry (THE most revered country music hub out there), blues harmonica performer, playing to crowdsĀ decades before segregation was de-legalized. He toured with white Opry musicians who treated him as one of their own. Itās soul music genre pioneer Ray Charles producing a studio album entirely dedicated to country music hits likeĀ āHey Good Lookināā from Hank Williams. Itās country star Charley Pride, who despite the racism against him in the 1960s rose to fame and made audiences fall in love with his beautiful voice. Itās the African-American musicians who inspired many commercial country stars, like Arnold Shultz influencing Bill Monroe and the railroad workers inspiring Jimmie Rodgers.
Country music is stars likeĀ Johnny Rodriguez and Rick TreviƱo, singing country music in Spanish, and using obvious Latin flavors in the genre.
Country music is filled with badass women like the ladies who STARTED THE GENRE ROLLING IN THE FIRST PLACE, Sara Carter and Mother Maybelle Carter (whose guitar style is hugelyĀ influential to this day) and Maybelleās daughters Helen, June, and Anita;Ā the first female music manager in the music industry, Louise Scruggs; songwriters like Felice Bryant and Loretta Lynn; the most awarded female artist in Grammy history Alison Krauss; and powerhouses like Dolly Parton who stepped out of an over-controlling entertainerās shadow to become a badass in all things like supporting the LGBTQ community, contributing to pro-transgender films ahead of their time, and starring in sex worker positive productions likeĀ āThe Best Little Whorehouse in Texas.ā
Country music is filled with activism. Johnny Cash showed a heart for those forgotten by society. He toured many times in prisons. Cash especially was an activist for Native American rights. He toured with Native American songwriters so audiences could hear their own words (Iāve been trying to find names but Iām having difficulties re-finding that information, so my apologies for not giving names of those who deserve to be mentioned). Cash released albums dedicated to exposing past and present injustices against the Native American people. He went on tours specifically to Native American reservations.Ā
And itās not just Johnny Cash!
Country music is many stars from the Grand Ole Opry banding together to release AIDS benefit albums - big names like Alison Krauss, Willie Nelson, Marty Stuart, aurgh Iām too lazy to write them all, PEOPLE.
Country music is Earl Scruggs and his sons playing at the Vietnam War Protests.
Country music is tied in with the fucking folk revival of the 1960s, which was deep in left-wing activism and the Civil Rights Movement. Folk singers sang traditional Appalachian and English ballads alongside their own compositions, topical pieces protesting the current political situation. You can call one artistĀ āfolkā orĀ āAmericanaā and another oneĀ ācountry,ā but the influences were intermingling, and itās why we have Bob Dylan and Woody Guthrie and Joan Baez and John Denver and Pete Seeger owning a banjo that says,Ā āThis machine surrounds hate and forces it to surrender.ā
Dammit, I have a full BOOK that discusses country music and political ties.Ā
Thereās another book out there, which I havenāt read, that discusses the relationship between country music and the queer community, and how bias against country music is NOT as reflective of the listening demographic as we stereotype. Iāll take the word of one reviewer who said:
[Nadine Hubbs] explores country music lyrics, presenting a great deal of evidence suggesting that working class America is not inherently homophobic, but that as middle class cultural taste has changed to include formal acceptance of homosexuality, this process has included pinning homophobic ideas on the working class.
Country music is lyrics like this 1975 controversial songĀ āThe Pillā:
You wined me and dined meWhen I was your girlPromised if Iād be your wifeYouād show me the worldBut all Iāve seen of this old worldIs a bed and a doctor billIām tearing down your brooder houseāCause now Iāve got the pillAll these years Iāve stayed at homeWhile you had all your funAnd every year thatās gone byAnother babyās comeThereās a-gonna be some changes madeRight here on nursery hillYouāve set this chicken your last timeāCause now Iāve got the pill
Country music is lyrics like this 2013 song that feels as relevant than ever:
If crooks are in charge, should we let them pick our pockets?If we donāt want trouble, should we not try to stop it?We could just sink into the quicksand slavery weāre born inBut fighting endless wars for greedy liars is getting pretty boringThey think they got us trained, so weāll think weāre living freeIf we got time and money for junk food and TVBut itās plain honest people never stand a chance of winning electionsThey just let us pick which liars take our rights away for our own protectionThe corporate propaganda paralyzes us with fearDestroying our ability to trustFear keeps us fighting with each other over scrapsStarving to death in the dustOrganized religion really helps you submitBut the meek are inheriting the short end of the stickFear surrounds compassion like a layer of moldAnd weakens our defenses so weāre too weak to be boldLife could be heaven, but this corrupted systemTakes away our rights, expects us not to miss themThe middle class is shrinking while the lower class growsIf we donāt wake up soon, weāll have no class left to lose
Country music is Christians themselves criticizing the hypocritical Evangelical culture in the USA for the bullshit hatefulness stewing inside it:
Every house has got a Bible and a loaded gunWe got preachers and politiciansāRound here itās kinda hard to tell which oneIs gonna do more talkinā with a crooked tongue
And as that one post I just reblogged shows, thereās MANY queer country musicians out there producing explicitly pro-LGBTQ+ music.
Iām brushing over so much. Iām sorry for the simplification that goes with me doing such a pass-by overview. Iām sorry Iām focusing more on history than the present (I know more about the 1920s-1960s eras, so Iām talking from my strong suit). I hope the information is at least strong enough to get my point across.
There are definitely listeners and artists in country music who are uber-conservative white hateful Christians. Yes. I know why country music gets associated with that. But.
Country music is not ABOUT this uber-conservative white hateful Christian side. The genre is not āpollutedā. It is a thousand voices from a thousand perspectives of people from many backgrounds and beliefs. And many of those thousand voices are old traditional songs that came from Black communities, or were composed by Mexican-Americans, or were performed by folk artists as part of a protest for equal rights.Ā
(Note: Iām *NOT* saying all Christians are bad or that different political angles donāt have merits. Iām Christian myself! And you donāt know my political party. Iām just trying to get the point across that country music isnāt ENTRENCHED in one questionable demographic.)
You donāt have to like country music. It doesnāt have to be your aesthetic. But if you find it fun to get in on societyās popular country hate roastingā¦ please rethink this. The reason country music has been hated from its roots is because itās associated with the socioeconomically disadvantaged.
Iām with you 100%, Ashley. When someone says they like all genresĀ āexcept country music and rap,ā I get a little leery. I used to be one of those people when I was younger. I had to learn to grow past those biases. But once I did, I realized there was so much I was hating on that I didnāt understand. Now, I hope I can help people overcome their own biases, such as ones they donāt realize theyāve had - for things like music.
Hi yaālls. Iām queer and I love country.
P.S. If anyone has anything to add or correct, please feel free to add on! Iām doing my best but I do not know everything and would be happy to learn more, too!
#ashleybenlove#long post#music#non-dragons#that banjo business#analysis#my analysis#music analysis#note that there's a version of this post where it's been reblogged and added on and I chat about Elvis and stuff#but the starting text is from an earlier version of this post#where I had a number of typos#XD I know they're there but I can't change those hahahahaha#I changed them here#reblog whichever version you desire though of course!#but just so you know there's a few minor factual typos in the non-edited version#I was hahaha so excited that I typed fast when I wrote it XD
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Hi, this is Bicycle from your Stranger Stories comments. I had a thought and would like to hear your opinion. So I gather that in your A/B/O universe, there are multiple mating seasons a year (this is what I remember, correct me if I'm wrong) when omegas go into heat. Would this mean, at least for the children of A/O couples, that birthdays would be concentrated around 9 months from each mating season? How would this impact the culture? Would there be birth seasons as well as mating seasons?
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Thank you so much for this excellent question and for your patience! I am so so sorry that itās taken me forever to answer- Iāve been trying to respond for a while but words are hard this year orz.
So yes, you are correct that there is a mating season once a quarter.
The Winter season lands somewhere between late December - early February (we are here in Strange Days FYI)
Spring Season is between late March- early May
Summer: Late June- early Aug
Fall: Late September- early November
But keep in mind that the seasonās dates can fluctuate.
The mating seasons are dependent on when the omega population goes into what is referred to as a ātrue heatā.
A true heat where the omega populationās pheromones are strong enough to cause an Alpha to enter rut.
Alphas can only knot during ruts, which is important to successfully conceiving /managing or ending the Omegas heat. The need for the knot is due to the fact that while Alphas (depending on their weight) produce more semen compared to Beta males, unlike Betas, the semen isnāt viable for long after ejaculation- so the knot is needed to keep it all in to increase the chances of conceiving. Plus being tied to your partner along with the post sex endorphins is really good for the coupleās bond.
So due to the mating season being dependent around the omega populationās true heats- it is why the season is spread across a few weeks. Itās not always a defined time, rather itās an estimated time omegas are most likely to enter a true heat. Some omegas can enter a heat earlier or later than the spike of the season. But with modern medicine and science, the world has become better at predicting these periods.
Depending on the weight of omega and if theyāre using blockers/birth control, they may also āskipā a season. But again it depends on what the omega is on. Athena for example, is on birth control and a blocker than minimizes her symptoms. So sheāll feel the effects of the season but itās not enough to trigger a full on heat. The worst sheāll feel is fatigued and the best, a bit frisky. However she wonāt feel the overwhelming need to mate, like, letās say, Apollo.
Miles prefers to skip heats all together, at least, thatās what ppl say is his official position.
All other times through out the year, an omega May experience a āfalse heatā one a month for a day or so, but the likelihood of conception then, is very low as outside of mating season, an Alpha is unable to knot /the omega isnāt actually ovulating. However there are instances of successful conception outside of the season. Itās extremely rare, but it has happened.
Anyway, now that the āscienceā is out of the way, letās talk cultural impacts.
So yes, it is common for A/Os birthdays to be clustered around certain times of the year. There are definitely ābaby boomsā four times out of the year, deoending on an areaās overall A/O population.
Side note: I made my own AA birthday charts, based off other games timelines and characters ages and wouldnāt you know it? Majority of the protagās birthdays are clustered between Jan-March with a few outliers in April and May (Klavier May 23rd and Simon, April 1st in my head canons- I wrote an extended post on Klavier and Apolloās birthdays for Heard Your Heart Beating). In chapter 14 of SD I mentioned that Miles and Phoenix are the same zodiac sign so they were definitely born within a few weeks of each other, most likely conceived in the Spring mating season the year prior.
So what does this mean for the packs? Well, if a lot of omegas in the same pack are pregnant together it strengthens the bonds between those omegas. The children born are raised as packmates and the responsibility is of raising them is shared between the adults of the pack. The children grow up considering the others they were born with as siblings /close cousins. Depending on the pack, it may be considered taboo to mate with a packmate from the same cluster you were born into, as it can be seen as mating your sibling (despite there not being any actual biological relation there), and it doesnāt encourage diversification of the gene pool if packs are inter-mating.
Itās more common for the kids to break away and form smaller packs with their own mates from other packs /families. This is how things like Houses and Tribes get started as children eventually split off from the main house but still retain loyalty to that lead pack.
Having a cluster of children introduces a āclassā mentality (like āclass of 2024ā sort of deal) and itās used as a way to introduce the younger packs into society through customs similar to debutante balls/London Season/coming of age ceremonies we see in the real world.
Itās during these introductions (usually at the age of 15/16 whatever age when all of the children in a āclassā have had their first rut or heat) into society is a way to mingle and network with other families outside of the childrenās packs. Not surprisingly, these are events were breeding contracts or the right to court are often negotiated between families.
This cluster mentality is also enforced through the marriage /mating ceremony, as the couple will have their ceremony during the first mating season following their engagement. Due to this, there are hotels and resorts that cater exclusively to Alphas and Omegas as they can make most of their annual revenue from about 12 weeks or so out of the year. Venue space is fought after because not only is about the ceremony, the couple will also stay for the next week or so as the Omega will be in heat. So having accommodations like this for A/Os is really important.
There are also older establishments run by Alphas who have back rooms ready a few times throughout the year to accommodate an A/O couple while theyāre out; should the omega suddenly have their heat. (Apparently mounting your omega in public is frowned upon in the increasing majority that is polite Beta society XD) These accommodations have helped the A/O community start to assimilate into Beta society.
Thereās more that will be covered in SD eventually (courtship practices/breeding rights/mating ceremonies, etc), but I hope this post answered a lot of your questions.
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socknography: the importance of preserving fan creator biographical data
i wrote earlier on utilizing collections and bookmarks to boost the archival power of ao3, and in that post mentioned how i wish authors would fill out their bios so we can preserve fanauthor information as well as we preserve the fics themselves. so, here is my rant about WHY WE ARE SO IMPORTANT.
for my masters thesis i wrote about the layered pseudonymity of fanfiction authors, and after doing a ton of research, i find myself still thinking of the pseudonymous/anonymous divide as it pertains to fic. we have authors we considerĀ āfamousā and ones whose followings eclipse that of traditionally published authors, but unlike traditionally published authors, we donāt put a handy bio at the end of our fics. in fact, if you want to find out about the author, you have to hope theyāve linked somewhere to their tumblr or twitter or dreamwidth, or they have consistent pseuds across platforms. and from there, you have to hope they have anĀ āabout me.ā but most, myself included, donāt.
unlike traditional publication -- where amazon and goodreads and even the back of the book contains biographical info -- and even unlike the rest of fandom archival etiquette -- which, despite having virtually no committed rules still maintains its organizational structure -- there is no standard etiquette on fanauthor biographical data.Ā
i speculate the reasons fanauthors are hesitant to write their own biographies is very complicated:Ā
there is noĀ āaskā for it or existing standard. when i publish stories under my real name, iām required to provide my bio, which contains my accomplishments, where i got my degree, where else iām published, and my website. all literary author bios follow this formula, so theyāre pretty easy to write. other than this post, i have never seen a request for fanauthor bios. so without an editor demanding it, and without a standard formula or platform to draw from, a total lack of information becomes the norm, and almost any info other than the standardĀ āname. age. pronouns. ao3 name. list of fandoms and/or pithy one-linerā of tumblr or occasional ask game is seen as a deviation from the norm. even ask games get a bad rep sometimes, and theyāre transitory, a post you see as youāre scrolling through to somewhere else, not static, like a dedicated profile page.
pseudonymity veers too close to anonymity. an anonymous author cannot have a biography. a pseudonymous author can, but biographies may be seen as defeating the purpose of writing under a pseudonym, or multiple pseuds. a sock account is a sock for a reason -- you donāt want it associated with your main. moreover, i believe fandom creates an environment in which to acknowledge your accomplishments and promote your own content is seen as narcissistic. fanfiction can sometimes be seen as a genre of selflessness, donating time and energy into a community centered around a shared canon, not personal gain. to acknowledge the self publicly is to invite attention, and attention is contradictory to anonymity.
shame and humility. the more information you have on the internet, the easier you are to find. very few fanauthors use their real names, or feel comfortable connecting their fan identity to their real one. i hear pretty constantly how often fanauthors hide their fannishness from their coworkers and loved ones, how only the people closest to them know they write/read fanfic. moreover, you might thinkĀ āmy most popular fic only has 10 kudos and 1 comment, nobody wants to know about meā (which is so not true, but iāll get to that in a minute).
fandom is constantly changing. with a central archive for fanfiction in place, itās easier now to be in multiple fandoms at once than it ever has been. if you want to read all sugar daddy fics, thereās a tag for that, and if youāre not picky about canon, you have an entire buffet of fandoms to choose from. communities are growing and shifting and changing shape. i move fandoms, and i keep my friends and readers from previous fandoms. i get dragged to new fandoms frequently. my interests and inspirations change, but i donāt erase my history or identity every time i move, i only add to it. i am always betts whether iām in star wars or the 100 or game of thrones. but if you only read my fic, you donāt know the stories behind it. many people donāt know i entered fandom in the brony convention community in 2012, or that i was sadrobots before i was betty days before i was betts, or how fandom changed my life and led me through a path of personal trauma recovery, or that i co-founded wayward daughters, or ran the fanauthor workshop, or all these other things about fanfic that is not fanfic itself.Ā
if you are a fan creator, your fannish personal narrative matters. telling your story helps preserve the metatextual history of our genre.
i think constantly about what our genre will look like in 30 or 50 years, if it will be like other genres that began as subversions of the mainstream: comic books, beat literature, science fiction. genres that, at the time involved groups of friends creating stories for each other, bouncing ideas off of one another, experimenting with or distorting other genres, and which became, over time, well-regarded forms with rich histories.Ā
maybe one day, like the MCU, weāll have a dedicated production company that churns out adaptations of longform coffee shop aus written between 2009 and 2015. maybe āBNFsā will be read in high school literature curriculums. maybe our work will end up on the real or virtual shelves of our great grandchildren. and if that happens, if fanfic goes entirely mainstream, how will fanfic authorship be perceived? how will fanpeople in 2080, if humanity is still around by then, interact with the lexicon weāve created and preserved? what would you do if you found out Jane Austen wrote under five different sock accounts across three platforms over the span of twenty years? how would you, a fan of Pride & Prejudice, even begin to find all of her work?
we have so many social constraints pushing against us. thereās purity culture, which encourages further division of identity -- fanauthors may write fluff on their main and have various sock accounts for underage/noncon fics. if youāre a scarecrow, youāre much harder for a mob to attack. thereās misogyny, which dictates women/queer ppl shouldnāt be writing about or indulging in or exploring their sexuality at all. thereās intellectual property and a history of DMCAs, which, although kept at bay by the OTW, may still have influence on theĀ āillegalā mentality of our work. with social armies against us, itās easier to exist in the shadows, on the fringe. we change URLs based on our moving interests, and split our identities a million different ways, and keep sarcasticĀ āmeā tags full of self-deprecating text posts. we are difficult beasts to catch, because we have not been allowed to exist.
i spent a lot of time today googling the word forĀ āpseudonymous biographyā and came up empty-handed (if someone knows of an existing word, pls let me know. āpseudographyā is apparently a fancy word for a typo; āpseudobiographyā is a fake biography), so for lack of anything better, iāve come up with the termĀ āsocknographyā because 1) itās funny and doesnāt sound intimidating, and 2) it encapsulates the sensitive and complicated way fanauthor identifying conventions work. and also i thinkĀ āfanauthor biography,āĀ ābibliography,ā andĀ āprofileā just doesnāt cut it for the actual work of these pieces. they donāt necessarily include IRL biographical data, they include more historical/community context than a bibliography, and the words āprofileā and āabout meā donāt really inspire interaction, or acknowledge the archival importance of this work.
astolatās fanlore page is my go-to example. astolat writes under multiple pseuds and has major influence in the history of fandom. sheās also a traditionally published author, but you notice, her ofic novels are not mentioned, nor any other real-life identifying information. fanlore has a really good policy on this in place, for those concerned about doxxing.Ā
(moreover, i am not suggesting you centralize your socks. theyāre socks for a reason. but most everyone has a main, and that main identity has a story.)
there are 2 existing spaces to preserve socknographies.Ā
fanlore, a wiki owned by the OTW, you can make an account and create a user pageĀ (which is different than aĀ āpersonā page) using aĀ user profile template
ao3ā²sĀ āprofileā page, which is a big blank box in which anything goes
(iām not including tumblr on this list because i donāt think itās a stable platform.)Ā
fanloreās template is straight to the point and minimal, which doesnāt really invite narrative the same way a literary bio would. ao3ā²s big blank box leaves us with the question -- wtf do i say about myself? how do i say it? how much is too much? and because of that, most profiles are either blank or only include a policy on translations/podfic/fanart, and maybe links to tumblr and twitter. but let me tell you, if i have read your fic and taken the time to move over to your profile, you better believe i am a fan. and as a fan, i want to Know Things.
here are the things i want to know, or
a potential template:
introduction (name/alias, age, location, pronouns, occupation)
accomplishments (degrees, personal history)
fan history (fandoms youāve been in, timeline as a fan, how you were introduced to fandom/fanfiction, what does fandom mean to you -- this is where your fan narrative goes)
fandom participation (popular fics/posts, involvement in fan events/communities, side blogs, interviews, etc. 3 & 4 might be one and the same for you)
spotlight (which of your fics are most important to you/would you like others to read and why? what are the stories behind your favorite fics youāve written?)
find me elsewhere* (links to tumblr, twitter, insta, etc.)
policies on fanart, fanfic of fic, podfics, and translations
*you cannot link to ko-fi, paypal, patreon, or amazon on ao3/fanlore per the non-commercial terms of service
iāll be working on filling this out for my own profile as an example, but you can also see how my @fanauthorworkshop participants filled out theirĀ fanauthor spotlights, and the information they provided. obviously, you should only share that which you feel comfortable sharing, and as your fandom life changes, your narrative will change too. itās not much different than updating a CV or resume.
tl;dr the goal is to provide a self-narrative of your fan life/identity for posterity. who are you and why are you a fanperson? why do you create fan content? what are you proud of and what do you want to highlight to others? who are you in this space?
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Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā nowĀ ,Ā toĀ giveĀ allĀ myĀ luvĀ toĀ thoseĀ whoĀ literallyĀ . . .Ā havĀ myĀ heartĀ .Ā weĀ havenātĀ talkedĀ muchĀ ,Ā againĀ bcĀ iāmĀ aĀ shyĀ babieĀ ,Ā thoĀ sum Ā of Ā us Ā hav Ā jus Ā recently Ā been Ā talking Ā moreĀ whichĀ makesĀ meĀ veryĀ sparklyĀ ,Ā butĀ !Ā weĀ exchangeĀ imsĀ hereĀ orĀ thereĀ ,Ā sendĀ anĀ askĀ orĀ twoĀ ,Ā replyĀ toĀ nĀ likeĀ eachĀ otherāsĀ postsĀ ,Ā supportĀ eachĀ otherāsĀ contentĀ ---Ā uĀ knowĀ ,Ā weāreĀ cuteĀ mutualsĀ Ā !Ā theĀ Ā āĀ willĀ theyĀ ,Ā wonātĀ theyĀ Ā āĀ mutualsĀ !Ā forĀ realsiesĀ ,Ā thoĀ ,Ā urĀ allĀ soĀ talentedĀ ,Ā whetherĀ itĀ beĀ inĀ makingĀ gifsĀ orĀ themesĀ orĀ graphicsĀ orĀ writingĀ orĀ whateverĀ !Ā urĀ talentĀ astoundsĀ meĀ nĀ iĀ amĀ beyondĀ inĀ luvĀ wĀ uĀ !
@sprfluous ,Ā @chanheez , @loonarzĀ , @jungjnsoul , @yeriimss , @hotjoong ,Ā @hiqey , @tcehyvng ,Ā @kvinabstract , @stcinfelds , @kermitgrinch , @mcninas , @doyyeon , @jminssii , @jiminslolli ,Ā @raihelps , @svnflxwer , @softcarpentersĀ Ā !
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā nĀ nowĀ forĀ honourableĀ mentionsĀ !Ā theĀ fewĀ pplĀ onĀ thisĀ siteĀ whoĀ myĀ shyĀ babieĀ anticsĀ didĀ notĀ keepĀ meĀ fromĀ talkingĀ toĀ nĀ becomingĀ friendsĀ wĀ .Ā theseĀ areĀ theĀ literalĀ luvsĀ ofĀ myĀ lifeĀ !Ā ourĀ shipsĀ areĀ literallyĀ *chefsĀ kiss*Ā ,Ā iĀ feelĀ comfyĀ cryināĀ nĀ rantināĀ toĀ uĀ guysĀ withoutĀ worryinĀ abtĀ beingĀ annoyingĀ nĀ iĀ hopeĀ theĀ feelināĀ isĀ mutualĀ ,Ā iĀ donātĀ feelĀ evenĀ anĀ ounceĀ ofĀ anxietyĀ whenĀ talkināĀ toĀ uĀ guysĀ whichĀ isĀ suchĀ aĀ majorĀ thingĀ forĀ meĀ ?Ā iĀ considerĀ uĀ guysĀ myĀ friendsĀ smĀ nĀ ourĀ friendshipĀ literallyĀ meansĀ theĀ worldĀ toĀ meĀ .Ā urĀ sosoĀ talentedĀ inĀ soĀ manyĀ waysĀ nĀ uĀ havĀ theĀ loveliestĀ heartsĀ ,Ā nĀ iāmĀ soĀ honouredĀ toĀ beĀ ableĀ toĀ beĀ urĀ friendĀ nĀ toĀ writeĀ wĀ uĀ allĀ !Ā Ā
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā p.s.Ā thereāsĀ cuteĀ lilĀ mssgsĀ forĀ eachĀ ofĀ uĀ underĀ theĀ cutĀ !
@pointlcss , @ultraviclets , @musetories , @briingmetolifc , @heartvfireĀ !
ā”āĀ @pointlcssĀ !
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā alliĀ !Ā ā”Ā iĀ amĀ literallyĀ soĀ happyĀ thatĀ uĀ happenedĀ uponĀ myĀ lilĀ 1x1Ā postĀ aĀ coupleĀ monthsĀ backĀ nĀ decidedĀ toĀ mssgĀ meĀ abtĀ threadingĀ bcĀ ourĀ cuteĀ lilĀ starstruckĀ plotĀ turnedĀ intoĀ aĀ friendshipĀ thatĀ iĀ amĀ sosoĀ soĀ thankfulĀ forĀ ?Ā thereĀ isĀ notĀ anyoneĀ thatĀ iĀ wldĀ havĀ ratherĀ goneĀ thruĀ itĀ overĀ jungooāsĀ longĀ hairĀ ,Ā tattoosĀ ,Ā nĀ haircutĀ wĀ .Ā thatĀ oneĀ picĀ ofĀ jjkĀ fromĀ seasonāsĀ greetingsĀ asĀ ourĀ matchingĀ discordĀ iconsĀ . . .Ā stayināĀ upĀ toĀ yellĀ abtĀ strayĀ kidsāĀ nĀ txtāsĀ comebacksĀ . . .Ā iĀ literallyĀ luvĀ thisĀ forĀ usĀ ?Ā urĀ sosoĀ talentedĀ nĀ makingĀ gifsetsĀ nĀ writingĀ ,Ā nĀ iāmĀ soĀ happyĀ iĀ cldĀ makeĀ thisĀ lastĀ yearĀ aĀ lilĀ bitĀ specialĀ forĀ uĀ ,Ā bcĀ uāveĀ madeĀ thisĀ yearĀ suchĀ aĀ specialĀ nĀ prettyĀ oneĀ forĀ meĀ tooĀ !Ā iĀ canātĀ waitĀ toĀ seeĀ whereĀ ourĀ cuteĀ lilĀ plotĀ nĀ shipĀ takesĀ nĀ iĀ hopeĀ theĀ yearĀ hasĀ evenĀ moreĀ luvlyĀ thingsĀ inĀ storeĀ forĀ usĀ !Ā iĀ luvĀ nĀ adoreĀ uĀ sosoĀ soĀ muchĀ .Ā uĀ rlyĀ areĀ theĀ sweetestĀ soulĀ outĀ thereĀ nĀ iāmĀ soĀ happyĀ toĀ considerĀ uĀ aĀ friendĀ !Ā alsoĀ thankĀ uĀ forĀ jusāĀ nowĀ informingĀ meĀ abtĀ btsāĀ 2020Ā tourĀ iĀ oweĀ uĀ myĀ lifeKSHDKJĀ ā”
ā”āĀ @ultravicletsĀ !
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā nessĀ !Ā Ā ā”Ā literallyĀ . . .Ā theĀ luvĀ ofĀ myĀ lifeĀ ,Ā perhapsĀ ?Ā iĀ rememberĀ followingĀ uĀ whenĀ uĀ publishedĀ urĀ firstĀ themeĀ ,Ā bcĀ iĀ wasĀ jusĀ likeĀ .Ā wowowĀ wubbzyĀ ?Ā thisĀ isĀ beautifulĀ nĀ freeĀ nĀ iāmĀ brokeĀ nĀ uĀ havĀ myĀ heartĀ ?Ā nĀ uĀ knowĀ ,Ā forĀ aĀ whileĀ weĀ wereĀ sortĀ ofĀ willĀ theyĀ ,Ā wonātĀ theyĀ mutualsĀ ,Ā tooĀ ,Ā whichĀ wasĀ cuteĀ forĀ usĀ ,Ā butĀ iĀ thinkĀ weĀ actuallyĀ startedĀ talkingĀ whenĀ weĀ wereĀ bothĀ inĀ abroadĀ ?Ā nĀ thenĀ uĀ mssgedĀ meĀ laterĀ onĀ toĀ lmkĀ thatĀ jjkĀ wasĀ openĀ inĀ urĀ rpĀ ifĀ iĀ wantedĀ toĀ joinĀ nĀ itĀ madeĀ meĀ soĀ absolutelyĀ softĀ ???Ā likeĀ .Ā ikĀ itĀ wasĀ jusĀ aĀ lilĀ thingĀ butĀ uĀ capturedĀ myĀ wholeĀ HEARTĀ inĀ thatĀ momentĀ ?Ā nĀ nowĀ urĀ genuinelyĀ sumoneĀ thatĀ iĀ trustĀ soĀ muchĀ ,Ā likeĀ .Ā theĀ otherĀ dayĀ whenĀ uĀ letĀ meĀ rantĀ toĀ uĀ aĀ lilĀ bitĀ abtĀ smthĀ kindaĀ sillyĀ ,Ā rlyĀ ,Ā itĀ jusĀ meantĀ theĀ worldĀ toĀ meĀ ?Ā nĀ uĀ meanĀ theĀ worldĀ toĀ meĀ nĀ !!!Ā writingĀ wĀ uĀ isĀ absolutelyĀ wonderfulĀ alwaysĀ nĀ ourĀ currentĀ shipĀ isĀ *chefsĀ kiss*Ā evenĀ thoĀ iĀ havĀ yetĀ toĀ replyĀ toĀ ourĀ threadĀ againĀ BUTĀ !!!Ā iĀ willĀ doĀ itĀ ,Ā iĀ pinkyĀ promiseĀ ,Ā iāmĀ sorryĀ iāmĀ theĀ worstĀ .Ā uĀ deserveĀ theĀ wholeĀ wideĀ worldĀ .Ā urĀ talentedĀ beyondĀ beliefĀ ,Ā urĀ suchĀ aĀ blessingĀ toĀ theĀ rpcĀ nĀ thisĀ hellsiteĀ asĀ aĀ wholeĀ ,Ā nĀ iĀ adoreĀ nĀ amĀ sosoĀ soĀ thankfulĀ forĀ ourĀ luvlyĀ lilĀ friendshipĀ everyĀ timeĀ weĀ talkĀ .Ā uĀ trulyĀ havĀ madeĀ thisĀ ickyĀ yearĀ aĀ lotĀ lessĀ ickyĀ !Ā uĀ havĀ myĀ wholeĀ heartĀ !Ā Ā ā”
ā”āĀ @musetoriesĀ Ā !
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā sarahĀ !Ā Ā ā”Ā uāveĀ genuinelyĀ beenĀ oneĀ ofĀ myĀ bestĀ friendsĀ forĀ fourĀ yearsĀ +Ā oneĀ monthĀ nowĀ nĀ likeĀ ?Ā wowowĀ wubbzyĀ ?Ā thatāsĀ suchĀ aĀ longĀ timeĀ !Ā fromĀ theĀ rpĀ thatĀ shallĀ notĀ beĀ namedĀ toĀ litĀ rallyĀ whateverĀ tfĀ weāreĀ doinĀ rnĀ .Ā uĀ wereĀ theĀ firstĀ personĀ iĀ everĀ rlyĀ shippedĀ wĀ onĀ thisĀ hellsiteĀ ,Ā evenĀ thoĀ iĀ wasĀ aĀ wholeĀ babieĀ nĀ myĀ writingĀ wasĀ godforsakenĀ atĀ theĀ timeĀ .Ā nĀ nowĀ weĀ litĀ rallyĀ havĀ soĀ manyĀ shipsĀ upĀ ourĀ sleevesĀ thatĀ iĀ canātĀ evenĀ nameĀ themĀ allĀ ,Ā butĀ iĀ luvĀ eachĀ nĀ everyĀ oneĀ ofĀ themĀ sosoĀ soĀ muchĀ ?Ā sumĀ ofĀ themĀ areĀ soĀ iconicĀ thatĀ theyāreĀ jusāĀ eternalĀ nowĀ (Ā weāreĀ rlyĀ ALWAYSĀ onĀ ourĀ eliĀ &Ā zazzyĀ bullshitĀ )Ā nĀ iĀ kindĀ ofĀ adoreĀ thatĀ forĀ usĀ ?Ā weāveĀ spentĀ soĀ manyĀ ourĀ jusāĀ stayinĀ upĀ intoĀ theĀ nightĀ /Ā morningĀ writingĀ novelsĀ inĀ myĀ dmsĀ ,Ā nĀ thoseĀ areĀ genuinelyĀ sumĀ ofĀ myĀ fondestĀ rpĀ memoriesĀ ?Ā weĀ donātĀ rlyĀ talkĀ quiteĀ asĀ muchĀ anymoreĀ ,Ā butĀ thatāsĀ okayĀ nĀ itĀ happensĀ !Ā weāveĀ hadĀ sumĀ upsĀ nĀ downsĀ ,Ā butĀ iāmĀ genuinelyĀ sosoĀ soĀ thankfulĀ forĀ urĀ friendshipĀ theseĀ lastĀ fourĀ yearsĀ nĀ hereāsĀ toĀ fourĀ moreĀ hehĀ !Ā nĀ alsoĀ uĀ gotĀ myĀ intoĀ btsĀ soĀ iĀ oweĀ uĀ myĀ lifeKJSHKDĀ ā”
ā”āĀ @briingmetolifcĀ !
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā mozzieĀ Ā !Ā Ā ā”Ā wowowĀ wubbzyĀ ,Ā iĀ cldĀ genuinelyĀ writeĀ aĀ novelĀ abtĀ uĀ ?Ā weāveĀ beenĀ friendsĀ forĀ practicallyĀ fourĀ yearsĀ nowĀ ,Ā tooĀ ,Ā nĀ toĀ thinkĀ itĀ allĀ startedĀ wĀ ourĀ oneĀ lilĀ shipĀ inĀ theĀ rpĀ thatĀ shallĀ notĀ beĀ namedĀ !Ā iĀ canĀ actuallyĀ nĀ genuinelyĀ jusĀ talkĀ toĀ uĀ abtĀ anythingĀ ?Ā whetherĀ itĀ beĀ ourĀ shipsĀ ,Ā aĀ randomĀ plotĀ iĀ wannaĀ writeĀ ,Ā theĀ politicalĀ stateĀ ofĀ ourĀ countryĀ ,Ā howĀ fuckedĀ apĀ classesĀ areĀ ,Ā misterĀ jungooĀ himselfĀ ,Ā whateverĀ issuesĀ iāmĀ havingĀ wĀ sumoneĀ thatĀ iĀ needĀ toĀ getĀ offĀ myĀ chestĀ ---Ā thereāsĀ literallyĀ noĀ limitĀ orĀ boundsĀ toĀ whatĀ weĀ canĀ talkĀ toĀ nĀ itāsĀ soĀ niceĀ ?Ā likeĀ .Ā iĀ genuinelyĀ trustĀ uĀ soĀ muchĀ ?Ā uāveĀ alwaysĀ jusĀ kindaĀ beenĀ ThatĀ PersonĀ whoĀ iĀ knowĀ iĀ canĀ trustĀ wĀ anythingĀ ,Ā whoĀ iĀ neverĀ feltĀ wldĀ judgeĀ meĀ ?Ā likeĀ iĀ canĀ jusĀ tellĀ uĀ anythinĀ ,Ā iĀ trustĀ uĀ soĀ muchĀ .Ā urĀ genuinelyĀ oneĀ ofĀ myĀ bestĀ friendsĀ ,Ā evenĀ whenĀ urĀ tryinĀ toĀ fightĀ myĀ babieĀ orĀ weāreĀ bothĀ beināĀ brattyĀ nĀ silentĀ treatmentingĀ eachĀ otherĀ orĀ urĀ beinĀ aĀ stubbornĀ lilĀ babieĀ nĀ wonātĀ letĀ meĀ doĀ urĀ themeĀ forĀ uĀ evenĀ thoĀ !!!Ā iĀ luvĀ doingĀ urĀ themesĀ !Ā butĀ itāsĀ okayĀ bcĀ uĀ havĀ myĀ heartĀ ,Ā nĀ iĀ genuinelyĀ ???Ā wldĀ beĀ suchĀ aĀ differentĀ personĀ w/oĀ uĀ inĀ myĀ lifeĀ forĀ theĀ pastĀ fourĀ yearsĀ iāmĀ sureĀ ?Ā nĀ alsoĀ urĀ suchĀ anĀ amazingĀ writerĀ ,Ā urĀ musesĀ areĀ soĀ uniqueĀ nĀ urĀ writingĀ isĀ soĀ fluidĀ nĀ ???Ā godĀ !!!Ā everythinĀ abtĀ uĀ isĀ smthĀ thatĀ iĀ adoreĀ .Ā pleatheĀ comeĀ toĀ californiaĀ nĀ beĀ myĀ firstĀ kissieĀ . . .Ā iĀ luvĀ uĀ !Ā Ā ā”
ā”āĀ @heartvfireāĀ !
Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā kacchanĀ !Ā Ā ā”Ā ohĀ myĀ godĀ ???Ā whereĀ inĀ theĀ worldĀ doĀ iĀ evenĀ BEGINĀ ???Ā urĀ genuinelyĀ oneĀ ofĀ theĀ mostĀ importantĀ pplĀ inĀ myĀ lifeĀ .Ā iĀ metĀ uĀ firstĀ whenĀ iĀ wasĀ aĀ literalĀ fckinĀ babieĀ inĀ theĀ rpĀ thatĀ shallĀ notĀ beĀ namedĀ aĀ wholeĀ fourĀ yearsĀ agoĀ nowĀ ,Ā nĀ likeĀ .Ā weĀ didnātĀ talkĀ aĀ tonĀ atĀ firstĀ ,Ā butĀ uĀ wereĀ neverĀ weirdĀ orĀ condescendingĀ bcĀ iĀ wasĀ youngĀ ?Ā likeĀ ,Ā weĀ eventuallyĀ didĀ startĀ talkingĀ nĀ iāmĀ sosoĀ likeĀ ???Ā happyĀ thatĀ weĀ gotĀ closeĀ ?Ā likeĀ .Ā sinceĀ dayĀ oneĀ ,Ā iāveĀ lookedĀ upĀ toĀ urĀ writingĀ nĀ uĀ asĀ aĀ personĀ ?Ā urĀ charactersĀ wereĀ alwaysĀ soĀ insanelyĀ creativeĀ andĀ uniqueĀ andĀ urĀ writingĀ wasĀ soĀ fluidĀ nĀ beautifulĀ nĀ justĀ ?Ā uĀ wereĀ literalĀ goalsĀ toĀ lilĀ 14yrĀ oldĀ kookooĀ .Ā nĀ evenĀ nowĀ ,Ā wheneverĀ iĀ doĀ aĀ replyĀ toĀ uĀ ,Ā iĀ willĀ literallyĀ writeĀ nĀ rewriteĀ itĀ fiveĀ timesĀ overĀ beforeĀ postingĀ itĀ bcĀ iĀ wantĀ toĀ makeĀ sureĀ itāsĀ asĀ goodĀ asĀ ursĀ isĀ !Ā likeĀ !!!Ā godĀ urĀ soĀ talentedĀ !Ā nĀ likeĀ .Ā especiallyĀ asĀ ofĀ lateĀ ,Ā weāveĀ jusĀ gottenĀ superĀ closeĀ ?Ā nĀ likeĀ .Ā iāmĀ genuinelyĀ soĀ happyĀ abtĀ itĀ ???Ā ourĀ friendshipĀ isĀ genuinelyĀ aĀ WHOLEĀ blessingĀ inĀ myĀ lifeĀ ,Ā likeĀ .Ā ikĀ iĀ canĀ talkĀ toĀ uĀ abtĀ anythingĀ nĀ uĀ canĀ talkĀ toĀ meĀ abtĀ anythingĀ nĀ weāllĀ meetĀ eachotherĀ wĀ theĀ sameĀ amountĀ ofĀ enthusiasmĀ ?Ā weĀ canĀ ventĀ toĀ eachĀ otherĀ nĀ completelyĀ understandĀ nĀ empathiseĀ nĀ talkĀ thingsĀ outĀ soĀ weĀ feelĀ betterĀ nĀ itāsĀ jusĀ ???Ā weĀ jusāĀ getĀ eachĀ otherĀ ??Ā soĀ niceĀ .Ā thankĀ uĀ forĀ listeningĀ toĀ meĀ whenĀ iāmĀ anxiousĀ orĀ sadĀ ,Ā nĀ forĀ notĀ thinkinĀ illĀ ofĀ meĀ whenĀ iāmĀ beinĀ aĀ bratĀ ,Ā evenĀ whenĀ itāsĀ forĀ sillyĀ reasonsĀ ,Ā nĀ forĀ listeninĀ toĀ nĀ notĀ judgingĀ meĀ whenĀ iĀ talkĀ abtĀ jungooĀ nĀ btsĀ ,Ā evenĀ thoĀ iĀ talkĀ toĀ themĀ aĀ lotĀ nĀ ikĀ iĀ canĀ beĀ aĀ bitĀ muchĀ sumtimesĀ .Ā likeĀ ,Ā genuinelyĀ ?Ā iāmĀ abtĀ toĀ startĀ cryingĀ rnĀ ,Ā iāmĀ soĀ thankfulĀ forĀ uĀ .Ā uāveĀ helpedĀ shapeĀ meĀ soĀ muchĀ asĀ aĀ personĀ .Ā helpedĀ meĀ growĀ asĀ aĀ writerĀ .Ā iĀ metĀ uĀ atĀ oneĀ ofĀ theĀ worstĀ nĀ mostĀ importantĀ agesĀ ofĀ myĀ lifeĀ nĀ uāveĀ impactedĀ myĀ lifeĀ suchĀ anĀ insaneĀ amountĀ ???Ā uāveĀ alwaysĀ beenĀ theĀ firstĀ personĀ toĀ talkĀ toĀ nĀ comfortĀ meĀ whenĀ thingsĀ goĀ toĀ shitĀ nĀ iĀ trulyĀ cannotĀ expressĀ howĀ muchĀ thatĀ hasĀ alwaysĀ meantĀ toĀ meĀ .Ā iĀ genuinelyĀ thinkĀ iĀ wldĀ beĀ aĀ bitĀ ofĀ aĀ differentĀ personĀ nĀ notĀ asĀ confidentĀ inĀ myĀ writingĀ ifĀ iĀ didnātĀ havĀ uĀ toĀ lookĀ upĀ toĀ forĀ theseĀ pastĀ fourĀ yearsĀ .Ā iĀ trustĀ uĀ soĀ muchĀ nĀ iĀ luvĀ uĀ sosoĀ soĀ muchĀ !Ā nĀ iĀ amĀ goingĀ toĀ replyĀ toĀ theĀ dmĀ uĀ sentĀ meĀ properlyĀ ,Ā iĀ jusĀ needĀ 2Ā formulateĀ myĀ thoughtsĀ properlyĀ firstĀ ,Ā soĀ pleatheĀ havĀ thisĀ forĀ nowĀ !Ā uĀ literallyĀ havĀ myĀ wholeĀ HEARTĀ !!!Ā Ā ā”
#* koo rambles !#hi i luv all of u !!!#this is the first milestone . i hav done anything for !#will try 2 get that psd posted later ! ^ā”^
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last one before i start posting requests.
bleach rambling about my reread ahead. welcome to what iām doing with my astounding amount of quarantine free time now that I go to 0 places. welcome to my dumpster.
They're scheming!!!!!
Tender. Pure. Wholesome. Amazing. š Would've loved for Chad to attempt keeping in touch/aiding him in finding his mom in subsequent arcs but this scene alone is SO GOOD.
This whole page is amazing. This is Peak what I thought this arc (and manga) would build on. A willing community laid low by the Seireitei, aided by a bunch of good intentioned kids who manage to reach through to and convert a concerning number of high ranked officials to their cause, rallying for permanent change for the better. No, Ichigo and gang don't need to lead it, but they sure as hell unintentionally STARTED it and then the theme went no where and Aizen and the Quincies were used as a 'we have to stay the way we are or the The Bad Guys Win ofc we have to reinstate central 46 and continue to punish or ignore characters on petty technicalities of the lawā².
And Kubo acknowledges this through out the arcs by constantly changing the Captainās and Vice captains looks to show theyāve āgrownā and that the Seireitei is constantly being āchangedā but fashion doesnāt count, dude. Ppl in the story even try to acknoweldge heĀ āchangedā things. Itās fine to say it wasnāt Ichigoās job to change Seireitei, because it wasnāt. But if youāre going to try to convince us over and over that he has changed it, then uuuuh...show me the money.
And like even in the last arc Yamamoto and Unohana are supposed to be these vicious relics from a chaotic past, reverting to their personas of yesteryear to fight an age old enemy, but it doesnāt land as well, because there is no peace time before the quincies. thereās no breathing room and TIME for change. There is no real, viable change. Especially with characters like Mayuri, who only grow within the last arc and its like....a really subtle and introspective thing that does not apply to the majority of his worst traits and actions. Mayuri doesnt HAVE to grow. the seitreitei doesnt HAVE to change. But!!!!!!!!! You made your bed now lie in the failure of your trashed themes!!!
Like not to say the fullbringer arc had massive potential to fix these problems but, it did. It just got rushed and turned into a Captains vs Enemy fight and was dismissed by most ppl (not that ppl were wrong for doing so its uuuuuuh there I guess).
Incredible that there was a time where people were really calling others stupid for thinking they were related. Even without Kaien, Ganju is like Isshin Lite. Don't touch me, the Shiba family deserved to be in the last chapter with the Kurosakis and I'm bitter.
Hey lil mama lemme whisper in yer ear.
But really, the fact that he told her this and then like pats himself on the back for not saying Gin probably killed him? Dumb of ass. Himbo man. This is literally What She Feared.Ā
I am once again sad on main that the Kurosaki and Shiba families do not become a Big Family. You can not tell me Kukaku and Ganju wouldn't actually die in the best way once they found out Isshin and his kids were THEIR FAMILY. they yearn for a whole family again!!! Karin and Yuzu deserve the eclectic sake relative that is Kukaku. Also they would absolutely dog on Isshin by saying Ganju is cooler while absolutely NOT meaning it--neither of them are cool. At all.
Mayuri's bug eyes. Hitsugayas hair looking like one unified cow lick. Unohana smiling at the ground like "if this bitch doesn't HURRY". ASTOUNDING.
I forgot how fully Kenpachi is THE initial investigator. Mostly because he wants to fight the hell out of a dude who supposedly stole a reaper's powers and is now in the SS but y'know. He only uses his brain for the things he wants. Like we all do.
Fucking children. The lot of them. Seireitei Day Care is session and theyāre all missing their nap time because SOMEONE didnāt kill the bug that flew into the room. On Purpose.
I don't remember if this was a set up between them but my analysis brain wants me to interpret this as Aizen's first real inkling of Gin trying to fuck his plans.
also: THE GIRLS ARE FIGHTING!
#mars livespeaks#okay this is the last one today#thank you all for dealing with me in these trying times lmao
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āŗ ( rudy pankow & cis male ) according to the schoolās records, knox drury is a 22-YEAR-OLD seniorĀ studying political science, and heĀ lives over in moriarty. he is a gemini, so that must be why others describe himĀ as dignified, humorous, cowardly and naive. when i see him, iām reminded of walking into class an hour late with sunglasses on, the feeling of anticipation as you wait for a firework to fully blossom, the sound of party music leaking through the walls of a bathroom.Ā ( gibby, 20, they/them, est. ) ā
hello everyone !! so i wonāt even lie to u guys, i am NERVOUS and itās literally only bc this is the first group iāve joined in so long like dfdhkjsfjad the last group i was in was almost a year ago but i ended up having to leave due to personal reasons and didnāt get to write so like !!! idk iām excited !! anyways w that in mind, pls bARE with me bc i have like one (1) braincell and i forgot how to write intros. anyways enough of me rambling, lemme give you knox !!
also this is a bad intro pls dont judge me im trying 2 like. rewrite what i had b4 the storm took it out n like, i lost the braincell
basics.Ā
full name: knox hale drury.
nicknames: drury.
age: twenty two.
gender and pronouns: cis male and he/him
sexual & romantic orientations: bisexual, biromantic, femme leaning.
major: political science.
housing: moriarty.
backstory.
triggers: implied bullying, police and incarceration ( dw i didnāt make him jj 2.0 ).
nobody gets to pick their beginnings. itās something that people tell knox all the time, hell, itās plastered in every stupid coming of age movie, book, film, everything heās ever seen. you donāt pick who your born into, you donāt pick who you get to be. and to an extent, he does think that this is true but he canāt help but wonder if maybe, if people could pick, if theyād pick differently. because he knows he certainly would pick differently.
itās not that he even came from a bad home - hell no, he had the most loving family ever. his mother was a saint, a warm sensation bubbling up in his chest when he thinks about her warm cookies or the way she tried to still tuck him in even as a teenager. his father had his flaws, we all do, but he was a good and honest man. hardworking, he showed knox what that stupid american dream is that everyone likes to preach about.Ā
no, it had nothing to do with them but rather the overall opinion on him and his family. see, the druryās werenāt well liked - they were seen as lowlives and as shady, the kind of people who youād only go to if you wanted to get stabbed in the back. generations of druryās fit this narrative but no, his father was determined to change that. and so was he, even if nobody around him seemed to want to give him a chance.Ā
knox would go throughout school with this name attached to him like a dagger to his throat - whisperings in the hallway of,Ā āoh, my mom said the drury boy might be steal things if you let him over,ā and other random, rude remarks. of course, the people that get close to him know better - they see him for who he really is.
that person is knox. heās a golden light, often more selfless than the rich pricks who run that small town. heād give his jacket or umbrella to people even if they didnāt ask if it just so happened to be raining outside, and despite the fact that his family didnāt have a lot, heād still go out of his way to try to give when he could.Ā
he eventually graduated high school - one of the top people in his class due to his fatherās encouragement, and after a lot of debate, settled on attending haddon university - miles away from that sweet, small little hometown he knew, but a fresh start where he didnāt have to work for anything. he could just go in being him, with nobody attaching a new narrative to him. it was what he wanted, what he dreamed of.
and he loved it. his first semester there was memorable as he found himself surrounded by new friends and people he even considered family. back home, however, things were slipping.
the drury family was never rich, ever by any means, but business was low. nobody wanted to go there, fearing that his father was just as shady as his grandfather. as things got worse, his father had to resort to other needs - stealing, lying about taxes, and doing everything he could to try to make it by.Ā
it finally caught up to him when knox came home for spring break - red and blue lights flashing outside as loud noises went on throughout the house, until finally someone swung knoxās door open and briefly blinded him with a flashlight, demanding to know where his father was. by the time knox got a grasp on the situation, his father was being rushed off in the back of a cop car.Ā
he plead guilty almost immediately and for the next few months, knox did school from home to stay with his mother. it was then that he switched his major from what had initially been just a vague, business degree to political science in hopes of going into law after getting that degree - a way of changing things, of helping people so they never got to that point.Ā
for now though, heās gone back to haddonās campus where he studyās away and occasionally finds himself slipping and partying, glasses always covering his eyes as he slinks back class, getting almost nO sleep every night.
study.
so i need u to know right now... knox is baby, FDSHJDFSHAJK
like heās not by any means like heās kinda a gross dude like, absolutely randomly burps n is like lol oops n shit, very little manners, will grab clothes off of the floor to put them on kind of man BUT LIKE as a whole ?? he means very well FDSJFAHJ heās very gentle and will sit there and admire flowers on a bush and then get mad if u pick one bc ur hurting it like. heās baby.
he also is very loyal to the ppl heās friends w tbh like. damn he will never leave ur side
that also makes him kinda... super, actually, naive. you see, while knox is incredibly loyal, he often finds himself ignoring signs of toxicity for the sake of preserving a friendship - he fights for people who wonāt fight for him, he lets people back in too easily, he just. he sees the good in everyone, even if there isnāt any good.
regardless, heās not easy to just... manipulate to an extent. while heāll fall for you being innocent, you canāt ever try to make him think heās something heās not - he knows his intentions and he knows theyāre usually pure and heās not gonna fold for anyone if it comes down to him or them.Ā
bt like again heās baby
like i dont think he ever gets mad but damn when he does its probs scary as shit like bc he nEVER gets mad !!! hes like. a golden retriever ig
if u cannot tell im trying really hard not to make him too much like jj bc i realize that might be a big thing ppl do n i dont think jj is baby bt like. knox? knox is baby DSFHJKFDHKJĀ
heās just. idk. heās very protective and cares about his friends a lot and will walk you home even if you went to HIS place and like is always ready to give you a jacket if itās raining and heās just lowkey a big, kinda dumb at times, teddy bear and i think thatās valid tyvmĀ
wanted connections.
friends. ā please. knox will lOVE ur muses just let him be their friend tyvm plus heās a bit of a social butterfly now and i think heād honestly have a lot of friends.
best friend. ā iām gonna keep this to one muse bc idk i think itād be really cute if knox got to have his own like, ride or die where they care abt him as much as he cares about them and theyāre always there for each other and like !!! thatās cute !!! also found family trope bc i think that is.. again, kyoot, ty
frienemies. ā so these are always like, super fun to plot out and i think thereās a lot to work w here... like give me ppl who are happy that knox is loyal and would defend them but would push knox to the side n not do the same for him... also friendships where knox fucked up ?? where knox, despite his goodness, couldnāt keep his mouth shut and revealed a secret to their friend group bc u see he can kinda be a gossip fsjfdaskj. idk thereās a lot u can do n iād love to brainstorm!
enemies. ā pls. like. we can brainstorm this too so i dont just ramble but pLEASE?? please.
flings. ā honestly romantic ships are not the point of rps but romantic flings and stuff can be really fun to plot and i love getting soft about them so like ?? idk dude lets fling it up n have muses date for two weeks n then break up like thats swexi, dramatic, 10/10
exes. ā i mean this is kind of like flings but i have an idea... give me an ex of knoxās who really was like. everything knox wanted. hell, the two had a really good relationship - they were in love and etc etc gushy details but they ended up breaking up bc they just. they werenāt meant to be! as sad as it is like it was as simple as that! and then the angst comes in after they break up bc god they still love each other so much but they just arenāt meant to be and they see them with other people and oh it just hurts but like, bonus points if they manage to become good friends even after this !! (sidenote, idk i wouldnāt want this to be a full ship tht gets back together bc idk i think thereās a bittersweetness in stuff like this n its just. like. its ok !!! idk !!! )
roommates. ā and they were roomates- fdshjkfdsahjk
other things. ā honestly these are half assed plots but iām down for anything !!! iām still fleshing out knox a lil too bc i really did make him on the spot so pls bare w me :)
#had:intro#bullying tw#police tw#arrest tw#incarceration tw#again i did nOT make him jj dont worry dfsahjfd#also this intro is bad pls do not look at me#alcohol mention
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Have you seen ELEANOR ALBRIGHT? LEO is in HER SOPHOMORE year. The BUSINESS MAJOR is 20 years old & is a VIRGO. People say SHE is CLEVER, INQUISITIVE, NARCISSISTIC and COLD. Rumors say theyāre a member of CALLOWAY SOCIETY. I heard from the gossip blog that SHE LEFT HER FRIEND TO DROWN IN A LAKE AFTER HE OVERDOSED ON OXYCODONE AND CONSPIRED IN FRAMING IT AS A SUICIDE SO SHE WOULDNāT GET CAUGHT UP IN AN INVESTIGATION.Ā
tw: drowning, tw: death, tw: alcohol, tw: drugs, tw: suicide tw: grief
hi u guys !!!! my nameās nina (she/her), and iām sososo excited to meet/rp with all of you :ā)) below iām gonna list some things about leo and whatnot and yea!!!
so eleanor āleoā albright was adopted by new york senator, lucas albright and his celebrity socialite wife, harriet valentine at age 6, born initially to a single mother and then having grown up in foster care until the albrights adopted her
leo had a very confusing childhood, to say the least
although she knew she wasnāt the āoutcastā within her adoptive family, she couldnāt help but feel that way
she never mainly knew why she was adopted? Considering her parents were never necessarily affectionate towards her, she ultimately concluded that her adoption was a ploy to make her parents seem charitable and as if they were do-gooders, having adopted a child from a ābrokenā background to give them a better life
ALSO to add to the confusion, leo faced a lot of identity issues culturally considering she only grew up around.............white people
but anyway !! leo was not only trying to make her parents proud as she was growing up, but she was also vying for their love and affection in the ways she figured would workā¦ always looking perfect, getting perfect grades, overall being the ideal child
the opposite of what her wildcard sister darby did
leo tried to follow in her brotherās footsteps, but no matter how hard she tried, she would never be able to garner the attention that her father endlessly gave him
nothing was ever enough -- her mother was very caught up in her own problems with alcoholism and her father, as said before, was too infatuated with james to pay leo much mind
of course, her parents proudly showed her off at public events and social gatherings, but that, as we know, doesnāt equate to love and affection
regardless of how leo felt, the media ate this upā¦ she became somewhat of the āgolden childā in new yorkās elite society
this lead to leo becoming a narcissist in the lowest of keys
since she couldnāt get the adoration she craved from her parents, she looked to the media to give it to her
at 14, right before she was about to enter high school, the real golden child of the family, her older brother james, passed from a brain tumor
not being able to cope with the suffocating environment that her household had now created, leo somehow persuaded her parents to permit her to attend knollwood boarding school in connecticut (one of the most prestigious in the country)
leo, being incredibly bright, naturally excelled at pretty much everything in high school. she always made most top honor roll, captain of the soccer team, and was the editor-in-chief for her schoolās newspaper
that being said, the girl quickly fell into the more popular, exclusive, elite crowd
it made sense, right? the girl was wealthy, beautiful, smart, acerbically witty, and came from quite the influential family
leo became the definition of āwork hard, play hardā ā weekdays, sheād be holed up in her dorm or the library studying, and weekends, sheād be popping percs and blacking out (and of course, she only partied with those who would have just as much to lose as herā¦ thatās how she stayed out of scandals)
flash forward to her senior year of high school, it was time to apply for college, leo (to no oneās surprise) was accepted into the business school at yates university
june came around and leo, like the rest of her peers, considered herself invincible ā the world was her oyster and she was about to go and pave her way in it
one night, leo and her friends decided to spend the night at a member of their crewās lake house
of course, they got a little rowdy with a whole assortment of drugs and alcohol
one thing led to another, and one of her good (and highly intoxicated) friends fell off the edge of the dock and into the lake
this sent everyone, especially leo, into a frenzied panic
she claimed someone had to save him or that they had to go to the police or something until somebody else said it would be easier to assume he was dead/let him drown because if they went to the police, they would get be drug tested and face more significant consequencesā¦ she namely remembers hearing, āwhy should we suffer for his mistake?ā
of course, they had to do more to cover their tracksā¦ one of leoās close friends suggested they frame the drowning into looking like a suicide. and they did. leo, having an incredible talent for imitating anyoneās penmanship and beautiful words, was pressured into forging the note. and she did. she heard it, her own words as someone elseās, read at his funeral.
andĀ that shit haunts ! her !
anyway, leo moved forward with life (or tried) and never spoke to her parents, a therapist, her friends, anyone about the incident. she prays that one day, sheāll forget about it
doesnāt help that her parents never really spoke to her about it (or speak to her) in general
rly homegirl needs some therapy
but ANYWAYSJAKJSĀ
the thought of attending yates was indeed the only thing that kept leo going through the summer after her senior yearā¦ like she honestly swore to herself that things would be different because they had to be, right??
that being said, leo does not party as much as she used to because she sort of associates alcohol and party drugs with that nightā¦ but that doesnāt go to say she NEVER parties anymore
like when she doesā¦ she goesĀ hard.Ā probably too hard. but she tends to steer clear of hard drugs now bc of her mother & sister and overall itās just not rly her thing now ........ growf perhapth
sheās also pretty reserved and keeps to herself ...... like sheās still social and talks to ppl and has a lot of surface level friendships but . she doesn't rly share her thoughts and opinions mostly bc of her father essentially telling her ppl don't care ab what she has to say like that HDSJHDSJ fuck lucas albright rights
alsoā¦ leo doesnāt necessarily have a passion for business? tbh sheās really doing it to appease her father because āan investigative journalist isnāt a fit career path for someone of your prestige, eleanorā
ANYWAY, as a result of all sheās gone through, it is quite difficult for her to make like sincerely deep connections because sheās either afraid of being used or losing people.. she kinda cold..... but shes mad eloquent and polite and hardly ever like Mean to people unless she has a reason to be
but ! if you do win her over, sheāll remain loyal to you for the rest of time and will genuinely always have your back
random facts: shes a very avid reader ..... n for some reason was rly into shakespeare at one point idk.....Ā
also like a pretty good cook? idk pt 2
ok that's all i fink
but thatās pretty much it !!! i lowkey need to tweak and whatnot but hereās the gist of my little trash child leo :`) if you wanna plot slide into my dms or like this and iāll go to you!!!! okay thank u love u bye
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how to understand tv ratings (so youāll be prepared for cancellation/renewal announcements)
as most of you know, i had an internship last semester where one of my duties for the company was tracking and analyzing tv ratings. while iām no expert on this yet, i worked with way more knowledgeable ppl than me on this and learned a couple things about ratings that i definitely didnāt know before, so i thought iād share some of it now that b99 is back on and we def donāt want a repeat of last yearās debacle.
(also, iāll be tracking and analyzing b99ā²s ratings over on @b99bythenumbers this season, so if youāre at all interested in any of this stuff pls check it out! that blog is still under construction and stuff but as this season gets the ball rolling, that blog will come to life heheh)
ok, so iām gonna break this up into sections to keep it as organized/straightforward as possible, so we gonna cover:
what are nielsen ratings & how do they work? (aka what do numbers like 1.2/5 mean)
b99ā²s ratings & viewership
nbcās ratings & viewership
ratings as the be-all end-all for shows? (other ways to support b99) (esp if you canāt access american cable)
what are nielsen ratings & how do they work?
so nielsen media research is a company thatās been measuring data for entertainment for just over 70 years now. tho they got a start in radio, theyāre arguably most known in the modern day for their measurement of american television programming, as the data they gather from these measurements (the infamous ānielsen ratingsā) strongly influence broadcast networks (abc, nbc, cbs, fox, & the cw) and channels in their decisions to renew or cancel certain programs.
the way nielsen measures this data is through selecting various households with tvās across the u.s. to monitor what they watch, whoās watching, how often they watch, etc. so itās not something everyone in the u.s. gets to do, like they might just randomly hit you up and ask if they can use your data. if you say yes, they have to install a bunch of stuff to monitor all tvās in your household. (if you find this at all kinda interesting, iād recommend reading this interview with a nielsen family bc itās kinda wild)
so, now onto the numbers. iāll use b99ā²s initial ratings for 6x01 last night as an example
the rating is the 1.2/5 number. the first number, 1.2, means that 1.2% of the 119.6 million households nielsen estimates to have television watched b99 (1.2% of households, not individual people). the second number, 5, is referred to as theĀ āshareā, and means that 5% of households watching tv at that time watched b99.
these numbers are ālive + same dayā, meaning they only include households that actually watched b99 live as it was on tv last night and people who watched it from their DVR the day it was aired live. (for example, i got home after the ep started last night but had set it to record, so i watched my recording as the ep was ending so if i was in a nielsen family, me watching b99 on my DVR the same night it aired would still count for their measurement of an L+SD rating.)
additionally, tho nielsen records a lot of data about different demographics and people of what age are watching what shows, the standard demographic used for these ratings is people aged 18-49, all genders.
the 3.56 is the total viewership in millions (aka the actual individual viewers).
my source for ratings: tv by the numbers (specifically above, their initial thursday 1/10 ratings)
b99ā²s ratings & viewership
back on fox, b99 had a pretty solid run for the first two or three seasons, until the ratings started taking a pretty steep nosedive in recent years that (unfortunately) kinda predicted and ultimately led to their cancellation. itās important to look back on their past ratings as a show, because stability & improvement are major factors at play when networks are deciding to renew or cancel shows.
season 1 (2013-2014) ratings
b99 had a rly solid series premiere, tho it pretty quickly couldnāt retain its rating, as the difference between 1x01 and 1x02ā²s ratings is pretty major. it got its big 6.89 rating (!!!) in february 2014 bc it aired after the super bowl. this season ended with way less viewers than it started out with, which isnāt Great.
season 2 (2014-2015) ratings
overall, pretty similar numbers to s1, especially in the total season average. it had a few ratings above 2.0 which is Good, but those numbers didnāt hold steady. again, the season ended with way less viewers than it began.
season 3 (2015-2016) ratings
b99 dipped under 1.0 for a large portion of this season. thatās Big Yikes. cancellation becomes Very Real Possibility.
season 4 (2016-2017) ratings
this seasonās average was less than 1.0.....cancellation is Very, Very Real Possibility.
season 5 (2017-2018) ratings
nothing above 1.0 for an entire season....this show is Doomed, and i honestly canāt blame fox for canceling it from a numbers and business standpoint, considering this was just a continuation of the trend established in s4 with the consistently lower ratings. itās....kind of totally rational that fox did what they did, especially when you see how b99 compared (in ratings) to other fox shows in the 2017-2018 season:
as you can see fox just kinda took like the bottom half of its shows by rating and cancelled all of them...anything averaging under a 1.0 on fox just isnāt safe!!!
comparing to other shows (esp other sitcoms) on its network is another big factor in renewing/cancelling. tho there arenāt any other sitcoms suuuper similar to b99 on fox, enough comedies did better that b99 got the axe. which means we should probably look at
nbcās ratings & viewership
and hereās their 2017-2018 season (in which they had the most viewers out of all the broadcast networks for the first time since like 2001 actually!!):
already, b99 is off to a good start, its 1.2 initial rating pretty high for nbc, but whatāll rly matter is if they can hold this rating for the rest of season 6. like i said, stability and improvement are everything in tv world! if b99 can continue like this for the rest of this season, i think weāll be in pretty good shape.
and, honestly, nbc rly is a good network fit for b99, with its history of popular and acclaimed sitcoms (seinfeld, friends, will & grace, etc.) and its long-running and popular crime procedurals (aka any law & order series ever), and b99 is basically a combination of the two.
ratings as the be-all end-all for shows? (other ways to support b99)
while ratings are of the utmost importance to networks and channels, itās not the sole deciding factor.
another thing networks and channels look at, as we live in the digital age, is BUZZ. this basically is industry-speak for how much people are talking about and movies! the most visible example of this is getting a show trending on social media when it airs.
a good example of a show like this is the good place. tgp hasnāt gotten stellar ratings this season, but has already been renewed...because a lot of people talk about it on social media! itās usually trending on twitter when a new episode airs, and its objectively high quality writing has won over a lot of industry folksā hearts, so it gets a lot of buzz in hollywood as well (hint hint similar to how the āguardians of the nine-nineā contributed to the fight to save b99 last year).
so, here are some tips on how to maximize b99ā²s ratings & overall potential for renewal:
WATCH. IT. LIVE. or DVR it and watch it ASAP, as final ratings come out within 24 hours after new episodes air. obvi this only applies to amercans with access to cable/tv but clearly these are the people not showing up for b99 since the ratings were so low while the fandom was so big and loud
forgot to record it but still live in the u.s.? watch it on your cable providerās āon demandā services (if they offer it), hulu, or nbc.com as soon as the new episode comes out the next day!!! while these numbers wonāt be reflected in the actual ratings, itāll still tell the network you care.
are you a young adult who attends college away from home aka your familyās cable? look into your familyās cable providerās online services! my familyās cable allows me to access our DVR away from home and even watch some things on demand, which has been a lifesaver while iāve been away at college the past couple years. if you can access your DVR remotely through your cable providerās website, use it to record b99 and watch it ASAP!
TWEET ABOUT IT. tumblr is cool and valid and all, but letās be real - everyoneās looking at twitter, because most industry professionals donāt know how the fuck to use tumblr. twitter is straightforward and straight to the point; they want to see it trending there. so pls tweet using #brooklyn99 when the episode is on live!!! you have 3 major chances to do this: 9 pm est (u.s. east coast), 9 pm mountain time (2 hours after east coast), and 9 pm pst (3 hours after east coast) every thursday night.
talk about it in real life! get friends to watch it! again, may not contribute to the actual ratings, but itās still nice to get more and more people into the show to watch it in other ways and talk about it with other people they know.
i know a lot of these methods are mostly applicable to people in the u.s. and/or americans with cable, but itās rly important that those of us who fall into those categories do our parts!! fellow americans, letās yeet this wheat!!!! all b99 fans from all over the world, i believe in all of us!!!!!!
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literally all i need in life is for kids to think that iām cool. literally all i fucking need is twelve year olds to laugh at my vine references and think iām the coolest adult ever.
iām literally so fucking far from the definition of an adult at this moment like. everyone my age knows how to function and is all like ālook at me i can leave my dorm without panicking! look at me get groceries on a regular basis!ā like no fuck that im so poorly adjusted bc my add wasnāt treated until my senior year in high school and now iām fuckin struggling to take showers every couple of days let alone do my fuckin homework.
like fUCK all i need is to be liked by middle schoolers and children because theyāre all so fucking valid and i just want them to think iām cool so i can teach them and guide them and shit. all the validation i need comes from an eight year old gasping at my art because āwow itās so pretty!!!ā. like fuck yeah dude it sure is and iām gonna start CRYING cuz ur just a bapy and i love u so much.
just like. fuck this adult bullshit i want the joy and simplicity of being best friends with a bunch of tweens doing some shit adults think is ācringeyā. like. FUCK. ngl. just briefly, just to remind myself what it feels like. just briefly i wanna go back to when i was thirteen and i was able to actually write because i wasnāt stopped by crippling self doubt and executive dysfunction and all this weight pushing me into the mattress of my bed, the mattress with sheets i havenāt washed in weeks because doing a simple task is the equivalent of standing at the bottom of a mountain looking up.
i want to tell kids and young teens that life is really cool, and yeah itāll be a dick sometimes, but things get better even if they get worse first. i want to make sure they donāt make the same mistakes i made. i want to encourage them in the ways i shouldāve been encouraged, in the ways that WORK. not in the ways that just make me feel worse about everything. i want to tell every growing kid that yes, their problems ARE real and valid, and holy shit, PLEASE go to a psychiatrist, because the mental illness you think you have is definitely a mental illness you actually have. i want to tell them that self diagnosis is the first step in a real official medical diagnosis. i want to tell them that anyone who tells you to stop self diagnosing because they think you want to be āspecialā can and should FUCK OFF.
i want to tell them to get help sooner rather than later, i want to tell them that the bare minimum is better than nothing at all, i want to tell them that youāre RIGHT to say that adults arenāt always right, because adults are WRONG, like, a LOT. I want to tell them that being older is practically the exact same as being a kid, except you just know more. being an adult does not grant you access to infinite knowledge and understanding. being an adult is just being a kid with way more responsibilities and a lot more knowledge. being an adult does not mean you instantly know what youāre doing and can function normally in society, because fuck, SO many of us have NO IDEA what weāre doing, and weāre SCARED. i want to make sure they KNOW that adults are struggling too, that so many of us are panicking just like they are.
i donāt really have a great conclusion to this post. i just. FUCK. like. i just wanna be friends with kids because theyāre so cool and itās the best feeling ever when they think IM cool. cuz like, so many ppl my age know how to do stuff, and have like. jobs and friends and events they go to. and i just. iām poorly adjusted and immature. and most of that has to do with the adhd that went untreated for the large majority of my life, but that doesnāt mean it isnāt valid.
that doesnāt mean itās separate from my personality.
cuz like iām hyper and immature and awkward and weird and childish and chaotic as fuck and a lot of that stems from my untreated adhd. that shit caused my social development to basically become non existent.
i read books in class, i read books at recess, i read books during lunch. i loved to play with kids my age when we were playing tag or making sand castles or playing make believe games. but then everyone started wanting to talk instead of run around on the playground and i was alone and there was no more tag. no more easy way to connect with my peers in a way that didnāt involve talking to them. because when i talked to them it was awkward. i wanted to talk about mermaids and climbing trees and how cool the characters are in these awesome books iām reading.
i just.
ugh.
life is hard and iām not doing good. i want to help kids in the ways that i couldāve been helped as a kid, but wasnāt.
and also, going back to the very first point i made in this post, like, disregarding all the serious stuff...
having kids think youāre cool is THE BEST FEELING IN THE WORLD.
anyways thank you for coming to my ted talk, if you read all of that youāre braver than any us marine, and holy shit, if youāre reading this and you suspect you might have a mental illness but youāre not sure... YOU HAVE A MENTAL ILLNESS PLEASE GET HELP BECAUSE EVEN IF ITS NOT THE ONE YOU THINK IT IS ITS DEFINITELY SOMETHING THAT WILL MESS U UP LATER IN LIFE IF U DONT GET HELP RN
okay iām gonna stop typing now HAIL AND FAREWELL MY DUDES AND DONāT FORGET TO LIKE SHARE AND SUBSCRIBE UWU
#emory says stuff#emory goes crazy goes stupid#emory rants#this is what happens when my adhd meds kick in lol#i just go OFF#homework? nah. writing a youtube comment so long it cant be posted and has to be split into three different comments??? YEAH#adhd#add#mental illness gang#mental illness#anxiety#depression#ocd#mental illness problems#middle school#elementary school#high school#college#adults b wildin#gen z#millenials#ok boomer#fucking OOF#mental illness is a fucking BITCHHHH#like god fuck can my brain stop being a dick ... for fiVE MINUTES!!!!!!!!#self care#self diagnosis#mental health#neurodiversity#junior high
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YEAR END FIC REVIEW
This year I wrote:Ā
biological imperativeĀ
wings of icarus
war of the roses
sugar, weāre going down
you are cordially invited...
garden of eden
your kiss tastes so red
hana to ryuuĀ
a demolition boy & his cryptid bf
the foxās bride
when dandelion roars
hope is a four letter word
butterfly pinned under glass
the devil and the deep blue sea
vol 1: goodbye halcyon days
papa said to knock you out
my boy builds coffin
love meme, hate meme
interlude: paper darling
in rouge
at the feet of the world
thatās 21 stories (124k words!!!) and thatās discounting all the random fic snippets that i wrote only on tumblr so far.Ā
Overall thoughts
My actual writing year didnāt really start until like in May which mean the bulk of my writing was in the last half of the year. I spent most of the first half reposting and moving my eunhae fic over to ao3 so I didnāt actually have any new fic to post (even tho i was prob still writing away with random fic ideas anyway but no actual completed fic to post) until I wrote BI for bakudeku and that pretty much sealed the deal for me. New fandom, new pairing, and new obsession. Honestly coming in I was worry how slow I was writing and how I didnāt get much done but looking at my fic list and my wordcounts and HOW I DID IT ALL IN HALF A YEAR... im pretty impress with myself :D.
Also, I think itās a good time as any to finally realize and accept when you finallyĀ move on to a new fandom. So thank you v v v v much to my old fandom for nurturing me and helping me grow as i writer these past five years. You made every eunhae fic worth it, thank you again!!!!
My best story of the year
āA demolition boy & his cryptid bfā if all the kudoes that keep on coming tell me. Hereās a random tidbit about it: i wrote it all in like 2-3 days in some sort of mad spur. social media style fic was something i did for eunhae before so it wasnāt new to me so i guess thatās why it came easy enough LOL but this was little more intensive just bc i wanted it look even better but im sooooo glad ppl were so accepting of it despite the style of the fic and the way it was format. you guys rock!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! gave me enough confident to start ālove meme, hate memeā even tho im pretty sure i was going to do it anyway lol.Ā
My favorite story of the year
ālove meme, hate meme,ā only bc it is my masterpiece in term of how fucking damn pretty it is and how much blood, sweat, and tears i poured into it just to get that damn FONT COLOR RIGHT.Ā
Most fun story to write
āpapa said to knock you outā aka kasumiĀ āverse only bc she literally wrote herself. her voice come clear and true to me and i had such a fun time writing in her pov!! it also plays into my dumb romcom trope that i always love bc royalty au? CHECK? single parents? CHECK CHECK? past secret love affair? CHEEEEEEEECK. itās just all so damn cliche and itās me to T andĀ i fucking love it.Ā
Story with the single sexiest moment
āIn Rougeā played with a lot of things i love where it borders on sexy/intimate without crossing the line. like im 90% sure bakudeku were going to bang in the restroom but the fact that itās THE RESTROOM IN THEIR SCHOOL and katsuki is damn good bf and wouldnāt want their first time in that shitty place so yea hands to themselves. but honestly i donāt do smut/nsfw but i always tread the water with it lol with my kink fics bc i am kinky v v v much so but i do in a way that is comfortable with me without dealing with explicit sex and im really glad i get to show off that in my fic bc sexy doesnāt alway have to lead up to sex ya know????Ā
Most "holy crap, that's wrong, even for you" story
"my boy builds coffinā a katsuki that kill sends shiver down to spine but man writing it and thinking what push him over the edge was exciting only bc i love my fluff in general but i highkey love dark and edgy stuff too esp super dysfunctional relationship, yo.Ā
Story that shifted my own perception of the characters
"My boy builds coffinā for sure. Only because I wanted to stretch how Katsuki would fall and understand the length he would go to ensure a future where izuku is alive and thriving and I THOUGHT man if your future bf who is this scarred and traumatized individual person come back in time to protect you by killing every fucking thing that hurt you and instead of freaking the fuck out youāre likeĀ āum, IM SO JEALOUS OF MY FUTURE SELF TO HAVE THIS PERSON DEDICATE THEIR LIFE TO THEMā and im like fuck bc thatās the kind of fucked upness that i love.Ā
Hardest story to write
if it isnātĀ ālove meme, hate memeā than THIS IS YEAR IS FUCKING CANCEL. the formatting,juggling a gazillion of usernames, the font color and text, THE FANFIC ARCHIVE etc everything i have to carefully format and code even tho i have extremely and bullshit knowledge of it.Ā
Biggest disappointment
nothing???? i love ALL MY BABIES. but no really that fucking mad max au im writing and was supposed to be posted yest.... DAMN YOU.Ā
Biggest surprise
Uh,Ā ādemolition boyā and probablyĀ ākasumi verseā only bc i never intend for either of them to happen :P.Ā
Most unintentionally telling story
the vampire fic my entire reason for writing it is so I CAN PROCRASTINATE ON THE ACTUAL FI IM SUPPOSED TO BE WRITING. i wrote it all in one sitting passed waaaay into the AMs. thatās... some dedication to my procrastination.Ā
Story I haven't written yet, but intend to
the age gap abo childhood friends au i have been working on the side :S.
Goals for this year:Ā
Finished all my major projects (kasumiĀ āverse, wedding verse, social media au, stepbro au)
hopefully i can get started on gasoline verse aka the post zombie fest where bakudeku tried to survived it by building the most codependent fucked up relationship possible :D; itās letting your bf become aĀ āzombieā just bc you canāt live without himĀ
WRITE AT LEAST ONE TODODEKUBAKU FIC!!!!!
thank you soooooo much for putting up with this year!!!! i know im really bad at replying/commenting and interacting with you guys but i want you to all know i feel incredibly blessed and humble by all your kindness and support. you all treated me so well last year and this year I hope to return your kind gesture by giving you more stories to read in 2019!!! :D
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The Unpopular Opinion Book Questionaire
Before I start, credit where credit is due: I copied the questions and format of this post from @resist-the-fearās post and this wordpress post, because I couldnāt figure out how to add my answers into the original post without messing up all formatting. And Iām really sorry if this upsets anybody, but the idea is cool and itād be a shame not to continue it on tumblr.
So, here we go...
1. A Popular Book or series that you didnāt like.
1) Feels like the Twilight Saga would be the obvious answer (and it IS), but Iām gonna go for pretty much all of Dan Bownās novels and Iām gonna explain my dislike with The DaVinci Code
This novel actually angered me so much that I wrote my masterās thesis on how Brown deliberately mislead the majority of his readers into mistaking his fiction for actual facts in order to sell more books.
The gist is, any and all art historic descriptions and information given within the book are fully fictional. That includes a page of āfactsā (labeled as such) preceding the novel itself (which doesnāt contain any actual facts at all) and a note underneath stating that all descriptions of paitings were accurate. Spoiler alert: Theyāre not. I majored art history in school and did a lot of research, but, honestly, anybody whoās interested in art history and knows the very very basics about the renaissance and other time periods can easily disprove all of the novelās supposedly accurate art descriptions.
And, to be truthful, I have to admit that Brown is really fucking good at fiction. Heās also really good at writing his fiction around and over existing art historic knowledge and twisting it without making it too obvious for careless readers. Thatās kinda cool. And I get that disguising fiction as fact isnāt a new trend. I mean... Defoe did when he falsely claimed that Robinson Cruseo was a factual report of a true event, because the readership of his time period wasnāt familiar with adventure fiction. But what really annoyed me was 1) how many readers actually believed Brown to have uncovered some genuine conspiracy and 2) that Brown kept feeding into the delusion of those fans again and again through comments in interviews and webpages, even though he fully knew itās all fiction, because he himself made it up.
Ā 2) And then thereās the Wanderhure series, written by a German writing couple under the pseudonym Iny Lorentz. Iām not sure if this has been translated into English, but itās been highly popular in Germany and several other countries (won some awards and was made into a series of TV movies and whatnot). It is, quite honestly THE WORST BOOK I HAVE EVER READ IN MY WHOLE LIFE.
The first novel was recommended to me by relatives because parts of it take place in a city that I have lived in for quite some time, and itās a historical fiction based on a medieval poem. The premiss of the novel is great: during the middle ages, a young and respected girl gets accused to have sinned by some townspeople and nobody believes her to be innocent, as she is just a girl. She gets cast out of her city and home, left with no other choice than to become a traveling whore if she wants to survive. She ends up becoming quite successful in her profession (in the sense that she has many high ranking clients from both church and state who pay her with lots of money and other favors) and returns to the city that cast her out long ago to have a huge effect on politics and religion.
The story was quite intriguing to me, both due to the interesting plotline as well as the reference to the city I live in. HOWEVER, it is horribly written. All characters, especially the protagonist, are unbelievably flat. There is no character development whatsoever, even though the story offers plenty of chances to find it. I read through the book because of the locations... houses that actually still exist, that I have been in, Gateways that iāve walked through, roads that Iāve travelled on. Those are very well described. Itās easy to figure out each and every step the characters take on a map and thatās really cool. But the plotline was destroyed by less than mediocre characterization and simple, unimpressive language. Every time a character is supposed to feel something, the sentence literally goes, āShe felt xyzā - and thatās as descriptive as it gets. Thereās no atmosphere created and not an ounce of fluidity in the sentence structure. The whole narration is as dry as brick and the story reads like a two dimensional still drawing of a 3D rollercoaster ride.
2. A Popular Book or series that every one else seems to hate but you love.
I honestly donāt think that thereās any book series that EVERYBODY hates. And I do think that all the books I love, are actually pretty popular. Buuuuut...
Iāve seen the Mortal Instruments series getting a lot of hate on tumblr. And I fully understand why Cassandra Clare isnāt everybodyās favorite author. I donāt like her methods and procedure at all either. But, I have to say that I do like the basic plotline of the Mortal Instruments. Iāve only read the first three novels, and I have no clue what happens afterwards. And thereās a lot to be criticized, be it Clare ācopyingā existing dialogues, or some really flat and ... well, just plain naive characters. BUT the plot itself is cool. So, I felt positively entertained and liked it. Love would be a bit of a strong term, though, I think.
3. A Love Triangle where the main character ended up with the person you did NOT want them to end up with (warn ppl for spoilers) OR an OTP that you donāt like.
Not giving any spoilers, but the Demonās Lexicon Trilogy. I really, really disliked the reveal of an actual pairing in the third novel. It didnāt make sense to me, and I wasnāt reading for romance to begin with. It kind of cheapened the story because the love interest side story suddenly got A LOT of attention that it didnāt before and that shifted the focal point of the overall plotline. (Loved the first book, really liked the second, couldnāt care less for the third, tbh)
4. A popular book Genre that you hardly reach for.
Itās either crime fiction or esoteric non-fiction.
Iām actually into a lot of different genres: almost all types of fiction (YA, dystopian, sci-fi, political, thriller, mystery, adventure, horror, fantasy etc.), also childrenās books, travel books, hobby and craft books, satires, other humorous books, biographies/autobiographies, educational books, historical books both fiction and non-fiction...
Doesnāt matter, but crime fiction (as long as it doesnāt contain anything else) is just so boring to me. Also, it feels to me as if most crime fiction heroes solve those crimes with A LOT more lucky coincidences than I would hope actual crime fighters depend on.
And esoteric books are just completely outside my personal interests. Either the stuff described in those books feels like fiction to me while being sold as non-fiction, or itās stuff that I feel should not be aquired through books but personal encounters and explorations.
5. A popular or beloved character that you do not like.
Definitely Clary Fray from the Mortal Instruments. Man, she is soooooo slow on the uptake and so naive in so many ways. And sheās also kind of a horrible Mary Sue, not just because of her name... (I mean, really? Clary, Ms Clare? š) But also because of how she is so awesomely good at everything and how she always thinks of the perfect solutions for everything when nobody else does. Kinda... very little room for character development. But, then again, who needs that, right?
6. A popular author that you canāt seem to get into.
Aside from Dan Brown? Hereās my unholy trinity...
1) Stephenie Meyer (yeah, the Twilight one) - I was actually sent an e-book copy of Twilight right before it became such a huge success. I started reading it, because my friend recommended it and praised it so highly. But, I couldnāt make it past a couple dozen pages. The writing style is just so bad, I couldnāt continue. The characters were so flat, I lost any and all interest in what was going to happen. And the story wasnāt all that intriguing either, especially because it was loaded with antiquated world views, especially Bellaās character and what was deemed right for her to do was just... WOW, it was just so unbelievably bad, lol. I was so surprised that it actually ended up being successful.
2) E.L.James (the 50 Shades one) - For years, I genuinely believed that it was impossible to write worse than Meyer. Boy, was I wrong. I tried several times to read more than ten pages of 50 Shades of Grey, and I failed every single time. Itās not just a bad story, Iāve seen childrenās books for toddlers that have a more interesting sentence structure than what she comes up with for an adult audience. Her language is so dull and non-descriptive that even the supposedly racy sexy bits read like a phone book to me. Honestly, I DONāT GET WHY anybody ever had any interest in this book series. The language is unspeakably poor, the plot takes all the wrong turns it could possibly take, the āresearchā done before writing the book... I donāt even know where that load of complete misinformation could possibly come from.
3) Iny Lorentz (the writing couple I mentioned above: Elmar Wohlrath and Iny Klocke) - Just bad, bad, bad writing. No concept of character development, fiction asthetically written like non-fiction, no use of language to create atmosphere or convey emotions. They write neutral snoozefests. And... I canāt bring myself to write any more on them.
7. A popular book trope that youāre tired of seeing. (examples ālost princessā, corrupt ruler, love triangles, etc.)
Mary Sues and Gary Stues. But Love Triangles are a very hot contender.
8. A popular series that you have no interest in reading.
All the different Shades, lol.
9. The saying goes āThe book is always better than the movieā, but what movie or T.V. show adaptation do you prefer more than the book?
Definitely Stand By Me which is Stephen Kingās The Body. That movie is about as great as that story could have possibly been when put onto the screen. The actors were so perfectly cast, the cinematography, costumes and set design really captured the time period, atmosphere and geography, and the facial expressions portrayed all the right emotions beautifully.
Also, I have to say, out of all of Kingās movie adaptations, and while neither The Body nor Stand By Me are categorized as horror, the scene where you can see the dead boyās face is one of the scariest, most horrific moments I can think of in a film ever. It gave me nightmares when I first saw it, and still, to this day, I have to close my eyes when that scene comes up. And the cool thing is, itās not meant to be specifically horrifying, or gory or scary. But the simplicity of the sudden glimpse into dead eyes, to me, is scarier than any monster I could imagine and does Kingās reputation more than justice.
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