#moon-mercury square

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Well, you asked about the squares, and I'd like to suggest Mercury square Moon. I feel like that's a big one, it's one I deal with, and I think it could help people a lot!

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How to deal with Moon-Mercury square in synastry?

This square suggests a difficulty talking about emotions or things of high emotional impact. Many people point out that there can be a feeling of not understanding each other, one party may be more emotional and the other more rational which can create tensions.

As for practical approaches, I can mention the following:

🤍Be open to listening to what the other needs: Many times we tend to want to find solutions or know what to say to the other when perhaps they just need to be listened to or another kind of comfort. It is crucial that you directly communicate what you need and, in turn, remain receptive to your partner's needs. Active listening leads to understanding and understanding forges trust and that feeling that it is safe to express yourself with the other.

🤍Ask questions: This makes it easier to understand your partner better, from the smallest questions to the most deep ones, no matter which of the two camps they fall into, they will make your partner feel that you are interested in getting to know them. Ask for clarification if you think something is not completely clear or if you feel that there's something more that your partner needs to express. Learn their love and stress languages ​​and ask about how they act when faced with a tense emotion, as well as what to do as their partner or friend in case they are in a tense situation.

🤍Create an environment of reassurance and support: Validate your partner's emotions, listen to them, and provide understanding rather than judgment. Make them feel that they can express themselves without being misunderstood by asking questions in case something is not clear to you, rather than jumping to conclusions. Patience, active listening and respect help create safe environments where we feel we can open up.

Some aspects in astrology that can help with this are the following:

🩶The aspects between Sun/Moon - Saturn create a mutual respect for each other's emotions and personality. They will both do their part to understand and accept each other's boundaries without questioning them, they take their partner's comfort seriously and will never intentionally do anything to hurt them. They actively look for ways to improve coexistence and the relationship by supporting themselves in the process.

🩶Moon-Neptune aspects such as conjunction, trine or sextile, create a deep connection, ability to intuit and read the other person's emotions more easily. They have great sensitivity and empathy for the emotional states of others. Importance is given to the emotional needs of the other. This duo has a deep desire to care for each other's emotional well-being, to support each other and to understand.

🩶Something similar to the previous point happens with the harmonious aspects between Mercury and Neptune, and that is that this duo can be understood more easily, almost intuitively. They may have the feeling that the other person truly makes an effort to listen to and understand them, and they may feel a connection that they have hardly felt with previous people. It makes it easier for them to read the other's mood or understand what the other is referring to even if they are not very explicit. They pay a lot of attention to each other's small details.

🩶The trine or sextile between Moon-Venus make each other's love comfort you, their affection is like a warm blanket or a shelter in a storm. Sweetness flows naturally between you, you feel supported, loved and adored by the other, and you are also fascinated by how the other shows and expresses their emotions. Affection seems to grow more and more over time, physical contact can be considered a great help to alleviate sadness and try to constantly have details with the other.

🩶The positive aspects between Mars-Moon create this protective attitude towards the emotions of the other, actively seeking to make the other feel protected, loved and cherished. You both encourage each other to open up emotionally and be honest with each other about what you want, need, and desire at that moment. There is a strong sense of loyalty towards each other and a lot of genuine love and affection between them.

🩶The trine or sextile between Mercury-Venus can also be very useful, as both parties will be constantly looking for ways to make the other feel that they are loved and adored. The conversations between you can be more fluid and pleasant thanks to these aspects, in the same way you can love the way in which the other person expresses themselves and shows affection. They can be more tactful with each other and be more patient if necessary. Both will try to reassure the other that what they have to say and share is important and will try to listen from love and reason and not from criticism.

🩶The aspects between Pluto-Moon encourage the couple to really be there for each other, regardless of whether the emotions or mood are light or more tense. There is a genuine desire to support each other, to want to understand each other no matter how difficult it may seem. A mixture of devotion, genuine love and a strong sense of unity.

🩶The Ceres-Moon aspects not only provide adorable and loving dynamics in a relationship of all kinds, but both can easily put each other's happiness and comfort as a priority. They do small meaningful things to make the other feel safe to express their emotions, there is a strong compassion, kindness and dedication to the other. They are easily moved by and notice each other's attempts to care for them and to know them more deeply.

🩶Moon falling in the other’s 1st, 2nd, 4th or 7th house makes you feel a sense of security and warmth with each other. You both know that it is safe to express your emotions with the person and you feel that they give you enormous comfort, often with their simple presence. Caring, empathy, naturally protective of others and their emotions. It facilitates emotionally strong connections where not only appreciation and reassurance abound, but the willingness to make an effort.

🩶Mercury falling in the other’s 3rd, 4th or 7th makes both feel that ease in communicating with the other and not only that, but they know that the other will do their part to understand them. They will speak fluently not only about their emotions but also about what they think or even trivial things that happen to them in their daily lives.