#moon conjunct pluto

[mercurianchild]

hey love! what does a Plutonian chart look like? i'm not sure if I have one. how would that affect me?

Strong influence of Pluto…

What a strong Plutonian influence of Pluto in the chart could look like:

Pluto in the 1st, 4th, 7th and 10th house

Pluto aspecting inner planets (Mercury, Venus and Mars)

Pluto strongly aspecting the moon and ascendant, especially tight orbs

TW: mentions of s*x and death!!

Being Pluto dominant or having a strong influence of Pluto means that transformations, ego deaths, feelings of death and rebirth will accompany you for a life time. From my experience, this will be especially harsh in the childhood, youth and maybe in your early adult years. As time passes and as you get older, you might develop self care habits and safety mechanisms to protect yourself and your inner peace. Practising self love, meditation and mindfulness could be important to these individuals, as they could underestimate their beauty and their outstanding personality.

I’ve also seen that most traumatic events happen in the childhood, youth or early adulthood. But that’s just my observation.

Feelings of being deeply misunderstood rise while you are young and this feeling might follow you for years. Constantly searching for someone to understand your complex mind and depth of emotions. These people could benefit from searching for a valve to turn pain, bad experiences and any form of built up emotion into art. Be it writing, drawing, making music…

A reoccurring theme for Plutonians is sexuality. There may be blockages in regards of the own sexuality or experiencing it, but once they overcome this, they literally start to bloom in that area. This could turn into being hungry for power in general (or simply being turned on by overpowering the partner) or in being lascivious. They can be pretty much extreme and freaky in bed, actually. Being intimate never gets boring with them.

I know, this is what you read everywhere, but plutonic people are deeply magnetic and will catch your eye with their intense aura. Even if they are not seen as traditionally beautiful, these natives exude attractiveness and charisma. You just can’t ignore them and they will even stand out in a crowd. BUT! A lot of them don’t have the sex appeal like (for example) Megan Fox has. A lot of them have such an innocence to their appearance, but if you take a closer look you’ll see that they’re like fallen angels.

From my experience, plutonic people will have a deep connection to spirituality or the occult and a profound interest in psychology (for good and bad). They usually get into these things after really hard times in their life. They will attract jealousy and hate like flies, unfortunately and this could take a toll in their self esteem. Even strangers tend to be very competitive and mean to them in some way, because most people simply feel challenged by their presence.

Dear plutonic people,

you ALL are wonderful and you deserve so much more. I feel for every single one of you and I hope you will find true happiness and self acceptance. You’ve been through so much and you deserve the world for all that. I’m sending you all the love you might need right now or later! 🩶

[cosmicplexus]

Random Synastry Observations

🌸Mars conjunct Ascendant or Mars in 1st house can be one of those relationships where you aren't too sure if someone likes you genuinely or just for your looks.

🌸Venus in 5th house has an easy going atmosphere helped by a shared sense of humor and playfulness regardless of other aspects in synastry.

🌸It can be very difficult to end a relationship with someone with their Mars in your 8th house as they will persist to make sure the relationship continues.

🌸Having your natal Moon or Venus conjunct/opposite/square Pluto makes your relationships with people close to your age very intense for better or worse.

🌸People with Venus in 12th house synastry tend to dream about each other a lot.

🌸Relationships have a better chance of surviving if 4th house,5th house and 8th house synastry are all present.

🌸People with Venus in 10th house synastry most likely met or connected through work or school and tend to bond over career related matters.

🌸If Moon conjunct Mars synastry has no strong aspects to aid the relationship, the Mars person may view the Moon person as merely someone to procreate with, this is especially true if Mars is a man and Moon is a woman.

🌸Venus-Saturn strong aspects tend to be present in age-gap relationships.

🌸Strong uranus aspects to personal plantets in synastry may create an element of uncertainty or instability to the relationship

[myun-saidthoughts]

Reasons Why Water House Synastry Is Karmic and Intense:

In this post, I want to address some reasons why water house (4th, 8th, and 12th) synastry can be very intense, very transformational and why it creates/increases codependency.

(the basis of this thread is the fact that there is attraction and desire within the romantic connection, and the depth of feeling will run more true if you share multiple other intense synastry aspects/past life connections. Friendships/family relations that have heavy 8th/12th house synastry overlays manifest *very* differently)

Each water house has one common factor, and that's with these type of synastry overlays; you will feel seen or accepted. In some way, some form, the severity of it depends (as usual), but

if you struggle with:

4TH House:

Showing your true character to others without the fear of being judged.

Sharing your inner thoughts to others with ease and safeness.

The fact that you never felt/had a safe home, so now you long for that feeling (of being at ease/comfortable with someones presence).

Feeling ease and comfortability within your environment or within yourself, instead you experienced that those feelings came at a cost.

Feeling secure when you're meeting others/being open to others.

Stating your inner thoughts or feelings outwardly and confidently.

Trusting others.

8TH House: If you struggle with:

Self acceptance.

Self worth.

Self love.

Self confidence.

Accepting/receiving love.

Having low respect for yourself (meaning how others treat you may be hurtful but because of lack of validation within, you allow or accept that behavior).

Having a pattern where the way others treat you either gives or takes away validation your inner wounds need.

Deeply craving emotional closeness yet fearing it at the same time.

Allowing yourself to desire love.

The fact you're emotionally unavailable; so you're unsure with how to deal with romance, and yet a part of you still deeply desires a partner.

These also may resonate if you have 8H Placements, Pluto aspecting inner planets/Scorpio placements.

12TH House: If you struggle with:

Emotionally availability/allowing someone to see you, all of you.

Receiving tangible, stable, harmonious, love.

Having a habit to/find it easier to fix or save someone in hopes of changing their self destructive habits or mental health issues. This type of tendency creates an avoidance within yourself especially if you don't focus on your own needs or problems. (it's easier to focus on someone else's pain rather than your own)

Feeling safe with the idea of not being needed, instead you choose to be the giver or other woman since it subconsciously keeps you at a distance of being openly loved (which is something you subconsciously fear)

Holding the deep desire to feel seen past the physical 3D.

Allowing yourself to receive the type of love you're able to give/shower another.

Wanting to fix or heal someone's mental health wounds or problems, you find it safer to be their savior rather than have a true give and take partnership.

(These also may resonate if you have 12H, Neptune aspecting inner planets/Pisces placements)

These are a few examples of how intense these synastry overlays may manifest if you are struggling with the above statements. I briefly mentioned a few indicators, needless to say they are more and each synastry chart or even natal chart will always paint the picture better of how deep these relationships can manifest.

then 4th, 8th, and 12th house synastry will cause internal shift within, whether you want it to or not.

4th House: With the 4th house and when someone walks into your life and they ignite your IC, the part of your character that you readily hide becomes unlocked. If you personally have struggled with being comfortable in your skin, or have struggled with feeling secure with who you are as you are, then this person to you will feel like a comfort blanket. Their presence will shift you into a mood where all you feel is safe, present, and in the moment. With them, you will feel complete in showcasing your inner world and your inner thoughts. Their presence will become this key that you didn't even knew you need. It'll feel easy with them, and there is no hesitation, confusion or worry. You can't feel worry, and it's not because they insistently tell you not to feel anxious, you just naturally won't. You guys will likely share the same humor or communication style, and if there is a Venus conjunct IC then the IC person will feel this romantic pull with showcasing their personality outwardly that they won't be able to shake towards the Venus person. Overall these feelings are especially true if you struggle with letting someone in, if it takes some time for you to allow someone else to see your personality or thoughts, then they will feel like a cure for allowing to let that side of you out and when you're next to them; you'll feel like you're finally home.

Example: you walk into a bar and they make eye contact with you, you instantly smile, they instantly smile, and the conversation that ignites feels as if you just spoke to them. It could be weeks, months even since you last saw them but the comfortability between the two of you oozes out in a way where it feels like they just came back home to you. (especially if you share heavy 3H synastry overlays as well or if their mercury softly aspects your inner planets, vice versa)

The reason why this type of connection can be hard to let go of is because their presence might cause or create a codependent need in you for them in order to feel "safe." All their presence is doing is igniting the secure feeling in you that you wish you had, you finally can look into another's eyes and feel that type of comfortability you've always been scared enough to unlock or accept. Your private thoughts and characteristics feel safe next to them, and because of that, they create this security within you won't know how to let go of. So, all they are doing is unleashing your wish of being your truest self without fearing the consequences of being seen for who you are.

In some cases, 4th house synastry may not run as intense, and some say it can be 'mundane' or boring, especially if you don't struggle with the listed wounds I stated, or if you don't share other intense or cute attraction synastry aspects with them; but in essence this individual will feel like a grounding force.

The bond you can form with them is tangible, it's secure, and it feels real. So, letting them go will feel as though you're letting go the one desire of ever revealing your private inner self with ease, especially if this is a part of you that you've been too afraid to openly show or even accept.

Songs That Relate

Look After You - The Fray

Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol

Control - Zoe Wees

Hey Stranger - Billie Flynn

8th House: With the 8th house, these type of connections are more intense, and naturally so. With this type of synastry, and if you struggle with self acceptance especially with self love or self worth, then letting go of this connection will feel near to impossible. It will feel like life or death if they walk away from you, and it will feel like a part of you dies every time they don't give you the reassurance or acknowledgment your soul wishes for. Their eyes alone, tell you it's time to let that wall down and without effort your wall crumbles. You know that if they leave, a part of you will leave with them but if your wound of wishing to be accepted runs so deep within, you can't help but take that risk. You're aware that the unavoidable low following their absence will cut deep, yet instead of walking away, you prepare yourself for its inevitable arrival.

You allow that pain to embody you because that pain hurts less than not feeling those moments of acceptance that they are able to give you, especially if it's what you've always reluctantly wished for.

With their presence that void of wanting emotional closeness that you've always longed for will feel like it has vanished, their eyes alleviate the long-ignored half-empty feeling, and so the part of you that wishes to been seen, the part of you that wishes to feel accepted, the part of you that wants to be vulnerable won't know how to let go.

You could run into them and it could be weeks, months even and if you still struggle with loving yourself in the way you wish they would, their presence will create this upheaval that will shake within you, this synastry holds cycles, loops, ups and down to the point of where if you don't hate them, a part of you will still want them.

This synastry creates a dynamic where this soul that entered your life is only igniting the parts of you that you, yourself don't accept, love or acknowledge. Their presence becomes this band-aid that somehow soothes the deepest parts of you that have been abandoned, and their presence soothes the part of you that you yourself believe you can't heal. This fear then creates a scarcity mindset that can cause you to become someone you're not, and even if you logically know what is objectively best to do in situations to not create more intensity within the connection; there's just a part of you that can't care.

The reason why this type of connection can be hard to let go of is because their presence might cause or create a codependent need in you to have them in order to feel "seen." Their presence gives you a sense of acceptance where you allow yourself to accept love in. If you struggle with emotional abandonment, or fear love, then their presence will feel like a "skip the line" pass with inner healing the parts of you that feel broken.

The reason why 8th house synastry is discussed so promptly and openly is because these feelings that persist (when dealing with inner wounds) become such catalysts of growth and ego deaths; but that is only because this connection allows in the hope for love you've been wishing for all your life. You want to be held, you want to be cared for and loved in a way that you've never received, and this person presences grants that sole wish. They bring you that one solace feeling that you've never felt and because of that, letting them go is letting go the one key that makes you feel worthy, seen, and accepted.

Their presence creates this codependent need within because they become this one "thing" that you think you need in order to fulfill that self love wound you keep repressing. You'll start to rely on them for emotional clarity or serenity, you'll start to "need them" in order to feel good, and you'll expect them to make you feel "better" emotionally and if they fail to meet those expectations, all you'd be faced with is the unwavering feeling of the lack of self love or worth you're too afraid to self develop.

The love you're so readily able to give them, is what your soul is asking you to give yourself.

*Those who have prominent natal Scorpio or 8th house placements as well as having Pluto aspecting harshly their inner planets or ascendant will feel these trials and errors more*

Songs That Relate:

Locksmith/You Don't - Sadie Jean

Addicted - Kelly Clarkson

Im Yours/Heartbeat - Isabel LaRose

Just a Little Bit of Your Heart - Ariana Grand

Heavenly - Cigarettes After Sex

Is There Somewhere - Halsey

12th house:

This post focuses exclusively on a 12th house relationship between two kind and evolved individuals. While there are other darker themes associated with 12th house synastry — such as deception, substance abuse, hidden affairs (like being the other woman or mistress), lies about one partner’s true nature, or fear that one partner is withholding information or their true self — I won’t be discussing those here. I might explore those themes in a future post, as they are important to note, but for now, my main focus will not include those themes.

“Though I barely know you, it feels as if I do. Your eyes and body language seem to speak your thoughts, even the ones I can’t fully grasp. There’s no visible thread connecting us, yet this feeling remains.” — Planet Person

With the 12th house, this synastry unlocks so many different routes and experiences. Many factors influence how each individual can feel towards this ethereal connection. One way this synastry can manifest is through the tendency for the 12th house to cloud, confuse, and bring hesitancy into the connection. In some cases, Person A (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) will feel as though they can read Person B in such a deep and subconscious way; this type of knowing may even be hidden from Person B to the extent that they are unaware of their own subconscious emotional needs, thoughts or feelings, and yet (especially if there's care or desire on their end) Person A can read Person B like a book. 12th house synastry can be so thought provoking because of the absolute depth and surreal feeling it can add into the connection. The planet person (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) will feel this innate drive to be with the house person (or the other partner who isn't as spiritual adept). It's as if one partner, driven by an innate need to give endlessly, is profusely tossing their sole bucket of water into the vast ocean of the other partner's needs. The giver (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) is so focused on giving that they overlook the importance of receiving, while the receiver remains oblivious.

If Person B remains unaware of the deep spiritual bond between them that can manifest, they may perceive Person A's actions as invasive or unnecessary. Person A, recognizing wounds in Person B that Person B may not be aware of can evoke a sense of fear in Person B, this has to deal with the issue of them not allowing or accepting a form of love that they believe (Person B) doesn't serve them.

If this scenario resonates with you, then this individual is provoking a wound within yourself that deals with the acceptance of receiving authentic love. This innate need to only give highlights your own fear of receiving real reciprocal, stable, tangible love.

In this scenario where one party wants to save, fix, heal or give, highlights that fearful nature within you where you allow to stay in shallow waters. You subconsciously know that you have such passionate love to give, but that thought of giving to someone who in turn might be willing to give back evokes fear and uncertainty within you.

This subconscious block holds more comfortability within you since it allows you to never accept a love where your soul will fully be fulfilled. It's self sabotaging and self written, you naturally already know how the story will end between you two, and so you subconsciously will find a character who perfectly embodies the story you yourself say you try to run from.

On the other hand this synastry (when desired and when it's dealing with highly evolved individuals) can unlock such deep soulfulness between both partners. Between the two parties, it'll feel as if they have found someone that can finally understand them better than anyone ever has, it'll feel dreamy and mystical. It'll feel as if their body language writes stories that you could only read.

In a pure sense, one partner that desires the other very deeply and whole heartedly wants to make sure that their partner is seen, and understood. And this comes from a very sincere place and if the other receiving partner allows that kind of love in while being okay with giving that same love back, that is when this type of connection can be ideal.

Now in this scenario, this type of codependent nature deals with over emphasizing redemption with no boundaries. If there is solid exchangeable love, a part of you may believe there is always more good than bad within them or within the relationship, and so their wrongdoings or unacceptable behavior to you or to others somehow receives justification or more understanding than he or she should receive. (especially if you also share 8th house synastry with them). As well as it's important to understand that if there is this innate understanding given by one partner that's always present when there shouldn't be, that's when the relationship can become overwhelming, or draining. Just because you know, understand or empathize with the other partner's actions or patterns doesn't make their actions okay.

This type of dynamic receives interchanging parts, with the 12th house things can lack a solid foundation and have a lack crystal clear communication, some days you both won't deal with struggling dynamics, then one day Partner 1 acts out, to which Partner 2 cuirasses and holds, then a few weeks later Partner 2 acts out and Partner 1 comes to their aid.

Truly the amount of stories, experiences, how Person 1 will feel vs Person 2 is genuinely so intercomplicated and nuanced. Each story lies within the two parties involved, with this house they are just so many different routes and avenues it can uphold, so this particular post may not cover every ounce of information on 12th house synastry. If you are curious to learn more only about this synastry I have a long updated post titled "Understanding 12th House Synastry" and it's far more in-depth (click the text).

In essence, how the other partner receives this type of boundless understanding calls for them to be a very kind and open individual. It's important to understand and recognize red flags or self undoing patterns. Staying aware of the actual real situation instead of sitting in bed thinking of the "What if's" are key. Their posts may not be about you, that song on their story can be just a song, remember that. Especially if the individual lacks self awareness or care on their end.

Finally, I don't believe water house synastry holds malicious energy or serves as a dictatorship with stating how the relationship will fail. Not every synastry overlay is set for such intense energy or uncomfortable experiences, each planet in a natal chart holds different themes. What truly matters at the end of the day are the two souls involved within the connection. Desire, care, love, and acceptance are all foundational keys for any relationship to last even those with or without water house synastry. Accepting yourself in the purest form when it comes to each water house theme (4,8,12) is key.

Your natal chart when it comes to synastry serves as a mirror within yourself, everything you are feeling for someone else is already sitting within you.

Don't forget that.

[bestlilithian]

Home is the first grave.

[ Moon-Pluto, Pluto in 4th house culture ]

tw for various mentions of abuse and death as well as mental problems, sh and su!cide, also needles (dont ask)

- may have experienced a lot of death in thr family or in the close neighborhood

- feel more connected to your dead relatives than your alive ones

- there mightve been a death in your family before you were born

- feeling peacful in graveyards

- may have fantasized about death/su!cide, might percieve death as something that brings peace (hence the fantasies, because really all you ever wanted was peace)

- wanting peace but knowing you cannot have it because of your nature; feeling like theres just something in your blood in your soul that is uncontrollable and overwhelming

- your household was always a house , never a home

- being raised by very old people, enjoying the presence of much older wiser people (like, literal elders not hot teachers 💀)

- enduring literal psychological warfare in your home (usual your mother waged war on you as soon as you were old enough to form a coherent critical thought)

- "I hate you, dont leave me" (might be the attitude of your mother towards you, or yours towards others you love)

- Your mother always knew when you were lying or hiding something. Especially if she had a scorpio moon or moon/pluto aspects herself. You grew up extremely fearful of her.

- moon pluto culture is hearing your mother talk lovingly about her own fucked up mother, she never accepted the severity of her own abuse, until of course she needs to use it in an argument against you "Im a great mother, my mother was so much worse"(basically Im good because I abuse you differently than I was abused 😍 same shit different package)

- not liking motherly women or women who try to be mother figures to you, feeling uncomofortable around them; youre uncomfortable with how much you crave motherly love and people who can provide you that become threats because of the power they could have over you if you opened up

- being betrayed by the women in your life, especially those who were much older and supposed to take care of you (teachers, tutors, family members, therapists, babysitters..)

- toxic female friends 😁🔫 bonus : really close but toxic female friendships in youth that feel like death when you end them even though you know it was necessary

- feeling pain so deeply you think you will drop dead or have a heart attack. (When I was little and depressed I wrote in a diary of mine "My body will kill me before I get to")

more on this : when you start crying because of immense emotional pain and suddenly your heart is burning and beating too fast and youre getting light headed and throwing up , and suddenly youre not crying because of the pain, youre crying because youre afraid youre about to have a heart attack and die

- fearing that your mother will k word herself or you if you try to leave her (harsh aspects mostly)

- learning what emotional violence is very early, how to wield it and defend against it

- turning your emotions off completely for a while and then having a nervous breakdown when it all rushes back

- reading up on psychology, psychiatry and works of psychotherapists so you can heal and never become your mother

- wanting to put a bullet in your head when you notice yourself thinking or behaving like your mother

- going home after you spent time somewhere where you felt good and safe is extremely dreadful

- your mother doesnt see you as a human being (harsh aspects especially), and may take you a while to figure this out

- extremely controlling behavior from your mother or other caretakers (for example my mother threatened to send people to stalk me when I moved to a diff city, to 'make sure Im not doing something bad')

- deeply grieving the loss of your childhood and your inner child

- almost choking while crying or passing out

- feeling like youre a horrible person and dont deserve your family [because youre in deep denial and are seeing the flaws of your family as your own and denying your own trauma]

- learning about sex early on, perhaps early sexual obsession but not like promiscuity more like craving for deep intimacy (also you were probably deeply ashamed of it)

- not telling your family (esp mother) anything because they will ruin it for you

- being accused of being a psychopath, uncaring, selfish for "not loving your family enough"

- not knowing how to feel about the members of your family that played a more passive role in your life because they didnt do anything wrong but they didnt do anything right either; surely they knew , why didnt they stop it? why didnt they save you? (Im talking about adults obviously)

- your parents mightve been much older when you were born, you might have siblings much older than you

- doing anything to avoid your intense emotions and then when you break down and feel everything you realize how freeing it is and how comfortable you actually are with the intensity

- gutteral reactions to songs you deeply relate to (I hear 10 seconds of 'Slipping through my fingers' and I am dead on the floor)

- being afraid of your mother or just of your family in general

- you could probably kill someone with your bare hands if you were angry and hurt enough

- scary as fuck when you actually show your anger

- if you cry in the midst of a fight (verbal or physical) ... someone tell that person to make peace w God . cause thats you crying because of what youre about to do, because thats you loosing the last crumb of humanity you had for them and that can only end one way.

- you would probably kill for your loved ones

- your friends feel like you would help them hide a body (and you probably would)

- recognizing people by footsteps and breathing patterns (especially family members)

- deep deep eyes, people can see war and death them, and they feel like you see their pain too (because you do)

- reading people easily

- enjoying? cruelty (to yourself or others), like getting impulses to do something that would cause you or someone else that ugly feeling of facing cruelty

- finding comfort in the cold and the dark

- insane nightmares since youth, growing to be used to them

- its very hard to shock you

- you know when someones lying

- you might dread certain types of pain yet feel pleasure from them (personally I hate having my blood taken for a test but then I end up immensely enjoying the feeling of a needle pricking my skin and going deep into my vein)

- feeling the need to "kill" some your habits; most likely to drop things cold turkey and be extremely strict in breaking bad habits

- might enjoy really dark, emotionally and morally complex media

- immediately recognizing other moon pluto people and trauma bonding

- extremely good pain endurance. not necessarily tolerance , but endurance. you feel the pain and do it anyway.

- might not react to physical pain at all from a young age

- fantasies about drowning or slipping away peacfully

- either loving deep waters or hating them

- randomly breaking down in the middle of the day because of some pain you buried 5 years ago

- might self harm a lot because of your complex relationship w pain, it genuinely helps sometimes

- home feels like literal prison

- seeing the value in suffering, you might reject the idea that suffering is bad and should be avoided and prevented at all costs

- you might become religious as you mature (but usually in your own way, not necessarily according to tradition)

- forced to eat or denied food in your home, this mightve fucked up your relationship with food

And lastly, I need you to engrave this in yourself :

Wrong love is not love.

[bouquetface]

SOLAR RETURN: The Year You Meet Your Spouse & Move Countries

This is the sr chart of the year this person met their boyfriend (now spouse) and moved to NYC.

You may use this chart to find similar indicators in your own chart. Of course, it won’t manifest in the same way due to natal being different but you may still find this helpful.

INDICATORS SHOWING A BIG MOVE:

SR ASC in Virgo & Ruler (Mercury) in 9th H:

ASC in virgo can be a year when one is typically focused on: routine & managing. Their approach to the year can be critical and analytical.

9th house shows foreign travel. This year this person spent a lot of time in NYC. It was a big and expensive move. A lot of time was spent deciding where exactly in NYC they would want to live.

SR MOON Conjunct PLUTO in 4th House

For this person, this is conjunct their natal Uranus. This person decided to move to NYC after meeting their spouse (than boyfriend). This was a sudden and shocking choice to her family as they had just met. Although, they were not opposed.

Uranus brings this shocking & sudden aspect.

Pluto brings the huge transformation.

Moon&4th H show it being connected to their home and family.

SR North Node in Natal First House

This connects to home since their natal NN is in 4th House. This shows the focus of home being brought to the front of their focus.

It shows a fated event being triggered in regard to self and home. This is further supported by Vertex being in 4th House.

SR IC conjunct Pluto

This further supports that a huge transformation was going to occur this year.

SR 4th House in Sag with Saturn

Sag is the sign of travel, education/knowledge. In 4th, it can show travelling or moving around a lot. This is a very small indicator but when backed up with the above it further supports that this person was going to move this year.

Saturn’s influence shows it wasn’t going to be a small trip as this person originally planned. They met their spouse, dated long distance for most of the year. Making the best move for their career & this relationship, they say they decided to begin the process for a permanent move.

Meeting An Important Romantic Partner:

SR Venus conjunct Venus

This is one indicator of romance being highlighted for the year.

In this case, this is in different signs but still in very close conjunction. SR Venus is in 10th, Natal Venus is in 9th. This person experienced a lot of blessings in their career this year too. This was a good year for business and romance.

Romance isn’t always the case with venus conjunct venus. However, this person has multiple indicators of a relationship.

SR Jupiter transit Natal Jupiter’s House

This isn’t conjunct, however it is still prominent. Like venus conjunct venus, this alone would not indicate romance. When paired together with even more relationship indicators, it shows a very important relationship forming.

For this person, they met their spouse through a friend they were visiting in NYC. Jupiter can show where you will meet the spouse. In 11th, through friends/social network.

This person’s SR Jupiter conjunct part of fortune. This further shows this person experienced feeling lucky and blessed in abundance. They say everything went perfect this year - in business, romance, family, etc.

SR Uranus conjunct Mercury in 7th H

This shows meeting was going to be sudden and surprising. This person was not looking for a relationship when they went to NYC. They truly thought it would be a short and fun visit to their friend’s place.

SR South Node in 7th H

This alone can sometimes indicate less focus on relationships. And this was true at the start until they met their boyfriend.

The other relationship indicators this person had shows it was inevitable this would change.

This can indicate they have a past life connection with their spouse too.

KEEP IN MIND: Ofc most people will NOT meet their spouse & move to NYC in the same year. This is very specific to her life. She comes from a very financially fortunate family who was able to support her dreams. Don’t compare your life to hers or expect the exact same outcome.

[wolfflows-world]

2nd house Pluto/Mars Notes

Those with the aspects listed below might find themselves changing jobs a lot, as Pluto brings transformation/change— it’s like tower + death energy.

Second house deals with the way in which we make money and our personal finances/stability. In particular, those with malefics ruling the second might find themselves struggling moreso than those with benefics. Of course, this might not be true if the benefic is being maltreated by Pluto/Mars through an opposition/square.

This can lead to a lot of financial instability. You may even be labeled a job hopper. I would bet the majority have had to deal with their fair share of toxic workplaces/shitty managers that play favorites/the wrong side of nepotism/bullying-- my heart goes out to y'all. Please remember you are NOT what you do for a living and just because you haven't found traditional stability yet does not mean you are less than or inferior in any way. Think of all the wisdom gained and the ways in which your negative experiences caused you to develop stronger boundaries + intuition.

I actually think these folks would probably do quite well in a fairly chaotic environment like ER doctor, EMT, surgeon, professional fighter, etc. Notice I said chaotic and not stressful/dysfunctional-- there is a difference. Think very busy, something always going on.

JUST A THEORY but those with these aspects could struggle with ADHD/ASD/BPD/PTSD/bipolar or other mental illness/personality disorders/developmental disorders that cause them to struggle keeping a job or reaching + maintaining financial stability.

The following placements should only be considered if the aspect is within a 3 degree orb (except for the Moon):

Aries/Virgo Risings --> Venus oppposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

Taurus/Leo Risings —> Mercury opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

Gemini Risings —> Moon opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 14 degrees

Cancer Risings —> Sun opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

Libra/Pisces Risings —> Mars opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto within 3 degrees

Scorpio/Aquarius Risings —> Jupiter opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

Sagittarius/Capricorn Risings —> Saturn opposing/squaring/conjunct Pluto/Mars within 3 degrees

2nd house Pluto/Mars may struggle as well with this

I feel like the conjunctions might not feel it as much or it might not be as negative as the oppositions/squares are.

Those with Jupiter/Venus ruling the 2nd house also may not feel it as negatively, given the positive influence of benefics.

[katsysays]

Progressed Composite Charts

I’ve found progressed composite charts to be the best way to predict events in relationships. Whether it be your first meeting, first date, engagement, breakup, or any other relevant event in two people’s dynamics the progressed composite always has accurately predicted this for me. Unfortunately not many astrologers study this so it’s hard to find information about what various aspects can represent in a progressed composite. These are just my personal observations of how some of these aspects have played out for me.

Because progressed composite planets move slowly (inner planets one degree a year, and the moon one degree a month), aspects will ONLY SHOW UP AT AN EXACT 0° ORB. The 1° after can be a “clean up” of sorts for whatever happened at the exact aspect.

The most important place to look in progressed composites is the moon since it moves quicker than any other placement in the chart. In my experience, most events have happened quickly after the aspect to the moon hits 0°

All of the following aspects include the moon since it is the best to predict relationship timing

Aspects:

✪ moon sextile Eros can happen the first time two people see each other in a sexual way and represents a fascination or attraction to one another.

✪ For already existing relationships moon sextile/trine Eros can be a time where sexual attraction is heightened. The sextile is typically more active and noticeable while the trine is a more natural energy that more subtlety flows in the background of the relationship

Personal experience: I had Eros sextile moon with a guy when we first saw each other in person and he was first attracted to me but we didn’t talk, only a first interest not necessarily a first meeting

✪ Moon conjunct Pluto can show up at a time where you are deciding whether to stay in or walk away from a relationship. This could also represent other forms of transformation in relationships. In my experience I’ve had this aspect when I’ve decided to leave a dynamic or when I’ve finally gotten over someone. I imagine this could also be present when there is a proposal, moving in together, or other factor that transforms and changes how you and your partner interact

✪ Moon square/semi-square Neptune can show up as one (or both) of you wanting to be a part of the others life but not being able to due to a separation

✪ Moon opposite Venus can signify a time where you’re generally not getting along with someone or there’s factors leading to an annoyance with one another/lack of harmony in your dynamic

✪ Moon sextile Venus can signify the opposite representing significant bonding and a feeling of harmony in the dynamic

Personal experience: when I had moon sextile Venus with a friend we had a lot more communication and hung out for hours talking about our shared values and life goals, it definitely bonded us more as friends. When I had this with an old fling he randomly broke no contact and made peace after years of not talking

✪ Moon sextile/semi-sextile Uranus can show an unexpected beginning or end to an aspect of your relationship that’s generally positive and welcomed on both sides

✪ Moon inconjunct Uranus can similarly show an unexpected change in dynamic but this one is typically met with more tension and less positivity than a semi-sextile or sextile

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That’s all for not but let me know if you guys want a part 2, I’m always observing these charts in my life so I’ll always have more notes! :))

- Kat

[malachiteclouds]

Some thoughts on Scorpio Moons

as a scorpio moon I have to say Im not sure I would make the best mother.

I recently got two cats with my man and one got sick and I couldn't sleep for a couples nights bc my mind was racing, thinking about how if she died through the night and I was asleep while it happened I would never forgive myself. since scorpio can be such an obsessive sign and the moon is affiliated with our nurturing abilities and tendencies, I find myself being obsessive towards anything I need to nurture to the point of being too miserable to even enjoy it.

I also think bc scorpio moons or placements in general tend to see the dark underbelly of a lot of twisted and taboo things, sometimes the knowledge of it transforms into an obsessive awareness of it.

for example my scorpio moon is in the 5th house, I worked a long time in child care. I was really good at it and formed strong bonds with the children bc I was so protective of them. however bc of my own life experiences, I notice a lot of things that tend to go over caregivers heads like certain ways that older men look at kids in public, dark sides of the internet thr can come from just one photo of your kid online, etc etc. I know too much about all of that stuff that i would constantly stress about it. I had a lot of dreams about really morbid and terrible things happening to the children in my care cause I was just so terrified about the darkness that exists within the world getting it's filthy hands around the kids I took care of. this made parts of the job unbearable.

I think this is why scorpio moon mothers can be so suffocating and domineering bc a lot of the time it may come from their own traumas or knowledge of darkness being projected onto their children. I know if I did have my own kids I would have to work through a lot of my own shadow.

[hiddensideoflife]

Moon Conjunct Other Planets

The Moon is an important planet in Astrology as it represents the “complete mind.”  While Mercury is described as the intellect or conscious mind, the Moon often signifies the subconscious mind, correlating with our overall happiness.  It also represents the mother in a birth chart.  The Sun, which represents the soul, brings light to the entire universe, while the Moon reflects the Sun’s life-giving energy on the Earth, so the Moon needs the Sun.  It does not act independently.  On a spiritual/metaphysical level, you can look at this as the mind would not exist on this plane without the soul.  Sun often represents the father, and Moon often represents the mother.  The egg and the sperm come together to create life as we know it.  The Moon is represented in Vedic literature as the god Soma, who expresses a more feminine energy.  The Moon is known for providing life because it controls nature by nurturing it and encouraging growth.  In fact, some ancient texts speak of an elixir called Soma that was able to grant the gods immortality.  The Moon also controls death and rebirth, giving it the ability to also destroy life apart from being able to sustain it. 

To decipher the quality of the Moon in a birth chart one must not only look at what sign, Lunar Mansion (Nakshatra) and pada it is placed, but combustion, if it is under any aspects of other plants and finally whether the moon was waxing or waning at birth is important.  Once all of this has been studied, just know that none of it means that one cannot have a fruitful and successful life.  It means that this is what we were born with.  If the Moon is under strife or has malefic tendencies it might mean that the native’s ability to handle the ups and downs in life is hindered or that the relationship with the mother or even others is more difficult.  A waxing moon is more outgoing while a waning moon in a chart is more inward and pensive.  Purity of mind is important for self-realization and spirituality, however, going beyond the mind is where this transformation is most beneficial as the main faculties of the mind secure a material or physical level of success or enjoyment even if it is seen as more positive in a chart.  Success and enjoyment are not bad; however, too much indulgence often creates attachment, which in the end tends to be the cause of much suffering.  Considering this information, let’s look at the Moon conjunct other planets:

Moon and Sun Conjunction- This is considered a New Moon.  This life is about new beginnings and perhaps creating new karma from one’s experiences.  New Moon up to the halfway point is waxing and considered to be more outgoing, expansive, and adventurous.  This is when the Moon and the Sun are either at the same degree or extremely close to it.  Think of two present healthy parents providing balance to a native.  This person may feel clear mentally and emotionally and able to make decisions about life with ease.  The emotional and subconscious mind is aligned completely with the conscious mind and rational mind.  You may exhibit strength, courage and authority while at the same time being able to come across as nurturing, compassionate and understanding.  House placement, sign and aspects can alter the interpretation of this conjunction completely.

Moon and Mercury Conjunction- This is intellect and the conscious mind with emotion and the subconscious mind.  In Hindu mythology, Mercury is the son of the god Soma.  Soma had Mercury with Tara, (Jupiter) Brihaspati’s wife.  This is a tale of drama for another post.  Soma cares for his son, Mercury, but Mercury (Buddha) does not feel the same way about Soma.  This is why in planetary interpretation, the Moon is friendly towards Mercury, while Mercury is not so friendly towards the Moon.  Think of it this way, Mercury is like the playboy Prince who wants to try many things and go from one thing to the next.  The Moon and its emotions might be a bit sticky in Mercury’s eyes, making the energy question itself too much.  This might make a native change their mind a lot and feel a bit unsettled.  The planet with the lower degree will control the conjunction so if the Moon has the lower degree, it may be best to meditate and practice mindfulness and patience when it comes to decision-making.  If Mercury has the lower degree, it may lend itself to more of an emotional intelligence and an intuitive ability to network or connect with people.  You may be the person that remembers everyone’s birthday or that brings awareness of emotions to your business, work or partnerships.  In either case, the native is likely to think through their feelings and try to understand the why behind them. 

Moon and Venus Conjunction- Venus represents refinement and desires.  Though the Moon and the Sun come together, and we think of the sperm and the egg in that scenario, Venus is the planet that represents procreation and semen, which explains why Venus is the spouse in a chart.  It also represents the material aspects of life- business, relationships in general, wealth, luxury, arts, photography, etc.  The Moon is often seen as an enemy of Venus.  Though Venus can give us what we desire, it does not mean that we will be happy with this once we get it!   On the one hand, we have already described how the Moon is pleasure seeking.  After all, the Moon had 27 wives which is why the Moon is said to travel through the 27 Lunar Mansions in the sky for 2-2 ½ days at a time (The Lunar Phases).  The Moon’s favorite Nakshatra is said to be Rohini which lies completely in Taurus.  Taurus is ruled by Venus, but Rohini is ruled by the Moon.  In Taurus the Moon is exalted.   This might be where the two experience common ground.  So, it goes without saying that this conjunction could go either way.  The Moon is more about emotional fulfillment and satisfaction with the subconscious mind.  Venus does not guarantee this and is more about receiving and achieving material things, which may be expressed more so in Libra.  If a soul with this Venus and Moon conjunction gets the heart’s desire through marriage, as an example, Venus does not guarantee that the spouse will be emotionally supportive, loving or devoted.  People with this conjunction need to be very careful about what they desire.  Meditate and think through goals and encounters.  Enjoy them yes, but not everything and everyone will always be great for our emotional or overall well-being. 

Moon and Mars Conjunction- Can you say explosive energy?! The soldier has met the nurturer.  This is like the defeated warrior complex that some describe when Mars is in the Moon’s zodiac sign Cancer.  Fire and water create steam.  In some ways this can be positive as it can lend itself to a more peaceful and loving person.  On the other hand, this person might come with a very strong, domineering energy.  Depending on what situation the person is in, that could be great, and the courage can be positive for difficult situations in war, obstacles within a sports game or career as well as someone who is the head of group that is intended to exert a lot of energy and strength.  In relationships and on the personal front, as well as when it comes to making more logical decisions, this might be an issue because this person might be a ticking time bomb.  Instinctive responses to circumstances at times is needed but really working through a way to think first and work through emotions prior to responding over time will likely benefit the native with this conjunction.  Depending on where the placement is and in whose chart, it could make a native a more masculine female or a woman who identifies as gender non-conforming or who others might call a “tomboy.”

Moon and Jupiter Conjunction- This is a positive, happy combination.  These people exert the “positive vibes” only mantra or it may be a person who thrives in manifestation or affirmations.  They may easily have a positive mindset or be able to think highly about the future and the circumstances around them.  Jupiter, being so comfortable here especially at its degree of exaltation (5 degrees) may bless the native with knowledge and wisdom that is more spiritual or philosophical.  At the same time, this person needs to be realistic as well as positive.  The tendency may be to avoid being real as it comes across to the person as being negative.  Trying to get a more balanced perspective on situations will help this native to balance their positive outlook with the reality of the circumstances that present themselves in their lives. 

Moon and Saturn Conjunction- The Moon may be under stress with Shani (Saturn) here or this person blends emotional resilience into their realistic perspective on life.  This is the conjunction that exemplifies the mid-point of the 7-year transit called Sade Sati in Vedic Astrology.  This is when Saturn is transiting, 12th from the Moon, then with the Moon (in conjunction) and then the 2nd house from the Moon.  Since Saturn is usually in a sign for 2 ½ years, these three transits add up to approximately 7 years.  During this period, people tend to suffer psychologically and emotionally.  The Moon is about enjoying life and pleasure, while Saturn is about working hard, staying humble and getting hit with the harsh realities of life.  People with this conjunction can either be extremely levelheaded and realistic about life because they are used to working hard at the same time even if they accept that they must work hard, they may present as more cynical due to a rough childhood or series of obstacles throughout life.  They may go through seasons of depression or withdrawal because Saturn may continue to remind them not to get too comfortable with pleasure and the way things are.

Moon and Rahu Conjunction- Some Astrologers believe the Moon is afraid of Rahu. Rahu is one part of Svarbhanu, the demon.  Rahu inflates anything that it encounters.  This could be a great thing depending on the sign as this might mean an enhanced intellect or hunger for knowledge or thirst for wisdom.  But when Rahu comes in contact with the Moon it acts like an eclipse, creating sometimes what could be irrational fears and a strange relationship with the mother.  Strange in the sense that the native may follow whatever the mother or motherly figures say as golden.  Or the mother may be prone to deluding the native. This can be with false promises or as was already mentioned, giving incorrect information. In some cases, this information might be great, but as we know, not all things that mothers say are wise and beneficial.  Rahu can also enhance the qualities of moodiness, the tendency to be clingy and stubborn.  Rahu also might make the native feel insatiable causing the tendency to overeat or hoard material comforts.  Some remedies that can be helpful are yoga, meditation and visiting places that have bodies of water.  Being near the water may help to calm or soothe the mind.  Listening to meditative music and making sure one’s living quarters are clean, light in color or white can have a more calming effect as well. 

Moon and Ketu Conjunction- In a less evolved soul, this conjunction might feel like a native is a walking dichotomy.  The Moon is about pleasure and enjoyment of the material world, while Ketu is about renunciation of the material world to find self-realization or moksha.  This might manifest as issues with the mother or an ability to connect with the past and see into its issues.  This could be one’s past life, childhood, or several years ago.  You may exhibit or experience premonitions, foresight or other psychic abilities.  To fully harness these abilities, one must let go of emotional issues and deficits that may be due to neglect or abandonment in familial or personal relationships.  The unhappiness tends to make the energies more difficult to bear and could make the native turn to self-destructive behaviors to mask the pain through substances and addiction.  Meditation, mantras, journaling, affirmations and above all letting go of the past will help a soul transcend this energy to its maximum potential. 

Moon and Neptune Conjunction- This is a more sensitive, intuitive or witty mind.  This person can be a master magician, artist, writer, comedian or even one who loves Tarot, Astrology or psychic readings.  Perhaps there is a love of space, other worldly themes or subjects.  This person may need an enormous time alone to be with their own thoughts as they may absorb other people’s energy, feelings and thoughts very easily.  House placement is key to see which people.  This combination could also manifest into a escapist.  Perhaps this person escapes to numb themselves from societal pain or to just be alone and to enjoy the silence. 

Moon and Uranus Conjunction- This is another combination that could go in so many directions, probably more so than any other combination because Uranus is an unpredictable planet.  One thing about Uranus is it loves to stand up for the people and for the people’s rights or it is a planet that is very similar to its ruling sign Aquarius.  It just likes to go its own way, and it needs to be on its own path to figure it out.  This could range from creating a revolution against an establishment or simply a native that does their own thing.  This is obviously very opposite of the homely Moon energy.  People with this position might experience cognitive dissonance or extreme dichotomies in relationships as the desire to stay and make it work may be hampered with the desire for change and to see what else is out there in terms of experiences, partners, knowledge or sights.  It does not necessarily mean that one cannot be in a committed relationship.  It might require a more understanding partner and someone who provides the native with a lot of space.  Relationships may be unorthodox due to the native’s needs.  It could be that the native experiences this with their mother and the mother leaves or at some point is far from them, or it could mean that the mother stays around, but has an unconventional way of raising the native that is different from what is around the person growing up.   The person having this conjunction definitely has a different way of thinking about life than the people that surround them.  Sign and house placement will give a better idea. 

Moon and Pluto Conjunction- This combination creates a mind that is destined to experience constant transformation.  It could mean that the native’s mother is said to constantly go through this as well.  This could also create many power struggles in relationships.  Either the native is constantly taken advantage of or is constantly dominating or overpowering others.  People with this combination might have a lot of pain from traumatic childhoods with narcissistic caregivers that were manipulative, controlling or both.  There is a need to develop a lot of self-awareness so that the native can begin to understand where they end and where others begin.  Journaling and hypnotherapy can be helpful, but some natives with this placement may find a tendency to attract the wrong therapists, healers or life coaches.  This can create a very psychic and powerful mind, similar to the Ketu and Moon conjunction, but an ability to face one’s own inner demons while figuring out the external ones can be quite the challenge.  Transcendence and letting go might be the only peace this native can ever truly get from the psychological and emotional battles that this conjunction might give. 

Moon and Chiron Conjunction- This combination can create a very traumatic or awkward relationship with the mother.  You may love her, but there is a way that she can wound you based on what she says or does that no one else can.  This also may bring a void or wound from the mother’s family, childhood or the people who raised the native.  This can be a very sensitive, caring mind that desires to help others and animals almost to the point of smothering at times.  This person may find it difficult to share their feelings or emotions with others due to fear of rejection or lack of understanding.  This might be due to a feeling of needing to be perfect or a certain way growing up or perhaps the native felt the need to suppress their emotions as a child.  Chiron is a very subtle energy. For a soul that is less aware, it may take an extreme situation to be made aware of this void or wound that the individual is carrying. Some Astrologers insist that this is essentially how Chiron’s wound manifests. And due to its sensitive nature, it is not something we can shake easily, so trying to evolve quickly might not be realistic. The pain that we experience may end up being what we need to feel in order to understand the medicine that helps us to heal slowly. However, it’s what we feel during the pain, that could be a part of what the Universe will need to extract from us that helps us fulfill our karmas and destiny.

Namaste…

[paradoxicalrising]

Astrology Observations :)

preface: this is my first time doing this, these are all either my personal placements or I've had multiple experiences with a certain placement. none of this is absolute, pretty pls take it with a grain of salt, these are very general. Every single one of these placements depend on aspects in an individuals chart. WARNING: some 18+ topics. Enjoy :)

Mercury in the 8th house: naturally good at reading people, interested in psychology, religion, spirituality, astrology. chronic over thinkers + intrusive thoughts galore. could either really enjoy giving/ receiving head and/or dirty talk, reading smut.

Pisces Mars: sweethearts on the surface, usually soft-spoken or doesn’t talk much, spends more time observing or making up scenarios. also another overthinking placement. could also be someone who does drugs/ drinks alcohol. excels in the entertainment industries (film, theatre, music, art etc). either have a piss kink, foot fetish, or demisexual. 

Scorpio Venus: intense lovers. my ex had this placement and told me he’d die for me only knowing me 3 months. my sister also has this placement and will not eat dinner without her husband (could be the taurus opposition = not eating (taurus) until lover (Venus) is around), I think it’s a symbol of loyalty. once this placement finds value in someone, they are ride or die type loyal until you betray them. may stay in relationships longer than they should because it’s fixed emotion unless they finally see it themselves.

Cancer Moon (men specifically): I've had 3 cancer moon men take me to the beach on our first date. they’re always gassing themselves up on their cooking skills. their moms can be really restricting, especially those with Saturn in cancer as well. I've also seen their moms be really detached, cold, basically telling them to fend for themselves. highly intuitive but may get too caught up in the potential of a situation/ person and being disappointed when reality is different. hopeless romantics fr just throwing themselves into anyone they have a good feeling about without the physical proof.

Fixed Rising: the RBF (I love y’all). 

Vedic v. Tropical Astrology: honestly I think they’re both valid, and everyone should decide what placements resonate more with who they feel they are. Ex: I  have Venus, Jupiter, and my Sun in the 7th in Virgo (Tropical) but they’re in the 8th in Leo (Vedic). I feel more of the 8th house but in Virgo.

Pisces moons: I never feel like they’re listening to me if they aren’t looking at me because when they’re looking at me I can literally see them digesting the info w/ their dreamy eyes, but when they look away I just know they’re imagining some kind of fantasy that has nothing to do with the convo. 

Libra Moons: try to be soft and sweet but they have that fiery underside. I've noticed they’ll get all excited and sometimes aggressive and then apologize for it, like no girl look at you having a good time. they usually look aesthetically pleasing, you will never catch them not matching/ lookin raggedy in public, but they won’t judge others for it, Virgo and Taurus will haha.

Virgo + Libra: specifically rising + degrees, moon, or Venus combo usually have clear, healthy looking skin, especially after high school w/o all the teen acne hormones. 

Moon Conjunct Pluto: anyone else noticed the effect these placements have on their peers? it’s so weird but people are like magnetized to whatever house this placement is in. I guess cos it’s generational and yk it’s Pluto, but people around this placement can’t help but be enticed by these individuals. could be amazing actors if they can harness those dark emotions into a piece of work. these are the type of people to succeed out of spite of their trauma; very determined people. they can put such dark emotions into easy actions and words that others find hard to say out loud but they don’t shy away from dark stuff, they’ve dealt with darker topics since they were young.

Neptune in the 1st house: people constantly projecting onto these placements ! it’s important these people form a ground sense of self they can remind themselves of when they feel like someone is protecting on them. I have this placement and someone told me I was intoxicating to be around/ they felt intoxicated around me though they are sober. I fr think people get drunk off the illusion of this placement. These people are never what people say they are, if you want to get to know them I beg of you to please talk to them yourself instead of listening to others opinion of them. the women are cursed with the manic pixie dream girl trope. hella sex appeal bc of the blurred perceptions. make amazing actors/ musicians. very intuitive placement, but can doubt themselves.

[bitesize-astrology]

Emotionally Done

Thursday - November 7, 2024

I have one area in my life where I have let certain individuals run emotional "roughshod" over me (roughshod - when someone does what they want without giving any attention to other people or what they want or need). Face it, we all have. But then one day you realize that can't continue and you decide to say NO MORE.

Today you not only say NO MORE, but decide to YES, MORE PLEASE to those things that bring you emotional happiness, satisfaction and wellness.

Today the Moon will conjunct Pluto in Capricorn at 29° at 5:37pm ET. This is the LAST Moon/Pluto conjunction in Capricorn for 245 years. (And my apologies, I incorrectly said the same thing on October 11th, but I double-checked this time!!!) So there is an emotional habit or tone that comes to an end today IF YOU CHOOSE TO END IT.

It could be you have an emotional reliance on someone or something, and that needs to end. It could be the way you emotional react in certain situations, and a measured response is more in order. Or it could be that you are damn tired of feeling a certain way, and today say NO MORE.

But I encourage you not to focus on the NO MORE, because what you focus upon expands. Instead use the energy of Jupiter retrograding to 19° Gemini and focus on what you are saying YES, MORE PLEASE to. Focus on the YES to feeling emotionally more complete. YES to feeling more emotionally in charge and aware of your feelings. And YES to emotional fulfillment.

Use today's energy to build and fortify, climb and conquer. And to control your own emotional landscape.

[mercurianchild]

A lot of people romanticise Pluto stuff, until they experience Pluto stuff

[paradoxical-plutonian]

"Weeping Willow", July 4, 2023

[myun-saidthoughts]

🧷 ✧ ˚. ᵎᵎ 🎀 8th + 12th House Synastry Astrology Observations:

I have known this boy since summer of 2021 and our dynamic to this day is still weird and unique. So I want to state specific scenarios that have occurred between us.

(I'll update with more observations as time goes on)

His Moon and Venus are in my 8th house, these planets make many tight aspects to my inner planets and those planets also aspect my 5th and 7th house ruler.

My Moon is in his 12th house and it also tightly squares his Neptune, my Moon also aspects his Lilith, 5th and 8th house ruler.

🌸 Staring at one another is very likely. The more avoidant you are the more uncomfortable you may feel with how reactive/how easy it is to care.

🌸 When things are romantic or there's been consistent flirting (without commitment) you two might share this unsaid loyalty to one another. At outings or parties you may make sure to not speak to other people while they are in the room.

Ex: Once at a party a girl was hugging him, the second I made eye contact with him he pushes the girl away, runs in the opposite direction, then comes up to me 5 minutes later to ask me a random question.

Ex. Once he was dating a girl and as I walked up near them (they were dancing), he pushes her away and waves at me and he's done this in other occasions.

Ex. When things were good with us (meaning zero commitment but felt good because of cute conversation) I made sure to not give other boys attention when he is in the room; it felt like a innate reaction within me to do that?

🌸 When we don't appease one another through the above examples the relationship feels more intense or more emotionally charged. It's like us being severely independent and careless with one another increases the tension and somehow creates more awkwardness. For me it feels like i'm fighting my own deep wishes; my heart vs my ego. (We have a Libra MC/Moon/Venus in our composite chart)

🌸 I don't even have his phone number and it feels like I am his ex.

🌸 I have never hung out with him one and one and we've never had sex yet it feels like we have had an intimate intense relationship.

Story: Throughout the years we would always run into each other and he was always more afraid of commitment, he has had two girlfriends but for some reason he's never pursued me on his own. Instead he stares and gets jealous when his friends talk to me.

🌸 Jealousy is very likely even if you're not a jealous person; if you're attracted to them you will get jealous over them/if their attention is towards another.

🌸 Once at a party I walk up to him to say hi but I had to leave the second I got there and as I hugged him he blurted "You're leaving?!" Just by my hug he knew I was upset to go without me saying anything.

🌸 Once at a different outing he was talking to another girl and I kept staring. As I saw them talk I then abruptly (and in a sad manner) walked away and he unknowingly shouted "Wait!"

🌸 What he feels; I feel. When there's an emotional disconnect I can feel the energy shift.

🌸 Staring is so likely. I can't help it. I just have to look at him. Gun to my head my eyes are locked in.

🌸 There's intense expectations that you hold for one another. You expect a certain energy, action, reaction or behavior from them; when it's not met you will feel a low.

🌸 When you are with them and the expectations are met, the high they can give you feels like a drug. I was once high for three days off a cute interaction we had.

🌸 I always wished he would just pull me in and kiss me, I once verbally told this to my sister; I said "I want him to want me so bad that he just grabs me, pulls me in and kisses me." Weeks later, while he was drunk he word for word restated that exact same sentence to me while holding my face. (He said "the second I saw you all I wanted to do is grab you, pull you in and kiss you, can i kiss you?)

🌸 I sometimes can't tell which my feelings are mine vs his. Its cloudy and I ask myself if what I feel is what he feels all the time.

🌸 You'll feel their thoughts and then talk yourself out of knowing "their mind," you'll brush it off and say how illogical it is to "know" what they are feeling.

🌸 The relationship is a constant tennis match of caring to letting go, sometimes you're so certain with moving on and then something, anything can pull you back in.

🌸 I have posted on my social media certain songs, playlists, quotes that were covert messages for him.

🌸 I carefully curate my snapchat stories in hopes it'll make him think of me or want me.

🌸 Idealizing is very common. He places me on this impossible pedestal, and I have said out loud that he "is everything I could ever wish for" and I don't even know him!

🌸 If there's a miscommunication or mishap there will be this deep need to fix the dynamic between you two.

Once my sister yelled at him because he was avoiding conversation (as he does usually) and 2 weeks later he throws a party. I know it sounds insane that he would have a party just to fix the weird dynamic but when I arrived he and his roommate made eye contact and he looked at his roommate saying "Walk with me so I can say hi to them" and the roommate knew immediately and smirked at me while passing.

🌸 I pull open a soft spot in him, I can just tell when he looks at me. Especially when we were talking more.

🌸 It feels safe when I hug him, once he just laid his head on my shoulder and that behavior came so naturally from him.

🌸 When his ego isn't involved he is more open with his feelings.

🌸 Once I grabbed his hand and he looked into my eyes and leaned down to kiss me; it felt so effortless as if we've done this before (we haven't).

🌸 I am SO emotionally unavailable, I always worry about PDA but in this case I dont care who see's me, I openly and willingly showcase my desire and it's so easy to do so. I just don't feel sick or worried about others seeing me be romantic with him, with others I fear when people perceive me with a boy romantically.

🌸 Not saying hi or not talking to him feels so much worse than if I went out of my way to say hi.

🌸 I always worry about making him feel pressured to say hi, I want him to feel ease with me and not worry or be burdened; he feels the same way towards me. (He's told me he doesn't want to pressure me to say hi)

🌸 In recent events and due to zero contact or communication I overly acted nonchalant and I acted like I didn't care but still that is the furthest of how I truly feel. Outwardly I avoided eye contact to make him feel more comfortable or less burdened but it eats at me. I act like I don't want him (to make the connection seem less intense) but I deeply do. He acted the same way towards me and mirrored my behavior.

🌸 I feel like I have to act carefree even when i'm not receiving his attention to make the connection feel less intense; but my body and facial reactions say otherwise no matter how hard I try.

🌸 One night at a party I impulsively went up to him and kissed him without words. He then looked at me, pulled me in and kissed me again. (Again with no words being said to either of us)

🌸 So many unsaid thoughts, feelings and desires. Never once have we ever verbalized our feelings for one another or about our connection and I have known him for 3 years.

🌸 Other people can see and feel the tension between us two.

🌸 I dream of him almost every single night (I am the planet person in the 12th house synastry).

🌸 My dreams showcase his soft and loving manner even when if in "reality" his actions are cold and dismissive. I receive such soft attention in my dreams and I don't understand why; it doesn't mirror his behavior in my waking life therefore I can't understand if it's my deep wishes or his subconscious wishes.

🌸 I had dream of him telling me "You make me feel more than any other girl I've met" and even in my dream I was confused by that statement.

🌸 The second I don't say hi or vice versa tension rises and it becomes more awkward in some manner. It's like not acknowledging one another causes this weird tense dynamic.

🌸 His ex hated me because she knew how he has liked me first. I found out she still viewed me as a threat to their relationship even when I didn't speak to him for 9 months?

🌸 Once he was blatantly drunk and after not seeing him for almost a year he still confessed how attracted he is towards me. He newly broke up with his ex (who hated me) and weeks after he confessed his attraction.

🌸 I have never dated him, and he gets more jealous with me than anyone else he's romantically officially been with. When his friends talk to me he feels threatened, angry and acts annoyed.

🌸 Once his friend was drunk and was non-stop talking to me saying how cute I was, 2 minutes later he runs up, grabs him by the neck and tells him to stop. The friend then avoided me after.

Story: Since he was jealous (and since we're not dating) he tried acting like he didn't care about that occurrence so you know what he does? I stare at him, he stares at me, then walks my way, stops, and turns at the girl next to me to start a conversation. Right. In. Front. Of. ME. Then I walk up to him after and he AVOIDS me. He hates that he gets jealous so to counteract that feeling he acts overly dismissive to "decrease" the emotional charge with us. It doesn't work.

🌸 We mirror each other's behaviors constantly.

🌸 He views me as this "perfect" person but that stops him from ever choosing me because he feels that he can't live up to the partner I deserve. (How do I know this? I just do)

🌸 The second and I mean very second there's a emotional block between you two the deep seated desire for them becomes less intense.

Ex: If you also share 12th house synastry with them, parts of their actions will feel like subtle hints that are meant for you. In essence, you want to believe that you are more important to them than others and you feel like you are. But once something comes to light or if you were shown that what you thought to be wasn't the case; this realization creates emotional distance and the desire for them (in that moment) shrinks. It feels as if the importance that you thought your presence gave them suddenly means nothing, and that feeling creates a instant "I'm never speaking to them again mentality"

🌸 With 8th and 12th house synastry, there’s a part of you that feels you’ll never compare to anyone else they encounter. Even if you two never dated, there’s a deep sense that the way they feel when they’re with you is unmatched and it's something you intuitively will feel. It's likely that there will be no set actions or verbal affirmations to confirm this knowing.

🌸 The emotional charge you feel when they are in the room with you can be so intense others around you can feel the unspoken desires you two share.

🌸 The intensity of this connection swings between unspoken loyalty and complete avoidance—one extreme driven by the fear of showing disinterest, and the other by the fear of being a burden. If you’re not preoccupied with displaying your loyalty to them in a room full of people, you find yourself avoiding eye contact or minimizing conversation to maintain a facade of “normalcy”—a normalcy that doesn’t truly exist in this connection.

🌸 I’ve noticed that I tend to trigger his jealous tendencies. A few weeks ago, I was at a bar, and at that point, we hadn’t even said hello to each other. I happened to be standing next to a random guy (it was a small table), and he immediately asked his friend who the guy next to me was. The friend, who we both know, turned around, looked at me, and then answered his question.

Another time, we were at a party, and again, we hadn’t really spoken at all. He looked over at a random guy and said something, to which the guy responded, “Ohhh, this girl?” while pointing at me. He just froze and didn’t turn back. It’s like he talks about me to everyone else—just not to me.

🌸 If you are very physically attracted to them, the want or desire for them can arise VERY quickly. You could verbally say "I'm over them" but the second they look visually attractive or if their actions cause emotional closeness, the want for them will reappear again.

🌸 I saw him last night and he was with another girl, when he is drunk he becomes more accustomed to not showing attention to other girls when I'm around. We made eye contact and he backed away from her but it was like he doesn't even realize or understand why he does these things? We've never dated and we haven't talked at allll in basically months. I miss him a lot and wish I had the chance or courage to talk to him more. I can't even remember if I said hi. :(

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Hi. Are you able to talk about moon conjunct Pluto mother? Recently had my first born and not sure if I like this placement as his mother? It’s in his 8th house, whole sign and 7th house placidus . I have sun and venus 5th Pisces placidus. Thank you

first of all, congratulations on your baby! i'm not a mother yet, so please take my advice with a grain of salt.

moon conjunct pluto is not a placement to fear. in fact, it's a very powerful placement and a lot of people with this placement fear that very same power. this fear can come from repressed emotions that have no outlet to erupt, family trauma that led you to feel unsafe, experiencing abuse (which is a common theme with pluto-influenced people), etc etc. it requires you to really learn how to validate yourself, embrace your darkness, and do what it takes to protect you and your child(ren). you are the dark mother.

with your 5th house placements and that 8h synastry, i would be mindful of putting your identity in motherhood. you are still a person, a woman at the end of the day and you were not destined to live for anyone before yourself. don't abandon yourself for your baby. if you want to be able to be the best version of yourself for your baby, then make sure that you are pouring into (your name), the person so that you can be (your name), the mother.

hope this helps!!! x

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Solar Return Observations 6

Accuracy is influenced by ENTIRE chart

SR DSC in 8th H - transformation in your relationships. Depending on how 7th h and 7th h ruler are placed/aspected, this will determine whether it is positive or negative.

SR 7th H Ruler conjunct SR Pluto - another indicator of transformation in relationships. If well placed in 7th H, this can show marriage/engagement. If negatively placed in 6th or 8th, this can show a breakup. However, this depends on the ENTIRE chart.

DIVORCE STORY in SR:

SR South Node conjunct SR 7th H Ruler - this is one indicator for a breakup in a romantic, platonic or business relationship. My sister had this the year she began to have serious issues in her marriage. This conjunction occurred with SR 7th H Ruler in 6th H - this house can show a person’s struggles/burdens.

SR 7th H Ruler conjunct Pluto - The year after my sister began having issues in her marriage, my sister had this in SR. This was the year they finalized the divorce. For serious events like this there are always more than one indicator.

The year of her divorce she had SR Jupiter & South anode in 8th H. 8th H deals with resources that aren’t yours and court matters. To divorce she went to court, she gained some assets (Jupiter expands) but she also lost a lot. It was also a permanent detachment from her partner’s resources (South node brings decrease/detachment).

SR North Node was in 2nd H. This often indicates gaining resources - buying things, finding new income, being helped out, etc. However she has Saturn in her natal 2nd H. Saturn brings restriction/limits so this can influence the fact that she didn’t gain an excessive amount. North Node can be obsessive wherever it is placed.

She had SR Mercury conjunct Mercury in 7th H. When planets in the 7th H or 7th H ruler return to their home, there is usually some major event being triggered. In her case, it brought the end of her marriage.

SR Venus conjunct SR Uranus in 6th H - uranus conjunct venus can bring sudden and shocking changes to venus related things - love, money, etc. She was aware they were having troubles, she was not expecting him to ever ask for a divorce. This is because he had always said he was against it. This was in 6th H, this further indicates the change is likely to be negative.

This conjunction squared SR MARS, mars represents cutting/separating among other things. 6th H also deals with pets. They owned 2 dogs together, she had to give one up in the divorce.

If you have similar placements don’t worry because your ENTIRE chart will be different. This influences how placements manifest.

SR MC conjunct Saturn - this can indicate you might need to develop thick skin when it comes to your public reputation. ex: if opposite mercury, you may be aware of people gossiping about you.

SR Mars conjunct Venus - It shows passion - this can come out in a good way or negative way. There may be conflict within a current romantic connection. The person ik w/ this broke up w/ their boyfriend that year. However, for big life changes there are always multiple indicators so don’t worry if you’re in a relationship. Another manifestation of this is you may make careless/impulsive purchases.

6th H stellium (SR Venus, Mars, Uranus, Sun, Mercury) This year this person experienced a lot of health issues. They struggled mentally and physically. This person gave birth 2 years prior to this year. The interesting thing is her child has Moon conjunct Ketu in natal. In vedic this conjunction indicates the mother will experience minor or serious health problems after the person’s birth/in their childhood.

NEW RELATIONSHIP STORY in SR:

In natal they have a cancer 7th H w/ mercury and south node. In SR, they had SR Venus conjunct Mercury in 7th H AND SR South Node conjunct South Node in 7th H. This emphasizes something signifiant would happen. However, 7th H Ruler (Moon for this person) was in 8th H. The 8th H connection and South Node in 7th indicates this is a karmic and past life connection. They met someone who they dated seriously for years. BUT this person turned out to be a very toxic and narcissistic person. This person has said this felt like a past life connection.

If you have similar placements don’t worry because your ENTIRE chart will be different. This influences how placements manifest.

❤️‍🔥 When you do have many relationship indicators, you can find traits of the partner based on where natal & SR 7th H Ruler is placed.

For ex: Aries 7th H contains SR VENUS & SR NORTH NODE. SR DSC conjunct Venus. This could show a relationship coming into your life. To find out what the partner will be like check where SR Mars is as it’s the 7th H Aries Ruler.

If sr mars is in 11th H leo - the person will be like a best friend. they may be very social. they may have many friends.

If sr mars conjuncts Jupiter or Venus - this person will be a serious relationship. they may be the person you marry. you would need to check so many other charts and dasha periods to be sure of this. All this is very general information.

if sr mars conjunct asc - this person could be controlling. they may be a bit aggressive if the chart is negative. they may encourage you to take on aries traits - be bold, stand up for yourself, independent, etc.