#monstersandmen

[john-macnamara]

u/monstersandmen

AITA for kicking my boyfriend out?

I (44m) have known my now ex-boyfriend (49 m) for the majority of my life. Unfortunately, we hit a snag when we were in our twenties, and for another nineteen years, we were constantly fighting and at most times it felt like we were in wholly different worlds. It wasn't his fault, as he was placed under the thumb of a boss who wouldn't allow him to do anything otherwise. As of January, however, we confessed our feelings during a moment of relative peace, and it wasn't long after until his boss backed off.

Due to our particular situation and the fact that his living space was paid for by his boss, he moved in with me. We have been getting used to living together, not without it's struggles. I've refused to share things I likely should have to not worry him, he's accused me of cheating with a mutual friend, we both caused problems. But I tend to give him a pass because his previous work left him severely traumatized.

And therein lies the problem. Due to the nature of how his work with his old boss began, we still are both hung up over the incident that led to it. As time has gone on, it's felt more and more like he doesn't love me for who I am right now, just the person I was when we were last separated. I had been thinking about it for a while and was considering speaking about it. And then news got out that someone had hurt me in his time away, and despite my multiple requests for him not to do anything about it, he hurt my assailant quite badly.

I was incredibly upset by this, and we ended up getting into a fight. I was angry and I said something I didn't mean. I deeply regret what I said, but I more deeply regret what happened after. I kicked him out. He had lied to me multiple times when we were fighting and had done nothing but prove he didn't even know why I was so upset.

So, am I the asshole? And if I am, how should I fix things?

[nityarawal]

"Your Bones," @monstersandmen

https://youtu.be/wXUloVYbchg?si=wpmiyoyFvfWDtdbf

#SongOfTheDay1 #SOTD1 #YourBones #MonstersAndMen

[twotrey23]

#MonstersAndMen @monstersandmenfilm #director / #writer #ReinaldoMarcusGreen @iamreigreen at the #film 's special screening tonight. #filmmaker #filmmaking #directors #screenwriter #screenwriting #filmmakers #cinema #movies #movie🎬 #films #indie #independent #JohnDavidWashington @johndavidwashington #AnthonyRamos @anthonyramosofficial #KelvinHarrisonJr @kelvharrjr #NicoleBeharie @nikkibeharie (at AMC Dine-In Sunset 5) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bn-boDxhCIn/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1t9ifu49lrlmv

[kwekukweku00]

#monstersandmen (at London, United Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/CK-JDA1DFtw/?igshid=18do8wvogbyc0

[ben-solo98]

“Monsters and Men” (2018). This movie is, unfortunately, extremely close to what’s happening in real life at this very moment. I wrote a similar sentiment in a review about “Do the Right Thing” just over a month ago, I wasn’t expecting things to get even worse. While I usually like to watch escapist films, especially lately, this one has been on my watchlist for a while and I thought it might be somewhat cathartic and/or enlightening given the current climate we’re living in. Although I don’t believe this was based on a true story, it definitely feels like it could be. It’s very authentic to what we see on the news and social media regularly. All of the performances are great, especially John David Washington, who is starting to become one of my favorite actors. This movie is basically told in three chapters, each chapter is about a different character and they loosely connect. I found the section in the middle the most interesting and would have watched an entire film about that, but I also think it’s important to show different perspectives when telling stories like this. I appreciate it just for being different as well. I do think the film could have gone a little more in depth, it’s just a brief glimpse into the life of three different people, but it’s still effective. 8.3/10. #QuarantineReviews #MonstersAndMen https://www.instagram.com/p/CA4d9BWgmKq/?igshid=192gpl4raqmbg

[kmrice]

Missy Bean the majestic (Monsters and Men in the background). #kmrice #kmriceauthor #wildlings #mischief #missybean #missy #australianshepherd #aussie #tri #puppy #mybaby #epic #monstersandmen #doginthecar #independentauthor #indieauthor

[generallygothic]

The final 🥀Southern Spell🥀 blog post is up: 'True Detective' Season 1 Analysis, Part 2: 'The Eternality of the Gothic'. 🔗: Link in bio. As Rust says "like a lot of dreams, there's a monster at the end of it," which brings us neatly onto the month 🧟‍♂️Of Monsters and Men🧟‍♂️, which will take place for the duration of August. 📸: 'True Detective' still, HBO. . #generallygothic #gothic #southernspell #southerngothic #truedetective #hbo #truedetectiveseason1 #ofmonstersandmen #monstersandmen #monsters #blogger #academic #litnerd #filmtheory #tv #newblogpost #newcontent #wordpress #bookworm #bookstagram #gothicliterature #gothicfiction #englishliterature https://www.instagram.com/p/B0o0fgeA90a/?igshid=1hkspj9141498

[tomorrowedblog]

Monsters and Men premieres today

Monsters and Men, the new movie from Reinaldo Marcus Green, is out today.

When young father Manny witnesses the police shooting of an unarmed black man, the tight-knit community of Bed-Stuy is pushed to the brink in Reinaldo Marcus Green’s Sundance Award-winning portrait of race, family and consequence.

[radiolewes]

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[ofmonstersandmenperu-blog]

"We wanted to make something that felt strong and energetic and thick, and that was the main drive behind that track," shares @monstersandmen on their single "Alligator."

Via 'pandoramusic' on Twitter

[kamkaml-blog]

#monstersandmen https://www.instagram.com/p/BvftOZrlBe1/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=j2rdoourqlu9

[thecurvycritic]

@monstersandmenfilm goes NATIONWIDE on 10/5. Wanna see more of this interview with @anthonyramosofficial @johndavidwashington ? Pop over to 👉🏽 https://youtu.be/PXgJW3c2f14 #thecurvycritic #monstersandmen #neon #johndavidwashington #anthonyramos https://www.instagram.com/p/BofDHnGl8Mw/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1vkmoex1e1avs

[iamlegandz]

Everyone make sure you race to the theaters today to see @monstersandmenfilm!! This film touches on an important topic that we should all be talking about. @iamreigreen thank you for creating such an amazing body of work, and being the fearless innovator that you are. Shoutout to my brothers @kelvharrjr and @shadowflack for their outstanding performances!! #monstersandmen (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/BoR0w1jHrAR/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=10ptdtjyaahc7

[2coolgq]

#MonstersAndMen https://www.instagram.com/p/BmrJ7nYBYfP/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=13jueg1okwct6

[lboogiepopworld]

#Repost @blackfilm_com • • • The 2018 #torontofilmfestival will be lit with so much Black talent. Going there are Barry Jenkins #ifbealestreetcouldtalk George Tillman Jr #thehateugive, Steve McQueen's #widows with #violadavis, Amma Asante's #wherehandstouch, Stella Meghie's #TheWeekend with #sasheerzamata and #dewandawise and Reinaldo Marcus Green's #monstersandmen. Cast names of these films and more in @blackfilm_com link. (at TIFF)

[mannyharlem]

Always great to see the super talented #AnthonyRamos @anthonyramosofficial Original cast @hamiltonmusical #WillAndGrace Now in #MonstersAndMen premiering at #Sundance @staymacro lodge #ParkCity (at Downstairs)